Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #235 Ask Huda Oct 15th 2016

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The discussion covers various topics related to custody practices during the age of seven, including custody of children by parents, custody of children by parents when they are married, and custody of children by parents when children are married and not at the age of seven. The legal system is emphasized, and the importance of having a good faith attitude is emphasized. The speakers also discuss clothing and the use of names of individuals to describe their characteristics and the use of words like "has been revealeded" and "has been revealed" to describe actions and behavior. The discussion also touches on negative behavior in relation to certain items and working in supermarket environments.
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permit me to pass the ultimate test

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as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim All Praise be to Allah alone we praise Him and we seek His help. Whomsoever Allah guides is a truly guarded one and whomsoever Allah leaves us say, none can show him guidance. May there was peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him Brothers and Sisters of Life, welcome you to another live edition of your program as coda, and a quick reminder with our phone numbers beginning with Area code 002, then 0238 treble 5131132. Without any further ado, I've got a long list of questions that I received on my page and the address should appear on the bottom of the screen and Salah official.

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That is a Facebook page. The first question is Tasneem sister Tasneem is asking after divorce, who has the right to have the kids under custody if the mother got married?

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First of all,

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while this divorce is permissible in Islam, it should be the last resort to solve marital problems, especially when there are children between the couple. So sometimes the person may choose not to finish and terminate the marriage life, especially because of the future of the kids and who have the custody and who would supervise the education and their upbringing and all of that. So they may sacrifice and they may work out something together for the sake of the children that should be kept in consideration and this is what we do and we do marriage counseling.

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The sacrifices should be from both parties. Both couples have to offer things not only one person, but in case that divorce is prescribed in this case then it is permissible Okpala Kumala attorney for him second in our often LTC home BSN as Allah Almighty prescribed in Surah Al Baqarah.

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In case of divorce, and in case of complete separation, and there are children, the kids automatically under custody will be the responsibility and the rights of the mother until a certain age. That is because until a certain age or until she gets married, that is because of Hadith which is collected by Muhammad in his most net and it is narrated by Abdullah hypnotics may Allah be pleased with him and his father. He narrated that once a woman came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him and say Dr. Rasool Allah in Albania Harada can have asked me Allah who we are with a de la who is your car for Hijiri Allah? Who, what? Which means that this is my son.

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I bore him in my belly, in my stomach in my womb for nine months, then I breastfeed for them for a couple years, were hydrilla who haywire and my life had been always a place of comfort for him. Whenever Huhtala Can you announce further divorce me? What are the onion tears Yahoo Mini and he wants to take his custody. He wants to take him away from me. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said NT, OB, Maryland Thank you.

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You have the right for the custody of the child as long as you don't get married. So this is the Islamic judgment and junction with regards to the custody of the child whether it's a boy or a girl,

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as long as the mother doesn't get married, because if she gets married, there will be as the Father but we have the real father who can take care of him. And he will not go to the father immediately because at this age until a certain age which is known as sin Tamizh

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which is approximately seven years old when the child is at the age of seven. This is the age which in the Hadith the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said anymore Elia Docomo, Salah Teresa began instructing your children as how to pray at the age of seven. Now they recognize what is right and what is wrong. Even though they are not McHale Levine they are not required by Islam to fulfill what is mandatory and they are not blameworthy if they commit innocent because they are not at the age of puberty.

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if she gets married, then the custody of the child will go to her mother. So her mother, there is a tremendous need for a mother for a woman in the life of the baby until he reaches a certain age. So if his mother Mary's, then the custody will be transferred to her mother, his grandmother, his maternal grandmother, if she's not there, then his paternal grandmother, but if she is married, she loses custody, she does not lose the custody in a sense that she wouldn't have any right with the child No, but he would move from a particular house to another because he has a right not to be raised in the lap of a stepfather as long as he has a grandmother. Yes, paternal or maternal

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grandmother and his father is there why would he be raised with a stepfather? Okay. Now,

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the age which we mentioned that the scholars said simultaneous seven years according to Al enamel Shafi

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Al Imam Ahmed, in these two schools of thoughts, Imam Muhammad even humbled. That child will be given the choice

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before the judge or the counselor or the office of who's in charge, based on a hadith which is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Allah. He said that the Prophet Salah Salem High era Nabil SallAllahu Sallam at this age, will ask the child would you like to stay with your mom? Or would you like to go with your dad? Okay, somebody would say, but the child at this age would choose to go for the person who would buy him more toys, he would leave him to sit before the TV for hours, you will not ask him to do any homework. There comes the role of the judge Jani. Once there was a case presented before a Muslim judge. And at the age of seven, the child chose to go to his father. So

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the mother said to the judge, Your Honor, ask him, Why would you like to go to his father's house? He said, Because my mother forces me to go to school.

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And the teacher requires me to do homework, they could tab and memorize Quran and do this and that. And my father doesn't care about any of that. So the judge instantly said, Well, you stay with your mother. This is the most luchador benefit. So it's a big responsibility for a judge to investigate sometimes one of the parents, one of the main reasons why the couple's separate as I have seen many cases, the father doesn't pray. The father smokes doesn't only smoke cigarettes, he smokes drugs, he drinks. So in this case, the judge has to keep that in consideration to be continued after this call salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah brachetto Sister Maya from the United States.

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Alaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Welcome to Ask her the sister Maya.

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Thank you, how are you? I'm doing fine and hamdulillah thank you for asking.

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May God bless all of you and

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thank you so much sent you Baraka now, Vicki.

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Okay, I have three question if you don't mind. Yeah, no problem. Go ahead.

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My son is 17. And he's been trying to find a halal job. But so far, he didn't get anything and he wants to know if he can work like at Walmart or Kroger's, or McDonald's. It's, it's Sharia compatible if I can say,

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this is my first question. Okay.

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My second question is that are we allowed to participate at one Catan you know, when you're trying to raise money for like cancer disease or whatever.

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And my third question is that it allowed for a Muslim to get involved into Navy or Army.

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That was the casetta.

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Right, thank you. So my very interesting questions.

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Okay. Mohamed from Sudan peaceful again.

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Let me continue answering this question then inshallah. I'll get back to answer your questions.

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So we say the judge would have to investigate if one of them can establish a proof that he is a better parent, and he would guarantee this is after the age of seven and as long as the mother does not get married

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And, you know, if it is a fact that the Father has a bad influence on the child,

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and he is negligent, he is careless he is he is. And if this is a fact, then the judge would actually entrust the mother to resume her task of upbringing, the chat, having said so, I would like to emphasize a very important factor, which is when we speak about the custody, it doesn't mean that the other partner who used to be a wife or a husband, would be deprived from seeing the child from share and making the decision with regards to the fate of the child, the schooling, the education and the health and all of that, no, because he is the child of both of you. So somehow, you will have to meet on a regular basis over the phone in the presence of Mahara to decide what to do with a

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child and you have to come to an agreement and you have to have regular counseling for the sake of the child, it is not befitting whatsoever for the person who has the custody to poison the mind of the child towards the other parent, the other party, so that whenever the child has a choice, or at the age of making the choice, he will choose not to go to the other parent, and he would be afraid or frightened. In this case, the person will be blameworthy or flying or forging a lie is again it's another person and it's very, very problematic, one has to be very honest. And you have to understand that he is the child of both of you that's why when I began answering this question, I

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said while is divorce is permissible, but it should be the last consider option and the last resort is all marital problems.

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Maya from the use of a

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first question is her son is at the age of 17.

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And he is struggling to find a Halon job

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can he work in Walmart can he work in similar stores Yes, he can work in Walmart in the prime minister. He can work in Sam's Club he can work in any of these stores in a section where appliances, electronics, furniture, sports where

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you know away from anything where we have to do something which is haram understand that in a place like

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you know these stores

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you know the what is forbidden is selling edible foods which are forbidden like pork or alcohol which is available. So as long as you avoid dealing with that you can work in the store in another department and your earning is lawful.

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That is obviously because you're living in a non Muslim country whether you work in Viesta Hobby Lobby or any of the construction stores. You know these kinds of jobs are available all the time you know this is a very the least pay but this is temporary until you graduate until you find yourself a good career in sha Allah may Allah make it easy for you and your entire family to prosper both in this life and in the hereafter. A ceremony

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on must bear from the case A salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa

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My question is is it compulsory to wear socks while in Santa or Lady

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wear socks Yeah, I mean is it compulsory to cover our legs feet

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by enduring Salah Okay. Okay.

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Could you please explain some authentic hadith because there is a slight confusion here it was. I have come to know it is compulsory to authentic hadith when someone told me reliable it is not compulsory then in between I was praying.

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So if you could please guidance, okay.

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Okay, thank you.

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Sister Maya from the USA. Our second question is, is it permissible to participate in marathons to raise funds for cancer patients? A lot Almighty says what I want to Albury with taqwa in Surah it a second verse. A Tao means cooperation, helping one another and assisting each other. As long as it is a noble cause as long as it is a virtuous act, it is permissible. Now we come to speak about the mean so reason fund, to assist cancer patient to raise the awareness of things which are carcinogenic to provide people with prevention which is better than

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and cure obviously, all of that is permissible. You do not ask the question, but these guys are Muslims or non Muslims, whenever you do the good you do the good to serve humanity, Muslims or non Muslims, you know, you will make no distinction on will offer services to people, okay.

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But the thing is,

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myself, if the mean is permissible, then go ahead and do it. I don't wear a pair of shorts, showing my thighs and jumping around. And I say because I am in a marathon. If you're going to do so properly, you're wearing your proper outfit. That's fine, then this permissible. Oh, and also add to that for women, you know, in,

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in hajj and Hajj is one of the pillars of Islam. It is not a voluntary act of worship. You find that all men jog, during a certain when they pass by certain area and the first 1/3 of the segment of a Safa. Marwah, we talk, what we'll call it.

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A woman in tawaf in the first three rounds and OSI, we really jog between Safa and Marwa, but only for men why not for women, even though this practice in our surf our Norwegian because you follow the footsteps of hedge or PSP upon her. That is because when a woman jogs in public that reveals her body and her body details so she should not be jogging even in Hajj. Okay.

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So if you participate in any lawful mean to raise funds to raise the awareness to assist cancer patients or the treatment of those who are suffering of cancer, it is permissible as long as the means are permissible. But if the means not permissible, then you do not do that look for another me As Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa.

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Sofia from Norway.

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Salaam aleikum, Sister Sofia, welcome to the program.

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Go ahead.

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Hello, yes. Salam Alikum walaikum. Salam, go ahead.

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I wanted to ask a question. Yeah.

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Can I ask you know, go ahead, please be alive on Escoda.

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My question, is it allowed to work at home for the elderly people? Since the patients, most women and men?

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Got your question, sister, Sophia.

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Thank you.

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Maya, third question, joining the military of a country. Again, it depends. If you know that, you know, joining the military to protect your country and its borders. This is a very noble cause. But if you're going to take part and participate in an unjustified war, attacking innocent people bombarding civilians and you know, killing innocent people, then you blameworthy you don't say, Well, my commander gave me an order and I cannot disobey the order. If you know beforehand you will be involved in that then it's not permissible. It is not permissible to participate in anything where you harm innocent people without any justification. And this is very obvious this is what we

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see. So we have to be very careful with your choice. And that applies to any army by the way.

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Almost buy from the case a

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asked about wearing socks in the prayer is it compulsory, it is not

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wearing socks? What is compulsory, it is rather covering the feet in the prayer

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and outside the prayer as well. In the prayer specifically because of a hadith that is narrated by the Mother of the Believers almost dilemma. May Allah be pleased with her. When she asked the Messenger of Allah keys be upon him. Is it permissible for a woman to pray only in Daraa and FMR

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he said, Salah Salem if the Dara was long enough in Cana said Serbian, it was long enough to cover her feet. Yanni, if you're wearing an outer garment, a coat or Alba as the sisters call it, and it is long enough it is covering the feet

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and you're not wearing socks, you'll find. The idea is to cover the feet. Whether while we're in socks, long pair of pants, or under the outer garment, obviously, or if your outer garment is long enough to cover your feet, then it is fine. And that is the more right view. And Allah knows best.

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sister Sophia from Norway, asked about the permissibility of working in the service of elderly people in the homes.

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Well, if you are going to serve,

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you know, the patient or elder people like you're going to serve Effie me 100% permissible, whether she's a Muslim or non Muslim.

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And when it comes because elder

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elders, you're going to do, you know, a job that entails sometimes taking them to the bathroom, giving them a bath, and all of that. So you will not be befitting, it's not permissible to do that with me. So if it is a female, go ahead and walk in the service of a female and also intend to earn a reward from Allah plus earning your wages. And elders include both men and women. So when you have an offer, go ahead and accept and pick up the offer of serving women where you will be in a safe side and working in a halal job. And as I said, also, when we do any job that we do, when you intend also as long as the job is permissible only and 10 plus earning your living and receiving your

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paycheck, you intend a good intention. And this is for the sake of Allah to help people and you assess them to the best of your ability you will be rewarded for that too. Thank you. So Sofia.

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Sister, Michelle, or Garrow sister, Michelle says

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I'm a Muslim convert, and I would like to ask about the burqini

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I feel that it is tight, and it shows parts of the female body therefore, it is not proper hijab, is it right to wear bull kini?

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Remember, a couple of months ago when there was a ban

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in the city of France, Paris, and in some other cities, to the burqini. I made a comment on that. And I said this is the prejudice freedom which selects and choose sort of some people chose to rally naked, that's freedom. But if somebody decided to swim while wearing something, freedom does not encompass them. They're excluded and they made a big deal out of it yet I said, Islam does not allow this burqini which is tied, it reveals the details of the body of a woman. Why? Because hijab you know, I see and as all of you have seen the pictures in the videos in the news that some sisters and handler they're wearing hijab and they want to go swimming is swimming permissible swimming

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permissible for men and women alike. As long as if you are a man if you're a woman, we're in your proper outfit and you will cover in your hour. Okay.

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That's both for men and women. So, exist out outfit a proper hijab, no, it is not

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it is required for a hijab of a woman to be loose, not to be tight. Because once the clothes are tight, it reveals the details of the body and

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that is attractive. Okay, so it is not hijab, hijab is a vague is a screen. So when you see a woman who's wearing hijab, you lower your gaze, because you know that she chose to be a modest woman, and you cannot see anything anyway, you can just see the ABA or the outer garment. But when the clothes are very tight, even if she's wearing a club that is calling people to look at her. So it shouldn't be tight, revealing the details of the body it shouldn't be see through okay, because again, if the clothes are see you through that is more attractive than if she's not wearing hijab. So may Allah subhanaw taala guide us to what is best and hopefully in sha Allah, as in some Muslim countries,

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they have special beaches for the

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you know families and for women. And

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I understand that, as Muslims, we have some restrictions and we do not perceive those restrictions as

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As if we're deprived from anything in life, because by the end, if there are certain things that we cannot enjoy in this life, we will definitely enjoy what is better than the entire life and what it contains. I mean, when the messenger of Allah peace be upon him, described heaven by saying, in paralyse what know I have ever seen what no ear had ever heard of and what have never ever crossed anybody's mind.

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Fellow talamona If so Melfi Allahu mimco What you just be McCann when I'm alone, the I have sort of stage that no so knows what Allah have concealed for them, of comfort for their eyes as a reward for what they used to do.

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Maybe, for you plus, will only God knows how many more years I'm going to live. If I maintain steadfastness on the safe path until I meet Allah subhanaw taala. I'm not going to die, if I don't go swimming were in the speedos or wearing clothes, revealing my body, I cannot afford to have a private pool on my house, no problem. This is not really

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an essential need for life. Not everybody can afford that even amongst non Muslims, it shouldn't be a big deal. You be patient a little bit and Allah will provide you with what is better than the entire dunya and what it contains. May Allah Almighty make us all amongst the wonders of heaven, a whole have already had our stuff. Take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a couple of minutes please thank

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Salam, alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu. And we'll come back our phone numbers Area code 002, then 0238, triple 5131 or 132. And the following question is from

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Abdulghani. He says in his question that is L SATA one of the names of Allah. Before answering this question, I would like to set the rule clearly when it comes to the names of Allah Almighty. Those names are Toki Fie, yeah.

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Doc, if he means that it must have a reference either from an area or a sound Hadith. Slightly, remember when we spoke about the order of the verses of the Quran, and the order of the chapters of the Quran, and their names, they'll be fear you don't give a name to any of the chapters of the Quran, because you like that, or because of a story that you picked. You don't put a chapter before another chapter because this is something that has been revealed to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him to put this verse in this order in the chapter and the chapter in this order of the most half. So it is not up to us. You think that Allah Almighty amongst his traits, you're happy where

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you meet? He gives life He gives death? Would you give Allah a name and Mahi and meet? No you don't. You don't call him and meet and you don't call somebody up to meet the servant of enemy the one who causes people to die, because this is a trait and it is not a name. Okay, so we ask Allah subhanaw taala in the beautiful Hadith who say Allah how many as a Luca Bhikkhu lisman who are like, some Mater big enough suck out on Zelda houfy kita avec. Now. I had an Hulk I was that sort of behavior and min Vibia.

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So those names which we know either through the revelation that Allah has revealed in his book and delta V Kitab, IC, O Allah, quick, obviously, either a prophet or he will start to somebody, then the Prophet approved it, but after the death of Muhammad, peace be upon him. No one has no right to say God taught me a secret name of his No, because this chapter is closed. Why has been conceived our he has been seized by the death of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. So amongst Allah streets is a set.

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A set is concealment.

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There are many a hadith

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which spoke about how a lot on my

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Do you conceal the sin of the sinners of his servants, then no one would know about them in this life, but he may punish for them in the Hereafter, and he may pardon them. It's up to him up to his will. So, he is concealing the sense here and he likes concealing the sins Yes.

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And there are a hadith in this regard encouraging that when you see somebody is committing a sin, you conceal it, you don't expose him, unless if this person was involved in a sin that hurts others or the public. So in this case, you have to report him, but you saw a couple people kissing and hugging or whatever. And you know, they are not known to be illicit traditions then in this case, you can see it, do not expose them do not expose them as set

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but in a hadith, which is collected by Abu Dawood in his sunnah. The Prophet sallallahu ala selama said, in Allah azza wa jal halimun, Hayyan Scythian your head was set

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to either have tests or Hadoken failure status.

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This is a sound Hadith,

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what does the Hadith say? It says, Indeed, Allah is forbearing

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and modest, and city near city area and concealing he conceals the privacy of people of his servants he can see is their sense, elicit the expose themselves. And unless if they do with the sense on regular basis and the neglect that Allah is Seeing them, then he will expose them. So again, in Allah halimun How you yawn, sit, tear, your head was set, and he loves concealment. He loves for us, when you do something to consider yourself, like taking a shower, taking a bath. He likes for you to conceal yourself, to have your shower in a private place, not to take it in public. Obviously, this hadith has been saved more than 1400 years ago.

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And nowadays, you see in the gym, in the why, at some schools, shocking scenes, the shower place

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many people are all taken shower simultaneously and they're all in the *, the locker room. People just take off their clothes, and they are so * like the same day they were born claiming that they are of the same gender. We are all men or all women who do not feel sorry for each other. This is not the trait of the believers, the believers a bona a set, Howie CTF hire you and immodest. Also have seen some of these

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facilities where the bathrooms do not have doors. So people use the toilet, and they will be sitting in front of each other and talking to each other camps, schools universes and like that this is not permissible in Islam. So what is the word CTR again again, CTR and set tar is an extensive form

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very faryal and for Al This is the scale in Arabic grammar. Both provide the same meaning which means that he loves to conceal the privacy of people and he conceals them whenever they commit sins and does not expose them. And Allah Halima how you sit here. You hate both set for either of Tesla, Hulu, calm failure Stetter. So whenever you take a shower, you should take a shower in a private place. You should lock the room behind yourself. You do not shower in public, you do not show your privacy. No one should see you while taking a shower, obviously other than your spouse who may actually take a shower with you. Because I Aisha Radi Allahu anha narrated that, after having sexual

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relations and intimate love with the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. They used to take a shower in the same vessel.

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And they used to play together and he would say Leave some for me and she say Leave some for me, you know, taking a bath for the same vessel in the same vessel with the same jug of water, and so on. So this is permissible, because she's your spouse. She's the only person who can see you entirely in the * and you're the only person on earth who can see your wife and completely in there.

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*. So what has been narrated in the Sunnah the name city, not SATA? What's your chef you just said that both provide the same meaning because both are Sierra mobila extensive form in Arabic, which reflects how much Allah loves concealment, and how much Allah Loves a set, as he said, but remember what we say, we say, there is because it is totally fair. The names of Allah Almighty you do not suggest them. The traits of Allah Almighty you do not suggest them and you will not switch or confuse a trait with the name. You understand. So once Allah don't Mighty Name himself with a name that is revealed in the book, we believe in it, and you can use the word ad before it to name

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somebody. Abdullah Abdul Rahman are the city okay. But you do not use a name for any name, which is not any of Allah's names, or because you assume so, or you think so. So simply, a sitar has not been confirmed in any Hadith or any narration as it is one of Allah's names. I understand that the name of the sitar is very common across the Muslim world, particularly in the Arab world. So, if you cannot change it to the city or up to SATA, it's not up to you to change it. That's fine. Some of the Sahaba still names of their fathers because they could not change them.

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Sister Fatma Kuru See,

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she says in her question, when my husband when a husband dies, how are the household items treated? Do they belong to the wife or part of total inheritance? The person cannot afford to pay college fees. If I give him the money for the payment of the fees, can that count as Zakah? Okay, we've got two questions. The first question is very interesting. And it's very important a lot of people when the husband dies, so the wife takes over, you know, the flat the house, the palace, develop the property or the building because I'm living in it and anything behind the closed doors is my property is that the right thing to do? And sometimes when a child is taking care or looking after

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his parents or one of them and they have some belongings, some valuables whenever he dies, so whatever is in my house is mine. Is that the right thing to do? No, it is not the right thing to do. So price, whenever somebody buys anything that he leaves behind is an inheritance that should be divided amongst all ears, according to the Divine distribution law, which is in surah, Nisa, and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So when I die,

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my wife, she opens a closet. I have how many thoughts? And how many shirt and how many pair of trousers and ring and watch and all of that she doesn't say this all the belongings of my honey of my beloved one, I gotta keep them with me. I get a look at them. I get a kiss them are going to hug them. No.

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This is the property of all the years.

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What about the furniture? What about the flat or about this nice frame. If anything that he bought for you as a gift, it's use exclusively for you.

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In the furniture, he bought them as a dowry, as it happens in the Middle East.

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That when a couple gets married the husband instead of paying cash, he buys the furniture as a dowry for his wife. The furniture use what about the flat that will live in and if we're talking about the cloth, pair of shoes, and the watch the ring depends the computers the phone, you have the phone is my husband's phone. It used to be your husband's now it is the property of Al Waratah old ears. Oh my god, he didn't know that. Yes, I know that many people do not know that. And many people if they're looking after the mother or they're looking after their father, and she dies and she leaves her jewelry,

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their watches and their valuables they think it's because I was you know taking good care of them now it's my property that sift

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that is safe. Unless if the person in his life good

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give you this as a gift.

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Unless if the person in his or her life gave you as a gift, either writing or you possessed it, because now you've become a trustee and should be trustworthy to reveal all the properties or what the

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position positions and belonging have the person left behind in order to be distributed, perhaps your children now if a wife lost her husband, and the children said, Mom, everything is yours. Okay, that's a win win situation. hamdulillah but again, we're going to have another condition when the mother dies, and who's going to take

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the properties the same that the property is because there is a flat somewhere and there is a car here or there and there is even the the retirement plan decompensation that comes from work that will be distributed amongst all ears of get many questions in this regard. So please, brothers and sisters, when somebody dies, everything that he leaves behind a pen or watch a can of shoes, a pair of shoes, a suit, not just a property, not just the flat the furniture as long as he did not specifically in his life gave it to somebody then it is a property of old ears, they should get together to distribute everything sometimes is distributed as is sometimes the appraise How much is

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this how much is there and whoever would like to take this with compensate the rest for cash or work out something so every thing every item, which only belong to the dead person, not to any of the IRS will have to be distributed amongst all the years. Salam aleikum

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Welcome to the program welcome and good evening to to

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coincidentally, my question I can hear you speaking on inheritance, but with a slight My question has a slight difference.

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Actually, if I can give away my

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two bad sister Amasa Hara

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please call again. I'm very interested in hearing your question please.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Sister Omar Abdullah from Egypt. Welcome Salam rahmatullah wa barakato.

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My question is,

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if someone works at a supermarket, where one of the is money and from working at a supermarket, where one of the items is taught me is halal, and also another question

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if one I think the first question there is an error in it, you say that one item in the supermarket is halal. You mean one item is haram

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Am I right

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Omar Abdullah

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Okay, please try again.

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She's still on the line.

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Sir Omar Abdullah.

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Okay, please. You guys hang up and have her call back. Okay. Because your first question you say if somebody is working in a supermarket, and there is one item in the supermarket is halal.

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Maybe you have meant to say that one item in the supermarket is haram because if only one item in supermarket is halal, you don't have to call me to ask because obviously, if the rest of the items are haram then it is not permissible to work in such an I doubt that in a supermarket everything would be haram. So please call back.

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Caruso second question, if a person cannot afford to pay college fees, if I give them money for the payment of the fees, can that count as the cap? Here is the point we pay does occur to those who are eligible because they are poor and they cannot afford it. Whether the person pays it towards his wedding, or his education, or to feed his family as long as he's poor or Miskin and is eligible. Pay them this occur. And do you know best how to dispense this money Salaam Alaikum

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says that a mob Allah will come back

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if someone works at a supermarket where one of the products sold there is pork meat. It's just one of the one of the products there are many products

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sold a supermarket. So if one of the products sold there is pork meat, is it halal, that money and from

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there and also if someone has missed the pay the annual growth has occurred and they paid as soon as they remembered, will that be accepted? Okay, that both your questions Thank you. Now that makes sense. Is it permissible to work in a supermarket where there is one item which is haram? So is it halal to work in this supermarket? Well, if you don't have any job, if you can find an alternative, and this is the only opening and as long as you do not service this item, even you ring it on the cash register, then it is permissible, but it is not permissible to sell pork. It is not permissible to sell whatever Allah has forbidden in the Hadith. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said in Allah

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either Harlem, Cheyenne Harlem Femina, whenever Allah for bids an item, then its price is forbidden. It is not permissible to sell anything which Allah has forbidden its use or its consumption, whether it's alcohol, whether it is poor, whether it's dogs, it's not permissible to sell dogs as pets, is not permissible to sell pork sandwich even to those who perceive it as halal or lawful for them to eat.

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Since that almost Zara from Nigeria will come back.

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I thought, let's see, I am asking if I can give away my late husband's belongings as senator, can I make this decision on behalf of my children? Because they're on the age? Will it be? Will it be okay, and there will be open on me try to do that. I have to consult them first, because you said that they're old, they're grown up. So each one of your children have a share of the inheritance in the pen and the tie in the suit in the shoes. So you don't have any right to make the decision on their behalf or in their estate without consulting them. Because this is their property, I know that you're their mother. But this is their property to you have a share, which is one eight, and each

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one of them have a share in it. So when you gather them and say, Honey, my beloved one, my daughter, my son, I'm going to donate all your

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father's clothes, or belonging those items. So of course Mom No problem, then that's permissible.

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Because the the belonging of your father are not here of your husband, your late husband, may Allah admission him and not his anymore, nor are they yours. You have a share and then one eight, and this belongs to somebody else. It could be only your children if he doesn't if he doesn't have builder parents. But if you have parents need to have a share of the inheritance and they have to approve you donation of his property after his death.

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Sister Omar Abdullah second question

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that she owed Zakah on gold and she forgot to pay it can I make it obvious of course you can make it up ruffian on metal Hapa when you see an enormous Tokiwadai This is what the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said that my own mail will not be bothered for anything that they do by error or by by mistake, or error, forgetfulness, or if they were forced to do it, you know, it was again is there one. So now this is by our forgetfulness. So once you remember similar to the prior m&m on solid in illness, you have failure Solea annata Zakharova like a formula that you forgot to pray us and now it is memory, you are asleep, and you got to bed session, go ahead and make up the missed

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prayer. You forgot to pay the care, not only on gold, because they are on gold, there is a difference of opinion and we discuss this so many times before, but any Zakah that you forgot to pay even 10 years ago, or you did not they did not pay deliberately and now we knew that you were supposed to pay the care and you will told you don't say pass this pass. No. You have to make it up. Because this is a debt that you owe to the poor people and you also owe to Allah, the Almighty why then Allah He helped you and your brothers and sisters by that will come to the end of today's edition of your program ask Allah may Allah Almighty benefit us with useful knowledge and guide us

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to at his best and help us to act upon the Quran and the Sunnah the guidance of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam Akoto Cody had that was tough it was a cool masala long and sad no Mohammed you know Allah and he also have your salat wa salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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Your Mercies word I beseech keep in mind to remember and singing you

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Dean allow me to advance me my

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permit me to pass the test me my

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permit me to pass the

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Allies my heart

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Your mercy is what I

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keep in my heart You remember and send in your dean allow me to advance me my

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permit me to be

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