Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #065 May 21st 2014

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The conversation covers the history of Islam, including the implementation of Islam as a religion and the use of negative language. The importance of praying for the whole night and staying at night to avoid wasting time is emphasized. The importance of fasting during prayer, avoiding drinking during the night, following guidance, following guidance, following advice, following the Prophet's message to divorce women, following the importance of forgiveness, following controversial statements, and staying true to the Bible. The segment ends with a discussion of the importance of religious education and the need for parents to confirm their stance. The importance of forgiveness and continuous charity are also discussed.
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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him, the only humans to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God has the greatest, long annoying Glory to him on any Jonas to be the best and give his best religion.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Smilla Rahmanir Rahim pays me to Allah alone we all pay them and we seek His help of Allah guides is a truly guided one. And observer Allah leaves us a nun can show him guidance made with peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. Brothers and sisters. Welcome to another new edition of your program Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah that is the area third episode in the series of Guardians of the pious, explaining the 14th chapter which is moderation in worship. And that is a second episode in this chapter. May Allah Almighty guide us what is best May Allah Almighty teach us what we don't know and help us to

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act upon what we have learned. I mean, the second Hadith in the chapter and it is Hadith number 143. In this hadith, enter Sidney Malik karate Allahu Anhu. Call Dr. Salah Sakurai in illegible ut as well as in the video sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Yes Aluna and Eva that in a V sallallahu alayhi wa sallam fell Amma or Kabiru can call Lou here. We'll call you a international mean and be your Salah Allahu alayhi wa sallam. For those who fear Allah who met academicism be one at a hall. Call it a huddle room and enter that also Lee Leila Aveda will call her we're gonna assume oh, Dara, Abaddon well off to her. We'll call it air for we're an art as you don't use failure as a word whoever the

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam ala him for call. And to Molina Coulton Qaeda al Qaeda. Mr. Wallahi Neela Akshay Kumar Lila, we're at car Comilla lacking the AppSumo after, but also lower our code. We're at SM module new set. firmer Ravi Bansal Nettie fillet, 70 Matata con la NS Sydney Malik, may Allah be pleased with him the rated that a group of three companions of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet peace be upon him. They asked about the worship of the Prophet peace be upon him when they were told, they consider their a badass, their worship insufficient. And he said, where are we in comparison with the Prophet peace

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be upon him, while Allah has forgiven his past and future sins? So one of them said, As for me, I shall offer prayer all night long.

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And the other side, I shall observe fasting continuously, and I shall not break it on on a single day.

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And the third say, I shall keep away from women, and I shall never marry.

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The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam came to them and said, Are You the people who said such and such things? By Allah, I feel Allah more than you do.

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And I am most obedient and youthful among you to him, but still, I observe fasting and I bake it. I perform prayer at night, and I sleep at night as well. And I also marry women. So whoever turns away from my sunnah, my traditions, my way of life, then he does not belong to me the hadith is agreed upon its authenticity and the word raw, the bear in the face are only abandoned Suniti

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the word riba depends on the following proposition. So if you say you're on eBay, if he means he's interested in, he likes it. All he ban means he does not have any interest in it. He turns away from it. The word telco on blue hair with a JSON or text deed, with this deed on The Laura lamb

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means they considered it in sufficient. They consider that insufficient. This hadith brothers and sisters is one of the most important ahaadeeth For the gospel regulating our relationship

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to Allah and to our worship.

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Because when it comes to worship, you got to understand that when you worship Allah Almighty, you have to worship him according to his prescription not according to your assumption.

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Now, according to what you think what I assume, is more befitting or more proper, or it may bring you closer to Allah. It is only Allah Who knows best, what will bring you closer to him? And what will not because of that many people actually went astray while they were hoping that they will get closer to Allah, the Almighty, many sects, they became Davian because of their practices, which have nothing to do with the mainstream with the practices of the Sharia. And the word extreme, does not necessarily mean that somebody is overdoing things. It also mean because it seems either way. The middle way is what is in between what Cavalli Caja Anna come on Mata was Fatah. And that's what made

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you a moderate a middle way OMA

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middle way between the two extremes. So there is one extreme, where people will overdo things overburden themselves and eventually they will slow down and maybe they will even quit entirely. And this is very repetitive. We have seen this and it will continue to happen because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said in the Hadith, in Le kuliah, Hermelin Chava.

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Were in any coalition what in fattura every act has a zeal point where the person would do his best concerning the app, whether it is a citation of the Quran or fasting or any act of worship, and every Z would have a Fatra a period during which you slow down.

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So whoever's Fatra or slackness, would resort to the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he would not decrease it to the point that he would not fulfill the fault. Rather, he would maintain the fourth and the average voluntary acts of worship, he is successful.

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But the person's HETRA slackness and laziness was slow him down to quit everything and thirdly, there is a loser and that will happen as a result of going to the extreme overdoing things, overburden yourself with a better and thinking that it will bring you closer to Allah and it is good for you. So this is going to the extreme as far as overdoing things. The other extreme is being negligent entirely or partially for how the firm embody him handphone Avasarala at our table shouty herself Elko, Nevada yeah Surat Maria, Allah subhanaw taala spoke about some of the children of Israel as generation, although salata, the interpreters of the Quran, say the word although Salah

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does not mean that they did not pray entirely, rather other are selected, they wasted their prayers by offering the prayer on time and this is the first step.

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And the second step is so slow down, combine the prayers all at once. And the third step to sleep without praying entirely.

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Satan will not come to one who actually prays on regular basis and say to him, there is no need to pray, what is the significance of the prayer will not come to one who fast during Ramadan and perhaps three days every month and say, You're starving yourself and you hurting yourself for what? Never? Satan is smarter than that. He'll come to me and say, shall Allah fasting is very beautiful. Why don't you fast extra, and the person will be very convinced that I love fasting, and I cannot afford to fast more. It happened to some of the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, they fasted beyond sunset, and others exceeded the boundaries and they decided to connect the

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fasting of two days to fast continuously without breaking the first in the middle.

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Why do you want it to compete with a Prophet sallallahu sallam? It happened to some of the tambourine that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam appointed in the court. The place where he assumed the intention of a haram for Hajj or Umrah, I don't know so if you're coming from Medina, a place was she was she was known today as Obeah. Ronnie, somebody said, You know what? I'm gonna perform a haram from right in front of the grave of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam this lucky

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10 kilometers or 50 miles away from the appointed market.

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So one of the companions says to him, don't do it. He said, why not? I'm doing it from the machine of the Prophet and from in front of his grave, he said, Are you better than the Prophet? You need to ask yourself this question.

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Because this is a deception of Satan, as I say, gonna take you back to the clock of Satan. He is not going to tell you slow down, don't pray, rather he will push you further more, until you overdo it, you go too extreme, then you become weary, you get very tired and experienced fatigue and say, you slow down or you quit entirely, you burn yourself. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam meseta in Alman betta la kata while Warren aapke which means a person who travels day and night

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travelers, by via what mean riding on the back of a camel or a horse or a donkey, the camel the ride even your car, you cannot drive your car for like 448 hours in a row, you have to cool it off, you have to give the engine a break, you have to stop for refueling and check on the gas and the water and so on. So, why if you keep driving non stop unit and you keep driving, you will see the engine this is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said for annulment better the person who will travel day and night non stop loss or long copper, you will never be able to cover the whole earth in one journey. So slow down. Take it easy. While other Harun aapke which means and you're going to see is

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the engine of your vehicle. You're going to kill your ride every animal or eventually it will be sick, slow down and sit down it will kneel down and we'll move why because you over used it.

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Look at the moderation of Islam, even in worship. And that's why in this incident, when some of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who have heard Allah subhanaw taala seen in the Quran in surah teammoto 15 where he the early Kaffir Leah Tana facil Muthana FISU led the competitors compete concerning what concerning heaven concerning gardens of Paradise concerning the water spring watch its mix is from Tasneem and heaven, beautiful description of agenda, let them compete to enter it. Competition then in good deeds in doing good and righteous deeds. Then we're sorry Oh Isla Melville Filati mela become Warden nothing now who has to do that little turkey Sadie Oh, Russia is only

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together towards forgiveness and heaven, WhatsApp equal in Surah, Al Hadid and so on. So they wanted to compete, but with whom, with the Prophet peace be upon him. So they went to his wives.

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They went to our Isha, they went to the Mothers of the Believers. And he asked what kind of worship does a Prophet sallallahu Ali's lmsc? Well, Allah subhanaw taala said in in the Quran, not a beggar Alamo and Nikita como Adonai Missoula, Missoula V Layli. One is for who are thrilled with the who the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to pray. Sometimes when third, sometimes one half, sometimes two thirds of the night in worship, no one can afford that. And the Ramadan he will you stand up the whole night in prayer and in worship. So that companions inquired about his prayers, his fasting, his now I feel, so they decided to compete with the Prophet sallallahu ala Salah for two reasons for

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Canon Takalua. The other thought that the worship is very little concern compared to the worship of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. They consider that a better insufficient, or they consider the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah celery has been given the guarantee that he will be the first to enter heaven. So for them in order to get such assurance, they have to compete with him, they have to do something extra, that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam himself does not even do.

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And this is where they come to the conclusion. When decided that I'm going to pray for the whole night of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam prays 1/3 Two thirds, one half of the night. I'm going to pray for the whole night, non stop, no sleep at night. But you know what will be the outcome of that while the outcome of that you're going to sleep during the day? Because as a human being you need to rest. What happens if you roll

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Get my nightshift if I'm recording in the studio if I have a live show to suit the state's time,

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then I keep working until fed. By the time I pray federal sometimes when I'm leading the prayer in federal

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I make some very simple mistakes indicates that that I'm not aware of from reciting unto sleepy. And this is what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, he then asked how you can file your codes.

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If you feel sleepy, especially in the night prayer in the voluntary prayer, lie down. Why? Lest you may seek instead of seeking forgiveness for yourself, you incur a curse. Or instead of praying for yourself, you pray against yourself. Why? Because you're not attentive. You don't know what you're saying? Well, Allah subhanaw taala said to the believers, in one of the stages of prohibiting drinking, what did he say? Yeah, man, hola Dakar, Abu Salah tower and tomb suka had talam. Mata coloane.

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Don't you pray while being intoxicated, if you're drunk, do not pray. There was a third stage of the stage before the last in the prohibition of drinking.

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He broke it down into stages. So if you get a drink, make sure that you would not have to attend a prayer in an hour or a couple hours by the time you wake up from the fields that you drank. Okay. So that means throughout the day, they will not be drinking because there are five daily prayers and drinking will be only limited to a couple hours a night. And this time most people sleep

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then what is the effective cause of the prohibition? Why don't you? Why shouldn't you pray while being intoxicated at that Alamo Mata Kowloon

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in order to know what you're reciting the person may instead of saying, Oh ALLAH forgive me, he prays against himself.

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And I was teaching a course in Houston, Texas. And this is like a crash course eight hours a day in addition to a lecture afterward. And I was so exhausted, and I still lead the prayer. And I made a mistake in the citation of Surah Fatiha when I was leading the actual prayer, my brother was praying with us and I said, I told you, you're a human being, you can just overdo it. Look, you just made a mistake in Surah Al Fatiha it is not a matter of being very well memorize or not, but

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you don't have control over this mine anymore. So take it easy. So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam heard what happened. The first one said I shall pray all night long. And the second made a vow that he will fast on every single day. Not breaking his fast at all. He was told that the Prophet Salah Salem fast on 13th 14th and 15th of every lunar month in addition to we used to fast on Mondays and Thursdays as we discussed repeatedly, so they say that's not too much. I can do more. I can do more. I'm gonna fast on every single day,

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every single day and I can afford it. Similar to what Abdullah had number of the last May Allah be pleased with him dead. Abdullah Nam Read the last his father getting married under the laws getting married. And he went to check on him he was in home. So he chatted with his daughter No, honey, how are you? How's my son to you? She said Nam Alhamdulillah Masha Allah, he's an excellent servant to his Lord. And this is a very beautiful metaphor. She did not mean to embarrass or to blame her husband for being a devout worshiper. But meanwhile, she was not given any of her rights that he was married only on papers she said, masha Allah Masha Allah he's an excellent servant, but with his

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is very grateful to Allah subhanaw taala he did not even touch me so far. Oh, wow. Abdullah hip Nam rib Millis

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was in trouble now because his father went to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and complained to him. And Salah salem said I was told that you pray all night long, and you face on every single day. And you finish the Quran every three days or every day. He said yes, yes, yes. Yes. You know, he's very happy. He said don't do that. He was really disappointed. Why not? He said, As far as fasting three days every month is enough. Bomb you

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longer than I can afford, I actually can do it. Is it well, then first, Mondays and Thursdays, I can more do more than that you said then the maximum you can do is similar to profit David's fasting every other day.

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And the prophets Allah Selim did not approve fasting, any fasting beyond that every other day so that you can take a break, and that's too much sin.

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As far as the Quran, he said, I was told that you recited the Quran, wholly and fully every night or every day. He said, Yes, he said, Don't

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recited once a month. I said, No, that's too low, I can recite more than that. Every seven days finish the Quran ones is still I can afford more than that. He said, then the maximum is three days. Or actually, let me rephrase it the minimum time that you can recite the Quran during a three days. Why? So that you understand it? You understand what you're reciting? You know?

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Then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said, with regards to the wife, she has rights upon you, as well as Allah has rights upon you and your body has rights upon you. And basically, when you walk out your body, you lose it. When you abuse it, even in a bad day you lose it, and you will quit entirely. And this is what Sandman said to me though, that may Allah be pleased with all of them. And whenever that came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam complaining that Sandman made me break my fast and he made me waste most of the night of the prayer I used to pray the whole night he made me only pray like an hour or so before fed. And he taught me that in Arabic garlic or hubco in zody

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carica hepco In Nullabor Donica Hatco in Eleazer Rika like a hub club for African lady happy and happy. Allah has a right upon you your wife has rights upon you, you guess have rights upon you, your body your own body has rights upon you. So fulfil everybody's right.

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Give everyone their due rights. When it came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam complaining the prophets Allah Allah Allah cinemas head sadaqa Sandman, Sandman has spoken the truth. Take it easy. So an abuse Allah Allah seldom heard about the valves of the three companions.

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Then he went to them said I was told that you guys made such and such Val. They said yes, yeah rasool Allah. He said Indeed. In Nila Akshara, Camilla, who at kakula

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I am the most gut feeling of all of you.

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I am the most beloved to Allah subhanho wa taala. And I love him most. I feel Allah more than you do. And I am most obedient and youthful among you to Allah. But still,

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I fast. And I begged my fair some days, I pray at night, and a rest

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during the rest of the night, and I'm married, then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam give this very, very decisive decision when he said, This is not a joke. This is not an optional thing from a rotary band. Suniti Fellay Samini whosoever turns away from my tradition, for my practices for my son not that he does not belong to me, why the prophets Allah Salam was afraid that you overdo what soon you will perish, because you will quit, you will be overwhelmed. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said the best deed is the one which is continuous and consistent, even if it is a lawyer. I know many present this hadith whenever I'm asked about the definition of Buddha and innovation, this is to me

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like a cornerstone in the subject of discussing the innovations. And they say if anyone who adopts an innovation believes himself better than any of the three companions come forward and tell us why do you think yourself better than the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and whenever somebody says I do whatever I do with the good intention that people will get together on the third, or in the 40s or once every year to commemorate the remembrance of their beloved person, they recite the Quran they pass on each one one part of the Quran or they do whatever means of commemoration,

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why? It's a good thing. We've seen the peace and the blessings upon the profit result or earn and each one results so far, in this particular manner. That's an innovation

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while retention is

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Good. It's a good opportunity to get together and start Quran and make dua for the day the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not do it. And the Hadith teaches us he said what Mareeba answered Nettie fellas, I mean, your intention is good and sincere, I do not doubt that, as well as those companions, no one doubts their sincerity, because if you read the Hadith from the beginning, they inquire from the the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam about his worship, and they wanted to compete with him and this is a good thing, the intention is good, but when they chose a manner, that is different than the manner of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he was disapproved, even though it was

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concerning, so for sure, fasting prayers, and somebody just wanted to avoid women so that he can devote his entire life to worship, refused,

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When the companion who was taught the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that when you go to sleep, you say and then to be kita, Micheletti and Zelt will be in a vehicle lady ourselves.

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Remember the Hadith we'll discuss it before great companion of the Prophet sallahu Salam said when you go to sleep when you go to bed, lie on your right side and say this make a lot more to hear then by the end, you say amen to be Kitab ik lady and Zelt I believe in your book which you have sent down whenever you can learn it ourselves and I believe in your Prophet whom You have sent. So the Campania say Let me recite it Yeah, Rasul Allah in order to memorize it. And he came to say amen to vikita Because Allah De Anza whare Zuleika lady or Celt, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam stabbing and said no say whenever you can lead yourself, what difference would it make? Well Rasul has a higher

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status than the were the Prophet. But the Prophet sallallahu sallam said say it as is. And then to be kita be calorie and salt whenever you can let it have salt. And he had to repeat it as as some people are very stubborn. They say I recite in the Tasha hood Allahumma Salli, ala sayyidina, Muhammad wa ala early say at Nam Mohammed, before you open your mouth, yes, he is our side. He's our master, no doubt. And he said, he said NSA you do already Adam a young Malkia and that he will

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he's not just the side of the believers. They say it of all the human beings yet in the prayer in the namaz whenever you're sad the route Sharif whenever you decide at the hayyat Atisha hood, you must recite it as it was prescribed. We're going to take a short break. We'll continue with the subject in sha Allah in a couple of minutes please stay tuned

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salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu and we'll come back quick reminder with our phone numbers beginning with a code 00201 double 024645 a three and other number beginning with the record as well as 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 and email addresses [email protected] The following hadith is the third Hadith in the in the chapter it's chapter number 14 Moderation in worship. And it is Hadith number 144 Masha Allah by the Grace of Allah and even you miss oh the role the Allahu Anhu and maybe your Salah Allah Allah He was a llama call hella Kel moto now three rune call SLS and of our Muslim

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Abdullah him the Mossad may Allah be pleased with him reported that the Prophet peace be upon him said, Those who go to the extremes in religion are doomed. And he repeated three times. Those who are extreme will perish, or the extremists will perish. They repeated it twice. And the hadith is collected by an imam Muslim, may Allah have mercy on him. What is the meaning of going to extremes and Islam? Is it considered extremism? For instance, if a man decided to grow a beard?

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Is it

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if a man decided not to shave clean every morning and decided to grow a beautiful beard? Is it considered extremism? It's a very valid question.

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Is it considered extremism if a woman decided to wear a face veil because based on these great

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Asians. Now the believers are being categorized. He's fanatic. She's extremist and the speakers likewise, they categorize them. So this speaker, they will give him a visa and this speaker adopts the view that the niqab is permissible, or the niqab is recommended. Don't give him a visa. We're gonna find out what is extremism. Salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Sarada from Egypt, salaam alaikum.

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evening. Good evening to you. Where are you from? Originally sister Raba. I'm from Nigeria, but I live in Egypt. Okay. Okay.

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There's something that is going on in the Nigerian society, especially the not some part of Nigeria. And what I'm going to talk about right now is eating healthy society destroying marriages in Nigeria.

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Mothers telling the sounds to divorce their wives, that the perfect perfect, grandma was the

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perfect rental perfect a smile to divorce

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his wife, so they think they have the right to tell their sons to divorce their wives.

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So and this is something that is really, really it's not the society Islamically then you and the men tend to tell the women that my mother says so you know, a loved one at home, I said, You should respect our mother, I have to do it. I don't want to divorce you. But I have to.

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Sometimes do the mothers even realize me does not matter.

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To the wife to go. So I just don't understand. I don't know if this is legal. This is right. Islamically for good or evil to do this.

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This is called extremism.

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This is called extremism. And let me tell you this, once one of our predecessors was asked, somebody came to him and said that my father is ordering me to divorce my wife. He said Why is she a disobedient wife? Is she a bad woman? He said no, she is a very righteous woman. But I have to because my father ordered me by analogy to the story of Ibrahim, when he left him and not change the doorstep of your house. Or it means divorce your wife and he innocently that they said but well, but your father is not Ibrahim.

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Your father is not as pious as Prophet Ibrahim Ali Salam sometimes. And because I do marriage counseling all the time. I see some parents, they do it out of jealousy. Or they do it for worldly reasons. And it is a matter of competition or challenge. They destroy families, they don't care about the future of their grandchildren. And this is ridiculous. Only if there is a legitimate reason. If there is a wisdom behind it. Like if this woman is not, she doesn't pray she insists on going out in bad manners. Now there's the properly, she's abusive. So there is a reason which even without the consultation or the advice, or the recommendation of the parents, the person have to

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complete a divorce in this case. But if the woman is a wise woman, if the woman if the wife is a Hamdulillah, or at least one and the father says you got to divorce your wife. Why father, you just have to divorce it. Why do as Ibrahim told his son and he complied with him? Well, you're not Ibrahim Ali Salam with my due respect. I'm not gonna oppress a wrong a woman for no reason.

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If you give me a legitimate reason, we'll think about it. Subhan Allah Allah Almighty ordered in the Quran reconciliation, divorce is the last resort after a long series of serial attempts of reconciliation. And finally for battle Hakim, I'm in a hurry, you will hack and I mean earlier, but not just for personal interest divorced and universal Of course that is not approved.

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Now, I got lost, we're talking about

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what is considered an extremism

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or is it the person goes a beard if the girl decided to,

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you know,

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wear a face veil. Many, many Egyptian women.

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You know, mothers would call me and say I'm very worried about my daughter. Say why what is wrong? That she did somebody? Did she go out with boys what is wrong? She said, No, no, no, no, we don't have this problem. So what is wrong?

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decided to run a club. She decided to cover her face and the father would say about the son that my son prays every father in the machine, I'm very worried about him. And I say to myself, which wallet which wall the I'm living in.

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Once I had to be very harsh when I was speaking to one of those parents and said, subhanAllah you know, there are a lot of parents who are dying to make their children just pray

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or stop their daughters from dating boys, older sons from smoking, smoking drugs or smoking cigarettes, Allah subhanaw taala with no effort on your behalf whatsoever have rightly guided your son. You complain because he prays Phaedra in the masjid.

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You complain because your daughter does not have boyfriends.

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Is this a Muslim society? What what do you think? How do you think? So that's not extremism. The barrier is and the determining factor is if what you do something that has reference in the Quran or in the Sunnah sound reference, and you're doing this to simply follow the guidance of the Quran or the tradition of the Prophet salaallah Salam. This is the ministry. And this is how you keep yourself steadfast on the straight path, only when you overdo it. As there will be a hadith in the chapter about Zainab Rhodiola Juan has entered into Jash who keep praying all night and she stretched that row between the two poles in the masjid. Even though she's tired, she's leaving, but

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she was still praying while hanging on the rock. No, that is dismissed. Don't do that.

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If your son decided to spend the whole day in the masjid, or I have some youth, sometimes they go extreme. Somebody brought their son or their child and he's in last year in engineering school. And he decided to quit the study why Boko Haram? They said it's not permissible to study science, engineering and math. The OMA is a need for religious scholars. I said and the OMA is also in network engineers and for doctors, for nurses for teachers. Right? Is it this is all Hara Subhanallah I tried and I tried and I tried with him. And I said, I'll be more than happy to call initial that whom you believe and, and I will put him on the phone and you will hear from him. I

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tried to persuade him to stop or to convince him to go to the test because he was very excellent student. He excelled in his education. But he quit. A year later or so him shaved clean.

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And on the other extreme, and this is what the Prophet sallallahu wasallam I say the herrlichen maternal platoon. The extremists will perish you can continue this way salam alaikum.

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Brother fares from Uganda, Salaam Alaikum.

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Wa Rahmatullah.

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Go ahead by the face. Hello. Yeah, I can hear you. Go ahead, please.

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My question

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what is the best way to make dua for the date? Because in my homework come from, after 40 days, they collect people around they do decide the Quran and make dua for people passed away.

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And as you say, this is not good.

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What's the best way to do it? Thank you very much. You're most welcome brother phase.

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A Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah habra catch.

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Brother Muhammad from United Arab Emirates

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y la cama Salam rahmatullah wa barakato.

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My uncle just passed away which evening in

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we all belong to Allah, masha return, may Allah have mercy on him?

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I had like two questions regarding that. One is can you please join us as a family members who have been in

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secondary? What's the best way of

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and 100 resumes that is something which should be offered more and more. Are there any other ways to which we can send you

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something by Brother Mohammed, you say? It could be done but what can we do? Muhammad? He passed away in another country.

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Yes. Okay. So you're asking about offering the funeral prayer in his absence? Salah Tula. Okay, thank you. Jessica. LaFell Baraka Luffy

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brother phase from organda You

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And organda is a very dear place to me we've been there we enjoy doing the hour there and debates Alhamdulillah with with the priests from Nigeria from Uganda from Kenya

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and the brothers there are very kind hearted Masha Allah Masha Allah,

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the practice of comma mating the remembrance of the dead person after 40 days, it doesn't seem that it's only limited to the Indo Pak society or the Egyptian society or the Arabic society it is wide spreading. I wish that we managed to split the Sunnah as much as the people who adopt the innovations actually work hard to propagate it.

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What did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam do? Whenever any of his daughters died, his wives his companions? What did the Companions do to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam after he died? After the barrier, you hang around, he stopped by the graveyard and make dua about 20 minutes, seek forgiveness for the person, then you are dismissed. There is no gathering afterward whatsoever by 30 days or 40 days or a year, no matter how great is that person.

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Know that doubt that he would not be greater than the Prophet Salah Salem were as great as him or their companions. So we follow Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him in these auditions. So after the burial, you see forgiveness for the person. After the burial, you assist the people who lost their beloved one send them food as a Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said he said sallallahu alayhi wa early he was Salam is not really any Jaffa apartment in NaVi Emory near Shalom salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Sister SCF from the case a

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sister NCSLMA

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Salam rahmatullah wa barakato Welcome to the program Sister

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Yes, I hear you

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let me in from United Arab Emirates salam alaikum. Please are against.

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Yeah, go ahead, brother Lamine.

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It was nice talking to you share your good month for me. Likewise, thank you, UK most of my life, because whatever I was doing for more than 20 years, what I'm saying to you, there was

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allegations because whatever you said, rarely, rarely rarely we take it into consideration. hamdulillah May Allah guide us all of us to what is best? And shall I say, question?

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I, whenever I've been doing this for more than 20 years.

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The first thing is every time I finish prayer, I will do

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I'll do controversial.

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Stuff that will last seven times and Salon seven times this article, because somebody told me it's good

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to get these other things anywhere and sooner or something.

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I'm thinking better if

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you do that in the beginning of the prayer or after you finish.

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Okay, neither in the beginning nor in the end that is prescribed in the beginning of the prayer. You begin by there is an opening supplication then at least they are there. I also live in a shelter regime then I'll Bismillah Bismillah R Rahman Raheem and then a citation of Al Fatiha after you finish the prayer. He Tamil salah or ceiling of the prayer you will find it hung in every message it says you say Estelle for Allah Estelle for Allah stuff Allah, you see forgiveness three times. Okay?

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By the way, if you want to see forgiveness 10,000 times during any other time you're free to do that, that is a commended fine. But when you say you do this seven times in a particular manner or a particular time, and that is like a reference.

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It becomes problematic especially this is pertaining the prayer. So after you finish the prayer, you make that beer still fall. And you say aloha Monticello Monica Salah and Tabarrok, the gelato ikura you recite Atal corsi you recite Alma with that, then you make that as we handed the Hamid and attack we're 33 times each, as usual Baraka Luffy okay, I apologize to the callers who are on the line because we really are running out of time.

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You can begin ringing in sha Allah next time soon as we begin the next segment. The second segment in Guardians of the pious is dedicated to answer questions and receive phone calls. I know that as I heard from many people that are reluctant to call because they think that you know, they will interrupt the continuity of the subject. The conversation about the hadith is in the first segment, second segment, we will continue talking about the Hadith or other Hadith as long as we don't have calls or questions.

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So Brother Mohammed with regards to

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the 40 days that is not a sunnah practice, just make us the far at all time and send charity for him. And it will be accepted Brother Mohammed from United Arab Emirates offering the funeral prayer for somebody who passed away. If this person, somebody already offered the funeral pray for him in his country. Then there is no Salah to law for him anymore. Okay, but rather you can make dua for him. You can seek forgiveness for him, ask Allah to have mercy on him. each one individually can give in a charity and say oh Allah give their word of this to such and such person in your prayer, he can make God for him, if you will, if you wish to perform or Umbra in his state in his state or

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Hajj that will be accepted as well. So

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the continuous charity, performing Umrah or Hajj all of that will benefit that person and let's seize this opportunity and pray for you. late uncle may Allah have mercy on him and all the good Muslims Allahu Amin, a full house he had stuff for Allah Allah welcome, wa salam ala ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam TO BE CONTINUED inshallah next week until this time as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He only has to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the Greatest. The long, annoying glory to Him.

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Used to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that? forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping cows fire and stones, sending the rescue the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about * and bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best and cheapest

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