Channel: Muhammad Hoblos
I'm so hungry later today I,
I visited Ameen Islamic library.
And I was really, truly blown away.
And I was very, very humbled by the brother who is like my father.
costing, I mean,
whom I have the utmost respect for he really humbled me today.
So never before Has anyone told me what to talk about.
But today he told me what to talk about.
So I will take each one I dedicate tonight to humans.
And I would love for the young brothers that are in the back
to come inside, if possible.
Those young brothers that are out the vector.
I would love for them to come inside,
And the other thing is, before I start, I always like to start with this amazing hadith of Rasulullah salallahu alayhi salam
where he says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says none of you will enter Paradise until you believe.
And none of you will truly believe in till the love for your brother, what you love for yourself. So he says some of our values and he says Shall I tell you something that if you do it you will love one another? So the Sahaba said yes, our Prophet of Allah, He said gives the lambs to one another gifts the lamb to one another, it will increase the love. So if I can kindly ask you I know it's annoying but if I can kindly ask you oh and jela to stand up and give xlm to someone that you don't know. Gifts lm to a young guy inshallah we can all stand up together now inshallah give Salaam to each other will lie This is a tsunami rasulillah salam, O Allah
gives the lead to someone you don't know.
The seniors can give to the young guys
Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah. Our praise is due to Allah subhanho wa Taala, the king, the master, the Sustainer, the creator of the seven heavens and the earth and we send peace and blessings upon His Beloved Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
It is very important that when we come to a by end, we come to a lecture we come to a hotel, we come to anything to do with Dean.
We need to come with an open mind and an open heart and with some sincerity.
Do not be fooled by the banners and do not be fooled by posters. This is not an event.
We don't have events in Islam.
But rather This is the gathering where a lot is mentioned.
And we come here not because of the speaker, it doesn't matter who the speaker we can because any gathering where online is mentioned is the gathering with the angels take place and the forgiveness of a lot takes place.
So when we come to a lecture My dear respective brothers and seniors and my younger brothers, we come with an open heart and you should come in he almost assist is no one in the room but you.
You see many times people come to me and they'll tell me after that.
What an amazing talk. I wished My father was he man
you spoke about all the problems he has in his life.
Or sometimes, you know, I wish my auntie was the I wish my friend was I wish my business partner was the man everything you said you know, he really needed to eat almost as if you and I we don't need the the reminders not for me, you will not with the best people on earth. And everyone outside of this gathering is shaped by him. So this is the very sign of a sicart
because if your auntie or your mother or your business partner here, trust
them to be but they're not here you are here.
So the message is not for others the message is for you and I.
So we need to stop thinking about who's benefited
and start thinking about myself.
Because it's unfortunate today when we feel like I do
Saying many times now in South Africa, when we see you see we become conditioned with these.
We will read from cover to cover, and not a single verse applies to me, except the verses of Rama
everything else online speaking about aliens
he's speaking about foreigners when a law speaks about the signs of hypocrisy
doesn't apply to me
when I was speaks about Israel
not for you and it isn't what
we think is speaking about the Jews
for this fight will be yours t
but we read the Quran but for me the Quran is Baraka look at it, it's on the shelf we rub it now. But God forbid God forbid.
what Matthew what's the app Good, let's say and my mercy in compass is law shift when you say these words, I get shivers down my spine
Wow. But you don't get shivers when a law says and my punishment is to be you know why? You know why? because deep down in the corners in the depths of our hearts in places we don't speak about you and I have
that we're not going to janam that's why
feels the way you and I think and feel from the day from the first day of our life that the day that we die
so basically what I want to say is let's open our hearts today
let's Jamar you're speaking to me no one else in the gathering here but
you see my brothers when it comes to the industry parts of being
there with this the worship of Allah with the limbs.
And for many of us unfortunately that's where Islam in
please my brothers sometimes my words are very offensive. And I have no intention on insulting anyone or making anyone feel bad. I didn't leave my wife and children and travel over 24 hours flying. So I can come here and insult you and walk away doesn't benefit me in any way shape or form.
But I feel like we've spent our whole life with this hunky dory all soft and nice and rainbows and lollipops. Our Dean has been like this all our lives.
You see this the worship of the limbs?
It's very easy.
I have a nice bead.
I have a nice syberia I have a nice cap. I come to the numbers and I'm in the front row.
We are so shallow in our Deen we look at this is a well martial law.
But the truth is any caster can grow his beard
and any cashier can go walk into any of these slimming stores now and buy
a lot doesn't look at the actions a lot looks at the hearts.
You see the actions are supposed to purify the heart.
But unfortunately for many of us, that's where it stops.
So there's two parts of the deen there's the worship of Allah with the lead.
And more importantly, there's the worship of a law with the heart.
I'll give you a quick example. You guys don't have this problem he but we have this problem back home. This big the banks
and people studying knowledge and debates in
my own eyes, people from both sides.
He can talk to you.
But the same person when he comes to put money in charity, his heart shape
With the promise of Allah that if I give money alone will replace it for me. So
when it came
to a big fat zero
worship of the limbs and then there's the worship of the heart.
And Allah wants everything.
You see my brothers, we've been ordered by online His Prophet, to forgive and have mercy with one another.
This is the order of a lot
of your profit, to have mercy to forgive
the graduates to show compassion
is forgiven, let go. Don't you want a lot to forgive you?
He says those that don't show mercy and compassion, they will not be shown mercy and compassion.
You see my brothers, we all like to act like we are religious people.
But when push comes to shove
this noise Dean is a piece of velcro that comes right off.
And this is nice and why
our hearts are so sick and filthy.
To begin to let go my brothers, you see many of us we think that forgiveness.
Forgiveness is an option I
want, when I want, how I want, depending how I feel, maybe
maybe I want to be
Have you been Oh, it doesn't work like that.
and you are a slave. And we don't have opinions. We don't have free will, what
we do whether you like
and Allah has ordered us to forgive one another. Have mercy and compassion. Don't hang on to things. Let it go. Let it go. Let it go.
We don't like to let it go. Do we my brothers.
We love to hang on.
We love to hang on.
How many families how many families have been severed and ripped apart
we've been and always in the front row.
That there's been hatred between him and other individuals for years.
You see, this is the part of Dean we don't like talking about this part of the industry.
It's become socially accepted in our communities, that when there's a conflict even worse.
I will never see him again.
This isn't Dean.
This is different.
This isn't this is the furthest from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. But our hearts are filthy.
arrogance and pride.
arrogance and pride to forgive is the old rule of law, to forgive, to live. The believer doesn't hold grudges. The believer has
to try new things. But our society has become based on this. I asked you by a law Have you ever watched a Hollywood blockbuster movie that was based on at the end demand forgave the other person
imitate those who their life is closer for the lives of animals.
Look how a lot disgraces than humiliates a people. When you no longer look for a single line you look to others. Look our line mediates and disgraces us
watch a blockbuster movie because his daughter was kidnapped or something happened. And let me tell you, there is absolutely no scenario. There is no crime that can ever be inflicted on us. That gives me permission to
any crime. So don't come to me until
Your brother will lay that's a very nice talk. But you know my brother what he did to me? sure he's unforgiveable No, that's all
because of something small
will take the whole country
buildings and 40 people will die.
And we will watch it with a stupid smile on our faces. And it's all justified
because one person was harmed.
And at the end when he gets to the murder and he kills him there's a part of our bodies that feels like justice was so
two brothers and I'm sure everyone he at least knows at least one example in his life. Two brothers that were born from the same room
that ate from the same place drink from the same car, slept in the same bed and grew up in the same house.
Now they haven't spoken to each other for years.
Father and Son
don't speak to each other because the son must have done something or the father whatever it is.
We were friends we went to school with each other we love each other
and over something trivial something small
we haven't spoken in ease
these are all societies now.
But we think this
and this and coming to the masjid and praying
we're kidding ourselves
these haven't spoken to each other
you see my wife
she doesn't get along with his wife
so you know to keep the peace
we don't talk to them and they don't talk to us
so because of your wife
because of a woman
you don't speak to your brother.
dies Abdullah Joseph
Are you so shallow?
Are you so pathetic?
That you allow the woman to get between you and your brother?
She's my wife.
See, the truth is is because she slaps you and she owns you
she's not your wife. She's become your
shell What about the kids?
Forgive me man.
But for me
the hell with my wife and the hen with my kids. You see there are principles in life that
you will be marked with the flaws until the day you die.
When your wife
she doesn't like my mother much
so because of her
I know brothers that haven't spoken to their mothers in ease.
She doesn't make my wife feel comfortable man.
Waiting the message if I have to maintain my language.
Jeez, we haven't spoken
but that's okay. Sure.
Hamlet I give lots of money in charity.
You see my brother's forgiveness is not an option.
And to forgive.
It's actually a question of email.
And I will come to it at the end. To tell you why. It's a question of
the order of Allah and His Prophet is to forgive and let go. Don't hang on to things. Don't make things bigger than
They are shavon who always paint the picture to be far bigger than what it really is. The you know, the prophet had an amazing way of making big, big, big problems smaller than what they are. Just make a small rubber stop know when we come to do peace talks. Rather we have this
Have you been getting to the point?
have you Let it go Let it go. Let it go.
we hang on to this stuff.
We love it.
You see my brothers, every one of us is a sinner.
Every one of us makes mistakes.
I challenge anyone
to stand up and tell me brother I've never made a mistake in my life I did.
The Prophet of Allah says koulibaly Adam,
the prophet of Allah says every human being musty share, junkie criminal, I don't care. Coulibaly, Adam hapa we all make mistakes.
But the best of those that make mistakes, or those that repent and turn back to online.
We've become the best judges in the world when it comes to my own mistakes.
Anything in a nutshell, let me explain why I did this.
No, no, no. This is a very key explanation as to why I had to do that. When it comes to myself, we become the best lawyers.
But when it comes to my brother, we become the worst of judges.
When the waters us to meet, make excuses for your brothers.
Only one reason why he
should make an excuse. No, no, there are no excuses.
Just let it go, man. What do you think? No, no, no, no, we Hang on.
You see my brother's a real believer has a soft heart.
A real believer is always worried.
But unfortunately, our hearts have become as hard as rocks.
That's why our prayers don't soften us are fasting. We've become like stone.
And you know what I love.
We always praise the Sahaba and we praise our civil law. And we speak about their lives some of our lives.
But we never implement anything that we
Sahaba were amazing people.
But unfortunately, we sing the praises so much
that we make them angelic
and we put this artificial barrier between assembles Sahaba
almost as if the Sahaba never ever did wrong.
And yes, when I understand on the surface, it's done with good intentions, I understand. But it's actually far from the truth. Actually, if you speak about their faults, you will learn to love the more.
You see my brothers, I'm not disrespecting the Sahaba in any way. The least of them is better than the best of us any day of the week and twice on Friday.
The problem is is we made these people angelic
but the truth is is they made mistakes. They seemed during the life of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Sometimes his orders were disobeyed.
So no one is asking anyone to be perfect.
That's not my message. My message is is that when you make a mistake
or someone harms you and makes a mistake,
be like the men that we claim we love.
Don't be a jail.
There's already almost 7 billion of them out there.
We don't need another
So let me share this amazing story that I shared today.
And again, I want you to leave the story down don't don't listen to the story for the entertainment of No, no actually tried to absorb the story, try to leave the story. Imagine you were there imagine? Because
so the story is of
one time after one of the battles of war,
there was some beauty of all
Sahaba mushara with each other, as to how should we distribute this wealth?
How do you think we should distribute? So the companions they gave their opinions as to what they should do with the world,
then gave his opinion,
the most Arab Arab there is.
or was Arab, to the point where he made up I don't feel like it means
he was Arab. So if we're gonna talk about pride,
and if we're gonna talk about right
and you need to understand again, I'm not attacking the Sahaba.
But you need to understand Islam was still relatively new.
And a lot of the traits of Gen Z, I was still very fresh and right.
Unfortunately, 1400 years later, not much has changed.
Since I had an excuse, he was still you.
But you and I,
the prophet of Allah, and I'm not sure about the authenticity of the Hadith. He says there are two things that will never die. Two things from Jay Leah that will never die in this oma
and excessive wailing over the dead.
To this day,
we don't look at each other as brothers.
We look at each other as you're an African Muslim. I'm an Arab Muslim, you're a Pakistani Muslim, I'm an Indian Muslim.
Some Kaffir walked into our lens
drew a line in the land.
And we took it and we accepted that not only that we actually love that.
We actually loved it.
Today, you say your nationality before you say your Islam.
So good luck with that on the Day of Judgment.
And then the very next person after he must be land, or the law of
The land was an obsidian slave.
And even in that time, slaves had grains there's one two and three belong belong to the lowest of the lowest.
Imagine a backup Simeon slave, a third grade slave. Now because of the honor individual.
He was given the privilege to say his opinion.
But of course that didn't sit well with others.
So when Bill engages the tinian
and I really and really, I really wish the brothers the maduras and the committees of our masjids and the presidents of our magazines. I really hope you're listening bro.
Because the smell is so bad.
That you can't smell it anymore.
You've been there for that long
subanalysis I disagree with you. I think this is what we should do.
How many messages have been broken apart and another message it was built for no other reason but because there was an elf on the board
or that there was a difference of opinion.
not out of sincerity.
That anything you can do I can do better.
And then people tell me what's wrong with the youth.
The youth is still pure.
That's why they're rebelling.
The youth are reflection of
So before you tell me what's wrong with the youth
sit down and let me tell you what's wrong with us.
So he says, I disagree. I think this is what we should do.
So I was out of turns to be learning the system even you Your Beloved. Even you You son of a black woman even you're gonna disagree with me
big words man.
writing rightfully so was so upset so disappointed
that he picked himself up and he went straight to the Los Alamos.
Now my brothers let's talk here because we're not here for entertainment. We're here to take lessons. This bill led by leaving and going to law school of law.
In this day and age of hours, what do we call this act?
You see, we I love how we all act like we're so religious.
Some not all, some of our SES and my soul fan output one Look, look if we are not prepared to accept.
I don't want anyone to fill up man was he was attacking the Saudis, because we need to wake up. That's why
we are closer to what we are to the Sahaba.
Sometimes the kid on the street that has no demon that has a more pure heart than I do.
Even in this day and age, this leaving the gathering in government or pseudo law, what do we call?
What a snitch, man
you're a snitch below
your Cal within your week.
He's a coward.
But you and I Mashallah. We're not cowards, but I know women. Rather what you and I would do is, I will have a grudge for the next 20 years, avoid him in the magic for the next 20 years.
And wipe the floor with him with any chance and opportunity that I get for the next 20 years.
But I won't go to someone who just might be able to help us.
You see these people they were pure.
They were not gangsters like you and I
said we never goes to the system. This is what happened for how the boss or the Prophet of Allah became angry.
Not like you and I. Someone comes to tell you, brother, someone heard me and inshallah I'm never going to speak to him. Here brother. I really understand man.
Yeah, you're right, man. He was speaking to your daughter, who customer I would have killed him bro.
So the profit of a lot goes couples are
angry, furious. And the prophet of mercy.
He grabs over any system, you are a man that still has je D IDs.
So what the doubles are, do
if that was your boy?
Share gusman It wasn't like that.
You have to hear my version of the story. No, no, no, it's the way you said. Look, I have a witness
and all this trash.
he acknowledged and he accepted that he was at fault.
Something that most of us are not prepared to do.
That's the truth.
We're not prepared to admit that we were wrong when we're wrong.
So now look what he does.
Not like you and I. Yeah, I was wrong.
inshallah, if I bumped into him one day, I'll ask him for forgiveness.
savara now goes looking for VLANs
in the streets of Medina.
finds him, he runs the he puts his head on the floor and he says to be learned, he says by a lay of the land, I will not lift my head off the floor until you step on it with your foot. And let it be known here and now. Which one of us is the?
Which one of us is the dishonored one?
What did bill do?
An opportunity that many of us would love to have with those people that hurt us, man.
If that was me, off the top rope.
Jay via email, hearts.
So PLL gets down on his hands and knees and kisses over on the forehead.
And he says to him, I forgive you for the sake of Allah, done, finished, dusted, never to be spoken about ever again.
And you can't forgive your own blood brother your own flesh and bones.
Ever heard of Apple dum dum?
One lie even our love of the Sahaba is the love of dunya.
You know why you've never heard of dum dum.
Because the story doesn't interest many of us. That's why.
Let me tell you about Khalid bin Walid and how good he was. Let me tell you about probably when his name was mentioned, the kuffaar is the steak is with all my love and respect to all the Sahaba
the Prophet of Allah was sitting in a gathering one night, asking the Sahaba for money to fund one of the armies. So he was taking some pledges, fundraising, taking some pledges and the Sahaba Mashallah with zeal, giving and donating and pledging abou dum dum, a very simple companion, so much so that most of us don't even know his name. Very poor, very limited means
very poor, very limited means he's sitting there in the gathering of mountains of companions, throwing money at the prophet like he has no value whatsoever. And they sitting there in that gathering, feeling bad.
Wishing he had something to give to the Prophet of Allah, but nothing to give. So he makes a pledge in secret between him and the law.
The next morning,
the prophet of Allah walks into the masjid when the Sahaba were there
and says, Where is the man that made a pledge in secret last night?
Imagine how Apple bummed themselves
magine maybe because he doesn't know what's happening now. He's thinking, imagine the embarrassment.
Just thinking your law. I did this in secret because I'm embarrassed.
He says where is the
I made the pledge last night. He says
since I had nothing to offer, I made a pledge
I sacrificed all my rights. I sacrificed
to the believers.
can do whatever he wants to me and I will never ask for Richard bution ever
revealed to me that he accepted your pledge.
Whenever the Sahaba Yes. The fight with
Where is that? Well dum dum of
people that take pride in the fact he hasn't spoken to his family member in over 10 G's. He thinks it makes him more of a men.
Why can't you be like
in the very famous hobbies you see my brothers is the Dean of the of the heart car oddities.
These levels, don't teach yourself with your beat and your topia and your delta. Please, please stop killing yourself.
One day the very famous Hadith very famous Hadith. Again, I want you to listen.
One day the Prophet of Allah city will the Sahaba sobre la Vallee used to love, you know, when I hear these Hadees here, I always wish imagine sitting there hearing these words live
the other people like this
one my I wish I was a fly that they just sitting on the back of silence, why don't you just in the corner, imagine sitting there with the Sahaba sitting down, looking at the prophet of Islam, the prophet of Allah is talking to them and
so the Prophet of Allah is sitting there gathering wisdom with the big names, the big guns, the big numbers,
the prophet of Allah, He says,
and then will enter the masjid now
by Allah His from the people of gender.
So for Sahaba, you see for you and I, these, these words don't have much weight anymore.
Anything they could do to guarantee themselves.
So the Sahaba looked at each other.
They only did the thinking
around and then the man enters into the machine.
Today, it's all about me, and my name, and my Facebook page. And how many likes do I have? And how many how many titles before my name? Some people before he tells me his name, I need to stop reviving survives mostly molana.
And we love it and we love it and we love it. And we put
you love it you love every single title
that we love these things
turn around and no one walks into the gathering for three days
now, and is from the people of Jamaica at the same
So one of the companions, our beloved nominative the Laos was a special special special companion.
He couldn't contain himself.
He couldn't contain himself.
And some background on our beloved nama velocity. You know, Abdullah was one of the you know what does the young companions
he's father, one of the greatest Sahaba his father actually had to force him to get married.
One day on and one day off, he said
pizza fast all the time. He was the one who when
he was such a he mentioned he and many Medina
youngsters are running away from home to get married.
Hello Celts and Orissa he accepted.
In aerations. They say the gap between the law and the gap between the father and son who knows
he live in GIS
Bella he was 11 years old.
Today the brothers 40 brother You married I'm still young man.
Good luck with that, brother.
Good luck with that.
So he forces out a lot to get married. So Abdullah
So on the wedding night,
according to the sooner he's young, beautiful virgin bride. She pampered herself She looked nice and this woman
and she's waiting for her husband on the bed.
So I'm below when to pray a shot
in the masjid.
If it was me, I wouldn't have prayed all together.
Crazy sharing the message and then comes home. To see his wife for the very first time he
walks into the house doesn't even look into the bedroom. He says to her, let me pray to the car
to the car. Habiba would have smashed straight through the door and went straight in.
So she's thinking, what a no good man she says yes, yes, of course prior to the car.
So he praised these two cards from a share all the way until fudger.
Men men men, there's a reason why I'm mentioning this part of the story. So you know.
Then he plays into her arm, she probably fell asleep 10 times. when when when he went to play person in the desert and he came back she thought philosophy and he now now.
Time flexion he walks into the house.
He realizing, he says so my apologies. I'm fasting today.
For three days in a row. He prayed the light and fast of the day and didn't even touch
until the last one he came to check up on his daughter in law.
You know the big sister How is my son? She system will let you know him better than me. I've been on the bed for three days, he hasn't touched me.
So he took him to the Prophet of Allah the system you deal with this man, I got
to give you an understanding
as to sit in a gathering and look
at some man walking into the machine for three days.
is Abdullah rightfully so.
goes to the men put some movie together. So he says to look in. I mean, my father, we've had some fights, you know, do you think maybe I can spend some time with you in your house. And it was the custom of the job that they asked three days you spent three days in my house. Then you ask what's your business? So of course being a true Arab is just Yes, yes, of course of the law. You are my guest in my house. So the law says I went, I stayed for three days watching him like, I wanted to see what this guy do. That is so good that I'm like 16 he says so you know, I walked into the house. We had a shot. We walked in. And to my surprise, he went straight to sleep.
Because many of us we think it's we think it's LML, don't we?
He says he went to sleep.
Woke up just before.
He said we went to pray fudger I said definitely. He's fasting. He says we came back into my surprise. He made breakfast.
The law says he says I thought maybe it was the last day you know,
maybe it's off day.
He said I was there for three days. And for three days he wasn't fasting didn't pray much for her God was a said there was nothing
exceptional about them. And
so after three days
of the law, I was leaving.
So as he was leaving, he came back he system you know, I have to be honest with you.
Me and my father actually didn't have a fight.
But for three days the Prophet of Allah was promising you paradise. And I wanted to know why. So I wanted to stay in your house and see your life in private. And to be honest with you, man, there's nothing special about
his system. Tell me what is it that you do?
He says to me, I belong.
He says from Yaba law. My life is as you see,
he says there has to be something he says as you say you you live in my house.
So he says to look the circle head on and he walks away as he walks away the memory
He says ambala there is one thing that I do
subtalar rushes back, he says, tell me.
He says Abdullah, every night when I put my head on the pillow before I go to sleep.
I forgive every single Muslim in my heart.
system by Allah, this is the action that made you from the people of paradise.
Where has this gone? My brothers?
Where has the forgiveness gone?
So already now you're thinking, Chef, your puppet is amazing. It's very nice. He really suffered.
But there are certain crimes that I just cannot begin. There are certain instances that I just cannot forgive. I need to tell you, my brothers, there is absolutely no crying.
Because your Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the man that we claim we love so much. The men that we claim we honor so much the man that we can we follow him so much.
He to forgive.
To forgive Muslims. God forbid, I should ask you to forgive non Muslims. Muslims were struggling with it. You're
my brothers. Don't come to me with your pathetic excuses. He spoke to my daughter, the inheritance he took morphine Americans that he was supposed to. My wife doesn't like his wife.
He killed my son. I don't care. There's nothing he can give to me. That was justify the actions of Jedi via the
I asked you and please, please just give me your attention. The purpose of
who grew up in America was the most loved America.
Right? What crime did he do to the people off kurush? What crime? What did he do to the
prosecution that he got from the people of Christ for 13 years. They prosecuted him for 13 years. I love that he's spending his face in his face.
She was pregnant, and as a result of that stabbing, she lost her child. She ended up buying a few months after that in Medina.
He's come to me with your sour sweet song crankies keys.
What did he do to deserve the treatment that
Jews Christians would fire worshippers
and everyone was accepted. What's the big deal? What because he says like
for three years boycott the team.
wanting to kill a man
we never seen in the dating scene is
that was that was worse than
what your people did to me on the day of
the hottest day in my life.
And then after 20 years, he comes back to Makkah.
This time victorious
when he enters Mecca on his animal.
He lowered his head in submission and humiliation to a law
praising no one but a more
sane today's victory was only
Come on more.
When he walks into the people of Mecca,
and 10,000 Sahaba surrounded the harem with all these people that have been for years that will go far that will not Muslims, they will go far.
And they asked him and what will you do with us today?
He said to them, I will not say to you what the brothers of use have said to us.
Today, I will say to you is Hubble fun to
go every one of you, you are free, I forgive you for the sake of
we can't forgive one another.
Husband and wife.
We were a couple for years.
Something happened and we had a divorce. That's okay. You're not the last couple. You're not the first and you're not going to be the last couple to have a divorce. That's okay. Sahaba had divorce.
For the love of Allah Tell me why does it have to be so bitter?
Why does it have to be so bitter and sour?
You were intimate with this woman for years.
She's the mother of your children.
Why so stone cold?
When the kids are with me on the weekends,
all the time they hear about how their mother is the devil himself.
Then when the kids are with the mother throughout the week,
all week they have to hear how their father is the devil himself.
With the national government.
You know why we can't forgive my brothers.
You know why?
It's something very small.
It's called pride.
Do you know who I am, bro?
Do you know what family I belong to?
Who is he to speak to me like that?
I'm Ali. He's ajar. him.
he's a nobody.
I'm a father. He's my son.
I'm the husband. She's a wife. She needs to forgive. She needs to ask for my genes to apologize to me.
It's all government.
Now pride, of course is something none of us he will admit we have
asked me any day of the week. hubless do you have pride holder BelAir? sure
how to build.
You are not the person that dictates whether or not you have pride.
It's the people around you that dictate whether or not you have pride.
You see, don't ask me if I have pride asked my wife.
You know how many times my wife has said to me I wish people will see this side of you and
we don't like to admit we have pride.
You know what the prophet of Allah says about pride.
You see if I told you what's worse pride or murder, murder,
pride or rate, rate,
pride or scorespro What's pride man?
What the Prophet said about pride. He didn't say about any of these major sins.
When he spoke about pride, you know what he said?
He said anyone with an atom's weight of pride? How much
an atom's weight
He says Never mind seeing Jana. He will never smell its fragrance.
You know, between me and my wife shut down. This is a funny story for you. Yeah.
Between me and my wife, we fight sometimes, like we all do.
Here, no one fights.
One man said to me, actually, one man said to me one time we had a fight. He said, we went home had a fight with my wife. So my wife said to me, he said, his wife said to him, that I'm never going to speak to you again.
Say sit will say, well, you'll never speak to me again.
Sometimes I have a fight with my wife,
and tell us it's reached a climax. And you know, sometimes the fight reaches a point where
she goes to the kitchen and I'm sitting in the living room and I don't want to look at her and she doesn't want to look at me. You know, all these movies
are so many what I've lost count how many times it's happened to me.
Sorry, are we sitting there? You know, I'll be watching something on YouTube, but I'm
furious. I think there are bus coming.
And one line.
My wife has an amazing ability to sneeze after we fight.
I don't know is that a switch is recorded is? I don't know.
So I'm sitting there and I'm furious. And she's in the kitchen. She's obviously very upset. So she'll be cutting something making tea ambitions, please.
And when you sneeze, what do you say?
And if there's a Muslim day, and he he's it
What does he have to respond?
Even now I'm angry.
This is how you know you have pride.
Sometimes I wish I didn't hear it.
But I heard a
scenario I have a dilemma. Do I act like I didn't hear it and have the answer to what's in front of a law.
What do you mean? Yeah. May Allah have mercy Habibi. I'm making that a train hits you.
You know what that is?
What is it? say out loud? pride. That's good.
So sometimes I say it but under my leafs.
We love to hang on to problems.
So now I have a solution. Whenever we have a fight, I go straight to the room so that I don't need
such pride pride. We don't like pride.
So my brother's like I promised you that.
I sit you it's a question of Eman. We've spoken for long. I'm going to wrap it up now.
I told you that it was a question of he meant to forgive
the Prophet of Allah he's
dead. I thought he was in agony. We'll
Shall I only have a couple of minutes and then we wrap it up.
So I was speaking about that. It's an issue of Amen. The Prophet of Allah says Allah Mohali, who send them that on the day of Thursday, everything you've done throughout the week, the actions you've done throughout the week, they are gathered and collected and presented before a law.
And he used to fast on the day of Thursday, he said I wanted to pass on Thursday, so that when a law looks at my weekly actions, he sees that I am fasting
and that he will forgive me.
This is the Prophet. So the prophet of all he says that Allah will look at your weekly actions on the day of Thursday,
and mark and forgive him every once in a while, he says except
Except my brothers,
except those two people that don't speak to one another.
A law doesn't even look at your actions all together.
Regardless of losing the right and reason the wrong Sahabi online, you can go stand in front of the door of the Kaaba
law Forgive me, and you can do has every single ye and for hombres in between them. And as a beat down to your knees and the turban from this side of the wall to the other. It doesn't matter. If a mother sees in your heart that you do not speak your brother, everything you do. Everything you do from that moment, up and until you make peace, all of your will equal to a big fat zero with a law.
Stop kidding yourself.
Break your pride and make peace. Even if you are in the right and they are in the wrong we don't forgive because you're worthy of my forgiveness. I forgive you because I want a lot of Forgive me.
start teaching our children start teaching our wives start teaching humanity that we forgive even if we were the ones that will harm. It is a law that raises your honor. Not your arrogance in not speaking to your brother for 10 years your job.
It is a law that raises Alabama
and lastly, I want to tell you last
my brother, do you think you're bigger than Allah?
Allah says I forgive all sins.
Why can't you forgive?
You know, when you forgive my brothers, you feel a mountain come off your chest.
You taste the sweetness in a manner that you cannot taste in any other either.
Are we ready to forgive inshallah? Let me see a raise of hands
regardless of who's in the right and who's in the wrong and we go to them, and we take them again and wish not then we show a lot of love for you. I'm prepared to do anything. Really. That's on the last or jelenia for Neil, what we need now when we net Alaya I'm worth subhanak Aloma Nick shadow and a lot of stuff hirokawa to like, Can I maybe kindly asked you all to stand up, give salon to each other alive forgive one another hug one another and start. Let's start teaching one another inshallah this this this act of forgiveness.