Gardens Of The Pious #691 Prohibition Of Describing The Charms Of A Woman
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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious hamdu Lillahi wa Salatu was Salam o Allah Milena V Avada. See dinner Mohan Medina early he was from Ahmedabad, my dear viewers, welcome once again to another live edition of Guardians of the pious and today's episode by the Grace of Allah is number 691. In the bliss a series of elders follow him by email and we are here in the short of an hour we may Allah have mercy on him. Today inshallah we'll begin a new chapter chapter number 331, which deals with a nephew and waspy mahasin in Marathi lira jewel.
The extreme prohibition again is describing the charms of a woman to a man without a valid reason approved by the Sharia.
The first Hadith we have in the chapter
is Hadith number 17 142.
And it's a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity
and Abdullah hipness, ruder Radi Allahu Anhu called
kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
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Matata Hakuna Allah
and the hadith is narrated by Abdullah hiddenness Road, may Allah be pleased with him.
In a read that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, No Woman should touch another woman's body, and then describe the details of her figure to her husband in such a matter in such a manner as if he was looking at her. This hadith is highly authentic, and it is collected by the two great Imams Bukhari and Muslim. They Allah have mercy on both of them.
My beloved viewers, Islam is the religion of pure etiquette,
politeness and discipline.
So, in this hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam emphasizes what Allah Almighty says in Surah to know Colin Minetti
min of authority Hiner were further for Raja Hoonah well are you will be Deena Xena Tahuna
and the previous area talks about the theme cooling meaning boom in Abbasali him where I follow for all Jehan there Lika as gala whom, in Allah Javi will be masked. And that means command the believing men to lower some of their gaze, and to guard their chastity. The world forge refers to the private part. And it is ambiguous for both men and women. So the male's private part in Arabic school Forge, and the females private part in Arabic school forgery as well.
And Allah Almighty says in order to guard your chastity and protect your private paths from indulging into in illicit relations, you need to acquire that through lowering some of your gaze. Some not all because I am not forbidden against looking at every woman. I'm allowed to look at my Muharram or wife, my daughter, my sister, my mother, and anyone other than the wife has our
so my mother has our, for me. My own daughter has our for me, my sister, my maid, my grandma, my granddaughter,
my stepdaughter, my daughter in law, even though they're all Muharram permanent Muharram in a way that I can never marry any of them. Okay? Yet they have our and that's why when Allah Almighty revealed
the IRA which deals with knocking on the door, and seeking permission before entering upon anyone
even family members are either available or to follow me cool. Hello, my family asked
me, then Alladhina Makaveli. So even the children when they reach the age of puberty, if somebody wants to enter into his parents room, you do not just turn the knob when you walk in. You do not knock and then walk in, you have to seek permission, can I come in? No one answer. Can I come in? No one else can I come in? No one answered, then step back. That means either they didn't hear you don't disturb them anymore. There is the arresting or showering or the the warn you to enter. So and then said to the Prophet, salallahu Alaihe Salam, O Prophet of Allah, as that didn't follow me, she's my mother. Before enter, and upon her, do I have to seek permission? Keep in mind, in the
past, they didn't have doors. It was barely the curtain and sometimes without any curtain.
So do you do not just pull the curtain aside and walk in, say, SLM or LA Kumar? Can I come in?
He said, Do I have to seek permission before entering upon my mother? She's my mother. They said, Would you like to see her naked? Maybe she changed in her clothes. Maybe she's taking a bath. Many of us now live in a kind of luxurious life, we have a master bedroom, and there is a shower and a restroom, attached to the bedroom. Or even if it is a little studio. So he said, Would you like to enter while she's in this condition? Naked, changing her clothes? He said no, he said, That's why in an ale is looming as the novel
The commandment of seeking permission before entering was made so in order to protect your gaze from looking at the outer of your Muharram
of a woman whom you're not allowed to marry forever. And number 23 Chakra number four, certainly set for the metallic man to come. We're gonna talk about how I took my my token bahala took more than you're gonna talk to your mayor to community I'm gonna come diverse. So, but what about a husband and wife, a husband and wife, it's permitted to see everything from your wife, and a wife who is permitted to see everything from her husband, they actually get to have intimacy, an intimate relationship. So the private parts get in complete contact. So there is no point of lowering the gaze. As a matter of fact, this is a way of exciting both of them, making them love each other and
so on. But look at the prophetic added
in a ticket if he was traveling in a caravan or an exhibition or a battle and he returned. If he's returned having to be at night. He would go to the machine and hang around until it is the morning. Why not to surprise his wife not to surprise his family. And he said had that as the head Dell Mareeba.
What is this is so cool. This is amazing. This is so beautiful. This is 1500 years ago, this is 1500 years ago, no one taught them in schools or books had that as the Hidden Mareeba and Mareeba. The woman whose husband was away for a while.
Whenever the husband is away for a month or two or three, the woman may be wearing shabby clothes. Maybe not taking care of self not shaving, you know because she thinks no need. Okay? So interview Salah Selim says, I don't want the husband to go home and find his wife in this condition. Hang around in the machine until the whole town know that the Caravan have returned. The Army has recovered. So that's their head then Meribah any the woman whose husband was away, get a chance to shave, shave the pubic the under arm, whatever needs to be shaved, and take a nice bath. The guy is coming from a long distance, and he wants to see his beauty queen at home. This is highly romantic.
Yes, of course. Your Messenger was the greatest at that. He was a great warrior. And he was the greatest teacher. And he was the greatest when it comes to romance, love and affection. Even though with nine one having sore throat and that's why for the past few days, I was in appearing, whether on Guardians of the pious or as coda, but I pushed myself today for a couple of reasons.
Number one, because this is the last episode.
Last Live episode for me.
In Shaban and before
Model hopefully it's not gonna be the last until I die in sha Allah and what is after my trip
to visit the refugee camps in Lebanon because the roots cider and her salon
not only a broke me physically, no return sick, but
spiritually to unbroken
eonni I'm fine and very hard time to resist my tears every time I remember
it's beyond imagination. It's unbelievable. It's it's really unacceptable. I don't know how we will stand before Allah Almighty. When we are the nation the Muslim ummah, which waste food and throw left over in the dumpsters more than any nation on Earth more than Americans and Europeans.
And we have, like over 1 million refugees on the borders between Syria and Lebanon, cannot find food. They go to sleep hungry.
When we took some videos and we showed you the the boys and the girls barefooted, in the extreme cold are wearing sometimes different shoes and each foot or sandals and torn apart. And when I entered some of the tents, and I sat with them, and I saw how extremely cold were some of the tents, there is no heating system it is the fire lugs.
And what do they eat? On some people take food to them, they don't have a chance to work. Most of them are orphans, and widows. Some of them spent 11 years in this unbelievable conditions in this under extreme cold weather. Unbelievable. Wallahi laser income and Semia no matter what I tell you, it's never like what you see. And that's why even though I'm sick and I don't know how I can do it, but I'm doing my best inshallah to go back, inshallah Ramadan.
Excuse me to distribute some more food subline food parcels. It's amazing. When you see the smile when you draw the smile over the faces of those orphans and these children and the widows. One sister was still in me.
She's looking after for orphans. And she says that, a couple cars and a nice house. We live in in this place for seven years in a tent. And you know, Allah He, every time I say I'm sorry to hear that may Allah she says We're fine. We're very fine. There are a lot of people who have nothing. And she says we're very fine. I felt like a little end. I felt like I'm nothing.
You know, yes. We remember some days that we haven't eaten anything since the morning since we left from the hotel. Until it was almost midnight. Why? Because what food you're talking about were hungry. I know I was hungry. But when you see what you see, you know, your attention is diverted. So part of my sickness is what I saw not only because the weather was called an a change the weather and I was under the weather, but also morally and spiritually. I'm really broken. I'm really broke into see our fellow Muslim brothers and sisters are suffering that much. And we're really doing
You know, I'm not going to talk about the government's I'm not going to talk about the Muslim countries because I lost hope a long time ago. But we really count on Allah subhanaw taala and we put our trust in Him. And then we count on the believers who know that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, a seed in them and Mina equa the believers are both brothers. And Ramadan is just around the corner. Those guys are more the few more worthy Yasaka than anyone else.
They are not only in Syria, though, they're on, you know, refugee camps in Turkey, a border
between Syria and Turkey. And likewise, the boom is like why the Kashmiris May Allah make it easy for our Ummah, brothers and sisters.
in sha Allah Ramadan, hopefully I hope inshallah will recover before that. If I'm not traveling every day we'll have as good sha Allah azza wa jal with the exception of Friday just to give you a break.
So whenever you have Salah loss and MSA
a woman should not touch the body of another woman.
Then describe her to her husband as
If you could see her in our beautiful religion in the principles of jurisprudence, there are certain rules and means of legislations, one of the means of legislations is a beautiful rule which is known as blocking the means or said those Laura said do a thorough now when I explain you will perfectly comprehend what I'm talking about. Allah subhanaw taala says first Hulan meaning I will do many other sorry him where I follow for your home. So that leads to this. This leads to that if you lower your gaze automatically that helps you to guard your chest. If you keep watching what Allah has forbidden and you look at everything, most likely will fall in the trap of shaytaan and you will
lose not your virginity you lose your chastity May Allah protect us again is that when abuse or loss and MCs align with as Nick was in another
it was on a Thursday was in Assam when they do testing and so on as well for you so with Erica Kulu oh you okay. So all these body parts are means of introduction. So because of that Allah subhanaw taala blog that means he said instead of Allah and certainly Surah while atta caribou Zina in our kind of a his shirt and was Samuel do not go near Xena do not go near adultery.
You and you do not date do not be in a private place where the woman alone was not lawful for you do not see photos and pictures or videos which are haram that will increase your Eman will protect you and veil you against falling into adultery. And one of the means of blocking the means is some women are may say naive. No. Naive is not the word. Foolish. Foolish.
So they go to the gym, they take off their clothes in front of each other they think there is no out of for a woman before another woman and then they fetch.
And the Prophet SAW Selim said that is not permissible. You know, and then when a woman touches another woman, and when she goes her husband, and she says, Oh, you know my friend so and so her skin is so soft. And the hair Honey, your hair is amazing. It's very long. It's very soft. So this sister is wearing hijab, actually, she's wearing hijab, she's wearing the cop, no one has seen her. And she keeps telling the husband, how beautiful her face is. How beautiful and curvy her body is, how long is our hair and our soft and she smells. So the man falls in love with a woman he in self have never seen. He said that annatto Allahu Allahu Allahu Allah, as if he is looking at her and
plans the seed of fascia of evil to the extent that he can work on divorcing her former husband and marrying her. So this life or if you'd like to call her foolish wife, she's the one who wrote it and incurred all of that upon herself. This is absolutely forbidden. It's a major sin.
This is not like dislike undesirable No It's haram
but there is a Hadith here
in which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam
was asked of him I've been close. Ask them
there are two people who are proposing to me both are companions
and both are good. One was Maria in the abbey Sophia, and the other is Abu METRON.
So never use Allah Allah Allah Ceylan did not hesitate to tell her. What is wrong with this. And what is wrong with that. But isn't this leadership? No, this is not Riba. In the course of shahada, we've mentioned repeatedly, it's permissible. l rivet with a crooked heart can be Maya Cara unnecessarily to speak ill about your brother or sister in their absence, in a way that they dislike. But somebody's asking me, so and so is proposing to my daughter. I see him a good person. What do you think of him? No uncle. He's an addict. You don't know. He pretends to be nice, but he's still even in rehab. He did not quit drinking. Or he works in riba or actually he was caught before
committing aphasia, and he is known to have to date girls and so on. So this is okay I'm not blameworthy because you're delivering on the shahada what is satisfactory for the person who entrusted you to make the decision based on your statement?
Okay Moshe head
who must establish the truth by delivering the right chat. So an abuse Allah Salam said about Maria.
Fatima been to Christ. Two people, two companions are proposing to her. They said a memoir Jana Fasano. Kula Mela.
What WoW is Brooke What are you gonna do with why we?
What? Wow. Yeah, it was one of the scribers of the way. And he is the son of the chieftain of MakerBot. Sophia. And if any of you saw Selim loved him, and he narrated beautiful Hadith from the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but when it comes to would you recommend them what I gotta tell you? He's good. But here's the problem. He is por la mala. If this is okay with you, and he knows Fatima likes luxurious life.
What about double mission? La Sahoo Antarctica is good. He's a believer. He's right your sees wealthy make you happy. But he's always carrying his staff his deck. He and He beats his wife and he recommended for her to our avoid both of them.
the description is permissible.
And when the prophets Allah Selim says A woman should not
describe due to after faction, the skin of another woman, the hero of another woman, the curves and she describes the Torah. Or by me looking her, she says honey, you know, Leila is a beauty queen. Oh, she's the one who should be wearing the cup. She's amazing. And the eye pupils man SubhanAllah. Eyes on wide. And naturally, the eyelashes are big and the hair is really long. It's like, you know, he's watching a video.
That's why I say do you want to call her naive? Or do you want to call her foolish, but is not innocent? So
it's also forbidden
for a man to describe or to talk about the structure, the body built off of another man to his wife. What kind of a man is he? Still in his wife that you know when they go to the gym, there is this guy who's the triceps and the muscles and he's really cool. And he's six, three, and he is
you're not even in that.
You know, you are planting a seed of fascia in the heart of the wife. If she is not strong in Eman, Allah the Almighty says to the Mothers of the Believers. So 59 fella, Bonneville Kohli
for health on my holiday vehicle being murdered, you know, near talking with a soft tone can find a soil in the heart of somebody who's sick, and you would miss on the viewers. It is absolutely forbidden.
It is absolutely forbidden for a woman to describe another woman for her husband. And it is absolutely forbidden for a husband to describe another man for his wife as a she could see him or as he could see her. May Allah subhanaw taala goddess what is best. If you like what you heard, I like to see your comments, your reactions on my Facebook page or the youtube this is very important. As you see, it's very obvious that they're trying to limit our reach terribly. But we'll do our best in sha Allah azza wa jal and through you, you can share that word by sharing the word. Also, I urge you to make lots of dua in these pleasant days for other TV, we're going through some trouble and we
would love for Allah subhanaw taala to maintain this channel and continue to spread light in every home by the live Allah. All what we need from you brothers and sisters is Allah dua May Allah accept from all of us. We'll be back in sha Allah in a couple minutes please stay tuned
Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to the second segment in today's program gardens of a pious our phone numbers should appear on the bottom of the screen. As you know the segment will open our phone lines to take your calls and concern.
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okay, let's take another call and please dragons on Abdul Rahman from Somalia. Salaam aleikum Abdul Rahman
while it must live,
how you should handle lead Oh, much better. I must provide you the difference, especially in the course of providing an evidence. This is an evidence that women should pay zakat on the jeweler for innocence why you don't say difference of opinion and the set. Also, when it comes to the Hadith, the Imam was delivered in the hotbar in a masjid in a madrasa. A school in the university should provide the students in the audience with the reference of the Hadith and tell them whether it's a sound Hadith, we are Hassan or what is the condition of the Hadith. Then also with regards to narrating the Hadith, in the course of teaching and learning, the tutor should recite the text as is
as visited in the Quran. But, you know, sitting in a casual gathering, and we are studying together, it's okay to say there is a Hadith which means, say say the Prophet SAW Selim said You know, it's not for it's not permissible for a woman to describe another woman for harassment. You know, this is not the exact text but it provides a meaning there's a color Heron Abdullah man from Somalia salaam aleykum.
Says throw more mud from Kenya. Welcome to the TV
on what my dear salaam aleikum.
Sister Eman from Belgium.
Salaam Alaikum, salaam warahmatullahi, wabarakatuh. Sister Iman. Go ahead.
After two questions. My first question is about copyright. I read online that someone who violates copyright is like the one who steals and he's violating the rights of the owner. So they say say if we buy from this person we are actually participating in so it's haram. But I'm in situation and I don't know what it was really like this. So to explain to you.
I'm university students at my university that is now forbidding to salary, share notes, summaries and, and sample questions online. And they say that this because of copyrights.
And there are some websites where students can sell these notes and cetera but my question is, if I would buy these notes from another student or get free online for free online, even though University Orbitz it would it be permissible from the Senate perspective, because if I would do that, I will not really deprive the professor's of any financial gain or something, I would only save time and energy for myself and be able to use my time to do other things. So that's my first question. And then my second question is,
if someone forgot to watch, for example, the inside of the naval doing awesome, and he or she praise his or her praise, and then after a day, you're surely realize that if we've got to do that, should a person perform hostile again, or only the party from God? Or what should they do? Or what about crazy if rates very valid?
What's my second question? Okay, with regards to your first question says that your man from Belgium, Islam respects the copyrights and the personal ownership and honors that. It's like exactly one's wealth. He left it in a car, lift it in house and somebody breaks in and takes it away. There are some exceptions though. Jonnie the graduate students who don't need their notes anymore. Can I take it from them either for free or purchase at higher price? Yes, it's permissible. Because when ever I am as a student, I made a purchase of this book. It has become mine.
So I can guarantee to anyone else. I can give it to anyone else. What I used to do when I was in the medical school, I used to take the books
and summarize them so that the students would not need to even buy another book. And it would have everything the summary. Of course I would write my name on it because you know what happens. So now I'm giving my own notes helping the students, this is permissible. The to the professors, they get paid from the university and they get paid from selling their notes. But also there are many students who are on stony alone cannot afford it. I had some students in Europe in the UK, she used to work for whole semester and come back to continue in the next semester. So some people are broke. for them. It's okay, as long as it is not pirated.
It's not stolen. But somebody else will have notes, summaries, or good notes or the notes of the doctor that he studied already and he moved to the next year or graduated, can he pass them on to you and you take them online, you pay or for free? Yes, that is permissible. Wala Huhtala.
performance was begun washing their hands in the private making, leave the feet to the wrist, and pouring the water over the entire body or robbing the body. I don't have to put my finger in the navel. The water would go or really over it. So by robbing my body without having to work my finger then even that is sufficient. Thank you. Amen. from Belgium, Salam Alikum.
Sister Mohammed from Kenya. Welcome to Ask.
One concerning how I share Hamdulillah. Mohammed, go ahead.
Well, I have two questions.
I'm asking you on behalf of a brother,
his wife, left hander and to your circumstances and then when they inquired the family member said that they she's not coming back. So is it advisable for the young man took to marry quickly? Or should he go? Should he?
Give it some time?
Wow, want to advise my
this is irrelevant. The decision to marry or not to marry? Has nothing to do with attempting to reconcile with his wife? Do they have kids?
No, they don't. Okay, that makes it a lot easier. Was she a good wife? As far as you know?
As far as I know, yes, she was but there's unclear they don't they're not saying what is the reason she's not coming back? Okay, then.
Where is the beach two months? What are the family members who go and visit with them and ask them if there is anything too arbitrary to reconcile? And I'm gonna ask the homeowner how welcome so we should reconcile between them and play the role of you know, reconciling, if it is workable, as Allah Almighty said in Surah tennis, you read is law, how you affect the law obey now, if the arbitrators find that there is a chance to reconcile Allah will make it easy for them to reconcile. In all brothers and sisters, even the Prophet sallallahu sallam was the greatest man ever walked the earth. And he was the greatest husband ever had some issues with his wives to the extent that he
reversed some of them. And he took them back. So, you know, we have to keep in mind we're human beings, you could be a great person and your spouse, a great person as well. But this code will take place difference of opinion will happen. We have to we have to work on Jonnie, what do we say? either avoiding that from the beginning. And if not, if whatever happened happened into it, try to reconcile and while I don't see anything wrong, nor does it belittle a man whatsoever to go and kiss his wife and say I'm sorry, if he knows that he has made that mistake. Only when you guys everyone see that Alhamdulillah that we don't have kids, it is not workable whatsoever. It is not workable
whatsoever. Then in this case, it is better to call it off without having any attachment. Thank you, Mohammed from Kenya Salam aleikum.
Sister, south from Tanzania, salaam alaikum. Souder.
Go ahead. Like I have two
A lot. There's already and I'm not quite sure about many
sisters, or voices. Your voice has faded away. Would you please speak from the phone not from the speakerphone.
So I said tomorrow Insha Allah, that is going to be our day here.
And I'm not sure, like maybe there's going to be moving because
the problem is I can't avoid it. So well, I guess in for if I do not bother with anything, but yes, we will stay with the brain inside or
without actually bothering the people. But you say this in your house?
You said it's gonna take place in your house?
Yes. So what do you mean that is going to take place in your house? And you don't know, how would it take place?
Actually, I'm not the one who's planning my answer.
So you know, the planning, so I don't.
And your aunt is planning a wedding in your house, and you have no clue about it.
Not really a social process.
But it's your house.
It's your house. It's your house. So right?
Yes, but I'm not going to ask if that's going to be news.
Why not? Why not? If somebody is coming to my house, when somebody actually, you know, I have a flat when somebody wants to rent it. I have a list of restrictions. Luffy means alone.
No, my family, not the singles. No dogs, no smoking whatsoever. We don't allow smoking in the entire house. So you know, this is what I mean. You gotta you got to actually step in is your house, you have the right to say your conditions. So if you're offering your house here, and in order to
throw a party or a wedding, you have to tell her what is going on. He say, Auntie, I love you so much. But this house in which we serve Qur'an, and I don't want any free mingling, I don't want any dancing. You know, just have fun, have fun, sing songs initiate and all of that and be the drama, but no dancing, no. music out of what is permissible. No free mingling. Or otherwise it's your house and you're liable.
Okay, sister soda.
Type I hope you got the answer. Salaam Alaikum.
Since the zenith from the USA SLM article,
when it comes to law, how about you Dr. Muhammad Hamdulillah, Sister Zenith how are you?
I'm having God bless.
I have a question regarding Java okay.
I never land in Pakistan
it was not an investment property, it was like nothing
and recently I saved it
and I got my I will get my money after Ramadan. I want to ask you Do I have to wait one year or if I want to I will go Pakistan after Ramadan. So I can calculate the money in advance
to the poor Okay, since the zenith is the sale final or he just paid the down payment?
No, it was my land oh it right now, he paid me the downpayment and he will give after 30 days
installment so the series is done. Yanni he now the sale is done. He wrote your checks, yeah, he wrote your checks.
I got a 10 person 10 person deposit, I got that but my point is, if the sale is final, and you have any sort of documentation like traveler's checks or personal checks with the amount, then this money has become yours and it is the category if it is a property that you have purchased from your money before. So this money will be included in this aka in sha Allah if you normally pay your zakat Ramadan if the sale is not final, so somebody made a down payment with a promise to buy and he has an access to revoke your transaction and take back his down payment, then it is not as accountable until you collect the money.
Brothers and sisters, I know you also feel what I'm feeling right now. Since as I said this is the last episode in Siobhan. And before Ramadan will give you a break until the beginning from Adan insha Allah. So take a break everybody needs to take a break to plan for the beautiful month of Ramadan. I pray for you from the bottom of my heart. Maybe
excuse me, Grant, grant us all success and extending our lives to witness the best month of Ramadan successfully and to make the best out of it. Lo Malema MA and founder and founder of email antenna, was it in Al Hamdulillah Allah Kula hell on Audible Lehmann Hallett Helena. I don't want any one of you to forget your brothers and sisters,
the refugees, the Muslim refugees in the refugee camps, I've been there myself and I've saw their suffering. In my page, you'll find the link to as how to contribute towards them. And all your contributions whether you live in Europe or in North America are tax exempt. They do have accounts in North America they do have accounts in the UK and it is officially recognized by the government it's pretty safe way of paying us occur and your contributions may Allah Almighty accept from all of us, was Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
Religion to them so why did they know that forgiving God about an empire that we're shipping comes fire and stones sending the rescue the cheapest? Why did they know that forgiving God go about Hello bad guys. We're shipping cause fire and stones selling their best and cheapest