Wait for the second Marshmallow
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And then a professor in the name of Walter Michel. He was a proper professor in Harvard. Then he moved to Stanford. And then he moved to Columbia.
In the 60s, when he was in Stanford, he made a very famous experiment is called the Stanford marshmallow experiment. He brought
kids from the age four to six years old, put them in a room, and he gave them one marshmallow.
And he said, you could have that marshmallow now. But if you wait for 15 minutes, you will get another one. And they put a camera and they recorded, the reaction of the children was very cute and amusing how the kids are touching the marshmallow and licking their finger and biting from the marshmallow.
He followed them
for five decades, from 1960 to 2010, the same kids
and found out that the choices they have made,
it had a major impact
on how their life turned out to be
the kids who were able to self regulate, to the late gratification. They were successful in their schools,
in their careers and in their marriage.
We live in a heavily visually biased society.
Accustomed to instant gratification, almost everything is one click away.
we love the
quick pleasure over the delayed reward.
Even though sometimes on many times, the quick pleasure is dangerous. We all know the danger of junk food, of fast food of soda. But we still because we have that temporary short joy that we get, even though we know that in the future, it might have very bad impact on us. Now.
I wish Dr. Walter read the Quran. Because this concept is mentioned in the Quran in many areas. And also mentioned in the Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Allah subhana Medina said in that you all know can burn to a boon Allah Agila, whether the rune and Hera, you will love the Agila. You love the instant gratification, you love the instant reward and you neglect
and you neglect and ignore the F era.
Allah subhanaw taala said listen to this area Subhanallah and Surah cosas Wallahi Yanni when I read it as if it's my first time reading it, please ponder where my ot
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Whatever you have been given, whatever you have been giving, anything that you have is just who's saying this, our Creator is just the joy, the temporary joy of this dunya and what Allah have is not only better, but also everlasting. And look at the striking and
don't you comprehend? A fella taki loon I'm telling you what
both belong to me. The F Hera the hereafter and this one they both belong to me. Yeah Allah which one is better? When to clear your neck Amina Luna, the owner of both is telling me that the other one the Hereafter is better. And I am insisting
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I I made both and I'm telling you this is not gonna last.
This is nothing this is temporary. The other one is
ever naman Mukim everlasting bliss and joy.
And yet continue when ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada said
When can you read to Harrelson FIRA nets it Lo Fi healthy women? Can you read dunya note t mean? Wanna know who Finn hero team in nosleep Allahu Akbar, whomsoever won the akhira we will increase Him we will give him more gain of the akhirah
and whosoever wants the dunya no t minha. We will give him something, a little bit of it, but look at the danger at the end.
And then the year after he gets nothing,
nothing mela Holman Nasim nothing. When we say you need an Acura or he wants the this, this dunya that Angela? Does that mean I stay praying all day long and fasting and No, no, no, yeah. When When I tell son I see becoming a dunya
that means when you want the F Euro, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada will give you a halal job.
And you will have time to pray to spend time with your family to have fun, halal fun with your family. And when you want the dunya you will have three jobs and you're making a lot of money. And you're spending a lot of money and you're always worried. And you have no time for nothing. Yeah, sure. Why don't you come to the masjid I'm busy. Why don't you pray? I'm busy. Why don't you attend classes? I'm busy. This is your goal because your goal is this dunya and you're working for the goal. And if the action is your goal, that's a different story. Allah subhana with Alison Nasod Lo Fi healthy
and Subhan Allah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
He told us this concept in a very beautiful Hadith.
Men cannot will f Euro Hannah. John Hola, Hina Thea Colby. Well, Gemma Allahu Shimla we're at Hood dunya we're here are your Allah. Y'all might ask you the best of your names to make my words go from my heart to my people's hearts. Please listen. Jaquan please, I beg you. This is our beloved Habib Rasulillah I said I'm saying Whoever made the akhira his goal. Allah subhanho wa Taala will
make his heart rich. Everybody loves a rich heart and organize all his affairs and listen to the last one.
And the dunya will come to him. Whether the dunya like it or not the enabler of
the dunya will come to him. Whether he liked it or not. What does that mean? I make my goal the Astra. I got both the Acura and the dunya Allahu Akbar. Woman Kena to dunya Akbar, Ohana and whomsoever make the dunya as his main goal. He wants to see the dollars increase. He he can spend hours and hours on social media waiting for the instant gratification of the like of the comment and neglect the prayer, neglect the Quran, neglect anything that has to do with Allah subhanho wa Taala and whosoever wants the dunya make it as his goal. Allah subhana wa sallam said Allah will put poverty right before his eyes, working day and night, day and night. He is always feeling poor, and
this organizes affairs and he will only get from the dunya whatever was decreed for him.
we get so busy, so busy with what is guaranteed and what's not guaranteed we are neglecting
the risk is guaranteed.
And look at our time and all of us. 90% of our time is about looking for risk and ways to increase the risk. And this is guaranteed, but vision is not guaranteed. And if you look how much we work for Jana on a daily basis, that will be the minimum of our time.
We are working so hard to what's guaranteed and what's not guaranteed when I have time. Go to Colorado Stafford Allah for structural in the whole of
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Be patient every week as you noticed, we bury somebody, Allah have mercy on all of them. This is the people who we know. So you have one. What we take with us is what we invest in this dunya Allah invest every moment in the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala. I will end with this saying of one of the tabbing he said in Arabic because you can never get the real meaning when you trust
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He said, the hardship that comes with an act of worship will eventually disappear, but its reward will remain.
And the pleasure that comes with the act of disobedience will eventually disappear. But the punishment remains. Allah Masha Allah Allah Akbar Amina
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