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The importance of providing daily prayers to direct towards Prophet Muhammad and his followers is emphasized in a live program. The importance of praying five times a day to stay connected to the Lord, avoiding major sins, and praying for the removal of sin and evil deeds is emphasized. The importance of faith and anticipating the reward of worship is emphasized, as well as avoiding major sins and working on forgiveness. Visiting the graveyard during the presence of Jesus is also emphasized, as is the importance of not trying to get caught in the "will" of others.

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So I love

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him, the only humans to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God has been greatest

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glory to Him

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to be the best, and give his religion to

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a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh smell, man rahmanir rahim. All Praise to Allah we praise Him and we seek His help whomsoever Allah guides is a truly guided one. And whosoever Allah leaves a say none can show him guidance may the best peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad. peace be upon him brothers and sisters. Welcome to another Live edition of our program, Guardians of the pious and today in sha Allah. We will begin a new episode, episode number 430. And it will be the second in the

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new chapter 187 Babu fogless salah or the excellence of offering the five daily prayers in the previous chapter, we studied together the had the idea of Surah tilaka both chapter number 29 Verse number 45, Oklahoma or here in LA Caminero Kitab waka masala and we learned what is the meaning of inner salata, then her annual fascia II one Munkar and how does the prayer and offering the prayer establishing the prayer hinders prevents and protects the person who establishes the prayer. It protects him against in decencies and all sorts of evils. We also studied a couple of Hadith concerning the effectiveness of offering the five daily prayers with regards to cleansing the

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person, the inner and the outer cleaning of the person and how the Prophet sallallahu Sallam drove the similar use or the parable of the five daily prayers similar to a river running at the door of any of us and the person is showering five times a day in the running stream today. Insha Allah will begin with Hadith number 1044.

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Indeed, with studied this hadith, even in various programs, not only in Guardians of the pious before, but this hadith is one of the most beautiful glad tidings and I think we all need it.

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It's a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity, and it is narrated by the good companion Abdullah ignoramus Road, may Allah be pleased with him. And even the Masada Radi Allahu Anhu and Allah Jhulan ASABE Amina Marathi and Coppola for at an Obeah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Bara who? For Anzahl Allahu taala.

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Of Kenan Salah Torah Fein Harry was hola familia live in Al Hasan at you the heaviness say at

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Surah tude number 114 Chapter number 11 for Colorado. Alia had a call Alicia Mary Almighty Coulomb. Whatever Khan Ali Abdullah ignoramus Road, may Allah be pleased with him, rated that once a man

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kissed a woman so he came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, and he informed him about this incident. Then the Almighty Allah revealed this idea, and number 114 Chapter number 11 Surah tude, which means and perform the prayer between the two ends of the day and in some hours of the night. Verily the good deeds, remove in race and remit the evil deeds.

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So the man asked the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him whether this applies to him only the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, No, it applies to all of my Oma. The story begins with when one of the Sahaba may Allah be pleased with them, was on his way and he met a woman whom he used to have a relationship in Jaya Helia before Islam, they will like friends,

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like boyfriends and girlfriends, and when Islam came,

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it vanishes and it vanished. All sorts of relationship between

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When a woman and a man outside marriage, there is no friendship between a man and a woman who are not either failing families, or related to each other, through marriage.

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If a person is non Muharram, to a woman, then he is not allowed to meet with her in private is not allowed to shake hands with her. He's not allowed to chat with her online or to establish any sort of friendship. So as a result of that, he severed his relations with her. But when she met him, Hey, how are you remember all days? And he ended up kissing her. Okay. As he did, so he realized that he had just committed something really terrible. How could I ever do that? And he ran to the masjid to beg the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for purification.

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And I'll tell you the reason why the companions were very keen to ask for that here or purification, even though no one have seen them.

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And then use any ask for purification, because he was under the impression that this is something measure, which requires had a punishment in the dunya. So that the punishment of the Hereafter would be waived. He was worried that he may receive a punishment like marriage, or amatola media, both were involved in an act of indecency, adultery, and you're punished and the punishment was really severe. So he said to help me a prophet of Allah purify me, and the Prophet peace be upon him came to know that he didn't actually commit adultery. He kissed, he touched, and so, so the prophets Allah Selim doesn't find in the Quran in eRecord of punishment, only punishment for touching or

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kissing. So he was quite until the area was revealed. I a number 114. Welcome is Salah Yanni establish the prayer. And in the previous episode, we have mentioned that there is a difference between the karma in a sense of offering the prayers and establishing the prayers with its due conditions. Do you assure yourself citations and pondering versus just offer it like those who go to work, they sign in and sign out, even though there is no achievement all day long. They didn't even work for 10 minutes. Now establishing the prayers the person attends the prayer attentively with for sure. So African Salah Tara in her at the two ends of the day, in the in the morning, and in the

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evening was all FMLA and at some parts of the some hours of the night. Then the Almighty Allah say the reason why the prayers were prescribed, as I mentioned in the previous episode, not all at once. And the answers a question which is presented by many youth. Tell me the reason why do I have to keep praying five times a day, if I can just pray them all in the morning, or I postponed the five prayers and I pray them all in the evening when I come back from school when I come back from work. So the Almighty said Indeed al Hassan is referring to hear in the aisles, the establishment of the prayer

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and more general any good deeds, the remit, the remove the wipe. It's opposite. It's contrary, which is a say add the evil deeds or dissents. That is a reason why we pray five times a day one of the major reasons number one to stay connected, as you mentioned in the previous episode, number two in case that due to the human nature of being forgetfulness, or being inclined into sending in case the implant into a sin, you can get something out of forgetfulness out of weakness, then the prayer will automatically take care of it even without you paying attention to it. Okay, who said that is concerning the minor sins only. NL has an attitude heaviness so take heat. When you offer the

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prayer. Keep in mind that the prayer is like showering. It removes your spoils. It removes your soils and removes your impurities, the inner and the outer part.

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It does the process of cleansing and purification and sanctification. This is great.

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So this area answered the question of this companion, that he kissed the woman but he didn't involve

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into the actual act of adultery. Okay. Then in this case you prayed us the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam asked him, Have you pray and also with us? He said, Yes. They said, then Allah has forgiven you that sin. Allah has forgiven you that sin.

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Among the audience was Almarhum hardtop and many other companions among kappa was very impressed. And he comprehended the meaning of the eye. But he wanted to verify that this is not a limited access to this person who had a question concerning his incident. He said, Oh, Prophet of Allah, is this something exclusive for this man? Or is it for all of us? So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said bell here in se Kapha. But he elocon Kapha. Rather, this area is effective for all of you, for old people, whoever commit sins, and then he attends a prayer. The prayers, Hasina, good deeds, they remove the remit, and they wipe out the bad deeds in Al Hasan at you the Hibben Assayer

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so Rama, Babu Sophie's, and I said, the higher Allah He workers, accordingly, brothers and sisters, we understand from that, the beauty of offering the prayers on time, that automatically sometimes without even realizing the prayers will remove many of our sins will remove many of our sense. Somebody may bring up another question, or maybe an objection. And he would say, okay, you know, for the past several episodes, you've been talking about the excellence of performing ablution. And also the reciting of God and have the ablution removes a sensor until they would even the sensor would come from beneath one's toes as you wash your hands as you offer will do. Correct? Correct? If it is

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so, so I'm already cleaned. What is the purpose of praying? If ablution have taken care of my sins? That's one second.

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If just praying at home will do it, then why do I have to bother and further go to the mosque and attend the congregation? And if it is, so why do you recommend me to pray supererogatory prayers before or after, if just mere offering the form? The five daily prayers will do it?

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The answer is, whatever we'll do meet, so never ablution meets since it removes it. We're talking still about the minor sins. They remit them.

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Whenever you offer, the prayer is that are still in a sense. And I have a lot of since I'm talking about myself, so I think I need the ablution and they need the prayers and I need the DUA and I need the independent repentance. And I need it before and after supererogatory prayers, night prayer, I have a lot of sins. So if your prayer meets some of these a Act, the prayer will remove them walking into the machine would remove them. What if you're so good, you're super nice. And the only few sins that you've done will do have taken care of them, then go into the machine would add and would keep pouring good deeds into your account because by the end, we have two duffel bags. One in one, we

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deposit the goodies and then the other way deposit the evil deeds. So the ablution, the prayers, the supererogatory prayers and all of that will remove some of the pawns of the bad deeds, which we have on in this law fold back. And if you don't have any, they will keep adding good deeds so that the scale of your good deeds will be heavy on the day of judgment. And this is how you will be saved and a person will be saved when the verdict was issued that their prayers and offering the five daily prayers would remove the sins as we say the minor sins are more was concerned. is such a beautiful glass tiding by wonder was this answer limited to this person? Or is it for all of us? This news

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that it is for all of us. So keep in mind that when you walk to the masjid when you perform ablution when you offer the prayer, you're anticipating that this prayer would remove the minor sense now, the following Hadith Hadith number 1045

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Seven Hadith collected by Imam Muslim

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and rated Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Allah and Allah so Allah Allah is Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam AKA a Salah to hums well Jumar to Illuminati CAFR to Lima bein Hoonah man

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Learn to shall Quebec.

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So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him says in this hadith the five daily prayers and offering the Friday prayer to the next Friday Prayer XCP eight whatever minor sins may have been committed in between, so long as major sins are avoided.

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In reality brothers and sisters

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the Hadith did not mention specifically that it excipients only the minor sins except for the fact that by the end, it says, get far too linear by in Hoonah as long as the person has avoided the major sins, and we'll see the major sins are many backbiting slandering adultery, drinking bribery, accusing falsely accusing chaste people of an act of indecency, false testimony, false witnesses, taking the property of another without the right cheating, all of that these are all major sins. So if the person have avoided all of that, and he looked at a beautiful woman, he did something minor here and there, and he offered the prayer. So the five daily prayers and also attending the Friday

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prayer until the following Friday prayer works as an execution automatic expiation like you have the washer, you know, working 24/7 24/7 non stop to take care of your minor sins as far as the condition measures Dooney but Al Qaeda or Malcolm young check ebill or man I'm too shall cover as long as you avoid the musicians that has a reference in the Quran. That is insert in is that the Almighty Allah says

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So the IRS says, If you avoid

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the major sins which you've been forbidden against,

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and you will commend it not to do, we will accept the aid from you your minor sense and furthermore, we'll admit you into a noble entry, which is paradise and number 31 chapter number four.

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And how do you know that the five daily prayers refer to the follow the prayers because the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him was asked a Bedouin once asked him, teach me what Allah has ordained upon me. So I said, come so Salawat in philleo, Mio Lila, only five daily prayers in Tafawa, which means there is extra, there is voluntary, there is separate supererogatory prayers, but what is required is only five deliveries. So the Hadith refers to those mandatory prayers, fetch the OS, Melody, Asia, even without no effort.

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Those who offered the five daily prayers on time on regular basis, and those who attend the Friday prayer, Salah told you more. Until the next Friday, prayer is an execution for whatever minor sins they commit provided the avoid the major sins, some of the rules require that they say, well, the forgiveness of the minor sins will not take place unless the person actually avoids the major sense. But enamel nawawi and many others have a broader understanding of that. And they said no, no, no, it doesn't mean that it means if the person was indulged into a major sin,

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so and also minor sins, obviously, so far in the five daily prayers and attending the Friday until the next Friday, would only remit

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and forgive the minor sins. But the major sins would require the person to work on them by quitting the sense by seeking forgiveness by making a strong covenant with God that he is not going to do it again. Then the same will be forgiven.

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The other group Buddhist scholars say no, no, no. The IRS says that if you avoid major sins, then the minor sins will be forgiven. That is correct. Generally speaking, avoiding major sins would lead to forgiving the minor sins. But the idea of Salah we're Archana Salah Takara failed hurry was will FM in a line and also a Salah to comes while Juma to Elijah mwah mocha FIRA to Lima in Hernandez dunya battle cada me

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means rather that they would only forgive the minor sins.

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As for the major sins, they would require the person to make an independent repentance from each one of those sins. May Allah grant us all forgiveness brothers and sisters, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said in the Hadith with regards to the Friday prayer, some Hadith Narrated by Abu Orion man TAO of Darfur, Sana Lulu we've learned that already whoever perfect is ablution soon metal Jumada for STEM our answer. Then he goes to the masjid. He attends the Friday sermon, and he listens. He doesn't distract himself by anything from the speech were answered, He listened attentively warfare Allah, whomever you know, whoever in a room it was he added one salsa, yeah.

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So if the person makes you do and he goes to the Friday prayer to attend the Juma from the beginning from the beginning of the Friday sermon, then he doesn't do anything during the prayer like you know, to distract his attention or others. The Almighty Allah will forgive him the sins which will committed between this Yama and the previous Joomla or the following Joomla. Okay, an extra three days, so total will be 10 days, 10 days, the minor sins will be forgiven, because of making perfect will do and walk into the machine and attended the Friday prayer. Now, you know, how many people are in the loss how many Muslims they only leave home when they figure that it's already two minutes

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since the hobo started. Or they know that the enamel finish at 130. So they go on 25 They are not interested in listening to the Friday Sermon list. The Imam will talk about the provision of interest. I don't want anyone to mess up my my life or my career. I'm cool like that. No, you got to attend before the Imam sits up on the member or the pulpit so that you listen from the beginning. If this is if this is the case, then you will be granted the forgiveness for 10 days. All the miners since May Allah subhanaw taala grant us this honor also, in another Hadith about a human Ansari, may Allah be pleased with him said whoever performs Austen on Friday, and where's perfume if he has any

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and puts on his best clothes, then he goes to the masjid on Friday, and he offers you know, the voluntary prayers whether the greeting of the masjid or voluntary prayers before the Juma and he doesn't and no, it doesn't hurt anyone, or unsought and he listened attentively to the Friday sermon. Kanika fall to lima bean, our Belgium wattle okra, so this practice will work as an explanation for the minor sins, if there was any minor sins committed between the Joomla and either the previous Joomla or the following Joomla if the person is doing that, on a regular basis,

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and the other Hadith also talks about fasting for Ramadan, Ramadan, and this is very obvious because Ramadan by itself, the month of Ramadan is a big, big package of for word. The Messenger of Allah said, Whoever observes fasting during Ramadan out of faith and anticipating the reward, all his sins will be forgiven. Whoever prays during the nights of Ramadan, the night prayer or Tara we are of faith and anticipating the reward. All his previous sins will be forgiven not only between the two Ramadan's, all his previous sins, and whoever attends les little Kadri, while in a state of worship, all his previous sins will be forgiven. The two conditions is number one out of faith number two,

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anticipating the promise reward. So a person who is revolving around these acts of worship will figure that, well, this A Baghdad will not just some sort of rituals because God loves to see us bound down before Him and so on. It is number one for the benefit of our own selves. Number two, it brings us closer to God number three remits our sins, and it makes our DUA and supplication more worthy to be accepted. Brothers and sisters, it's a very interesting Hadith. And I believe sha Allah will take some more Hadees but when we come back from a short break, inshallah we'll be back in a couple of minutes please stay tuned.

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Have you?

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Mr. Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back.

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To remind you with our phone numbers, you should appear on the bottom of the screen for your reference. And I would like to pick one of the questions which were sent to me during this episode by our viewers, sir matura, as at mature is saying, but share, shouldn't we repent and try to leave the minor sins to? Don't they eventually lead us to measure sins? If we keep ignoring them? Of course, no doubt, all the Hadith we've been discussing. Not a single one of whom encourages the reader or the seeker of knowledge or the audience to Okay, enjoy committing sense, then don't worry about it, the prayer will take care of it. No, not at all. It shares with us the vast Mercy of Allah

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Almighty, as how many sins that we do not even recall. We cannot keep count. So those minor sins which will don't recall or don't keep count, and we've done out of ignorance, out of negligence out of forgetfulness, the Most Merciful were remade them through ablutions through offering the prayers, through Istighfar, through sitting in the masjid, et cetera. But meanwhile, we are encouraged, as he says, What who will Allah Who Jamia and a You mean when Allah Allah come to flee home? Oh, we will believe all of you turn Unto Allah with repentance in order to be successful.

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It never says that. You can commit as much sins as you want, then go to the masjid and do worry about it will take care of it. And I've often mentioned that even the minor sins.

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Once the person keeps insisting on doing them, they turn to become major sins accordingly. One have to be careful. You're dealing with Allah, Allah of what some of the beautiful Salaf said, Don't you look at

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the size of the sin because some people's are not so just a minor sin. rather look at whom did you sin against whom did he disobey?

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He's the greatest, even if the disobedience or the sin is a minor sin, and Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah

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since the ESEA. From the case a will come to Guardians of the pious, go ahead.

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And think for one question, Can women go and make dua in a graveyard for the dead person? And the second, just want to inquire how this shakes right now. We are making dua for him. We are in good shape. Okay. Thank you, Sister. So

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she's asking our dear respected sister is asking about women going to the graveyard and making work for the dead people to benefit the dead people, those who passed away, and they're helpless. So making dua for them.

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We answered repeatedly, the question about women going into the graveyard and how there is a difference of opinion. And I say, I am of the view that it is permissible for a woman to visit the graveyard Lucky man Exactly. Because of number one, when the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam permitted people, the believers to go to the graveyard, he did not make any distinction. He didn't say only men. He said, Allah in the Quran, don't know how to commands Jacobo Allah fazua.

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Earlier, the first stage of Islam is forbidden everybody from going through the graveyard except to bury our dead because of the community was very polluted. And the faith was not still clear, and people would still go and back from the dead and so on. So don't go to the graveyard just to bury the dead people and come back. And then when people realize the pure concept of monotheism, and you have learned the meaning of that, not to ask but from Allah not to seek the help of other than the Almighty Allah not to invoke other than the Almighty Allah. Now there is a greater benefit of visiting the graveyard. He said, Now visit the graveyard because it reminds you of death. So

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reminder. So this reminder is needed for women as it is needed for men. And also due to the fact that I showed the Allahu anha as the messenger of Allah or prophet of Allah, if I visit the graveyard what should they say? So he didn't say no, you're not allowed to go. Rather he taught her this

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application. And we all know the incident of the woman who was mourning the death of her son. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam didn't forbid her from coming to the graveyard. Rather he forbade her against mourning, and objecting to Allah's decree. So now, if a man or a woman go to the graveyard to take heed to remember this and to make dua for the dead people love when my parent, my son, my child, my spouse, or in person, I just want to make dua for them. Is it permissible? It's permissible. What is the difference? The hadith so far? Aisha Radi Allahu Allah. She asked him a prophet of Allah whenever I visited the graveyard, what should I say? She's asking about the

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invocation. You said say a salam Wa alaykum Allah Dr. In Mina, Mina al Muslimeen. May peace be with you. The winners of these homes are believers and Muslims that by itself is a DUA. You're asking Allah to give them security to give them peace.

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Then there is another dua after you say when the Insha Allah, Allah when he says Ness, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Kumala Afia, we ask Allah to pardon us unto Pardini What is this? That's a DUA. So if I stand in a say, I'm standing facing the Qibla and visiting my late grandpa graveyard, or loved one, and they say, Oh ALLAH forgive Him His sin. Will Allah have mercy on her? Will Allah make their games a garden of paradise? Is it permissible? Yes, sister. It's permissible. Baraka Luffy.

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Now, with the less Hadith in the chapter, I believe so yes,

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that will chapter number 187 the excellence of offering the five daily prayers let's Hadith Hadith number 1046. Animals man if now Fern or of the Allahu Anhu called Surya to rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah He was a lemma Cool

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man minimally in Muslim in boo Salah to make to button your sin whoo whoo whoo

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Illa can Africa fart and Lima Kamala Homina Zulu marlim tota Kabira with early Kedah, Herat Kula, great, great, great news.

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In this hadith, a great companion of many Marfan Amir Mini, may Allah be pleased with him said, I've heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him saying, whenever a Muslim

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attends a prescribed prayer, whenever it is due and he offers the prayer correctly by performing it's perfect we'll do and it's an act of Bowing and prostration properly and who should tranquility and serenity and paying attention in his prayer to his reciting then this prayer will be an explanation for his past sins What a minute, long as he so long as he doesn't commit the major sins, and this applies at the hara cooler, as long as he lives. Perfect, masha Allah will be back with you after this code as salaam alaikum

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ye Isha from Sudan. Salam Alikum

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walaikum salam Wa Rahmatullah said, Yeah. Welcome to the program.

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I'm doing fine. Hamdulillah. Thank you for

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sharing. I just wanted to have a person with just a little bit digress. But somebody asked for advice. I just wanted to know what I should tell. If, for example, one got married to somebody who was not a Muslim, but he he announced that he wants to become a Muslim. Again, the OMA was really practicing. But after sometimes they back to the husband's country, but it's like he left all the T's and commas he was doing in Islam and started going back to the auditing, drinking and nightclubbing and I think girlfriends and the lady asking in this kind of situation, what actual to see take. Okay, I got your question, brother, Abu.

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Aisha, I'm receiving some complaints from the viewers that the sound is not clear.

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Can you confirm that?

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Some viewers are complaining that the sound is not clear and there's a lot

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have equity in it.

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All right. The answer is our Isha. Every time I'm asked, there is this guy who reverted and I want to marry him. No, don't marry him. What is wrong? Didn't the Prophet SAW Salem gave his cousin to Bilal and Abdurrahman now, Sister to this? And that? And yes, correct. We first want to confirm that this person, whether it's he or she are really Muslims.

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You know, they accepted Islam, willingly for the sake of God, not to marry you, the girls who chat with boys online, and they say, well, he cannot marry me unless you become Muslim. So he becomes Muslim for her. And they get married and defend with the goal is celebrate my door or meet somebody accept Islam, which is not true.

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Which is not true. The case that you've mentioned, happens a lot is very, you know, very often, I want to check out whether the person accepted Islam for the sake of God or not, what if I'm not giving you my daughter in marriage? Would you change your mind? Oh, yes, right away. I had one you, then you didn't really accept? Yes, ma'am. You were manipulating us just to marry the God. And that would not make the marriage valid.

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You know, as Imams living in North America and non Muslim countries, we have our ways to verify whether the person is sincere in their Islam or not. The problem is with the Muslim families who celebrate that when somebody comes from abroad, nice looking man, and he accepted Islam when just today or last week, or a month ago. What does he know about Islam, he's willing to learn everything, he started speaking some Arabic words, and he likes our food. All of that doesn't declare that the person has really reverted to the deen of Allah, willingly. And he loves Islam, and he's ready for the sacrifices. Many times brothers and sisters, this is this happens a lot. So the sister calls and

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she says, Well, I'm pregnant now. And I have kids. And now I don't know what to do. And they love what the husbands who are not Muslims, this marriage relationship is invalid. Because Allah Almighty didn't allow it in the first place. But because there was a Shubha and doubt, you know, you're given the benefit of doubt, but it shouldn't last. The person should be given the ultimate I married you as a Muslim person. What if a Muslim guy quit Muslim born in Islam, but he doesn't pray, he drinks, he goes to the nightclub he has good friends? Why do you have to live with him?

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You would rather live in a shelter and not live with a man who is corrupt and wicked like that. So no questions asked about this. My advice to the parents my advice to the parents, when it's not only about the boys except in Islam. Also, it goes both ways. When your son is chatting with a girl, and he purchases a ticket for her. She comes from overseas and she spends a week with you. And she accepts Islam. Why? Because she's a love with your child. He or she when they get married? Are they willing to practice the deed? Are they willing to get used to our you know, beautiful Islamic traditions are known I cannot take it maybe the light for a week or two. There is a major difference

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between those who find Islam find faith and they accept Islam willingly and they are willing to give any sacrifice for the sake of their Deen. Those people are worth helping and marrying them and giving them outdoors and marriage. Not the other way around not because he is a love with your child. She's a love with your child right away you give them no you got to verify that whether they truly accepted Islam or not, especially if your child he or she will be traveling abroad. And nowadays it's happening in a lot because the youth

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the youth will they don't like it in the Muslim societies anymore. A lot of corruption, a lot of oppression a lot of wrongdoing, lack of freedom. So the find the virtual life, Durer online and the chat with somebody from another country. And they get along and they you know, they like each other and they get married. Their dream is to leave their society to go to the free world. And when they yield to the free world, they get shocked. They realize that this is not the heaven that they will look

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In for, I cannot hear the other chair. Well, I've married a couple. There was a sir od guy.

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Born and raised in Makkah. He came to me in the states and said that, you know, I've met this girl again online and invited her to Islam and she accepted Islam. And now she came, she's in my flat, we want to get married. So he put me he cornered me. Okay, so I met with the girl. Nice girl. Why did he accept Islam have convinced etc. And I want to help them. So I married them together.

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A week later.

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He phoned me and he said, check. I want to divorce her. Why is a chair I am born and raised in Makkah. And now I myself, I myself, buy the liquor and the beer for her, I buy wine for her. I'm involved in measure sense. I'm in love with her. And I'm afraid that she is going to take me away from the deal. Yes, she will. Because she didn't accept Islam, because she knew what monotheism is. And she knew that it comes with a package. And there are five times a day that she has to pray. And there is a hijab, and there is fasting, Ramadan, a person who truly recognize the oneness of God would be willing to do all of that with pleasure, and they would love it.

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Because he found what they were looking for the peace of mind that come for, for their eyes, but she married you, you're, you're you're a different creature, with a different complexion, coming from a different world, she wants to check out a new person, you know, and in case that, you know, she doesn't like you, she will dump you.

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So we have to be careful brothers and sisters, marriage is the biggest step a person

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takes in his or her life. It shouldn't be taken lightly. And the decision making shouldn't be innocent, right on the spot. You look at a person you like or she likes you she will get married. No, we have to verify, you know, I want to know who's going to be the mother of my kids. You should know who's going to be the father of your kids, whether he's Muslim or not whether he prays and he gets up on on his own for federal prayer or not. Whether he's willing to fast and earn lawfully and provide for you lawfully or not. You know, I don't want to say also his family, because this is how it should be. You don't marry just the person, you know, two families actually merge. So again,

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think about it think don't think about your innocent desire, or even lust. rather think about your offspring,

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your children, the next generation, and how would you like to them to be raised? So brothers and sisters, in the last Hadith I quoted that the person less Hadith in the chapter 1046 The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, If you perfect the widow, and you establish the prayer correctly, proper ruku, proper sujood proper horseshoe, then you will get the package of remitting the sins which were committed between the present not just jumping around on jumping jacks, or you know, offering the hierarchy the movements, but also you pray with for sure, because the prophets Allah Allah, Allah selama said, a person may leave the prayer, and he gets zeal reward of his prayer, because he wasn't

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attentive in his prayer and another would get 10% or 25% or 50% based on the amount of Sure. So the amount of for sure the amount of perfect in your prayer will determine whether those sins will be forgiven or not, and whether the prayer will be accepted or not. And as you said, peace be upon him whether he can Dara Kula who as long as you live forever, may the Almighty Allah grant us forgiveness of all look Holy hell that was step four, Allah Allah Allah, wa salam ala ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallahu wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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Have a

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love our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He wants us to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah Allah God has been greatest, the long annoying Glory to him on any illness to be the best. Again

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Is this religion to them? So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day know that forgetting about helicopter dies. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best and cheapest

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