Mufti Menk – Choose Wisely – Not with Emotions

I always say, you will not even know that your choice of a spouse shapes your future until you get married. In a lot of cases, your choice of a spouse actually determines a lot of your future. So choose well. And if you don't know how to don't choose with your

hormones,

I promise you, that's what people do. They just choose with their hormones. It's a fact it might have sounded a bit, you know, direct but it's a fact people choose what they emotion sometimes.

But wait, go back to the Hadith go back to the Prophet peace be upon him. And I've always said the two most powerful organs, the heart and the mind. Don't ever give anyone the control of those two because they will hurt you. They will hurt you. You give that to Allah and you give it to anyone after that within what Allah has ordained.

But we've seen 1000s of people get abused and use because they've given their heart and their mind in someone else's hand. That's it.