Gardens Of The Pious #668 Prohibition Of Putting Oneself To Undue Harship

Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious. Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Akiva Toulon Mata team. Wala out one in Allah volley mean wa Salatu was Salam ala Sayed in our in our arena say dinner Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi as you may my dear viewers, it is episode number 668 in the illicit series of riobel Salehi by Imam Yahya ignition off and now where we may Allah have mercy on him. And today in sha Allah will tackle a new

sharp chapter number 301. Babel Navy and it can Luffy warfare no war Cold War. Oh no. Mariela masala had he been a Sherpa?

Once again chapter deals with the prohibition of putting oneself to undue hardship. They're gonna hear Anatec a Luffy or Hua Fer, Lu, how merlon or slot Fe EBMs. Chaka Yanni to overdo things to f4 innocence, you are supposed to make one statement, in order to answer you make 10 which are useless, and one will be sufficient. Somebody came to you as a guest. And you and your family can afford so much. Serve them what you can afford, you don't have to borrow in order to serve them something

beyond your capacity that is called that caliph, which is overdoing things, whether in action, or in sayings. The beginning is with an area of solar solid area number 86. Allah Almighty says, Are there who will lie in the SharePoint regime? Only

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and I mean I'll move that up. Kalanithi. So here Allah Almighty is commanding Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam to tell the people whom he was preaching, initially, the American pagans say Oh, Muhammad, peace be upon him. No wage do I ask of you for this? I'm not giving you thou or inviting you to believe in one God and worship Him alone and we will Manna for a return. So that I will get paid or you will encounter any hardship rather,

nor am I one of L moutet. Kelly Fein and that means and motor Kelly Fein chloral of motor Calif, from the verb that Kelapa which is referring to those who pretend and fabricate things which do not exist or the truth is something which is not true. So, in the case of our deck I love means like

I will give you an example. We as Muslims nowadays, when we give Dawa we are being confronted with many misconceptions and stereotyping. So when they throw at you the misconception that How come that Muhammad salallahu Alaihe Salam got married to her Isha when she was only nine years old? Well, it has been proven that NWO Salah Salem was married to Aisha when she was nine years old. And that is actually reported in the sound a hadith. So some people, especially our Pharaoh dua, and there was

in order to please the audience, and in order to accommodate them, they say well, what simple calculation we think that there was a mistake in the Hadees perhaps she was at the age of 18. You don't have to do to cattle have an undue hardship. Simply the hadith is sound. And if you look into the masala from a realistic point of view, everyone during this time and until very recently, it was the norms to marry at this age. And then if you read this era, and you find out oh my god, I Isha

was already engaged to job I didn't know before.

or she got engaged to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that is true.

So it was a gnomes. And when you look into the books of Christianity, and they claim that Joseph the carpenter, got married to Marian when she was 11, or 12, and he was over 90 years old. So look into your boxers, and many things, and many princes that are married to princesses, who were at the age of nine, the age of 10, the age of 12, and 13. So in order to try to find a refutation for such misconception, you don't have to do that kill off which is, do something which does not exist, say

something which does not exist in reality. So the messenger of Allah was commanded in this ayah or sort of sad to say,

I am reaching you for the sake of Allah. I'm not expecting nor am I asking you for any wages. And I'm not one of our most certainly feel, who fabricate things which do not exist.

In the sound Hadith, Hadith number 16 155, which is collected by Imam

Al Bukhari. May Allah have mercy on him of the llama,

or the Allahu Anhu called New Hina. And

by now you already know the meaning of the term tackle. So probably a lot of us have him say, underrated that we have been forbidden to go into excesses, whether in hosting a guest, whether in fabricating a statement, to confirm or to prove your opinion is true, or to convince somebody to accept Islam for innocence. I'll give you an example. Many people when they give Dawa So somebody says, Oh my God, but you know what? I don't think I can wear a scarf ever in my life. So you're very

eager to give the hour to this girl and make her accept Islam and say the shahada, the Kalama said as a matter of fact, hijab is not mandatory, it's optional. That's called a kettle and you've fabricated something and you ascribe it to the D which you would have been much better? Why better if you did not even give? Dawa? The following reference is Hadith number 16 156. And the soap, probably Allah Allahu Anhu.

The Horner, Allah Abdullah, his name is Raja Ravi Allahu Anhu. For call. Yeah, you have Ness, Min Halima che and Talia Colby. Or Melania Allah.

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can levy and this hadith is rated by Imam Muhammad it is made hearty me alive isn't him? Very interesting. So I'm delighted in this, may Allah be pleased with him, said all people, if you know the answer to a question proceed on answer. But if you don't simply say, Allahu Allah, Allah knows best. And indeed Allah knows best.

They're in the middle and me indeed a sign of being knowledgeable is to say when you don't know, Allahu Allah, Allah knows best. And he called it the idea of super Assad, in which Allah Almighty demanded his prophets, Allah Allah salam to say, I'm not asking you for any payment or any wages for what I preach. And I'm not one of admiralty, Salafi as explained earlier. So brothers and sisters,

when you present a question to a scholar, Sheikh

and then he expects the shift to answer all questions. That is not true.

No one knows everything and anything. There are things which the scholar will pause and will say, let me find out. Let me investigate further or consult my colleagues if the old senior or consult my senior shoe. And this is a sign of knowledge. A person who always gives an answer whether he knows or doesn't

been ashamed to say, I don't know, that's a sign of ignorance. And people used to travel for months. And when they arrived to Medina, to ask Imam Malik about Sunni Messiah, so many questions, once he did not answer a single question, and they said, but we came from Iraq, you don't understand it's been several weeks we've been traveling, and we encountered the deal of hardship and difficulty. There was a big risk. It says, so what can I do? If I do not know? The answer is I don't know. It is

not about answering. And that said, it's about giving the correct as, what if I say, Well, I sing, and I believe and I guess and you try, right on the spot. You live on air when asked for them? And one question he didn't know it's as second he didn't know it as a third. I don't know. So you feel shy? You say, Okay, I guess no guessing, no guessing,

measuring if you're a doctor, and he prescribed the wrong medication, because you're ashamed to say to the patient, well, I'm not sure I cannot diagnose your disease. I will refer you to another specialist. Or people who would say that he is not a doctor is not even a nurse. He doesn't deserve to be licensed. He it's a matter of life or death. And when it comes to the day, it is like that it's a matter of life or death. Imagine when you say, if you're certain that you don't know the

answer, then out of

shame, you provide an answer. Guessing could be right. Could be wrong. You go home, and 1000s of people heard your answer. You just done the Caliph. Okay. No one is paying you. So why you're afraid of this is not business. This is pure Dean, one Anna, Minh and moto Kalihi. So if you don't know, what should you say?

I don't know. I'm sorry. I have no clue. I'll be more than happy to find out and get back to you. But do not be off Elmo technology. So I tackle off in every field is forbidden according to the book of Allah and the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu. He said, I'd like to give you an example of how Allah Allah Iike the angels

when Allah Almighty said in Surah, Al Baqarah, and the only we as

in solidarity, hey, the angels, you know, they had another opinion, they said, Why would you make a human being to live on Earth? Holy Spirit corruption and mischief on Earth, like the jinn before so Allah says, I know what you know not.

And he proved this point by teaching Adam Ali salaam, the names of many, many things. Then he asked the angels to name those items. So Rihanna Gala. Mallanna.

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hockey,

glory be to you. We have no clue about that. We do not know anything about it, except what You have taught us and he did not teach us this. We do not know the name of this. What is this called Phone? Bottom watch. We didn't know that. So at Amani Salam, we'll start by Allah Almighty. And that's why he said and Bill humbly ask him go hey there Adam and inform them. So when you are asked about anything and you don't know, think about angels who did not feel shy to say La Mulana.

And by the way, by the end of sort of NEDA

Allah Almighty says yo, Maya, Gemma, we love who solar fire, who would you be to?

Even a rose, the messengers on the Day of Judgment, Allah worries about everyone and he will ask the messengers about the report the report card, what did you do? How many people accepted your doubt? Who followed you and all the men they say, Lorraine Mallanna. In

Ghana, like the angels, we have no knowledge except what You have taught us in.

DD are the one who knows the Unseen

encompass everything with knowledge, the unseen

Subhan Allah. So that was a simple chapter with one eye and a couple of Hadith. The following chapter

is Babel, the Hareem in the hottie Island mating, Wallop, Milhaud D was up till JV one a fishery were healthy What do I eat will Wiley whatsover that is chapter number 302 which deals with the prohibition of waiting

and waiting, I will be waiting the disease when a family member dies mainly women do the waiting part. So that is forbidden love to mortal heartbeat which is slapped in the sheets the face Okay, shall we call JD that is LJ you remember the idea of Moses peace be upon him when the Almighty Allah says to him actually at that Caffee j because that is LJ the opening at a failure that cathedra ubica in here. So whenever somebody dies, a woman would wail and slap the face and cover her head

with dirt and she would tear apart her clothes when at three Shaadi were healthy and they would shave their heads. Women would shave their heads, you know as a sign of

being discontent with the divine decision or decree What do I II bill while he was to war and further the Invoke Allah to coerce them to take any more. They will not tell their clothes, they will not shave their head, they will not slap the sheep. And so as we're going to see, so this chapter is simply about the prohibition of these ignorant

it's them not me to make them not me. Yeah. If the person did not emphasize this family, in the wasa Yeah, because many people think that there will see is only if you have money. You want to divide it this way and that way, no, also, you advise your family members in your quest, to be God fearing, to not to be where you after you die, not to slap over their faces, not to tell their clothes, and not to make any statement that may upset and displease the Almighty Allah. Here brothers and sisters, I

actually owe you an explanation and distinguishing between

grief and sorrow, crying and be willing that

because there is a huge difference. The first which is feeling sorry in grieve for the death of loved one, as a matter of fact, when the prophets son, and once again when his granddaughter whomever may Allah be pleased with all of them by the Companions so the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him crying?

So are you crying Oh prophet of Allah is hideous. nd in a liner that ma We're in no albala

Well, a hole in your room.

We're in Now ALLAH Phil RPKM Ibrahim Allah Mazuma What did he say? It said Indeed, the eyes are shedding tears. The heart is saddened. We feel very sorry for the loss of my son Ibrahim, yet I do not say anything. But what pleases the Almighty Allah? What does please Allah in this circumstance, to say in your in your own, we all belong to Allah and unto Him we shall return. Allah will measure me if he mostly Betty were athletes, the hierarchy or Allah word me for my calamity for being

patient or my calamity, and give me better than what I lost things of this nature. But to say what a loss what am I gonna do after you honey? You know, life is not worth it after you. I wish Allah will kill me right now so that I don't live a single moment after you. You've been my support. You've been everything for me, life is not worth it. I'm just giving you examples. These examples refer to the be wailing and all of that is for brothers and sisters. Guess what? Even though we know for

certain it's a major sin. And it is absolutely forbidden, but most women do. Because of that. The Messenger of Allah forbidding women from giving going into the graveyard particularly

At the time of barriers, because they're less patient, they're very emotional, they get carried away then they utter a word that is Allah and they can be first. Rather,

if a woman, Masha, Allah is a strong believer and she wants to visit the graveyard in order to pray for her late husband, father, siblings, son or daughter or whatever, and she knows what is right and what is wrong. It is permissible. I shutaura The Allahu Anhu as the messenger of Allah Tec upon him,

All prophets of Allah, whenever I visit the graveyard, what should I invoke Allah with? So he said, Oh, I should say, As salam o aleikum, Allah dare Mina remote me Nina. When Muslim Nina were inna insha Allah who be Camilla Hoonah nest Allah Lana, wonderful Avi.

There the Prophet son alone is still an advise that you share to the side previous application by he did not say to her. No, no, no, no, no, no, no Isha. You're not supposed to go to the DVR. He said, You should say so. Behind me, the notion of the Prophet SAW Salem and behind the graveyard of El Bahia, where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam buried his companions. He is most of his daughters, and he went and he visited them. And this era was permissible for both men and women in order to take

heed and to be reminded of death. But a woman who does the weaning is not permitted to visit the graveyard for the season.

So if the dead person wrote in his wife's ear, you should be God fearing you should keep your digital Allah. You should not say anything that displeases the Almighty Allah rather you should say in any level

and yet still his family the women of his family, the Weldon is now blameworthy. The blame is on them. They will be only blameworthy if he did not emphasize that to his family. If he did not give them the wasa Yeah, not to say or do anything that made this disease the Almighty Allah before one Hadith is Hadith number 16 158. And are they live near miss Rhoda? Probably Allahu Allahu Akbar. Allah rasool Allah, He sung Allahu alayhi wa sallam, they send in among vulnerable who worship

Kundu, whether it be that Wiltshire Helia the hadith is agree upon its authenticity of the liveness RoadMate. Alavi please with the handler rated that the message of Allah peace be upon him said, He who on before in a calamity slaps his sheep's his or hers, there's his or her clothes, and follows the ways and traditions of the days of ignorance is not one of us, he does not belong to us. So this is a serious warning. And having said so, so there in one's closed upon the calamity, slap in the

face, hitting the head, put the dirt on top of the head, or any of the practices of Jay Helia which will come up before Islam, but in any other religion, Hinduism Buddhism, Christianity, Judaism or any other practices. Then, when the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Les semina is not one of us, it doesn't mean that he or she has become non Muslims. But it's a serious warning that they have committed such a heinous sin. It's a major sin to do any of the previous ignorant acts, brothers and

sisters. They mean for us a few a hadith, the Shatter, but it's time to take a short break. Let's take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a couple of minutes for some more. And also we'll be more than happy to take your phone calls, questions and concerns. Stay tuned and we'll be back in sha Allah in a little bit.

Late calm rational to Llahi or barakato and welcome back to the second segment in today's episode number 668. In the Blissett C's of the eldest son of him by Imam Yahya in the shadow and no one we may Allah have mercy on him. And as you all remember, in the second segment, we make all our phone lines available for your convenience. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to dial any of the following numbers which should appear on the bottom of your screen.

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I can take one more Hadith in sha Allah and the coders can wait a little bit. Hadith number 60 and 159 which is agreed upon is authenticity and are the evil that are the Allahu Allahu wa

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we all know the great companion of a Walsall, Ashanti they are loving these would have home the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to him, your voice in the citation of the Quran is so Milady is similar to the voice of David peace be upon him whenever useful insight as the war. So he was sick, seriously. And he's, you know, health was deteriorating. And then he lost his consciousness. His head during this time was in the lab of one of the women of his family, perhaps his sister, and she

began to weigh

one hour Musa Robley, Allah wa who recovered his consciousness, he said, Indeed, I am free from the sin of those whom the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, freed himself from their sins. Who are they, indeed, the Messenger of Allah to be upon him declared himself free from the responsibility, the sense of women who wait.

A woman who weighs a woman who shaves her head, a woman who tears are clothed upon being afflicted with a calamity. So when he was unconscious, he was able still to hear the wailing, the screens the shouting, it disturbed them, but he was so vulnerable, so weak, that he could not lift a finger, he could not tell them to be quiet. When he recovered from this state of unconsciousness, he told him and he warned them, that I'm free from your sin. I'm free from your blame before Allah Almighty,

because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam declared that is free from the responsibility of the woman who waves who shaves shaves her head and waters her cloth. So this hadith, just once again confirms these evil activities are among the activities and acts of Jay Helia. And are being categorized is them as major sense. Whenever Musa Ashari says I'm free from the sin of such and such. That means if that person have advice his family not to wait not to do anything that displeases Allah, even if

they do is not blame worthy. Rather, it will be only their responsibility. Salaam Alaikum.

Let's take city from Germany. Welcome to Hodor. TV city.

Now when it comes to how you are able to sell them or how to lie about a cat handler, don't great say thank you for asking.

I'm sure there was there's an issue about music. Someone said to me that there's a FTF about music. So I want to ask if it is true, or is it an issue man?

Now, let me sort it out this way. First, the killer for the filler is not like what people think that you go to the concerts, and today's music and songs and dancing. There is zero.

There is no difference of opinion in this regard whatsoever. All these concerts and jumping jacks while singing and the songs and the music are absolutely forbidden. 100% general consensus among all Muslims, but the half is concerning some music and instruments, which are gonna escalate to what we see nowadays. In addition to providing the wordings are permissible, and Rena is a speech words could be halal, could be haram. So another useful Allah Sinha

permitted singing of the girls who are not singers, they will young girls in the eighth day permitted beaten the duff. Okay, without the metal parts. Okay, not the

ITAR and the musical instruments and the flow. All of that is not permissible. There is no difference in this regard. But we'll ignore has, may Allah have mercy on him permitted saw musical instruments that's not related to what we're talking about. And again, all of the rules have agreed that if the words are fair hicheur, even if it is without music, it's haram. Love songs, you know, inciting the fitna boyfriend or girlfriend. absolutely forbidden no doubt in this regard. Thank you

Sydney from Germany As salam o aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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the following hadith

is another Hadith that is agreed upon its authenticity is very interesting. All the Hadith that was studied in the shutter agreed upon its authenticity so far. Narrated l movie or on the show but in Hadith number 16 160.

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sent me I told us all Allah Subhan Allah Allah Allah, he was the llama food, money Halle in the movie man he had a he Yahoo Mail piano.

This is where it gets really scary.

The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said

he who allows others to wait over his death

will indeed be punished for it on the Day of Resurrection basically means why wasn't he said, I am freeform you said.

And he said, I copy what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is say, he said I declare freedom from the responsibility of the sins of a woman who weighs over the death of loved one or shaves her head quarters of cloth and according to the earlier Hadith slap in the face, as well.

Which means it is my responsibility to tell my wife, my mother, my daughter, and my family members when I die. Just say in a lie.

Crying is okay. When my wife

moans my death for four months and 10 days. This is what Allah prescribed. But no objection to Allah's decree. No statements that reflect that you are displeased, dissatisfied discontent with Allah's decree, number one is not going to change the fact whatsoever, wherever die, have died, and will not come back to life, no matter how much you weigh over his death, how much you object. And whatever you do, the presidents, the Sultan's the Kings, the richest people on Earth, who possess

endless amount of money, they'll die. And no one can stop this from happening. So what do we say? submit to Allah decree and say in an 11 year old, having advice my family to do this, God forbid, if any of them does otherwise. I'm not blameworthy. But if I didn't do my job, then if they do, the person will be held accountable and be punished on the day of judgment for that a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Ibaka.

Sister Halima from the UK Welcome to the weather TV God Halima.

How are you?

Handling that was short notice that

I've got one question here.

If someone else she has a lot of dates, dates, like lots of loans with the credit card, but she's not she she she's not paid the credit card yet she's paid that loan is called interest. But she's giving sadaqa that she's giving her that she's sending money out to the people that they need. So I was concerned like this or that okay, but but does she have to finish that debt first? And then give this other her the money better to collect that money? Give it to them to pay them?

Every time? Yes, every time on both the plane and before the plane takes off? We'll hear the answer.

Announcing the flight attendant analysis. In case of emergency, the oxygen mask will be lower. Make sure you wear your oxygen mask first before trying to assist others why you assist others there is low oxygen level you think and you will die and you will not be able to help others as well. What you need to do is take care of your own self first you're in debt and you will pay in interest

go ahead and settle your debt and get rid of the interest then Masha Allah give any charity right or left you know if you are in debt and you will not pay interest pain in a charity you have given sadaqa here and there will be okay but you are paying interest.

Take care of yourself first. You can go to the bank and say look, I have the choice of filing for bankruptcy because I don't have the other option is just to give you the capital some and call it even is this okay with you? Most banks would agree something is better than nothing. Okay. So settle the debt and try to make a deal with the banks or the payment card companies that I can only afford to come up with the payment of whatever I borrowed without paying interest. If that is okay with

you. Maybe it will work out for you. Thank you have your Halima from the UK Sarah Monaco

Abdulaziz from Kenya Assalamu aleikum wa how to live

Welcome to the TV addresses. Go ahead.

Thank you. Sharon got two questions. The first question is like, is beard oil this beard oil that men are using? Is it haram or halal? What Oh, yeah. I'm sorry.

Yeah, the last is

yes, yes. Yes. And the second question is I'm in a place I didn't get your first question yet.

My first question is, is this beard oil that men are using? Is it haram or halal? That is my first question. What what oil Abdulazeez

Yeah, there is a beard oil that men do normally use to to grow.

Beard Oil is perfectly lawful. And it's a sunnah. If you have nice hair or nice to be able to apply the nice oil in order to comment and look neat.

If that is your question, please let me know.

Okay, I'm like I'm asking for those who do not have beards like they're forcing to grow the beard. While they're using it. Is it haram or halal for them to use it?

Okay, so you're asking about applying some oil in order to grow the hair or grow bigger? That is permissible. No problem with that. Again, if that is your question, please let me know. Yeah, you answered me. Thank you so much. I've got the second question. Very cool place sometimes we use time mommies it allowed for us to use it all like

me. I know why do you do Tamil? What is it session and executes

Yeah, he's extremely cold. It is so cold here. So sometimes in the morning or late in the evening? You're calling from Kenya Correct?

Yeah.

And you don't have water heater they're

not not not really these.

It is kinda not town. It is a very small village. But okay, if you don't have a water heater, you cannot warm up the water you don't have any means to warm up the water, then go ahead and do TMO they are not going to be the alternative if the water is extremely cold and I don't have access to warm it up. So Megan will do or making loosely will harm me medically and harm my health. Then go ahead and perform.

They are in a state but you are the witness over yourself the witness over yourself. So if there is a condition, he can result in a demo. But if you have a cattle, you can warm up a little bit of water. Of course you cannot perform pm you have to make to do with the warm water. Mark. A lot of people have devices from Kenya

I guess we can take one more question before we conclude inshallah

sure from the UK of Santa Monica

how are you?

And hamdulillah Welcome to another TV brother.

Thank you I was able to ask you shake how many times it was soon enough to send him to a steak in one day

oh the Prophet Salah Salem would do hundreds of the light

skin

I'm gonna live normally we'll have Bob rob the Allahumma said we used to come for him in one sitting 100 points a cell phone lol all the you know at all Eli. I seek forgiveness from Allah, the date and everything onto him. This is in addition to saying in the morning, sell for Allah 100 times and in the evening. Likewise, rather the prophets Allah Allah set an order these companions to increase making Istighfar Baraka law of equal brothers and sisters. Thank you so much for tuning in and

watching today's program of Guardians of the pious, may the Almighty Allah make us all among the right to servants of Allah. May the Almighty Allah make the conclusion of our lives to this conclusion ever, and gather all of us with our loved ones in the company of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam in and for those who are in heaven. A whole rockabilly stuff oh lordy welcome are Salalah on so you didn't know how many early he was talking to us? was Salam o Alaikum

Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about an empire that was shipping counts fire and stones, sending their best with the cheapest

day ignore that forgetting all about how bad or guys were shipping cause fire and stones selling their best were the GPS