Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #669 Prohibition Of Bewailing The Deceased

Muhammad Salah
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As salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious Bismillah Al Rahman Rahim. All praises due to Allah alone we praise Him and we seek His help him so ever Allah guides is a really good one. And so overall it is a three man can show him guidance may they get his peace and Salutations be upon Prophet Mohammed. Salah Elisa, my dear viewers, today's episode is number 669 in the Blissett C's of Guardians of the pious by Imam. Yeah, if Musharraf and Noah we may Allah have mercy on him.

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And it will be the second in the chapter which deals with the prohibition of the wailing the disease,

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well off the middle hottie or shall kill JB and slapping on their face, and they're in one's clothes, or shaving the head, or invoking a law against oneself upon the death of a loved one. This is all been summarized in saying the wailing the disease.

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When I was in the city of Prophet Mohammed, Salah, Salah, then in the Blissett, city of Mecca, we continued on hamdulillah on regular basis with our programs, and we spoke about the prohibition of a near half.

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And to understand what we're talking about, especially for those who did not attend the episodes, which normally were Earth 11pm maca pine, Allah to refresh your memory by saying that whenever a loved one dies, of course, his family members and his loved ones, his friends, his neighbors, those who love them, they feel sorry for his death for his departure or her departure, they are being saddened by the reaction of people

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upon losing a loved one

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differs

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and he has great deal of you know, behaviors, different reactions.

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The one which is okay is what the Prophet salaallah selon did upon losing his son

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Ibrahim, and also upon losing some of his companions where he was being seen crying.

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He cried when he was in shrouding. Musab Norma when he visited Saudi ignore badda during his, this rattle

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of molybdenum of rune and many other sahab, so have you Salah Salem was being seen while crying.

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And he remarked saying upon the loss of his son

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and it was his only son back then he said in the liner lettered ma indeed you see my eyes Sheree shedding tears the I shedding tears were in no call Bella Hudson

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and my heart is being saddened

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somebody loves his son. He feels sad as very obvious very normal. No one on earth could say there is anything wrong with that.

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We're in Allah Philosophica Ibrahim hola Maha Junoon

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and he also said while an Akula Illa yo the ROM

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so the reaction which is okay is to feel sad, is to cry is to invoke Allah to bless the dead to grant your patience.

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And he said while on

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the road, but that would not utter anything other than what pleases our Lord.

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And India Ibrahim, I feel sad for your loss.

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Then it can escalate to the level of the utterance

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like the Arab used to say some statements indicating how much they miss their disease.

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That is the beginning of the whaling of the disease which is forbidden such as saying wild Yeah, Bella wa Jalla. The word Gibert means a mountain.

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And Allah subhanaw taala said the mountains he made them outside and would use to keep the earthworm. So a person a wife says to her late husband Roger Bella is like you know, I used to rely on you. You will keep him me firm you are everything for me in this life. How am I going to live without you? So when word would express this huge broad spectrum of terms, that he was like everything in life, to the extent that they may inflict that he was my social provision, my social protection and then they give him the qualities of a rub the Lord and this is forbidden

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This is a tongue then people would even escalate to actions.

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They start slapping their faces, slamming the faces as a sign of disapproval or rejection of the Divine or demon

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in contentment, and objection,

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and there is furthermore tearing one's clothes

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as a sign of being hurt sign of totally refusing Allah's decree,

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and women shaving their heads. I used to grow my hair for my husband, my son for my brother for my father. Now it's not worth it, a sign of objecting to Allah's decree, so they shave an interview Salah Salem CURV al Halakhah, the woman would shave her head, especially in this particular situation.

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And there is even further more often will be willing, which is rejecting Allah's decree by disbelieving in him and I have met some people who turn to atheism because of losing a child.

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There is no way that there is something called God as the for love. I'm just quoting what they say. Or God is not merciful Estelle for Allah once again, I'm just quoting what they say. So all of these different categories belong to one title, which is the wailing the diseased,

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and every sin will be punished in proportion with the severity and the heinousness of the sin itself.

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What the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam approved is to feel sad to feel sorry to be grieved,

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to cry, but to say what pleases Allah Almighty in early Allahu Allah Hera your own will belong to Allah and unto Him we shall return. Oh, Allah warned me in my calamity and give me a better than what I lost. Even if you do not know No, can you imagine that there could be anything better than what you lost? Allah knows best. along my journey, if you mostly Betty ethylenically, higher minha

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things of this nature what the Prophet SAW Allah Salim said and approved Other than that, and Nia in general is forbidden

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and will want to learn that the person in his grave if he during his life, have seen his family members doing so with others and he approved it or he did not forbid them or give us a year before his death that they should not do that. You would bear some of the sin because Almighty Allah says

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in surah Taha Freeman and number six, yeah. Are you have Lavina Oh, full circle. Lee Canara. Who you believe you're responsible to protect yourselves? What? Alikum Alikum, those who live under your guardianship, your spouse's, your children, your servants you've made. Okay. Your stepchildren those who own your upbringing, your responsibility, younger brothers and sisters if the luck were orphans and you're looking after them who am forsaken leikam Not on Oahu, Honolulu what hedger first Hadith we have in today's episode is Hadith number 16 161 and narrated by the very famous lady companion, Omar Altea.

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nusseibeh, may Allah be pleased with her.

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Sometimes you can say nusseibeh And you can also say in a Seba Intel hearth may Allah be pleased with her, and she have narrated quite a few Hadith from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, including the Hadith about going to the aid in the masala and asking women even during their menses and younger girls, everyone to attend the masala even though they don't pray. So she is narrated this hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity or more Altaria nusseibeh or no cyber

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correlate a hada Allah rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah He was a learnign del Valle Yachty El Nino

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Mustafa canali

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so she narrated that at the time of giving the pledge of allegiance to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. He took from us an oath that we should not wait

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Wait a minute.

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I'll buy ha and abuse Allah Allah Selim used to sit and think that they are from people who are coming to accept Islam. There was by Atala Coubertin hula couple years before the migration to world people from

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On SAR, they came it took shahada before the Prophet Salah Salem, and they left and he sent for them most of them normally Radi Allahu Akbar. Next year, they came 75 or 73 men and two women and NWO Salah Salem to the pledge of allegiance from all of them, and he appointed Nakaba representatives for each 12 people to have one representative and then interview Salah Salem would take the pledge of allegiance *, he will say by Guney give me the Pledge of Allegiance Allah Allah to share a Kobe law he che that you should not associate with ALLAH in in worship, while I talk to while others know Walter to people turning the testosterone obeying the idea of God come, what are Sunni female

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roof etc. So we're talking about the major you issues, belief in Allah and not to associate with Him in in worship, not to commit murder, not to commit adultery, not to steal, and to obey the Messenger of Allah. So you mean that nusseibeh May Allah be pleased with her said that once during the Pledge of Allegiance, and Nabil Salah Salem took from him and the Pledge of Allegiance not to well, yes, that really indicates is something really grave. There's something really hideous.

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Indeed,

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add to that. It also indicates that we weighed in the disease was the norms, it was so common, and that's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had to emphasize its prohibition, to the extent that it was included in the IR in the Pledge of Allegiance. I'd like to add, that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him took the pledge of allegiance from women the same thing the same way he took the pledge of allegiance from men. He did not treat them as inferior or second class or you know what I've taken the pledge of allegiance from men. That's okay, you guys go home. No.

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But he will take the pledge of allegiance from women verbally. They say rasool Allah by Yanaka we give you the Pledge of Allegiance not to associate with ALLAH anymore shape not to commit adultery, not to see not to murder, et cetera. But men, one by one will check in with the Prophets Allah said, and the Hadith confirm, that man must set he had when he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he had a Marathi let the halal who got the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him his hand never came in contact, will touch the hands of a woman who is not lawful for him ever.

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Even during the Pledge of Allegiance, not just meetings, and getting together, open house

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even during the Pledge of Allegiance for men, which accounts with them one by one. During the Treaty of allodynia for tea in 100 companions, the men would come and shake hands with the Prophet Salas and women verbally by Hakuna accepted the pledge of allegiance from you

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so that I was a learner no not to be well the deceased

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the second Hadith in today's episode is another sound Hadith collected by a member Hari may Allah have mercy on him.

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And in Normanni Niboshi Radi Allahu Anhu in Hadith number 16 162 Kala OMYA Allah Abdillah hip not our ha OMYA and Abdullah hip Nirala probably Allahu Anhu

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Fajr Allah off to tabletki What a cool word of Allah work together, work together.

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To add Did

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you be willing?

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For Karla Hina AtHoc luckily tishie And l clearly

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academic and academic. As I said the hadith is agreed upon its authenticity

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and normative Niboshi are the Allahu and Homer because his father was a companion to and who know him well No, I never met him never she'll throw a hadith and incident happened with his father and the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. When the Prophet sallallahu sallam was sittin and Norman's father came in Cydia Rasul Allah, I'm planning to give this property to my son, and I want you to witness it. And he asked him, Do you have other children then a nominee? He said yes. He said did you give each

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Every one of your children similar to what you gave as a gift to another man he said no, he said then find somebody else to bear witness to that because I do not despite the falsehood

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Okay, so that is a normative number shear and here's the written Hadith about Abdullah ignore Allah what are the other one? I'm delighted Mila is a Normandy member she is maternal uncle.

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Okay, so I know man's mother happens to be the sister of Abdullah Nawaz. And Abdullayev not Allah may Allah be pleased with him was also known as SHA a Rasul Salah listen,

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because he was a poet in a good sense, we know that in Islam poetry is condemned a list if the verses the phrases are good, there is an entire sewer consult a sharara. And in it, a lot of my thesis was sharara we acted the room alone in law, there is an exception, those who do good say what is good, and so on. So I believe naraba like her son of Musavat, may Allah be pleased with both of them. Were poets for the Prophet salaallah Salam, to support Muslims with their poetry to support Islam and especially on the battlefield. And when they were building the masjid, they were chanting and when they were digging the trench,

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Allahu Melo Lola and Magdalena wala pasado darkness while also Lena and Zeeland Sakina Turner, Elena was a beetle up there in Cana, the Sahaba were repeating after Abdullah had Marwaha who phrase these beautiful, you know, poetry while they were digging the trench while they will build in the masjid and also on the way to the battles and so on. So Abdul Rahman ignorant Abdullah Ibrahim may Allah be pleased with him is also known as Shell Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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When he

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died before his death, he would go in a coma.

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So his family

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would assume that he's dead.

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And then he woke up from his coma. His family he referring to his sister, and no man if Niboshi yours lover, she's a pious woman. But she had me to instill some of the traits of Jay Helia such as the wailing of the dead,

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get off to vote happy so his sister was crying and was be wailing him and among what she said

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well Jovana

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wadge Avila as I mentioned earlier, means

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Oh, my mountain, your my mountain among men.

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For such and such, mentioning

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his virtuous qualities.

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He was in a coma. And then when he recovered his consciousness, he said to his sister, subhanAllah, every word that you said while you waiting me, the angels.

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Were asking me about it. And he was saying,

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Are you allowing that? Whether I am, as you said, so this is a questioning, in a sense, like you really claim to be the mountain, the support the help, and I'm not, I'm not a mountain. And whether I'm alive or dead, Allah is the one who's supporting all of us. Remember, Abdullah Ignatova has sister who's a nomadic Niboshi years mother was a riotous companion. As a matter of fact, she is the one who insisted when her husband decided to give a Norman this property she said No, before Ash head Rasul Allah, He will not accept until you go to the Prophet SAW Selim and ask him to be to bear witness to this three year or this grant. So when he went and abuse or sell and disapprove that,

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unless if you give everyone similar to what he gave to a nomadic Niboshi

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some of us imagined the companions were as pure as a prophet Salah Salem as sinless and they never enlarged into anything. And they were infallible and this is a wrong thought about this hub. Yes, the word the purest of all mankind.

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The word the dear is to the Messenger of Allah and the Almighty Allah, they were the luckiest because he came in contact with them.

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messenger of Allah and the heard from him directly the so Hindi ate with Hindi worked with him they traveled with him. They observed jihad with him, but they will human beings, they will not infallible. We have some Hadith about this companion who used to drink and he was being punished. And on Nabil sallallahu alayhi salam said about him after he's been punished to Allah remind him to who Illa your Hebrew Allah rasool Allah, even though he was so weak when it comes to drinking, drinking milk. But he said by Allah, He loves Allah and His messenger. Really? Yeah. So now committing sins including major sins, that means you're a Kaffir.

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It doesn't mean that you're expelled from Allah's mercy. No, Allah has doors of mercy or open wide, but it means that you indulge into a major sin and you are at a big risk. Some of the companions who have committed adultery, they came to the Prophet Salah Salem willingly and they asked for purification. didn't this happen? With the chlamydia woman? With Mary's may Allah be pleased with them? Yes. And then they will sell Allah Allah Selim said about them. Like and Mara Tula Medea, he said to harlot when he made some remark about her after she was being punished, they said by Allah,

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she has observed such sincere repentance if this repentance is distributed among 70 of the companions of Medina, it will be sufficient for them.

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Yeah hearted

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should give away her life for the sake of Allah in order to prove to Allah that she's sincere, in her repentance back to the subject. So when we know that no man of near shears wife, this pious woman, who's be wailing, her brother upon his death, or when she assumed that he's dead when he was in a coma, Abdullah was on

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and out alive not our forbade her when he came back to his consciousness when he recovered and see the angels have been asking me, Taka, Taka Are you truly like what you said? Are you truly the mountain that home people rely upon? Of course I'm not so be careful. We have another couple Hadith in the chapter.

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One of them

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is Hadith number 16 163 in the series of freeable Salah Hain

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directed by Abdullah Hypno Omar while the Allahu Anhu map

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call taker sad

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ignore Obed

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probably Allahu en

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fertile Rasulullah sallallahu ala selama yeah oh the Houma up the ramen is now we're sad in everywhere costs while delay hidden Miss road all the Allahu gymea

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fell in the holiday he was at a goofy rush yet in falcoda acaba God hula rasool Allah Santa Clara Zulu Allah is Allah Allah Allah Selim, Fela murale como Buka and NaVi SallAllahu Sallam Becco

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kala Elata SmartOne in Allah Allah u z will be the main line, while the host Neil Collopy Well, lucky you as evil we had

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what a Sharla lady Cerney we are hum whatever canali

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this hadith explains what I've mentioned earlier

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in the introduction of the Shabbat

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of the live now modern may Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that once the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him visited Saudi no bed during his illness.

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He was accompanied by

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Mandeep now, sadly, none of you will cause Abdullah had numerous rules may Allah be pleased with all of them. And then when they entered his house, they found them unconscious when they entered into sir did not obey his house, the founding unconscious. So rasool Allah is Allah Salam, as his family has he died. So they replied in the negative. He's just unconscious.

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So the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam cried

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and when he cried,

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the people around him started crying as well. They all wept. So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said I let us know Yanni. Listen up, everyone, listen attentively. Indeed Allah doesn't punish for the sharing of tea.

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yours, or the grief of the heart. But he punishes or shows mercy because of what the tongue utters.

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So that confirms when you're grieved when your heart is saddened when you shed tears when you cry for the loss of loved one, whether a family member, spouse or a friend,

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then simply this grief would be means of forgiveness of your sense. It's a test. Your way of enduring the test and being patient is indeed one of the means of remittance some of your sins, your supplication to the one whom you loved, the one who passed away would help him or her a great deal, respect of remittance some of their sins. So in the Sahaba, so the Prophet sallallahu Sallam crying, he went to visit Sadiq novalja, who sadly no better

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is perceived to be the chieftain of Al huzzah Raj, Al Ansari. Before the migration of the Prophet Salah Salem were two tribes mainly LLS and all of their chieftains will suddenly more eyes. May Allah be pleased with him.

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And Al has Raj know their chieftains is sir I did no bad may Allah be pleased with him and with all the companions of the Prophet solo Salah sir I didn't know more as the chief to know fellows Masha Allah when he died at the age of 36, the Throne of Allah shook because of his death, sir did not obey that outlived the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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and that's why when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam passed away and the people of Medina Ohio Julian Al Ansari gathered in what is known as a Suceava. In order to choose the caliph to succeed the Prophet Salalah Salam, Al Ansara, nominated the name of Sadiq, neuro badda, to be the first Khalifa after the Prophet sallallahu sallam. But eventually without going into details, all the Sahaba including Sadek, nobody gave the pledge of allegiance to Abu Bakr, so the Accra the Allah one, after Omar in Qatar started listing the nurse of our buck, and what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said about him, and finally that he was leading the prayer instead of the Prophet until the last moment.

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So Abu Bakr became the Khalifa while I say that to show you the highest status of Saudi nobody, who's also one of those give the Prophet sallallahu Sallam the Pledge of Allegiance at Al acaba. And when the Americans figured out that Sarah did not obey them, even though he's not from Mecca, and the you know, his high status, but they beat him up.

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And he's very he's one of the very few of Medina who was being tortured in Makkah, because the Mexicans figured out that he had accepted Islam. He is sick of you. So Salam took Masha Allah, Abdul Rahman Ignatieff Sadiq Nam your costs, and these are two of the 10 Heaven bound companions and Abdullah Agni Masaru the mount of knowledge and they want to visit him. When the prophets Allah Allah Allah Selim saw him in this condition he started crying. When the Sahaba sue the Messenger of Allah crying, they started crying. So he wanted to draw the line between what is permissible and what is impermissible in this regard, what is okay and what is considered as be willing and accursed

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by Allah said Allah this mon you guys listen up, listen attentively.

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As far as for mere crying, and having you know the heart grieve, it's okay.

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Allah will not punish people for shedding tears and the grief of the heart. But the Almighty Allah will hold us accountable for this, whether good or bad, so good in our lives on La Roger Gunilla him out our labor, Allah will reward you. But while Geobella like what we mentioned earlier, this is forbidden and this is from the traits of Jehovah and Allah subhanaw taala punishes accordingly, punishes the perpetrator, the person who does this, and if the family member who died had approved it, or it was okay. During his life, he did not forbid his family, he would also receive a punishment as a result of that. May Allah Almighty have mercy on all of us and grant us the greatest

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conclusion to our lives. It's time to take a short break and we'll be back in Sharla in a few minutes, please stay tuned

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Habiba.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. In this segment I'm going to share with you our phone lines that are four numbers mashallah you can dial any of the following numbers, as it should also appear on the bottom of your screen beginning with the error code 002 Then 01095185170

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Salam Alikum Ziva.

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Can you hear me?

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As for me I cannot hear you

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Okay, why don't we take another call? Maybe there is a connection problem

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While they're fixing the phone lines, I can take another Hadith Hadith number 16 164 And every American Ashanti are the Allahu Anhu call. Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he had to either lambda tube Kablammo Tia to come we all melty and Matthew Allah sir Berlin men coffee Iranian are their own in Job, hello Muslim.

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Allah He, my dear audience, this hadith is very scary, very frightening. Not to take it lightly. And to say it is just a moment of sorrow and grief. And some people do it as a compliment. They say this lady came and she complimented me when my husband died or a family member died so I have to pay her back know

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the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said the wailing woman if she doesn't repent before her death from waning, then she will be made on the day of judgment to stand up wearing a garment of pitch N garment of scabies cavies Yeah, scabies is a disease where people run away from those who have scabies. It's very contagious, and she will be wearing a garment of scabies. This is to offend again is the sin of the wailing the disease. It will not do any good, neither to the dead nor to the be waiting Person A Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah burka

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sister Rihanna from the UK. Welcome to the TV Rihanna.

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Can you hear me?

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Rehana?

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Ali, concilium rahmatullahi wa barakato.

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Your prayers I want you to ask a question.

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husband is cheating on me. And I want to know that if I say no to him, and he asks me to sleep with him or my sinful

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Okay, that's something Rihanna needs to be verified. And to be honest with you, you always know my attitude. I hate to discuss this.

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During live programs, Jonnie You're most welcome to collect my number. We can talk about it after the program, since you've mentioned your name and where are you from? Because Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Yeah, you are Latina man who do turn evil Kathy are on me mean of one in other above one if it could be 100% True. Maybe have caught him cheating. Allah knows best. And it could be mere suspicion because of a message or WhatsApp message or something. He found his pocket then that doesn't escalate to the level of cheating. It could be misunderstanding. It's possible.

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I'm not defending anyone because I do not know his circumstances. I'm just saying

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Generally speaking as a marriage counselor, I've been through a lot like that.

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So if if a wife now not Rihanna, not her husband, if a wife is certain, not suspecting not assuming a certain that her husband is cheating on her

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shield confront him with what you have. If he confesses, it's so cold if she wants to live with him, if she wants to divorce him if he wants to ask for Hola. That's absolutely her right? Islam gives her the right. But this matter, as I said, needs some interference. Somebody have to intervene.

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A marriage counselor or local share a local imam or as Allah Almighty said for about two How can I mean early? Well, how can mean earlier? It cannot just be decided between you and or maybe it will escalate to a fight? He says, No, I didn't and you say no, I cut you this message. And he explains recently I had a similar case. Any laws very obvious that she assumed and it wasn't like what you thought? Again, I'm not necessarily saying this is your case respected sister from the UK? I'm just saying what are the procedures need to be followed in this regard? And if you're certain and you have the evidence, then you have the right to demand divorce or divorcing and you also have the

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right to accept his apology forgiveness and repentance if you want to. cinematical

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rise from Italy as salaam alaikum.

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Salaam Sheikh How are you hi handler eyes how are you?

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Alicia che for me I love unless you check I have a question about Riba.

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I put the situation in front of you. Okay, there is a seller who is selling his house, let's say $400,000. And there's a buyer who is buying the house, but the buyer says that I pay you like 50% and pay you but the seller is saying that okay the it is okay with me. But the last payment which you will make maybe after one year. So the last payment we will see what is the value of the property at that time. So whatever will be the difference, which so you also have to pay the difference. Let's say now it is 100,000 But after one year, it will be 120. So that moment you have to pay that 20,000 Extra to me. So that will come in riba or interest or what it will be can you

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highlight please, yes contract is invalid. This I'm selling you 50% of the property a year later. If you want to buy the remaining part, we'll look into the current value and you have the right of chauffeur

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a shofar is that the seller or the owner cannot sell it to anyone else before offering you because you are a beneficiary then you are the neighbor. So it's okay. So that means today he sold 50% of the property and he collected the money cash for many people, the buyers will not like that because that means I'm not really benefiting entirely. So, they say no, the alternative is the contract as I said there are many alternatives meaning solutions that the person

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can reserve his rights according such as some people say if the local currency is fluctuating and the fear the inflation so the estimate the amount versus US dollar or versus a similar amount of gold. So they say you owe me one kilogram of gold 24 karat, I don't care what that the price goes up or it doubles. This is how much you owe me of God. That is permissible. Baraka Luffy Salam Alikum

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Ziva from India

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Assalamu alaykum Sheikh how are you? Wow, Salam or not Allah Heo barakato?

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Shake. My question is that in one of the videos by a scholar, it was mentioned that the laws of Sharia in gardens, as mentioned in the student visa are to be applied only if the parents have not made any written or verbal will in the name of the children. Is it correct or the parents are supposed to make the will only as per the laws mentioned in the Sharia. And my second question is shake it that can

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A mother make a will

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of her father.

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Now the last segment who didn't hear it, sisters Eva, can you repeat the last segment of your question?

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Should I repeat it shake? Yeah. Last segment of your question. The last segment only the law.

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The law okay. The second question was, can my mother make a will for a property which is in the name of my father?

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Okay, got your question. Well, now we're going to look into what Allah Almighty said in Surah indosat. Most of the areas of inheritance lie in Surah, Tennessee in the beginning and the end, when Allah Almighty started off in and number 11, chapter number four, you will see Kamala Viola, the communists, Zachary Mr. Harville owns AI etc. You find Allah Almighty confirms that fairy bottom in Allah further that's an old demon of Allah subhanaw taala and no one on earth has the right to overwrite it to change it in Allah can Alleman Hakima then the following number 12 A lot of notices welcome for the husband while calmness Hoonah Tharaka as well Dooku Illa miracle Levon now, if the

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wife dies and you don't have children from her, she doesn't have children. Then

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the inheritance for in cannula who Nola Doom Fela Komarov if they have children, then one quarter this division must not take place before doing the following member they will see yet in you will see in every day after fulfilling the Vasa and after settling the debt, what is the overseer, any person has the right to write a request or a will irrespective of 1/3 of his money or her money. If I have a million

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I can only write what sia within 1/3 300-330-3000. So I say the this money is to be distributed towards building the machine, an orphanage, a school a graveyard distributed Quran whatever fine, or giving it to the poor to the orphans. Only one sir. Can any of the IRS have a share of this 130? No, because you already have a share in the inheritance. When the person when he died, he owed the mechanic and he owed the credit card. So we settled that that will pay off the debt and the loans. We fulfill the Vasa and the remaining port ferry terminal Allah must be distributed according to what Allah said. If any person rotor was here, altering the division, like for innocence, giving the

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son an extra share who say no, it's overwritten. And we'll go back to what a lot Almighty has decided. So maybe what you heard from any scholar is that if the dead person before his or her death have written I will see here within 1/3, then this 1/3 has to be honored. Then the remaining part after that we'll see Yeah, and since then, and the debt will be distributed according to what Allah has determined in the Quran, very about him in Allah. In Allah can Alleman Hakima. And can a mother Ratos here concerning a property of the husband or it's not us, you can only write about Syria, or determine what to do something which is in your name, the deed is in your name. But if it doesn't

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belong to you, you don't have any rights over it. The husband is dead. And now our mother she's in charge, she's only in charge of 1/8 of the inheritance and the remaining part belongs to the IRS. So she cannot decide on her own what to do with the rest of the shares. Only her share which is one eight, she has the right to do whatever she wants to do. Whatever is lawful, it is okay. But the remaining part is for the rest of the years, whether the children or if the parents of the dead person are still alive, each one of whom would have 1/6 of the inheritance. JazakAllah Helen Ziva from India salam ala

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Fatima from Nigeria Salam Alikum Welcome to Hodor. TV

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Salam.

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Today's question is on pasture, Russia.

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Go ahead. I'm listening.

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Okay, Mashallah. The question is, if a person is performing the ceiling, fasting of a month, that is a yawn and with that, say 14 or 15 times

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A month

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the CR Mu Alpha OCR we only test you. So what if this person quit inside with their or Saturday? How can a person will perform the because considering the use of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam who says that large sub t

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now your cushion shettima All of that applies to if you choose the liberty to single out Friday or Saturday with fasting without unnecessary reason. Not a Friday happens to be the day of our affair and you face it on the day it's approved Saturday approved the 10s of Mahara approved and we know the sooner is Professor day before for the ft. May Allah bless your brothers and sisters by that we've come to the end of today's edition of Guardians of the pious until next time, I leave you all in the care of Allah Akula Kohli had our stuff for Lalibela como Salalah ala Sayidina Muhammad in while early he was Sahil Salam. Salam aleikum, wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest, the long annoying Glory to him on any illness to be the best against Islam religion to them, so why did they know that forgiving all about an empire that was shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day know that we're getting go about * and bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones, selling their best and cheapest

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