Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #248 Dec 12th 2016

Muhammad Salah
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glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the Greatest. The long annoying Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to

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a Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim will pay is due to Allah alone we will praise Him and we seek His help. Whomsoever Allah guides is truly guided one and whomsoever Allah leaves astray. None can show him guidance made the best peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him. Brothers and sisters Welcome to another Live edition of our program Guardians of the pious Today's episode is number 299 By the grace of Allah, and it is the third in chapter number 74 that will help me while nit read the chapter, which discusses the virtues of forbearance, Prudence and gentleness.

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The first Hadith that we're going to tackle today's Hadith number 632.

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So in this hadith, which is agreed upon its authenticity, it is narrated by Aisha Radi Allahu anha kala kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam in Allaha Rafi Kuan Yew hypo RIF

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you hippo RIF Coffield Emery kuliah in Allah raffia con la Haibo Rivkah Phil Emery Kula the hadith is agreed upon its authenticity Anisha may Allah be pleased with her narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said Allah is full bearer, and he loves forbearance in all matters. Allah is Most kind, and he likes kindness. In all affairs. Allah is most gentle, and he likes gentleness. Whenever you deal with everyone, and in every condition, that is the meaning of your headboard riff paw, Phil Emery, cooler.

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A riff is a word which literally means gentleness, which also means to be lenient, to be kind, to be easygoing,

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to be decent. That is a riff.

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Allah Almighty loves forbearance, because he is Rafi.

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That is stated in the Hadith. He is full bearer. So he doesn't rush the conclusions, even in his in all his actions, in all his decrees, even in the afflictions that we he afflict some of his servants with he is Rafiq,

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he is kind, he is most furbearer. Why?

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Because those are not means of revenge. But Subhan Allah, Allah Almighty utilizes this means of trials in order to purify his servants from some of their sins, while he is preparing them for the meeting with Allah Almighty, while he has an old Bella Oberland How the * Kulla how Allah is Allah, he's

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only those

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who perceive the meaning of tests and trials. And the purpose of this some trials properly. They understand that Allah Almighty is for better,

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he is the most kind. So he tests you with this test. Why? Because perhaps you have loads and loads of sins, so he's going to remit them via the means of those tests and trials, he will give you the test, and he will give you the ability to overcome the test. He will test you and He will give you enough patience, to endure the test patiently so that your sins will be forgiven. And so on and so forth. So that at the time of his death, Ian Kola, he shall meet Allah while I Salah he then while having no sense whatsoever, profit or not, for bearer or not, definitely, he is for bearer. We know that in moovel either the CHE and Ami Akula who failure to learn simply because for a lot of mighty

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the matter of creating anything, it doesn't give him any fatigue. You

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It doesn't cost him anything because he is the owner. He is the initiator. He is a creator, the only creator. So he says to anything be and it is. But we know in the Quran that Allah Almighty informed us that he has created both the heavens and the earth in so in six days,

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if you sit that the I am in to Mr. Walsh and there pops a question, you know, even the youngsters would ask at schools and to the parents to their arty religious teachers. If Allah is able to create anything and everything by simply saying to it cone, fair cone be and it is. Why did it take him six days to create the heavens and the earth?

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Because he's raffia you hibel Rifka Phil Emery Kula he is furbearer and he is teaching us in order to perfect your deed take your time, do not rush while he is able to simply say to the sun and the moon as he said

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you dr Pawan Aukerman Carlita at Aina Erin, he could have saved to the heavens and the earth exist or be and they will definitely be an every creature that was created in between will be also created simply by the command of B and it will be it will take place.

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Because of that you find a group of advices and guidance whether in the Quran or scattered in many a hadith and teachings of the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, as have to be forbearing

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whether while giving dower in surah Taha chapter number 20, verse number 44, Allah the Almighty sent Musa and his brother, Aaron, to the Pharaoh, and who's the hero, the hero is a human being was born, he eats he drinks, he defecates, he gets sick and eventually he died. So he's a human being like any other teacher, beginning and an end but he challenged Allah Almighty in his domain and he there to say hon C'mon Allah, I'm your load the Most High and he there to say my name to like a min Ella Henry. He said, I do not know if of any other God besides me. You know, not only that, he claimed himself to be the creator and God, he also dismissed the possibility of having any other god or

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creator, besides him.

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Somebody like that

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deserves to be ruined, deserves to be humiliated to be crushed. Yet Allah Almighty says to Musa and Harun either have elf around now or go both of you, Moses and Aaron to the federal why because he transgressed they didn't he did. So what shall we do to him? Blown away

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he said rather fell Kula who cola Lang you know who

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we actually

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speak to him gently speak to him nicely to the Pharaoh. Yeah, why? He may mind or fee and may benefit of your advice, even though Allah knows that he is not going to benefit, but give everyone their due rights. Give everyone the benefit of doubt, so that no one would have any execuse

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no one would say that I did not receive a messenger. No one would say that I did not know now you did. knew. And Allah sent to you two messengers, not only one and he provided them with miracles, and you ordered them for coolala who call Allah Yunnan. Speak to him kindly. Speak to him gently, perhaps, he may mind or he may fear SubhanAllah.

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And even they express their fear that the Pharaoh is foolish and he can kill them. He can he can persecute them, he can torture them. So a lot of mighty said latter half in any markoma Esma will fear not, I'm gonna be with you hearing and seeing I'm gonna protect you. Then.

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Allah Almighty commanded every person in the position of the guardianship, whether its ruler

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Whether it is an administrator, a principal of school, a governor, and mayor of a small city, a sheriff of, you know, a county

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or a family father,

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a company manager or a CEO any person who is aware li or a guardian, the Prophet sallallahu Arias lmsc Allahumma Minutemen Allahumma min William and Emery and Matthew Shay and for Rafa kabhi him for football.

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Oh Allah, whoever is in charge of any of the affairs of my OMA, if he is kind to them, if he is gentle in dealing with them, then be kind to him before bearing when you deal with him, and just mention Salama. * Jessa will your Cerny in the lesson? is the word of good anything other than good? Of course not. So Oh Allah, if anyone is in charge of any affairs of my own man, anyone happens to be a guardian in my own mind over some people of my own man, then he deals with them kindly and he's entitled to them. Be kind to him before bearing to him. Women William Emery and Matthew Shay and Fisher Karla him, fish. Oh, Carly. And if anyone happens to be in charge of any of

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the affairs of my own man, and he happens to be harsh to them. He happens to me the life hard and difficult. He happens to make the life miserable. treat them the same Fesco Carly, you've got both you've got a rift and you got the hardship and the harshness. So if he is harsh to my OMA then treat him harshly. If he's easy with my Alma they may easy in dealing with him be kind and gentle, and treat them with ease. Subhanallah help us out yesterday in a lesson or in our capital for our people will be missed the marrow capital.

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Then also Allah Almighty guided us all the parents, fathers and mothers because they are guardians, likewise, to be kind to their children

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to be decent indeed in with their children. Why? Because that will have an impact on them in the future. You know, when a couple are abusive, their children become abusive to whenever one of the couple one of the parents is abusive. Definitely the children or some of them would have in the background of their brain, this abusive treatment and unfortunately, they may reflect that on their future spouses and on their future children. What Allah Almighty wants from the parents is to love their children, to be kind to them, and to be protective to take care of them.

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Then Allah Almighty says in Surah, T three and number six, yeah, you have Lavina M and o qu

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gonna use my own.

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So you, you are in charge, you're a guardian, protect yourself. Begin by yourself with a helicopter and your family members, again is the blazing Fire. The fuel thereof will be people and stones may Allah protect us against its heat and its torment. Then he addressed the children to be kind to be forbearing to be gentle in dealing with their parents Wakaba Rob Booker taboo

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who are Bill well either in Santa Cadore Allah have decreed This is a divine command that you should not wash it other than Him. And you should be kind to parents you should be gentle while dealing with your parents in Maya the last one that can give her a hug to whom I will kill whom? Fella Taku whom ofin wallet and how Huma

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Furla tap hula hoops ofin wallet and how whom work hula hoops. CO woollen Karina Subhanallah How can should you be to appearance? How gentle should you be when you deal with your parents kinder than dealing with your own wife kinder than dealing with your own children to the point that it is forbidden to express it

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Your anger or your dissatisfaction with Inovio parents as they grow old, either both of whom are living with you or one of them.

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So, it is your duty to treat them kindly as they have been treating you until you grew up, even if they will not treating you kindly, it is your duty that Allah Almighty mandated upon you, so that you should not show them any sign that that reflects that your dissatisfaction with them. So, when you say off, this is offensive,

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off is a sign of dissatisfaction. you're offended, you're not happy, it is forbidden. Allah Almighty categorize this as a major sin. So kindness is to give preference to your parents over your own self. When Albula abnormal, so somebody's carrying his mother over his shoulders and wind performing power off and he said

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do you think that I compensated her enough? Am I being good enough to her? He said that is not even equal to Assa fre, which is a clamp or a scream that she experienced while she was giving birth to you.

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Which means no matter what you do, you will not pay them and you cannot compensate them. So they believers look at that, at the service that they offer to the parents as a means of earning SAP, not a means of paying them back.

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No a means of earning the pleasure of Allah. That is because Allah Almighty normally commanded be dutiful transparence soon after he commanded, worshipping Allah Allah and Surah Nisa wobbu Allahu Allah to Shinnick movie che Bill Wiley Dany Cerna. So here Wakaba Bukit Allah taboo in the year or Bill Where did any SN with regards to the spouses and how should the relationship between the spouses be in Surah two room Allah Almighty said what

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I mean, T and kala kala comb in forsaken as well that latest Kuno ILAHA wa ala by Aina my word that Rama in FE the early Keller,

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that should be the relationship between the couple the spouses, later school no lie, in order to find repose in there, in order to rest and to each other, in order to enjoy each other and find comfort and peace of mind and living together. Because of that he can get it between the couple. Now our data, Rama, love and mercy, compassion and mercy. That is if you make the right decision only if you make the right decision, that when you make the wrong decision, when you choose a girl to marry because she is a beauty queen, but she is not practicing. Then you find your life miserable. And then you file for divorce, or you spend a few years in court for divorce, because of many reasons,

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blame none but yourself. And when you sister, choose a man because he owns a company, or his house in the best neighborhood in town, but he doesn't pray, he drinks, he smokes, whatever. So your main motive behind agreeing to this proposal was dunya. Then don't turn around and say, Well, I'm not happy at all. You're not happy because you made the right or the wrong choice, you made the wrong choice. So it is your fault. Then life is like that. Ups and downs, some ease some hardship, some prosperity, some adversity, some health, some sickness and poverty, some richness, and so on. So the couple may disagree. It happened to the Prophet salallahu Salam and he espouses once Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi salam had a literal conflict with Aisha Radi Allahu Allah and let's see how the Prophet sallallahu Sallam handled this. They invited Abu Bakr so the Oba is his best friend. And he's the best in this OMA after the Prophet Salah Salem and he happened to be his father in law, the father of our Isha, may Allah be pleased with all of them. Okay. Then, when Abu Bakr came

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to sort out the conflict between Aisha his daughter and Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said

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Would you like to speak first? Or shall I speak first? He offered her. She said, rather you speak first. But you should only say the truth. When she said so. A workers they couldn't believe his ears. Are you out of your mind? I'll ask the Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam to see the truth. He couldn't tolerate that. So he turned around and he slapped her over her face and said, Oh, anything of yourself and who said the truth? If Prophet Muhammad doesn't say the truth, are you out of your mind? The Prophet sallallahu Sallam now on the invited Roebuck to sort out the conflict, has been protective to our Isha from her father, and said money had our nap. We didn't call you to do that.

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We call you to make peace between us not to beat her. And you started tapping on her comfort on her. And he said in alumna Kelley had while M noted Minka had the hadith is collected by Emmylou Harris who is being more kind to his wife to our Isha than her own father over crucible for the Allahu Allah. And then in the Hadith says we are recording here.

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We're Anna, Jairo camellia Halle, Salah Larsson,

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the best of you, what determines a superior to you when it comes to manners and good conduct is how you deal with your family, particularly your wife, because you're in charge, you're the driver, you're in control. You're the leader, you're the family father, you're the provider for the family. He said the best of you are those who are best to the wives, and I am indeed the best of my wife, sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Then we say to the spouses to the Wives, likewise, that Allah Almighty also commanded you to be

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kind to be forbearing to be merciful when dealing with your husbands? Yeah, I mean, you do not demand things that you know that there is a financial problem in the entire country, or there is a recession and you keep demanding things. You don't have to change your car this year. You don't have to buy the dress, which you know that it's expensive and your husband most likely cannot afford it. You do not have to burden him by demanding things which you know that he will not be able to afford it less he may stretch out his hand to what is forbidden in order to satisfy your desire, your materialistic desire. That's why when the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam so how humble what

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was the life of Rasulullah Salah Salem compared to some of his companions that are Isha said that there isn't days we will not Kindle Fire. We wouldn't eat nothing. We have no food at home for three days but water on dates. And for a month and two and three would not Kindle Fire in any of the houses of the prophets are selling the wooden cook

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Saudi side yeah Rasul Allah.

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Some we don't ask for a luxurious life but we just need to be like this. So people, so Allah Almighty revealed in colinton, Aboriginal higher that dunya was in Fattah Lena OMA Terracon Saturday aircon as are often Janila were in tune today then Allah rasool Allah who had Farah tefa in Allah. During masina team in Khun Adara. Now we look at the offer, he gave them the alternate you want to live with the Prophet salallahu Salam, it will cost you to live a humble life. But guess what? The word for in Allah had that in most anatomy and COULDNA joven Avi him and magnificent word, you will happen to be the wives of the Prophet sallahu wa salam in Paradise, and you will be entitled to be

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the Mothers of the Believers. But in the previous area, if you're after dunya if you and I live in a fancy life, well, you're not going to find this life while living with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam because he cannot afford it. Then simply it is your choice Fetta Highline accom OMA ter can now give you the motor, which is some compensation Jonnie I will divorce you, and I will give you some compensation in a few months. Oh, sorry, goodness or 100 Mila, and I will divorce you kindly Sara hon Jamila, even the divorce there is a kind divorce Subhanallah but they all chose afterward to remain with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as his wife in order to be amongst an marsinah to my Lord

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Almighty said concerning them. For in Allah are there enough CNET in Conan O'Brien now we Allahu Akbar. Then, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam also commended Rif.

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Allaha Rafi,

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you have bereft of your coalition.

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Allah Almighty Indeed he is for better, and he loves forbearing he loves kindness he loves gentleness, in all matters in all affairs in dealing with all people in every condition. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said when dealing with the servants, when dealing with the maids look what Islam commanded when dealing with those who are working for you, those whom Allah Almighty made subservient to Subhan Allah, He says, While Attica Lee, for whom Maya lagoon for Inca left to move may have no home, do not ask your servants your maids to do anything that is beyond their capacity, or it will burden them. And if you do, give them hand, assist them, but he's my servant. Why did I

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hire him? In the past, there were slaves. Now there are servants, you know, they get paid. They work in order to get paid because they have families. And this advice is to my brothers and sisters who have mains from Indonesia, from the Philippines from here and there. In the Gulf. Those people are of the kindest people on Earth. And they have big families, the very little money that you pay them, they do not eat and drink and buy nice cloth for themselves. No, these send it overseas in order to support big families. And he keeps saving in order to buy a flat or a property so that they can have the whole family live in it. Be generous to them, not only give them their salaries, rather be

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generous to them. They're eligible even for years. This is rough. This is kindness for Inka left to move home. If you ask them to do anything beyond their capacity, then give them hand assist them, you know the labor

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rules in, in in North America, for instance, do you get to work only certain number of hours that they're like eight hours besides that your employer have no right 40 hours a week. And if they ask you to do anything over time, there is a different charge though. It is not the same charge because this is beyond the average capacity. We as Muslims, Allah Almighty have commanded us with all of that more than 1400 years ago, because it is in the Sunnah and the Sunnah is a form of wahi. In what Allah wa who knew? Then the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, our tool Jira, agile Kubla and Yoji, Farkle. Give your employee their wages before the sweat dries up. This is some people might

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think this is a metaphor, like, you know, it doesn't have to be immediately and why not immediately? Didn't they deliver? They didn't they finish the job? Haven't they been working for a whole day? Several hours? Why don't you pay them immediately, especially when you have the cash, or you want to invest it here or there. Some people have been deceiving their employees or their maids. For years. I just read a story recently that somebody's been working for years, more than 10 years. And her master employer,

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you know, he deceived her. He had been convincing her that I'm saving the money for you. And then after many, many years, he filed her and he canceled her residency, and he said that you gotta leave. What about my saving? You've been saving money for me? I didn't. Allahu Akbar. You want to know your category on the Day of Judgment. You want to know exactly what is going to happen to you listen to this fella set on Anna Hosmer, whom yo Malkia you are an opponent to Allah, the Almighty on the day of judgment and to His Messenger SallAllahu sallam. Now your case is not again as this woman is not again is the maid is not again, it's your employee or your employees. It is between you

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and Allah Almighty. One of them is what I don't own structure or giran Festo feminine wallum Your fear Hakka and a man who hired somebody to work for him and the worker, the employee, the laborer, delivered he finished his job, but the employer, the one who hurt them, didn't pay him. So this kind of treatment is evil, is condemned is one of the worst kinds of theft to the point that Allah Almighty will be your opponent on the Day of Judgment, a riff,

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kindness, a riff, gentleness, a risk, to be lenient when you deal with people is one of the qualities and the trades of Allah Almighty in Allaha Rafi and because of that, he loves it. You have more Rifka Phil Emery Cooley, have you seen this very short and brief message in

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Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity reflects on every kind of relationship that we have amongst ourselves months our family members and with our employers, employees, parents, children. And as we spoke in the previous episode, even with our enemies, we gotta take a short break and we'll be back insha Allah in a few minutes please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back

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nearly a minute our phone numbers Area code 00201 double 05469323 Alternatively I equals 002 Then 0238 treble 5132 and the email address is [email protected]. Okay, the following two Hadith are also narrated by the seminary to the Mother of the Believers. Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu. And there is an occasion

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happening why she heard this Hadith from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, we'll address it in sha Allah. I believe that we can quote the following to a hadith together and both have been narrated by the same narrator and both compiled by an imam Muslim in in sound collection. So in Hadith number 633 and 634 and Hadees number 633. And Aisha Radi Allahu anha and the salah Allahu alayhi wa sallam a call in hola hola feel con your headboard Rifka while your three other Rifki madda your three islands were mana your three are the Mercy well.

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In this hadith, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him says, Indeed, Allah is for bearer, and he loves forbearance, and hear words for forbearance, while he does not word for harshness,

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and no deed is awarded more than the deed of forbearance

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while in the following Hadees Hadees number 634 which is also narrated by the Mother of the Believers I Aisha Radi Allahu anha and then Nabil Salah La Jolla Salah makan in Rivkah, Leia Kunal fie che in lezana while I own Xiaomin che in a LaShana, crow Muslim, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe. Salam has said, Whenever a riff forbearance

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is added to anything, it adorns it, and whenever it is taken away, of anything, it leaves it defective. Anything here refers to anything shade

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means anything to feel removed. So in dealing with your loved ones, in dealing with your children, like let's give an example because we're not going to say much about these two Hadith because you spoke about the previous Hadith in Allah Fionnula Hippogryph. Coffee Emery equally, and that should be sufficient. But we want to see that how a riff is like an adornment to anything.

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Take for example, your own children, your own children, that you want them to get up to pray fetch, and you know the version of prayer in February and their word for pray in fed

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and especially in the masjid, she want them to come with you to pray Phaedra in the masjid somebody he wakes up his children by filling Azhagu Farah and pouring water or their faces. Is this categorized as red or Shida harshness? It is definitely harshness. I can imagine somebody is waking me up like that. And they expect me to get up happily fresh stretch, make wudu say they do I didn't go to the machine with pleasure and focus on their citation. I think this is not normal.

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Right? Yes, I would get up and I will go do now praying the machine, but in my mind and my heart. I hate it. I detest it.

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So you made me hate the act of worship. You fulfilled what's in your mind. You made me come to pray. But at my earliest opportunity

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when I'm my own

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On, I'm not gonna pray. Why? Because I remember how you treated me in order to pray.

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Versus

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a riff.

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Hey, kids go to sleep. And I'm going to tell you a bedtime story, then recite the Afghan model together.

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Before we get to sleep, why? Why are you lying down on your bed? Oh, you know, we need to pray for Gemma. Because the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, when 234 and you can all the Hadith with regards to the virtues of attending the prayer in Jamar, particularly fetch, not all of them at the same time. But you know, every once in a while you share one Hadith, and so on. I've tried this once.

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In Forgive me, I'm not saying this to say, I did that, or I did this. It is simply to say that it was only when you try it, you know,

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we were performing Hajj once. And subhanAllah, there was a person who was coming from the States. And he didn't like the rush, the pushing and the huge volume of people in a very small area. And living in a tent, staying in a tent in in MENA on the eighth. Then, before the train was was made, we used to take several hours, and we got stuck in the traffic for hours and hours. And in a distance of couple of miles, it will take us 789 hours. You know, and the you know, it's not easy to answer the call of nature, especially when somebody is diabetic and so on. So all of that put pressure on this person when we returned from Arafa. He wasn't happy at all. He was not focused on

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the spiritual part of Hajj and forgiveness, and how all people are treated the same, the rich and the poor, and how this is like a mini resemblance of what is going to happen on the Day of Judgment. All of that he neglected. Then when we return to say just take me to the hotel, he refused to continue throwing the stones of dough tawaf and all of that I happen to be his roommate.

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So every morning at two or 3am, a couple of hours before fed, I would take my prayer rug, and I would go and when I come back, I knew this guy is not practicing anymore, and he wouldn't do.

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He refused to resume the monastic of Hajj. And he stayed in his room. He was confined to the hotel room, he'll just eat and go back to the room. He wasn't talking to anyone. He was very, very upset and angry. Then

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when I returned back for breakfast, say how are you? Good morning, they like to go for breakfast. Then he said, What have you been? I said I was in heaven. Said heaven. Yes, I was in heaven. Oh, man. You know, I work early and I take my prayer rug and I sit on the rooftop, the first row where I can see people performing tawaf and for a couple hours even before the first day then you pray you recite Quran, you watch people who are performing the work. The weather is very mild. It's very cool, very nice.

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Then once the first Adan is cold, it's like you're sitting in heaven. You hear them being cold from Paradise, or Salah to Cairo mininum in the second ad and and all of that, then when the Imam starts leading the federal prayer, with their citation equal in everywhere, miles and miles, and here their citation of the Quran and federal in the Quran and February can assure that I started talking and reflecting the beauty of this experience. And I never told him to join me not even once.

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Then one morning,

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he beat me. He told his, you know, in the hotel, there are rugs. It took one and he left. And he went to the rooftop. And he spent the whole time. Then when we returned for breakfast, he said I wish I have met you earlier.

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I'm a loser.

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I said what do you mean? He said you know what? Today I went to the masjid to the haram. I said on the rooftop and I enjoyed every bit of everything that you've been talking to me over the past couple of days and loved it. This is truly heaven. Compared to my experience before. I regret that I didn't continue my Hajj. I regret I didn't do this. I said you still can make up things as long as you regret and you see forgiveness is still can be made up. So we have a situation here somebody who declare that I ain't called

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pretend my Hodge, I don't believe in Hodge. That doesn't make any sense and all of that. If I was a che declare him this guy is an apostate this guy is a KEF. That's it. This is all what the shaytaan wants. So this guy out of, you know pride

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and arrow II ego will be very stubborn, and you will continue in his way he would refuse to do anything until he would return home. Perhaps you will abandon the holding even if he doesn't declare it by refusing to complete Hajj and say I don't believe in Hadees become a non Muslim.

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But that would not make us happy. It would only make one person happy who will make a shaitan happy. So NWO Salalah selama said in hola yo hippo riff.

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Okay, I may dislike him, but I do not dislike him because of his personality rather because of his miss doing. But now

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with a little bit of kind treatment and a little bit of guidance you have changed. You gave me a big hug. And he returned back to his senses. We're all winners. The next level is the moon SubhanAllah.

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And in the Hadith, those guys have authority who be the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam and made him bleed. When he walked on foot to give them the hour then they did not accept his Dawa

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years later during the Battle of Hunan when they were utterly defeated and sucky for them to apply and they stayed in the fortresses for days and days and the prophets Allah Salah and put a siege around the fortresses. So the Sahaba Cydia rasool Allah, order Allah Allah Akif.

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O Prophet of Allah, ask Allah to destroy the tribe of Sutliff Prophet sallallahu Sallam resistenza Allah Who Matt is a thief and whatever. But Allah guide, a thief, the people of the thief, the tribal thief, oh Allah guide them and bring the Muslims Subhana Allah is uplift and will it be him? He's fighting against them, they're kofod and on the battlefield, they are his enemies and if kill many of his companions, and they will shoot in arrows with fire on the Muslim cam, hurting Muslims a great deal Faqad neuron home yet

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it says Allahumma DISAPPEA fun word to be him. What happened? The oil accepted Islam and the return to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam given him the Pledge of Allegiance, and this fine to the Oneness of Allah subhanaw taala who's winning?

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We're all winning. There are winners, and we are winners to this guy who used to drink and every time he would be punished for drinking. And one Sahabi one day said, let her Nicola mad at pharma you May Allah curse you how many times you will be punished for drinking once you quit, who heard the Prophet sallallahu sallam?

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So he objected to his dua and he said later on down Alicia Tania Allah by praying against him by asking Allah to curse him, you're assisting Satan against your brother, rather you should pray for him, or Allah enable him to quit, help him to stop drinking, guide him to straight pass, he won't hurt you to make dua for instead of making dua against even if those people are enemies. Even if they are far well at least they will have another one to say, edify ability here acid for either lady V neck or Boehner who either were to get an Audi or Hammam. 34 for Summit.

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We've got only two minutes. And the the the following hadith is among Hadith, the Hadith of the Bedouin, who pass urine in the masjid and a love to shed some light on this hadith and talk more and more about it in order to deduce lessons that will benefit us in sha Allah in our daily lives. Because of that brothers and sisters are like to wrap it up here. And I ask Allah Subhan Allah Almighty to benefit us out of this useful knowledge and to enable us to imitate the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, who Lokali had Estelle for Allah howdy welcome SallAllahu ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Savio Salam. Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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Allah where God is the greatest

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glory to Him, people, you own this to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest

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We

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all need humans to be the best and give his best religion to them so why did they know that forgiving all about him prior dies? We're shipping Carl's fire and stones sending the rescue the cheapest

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