Elite Followers #06 Juwayriah RA

Nadim Bashir


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My name Hakeem openshot. So today we are slowly only one of them designing, you have got Cody,

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the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam that we have been covering, primarily, or for the most part, I have been mentioning them in chronological order, meaning that the order of the Prophet sallallahu it was something he married them. So inshallah we'll try to stick to that.

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They are, if you look in the different books of Sierra, or the books, different books of Hadith, there is no one set.

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There's not, I mean, the names of the names of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu it was setting them are not exactly in the same order in all the books. Yes, the beginning, few names are always in the same order, such as Khadija Rhodiola. And then you have soda Rhodiola Unhide. And I showed you a lot on her, and then have some of your water on her. But then after that, they always are slightly different. So the wife of the Prophet SAW Allah who is some that we're talking about today, or I'll be mentioning before you today is, is a wife who was the daughter of a

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leader of a tribe. And if you remember the story of isodiol, Allah Allah, in which she was slandered upon and she was accused. That story initially started from the time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was in the expedition of, but in most of the luck, and if you remember that story, at the after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had defeated the people of banana muster luck. And he had the whole story goes on and he made God out of YOLO Tirana. It was after this, that in that journey, he was accompanied by our Isha Viola Tirana, I saw of Yolanda on her on their way back. That is when she was left in the she was left all alone, where she went into the forest to take care

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of her needs. And when she came back, she realized that the caravan had left so this is what that entire journey was about. So within that journey, this is the journey of the expedition have been Mustela the province that Allahu alayhi wa sallam found out that there are some people who are living there, and they are plotting and scheming. against the Muslims, they're planning they're putting together a plan to come and attack the Muslims. Without them knowing about it. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam found out about this and he assigned some Sahaba the Allah Tala on him that I want you to find out about their plans. And let me know when the Prophet SAW Allah while he

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was on was informed about their plans. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said that instead of them coming to us, let's go in US surprise them before they surprise us. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he gathered all his Sahaba of the Allah Tala and home and they march and they reached a place where there was a recent place called mod ACR, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he stayed here. And from here he launched a surprise attack. Now once again, let me make this very clear, because some people may get the wrong understanding. This was not something that prophesied Allahu Allah He was some he initiated himself. The people have been mustered up will

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already initiating an attack the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is simply defending himself. What we will find in the seed of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that whenever the Prophet went to war, whenever the profit center he went to battle, he did not just take the Sahaba and say, You know what, let's go and terrorize a place. No, there are people who plan against the Muslims. There are people who came to Medina to fight against the Muslims, and all the time, it was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam defending himself. So we have to always keep that in mind. Now, the Prophet salallahu, it was setting them because of his leadership, he was able to launch a

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attack on them. And without taking, I don't, there's not mention of any how many lives are taken, but it is mentioned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was victorious. Now, as it is a normal behavior in our normal practice, that whenever you go and you conquer a land, or a place, the people of that tribe become yours, meaning that they become your captives. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what he did was that he took the he took the men, he divided them, he took the woman and he divided them. Now without going into any kind of implications. The general ruling when it comes to slaves, is that if a slave woman, a slave woman, who is separated from her husband

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because of war, and she's taken as a captive, she is no longer married to her husband. In the case of God or the Allah denying her. She had already lost her husband.

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To begin with, now she was divided. I mean, all the women were divided, like normal, she was divided and she and her others were divided. And she came into the share of unsavoury companion by the name of sabich eBenefits or the Allah Tala. When she knowing her status that she is the daughter of the leader of the tribe, who is still alive. The leader of the tribe is still alive. His name was Al Hadith, he is still alive. She finds out that she has been put or she is now she belongs to Sabbath even a place. She went to establish a pace and said that if it is okay with you, let's come to an agreement and let's create a contract that I will give you nine ohea or which is a a money or a

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current currency at that time. She says I will give you nine Okay, yeah. And you let me go. Do you agree to that? And he said that yes, I do agree to that. But the problem is that she doesn't have the nine Okay, yeah. Now she came to the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam. She was upset that she was in the, in the share of service interface with the ultra iron, and she came to Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now remember, I showed you a lot and Ana is accompanying the Prophet in this journey. I showed you a lot and enhanced says that when as soon as, as soon as joia walked in, to face a Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam. She says that there is something I noticed about her.

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There is something different about her compared to all the other wives, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had and what she said she says that she came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she told her she told him, the Prophet alayhi salam about her concern, and that she did not want to be like this, and she wants some money. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that dua Do you want something that is better than that? The Prophet saying that Do you want something better than that? And the end she said they Yes, what is that? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says that I will pay the nine Okaya on your behalf, and I am proposing to marry

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you. Now once again. It is not a forceful upon her. But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is simply proposing to her. She She was happy when she heard about this. And she agreed and so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he paid the nine Opia to Saba debonair face, which he agreed upon, and he took God out of the ultra Anna and he married her. Now there are a few things to know about this number one, when she came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the way she addressed the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam tells us something about her. When she came to the Prophet, she never just addressed her as Muhammad Salam, but she address her as a messenger of allah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now only a person who truly believes in Allah subhanho wa Taala would address the prophets of salaam by saying, O Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mean that she had already believed in Islam, she had already taken the shahada, and now she is coming into the marriage of Ursula Salah Juana he was sending him geranium of the Allah Tala Anna, it is important to to make a note here and to bring to your attention, that when we talk about the marriage of the Prophet sallallahu Ana he was setting them once again we've talked about this before, but just for just to refresh your memory. Whenever the Prophet SAW Allah while he was married any of his wives

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for the most part, it was not for him to fulfill his desires. In fact if you say about how the god Allah Tala on her, she was 15 years older than him and this was his first marriage. If this was a man who was truly after his desires, that you will not be marrying a woman who was 15 years older than her older than him and she had been previously married. So the problem saw why he was married first things are the Allah turned on her. When she had passed away he may Sodaro the Allah Tala AHA which has been mentioned about her that she was very overweight and she was not very good looking. Yet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her was a reason to fulfill his desires

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Absolutely not. But because so there will be Allah Tala on her was also a woman that who had no husband and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was struggling himself. And so he was informed or someone suggested to him that if you may so there are the Allah, Allah and Anna she's a woman who has experience of being a mother and she can take care of your household because the Prophet sallallahu Arias some cannot focus on his external responsibilities, while also looking at his internal responsibilities. There has to be someone take care of his internal responsibilities.

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While the Prophet took care of the external responsibilities, so this is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did. As far as he God Allah, Allah Allah is concerned. This was something that the Prophet sallallahu either someone saw in his dream, he just did not go to Aisha the Allah that Allah and said that I want to marry you. Likewise with Xena Rhodiola Aha, who was the ex wife of his adopted son Zeto the Allah Tala and this was a marriage that was done by who? Allah subhanho wa Taala after that everyone else that you see there were all widows besides Aisha Radi Allahu Allah on her she was the only one who had no record of previous marriages. And that was also because they're providing

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some sort of dream. And it is according to our Elpida the athlete of Anderson novel Jamara, that the this the dreams of the Gambia are messages from Allah subhanho wa taala. They're not like yours and I are our dreams. So when we see a dream, it may or may not have a meaning. And the meaning may be very abstract. But here are the messages that were given to the Gambia, in many cases, they were in the form of dreams. So we see that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam not only that, but you remember OMA Habiba, we talked about last week, she was a woman who was all the way in Abyssinia, no person, her father was an enemy of Islam a boost of young she had no one to look after her in

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Abyssinia. It was the Najafi who did her marriage than a Joshi paid the Muhammad to her on behalf of the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then she was then delivered or brought to Medina, then the marriage was consummated between her and the province that Allah was sending him. The overall message I'm trying to deliver to all of you is when you study the life of the prophet in all his marriages, it was either to give solace to these people who had lost her husband, or it was to build bridges amongst the people. That was the only purpose of the marriages of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the reason I mentioned this is because there are a lot of people nowadays who

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put a lot of questions. They pose a lot of questions about Islam. And majority of us unfortunately, we are not aware how to answer these kinds of questions. Simple questions like my brother came to me last week, he said that someone at my office said that who's ISIS? And he says that what should I say to her? And I asked her brother, are you serious? You don't know how to answer that. That's, that's, that should be simple. These are sometimes the difficult questions. We need to know how to defend our religion. This is by knowing the sin of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. By knowing why he did the things like Islam, we can then defend the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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Yes, the problem is some does not need our protection. If there's only one who will protect the dignity of the Prophet, it is Allah subhanho wa taala. No matter how many people decorate in the produce cartoons, or anything that is in that any comment that is a derogatory comment to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, Allah will protect the Prophet SAW Selim. But it becomes our job to know who the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now, when the Prophet Allah is a major area of the Allah, Allah and

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all the other Sahaba of your waterline, who realized that all these captives that we have, they're all the relatives of God or the Allah Tala. Mm hmm. And it will not be befitting for us to keep all these people as captives. So what they did was that he freed all of them, they freed all of them, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he gave permission, he was okay with it. All the Sahaba they freed all them, which also teaches us another lesson here is that in any other war, when you study war in general, even the wars that took place in this country, or in any other country, the captives were either tortured, they were treated like slaves, and they were treated like more, they were treated

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worse than animals. It was only we find in the seed of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that the captors were let go, no ransom was taken from them. The promise of not say that I want something back in return. No. The prophet is on my way. They are the Allah Tala on her. Because of her. That's why I saw the alotta and she says that no one was a bigger benefit to their tribe, more than 20 or the a lot and unhappy because of her marriage with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So this is something very important to know that the Prophet SAW Allah who is some he did free people. Now, on a side note, something very important for a for all of you to remember. There was one time that

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there was a Jewish tribe, as you know that there were three Jewish tribes in Medina. But you know, the bunu Karela, and Bonita Anoka. All of them had an agreement with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that if we as Jews go to war, the Muslim will be our allies. If you go to war, we will be your allies. All three of them. They betrayed that trust and that agreement between them and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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One of them, their men were killed. Many people believe and they asked that if the prophet is so merciful than Why did he do that? Why did he do that? The answer to that if someone ever asked you this question is because that was at that time according to even the Jewish law, even according to Jewish law, the, the, the consequences of treason, the consequences of treason was taking their life. Even nowadays, if a person here in the United States commits treason, and there is history of people who have committed treason here in this country,

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then their punishment is a solitary confinement for life. Solitary confinement for life. This is what this is their consequences. So the consequences are extremely harsh, and they're very severe. This happened to the time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which happens is still in many places. If there is treason that is committed, your life is taken. So if someone does ask that, you have to know your history also to give an answer about this. Now let's move on with God. Allah Tonhalle Duany, Viola unhei says that one time she was sitting in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he performed his Saddam Fajr. And then he left after he left jovial water and she stayed in

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that same position in her house, until the Prophet SAW allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came back in the afternoon, or he came back a little before the afternoon. So joining the Allah, Allah Allah was sitting from the time of Fajr, all the way to little before before noon time, the Prophet saw some was gone the whole time. When he came back, he asked her that have you been sitting here the whole time? And she says, yes, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said that, well, you know what, let me teach you four words. Let me teach you four words. I recited this three times, and I was able to gain more reward. Then the word you have the reward that you have accumulated in the time that you

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have sent from after fajr all the way to the afternoon time. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught her a DUA, which I'm sure most of you probably know that Subhan Allah he will be handy.

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Then either the holiday What do you Varanasi he was in at the Odyssey he won't be there the kamati This is dua the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he taught us a year of your Lord and Anna now when the ALMA discussed God Allah Allah on how the books of Sierra that discuss joy you Allah, Anna Anna, they also go into some discussion about fifth because there are some important matters that we learned from God or the Allah Tala Anna, regarding the subject of FIP. For example, there's just two I'm going to share with you today. One of them is the subject matter of fasting on Fridays, the province that Allahu Allah he was sending them he visited visited JD out of the Allah Tirana on a

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Friday and saw that she was fasting.

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So he asked her Did you fast yesterday? And she said no. He then asked her Are you planning to fast tomorrow? And she says no. From sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then said that you shouldn't be fasting today either. You should not be fasting today either. Now, in other Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, None of you should fast on a Friday unless he fasts on the day before or the day after. mean that you have to fast either on if you want to fast on Thursday, you should be fasting on Thursday, along with Friday, or you should be fasting on Saturday along with Friday. You cannot single out Friday and fast on Friday. That's why orlimar such as even a pajama and email now

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we're not going to lie Lee who was the author of the other Sunday pain, they both say that it is mcru It is not allowed for a person to fast and single out Friday. And she and one should not make a habit too fast on Friday and single on Friday. Another thing that we learned is that which is a term that is used in English, which is called coitus interrupt us. coitus interrupt us, basically in Arabic is called Asan. It is when a man is with his spouse, and while they are being intimate, they this is considered as withdrawal, and I'm going to stick I'm gonna leave it to that. If you don't understand you can go into a dictionary and look more into that yourself. Okay, about that song.

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We'll leave it to coitus interrupt us. This concept of pointless interrupters is a subject or a debate amongst orlimar that whether it is allowed or not allowed is a Gize or not Gize Is it permissible or not permissible? The Sahaba of the alotta on whom they said that we wanted to perform coitus, interrupt us

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But we will not familiar with what is in our deen about pointers interrupt us. We went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and we asked the Prophet, I think Islam about the subject matter. And the Prophet alayhi salam says that it is better, that if you do not do it, for if any soul till the Day of Judgment is predestined, to exist, it will exist. Mina, the Prophet sallallahu, someone is telling the Sahaba that this is

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this is one way of, of

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using, you know, there's one way of applying any kind of precaution when it comes to having children. So but the problem is, as someone's saying that you can do whatever you want to do. But if Allah subhanaw taala has destined for our soul to come into this dunya it will happen. Now I'm going to share with you a story that my teacher shared with me. And when my teacher shared this with me, it was absolutely stunning. And it was shocking. So a story that I have never come across. Once again, this is just something that he came across because someone he was close to totally informed him of this story. Because this happened to that person.

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A man found out that his wife was expecting a child. He told his wife to take some some pills, to avoid the pregnancy and to abort the pregnancy. He she took some she took some pills. She took one pill, she took two pills, and she stopped. She never took any more pills after that, because she wasn't seeing the effects. But she thought that okay, you know what, let me just go on with a pregnancy. My teacher told me that the father of that child told him my teacher, that the day when my child was born, subhanAllah those two pills that his wife had taken, were in the hands and the palms of that child when he was born.

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When Allah subhanaw taala wants something to happen, there is nothing that can stop ALLAH SubhanA nothing can stop Allah subhanho wa Taala from what he wants to do. In Rebecca for Allah Lima UD, Allah Subhan Allah wants to do something, there is no power in this world that can come between Allah subhanho wa Taala and his wishes. Last thing is about Julia Rhodiola has father Julia Viola that I had, when he found out when he found out about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was under the impression that God I want to come back. So you went to the Prophet SAW Allah Azza wa sallam, and he asked her, and what he did was that he brought some camels, but he had kept aside

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some in some camels that which he had admire very much. When he came to the Prophet sallallahu it was setting him and he talked about his daughter, and he says that I brought some camels. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked him, that what if? What about those two other camels that you have tied somewhere else you did not bring with you? As soon as Joe as soon as and when he heard that, and he knows that? There is no absolutely way that the province of sun could know about this, how do you know about this, that is when he realized that the Prophet this man is truly a prophet of Allah. And that is when he took the shahada and he accepted Islam on the Prophet SAW Allah on the

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hands of the Prophet sallallahu it was send them finally God or the Allah Tala on her, she passed away in the in the 50 years in the 53, after hijra, mean that she lived for 40 more years after the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she passed away when she was 65 years old, and Marwan Ibn Al Hakim, who was the leader at that time, the governor of Medina he performed Annika until today she is buried in genital bulkier. So this brings this brings the life of joy idea to an end.

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You know, Inshallah, we hope hopefully we can benefit from her life. Of course, once again, just like all the other wives, she was someone who always showed immense amount of respect to the prophets of Salaam. She was a great Aveda mean that she was a great worshiper, and she wasn't with tequila mean that she was a person who exercise and exhibited the COA, and all her matters. And once again I showed you Allah, Allah, Allah and so many others Sahaba especially the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa send them they have so many positive things to say about God Allah to Allah, I pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala that he gives us the ability to act one has been sent to hurt May

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Allah subhanaw taala give us the character good the characteristics that these points that these people embody. Is that Kamala hate Subhan Allah Hamdi Subhana Allah one I'm not sure there were law either her illa Anta Nesta Heruka. One of the really exactly Malachite somebody comes to live with our cattle