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AI: Summary © The Hadith is a statement made by the Prophet Muhammad that if a woman has a valid reason, she should not pursue her spouse. The history and implementation of Islam's principles, including sex and marriage, is discussed, along with the importance of fasting and the need for balance in men and women. The speaker warns against reciting the Surah after prayer and emphasizes the importance of acceptance and a strong message of acceptance. A serial killer committed crimes against Muslim citizens and killed multiple people, including a woman in a state of disbelief. The importance of acceptance and a strong message of acceptance is emphasized.
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elemental and glory to Him. He only has to be the best. Give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, again as best you can.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of your program gardens of the pious Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim. hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa sallam ally were the Latino stuff. Let's see. I'm Al Mustafa. sallallahu alayhi wa ala early he was he was a llama, the Sleeman Kathira Today's episode is number 694

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in the Blissett series of the other Salah Hain by Imam yeah hit him and shot off you know you may Allah have mercy on him. And

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we will begin

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a new chapter, chapter number 335 Babauta Harryman dinar and Ataman, ferocious algea either the Walla Mia Kula Rosa rune Cherie, which means

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the prohibition of the refusal of a wife to share a bed with her husband, without a valid reason.

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There's only one Hadith in the chapter. And before I share the Hadith, I'd like to share with you the hadith is a sound Hadith. And it is highly profound, it is agreed upon its authenticity. And fact number two, that some people may misuse this hadith towards their spouses. So we're going to learn what does it actually mean? And what are the legitimate reasons which may a woman enjoy as a concession not to have an intimate relationship with their spouse and what is the best way to do so or to decline?

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As I said, Hadith number 17 149. It is narrated by a warrior for the Allahu Anhu

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call Karla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam either da Raul Umbra atta who LFU Rashi but the data of burner Allah, La nuthall Mela Erica to hit that those are hot that Algeria.

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Most men memorize this hadith by heart

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and many they think it is exclusive right for men.

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Which means that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said if a man happened to call his wife to bed and she refuses.

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Then

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he's angry and he's upset for the whole night the angels continue cursing her till the morning

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that they say the hadith is collected by Imam Bukhari and Muslim. This is not my statement. This is the statement of Prophet Muhammad Salah surah. So understand from the Hadith, that if a man had an urge of satisfying his sexual desire, so he pursues his wife, if she has a valid reason, such as one, she's having them and says, Hold us, he can't. And we'll learn what is alternative number two. She's sick. She's having an exam tomorrow if she's still a student.

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She's not feeling good. Or in some cases, they have just picked up a fight

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or if he invites her to share bed with him. And she says I don't feel like it tonight or now and he's okay with that then there is no problem. The problem arises as a result of when a lot of mighty

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says we're Latina homely for Raji him have your own Illa Allah as word to him Alma Melaka a man over in homeboy Romelu mean Amin. Family we tell our daily Kapha Hola, hola doon this I put her in Surah Al mommy noon, or in surah in marriage,

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listing the traits of the righteous believers. They restrain themselves from enjoying sexual relations in an illicit fashion or outside marriage, including self stimulation, or masturbation. So the avoid that for the sake of Allah so Allah praises him and admire them and this applies also to the wives, not only to the men.

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When a man is having the urge, he goes to work and he sees what tempts him

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So he comes home and he was his wife. And there are some women

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who are not interested, or they're not interested that often. Of course, as a marriage counselor, I get many cases like that. In this case, Allah subhanaw taala said, Frankie Holmatro, veliko, Mina Nyssa Mesna. So we're about to resolve this matter.

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And if she has any of the valid reasons that we mentioned earlier, there is no problem as well, then she's not blameworthy. And she says, Honey, and not tonight, maybe tomorrow. And he's okay with that there is no problem as well. The problem is when she knows that he's having an urge, and she's capable, and she just refuses without reason. And by the way, it goes both ways. Because also the woman have needs. And if the man refuses to satisfy the needs, including the sexual needs of his wife in his blameworthy, a lot of math is stated in the Quran. Why is she Rohan Neville maruf.

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And the Almighty Allah say, Well, who knows this lady Allah Hindi Bill Maher roof, so when you look into the rights versus the duties of each spouse, the husband and the wife, you will find them equal. The husband owes duties towards his wife, and he has rights and the wife have rights and she owes certain duties towards her husband, when you look at them, it's balanced. It's even. So no one should transgress against the rights of the others, or not fulfill their duties towards the other party in demand or full rights. That is not permissible.

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And obviously, the reason behind that is for the man who goes outside and walks and meets a lot of temptations, sometimes even women who are not

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Jani, chests, women, and they may try to tempt your husband. So having the halal alternative at home

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is very satisfactory.

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And that's why when the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, we're in if you will, they had equal sadaqa.

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Yeah, and when a man and when a wife have an intimate relationship and they enjoy the sexual relationship together, they will be rewarded for that.

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This is perceived also as an act of worship. It pleases Allah Almighty, that the man and the woman, the husband and wife, satisfy their sexual desire in a halal fashion.

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It was no to the Companions. I mean, everybody thinks such a sex, you know, it's a desire. So how could it be something that you will be rewarded for, when they say rewarded for then it is perceived as an act of worship.

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The Rebbe that or the acts of worship are not only the rituals, not only the Salah, or the care or the sadaqa giving in charity or Hajj

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smiling,

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comforting somebody

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feed in your wife while you're having dinner anyway the whole dinner you provided you paid for it, you will be rewarded. Furthermore, when you comfort her and say honey, taste this for me and you share food with her and with your kids. This is perceived as an act of worship and you will be rewarded for that had the lock method or wefew femur Attica sadaqa.

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So likewise, when they fulfill their sexual need, in halal, they will be rewarded. So the Sahaba was, were kind of surprised to hear that

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this is a beautiful religion.

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They said Yeah, Rasul Allah, how could one make this mess, sexual relations and be rewarded? They said, What if he does it? In haram?

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What if he meets a girl outside in a club and they hang around and they stick together? They have an illicit relationship outside marriage relationship?

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Isn't this perceived as a sin as a major sin? And doesn't he deserve to be punished? He said, Yes, of course. He said for turning away from what is forbidden and choosing what is lawful to fulfill your sexual desire in a halal fashion. You will be rewarded for that. Allahu Akbar

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the following Hadith, it is also related to this matter.

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Hadith number, chapter number 336. It deals with the prohibition of fasting, the voluntary fasting for a woman without the concession or the permission of the husband.

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Is he god?

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Is he going to tell me what to worship? And what not to worship? No, no, no, no.

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I don't want it to be hyper feminist just read the Hadith. Look,

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Islam.

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Since it is the only divine religion that the Almighty Allah approves for His servants,

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and the only path that leads to Paradise, an eternity in heaven,

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it does not treat the problems superficially.

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Rather,

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it acknowledges the problem and it eliminates the problem from the roots it uproots the problem

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so Allah Almighty have rights

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and the spouses have rights upon each other. And the children have rights upon the parents and the guests have rights upon the hosts. Everyone have rights and the old duties. keep in balance is what pleases Almighty Allah.

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The hadith is Hadith number 17 150

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selam Hadith agreed upon its authenticity collected by the two gay Imams Bukhari and Muslim

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Abu Radi Allahu Anhu narrated another soul Allah He is Allah Allah Allah Salah McCall, Laila Hallo, Lil Marathi and the Zuma was Oh to her share hidden Illa the izany. Well, then Fe VT Illa B is now

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what concerns us in this hadith in the chapter is the first segment which means that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, it is not permissible for a wife to observe a voluntary fasting

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when her husband is at home, without consulting him without his permission, nor should she allow anyone to enter his house without his permission. This is a pure right for the man who provided the housing

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and the expenses. So it is not just simply permissible to allow anyone to enter his house. If you know that your husband doesn't like this person, or they have a disagreement. Or the husband said, Please, Your cousin is not supposed to come to my house anymore. Every time she comes, or he comes, they create problems. I feel that they have evil I or they talk bad about us hollows. You want to meet them outside when you visit your mom or your siblings. But he said do not allow so and so to my house, then so and so should not visit well as one doesn't have the right to prevent his wife from upholding the ties of his kinship of her kinship or communicating with the parents if they are good

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people with the siblings, if they're good people and visited them. If they're good people, you don't want them to come to your house. Okay, but I've gone to visit them. That is her right. Now, the first segment, which is related to the previous chapter, and the previous Hadith, voluntary fastI Minh, Mondays Thursdays of every week, it's highly recommended.

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13th 14th and 15th. And by the way, just remember, those of you who have not fasted the six days of Shaohua yet, Saturday, this coming Saturday, today's Wednesday, so Thursday, Friday, Saturday, three days from now will be the 13th of your work.

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And you all know that 13th 14th and 15th are known as a wide days of every lunar month. It's highly recommended to fast except

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Except which month? That's a quiz for you.

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Answer if you know the answer in the comment bar. If you're watching us via the YouTube or the Facebook page, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam advised fasting

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three days of every lunar month and he had a committed

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it to be the white days when the moon is approaching its fullness 13th 14th and 15th. Except in one month. You know, you shift the days you still fast three days, but not those, you know, days. Why? And which month is it? That's how it was for you. I know a lot of people will be answering right now and who the TV staff are not invited to answer. This is for the viewers, though.

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So those who didn't fast, the can fast with you intention. First, the six days of Chawan and it matches or the fast 13th 14th and 15th. Those are three days. And it also wipes out three days of

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the six days of Shaohua.

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In any voluntary fasting

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in some cases, the husband was in Taiwan, he's in the importing, exporting business. It's been a while Wait, he was an hombre. He didn't come yet. It's coming mashallah on Saturday. So he arrives on Saturday, and his wife is wearing full hijab

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and Masha Allah. He walks in and she's on the John aamas. He waits until she finishes a prayer the nephila and sorry, we're fasting today, so didn't even prepare food will have Iftar together. This is called nonsense.

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This is called nonsense he was away. And the real salaallah alayhi salam, all the men when you study in the Sierra, whenever he was in an expedition or a caravan or a journey, or hydro or travel, or a war or a battle, when he comes if he arrives at night, he wouldn't go

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he would come outside Medina and send the signal that we've arrived Why have that as the head del Mareeba

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Yeah, honey, a woman whose husband had been away for a while. She needs to take care of her self personal hygiene shaving and the odorant and so on and prepare herself for the makeup. The guy was away for for a while. So he was in our for the past couple weeks. And he's coming mashallah on Saturday. And the wife is is fasting. Does it make any sense? Yeah, but the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. A few days ago I had somebody who asked me that I want to marry another woman. I said, why? Said Masha Allah my wife is so Warmington Kurama

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every time I call her, she's praying to hundreds. And during the day, she's revising Quran. So she's married to assure her now he wants a wife.

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Now he wants a wife says who that are Isha or mother there or any of the wives of the companions? Or no matter what mean we're not good wives, and we're not you the will not us to wear makeup and perfume and prepare themselves, for their spouses for their husband. You know, many of our sisters may not comprehend the concept of the marital relationship properly, and they think Alhamdulillah as long as I'm good with Allah, then I'm good with everyone.

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This is true. If you're good with Allah, you're good with Allah, but the husband have rights. As we've been teaching before, when some of the Sahaba men were very obsessed with their Ibadah fasting everyday not only 30s and 40s and 50s every day, like I would have that's wife, husband.

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Like I would have that his wife when she complained about her husband. Like at the live nominate the last one he recently got married and use a new word and he didn't even share it with his wife. Why because he was printed. So nervioso Salam full day that while I hope, Miss Lovelady, Allah Hiner ma roof, so the wives also have rights similar to those which are due upon them on the basis of kindness, gentleness, mutual respect, and also what the people are accustomed to.

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Okay,

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so here, an immune Salah selama said, if the husband is at home, he's not working. He's not traveling. And the wife knows that the husband have needs. Ask him, honey, I'm going to fast tomorrow. Are you okay with that? Oh, he's not my boss. He's not he's not a dictator. He's not going to dictate to me what to do. I'm as good as him. No one says that you're inferior. Why do you have this inferiority complex? Why do you think that Islam treats you inferior? No, not at all.

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Even among the Western world

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Even among non Muslim women, when a woman is not taking care of her husband, obviously, this non Muslim guy takes care of himself with the secretary with a co worker with a woman outside. So Allah doesn't want the person to fall in Haram because the halal is there, and there will be a severe punishment because you're already married. But yeah, Allah my wife is not even a wife. She's a shaker. So here an abuse Allah Allah Allah is Allah mercies. If she wants to first have voluntary fasting, she would have to notify the husband

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99.9% of the cases will say honey, no problem Masha Allah, may Allah bless she is happy his wife is an obedient servant to Allah subhanho wa taala. But we'll say, just in case so that he doesn't, or Satan doesn't make it seem fair to him, to persuade him to have an illicit relationship with a co worker with a secretary or wherever home, you have a pretty wife, and she is waiting for you. And she's a beauty queen. Why do you look outside? This is the whole idea. Same thing we say. The husband doesn't have to wait for the wife to ask for it. He must understand that. It is not only about providing for the food or the drink or the jewelry. Also share in bed having sexual relations

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is a pure right for the wife as well. He doesn't have to wait until she demands it or ask for it. May Allah teach us what we don't know and guide us what is best. A new chapter. Now let's talk about something else.

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Pertaining to the prayers, enough sexual relations Hadees number 337

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Babel to hurry me off a movie right several mineral Kui I will so do the public Imam

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the prohibition of raising one's head before the Imam either from bound down or from the prostration or shell this is very common I know it is very common but you better listen to the severe and serious warning and this hadith

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Excuse me.

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Have you thought about 17 151 Whatever con la agreed upon its authenticity? And Ebihara irata Radi Allahu Anhu an NIV sallallahu alayhi wa sallam makan

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Yaksha hadoo comb either out of our covenant in Miami, any edge Allah Allah Hora sir who say hey Marian oh yeah Allah Allah who saw writer who wrote him out

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Hakuna Ali,

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Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said

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there's one who raises his head up before the Imam not fear that Allah may turn his head into a hell of a donkey or make his appearance similar to that of a donkey.

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This is a serious warning, again is what again is a practice Unfortunately, many Muslims do even many grown up Muslims. Many grown up Muslims. You see in in the prayer when I'm dealing the prayer, I could see some people say in semi Allah who the man Hamidah are raising their heads before me or before the Imam only have one question which I always wanted to ask, which is if you raise with the IMA

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irrespective of Roku and sujood and are you going to finish the prayer before him? Are you going to make this name before the Imam and leave before the Imam? Of course not. But I know that some people even make this theme before the imam or along with the Imam will talk about this as well. So in my view SallAllahu Sallam forbid let us be called a mana Wallah to say who

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do not compete with the Imam irrespective of moving to the following pillar before him.

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You see many Imams when they recite and if they're reciting in any Surah which is not a short Surah So they say for innocence.

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Allah how often gnarly him Wallah home yeah.

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And he prolongs and medulla, the Sukkot so

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Morning, the followers assume that the Imam has finished their citation and will lawyer you say Allahu Akbar, there is hence they make that clear, and they go half way, and some people even go for a core. Don't you see that? Have you ever witnessed that? I see this all the time unfortunately from grown up people.

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Here is a cush interview Salah Salem used to pause three times in the standing position number one in the beginning of the prayer, where he would recite the beginning supplication. Number two. After finishing the citation of Surah Fatiha, he will pause before reciting the following Surah or ayat, and number three after reciting the Surah or the verses and before making Takbeer. So there will be a pause for a few seconds, even if he finished. Hey, wait a minute, where are you going? Are you racing against the Imam?

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Hmm. Many times you see people say Allahu Akbar especially if the chef so this was recited in the Haram and so a lot of people go for Rocco. And then all of a sudden he resumes the recitation. It was in the end of it, very embarrassing. And it shows that the person wasn't attentive the least because the person was in a hurry. His mind is subconsciously thinking about something else. His mind is outside the machine he can't wait to physically finish the prayer. So he will jump

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there will be some a hadith. Coming inshallah to teach us if there is any person need to finish it first before you pray, whether it is food or answering the call of nature so that when you pray you focus on your prayer. So what happens if you make this lead before the Imam

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if the person made this thing before the Imam deliberately,

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he has to reenter the prayer.

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And if he didn't, his prayer is invalid. Deliver the without a valid reason. What could be a very reason that make a person finish the prayer the Imam is reciting the shahada and I finished my childhood and now I want to leave. The Imam is the site in the DA after Tisha I have a pressing need, like I gotta run my stewmac is bowel movement. I gotta run, make the steam a leap. But under regular circumstances, those who have the habit of the intermediates and es Salaam aleikum, WA Salaam Alaikum and they live, the prayer becomes invalid. That invalidates the prayer. Come down. Wait a minute, wait until the Imam makes portico then you start making your way until the Imam and

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that's why interview Salah Salam said for either cut barrel enamel FACA bill in Raqqa for cow is a raw file for file either surgery the first Jew what happens is after the first record after the third raka in the prayers which have four records.

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There is Jill said to Sarah, yeah, and you pause before standing up again for a moment. Okay, it's a sunnah. So the Imam is raising his head from Suzuki and he should begin the tech veer as he's moving.

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It is not permissible to wait until you stand up then you make the tech via the tech veneer that we are not willing to call the tech we are of the movement from one position to another should coincide in the movement itself should not be

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before or after, rather, simultaneously consigning the movement itself. So the Imam is reason is here, this is Allah Who bar and the people are already up. It is not permissible. You should not move until the man finishes the tech B. And in the case of the going up to the second rocker or to the third rocker, you got to understand that is used to stare Aha, there is a pause. So give the man a chance.

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You're the one who's doing it wrong. You're the one who's raising with the Imam and an abuse Allah Allah Sarin is asking a rhetorical question. He's objecting to the practice of some. And meanwhile he is warning Don't you fear that? Due to race in with the Imam and moving before the Imam especially you're raising your head from Roku and raising your head from seafood and standing before the mandate Allah will get angry with you and turn your head into the head of a donkey, either physically or metaphorically.

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li which means that he will make you dumb

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as possible. So here this is a warning from the Prophet Salah Salem to those who have the habit of raising with the imam or moving along with the Imam Allah to speak all Imam wala to say who and do not even go along with him or equal equivalent to him in July alien Imam

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the Imam has been appointed and permission to read the prayer to be followed not to compete, what happened. It is indeed time to take a short break and we'll be back in Sharla in a few minutes please stay tuned

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System The Villa from the UK. Welcome to Hoda TV Nabila.

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh Mashallah. concilium rahmatullahi wa barakato system hubiera. Go ahead.

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Chef, I wanted to ask if it's permissible to work for a company who offers support in the workplace to people working in other companies. So it would also include people, supporting people who work in the banking industry and insurance sector, who require Desk support or any other kind of support. So it would contact this company and ask for their help. Or the fact that I would be talking to you and helping people in this field, which is haram and offering them support to be at work would this then make what I'm doing haram? Nebula again, I was wondering like, what if you give me an example, because I'll hook will show you a photo on anthos awori in order to say yes or no or halal or haram.

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Then one has to imagine what kind of help that you will be providing Yanni. If I work for the power company, and we provide electricity for the bank as well as the masjid as well as the church. Am I blameworthy? No, I'm not blameworthy. But I'm working as an accountant. So sometimes the Need Help the need people to work like freelance, so we provide them with that, of course, this is forbidden, because whether you're working full time or as a freelance, your assistant directly in the usury process. So knowing you know, the type of the help that you're providing would assist me to give you an answer. Nebula

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is the the kind of help that I'd be offering it would be, I wouldn't be involved directly with, of course, the company that doesn't deal with rubber, but the it would be like so if they're, if they ill, or if they have like a condition, which

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makes them not come to work. So if they're suffering from something and they need back support or counseling sessions, because they're having some health concerns, then they would contact this company that I'd be working for, and ask them to help them to provide Desk support, to help them use their computer for example, or help them with their mental health so they can be at work and continue to work. Look, if you're in the medical field, a therapist or a company that provides therapy including mental health, you're not blameworthy, we treat and we help everyone Muslims or non Muslims, those who work in halal and those who work in hora, okay. But if you cannot help would

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assist them to achieve this job or to train them or in case that their apps and you provide them physical assistance to fulfill the job which is haram, then it is not permissible. Keep in mind that almost all companies with the exception of very few, they do deal with Reba not because the company management or their assets are in the bank or deal with Reba I as a worker

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are automatically It's haram to work for the company then no one will work. If you're only involved in the segment of usually or interest this is haram or selling the item which is haram. This is haram. But any company producing Halal products

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or offering Halal services, and I'm working for them in this department or in this segment and I have nothing to do with their investment or how they give their money or how they invest their profit. I only get paid for the halal segment I offer. The new job is love.

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Many insurance companies, they refer the patients to a hospital I work for the hospital.

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As a doctor or as a pharmacist or as a nurse. We offer medical services. Those who are dealing with halal or haram insurance, those who are working for the beer company or the alcohol company or tobacco company, or drug cartels is none of my business. We offer medical services will not require to find out their source of income and what do they work for? What if I have the chance? Somebody's inpatient or outpatient and I'm giving them medical counseling and mental counseling, have the chance to tell them what is halal or haram? I should do that this is fulfilling the quality of Indonesian what is good and forbidding. What is bad I hope my answer would help you sister nebula

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from the UK Salah Moloko

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Rubina from the UK as salaam alaikum Welcome to another TV.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato Alaikum salam, wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.

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I have two questions. One is, am I allowed to work? I am in good health Alhamdulillah. I am a widow and my sons have many responsibilities on their heads as my husband has schooling.

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I would obviously not take on any kind of work. Obviously, the work I have in mind is caring for the elderly. I would preferably ask the employer if I could work with mainly women. But that is one of my questions. Yes, the answer is yes. And may Allah reward you and may Allah continue to support you financially and physically and emotionally. Thank you sister Rubina. You have another question.

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Yes. The other question is, I would also love to see Allah's beautiful lands around the world.

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Because I obviously am a widow, I am in my 50s. And my sons may not always be able to take time off work to accompany me, would I be able to see these beautiful destinations with a group of other women? If I was to travel with them? As I said, I am in my way like you me, like traveling to different countries and so on. Just just to see a last beauty. That's all that's all my intention is to see. Baraka lofi Thank you, Sister Rubina. Generally speaking, the vast majority of the Muslim jurists, I'm not talking about the scholars of today I'm talking about the predecessors I'm talking about the *a Abu Hanifa or Malik was Shafi Medina humble Sophia is every marine mammal Buhari and

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so on.

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They understood the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam that a woman should not travel the travel distance

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without having a meal Muharram her with her and according to Imam Malik and Shafi The exception is going for Umrah or Hajj with a safe company. So you're calling from the UK the UK itself Masha Allah is full of beautiful sceneries and beautiful places that when you travel when I travel by car or by the train, I enjoy

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the wonderful creation of Allah subhanaw taala but should I want to go to Paris I want to go to the States. It's my dream to go to Niagara Falls, okay, take your son with you, your nephew, your uncle, this is what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said and mark then what I said the vast majority of the scholars are of this opinion. Baraka law if you come sister Rubina, may Allah bless you and your family and Salam aleikum.

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Shirley from New Zealand

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salaam aleikum wa Alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Welcome to Hooda TV, Shirley

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So I have a question regarding ng

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mo team and attending events that are organized by the gear community by a whale.

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Watch which community you said

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by the sheer by the sheer our community, okay? Yeah. Okay. Again, is this a religious event, a religious celebration? Or perhaps it's a wedding, or a graduation ceremony, or one of our colleagues is leaving work or moving? Can you be specific, please, Sharon?

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So like, the Eid celebrations, so they had a festival, and it was open to the community. And it was promoted buyer, cat groups. And I feel about my friends had attended

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luxury, may Allah bless you and your family.

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That actually goes back to the fact whether those guys are Muslims or not. And I've answered this question several times before. And they say, any person who testifies to the Oneness of Allah, and Muhammad is his final messenger, and is very keen to observe the Farah the pillars of Islam, and loves Allah, His messenger and his companions, and does not abuse any of them is a Muslim Alhamdulillah Shukria. A person who's abusive to the companions of the Prophet SAW Selim and to the Mothers of the Believers is not a Muslim.

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And this is something that Allah has referred to in the Quran. So if you know those, those categories of people,

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they talk ill about Omar Minaya Isha

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and about Hafsa,

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and so on. By no means I'm not going to share with them any festival or religious celebration whatsoever, because I do not think that Muslims

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in the West, many people will come from backgrounds predominantly occupied by Shia, from Lebanon, from Iraq from

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some parts of the world. And when they come to the west, and they realize that they have been misinformed. And there are a lot of informations which they were taught wrong. And it is compulsory on us to love, revere and respect all the Mothers of the Believers. And to respect Ali and all the Sahaba likewise, not only Ali and Sandman or a Buddha, but all the Sahaba of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,

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love and respect Abu Bakr and Omar, in this case, those people are our brothers and Muslims. Okay, so we share with them all the events,

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I as an area, or as a preacher, I may attend these events, if I think my presence has an influence, to give them the power, to tell them the truth, to show them that without respecting and loving the Messenger of Allah and His wives and his companions, he cannot be Muslim, not just true Muslim that you cannot be Muslim. So my presence is for a reason. It's like exactly when I accept an invitation to go to a synagogue or a church or university or hospital to give a speech.

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Fact number two,

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when I have children and youth, and I take them with me to events, who are those people that share who are the shadow Muslims like us, Habibi, and everything. So while the different will say there are no difference, then he hears them, or reads a book in which they curse. The Sahaba, the companions of the Prophet SAW said, Look, I'm just hinting to one or two things, but not to the major issues like the concept of the mama and the healer alpha. And with rollin I will tell you about the Alon was just one of the companions that if your companions or his a prophet, you know, because not all Shia are the same. There are too many different sets and subsets. Some of them, even

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the mainstream Shia denounced them,

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like necessities, like analysts, who believe in the Lord Chievo family have never told him or the Allah. So if I don't know much, I should consult my local Imam. And I asked him what do you think of those people? Shall we hang around with them? You know better, because the Imam would know firsthand. Thank you. Sharla Salama,

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kumara

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prowl from the USA welcome to ask what Salah Moloko

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Muslim I

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hope you're doing well share and hamdulillah thank you for asking. Go ahead.

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Yeah, I have a question about Hadith where the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said that there was a man who killed 99 people and then he was trying to repent and then and then the he killed the 100 men but then eventually

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but it was still had mercy on him, and maybe he's going to gender.

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So, doesn't don't all those people have to get their revenge on him or did he become Muslim and Allah forgave all of his sins because he became Muslim.

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That's a very good, logical and makes sense question.

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The Quran answers your question from every different and possible angles.

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The first angle is the heinous nature of taking the lives of innocent people. You find that in Surah An Nisa in which the Almighty Allah says in chapter number four

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well maniac What do you mean I'm Madame Madame fetchers whoo Johanna mahal hidden fee will be the law one lady who Allah Allah Who, who other than are we?

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Very easy V and serious torment or they've Allahu Allah He Allah is angry with him learner who? Allah curses him. Jessa will Johanna before that his recompense will be hellfire, holiday and fear abiding eternally in it. We are dealing with either one of them and by the end, and he has prepared for him a huge and agreed to meet and number 93 of Surah Nisa never forget this, I'll never forget this.

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Okay. This idea applies for individuals who are murderers for serial killers for criminals and for the rulers who kill their own innocent citizens, kidnap them and kill them.

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No, not a chance.

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But in Surah, two, four or Nana

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and Surah two four on a lot of mighty spoke about the truth of a battle Rahman, whom Allah Almighty will admit them to the guardians of paradise, the servants of the Most Beneficent, he said among the traits, while Adina Elia Drona la isla Han for our lair co Tolonen of cell seletti How run along in we'll help you well is known when I found that any care

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you can deal with law who say in Hassan, what kind of law who are for Rahim

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chapter number 25 The verses from 68 to 71 of intera AMILO sorry Hanford. Now we're to Elahi metab.

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Here Allah Almighty counted among his seven some he loves those who do not invoke others with Him, those who do not take the lives of innocent people without right those who do not commit adultery, then you said and whatever in dollars, any of these heinous acts shall receive double determine on the day of judgment and he will abide eternally in it Illa

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Illa means except, so here is an exception pero

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exception min Dadda whoever repented what mana and believe that Allah wa mula I'm Alan Solly ha and

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he did good righteous deeds. So Allah Almighty will exchange their good deeds, their bad deeds into good deeds.

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So what is happening here? What is happening is if somebody was

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a bad person and committed any of these acts, and he repented sincerely, and Allah knew from him the sincerity of his repentance, He will wipe out those sins, including the rights of others, including murder. Well, this is what happened in the Hadith. When a man killed 99 people and later on he made them 100 But with sincere repentance, he decided to move out of town and on the way you know the story. So Allah subhanaw taala eventually took his soul into Paradise because of his sincere repentance. And not at all Amedeo committed adultery and an abuse Allah Salam said, after she died that her opinions are so vast sufficient to cover sieving D of the companions of the Prophet

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sallallahu sallam. In Medina, all these indications confirm what is mentioned in anumber one 440 84 And number 116 of chapter number four Surah Nisa in Allah Allah young few Are you sure can be

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Well, Phil Medina, Delic lemon Yasha. So as long as the person died in a state of belief in his sin may be forgiven, maybe it's not 100% guaranteed, maybe, depending on number one, if the person repented sincerely, if the person compensated if he is capable to compensate those who may have hurt and also depending on Allah's mercy, and whether this person is eligible for His mercy or not. In the Hadith interview, Salah Selim says Allah

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is happy with two people, yo Paco, ILAs name,

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this believer on the battlefield who killed the Muslim,

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then this this believer accepted faith and he fought for the sake of Allah. And he too, was a believer. So on the Day of Judgment, he will take the hand of the person whom you have killed, and the boss intergender. Why? Because he did so when he was in a state of disbelief. What if he was a Muslim? And he was criminal? And what about the rights of people? You had the hammer Allah who and whom Yanni Allah Almighty, wouldn't be in charge of compensating those who have been affected? Why, because of his knowledge that this person have sincerely repented all of that he opens the doors wide for repentance and for mercy. So even if the person when I was giving Dawa in the American

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prisons, one of the units was a maximum security prison,

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where people were spending a lifetime sentence. So there were some serial killers. And we spent a whole more than a decade visiting the prisons and giving Dawa Alhamdulillah. And this is one of the blessings of Allah upon me. So once when I was sitting with the inmates, the guy was sitting next to me.

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His arm was so huge and full of tattoos.

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And when I was talking about the repentance, and fulfilling the conditions of repentance, and when it comes to hopefully a bad, including murder, this guy next to me was crying, and he asked me so how am I supposed to repent? And how am I supposed to ask all of those who might have killed tripping, so I figured that the God have killed many people like a serial killer.

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So this person repented. This person believed in Allah, and follow the evil deeds with good ones in sha Allah who is eligible for Allah's mercy, and his Toba will be accepted. Baraka Allah, if you could do still have time. No, I think

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we'll take the final call before we wrap it up as Salam Alikum

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Walid from the Netherlands Salam Alikum, Walid

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Wailuku. Salad chef, how are you?

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Good. I got two questions. My first question is, if you didn't learn about the deen, like you never were taught by your parents about major sins and punishments. Is it still sitting? And my second question is, if I say if somebody's wrong

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Start a new page and pray lots of powerful

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religion

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