Nadim Bashir – Ibrahim AS- A Role Model for the Entire Family

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The importance of following a rule of thumb for actions is discussed, including following a rule of thumb for actions and following a "med strict" approach to deeds. The speaker emphasizes the need for young people to learn from the "med strict" approach and use it to influence their deeds. The importance of protecting children from shaming and community activities for children is also emphasized, particularly during the pandemic. The speaker encourages people to participate in a video series and to talk about the "the Hedgehog" in their families.
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nothing about Allah to Allah. Yeah, you're Latina? I'm an otaku haka Ducati. What are the Moto? Illa Antimo. Simone Wirkkala to Isla you had a lady in law Oh no. Conan said either you slept like Omarama Hola, como la come through back home. My new trailer how Rasulullah fucka differs 1000 All the muscle up Allahu dalim for in stock Allah How do you think Kitab Allah will holy how do you how do you Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam worship moody Martha to her work will be the work will be the art in Bala Wakulla blood infinity amoeba. I ask Allah subhana wa Tada. Just as he has gathered us here today on his day with Gemma. May Allah subhanho wa Taala gather us along with our

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families in gender for those who are either in the companionship of Rasulullah he said Allahu alayhi wa sallam in his Sahaba Amenia Robert Alameen

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran, Lakota kenaf. He also see him Abel rotonde oral el Bab, ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala could have just given us a shoddy and said you know what, go ahead and apply the shut Er, no and no ifs No buts. But Allah subhanho wa Taala had mercy upon us by providing a stories that will provide a constellation for us stories that will provide us advices stories that will be an example for us and not just stories that are just simple stories, but stories that have an algebra lessons that we can apply. One of the stories that we see in the Quran that is often repeated, and a personality or a person who has been mentioned in the Quran, but not only he has

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been mentioned in the Quran, but his entire family has been mentioned in the Quran. And not only are they mentioned in the Quran, but every single year, every single year at this time of the year, we revive the legacy of the entire family. And that is Ibraheem Alehissalaam for a moment. I want to all of you to think about this, if each one of us individually excelled in religion, if the father excelled in religion, and everyone was left behind. There are a lot of cases like that we see in our community. There are many cases where we see where the women Excel immensely in religion, and the husband and the children are left behind and

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There are some cases where the children Excel, and the parents are left behind. One thing that we find from the story of Ibrahim alayhis salam, which is why we revived her legacy every single year, which is why this story and this family was so beloved to Allah subhanho wa Taala is because the entire family came close to Allah subhanho wa taala. It was not only Ibrahim. It was not only Hydra, it was not only a smarty, but it was a collective family effort that came close to Allah subhanho wa taala. Until today we talk about the story where we wait we revive their legacy, And subhanAllah one thing that we find about the story is that there is a lesson in this story for every single person

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in the family. For the children, they can take a lesson from the dedication and the faith and the emaan and the resolution of smart data you sit down no matter even when his father came to him and said that oh my son and you have to understand how old was is married Are you salaam it's very naughty. Your son was probably three four years old as many people declare not Ibrahim Ali son was coming to him in some say he was even probably older than that, that he was able to understand and everything. But nonetheless, Ibrahim Ali is some comes to his son and says Yeah, but he says my data all this is what I see in my dream and the fun Verma data. What is your opinion about this? Now

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Ibrahim Ali you Sam could have just taken his son and just filled fulfilled the order of Allah subhanho wa taala. But he came to is married already you sit down. But for our children, you can learn from his MyData you sit on that What did he say to his father, he understands what he's about to undergo is going to be painful. But he understands that when it comes to enduring pain, and when it comes to fulfilling the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala fulfilling the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala is the priority. So he tells his father, yeah, but to find my tomorrow. And subhanAllah was beautiful about the Iman and the faith of Ismail Salaam is that he never said Yeah, but yeah, but he

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never said Oh, my father do because the word I mean a Yama Lu. And the word father Yeah, follow often gets translated as doing something. But the word Amina Yama, Lu implies to do something like when we say Iman, right? There's him and there's Armand Hammer is doing something is applying what you know, in action. But that means that you're doing something with your mind in place. You understand what you're doing? And you're Nia is there the word Fila Yeah, follow implies to do something without thinking twice. You know, people, they have a habit of saying something when they don't even realize what they're saying. And people will often tell them that you have a habit of

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saying this, that is called Follow your follow. There is a person often when some people that you know they keep their hands a certain way, they don't realize, but they keep your hands a certain way, for example, that's called Follow your follow. They don't put their mind into it. But is this how they are wired and this is how they do things. It's my son was telling his father didn't even think about this. Yeah, but he if I'll murder tomorrow, you do without thinking because you have a command from Allah subhanho wa taala. So for our children, you can learn from Ismail Salaam for our youth. You can learn from the teenage years of Ibrahim alayhis salam, everyone is involved in Masia

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everyone is engaged in Haram. Everyone is doing shit with ALLAH SubhanA wa taala. And you have this one person, one teenager. And why this is so beautiful, is because as it is when it comes to young people, they're always looking for a belonging, they always want to belong to a certain group of people, a certain click a certain, you know, a certain group of friends, they want to belong, they want to be appreciated, and more than that they want to be accepted. This is why Subhanallah if you study about America, and how, you know long time ago when kids were involved in like these, you know, these these other fascist groups and so forth and how kids went away, and how they would

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involve in these gangs and so forth. The key thing is that these youngsters will say that we were given a belonging, we were appreciated, and we were given this understanding that you are with us, you belong with us, when they felt that then they will always go to those groups no matter what those groups are deep

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Do the right thing or the wrong thing, because that is what our teenagers are looking for. They're looking for a belonging. They want to be appreciated. So Ibrahima, you sit down think about him for a moment. He doesn't have anyone else to talk to his own father is the one who's carving out idols. And no matter how many times he's talked to his father, he's not received what he's looking for from his father. His father is adamant that whatever I'm doing, I'm on the hook. I'm doing what I think is right. Ibrahim Ali is some diva in his heart, he knows that his father is wrong. He's trying to go and make a case for Allah subhanho wa Taala or of Allah subhanho wa Taala to everyone and no one

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has to no one is there listening to him. Then eventually a time came we know the story would happen. And there came a time that who did this? And he says all the Kabiru whom ohada First Allume in Caledonian *, he says as the bigger idol because he's the one who has X. He is the one who's broken all these idols, ask him first Alou whom in Kenya young people and ask him if they speak if they possess the ability to communicate. So basically what happened was that then they threw Ibrahim Ali in some in the fire. But I want all of our teenagers here to understand that in this story, there's a lesson for you to and that is that no matter what the circumstances in society are, no

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matter how many people are following the hook, or following the button, it becomes your responsibility to maintain your deen it becomes your responsibility to stand firm on your deen and SubhanAllah. We live in this time and age where our youth are being pulled in all different directions. Their minds are being manipulated, they're being they're being made to be confused about their Deen. There are people who are coming in creating doubts and desires Shiva hat and Shia Hawa in their lives, that now they're starting to doubt their deen and so forth. And subhanAllah you know, even right now, we live in this kind of time where right now we're going through this month,

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where they are celebrating a haram and immorality, and for so many sins for so many years. What did the left say all the time that we're going to accept everyone because we are very inclusive. Now the minute the Muslim community stands for what they truly believe in, that this movement is haram. We don't align with this ideology. And we will stand firm against this ideology. And that while there are some Muslims who say I'm gonna stay quiet, if you stay quiet, then you are part of them. As simple as that. You cannot stay quiet and assume that you have done your job. No, in this day and age you we have to be bold about what we believe in. If they can go and change their genders people

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can go and change who they are, the way they can change from who they are and the way Allah subhanaw taala created them, and they can be so bold about it. Why as we as Muslims are so afraid to speak their truth, if they have no fear and speaking their falsehood, and their total nonsense, then why as we as Muslims are so afraid to speak the truth. But today we have so many youth, because they have so many friends who belong to that group. I don't want to say anything, because I'm going to lose my friendship. And this is where you have to ask yourself a very simple question that for you what is more important, the commands of Allah subhanho wa Taala and sticking to your deen or your

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friendship with other people who are following this falsehood, who are indulged in this haram and this immorality, and shall never we should ever feel that this left is going to always give us that comfort? The left kept on saying we're going to accept you the way you are. Now when Muslims started standing up down there saying that no, we don't accept this. So Subhanallah I want our youth to take a lesson from this. Your time is now and when you stand up for your deen and when you speak the truth, that remember what the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says about seven people who will be under the shade of the Throne of Allah on the day of judgment. He says shabu Nasha a theory

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by that Allah, a young man or a young woman who grew up in the Rebbe of Allah subhanho wa taala. That doesn't only mean that you're praying Salah sloth is part of your deen. But that also means that you stand up for your deen and you declare what your deen is, and you stay firm on your deen. Just like Ibrahim Ali you some there's a fire in front of him. There's a fire burning in front of him. But he said no, I'm going to stick to my Deen. That is what the story of Ibrahim Ali some teaches to our teenagers that no matter what the situation

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Mission is no matter what people are saying in society, and though you may be the odd one out, you should always stick to your deen for our women. What can we learn from the story we brought him out to us so we can learn a lot from the story of hydrolase Salaam and sort of highlight this running between Safa and Marwa was so beloved to Allah subhanho wa Taala this hard work was so beloved to Allah, that till today our aamra is incomplete without saying between Safa and Marwa our hides is incomplete, without the sign between Safa and Marwa. And so every single time we go to suffer, we go to Marwa. And we run between we remind ourselves that you're talking about a woman who was in Mecca

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all by herself in a desert where there was no one else there. It was only her and her son, and SubhanAllah. She ran between these two mountains tool today, wherever we go, we revive this legacy of hers. And we remind ourselves of her faith and her dedication. And not only that, but we also learn We also learn that when she was trying to be deceived by shaytaan, she stood on the side of Huck, she stood up for a family and she protected her family. And today this is what is being asked also from our women, that you are the ones who are going to be providing the proper term or the the primary therapy for your children and is absolutely important that you have Deen in your life so

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that then you can teach Deen to your own children. And especially when it comes to all these different movements and all these different ideologies that are not aligned with Islamic values. We have to protect our children, and especially the mothers, I ask you to please always understand your role and your responsibility and use hydraulic Islam as an inspiration that the way she protects her family from shape on and his influence is it becomes your responsibility, along with the father's no doubt that to protect our children in this day and age. For the fathers.

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There's so much that you can learn from the story Ibrahim Ali salaam, first of all, is that you need to be a role model also for the entire family while the mother is providing the therapy to children, but the Father has to be the one who's who's who is the primary role model for the entire family. And subhanAllah think about this. When Ibrahim Ali Islam came, he left his family there. Hi Johnny Islam is saying that don't matter. Don't worry about us. If this is the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala then you go you fulfill the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala she said even lay you by Jana. Allah will not let our efforts go two ways, but not only that, but then Ibraheem Alehissalaam What

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did he do for his children? And he made sure that his children always lived on Dean Soudal Bacara high license while wasabia Ibrahim bunny he were yaku Yeah, Bunny yeah in Allah has tuffa la Medina Falletta Mutanda illa Anta Mosimane Ibrahim Ali Sam is talking to his kids. He's telling his smile in his heart and his heart is teaching his own son yaku and he are always teaching his own children that what do you do fall at the moon in Tomasi moon, that no matter what today we are here as parents or whether we are not here tomorrow, you will stay remain a you remain focus and remain steadfast on your deen. As parents as fathers, we have to keep on reminding our children, brothers

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and sisters, just giving your telling your child once is not sufficient. You have to keep on reminding them, sit down with them do their therapy, I teach them about religion. At the same time always tell them that no matter what Falletta Mutanda Illa, intimacy Moon The next thing that we learned from from the story of Abraham, I think it's time for fathers is that it is very important that when we do righteous things, when we engage ourselves in you know, various community activities and so forth. When we do good things when we're working with other organizations and so forth. We always involve our children always involve your family. When Ibrahim Ali Hassan was building the

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Kaaba, he not do it by himself, he did it with the support of his entire family. So next time when we're doing something for religion for religious purposes, or if I'm doing something good outside humanitarian work, community work, or if I'm going somewhere to attend a conference, an Islamic conference, I know that my wife my kids can learn they can benefit than make this as a family activity. Take the entire family, push the entire family forward along with yourself. So in all this, we can see that there is a lesson for children. There is a lesson for our youth. There's a lesson in this for our mothers, and there's a lesson in this for our fathers. I asked Allah subhanho

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wa Taala to give us the trophy to benefit from the legacy of Ibrahim Ali his son and his family. I mean BarakAllahu Anna, welcome

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people on our team want to find out what a commonality what they could Hakeem stuff Allah How do you welcome what is a Muslim in a festival Fado in a hula photo hain?

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Missoula hermano Haman Alhamdulillah who want to start you know when I started when I always been learning when surely unforeseen I'm gonna say yeah to Marina Mejia Hillel from Moodle Allahumma. Noodle fella had yella wants to Allah, Allahu la sharika wants to know Muhammad Abdul rasuluh about

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inshallah next week probably on Monday or Tuesday, the last month of the Islamic lunar calendar will begin the month of the Hijjah Inshallah, and there's a lot that I can mention, but because of time I don't have too much time right on my hands. I just want to say a few things. First of all, is that what we have learned from the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Salam is that there is no there is no days in which the Armada salejaw are dear to Allah subhana wa Taala than the ones that are performed in these 10 days. So while these 10 days began, it is very important for all of us that we excel in our Quran or citation, excel in our iba that excel in our car in sha Allah. The

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next thing that's very important to also remember is that these days are so beloved to Allah subhana wa Tada Allah He swore upon these days, Allah when he swears upon something, it is so the UI we give attention to those things. Allah subhanho wa Taala says well Fajr wala Uriel in Asha was suffering with water when Layli either yes or when ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala says well again in the ASHA, many Allah ma while there are some orlimar who say that this is in reference to the last 10 nights of Ramadan majority of the orlimar they say that this is in reference to the 10 days of the Hijjah. So that is why it is very important that as we approach these 10 days of the Hijjah we are we are

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mentally prepared. And not only that, but we're talking to our family. Why do you think today I talked about Ibrahim Ali Islam is because it is the month of the hijab where we revive the legacy of Ibrahim Ali Hassan whether those who are going for hydrogen we ask Allah that all those who are going for Hajj, who already have gone for Hajj, may Allah accept their hydro Inshallah, and may Allah subhanho wa Taala return them to their families. But for even those who are not going for hydro, we can revive the legacy of Ibraheem Alehissalaam here to for those who are not going for hydrogen you're intending to do all the burning, you're attending to do all the here anywhere around

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the world, the province that Allahu alayhi wa sallam said that these kinds of people should refrain from cutting their nails and cutting their hair during these 10 days. Meaning that till you're older here has not been complete, you stay away from cutting your nails and cutting your hair. On YouTube I've I've explained there's a 1010 video series, I've explained all the fit of all the area in Kobani Inshallah, you can go back to that. But the point is that if one person is doing it for the entire family, and you're doing only one shear than the husband, often the husband is the one who's paying for it, then that case, the husband will refrain from cutting their hair and cutting their

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nails, and the restriction does not apply to everyone else. If there's a shear being done on behalf of every single person in the family, then every single person should refrain from cutting their hair and cutting their nails at the same time. The Prophet saw some says in the Hadith, volume six that they should refrain from, which means that if there is someone who is intending to do Kobani, or adhere and they do cut their hair or they do cut their nails, then there is no Cafaro there is no penalty. Of course, you should try to go and try and do all the hair. Try to Kobani and Shala. There is a great reward in this and once again, this is reviving the legacy of Ibrahim alayhis salam. And

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finally this month, this this month in itself, the month of the hijab is the month where we find the most auspicious day, perhaps one probably the most auspicious day of the entire year, which is the Day of Arafah the day where our deen was complete. And this is the day where we are reminded of Allah subhanho wa Taala has favor upon us. And when you fast on this day in sha Allah, the not one years of sins are forgiven, but two years of sins are forgiven for anyone who fast on this day. So let's try to revive this legacy. Or this this reminder in our families. Often when Ramadan is coming. We talk a lot about Ramadan in our families, we start putting decorations and so forth in

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our families and so forth, which is nothing wrong with it. But at the same time while the month of the AJ is also just around the corner, we need to begin talking about the hedgehog within our families is summer the kids can sleep a little later, sit down with your kids talk about who Ibrahima your son was talking about the story you brought him out to your son, go through the virtues of the Hedgehog, what is the hedgehog mean and so forth. So inshallah go through this with your family. I ask Allah subhana wa Taala to accept from all of us in these 10 days of the hijab. May Allah subhanho wa Taala give us a trophy to excel in these 10 days I mean noble Allah mean oh

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the karoun first Clooney as Qualcomm was truly rattled thrown up in the Salah.

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there's a immense amount of space in the main hall brothers in the back two rooms please come to the main hall first.

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So a lot of space inside the main hall

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Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar. Inshallah Allah Allah Allah Illa shadow and mega rasool Allah. Hi el sol halen. Fela Gotbaum is solid Quran is Salah, Allah Akbar Allah Akbar la ilaha illa Allah

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