Tricks Of Shaytan #9 – 2 VERY Important Marriage Advice

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Assalamu alaikum every single day, a police the chief of the devils, sends his troops and soldiers to destroy you and I.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the greater the destruction a devil does, the greater the reward and recognition that devil will get from his master abilities. And as the day comes to an end, a police gathers the devils to hold them accountable and see what damage they have done. So when devil comes and says, As for the damage that I caused the al Qaeda, Al Qaeda, I have influenced one of the people to do such and such sin, for example, looking at an inappropriate scene or image, or listening to some foul language. However, a police does not find it impressive enough. And says, most are not to say, you did not do anything that was worthless, until one devil comes and says, As

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for me, Morocco, I did not let go of this one guy. It took me a long time. But I did not let go of this married man and his wife, the devil says, I whisper to them, and put negative thoughts in their mind against one another, convincing them that this marriage cannot continue. And of course, brothers and sisters are not referring to extreme cases of abuse and oppression, no, rather marriages that had life and a decent survival rate. The devil will do whatever it takes to ruin such marriages. For example, he goes to the wife and says, Your husband does not care about you. If it was not for the children, he would have left you don't have to care about what people will say. And

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just leave this guy alone as the provider, not him. And the devil would go to the husband and say, Your wife is wasting your time. There are so many other women who are much better than her. Why are you accepting this upon yourself? She never appreciate anything you do. So the devil says I kept whispering and whispering and I did not let go of this married couple until I was able to separate them and get them divorced. When a police the master, he hears that he comes close to that devil and says name and you are the best. You are the greatest devil. Then he hugs him embraces him and recognizes him in front of all the devils. But brother, if a good couple fell for the trap of shavon

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and got divorced, then it's not like that. It's something hot. Um, divorce in general is Helen. Listen, a police has 1000s of years of experience. And he knows that breaking a family apart makes his job of destroying every one of them a lot easier. United we stand divided we fall. And today study after study from experts in the field have proven that and how there are severe negative effects on a broken family. The levels of stress and anxiety of the men and the woman who were once having a healthy family is now higher than ever, you see that devil light life did not become easier. As for the children. Studies have shown that children who no longer have the worms of their

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parents next to them become more susceptible to going to the wrong path of drugs, alcohol and early sexual activity. Outside of marriages. You see the devil light again, quality time with the children did not really increase. And you know what is crazy, much of that destruction in the marriage and family was influenced by the devil. But he managed to escape and not have his name mentioned in these studies and research papers. You see the devil light again. The spouse at the end of the day was not as bad as he made him or her seem to be. So what should we do? There's a lot that one can do and say but I will share with you in sha Allah. two things. Number one, whenever one of us gets

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angry, then right away say what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam commanded us to say which is Udo Billahi min ash shaytaan O Allah I beg you to help me and protect me from shavon the shape on who is trying to bring out the worst in me the shape on who wants me to do and say things I will most likely regret saying and doing or Allah protect me from shaytaan say from the bottom of your heart and mean every word in it. Brothers and sisters please don't you ever deny the presence of shape on during a

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argument and a fight just like that one companion, who was so angry and was advised to say I would have been lambda shape on. But then he took it personal and said, What do I look possessed, meaning there's no shape on here. This man had some sort of denial that is all good and that there's no influence from the devil who's trying to fire things up and make things worse. May Allah protect us immutable alanine as for the second thing to share with you focus on the good qualities the spouse has, and show them appreciation for it. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to the brothers, listen, it is not befitting for a believing men to hate a believing woman. If he dislikes

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one of her characteristics, or all the mean her anger, then he shall focus and be pleased with one of her positive characteristics. The wives are not perfect, and so are the husbands and to help us be patient towards the negative than focus on the positive and show appreciation for it. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to the sisters, Allah does not show mercy to a woman. Last Tesh cruelly zoji her who is not grateful to her husband, especially when he led the study and when she cannot live without him. So let's focus please, let's focus on the good qualities our spouses have, and express our appreciation through kind words and behavior, even through the use of emojis

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use the heart and the flower. It's such a simple move that can go a long way. I swear by Allah, I know of a couple who was working on getting divorced. They got the lawyer, and the papers necessary are already signatures what's left and mentioning it's what's left. But then they heard this advice of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam of recalling the good in the spouse and showing appreciation and they did this activity and hamdulillah their marriage has become stronger than ever, and cancel the idea of divorce. And anytime things become bumpy and tough they go back to this activity of gratitude. In summary, just like how the devil never lets go of our marriages and

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families. We too should never let go and forget about the devil by seeking Allah's refuge and help. May Allah bless all our families. And feel free to share this video for others to benefit with Salam Alaikum