Channel: Murtaza Khan
Series: Murtaza Khan - Morals Series
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of the braising a loss of Canada, sending events greetings and salutations for the final prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
are showing compassion loving, merciful
towards specifically our family members and our children
and that's the theme of mercy being compassionate kindness or respect spills into today's heady but it's a discussion about respect
to whether the own or the young,
his teachings or the profits of the law that we currently have how to behave and to conduct ourselves.
Laser Minh Mendham young himself the runner
he's not from amongst us, he does not show respect.
Be merciful and show kindness and goodness to the young individuals.
One of them you want him to be run doesn't show reverence, overdue respect
towards those who are older than him,
other narration that you find will
be renewed convener? What is another noble rank
of our elders? Are people older than us? Another word that we find? Well, yeah.
And the person needs to know the rights and regulations that belonged to people who are older than us. Because we find that many ahaadeeth
they have a context.
Just like many occasions, I look around you'll find what is known as a
reason why certain verses were sent down that a member walk in his famous collection, a spell to resume speaks about various verses. That was for a reason or revelation.
Likewise, you find there are reasons
of the ritual, certain Hadith, the context of certain headings,
formatted and refined, for example, when the properties are mentioned, they submitted from an Elisa Mina Oh, come upon
us. There's a context of that Howdy.
He's walking the marketplace.
And he sees that the person is being deceptive inside the trade. So he throws his hand inside the week.
And if he finds it all wet, because he's covered it up. So now he rebuked him. And Warden sent him Lisa Minar least a minute later, remember that Shannon is not from us, whoever cheats us. So there's a prophetic tradition in the context. And that was in his head as well that we find
shade when you read the nebia solos of a caveman, old man, elderly individual who came to meet the Prophet, some of the guards of the home and
so people began to delay and you were several people were hesitant slow to move up the week but his elderly individual took their time gave him no jus respect.
Said appropriate and so he in his words, you can use such a language he rebuked them. He said to them for calling NaVi la sera sera de Sabina mala Mia Hamza, the runner, while
he's not from amongst us, who doesn't show respect towards the young individuals and doesn't give the right to the entity individual those who may be older than you individuals. And that's why we need to stop and we need to reflect because certain aspects of culture some people perceive they're not an Islamic
because some people think that certain practices that may be a people do towards an elderly individual, these are an Islamic practices. This may be some concept of bid and some innovation.
You know, because to open your frankly many but we see so nothing better in a Western framework in a Western Hemisphere. In a Western understanding. We don't see that many of us have offered manufactured Heritage's or practices that we have actually based upon Islamic practices to kiss me individually on the forehead. Is it a form of a powder? Is it a form of that you need to use to worship an elderly individual
A person who's a father like figure, to show that respect doesn't need them. But because in the world that we live in the code defined inside this manner, the person cannot see beyond those parameters conceived to understand that it is understanding the rights and regulations established to see how people derive a ruling how people carry out certain actions, what's the basis of doing a certain action inside their life.
You know, if we study
we studied the four broad schools of law, canons of law that we have
in the knowledge
you find in the tip of the family
came up who the man who never left Medina
awfulness after Medina.
Whatever the people of Medina practice, for them, is a form of law.
So whatever the people Medina will carry out, and during that time, they said, based on the basis that the people of Medina, the most closest to the prophet SAW something that is certain action. That means, it must be by default, a sauna, a must have some derivative from the sauna doesn't mean definitely accurate. But it's helping us to understand that no every group of people or every cultural practice of a people is something which is better, which is an innovation, something to be rejected subject to be frowned upon. And that we find that we didn't see the basic intent of people, even after they've never been mentioned. Before that we find that, as we mentioned, kissing a
person's forehead or making space for an individual. It's all forms of reference.
He mentioned injuries inside his head, he said he was saying,
he said, the best kind of piety that a man should keep in touch, and respect his father's friend, even after a father's friend has passed away.
The best type of kindness and respect is to show reverence and respect to your father's friends while still living and while he may have passed away,
this once again, you look at the context of
a Muslim, the final chapter, speaking about keeping ties are respecting individuals that we find. Even Abdullah, even Robert one day was riding with his donkey.
And he saw a man at a distance, he rushed towards him. He gave him his rabies. He took off his turban and he gave it to him. His friends around in said that, you know, the veteran arrows they can do just with small elements of kindness. You know, just give him a day, give him some water that would suffice. You can see the Bedouin in the desert, covering the desert. Why did you give him so much? Why don't you give him your writing piece? Uh, why don't you take over your head and deliver to this individual.
He said that this individual
forwarded to who he father
was my father's friend.
So based upon this, I will be showing respect to him. Because his father's my father's friend. So my mother used to show respect to the Father, and nobody will actually show respect to this individual because he's my father's friend's son. That is our
practice this affair.
And then we find the rights of fathers are sometimes that diminish, we will we will know we are all familiar with rights of the mother no doubt, we should refresh our life.
That we know that three rights that belong to the
Morocco. Phaeton ask the question, Who should I show who is the most right to have my companionship, my love and my affection and my full attention on your mother, then who maybe must be somebody else?
Your mother again?
Your mother again. Then the professor mentioned from a book and then your father in a heavy in a chapter of the chapter. I mentioned long Howdy. speak about your age. There's only three young individuals spoke at a young age.
used to be a worship worshipper inside his temple, having such a Muslim would be so focused in grace
for young women, a young Fernando Fernando
his mother called him
I'm inside worship, or should I respond to my mother?
Or a father? Or should I respond to my mother?
So he did not respond to
another occasion again, his mother called him again, again, he questioned him. So
should I respond? Or should I carry my
preferred Tommy's mother called him again
and again made the decision not to respond to her
mother said that may you be disgraced.
And may you face the home, or the regret of the prostitutes. How did he say Muslim?
Jew, he continued with his life. But he application became a filter for him. There was a prostitute woman who is a birder.
And she came to him, and she tried to tempt him. But he refused. She may remain outside and she met a shepherd.
She fully taken with him, and she became pregnant.
When she delivered the child,
people began to ask Whose child is this?
for college, she said, this is the son of deranged.
They went to his temple, and they dismantled and destroyed and they began to be and rebuke him.
He said, Hold the child,
to the child. He said, Let me pray again. And he prayed that when a child came and said to the child, who is the father,
the child spoke, and said that the Father is such and such shepherd. They didn't whip and became ashamed of the action.
They said, build your temple once again, we'd go once again with masakan remain inside my worship of Allah Subhana Allah, behavior Allah begin to dissect, explain this Howdy. If a person is making nowhere fill supererogatory prayers.
And your parents call you, they ask of you,
then it is totally allowed to break the prayer to meet your prayer to respond to them. Because they respond to parents is an obligation. And this is a keyframe. But for some reason, the problem is they asked for you, you have to respond. Many young individuals want to bypass the shade of Allah Subhana Allah.
There are many men that same z, that same passion,
a young boy,
he came to the fourth, give me permission to go so you asked your parents to give you permission, said no. He said you have elderly parents, for FEMA to Jane Doe and serve them don't.
Don't take care of them. The elderly individuals, they need your care your attention, you have nowhere to go. No way to bypass the Sharia law. So Canada Anna, and I qualified in other nursing speaking about the rights of the Father,
you and your wealth, belong to your father.
Everything about you belongs to everybody
with fairness and justice, take what he
says he doesn't have the right to question them.
Plus, sometimes we feel it's a cultural practice once again, that parents they demand certain things, there are certain things they have
four of them nurturing and bringing you up and spending upon you. They also something does that now mean that this is something forbidden for them.
Because To put it bluntly, because we live in a western world. We live in a Western environment, we live in a Western perception. And thus we find that the concept of elderly individuals
there are some approximately over 11,000 key homes
with approximately 410,000 elderly individuals placed in
America be paid to pace them imagine coming up to half a million elderly individuals.
This is a society that we find that this could be a society that developed everything.
They've developed everything
except for moral values.
everything they've developed but they are lacking in moral values, moral fiber
that they pay to keep their parents. It's our nursing homes or care homes pay and read about the statistics and the facts are expensive. Some of them up to 1000 pounds. Later laser champion 1000 pounds a week
because now the children are rich, affluent, well educated individually
So for them to keep them they pay the money to keep them there, that's more suitable.
But this shouldn't be our mentality,
it seems far away, would have happened inside. It's at Buxton, one individual days in a night journey,
he carried his mother on his back, to get to the doctor, the doctor saw, he put it back on her back, we'll be back. again tonight back again. We say this culture.
This is culture. This is Islam.
Remember, once again, a man comes to me and bolster him, says, Look at me, I'm carrying my mother performing power.
Look at me, I'm carrying my mother, do you think I've done the right of my mother? He said, No. He said this, the work that you've done is equivalent to just about one contraction that she had one contraction,
there's no talk about the amounts of meaning and nourishing and taking care of carrying carrying you one contract into one contraction, you will do both.
There have I fulfilled the right of my mother, by carrying them in this manner, performing around the house of Allah Subhana Dada, life
of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the prophet, I suddenly mentioned, I saw myself in a dream, you see the Miss World.
And two people began to dispute in front of me, a young individual, and the individual had a Muslim.
So I gave,
I gave it to the elderly individual
was given to me, I gave it to an individual
individual who said to me give it to the elderly individual. So I took it back and gave it to them and the individual showing
respect for the entity individual.
And we know that
dreams of profit, a form of revelation has been shown to show respect towards the elderly individuals, that you find the younger children, the older, the one passing, those who are sitting, and a smaller group should greet the larger group.
Once again, what do you have
to set up, give set up in whom you know, who you whom you prefer? Who you like?
That's not what Islam says.
Islam is generic,
to send them a nickel. This amongst you, it doesn't say that you choose and you select, what do you find amongst the minus signs of the day, gentlemen, Minnesota,
minus Saturday judgment that we find is to give
up on whomever, you know, whomever, basically whomever you'd like,
whoever you want to give
to the individual, who we don't want, you don't give a damn to them. For whatever reason, it may be, that this person doesn't deserve to
be given to this individual. And as we find that the elderly individuals, as Allah mentioned, is the years
of service of Islam, Allah pistoia, blessing them with Islam, before a younger individual, he is a practice of goodness and find good deeds and experience. And I will give the right to the young individuals, the young individuals, in general are seen as individual lessons compared to elderly individuals, pure hearts, pure minds. So person finds the balance of the elderly individuals and the young individuals
that enable individuals to be respected, for the age, respected for the for the wisdom, for the for the experience of life, a young individual to be respected for his zeal and their passion. You put these together, you find, you find the ideal Muslim community, of working together, taking the wisdom of the wise individuals in a passionate young individuals
and placing it together that we find as we find we go back to
the sort of deliberate aroma that we find,
to show respect
even to the young individuals.
If you look at the sheer
volume that we find a winner versus
the one who translated the Quran,
the progress I made about him along with him,
and give him the ability to make the seed of the Quran.
Even though it was a young boy, a young boy, he was
really the final company Sora sat down,
waited to see
to the people around them explain this to
me, the medium is Sora.
So some of them said, this is the tip of the iceberg. This means so it means this is the concrete of establishment the beauty of Islam. This means the dominance of Islam, the strength of Islam, the message of being completed, is it all of that is good?
Is it even above? Now that you haven't seen even adults? What do you think about this?
He said this sort of speaking about the death, the demise of the profits of the lucidum. None of the other competitors understood that. Even our best understood by speaking about this is the end journey. The journey
has become complete.
your journey is complete. ecfr is made after completion of goodies, but the saga
of the prayer will be completed the prayer is still hard is completed.
Maybe it could be some deficiency, deficiency, the pessimist makes mistakes, but interior of the good deed person remembers a lot of pages and look at the other the journey has been completed of the prophet Elijah to center and he said this is the meaning of the series iron. But before this, you know some of them they said we have young children.
We have a we have young children I even after Why did he keep me around him?
Because he had a great understanding
that shouldn't be rejected it
was it No,
should be fine.
The young men that we find these are people being be given kurama young boy you've given miracles because why they believe in Allah Subhana Allah
Allah strengthen the man strengthen their conviction supposed to give that you respect towards the individual. And I'm quite the opposite can be plausible
that somebody who's older needs to give respect to somebody who's younger, especially that person deserves that respect, as you mentioned, above or below the animal side with a burst of knowledge of understanding personal position be present concept position,
if you happen to be younger than you, you have to give them that due respect that cannot be taken away from from that individual. Two examples from the Quran that we find the highlight this point, oh when we find a certain use of a center, the story abusive that we find that the rest of the time rather
than use it as a center, use the various outcomes to that position of becoming the person in authority out of London, Elena
Allah, Allah has given you such a great blessing over us this the end of surah Yusuf that we find after whatever they want you to carry out upon you some city leaders conferred upon you they see upon you chosen you Ababa when
even though before if you were wrong individuals
so they have to give the jury respect to use it had to be given to him looking at use of it sooner.
Does it become arrogant as I say to them, no, you should you should have known that in the beginning.
You should know to show respect in the beginning towards me
You should recognize that I'm the Messenger of Allah the Prophet Allah call it a
no blame upon you
know what you know ill feelings.
Same thing the professor when he entered into mocha, he's a younger compared to older leaders of college.
He didn't become argument It was a great look, look at me, I'm superior than you.
It's just a no blame upon you whatever you did to me.
And knowledge structure we can take from this.
A person who works for Allah Subhana Allah may be acquired in US
isn't so worried about what people like or dislike. What people will say what people don't say. Whether people blame you or they don't blame you.
They praise you,
person whose eye is hot is towards a lawsuit Canada doesn't worry about these things.
That's what it is.
And you don't despair. You don't become worried. Your journey becomes focused towards Allah Subhana Allah, that the respect that you give to people, is for the sake of Allah, Allah, Allah Allah will give will give that due respect
to aku as you speak about the proper answer to give him that you delivered, that you respect giving the progress of he saw that respect.
He wanted that respect that dignity, it was granted to him
that his worship is his sincerity, his commitment towards Allah Subhana Allah. So Allah gave him that respect.
He replied, require your remembrance. And everybody makes mention of the
Michel reverence towards him, does he find a way to show respect
to the prophets of Allah so it is a dangerous platform of over
doesn't even understand why some people may show that you reference ribbon for the progression when I had to discover the right or wrong, but if you understand the mentality,
that that cultural aspect has a solid foundation, they have that reverence respect to the public.
Even though respect should be taken to the life of Amman
and obedience of the Prophet Allah is
the second example in Southern Oregon that we find wherever you find that someone who is older is giving preference to a younger individual. Once again remaining the journey the profits that we find is Moosa at a salon and his brother.
And Alicia is older than Moosa was born in the year whereby Phil did not see
the main children so Hollywood is older than the Mussa la center. Once again, I look at the respect that Hollywood delivers towards Mr. la Santa
Monica is right
what is the matter? What has happened? Why Why have you gone against my C'mon, you see that people have gone astray from the path
of the Amerindian forget my commandments to keep Bani Israel in check.
to look after them.
The 20th chapter
is a remarkable song.
Listen to it, listen to soothing, soothing of the heart.
If miracles after miracles inside this sort of
linguistically, every single I entered and Mazzola that occurs in such sort of
rhythm that you find
a whole dissertation based upon the miraculous nature and concept and linguistic a superpower.
He had her own
her own response
didn't say people younger than me.
How dare you speak to me that manner? said Oh, the son of my mother in
law who will be it will have been at sea. They'll take me Baba, don't take me Bye Bye. Hey Kabuto, don't to be studied. strong personality grabbed,
letting people do behind my back.
And aside, but remember, play football? This is a new one.
That could be here Do
you find that the pain is sooner than ambia?
What here for Reba?
to grow the bed is the way of the prophets, the messengers. And it's obligatory. What are the costs?
There's no debate.
Whichever that you follow, there's no debate. There's just my elements about what is underneath the Adam's apple and maybe some elements of a person's team some discussion that takes place in the
clean shaven individuals, that maybe somebody will give them an excuse that maybe there may be some hardships of difficulties that they may have.
But to the individual somebody may Allah guide them or they just to dismantle the profits or losses from cyberbullying.
And I searched a defense to honor defenses sooner
and faster. So now, I've been working, because people need to excuse people to crumble down to crumble.
These testing times that we find really, we need to speak up.
We don't need a passive approach. everything is combined and everything, nothing should be said about what takes place around us. We need role modeling, people have that courage.
Who had the fear of Allah Subhana Allah, to say to the people, this is wrong, this is unacceptable. This is something that we need to do. What do people do or don't do it? That may not be the end result. But people freak out. You know, people say, Oh, these are trivial affairs.
Something which is trivial. To me, there's something easy.
Something is something easy. So why don't you adopt it inside your life. And you took about greater bigger affairs. This is a solution of the most common solution. Among all of us working towards the sooner we go back to the content we mentioned about how they conducted themselves. If they're losing in a battle, they would question one another
answer which should not be missing in our lives, would sooner become negative inside our lives. They didn't say leave the sooner alone. Let's
leave that put that aside.
Or we find that other people around us, the sooner for them sooner is not applicable. On average person's home in day in and day out for the average person, everybody else around us, leave them to enjoy their life. Everybody should be encouraged to live a life of the prophets of the Lord send them going back to the if
any Hershey to obey the bunnies, he was only I feel
excuse. He said, I feel that maybe you're going to come and say I divided bunny Israel. So I didn't want to say anything at that moment in time I tried to unite them. When I'm only done. The manner you do not respect.
You didn't respect me you say to me,
you did not respect my words, against me my words fulfill my words, therefore, that I was trying to do inside my life. In the context of the desire is marvelous.
Because you find that includes a sinner. Look at the reverence and the love He has to Tarot.
He doesn't say that I become a prophet, I become a messenger. Let me be my own. When he makes that famous application
army, you have only
the drug continues
to expand his chest to take away the speech impediment from him.
That he may accept him. He prays, Oh Allah, give me a buzzy a helper from our own family. Who should our individual be?
My brother, how long that together, we may strengthen ourselves much for
it in delivering the message of Allah subhana wa Embrey he may participate in such a way
that we may praise you abundantly, when
we may remember you above the brothers, brothers in Islam brothers in blood bond,
strengthen our journey together. That's what respect and reverence is
that we want people to be together to remember.
Yakuza. Allah responded by saying, whatever you ask for Moosa, I've given you
everything you asked on this list that you asked me for,
given to you
was love by Allah Subhana, Allah will come along to clean a lot. So,
when the prophets Allah spoke directly, in the same regard, that we find called in many,
for Buddha he was
so clean to man to
came to came to the mountain.
When he saw the flame became the travel there
directly to Moosa
Once again, culture,
take off your shoes So, somebody to take your shoes inside there must be something extra.
You know, this is extremely
who has a
who shows respect to the symbols of Allah
So culturally, you know somebody that they want.
It's okay to play soccer on the floor.
It may be technically it may be okay to play soccer on the floor. But why do you want to upset people
in the camaraderie
do not play on the floor.
Don't play stuff on the floor.
Just pick up one,
or just discuss the laces. So now, that doesn't mean that becomes to go into the inside society, understand the psyche of people, as we began with the tablet that we see in today's image. That's not the size of the camera. And that's not the real image.
The garbage moving can be
severe that we find one side that we find in a circular shape.
Well, why for what reason is a left as a key point shape.
our people are new people.
They will not tolerate this. I've tried so many things. They're not going to tolerate the cabinet back with a visual shape leave it the way it is.
Because people are new into Islam exempted from them. So let it run, let it go by
not to look down upon any individual.
There are many brothers that are pure, and a far better than many of us. But sometimes we need to advise one another.
And then the
suddenly became Muslim a year or two years ago.
What right do they have?
every right to maybe say something would you justify
you say to another scholar,
finally service I've been invited on journey, Hubby, Sophie, foolish, idiotic, has no understanding.
That is a lack in the
lack of respect.
and lack of respect for a person who's fine except during age. No one is saying don't differ with him. No one would ever say that. But to speak openly young YouTubers who come on YouTube and have the audacity you know, we differ with hundreds of people inside our lives.
person should never need any respect for another individual. But to come into blogger to make videos and to speak about another individual to be loosed upon your tongue.
Upon the side, if you study the basic details
of voting inside Islam, it
is a form of HCI that many scholars have debated over centuries,
have also concluded that in a country where people decide to vote, to get certain rights, either senior or senior clerics,
that you live in your community, you have to vote to do something that we turn a blind eye to it doesn't mean it becomes COVID.
So we are these young individuals are people who spend 5060 7080 years of their life. This is not just about
it's about understanding, it's about wisdom is about potrebbe is about place here in context as a young individual be full of so much immense knowledge, but doesn't have the tools to apply to the people around them. And so we should encourage ourselves. We're not turning away from something which is fun, something which is called the person should highlight that we would do right and due respect. And like what's included at the society that we find the fragmenting of our society, one of the biggest obstacles inside the society is a lack of respect for authority for elderly individuals. For young individuals, we find that there is no there's no social welfare in the sense that people
are kept in check, everyone is free to do whatever they want to do. Then the individuals are not given a jewess is not given to them, or rather they abandon
and the young individuals are just left
a Rebel Without a Cause that we find.
Look at the masses of the Youth Day in and day out what is their life become?
No, just a few minutes, hours on
the phone and the media and he
does his instinct within
Teach them to lose respect
for society around you, that it's not cool to show respect towards your parents, to your elderly individual to people who are older than you, but to take care of them. Likewise, maybe some of us are giving us a message, that it's okay to be behave behave in this manner to the people around us. And we should all bring ourselves into check.
Suddenly, you know, not
all of us you bring yourself back into check in
to show compassion and mercy to these young individuals and the due diligence and you write a respect to the elderly individual. Now that contract he was older, the ability to respect a young individual respect as different affect actual respect of individuals around the young enough to listen to the head to listen to the concerns, or they may have not to shun them and to push them away. And that was your ability to turn to the individuals and to take care of them. The right that is belong to them.