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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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You must to be against his best religion to Allah Our God is the Greatest. The one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, give his best religion.

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Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha was salam ala over the hill the dean of suffer. Let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa seldom at the Sleeman kathira. My dear brothers and sisters Welcome to another Live edition of our program Guardians of the pious and today in sha Allah will begin a new episode with a new chapter, episode number 397 Chapter number 164. In explaining the beautiful collection of Imam nawawi, may Allah have mercy on him, what is known as the eldest Swahili and the chapter these will diversions and the word for one who lost young children in his own life.

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And no doubt that this is one of the biggest tests to lose a child to lose a loved one. Particularly if this loved one is an infant, a baby or a child, a grown up child, whom you expect him to live, to go to high school to college, to graduate to be a doctor, you get married, and you witness his wedding and or her wedding and all of that, and then all of a sudden the person is grieved with the loss of one of his most beloved or her most beloved. So the Shatter these with the Father man Matt Allahu, I will add one server that worked for one who is

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grieved with the death of infants. The first Hadees we have brothers and sisters

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is Hadith number 950 to 950 to some of the viewers are watching us for the first time. And yes, indeed Alhamdulillah by the Grace of Allah and over a period of maybe seven years now. We've been studying the great collection of Riyadh Saudi Hain and we have reached Hadith number 952. In addition to mini AR, which Inanna we listed in the beginning of the chapters. This hadith is agreed upon its authenticity. It is narrated by the prophet servant and Sidney Malik karate Allah one called kala Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam Mammen Muslim in amo toda who Salah satin la mia blue will hints il holla hula hula Jana befogged della matiee Yeah whom

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the hadith is agreed upon its authenticity. Man Mammon muslimin here Mottola who Salah satin lamea global Hansa il holla hula hula Janita befogged lira Mati iya, Matata, Kannada Anna Sydney Malik are all the Allahu Anhu narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, any Muslim who loses three children before they reach the age of maturity will be granted Paradise by Allah the Exalted out have mercy upon them or for them, and we will learn the pronoun for them or upon them, refers to the parents or the infants in the children who died.

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But from the Hadith we understand that the Prophet sallallahu ala Sena put a condition that whoever loses young children lemmya Blue will hence the word Al hence

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was mentioned in the Quran in surah Al workarea

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when Allah Almighty spoke about the three categories, acerbic wanna say the cone whether it can Makara Boon then us Harbin may manatee mas Harbin may mana then as hobbled mesh Emma Tomas How will mesh Emma when he came to speak about us Hubbell mesh em, the people who will be arraigned on the Day of Judgment, may Allah spare us and going to salvation on the day of judgment can also Runa al haensi Lovely. So the word hence is mentioned in Surah Al waka, there is hands and there is hence hence the refers to the sin and hence Alavi refers to and measures

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Lesson, which in this era refers to the act of disbelief or associating partners Allah in worship. So when the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah cinema says if any person loses children under the age of puberty, they have not reached and hence they have not reached maturity. And how do we recognize reaching maturity?

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That's an important question. In the sound Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu ala selama, said roofie al Kalam and Salas

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al Kalam is a pen, but not this pen and not any pen. It is a pen which records our actions, good or bad as you know that in Surah

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Kahf Allah Almighty says, male female or male kawalan Illa de Hiraki evil naughty read.

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He stated in this ayah that anything anything that a person alters, it will be recorded by two angels or one of the two angels. Both of them are anxiously waiting to record anything that the person would do or keep on it or not the names of the angels. Rather it is the description of the two angels one on the right shoulder and one on the left shoulder. They are anxiously waiting to record and writing anything you do and anything you say.

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The prophets Allah Allah, Allah cinema, say the recorders, describers, the angel who the angels will record our actions.

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They do not record the actions of three categories of people. Number one is a Saudi had Diablo, a sabe a child, he or she boy your God until they reach and hence until they reach the age of puberty,

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puberty and the age of maturity. What is the age of puberty? For girls, it's very simple once ago experiences the menses, Hollis. She is earlier in Islam. So the actions will be recorded, good or bad. Before maturity and before the age of puberty, the actions only the good is recorded and the person that child will be rewarded for it. So if you take your child for Hajj for innocence,

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is the Hajj valid. Even if it is a baby? Well, a woman who's performing Hajj along with the Prophet salaallah Salam in the Pharaoh had inherited WADA and she left a child and she said oh prophet of Allah, Allah had a hunch

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would had for this baby be accepted, it's valid for this baby to perform Hajj. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said, Nam? Well, I can add

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Yes indeed. And you will be rewarded to because you're carrying the baby. You're a companion, your child.

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But this is not the mandatory Hajj. So once the child reaches the age of puberty, they still owe hajat to Islam, once in their lifetime, to perform Hajj. And the Hadith rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah selama said, Alamo Hola, como salah. That is

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you gotta teach your children as how to pray. And behold the prayer how to make wudu and before the Tahara how to make a stranger which is cleaning up and purifying oneself, after answering the call of nature, removing the impurities. Performing will do all of that as early as at the age of seven, you should learn what to recite in standing and record ensued and to pray properly. And then the start practicing, while the removal and ash which means and discipline them if they don't pray at the age of 10, even though they have not reached the age of puberty unit yet, because most of kids do not achieve the age of puberty at the age of 10. Some do. For boys and girls, one of the very

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prominent signs of reaching the age of puberty is experiencing the word dreams.

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Okay. And if a child experiences our dream at the age of 10, then he's available. He's an adult, he

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or she is an adult in Islam. All their actions will be recorded from now. And that's why I like to remind myself and my dear viewers that once you have a child started reaching eight, nine and 10 You gotta be very cautious and explain to them the meaning of the blue and the science of reaching the age of property, including what would dream is all about and what would that require and entail or performing hostile to remove the major impurity, being responsible for your actions and so on, and raise the awareness of Allah's presence in our minds and hearts because now they are a mess to lead

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accountable. That is the meaning of law. And hence, the prophets. A lot of selama said a child until reaching the age of puberty is not to be accounted.

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And elders know how to feel a person who is experiencing,

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you know, Insanity,

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or unconscious, doesn't know what he's doing is mentally disturbed, is not responsible for the actions. And the third category is one night in hacker cycles, a person who's asleep until he or she wakes up. So if they do anything by accident while they're asleep, they're not to be accounted for that. Our concern is with our sabe had Diablo or sabe the child he or she until they reach the age of puberty. Rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah selama says, if any person, if any parent and that when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam uses the masculine form, it does not mean only the man or the father, it refers to the mother as well. The parents if they lose a child, under the age of puberty,

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he said selesa in this hadith, he said, If any parents last three children under the age of puberty, l Hello. Hello, Jana, Byfuglien matiee. Allah promises

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and confirms such parents shall enter Paradise, he said before Lyra Mati Marathi II yeah home, out of Mercy out of having mercy on them on whom the pronoun refers to the children, to the infants to the babies. When

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the interpreter saw them in a chair, I think you just brought up a very important matter, which is, what is the fate of the kids who die under the age of puberty? And what is the hook for those who die under the age of puberty? If they belong to Muslim parents versus non Muslim parents? I knew that you're going to ask this question. Answering this question will help us understand the pronoun of biphobia rahmati Iam are having mercy on them on the children. There is

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almost a general consensus, if not general consensus, you can say the vast, vast majority of the Muslim scholars

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are in agreement that

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if Muslim parents lose a child, under the age of puberty, this child is going directly to paradise. And he or she will not be accountable whatsoever.

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Why not? Because he belong to Muslim parents and if they were to grow up, they will be treated as Muslims and since they died under the age of puberty, they are not accountable, they are not responsible anymore. So Allah subhanho wa Taala said in Surah, 221 Levina. Man what? To do RIA to whom ve Nyan in Al Haq, on the Hindu reata. Home, those who believe and their offspring, there is a RIA followed them in faith, and how can I be him the Reatta when they enter Paradise, we make their offspring enter paradise as well. So if a child died under the age of puberty, and his parents or her parents were Muslims, so those children are going straight to heaven, good news

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in Surah LKF have a very interesting story the story of Musa and another piece be upon them

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when I'll cover did something at Pier two Musa as terrible

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and he did not object to with Arrow forgetfulness. He was deliberate in his objection, luckier hula Katella. They were once they disembarked, and they got off the boat, and he did what he did. Now while they're walking, he met with a bunch of kids who were playing, and he picked the one of the kids and he killed him.

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He separated his head or he killed him. Musa Ali Salam couldn't tolerate that. Is it? Enough Sam below enough sin? A cartel tennis and Zakia Tom Brady nefs loca DJ Tasha and nohcra What is wrong with you, man? How dare you kill an innocent child? Without any justification? He did. He can no one that is a minute will be light enough to because he didn't kill anyone. So why do you kill him? Look, a digital cache a new camera. If done something terrible, you've committed a major sin. What kind of a pious person you are. What did he say? Later on when he came to explain? He said, What ml will M have again? I mean, if you're cashing in and you're a woman to Jana, welcome. So Aradhana

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you'll be de la humara Buma Hi

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Rahman moussaka, what,

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what happened is that Allah subhanaw taala knew in the knowledge of the Unseen that the parents who are pious were righteous, but that child will belong to Muslim parents if he was to live, whenever he would grow up, you'll give them a very hard time. And he can even actually lead them to disbelief and disobedience. So Allah Almighty wanted to give them a better replacement.

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Why? And what kind of replacement? Number one, the child who died under the age of puberty, now we save that he's going to paradise? Number two, the parents for their patience, Allah the Almighty said, in the Hadith, when he takes the child of a person, he asked the angels of death. Did he take the soul and the sweet heart and the fruit of his heart of my servant? They say yes. So he asked them and he knows best. After he says, a husband, thermometer for ad, he says to them, and what did he do? How did he react? So they say your Bahama Dhaka was Tarja. Will you say Alhamdulillah? Alhamdulillah for the death of your son? Yes. Alhamdulillah for the loss of Your most Beloved, yes.

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What if you don't say Alhamdulillah? What can you do? Can you bring him back to life?

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Did any person believers or non believers from beginning until now have you ever heard of any person who whenever the objected to the pre ordained men, the divine destiny, the Divine Decree, and he made a big deal out of it, they were able to recruit or collect back their losses, their children came back to life it never happened. So what happens you encounter two losses. This is the reality the child has died because he was destined to die or she was destined to die at this age. So the best bet and the best reaction is to be patient. And to say Alhamdulillah for everything Allah has granted me, the son or the daughter, and he has taken them back. They lay him out while he lay him.

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Welcome to che in and then we'll be agile in Muslim. So enduring this calamity patiently and saying Alhamdulillah Allah Almighty says to the angels, urban only have the right and Phil Jana was a Moodle based at hand build the house for my server in paradise and name it the house of Alhambra of praise. He has praised me so he will get a palace in Paradise and it has a name, the house or the parents of the praise or an

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almost line

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and I will tell her almost lying is also the mother of aniseed Nia Malika Radi Allahu, and

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she married to a person by the name, I will tell her and they had a child, he was severely sick. When I would not have left to take care of his business. His son was sick, he had fever, he was aching, he was in pain. And when he returned,

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he asked his wife, how's our baby? She said, He's much quieter than before. It's very quiet. Meanwhile, she had prepared dinner for him. And she had prepared herself and adorn herself. So after he ate the embrace each other and he had sexual relations. Okay.

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And afterward, she had

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supposedly conversation with a bottle. She said here about Aloha. I have a question for you. Some neighbors gave a loan or lend something to their neighbors. Now the neighbors want it back.

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Should they give it back to them? He said, Of course, it's an Amana as a trust, it should be rendered to its owners. She said if this is the case, about Allah. Then Allah Almighty took back his Amana. He took back our child, he said, What do you mean? She said, Our son is dead. Allah talkback is a manner.

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He was very angry.

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He was very angry. Why? Not because he loves his child. He's a believer, but because his wife let him eat, drink and even have intimate relationship with her. And his son has died.

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So he went to prefetch and he met with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam.

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And he told him the story. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam prays with almost all I did, and he prayed for them and he said Baraka Hola Hola, como de la isla de Kuma. May Allah bless you in that night in this seed that you planted. So Allah give them a better replacement and from their offspring 10 sons they have own memory

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Is your Quran Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught us that no matter what losses you encounter, say the following supplication which the viewers who have been watching us, since the beginning have heard it, maybe a couple of times, there is no problem to say it again. To say Allah who met your nephew, mostly Betty, work lovely, hire Mina to say, what Allah reward me for my patience and endurance upon the loss of my, you know, child, spouse, parent, or anything. In anything even material. My car was totaled, Allah who has your nephew masala tea, I'm enduring that patient. I'm being quiet. I say that Hamdulillah I said in Nalina Nyla June, we all belong to Allah

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and unto Him we shall return. Then you say hola hola German if you mostly Betina we anticipate the promise reward. And all of the higher Amina give me better than what I lost. The prophets Allah Allah Allah cinema said most certainly Allah will grant him better than what he lost.

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Confirmed 100% Because this is Allah's promise, he revealed to His Prophet Salah Salem, and he shared that with us. And people have been trying, you know, this experience, and it never messes. Why? Because this is Allah's promise. So when you lose a loved one, the real patience is observed at the first shock, not couple days later. Now after you calm down and people ask you to be patient, after all the mess that you said and you made, it makes no sense. When the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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was visiting the graveyard and he passed by a woman who's sitting by a grave, and she was weeping. She was wailing, she was crying, and she was making some very terrible remarks, like objecting to Allah's decree. Why did you do that to me? You know, I'm not saying this what she said. But I'm just saying, similarly, a lot of people do so. Take it sighs Allah's decree. They criticize Allah's wisdom saying, why don't you have mercy? Some people says that to Allah subhanaw taala why, why do you hurt me like that? I worship you. I give it to charity. Why do you treat me like that? You know, such remarks would blow away the word, and it will never recover the losses. So the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi salam approached her quietly and she said, yeah, and at Allah, it definitely let her was very, oh the servant of Allah, Be patient, feel your Lord. She said elect can leave me alone. Failure can also be mostly Betty had not been afflicted with my calamity. You don't know what I'm going through, to preach me and to give me so when the prophets Allah Salam heard that he left her alone because it was not the right time to say any further word. When he left. She was told, how dare you say that to the Messenger of Allah. She said that was a messenger of Allah. And she ran to chase him, and he had entered his house. So when she reached his house, and she came to apologize,

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam diverted her attention from apologizing to him for her affair remarks, but rather he said, enamel Sabra and a sudden metal ruler, the real patients is whenever you experience the shock at first, not later. So this is a very important reminder brothers and sisters. Now we know the prophets Allah Salam said before there are matiee at home. Yeah, only because Allah will have mercy on the children so you will not grieve them to send them to heaven, and to let their parents somewhere else. May Allah guide us what is best. We actually got to take a short break and we'll be back in Sharla in a couple of minutes please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back my dear brothers and sisters we have phone numbers for you ready to give us a call to present your questions if you have any questions. It is preferable though to have the questions pertaining to the topic. Area code 0020238 treble 5131 This is a landline and there is another WhatsApp number for your easy access and free call. All your calls, no messages on either phones, area code 001234780600 to five and obviously Al Hamdulillah We're going live on my page as well that is M Salah officiant

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and I'm taking the quiz

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and also from the page on Hamdulillah. We're sure Karela now, we have a couple of things to address before we move on to the next Hadith. The first is, Jeff, you've mentioned the fate of the children of Muslims who die under the age of puberty. The children of Muslim parents.

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What about the children of non Muslim parents?

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Would they go to heaven?

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Like the kids or belong to Muslim parents? Because they haven't done anything bad? And he died under the age of puberty? Okay, let me answer this question by saying we don't know Allahu Allah will be highly him. How do you like this answer? We have no assurance we have no confirmation. Maybe Allah will test them on the Day of Judgment. May Allah admitted into Paradise by His mercy. Well, we know for sure that the Muslim kids, the believing kids, whether from the time of Prophet Ibrahim, to our time, who belong to Muslim and believing parents, when they die, they go straight to heaven, as long as they die before the age of puberty. Their parents, if they endure this calamity, patiently, they

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follow them, and they enter Paradise because of their patience. Whereas

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this is pertaining to the outcome of the hereafter. I don't know what will happen to them.

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So there is no point of deferring and saying Yo, some would say interpret or some would say the follow the parents. I don't know. We don't know for sure. But Allah Almighty is most merciful, and we hope and pray that they will all enter paradise. But the question was not really concerning what is going to happen to them on the Day of Judgment? It is concerning the

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the verdicts and the ruling concerning those kids if they die in the dunya we as Muslims, what are we supposed to do with them?

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Do we offer the funeral prayer for them like in the masjid as Muslims, and we

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take them to the Muslim graveyard and bury them there? Nope. Nope, they will not be treated as Muslims concerning the camp of the dunya brothers and sisters.

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Al Imam Muslim, in his sound collection rated a hadith that a person by the name Abu Hassan said to Abu Hurayrah the Allah and that he lost two of his children. So do you have any Hadith that you recall from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to to comfort me and to give me some assurance we had this into play you we unfortunate and Montana

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and to it to give me some patience. Sabrina said yes, indeed. I have a hadith serovar on the arm useful Janna those who die under the age of puberty, will be like the babies in paradise. Yet Allah, whomever who, that one of them would receive his father in here in the hereafter fair who will be set will be I will be at the camp who Anna be soon episode 50 based on fatties, that will be Kochava fell Atana AlFalah into into different iterations have you feel a hula? Hula, hula Jana, as a sound Hadees. What we have here is when somebody loves to his children, he said to Abu Hurayrah Do you recall any Hadith or any reminder in disregard from the Prophet SAW Selim in order to give us some

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comfort and assurance? He said yes. And he said that the prophets Allah Allah cinema said, on the Day of Judgment, those young babies

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who happen to die under the age of puberty, their parents who are Muslims, they will not enter paradise until they take their parents with them. They will get a hold of their clothes or their hands and they will adhere to them until Allah subhanaw taala admit them own into paradise. So this again Beshara rasool Allah is Allah Allah Selim In a separate incident used to sit in the halka. And there was a man who used to bring his child with him. And his trial used to hang around and play around, jump back and forth and all of that. Then what happened? Brothers and sisters,

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child died.

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The Prophet SAW Selim, they didn't know about that. And his father stopped coming to the house.

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He doesn't show up anymore. Why he doesn't want to remember that I used to sit here and my son will jump over my shoulders and come back and sit in my lap and all of that. So when the Prophet SAW Selim said, What happened to this man who used to sit here, they said, Yeah, rasool Allah has

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Son died. And he is in deep sorrow and grief. And that's why he doesn't come anymore. So the prophets of salaam Won't he visited them and he condole him. And he presented to him this question brothers and sisters, the greatest assurance that grace is comfort one's eyes, when you lose a loved one, especially a son, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Would you like to enjoy his life throughout your life that allows you to spare his life until he grows up, he gets married, he gets a job, then you see his children and you see your grandchildren. Or you would rather see him and meet him in paradise, that you find him at every gate of paradise of the eight gates, he's ahead of you,

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and he's opening the door for you. To enter Paradise, he said, I would rather pick up the second choice of Prophet of Allah, I would rather have him in front of me, entering paradise and opening the door of heaven for me. So Allah subhanaw taala, is the most merciful, maybe I am kind of weak, in doing a better in doing good deeds, full of shortcomings of committed a lot of sins. So Allah subhanaw taala, gave me a boost away to enter Paradise, without suffering, through a test that I experienced in the dunya, that guarantees that one's child into paradise and his parents to enter paradise. I know on the other hand, some people come up to that cannot take that, and they will

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object and condemn and they will make remarks as once I had,

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you know, that was session with an atheist French person. And, you know, I happen to ask him that, when did you decide to become atheist? Are you born atheist? He said, No, as a matter of fact, I belong to a Christian practicing Christian family. And for Catholic, then what happened? He said that my mother lost her baby, my baby sister died. So my mother and I decided that God does it deserve our worship, and among what he said, and he cared to calculate that because I'm just quoting what he said. To remind the viewers of what some would say during this time during the calamity, you say that God is rude. So it's like the punished him will not worshiping you anymore. So I surprised

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him with this question and said and did that bring back your sister to life? He said, No, I said, Okay, so basically, you didn't punish God you just punished yourself. You know, it the conversation had a great impact on him to reconsider really believe in Allah Almighty, and to accept Islam as the only true religion.

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The catching that brothers and sisters is objecting to Allah decrees will never change it. You hear the word Kadar, Allahu wa Masha, Allah decrees whatever he wants, and he does whatever He decrees and no one can stop Allah from fulfilling his decree. In another Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said, Ma'am, in Muslim, he was referring to the two parents, husband and wife, Mo to buy now home as Allah to Allah. They let me have Logan Hansa, in at huller. Whom Allah Who? Before Lyra. matiee will Jana? If any parents now he's talking about the parents, mostly mainly, the husband and wife, the father and the mother. If they lose three children in the lives under the age of puberty, indeed,

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Allah Almighty will admit them to paradise out of having mercy on the children so that they will not suffer that the parents no matter how bad and how terrible were the parents, they will still enter paradise. The following Hadith brothers and sisters is Hadith number 953 Hadith number 953. And above you already are author of the Allahu Anhu called kala Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Laya moodily had a meaning and most demeanor salah satu Minal malady Latin a su now a letter Hillel Casa

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inlet the hell Atticus and this hadith is agreed upon its authenticity brothers and sisters,

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the healer tool custom kulula to Allah in men come in our Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him. The rate that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in the Hadith,

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a Muslim whose three children die in infancy, infancy, will not be touched by Hellfire except for the head.

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Let al Qasim what is the highlight of Kasam at the Hella is to make halal. Al Qassam is the oath to hell that Al Qassam is to fulfill a large oath. And what is

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Excuse me? What is Allah's oath in this regard? Brothers and sisters? Allah's oath is one. He said, What in Maine come in, where you

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can allow Rebecca Hackman Nakaba year, not a single person of you, but shall do the rude what is the road to pass by? Pass by what? By hellfire, where we do have. So some people will pass by and they will get stuck, they will stay there. Some people will they will and forever May Allah protect us again is that the non believers and the hypocrites and some people who will be purified for a while in it. And some people will pass just to tell you to take a look at it and to see how merciful Allah is by saving them from hell and giving them a seat in heaven. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said there is something called a slot which is a bridge, that bridge that crosses over

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And it's very, very strange, very unique, very weird, but this is pertaining to the hereafter. It is very thin, thinner than the hair very sharp sharper than the sword Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Bucha.

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Brother Amin from Gambia, salaam alaikum.

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I mean,

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while they come, salam, Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Go ahead, brother.

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I have to question Yes.

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When I'm forming an intention, do I have to keep quiet? Is it my lips? Say whatever I want to do in my heart, or how do how was the intention actually formed? Like when I'm about to do something I used to keep quiet. I said intention within myself. Okay. My second. My second question is, how am i How can I maintain my memorization of the Quran? If I memorize about maybe 20 Use How am I to what can I do to maintain them without losing them to maintain what do you memorize of the Quran?

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Well, yeah, yeah. Okay, got your question. I mean from Gambia, first of all, brothers and sisters. Thank you. First of all, the word intention in Arabic is called Leah.

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When we eat dates like Ramadan, we take the seed and throw it away that seed is called Noah. So Nia is taken from Noah it is something hidden, it is something concealed, it is a nucleus

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not to be altered, not to be announced. So when you intend you intend on your heart you don't have to alter you don't have to pronounce your intention. Okay. Whether for fasting or for the prayers are given in a charity

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at all, in had you say you love Baker Hudson. The Tobia is announcement but you don't say I intend to perform Hajj. Okay, when you say like Baker Hudgens on behalf of this or that, if you're performing Hajj proxy on behalf of others, as far as maintaining what you have memorized of the Quran is a lot harder than memorizing the Quran itself. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, losing the Quran is faster and greater than losing an untied camel. So you have to tie a camel you have to revise the Quran on regular basis. It will be best if you recite what you have memorized, obviously, in your prayers on my prayers, and if you have somebody to check your memorization on regular basis

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to recite before him or her on regular basis.

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We have brothers obey from the United States Salam Alikum

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walaikum salam ala Alicia, how are you? And hamdulillah thank you for asking. Go ahead. Brothers obey.

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Chef, I have a friend his father passed away last year. So you know, his father he asked him to not see meant his grave. You know, but he did that. So not to do what?

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Not to, you know, see him and his grave. Okay. The grave? Yeah. So his father asked him but he did that.

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Okay, it's been one.

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So what is a question?

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Okay. Zubayr is saying that his friend. His father passed away a year ago and he requested his son not to cement his grave.

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Then he got cut off if you mean that not to build his grave out of cement and concrete, not to put the marble and all of that. Will this is a Sunday you're not supposed to do any of that. Okay,

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If the Muslim graveyard should be leveled, he can put a brick or something as a marker, but you're not supposed to build it

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out of bricks and cement and all of that. If you're asking what is he supposed to do now do nothing because, you know, the sacredness of the person after his death is like, his stuff still alive. So you do not break the grave. You do not take the body out in order to recover what you've done. We said in our number 71 Surah Maryam, Allah Almighty says, we're in Ming comida where we do hack,

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Rebecca Hartman Malko we,

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and there is none of you except we'll come to it. This is upon your Lord and inevitability decreed. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam explain what is the meaning of common to it. It means passing by, and what is the purpose of passing by? He said salatu salam.

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Actually, people will cross over this bridge, which is stretched over Hellfire base and in accordance with their deeds. Some people will pass with the speed of the light, and some people will pass running, jogging, walking. And of course, this lower is the worst.

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Because you get to spend time

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experiencing the heat waves of hellfire. And on both sides, there are angels with hooks. Somebody used not to pray and he's a Muslim, he will be hooked down. Somebody used to deal with the Rebbe, he will be hooked down, somebody was involved in adultery in killing or whatever, they will be hooked down in order to be purified. So every person even the believers will happen to cross over it. The very good believers you will not experience any heat or any suffering. So what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said in the halal Casa meaning that even those who lose their children in the life and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is a guarantee they shall enter paradise. And they will never

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ever be touched by hellfire. Let me assume not.

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Hellfire will never touch his flesh. But because Allah said in Surah, Maryam and number 71 Chapter number 19.

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When men come in our hands so that means they will still cross over it, but they will not be touched by hellfire. And this hadith is a very good Hadith to explain to us the meaning of what I mean come in our you don't have because that is very scary. So Alhamdulillah we understand from this hadith and other Hadith that allude or come into it, meaning passing by, and depending on how good you were, that will give you an access to pass over it with the maximum speed so that you will not experience any suffering or any hit of hellfire.

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We actually ran out of time for today's episode. And in sha Allah in the next episode, we'll continue with the same chapter we'll still have one more Hadith. And it's a very interesting Hadith as well. Until then I leave you all in the care of Allah. Allahu Lokali had was the whole idea walakum wa sallahu wa ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala early he was here salaam wa Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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have a

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He asked me to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him on any humans to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving God about an empire that was shipping cannons fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about how bad the guys were shipping cars fire and stores selling the best and cheapest

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