Nadim Bashir – Hadith of the Day #18 – How to Overcome Fatigue

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The pandemic has caused fatigue and the difficulty of working and school activities, leading to issues with slave members and affordable housing for those who cannot work due to their health. The speakers emphasize the importance of finding ways to make one's life easier, including finding a way to avoid hot and cold swelling. The pandemic has led to struggles with fatigue and the need for a balance between work and personal life, particularly during home time. The speakers also suggest the use of dams and dryers to alleviate the problem and suggest finding a way to prevent hot and cold swelling.
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said Omar alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Welcome to another segment of Hadith of the day, where we take a quote of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and understand it in our current context. One of the more the biggest issues that today we find, especially during this pandemic, and all of us at home mothers, fathers, children being at home, is the constant complaint of fatigue. Everyone is complaining about the same thing that you know, we get so tired at home, you know, looking after everyone, especially the kids being at home. And not only that, but the fact that you know, there's so many things to take care of at home, the fact that the kids are at home and even they're doing

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schooling from home, you know, there's still causes a lot of work at home looking after everyone. So the question is that how do we overcome fatigue, so there is a Hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was something I would like to share with all of you today. Now, before I go into the Hadith, I do want to explain that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he simply just mentioned the Hadith. However, the your Lemma and the scholars have explained this hadith in their own way, that this hadith could also mean that this dua, or this remedy that the province or something is giving can help overcome fatigue. Let's go to the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam This is a

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Hadith found it Buhari had the Denali Yun is mentioned and narrated by the ultra ion and the faulty Mata Allah His Salah Atherton BE YOURSELF Allahu alayhi wa sallam Tesco la he metal or fee her Mia Raha so far tomorrow the ultra unhide the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she went to the province of some complaining about some corns or the fact that there was some skin problems that she had, or some Alima have explained that her hands began to become rough because she was working so much because of the stolen hand mill on her hand. She's it says what Bella HA HA HA and the Huda who Rocky Point for them to saw the photo. She heard that the Prophet saw some had

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received few slave girls for liquor or daddy Kalia Isha fala, Murgia Akbar Allah to our Aisha to. So it's mentioned that she came to ISIL, the ultra onhow. Now there are some other di wires that take a step back more, and it says that they were complaining in the fact that if you go back and you study the life of Fatima and are legally allowed to run home, one thing that we find is that they were a very hard working couple. See, you know, in a society, you have couples that are very well off, they have maids, you know, they're you know, or they may not have enough children and so forth. Or they may have just one or two children. But there are some families where there's a lot of struggles. You

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know, there's a lot of people living in the same house, there might be four to five children. There might even be situations where you have special needs adults and children in the house. So naturally a person becomes really tired. So what happened was that in somebody who is it is mentioned that Fatima began to complain to us all the time. Now, naturally, I leave would go to the province of Salaam and cow and tell him but Eileen said to Fatima, that I heard that there are some slave girls that have come in possession to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, why don't you go in you ask? Now some of you might have mentioned that the reason why I lead in I want to go and ask are the

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yellow Athan is because had he asked the Prophet sal Allahu Allah He was so may have made could tell him that there's a certain price that you have to pay a certain price for the slave who do not want to pay the price because that time financially he was struggling. So that's why it is mentioned by some automat that he said to Fatima that you go and you ask your father, because if you go to your father, your father will not turn you down. So it's mentioned and we find this rewire also that he came to the house of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she knocked on the door. I shall the Aloha has she answered. And she said that the problem is not here. President

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And however when the Prophet saw some did come back, I Isha told the prophets of salaam that your daughter Fatima had come around, and she was struggling with a lot of fatigue. So what happened and later on is Fajr Anna Walker the A Husna Maga Gianna for the Habana. Kumu for call Allah, Allah my name mechanic uma Fajr Africa either benei will be in a ham hut our jet to Baroda Academy He Allah botany for color Allah do lucuma Allah hiding me Massa Ultima either a whole tumor mobile Jia Kuma Oh way tumor our way to my ELF Rashi coma for some because someone was seen what Hamada Salah sang was seen. What can be ra herba Anwar Salah Athene for Hua hydro la Kuma Min hadham. So the remaining

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a Hadith of the Prophet SAW Selim is that I shall she informed the province to them about it. So it goes on he adds to the problem. Some came to us where we had gone to bed, so mean that the person had come inside the house. And he went to the place where I invited my we will take rest, basically our you know, our main master bedroom, we wanted to get up on his arrival, but he said, Stay where you are. So I mean, he comes in, he goes to the master bedroom, they are there, and he says, Stay where you are. Then he came in, he sat between me and her, and I could feel the coldness of his feet on my abdomen. He then said, so Allahu alayhi wa sallam, Shall I direct you to something which is

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better than what you have requested. When you both go to bed, then say subhanallah 33 times, say Alhamdulillah 33 times say Allahu Akbar 3334 times, and that is better for you than a servant. So once again, in summary, the the the daughter of the province has sent him once a servant to help her out around the house, the Prophet saw some is telling them rather than me giving you a servant, make sure that every day when you go to sleep at night, and when you come to your bed, recite SubhanAllah 33 times Alhamdulillah 33 times and Allahu Akbar 34 times. Now it is mentioned also, that Oliver liotta on who says that from that day that the Prophet saw him he taught me and Fatima, this remedy

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of overcoming, or he simply said, read this, and this is better for you. He says, I never left this practice ever in my life. Now when I leaned on his mentioning this, there was some Sahaba who were sitting around Ali or the autobahn and they asked him that not even in the battle on the night of Sofia. Now what exactly is Sofia, Sofia is the battle that took place between the IDW Athan and why we are the Ultron. And of course, is one of the times and one of the histories. I mean, one of the stories in our history that we don't like to talk about so much because it is talking about two Muslims going and fighting with one another. But nonetheless, this is a part of our history.

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Nonetheless, we also find that it says that even on that night of Safina I never left this practice of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now of course, the owner might have discussed in many in much detail, that what exactly does this hadith mean? Some have said that this hadith is not talking about fatigue, but rather, the province of some is telling Fatima that when you want a hardship, you want a servant, the servant is going to help you in this dunya I'm telling you something that will help you were in the Sahara. And of course as we all know what that will hello to Hi Ron will have a call that what we store and what we save for the life hereafter it is better and it is more secure

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for all of us something in this dunya we can easily lose it, but if we save something for the akhira it is saved for us. So the problem is saying this, however, is there are other scholars such as Mueller, Alicante document Elijah Ali, and other scholars who have said the fact that Fatima came and she complained of her fatigue, the Prophet SAW said and would always help Fatima and her concerns. So he they they say that it is very possible, it is very possible that this dua can also help with fatigue too. So that's why my recommendation to everyone watching this video is that if you are struggling at home nowadays, or you're getting extremely tired at home, whether it's because

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of the work that is required at home, whether it is taking care of the kids, whether it's anything and remember, you know we don't have

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understand the struggles of faulty model, the ultra Unha honestly, because here we're talking about you know, in this day and age, we have washing machines, we have dryer machines in our homes. But in the title Fatima, not only is Fatima helping out allele or the alotta ion, but they have young children too. She's washing clothes with her bare hands. So she is struggling. So this is why the alumni are saying that the fact that she was going through so much fatigue, if we read this dua is very possible in sha Allah, that if we sleep at night, and we read this, this dua and this vicar at night, before we go to bed, hopefully Inshallah, when we wake up the next morning, we will have a

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more, we will have more energy in sha Allah, and throughout the day, Allah will give us more energy. So this is the very first thing that I want to provide something that we can help solve a lot of our issues at home. And the issue especially nowadays, while we are everyone is at home at our, with our families. The other thing I would strongly suggest is that, you know, while we are at home, and especially when it comes to the men, for the most part, they're working from home and they're working online, a lot of times they have to seclude themselves in the office. And during that time, the wife is outside, she's taking care of the children, she might be you know, loading the clothes,

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in the dryer in the washer, cooking food at the same time cleaning around the house, and so forth, I would strongly recommend that it is only fair, that there should be a an agreement between the husband and the wife, that there should be some time there should be some time where the wife can also get some rest, while the husband is taking care of the children. Because once again, a husband and wife, they are a team. And together as a team, they're able to take care of their matters of their home. As you all know, and if you have studied business, business one on one, especially team stands for what Together Everyone Achieves more. So you as a husband and wife, you are a team. That

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means that as a team, not individually, you'll have to overcome and conquer the matters of your house, whether it is taking care of the children, whether it is you know, looking after them for a while, but there has to be an agreement and there has to be some fairness and there has to be some type of a balance inside the house. So this is why it is very important that we understand this. Because if one is getting all the rest, and the other one is not getting the rest, then you know one is going to be extremely fatigued and the other one is going to be very fresh. So that's why there has to be a balance. If you have multiple kids, then and you know some of them can wake up at night

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you have you know, babies in the family and so forth. Create a system where one night you'll sleep with a baby and the wife will get a break and then you alternate and you shift. But this is how in a family when everyone works together, we're able to overcome fatigue and we're able to have energy throughout the entire day. Whether it's take care of the kids to cook to cook food or to clean up the house or to even take care of our work. Ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to give all of us ability to act when it was when has been setting hurt. And once again please do apply this in your life Subhan Allah 33 times Alhamdulillah 33 times Allahu Akbar 34 times every night when you go to bed to Zach

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