Channel: Musleh Khan
10 Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble – #10 No Islam (Final Episode)
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Salam, alaikum, warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters, the marriage is in trouble when. And here is the 10th. And final point. There's no Islam. So at the end of the day, you two could love each other. The marriage has a strong relationship, no arguments, no problems, you're happy. But there's just one issue with that is when you look at the other side of the page, there's no Soller. There's no worry bed. There's no quarter end time. There's no halaqa. Your children don't know anything about the dean. How could you do that to yourself? Allah subhanho wa Taala says, in the area that I call the A of marriage in the poor and in sort of the room, the if starts off woman,
a TV, and from the miracles and the signs of Allah, then Allah starts talking about marriage. And he says that in marriages, he placed two secret ingredients to give it happiness, to give it contentment, which is my word, the term water, love and mercy. Before all of that, what is the lesson which will give you Allah says, and from my miracles, and from my signs, why is marriage a sign or a miracle from Allah? subhanho wa Taala? How do you get to appreciate or at least realize this miraculous nature of the marriage, you need to have Allah in your life. That's why Allah says from my signs, because he's calling you to him first, before to the marriage. If you want a marriage
to be strong, and to flourish, it has to have Islam. Because at the end of the day, there are going to be problems you can solve. There are going to be issues you don't have answers for, there's going to be situations you're not going to know how to deal with. And Islam is the one that's going to solve these problems that's going to give you a gateway out of these issues. A marriage or a couple that is praying and worshiping Allah is the marriage that has Baraka. It is a marriage that is going to flourish. And I don't want to say as a marriage is going to be happy because happiness has an expiration date. But if you want your marriage to always feel good, then you need contentment,
ultimate Nina, contentment in the marriage, that regardless if you live in an apartment, or you live in a basement, or you live in a mansion, your content 100 in love for everything that Allah has given us. At some point in the marriage, if you start struggling financially or spiritually, at the end of the day, Islam taught you to say Alhamdulillah so you still look at your husband, and he might have a minimum wage job. And you said hamdulillah at least my husband is trying and your husband will look at you and say Subhana Allah, she cooks for me. She takes care of me. She takes care of the children of hamdulillah she wants to get upset. Let me allow her to get upset. And one
thing that's really important Look how beautiful their religion is when it plays a major role in your relationship and in your life. Allah subhanho wa Taala says in spiritual hasher while at colocalisation, and US law, the answer home and foster home Allah ekomi Festival, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Don't be of the people that forget Allah, because you know what? I loved it to people like that. He made them forget themselves. And the people who forget themselves, they are inherently corrupt. What does this mean? put this into perspective. When a person isn't thinking about a law, especially in their marriage, then you start living like zombies, you have these high expectations
of one another. He has to buy you roses until you get bored of roses, then you'll expect something else from them. He will look at you and he'll want you to be this picture perfect wife, until you take off all that makeup and you go to sleep, then he starts to lose that that love and that attraction that He has for you starts to lose, lose that Why? Because he doesn't have a law in his life. So you start living like zombies and you look at each other as just normal human beings when you should actually be looking at each other as this is a gift that Allah gave me I could marry somebody else but Allah made me marry this person, why you start focusing on their good qualities.
That's what Allah subhanho wa Taala is remembrance does for you and I especially in our marriage, it helps us solve our problems and even if we can't solve them, Islam helps us overlook those problems. Islam gives us the mentality and the courage to forgive and to forget the one who
does not have Islam in their marriage. Their marriage is bound to fail. Or it's bound to go through problems after problems and you end up living this miserable life. with Islam, Allah azza wa jal gives you life in your heart, a woman can and Mater for
once upon a time, Allah azza wa jal says, once upon a time you were dead, meaning spiritually dead, what did Allah do for a hyena? Allah gave you that spiritual life how he gave you more and this is the ultimate marriage book for you to follow is the book of Allah azza wa jal, once you have this agreement, and once you have this, this lifestyle, then inshallah hotel, the marriage will always flourish. Problems are no problems you'll get through. And so brothers and sisters, I conclude these short pieces of advice, as not advice that I'm telling you what to do, I don't want to tell you what to do. But rather it's just food for thought. It's an opportunity for you all to just think about
your marriages and how to make them work better in shallow teralyst. So that you always feel content. And so May Allah subhanho wa Taala accept the short and small effort for me, and May Allah subhanho wa Taala reward all of you for listening. Does that come aloha Ian was set them why they come to LA he will work at