Backbiting and Gossiping (Muslim Vampires)

Majed Mahmoud


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Many people belittle the consequences of backbiting and gossiping. These two horrible habits have punishments in this life, the grave and in the hereafter. We ask Allah to make this video a means for everyone to not come near backbiting or gossiping.

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Salam Alaikum

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I fear for you guys from falling into backbiting and gossip. And I fear from you guys that if I were to talk about this, you will never come back again. But my fear for you is greater than my fear from you because I love you.

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So I'm going to keep going with a topic inshallah. I have talked to a brother who is in a very sophisticated educational institution, one of the biggest and most famous ones. He's a vice president there. And I asked him, How come you're not running for vice president one more time? He said, Enough is enough. I'm like explained. He said, there's a lot of gossip and backbiting going on. And I cannot handle this. And this society is based on backbiting and gossip. That's it. That's what it's based on. And you know this better than me. You go and buy a chocolate bar, and there's a gum and there's a cashier and they have to put a magazine about backbiting and gossip. Katy Perry

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has left Russel, brad pitt and angelina jolie exposed. Paris Hilton exposed sexual tape. It's all over even the kids read this. This is nothing hidden anymore. We think that gossip and backbiting makes you rich and famous Lauer liar, you're wrong. Allah subhanho wa Taala tells us we have freedom of speech we do. But with limits, you can drive but there are limits there are speed limits drive anytime you want. But don't cross the lanes without signal. Don't go over the speed limit. Don't unlock how you speak but you have limits and Allah stresses on very very hard that you guys be one with one another in men more menial and so our brothers and sisters are with one another. Allah

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called us brothers and sisters. It was not me and you I have a brother sister why would that phrase came from Allah told us in nim and Muna echo one another will lie. Islam is amazing about the love of brothers and sisters together. It's just amazing. He said that Muslims are just like structures like buildings, one another. We're not let go to one another. We never separate. If one of us were just like a one body. If one of us is in pain, all of us feel that pain. We don't see what's happening in Syria or that country or Libya or Yemen. I'm not Yemeni. I'm not serious. I'm not Somali I'm not descended. So there's no feelings No.

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That believer feels pain for what they're going through. Unless stress is this after this and verse after verse in the

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Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Aristo Salaam, he said law you're not a complete believer until you love for your brother and sister what you love for yourself.

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The Prophet hooked your belief with the other person beside you.

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That person beside you your Eman is dependent on him. How do you love for Him what you love for yourself, the hate for him what you hate for yourself. This is what Islam is based upon. The Prophet told us there's no such thing as lying, except in three situations. And they're not even considered to be a lie. When you tried to bring two people together, there's a fight, you can go to one person telling them that such and such person said that you're an amazing person. And they feel bad for saying such and such about you. And they never said that. But the Prophet said this is not a lie.

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Because you're bringing two people together. Look what Islam promotes. Do not expose one another. Do not expose one another conceal. This is Islam, manners and worship connected never separated. The society completely different. And you guys know that, who took this $1 million shot for john travolta, he used to have six packs. Now he has six layers of fat, taking pictures and exposing people this is a society.

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This was introduction, jumping in and digging deep to today's talk. I have a question for you guys.

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Many Muslim who is the Muslim who is the Muslim

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who is it?

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Go ahead.

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us but define it. So a non Muslim comes to you who is the Muslim God?

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Beautiful she said to whom Allah and the message is more beloved to them than anyone else. But it also has a beautiful feeling the sweetness of a man.

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But the Muslim the Prophet answered a question and you guys memorize it promised to memorize

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the Prophet as the Sahaba many Muslim who is the Muslim.

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Then the Prophet answered and Muslim

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When setting him in Muslim moon I mean recently he was

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the Muslim v t h e. Muslim is the one whom the brothers and sisters feel safe from his or her tongue and hand. Look how severe the tongue is. Your tongue determines if you're a Muslim or not.

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How you speak? Are you that person when people see that stop talking? Because if this person hears us talking, it will be spread all over Facebook all over the school.

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Are you that person that's physically bully, that every time you come is like, is he behind me and start getting irritated? Is he behind me? Is he behind me? That person if some people feel that like that towards you, you're not a complete Muslim.

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sallallahu wasallam you see Islam. You see how it promotes how we should feel? If you see how severe the fungus men Silliman Muslim when I'm in the signing word,

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the profit stress is on the tongue and watch what you say. Every single morning you wake up a hadith Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam every single morning you wake up all your body parts every single body part you have Beggs and humilate itself begging please please, to to the tongue, all the body parts please.

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What is it saying to the tongue? It trucking Lavina all the body part is saying to the tongue fear online us. We are part of you. Whatever you say will be reflected in our body parts. If you were straight, we are straight and if you're corrupted, all of our body parts will be corrupted. Look how severe the tongue is. Look how severe the tongue is in one word, one word, one single word can determine your final destination. One word period.

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That's it. What's my proof Roswell lifestyle allottee was seldom. He said in the lab data camera Bill kenema mean no one is a slave of Allah would say a word which grasps and gets a lot of pleasure and satisfaction with a law and law you kill her and that slave doesn't even think about the word of how valuable it is to Allah. And because Allah valued that word so much and he loved it, he would raise your rents in paradise for one single word. Example. Someone coming up to you telling you such and such person is a and you can tell he's about to curse you say stop. One word, this stop can lead you to the highest levels in genuine period done just for this words. It's like a locker, your life

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has been determined you're going to gender stop. I was upstairs and I try my best when like just don't use as an encouragement and hoping that allowed except I was walking outside and I seen like doors right there. And I want to leave them thinking Wait, then our brother comes up to me. He's like, I have something to tell you. I'm like, What is it? He's like, it's very arrogant on the go ahead this minute. He said there's this brother. I'm like, Bismillah there's just a brother. So I gotta my antenna might signal has to be very clear

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that there's this brother. One time he was walking by the House of this sister.

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So it's getting already fishy.

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As he was walking, I saw him with my own eyes entering the house. I should have told him stop right here.

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He said then after they went he went inside into the sister house. I was talking them from a distance will why this happened right here.

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And he said and I was looking

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and I saw through the bedroom windows through the bedroom windows. Alex, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop. Stop. Don't continue like what I'm like don't continue. is a quite unlike Don't open your mouth. I sense and you guys sent Where is he going? I through through? Look through the bedroom window. I said, Papa, may Allah be pleased with him. When he was the halifa the leader of all Muslims, he was walking by the neighborhood he seen and he heard a guy and a girl sleeping with one another and they're not married. He went to Alabama. He tomia Lee. I have seen them and I have heard them doing this and that give them the punishment. He said Dr. Amato, if you say their names,

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I'm gonna whip you. He is the halifa of the Muslims. He said do you have three more witnesses? He said no. He said it was on you. I'm gonna whip you. He said yeah, I've seen them and I've heard them. He said, just pronounce it and you're gonna get whipped. This is Islam.

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Covering the people, even if you've seen them and you've heard them doing sexual acts, what kind of religion tells you there has to be four witnesses for sexual relation, punishment to be taken, taken into account? How can you have four witnesses? This is Islam.

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One word what's out? I told that Brother What shall I cannot continue stop. He slammed the door. And he left between me and my heart. I'm like, I don't care.

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As long as I keep my relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala. And as long as you don't accept my own brother to be back bitching about or gossip about, you go to whatever you want to go to.

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Me unlock it. May Allah protect me, Allah do whatever he wants to do with him. But I don't want to hear this. And we will talk about his backbiting equivalent to listening to it.

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I'm just listening. I'm not saying is equivalent. Alan was best one word can ruin the oceans. What? One word? If it's transformed to our part, it can ruin the oceans Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was with his wife Ayesha. May Allah be pleased with her.

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She was a little like, she had some ill feelings towards Sophia, another wife of the Prophet. So she said, Allah come and Sophia she did this.

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She did this. The profit realized, is that what he what she meant? Is that short girl,

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but the reason she did it is not out of identification, but out of mocking.

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The Prophet said, to Arusha, may Allah be pleased with her, our mother,

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he said,

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had your word be put in the ocean? It would contaminate it.

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If that word would be put in the ocean would contaminate. Imagine does that fly in the bathtub? You fill your bathtub with water, and you put up like like, Oh, I can't take a shower in this. The Prophet said the words of Isaiah, which is probably smaller than a fly. Put it as small as a fly small, just transform it, put it in the ocean done, contaminated fish will die.

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So Panama one word, digging deeper. What is Riba? backbiting and what is gossip? Mima

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Riba this Milla.

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Beautiful question, what's the difference between the Rebbe, I mean between hearing it and hearing it and seeing it?

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I put this line all the way at the end of the talk. But I'm just telling you this one law here out of just learning a lie. But the one who asked the question is my mother. And I'm not gonna go any forward until I answered your question with all respect. And this can be the best lesson you get out of this halaqaat Alright.

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How do you think?

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No, no, the listener.

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The listener of the Libra lmds Nile river has equal punishment to the one that says it. Equal

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one time a man went to the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. He told them Yasser Allah. Then

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I committed fornication, adultery, adultery. Then the Prophet moved away from him. He went from the other side yet also it was an eight he moved away from it didn't respond. Yet also was in a three times in the Prophet ignored him hoping that he would just leave and repent by himself. He went for the fourth time yet also lesson eight, the prophet move away from him. The fifth time He said, The Prophet asked him explicit questions.

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Did you go all the way? Yes. Are you aware of what you're saying? Yes. What is it that you need?

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By Nero Sorolla purify me

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after verification confirmation, he ordered that this man to be stoned to death

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so he was being stoned to death and that brother died

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to Sahaba we're seeing the people throwing stones

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one of them said one of them

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older cetera Hola, ketchup etc. Well as your gym karate mill keylab.

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Look at him. Allah conceal this

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Since no one knew that he slept with the girl,

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and now we've been stoned like a dog like an animal. One person said done the other listening. Look at this. The Prophet did not say anything, the same summit.

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As the Prophet was walking,

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he walked by a dead goat.

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g factor neptina a dead animal, you know the flies and the stinky smell. Then he asked aina fool and waffle and where is the two guys such and such the names? they both came.

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Then the Prophet said, Kula, both of you, the listener and the speaker, eat from this dead goat.

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We argue is McDonald's haggard harem. We argue as halal haram McDonald's chicken burger and stuff like that. The Prophet is saying ate this dead animal that is stinky and disgusting. The Sahaba said jasola

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Yeah, we're Allahu Allah. May Allah forgive you. rasulillah Who in the world would eat a dead animal? He said, what you've done is eating your brother's meat. And what you've done is worse than eating from this animal.

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lover. Watch your tongue. Watch what you say and watch what you hear.

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I hope I answered your question and forgive me for raising my voice. I send the rest to hear some hang out. Let's start this way.

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Zack aloka.

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So Reba and Amina

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Reba backbiting the Prophet as a Sahaba he makes him think I want to ask you a question. If a person asked you what's backbiting what's the lever? What do you answer?

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The Prophet given for four words you can take 10 words any volunteer really quick melody been

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very shy. I just hope you don't know what it is because you'll never do it.

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Go ahead.

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My excellent Mashallah.

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Yeah, any 9.9 out of 10

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Mashallah, she said all right, Vic. Raka aha coup. De Krakow haka. democra. mentioning your brother or sister in a way which they dislike. They're easy. mentioning your brother and sister in a way they don't like it won't like them. They just don't like what you just said about them and had they hear hear what you've said they will be upset. You don't like it? Even it was a little bit.

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So you and your friend would be talking with one another. And you go to the graduation pictures. And one brother or sisters trying any look proper for the picture. So the brother was a nice tie and a suit. It just doesn't match. Looks really funny. You always come to this pajamas. See, like look at this guy. Look, look. Hey, is nine style man. This guy's an idiot. This Reba?

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She has a big mouth, Reba.

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She's so ugly. ilieva

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Look, our ears look like Eva.

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She's dumb. Hina

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You're so tall. You look like this and that diva.

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Look at this guy's hat. liba because you have an intention of making fun of them.

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Reba, Reba, Reba. Nima gossip, what is it? The Mima? rasuwa lies on the lies and instead

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he and I'll call la vainness. That transfair of words between the people and this you need to listen up for both of them. And the minima

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is that transfer of words are given example to define to the Mima.

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I was in my physics class ingredient 11 and I'll never forget it in my life because that meme is so harmful. It's so much pain and everyone that Allah punishes for Riba and Amina is deserving of it because you hurt us and you deserve it. And Allah is the most just and you will not punish anyone or reward anyone will not punish anyone unless they deserve it.

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Grade 11 physics class at Missoni Orson,

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enforcer High School

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up Muslim brother went to one person told him you see this guy right there. What about him? He's saying about you 123 saying stuff about you. This is the core of NEMA.

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You know what she said about you?

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She said, she said I don't know what to tell you. I'll tell you okay, but don't don't tell anyone. She said about you.

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With around the girls, that you're probably dating such and such guy and talking to him online, now mean 100%.

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That person then went to the other guy, that's my class back to the story. You told them you see, he went to the guy whom he pointed to. You said, you see that guy. He's saying this under about you. So then he sat at the back.

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And he was looking at both of them giving looks an angle grade 11 they're not kids. And he was looking at him upset. And these guys are giving fingers that other. You saw this about me, I will show you and other guys that he thought this about me. They could not hold it in the middle of class. They kept punching each other and fight and fight and fight. And this guy at the end, I've seen him laughing. He was a Muslim.

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The guy who was talking about was a Muslim. And the guy talked about was also Muslim. This is the core of lemina and you know very well it happens around Gossip. Gossip, gossip, gossip.

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Just yesterday, there was two acts an actor an actress.

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It was a musician Nicki Minaj having dinner with another guy.

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The one that took the photograph could not handle this. He said oh such and such Nicki Minaj and this person are now dating. Nina.

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This girl you know what happened to her? What? This guy proposed to her and it didn't work out.

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It will happen. I'll tell you what happened. I think the guy found out something about her past. This is the Rebbe, that girl going to the girl who was talked about? Do you know what she said about you? She said that that guy rejected you because he knows something about your miserable path. Now Mima? I think that hopefully it's clear enough examples. And I want to move on into the punishments.

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This is this is the reality, Nima and

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Reba in English

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rebind English is

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Nina gas.

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That's the big money. Gossip is big money.

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The punishment punishment is over your imagination. Some of you all say a headache you've never heard before. And some and most of you have heard most of what I will say inshallah.

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The punishment is so large

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example, when I want to call my family in the Middle East or so on telling them that if I were to drive my car, while I'm talking on the phone, there is a fine of $500 like what what kind of punishment is that? $500 to talk on the phone. We can live for three months for 500 for a great penalty.

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Let's dig deeper.

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And before we move on to the punishment, I asked you a question is the Rebbe backbiting the Mima gossip a minor sin or a major sin?

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Major sin Mashallah most of you know that one of the indicators to know if a sin is major or minor, you know how learn this show us that if Allah said this sin has a punishment in this life, and in the Hereafter, it's a major sin.

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If there's dual punishment, hereafter, and in this life, and sometimes only in this life or hereafter, and our Prophet would say it's a major sin or song

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are divided into punishments a callback for dunya punishments in Alberta and the grave and the life of the grave and punishments on the Day of Judgment. One of the first punishments in this life is that what the person is trying to seek after after gossiping and backbiting it's fame and love. I love to hang out with this person because they're funny, they talk about that person funny the walk and make fun of people like die like making fun of fat people. I make me funny. That person, it will go opposite of what he or she is seeking and you guys know that they tried to backbite I mentioned six punishments really quick. Number one, it will go against you. People will not like you when

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you're exposed. People will not love you anymore. When you they know you have a big mouth. People don't like that. And the same one when it goes against you. A loss of panel data most of you know that half the first half, and many don't know the second half. If Allah hates a person or dislikes that person, he would call Angel debri yeah gibreel in the above Poulin I dislike such and such person gibreel immediately hates and dislikes that person whom Allah mentioned, then jabril calls all the angels billions and billions way more numbers than this earth. Yeah Malaika in a la jolla bulat Fulani Poulin Allah this life such and such and when this happens,

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dislike and hate

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Words that person descends to earth. And for some reason, you might know people like that the moment you see them or hear about them, or with a villa. I don't want to talk about that person. This is enough. That's what Allah Subhana Allah makes. Number one is that it goes against you. Number two punishment is that you will continue to worry, worry and worry and worry. Did she hear me? Will she ever know why I said about her? And then you tell her person in the back bites? Look, look at her dress. She can't even she's not unstyled the colors don't match. She thinks she's she thinks she's cute, but she's ugly. And then what happens is that you tell that person you move away. And then

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you're like, will she ever tell her what I said about her? happens on will he tell him that I told him that he can't even play soccer properly. And you keep letting worry and worry and the moment you see that person speaking with the person you were talking about you freak out like are they talking about why said then you go to the prison see $1 million civil law and you're stressed stressed number one will go opposite to what you want. Number two is that you will continue to live in worry and worry and three Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He said

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yeah, Masha, Mussolini, all Muslims, the one who has believed in Islam with their tongue, men am and I believe Sandy Weill and yet when a man at the Albay the ones who believe in Islam with their tongue and imagine didn't dissolve or sink in the heart,

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lots of terrible muslimeen do not back bite you Muslim brothers and sisters, do not back bite them. And if you were to seek their faults and shortcomings.

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on lots of panel with Allah will seek your faults and your shortcomings. One more time. If you deceive people's faults and shortcomings, Allah will seek your faults and your shortcomings until Allah will expose you even if what you've done is in the middle of the house. You like no one is watching me. How do people know about this? Because Allah exposed you because you're trying to seek and start people and make sure it should be doing this. Is he really doing that? Allah will expose you number one what was it

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what was number one

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was number one go against you to worry three allow expose if you seeking to expose other people number four, you're a man will be eating and eating and destroyed. I have an old boss he said in LA but at APU a MATLAB comma Jaco ultra ultra mega cooling a dude elgiva are in need.

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You're in a hurry by backbiting eats up your Eman just like how the worms eat a dead body but at a faster pace. So your crusher is down? Your email was down. You don't know what's going on. You don't feel the Quran as much Watch out maybe Watch your tongue. Yeah.

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Number five. So Pamela is just in tune with even move on.

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Allah subhana wa tada says, I will be learning the chiffon regime.

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And you guys no one came here for many weeks. They know that I this is not my attitude. But this is very severe. And when a sister from amongst us comes up to me about to cry saying brother I went to ask a brother a question in one of my classes. And after I asked him one question, brother I'm like What happened? The next day of school all the girls were saying that we're doing something together.

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Well lighted Allah. Why would you do this to the sister fear Allah? Well life it Allah don't say that about the girl. She's asking her brother a question. You have no business to say anything about both of them. If you did, then you ate her body.

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She was about to cry in front my face why it duck alone ever does that? A guy and a girl asking one another question. I'm telling you. That sister they asked the brother a question.

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To be honest, that's not the best choice. You go to other girls first, you go to other sisters. None of them are there. None of them can help you. Your teacher cannot help you. Then there's only that one brother Bismillah toccata Allah and make it limited. Don't make your first choice. Another brother and sister. They cannot walk anymore properly. There's just obsessed about what people will say. I'm like, Why? He called me at night one time complaining brother. I'm like, what's going on? He said every p everyone at my school and her school and their school, whatever country they live in, they might not be in Windsor. It might be different country. They just talk in trash. Saying

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this and that and I'm telling you I'm speaking from my heart because more than half of you go through this. For the number like if I were to open my laptop showing you the emails I get, you're like now I feel why you speaking like that. Stop, stop stop.

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Punishment in the grave. This was this dunya

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there was this dunya punishment in the grave. May Allah protect me and you will law he will lie. No humbleness, no trying to be Mr. Fancy guy. I am giving this talk. You know why? For me before all of you will lie. This talk specifically I was just writing it magid wake up. magid wake up. Watch what you listening, watch what you're seeing.

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Some of the sellers, they used to say, I will not say a single word for the past 40 years. I've never said a single word for the past 40 years, except that I have prepared an answer to Allah to why I said this word. So whenever you want to talk about a person, think, why am I saying it? And if I were to meet Allah, how would I respond to him?

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Think of the words you were talking. Think of the words that you've sent. And think of the times if you did back by default.

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In the grave.

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Atocha says he's a great scholar. He said the punishment of the grave

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is for three reasons. punishment of the grave as

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a tyrannical attitude last like three one third of the reason like there are three thirds. The first third is because of the Mima gossip. The second third is because of LIBOR.

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The third third is because of not cleansing yourself or protecting yourself when you use the bathroom.

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That's a punishment in the grave. Rasul Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Lola and Tadasana if you didn't bury your people, I would make dua to Allah to allow you to hear the punishment in the grave. But because you bury your families so Allah covered the noise of the punishment, the problem muscle loss and then walk by two graves the first grave you walked by he told the people however these two graves are being punished when you add the vanity Kabir they being punished but not for something they thought it was major, they thought was just a word.

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You know what she's a idiot. He's a bum. Look how he shoots like a like a homo happens. Look how he shoots and Nicobar one of them. These words, that person is being punished for NEMA. And another narration for LIBOR. The second grade the Prophet walked by he said this person is being punished because they never purified or protected themselves when they use the washroom. So panela that's the punishment, the second punishment and the life of a barista after the person dies. Ross will lay some of them said when he descended all the way to speak Allah subhanho wa Taala he said on my way there, I've seen people with copper nails. As far mineral has copper nails, this scratching

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themselves and their chest. The Prophet said, Man Hola, who are these people? jabril answers.

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These are the people that aid their brothers alive on earth, and they were insulting them and ruining their reputation and talking trash about them.

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scratching their face and chest all the way until the day of judgment. So panela Well, someone likes to laugh at him one time he was telling the people his dreams and the Prophet dreams are false or true. True. Every Jimmy has his true Hellman via royal MBR. What happened is that he was dreaming when he got two people. One guy in the right one guy on the left walking with a prophet. The Prophet doesn't know who are these people.

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As you're walking, they went by a group of people, one person in the in the river of blood, the other person in like a, like an oven, and groups and groups and groups every time the private say Who are these people? The people say intellect and move on, move on. Don't worry about it move on, move on. The Prophet never got an answer. He said, I walked by a group of people. They got hooks of Hadid steel iron, they grab the right side of their mouth, and they rip it all the way until the back, then they grab the right side of their nose and the river all the way to the back. Then they put it in the eyes and they put all the way into the back. Then they move to the other side, they

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put the hook in their mouth and the river all the way to the back. And you put it in the eyes and they put all the way to the back, and they put it in their nose and all the way in the back. And by that time they're done the first half, the other half goes back to normal.

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Who are these GeoGebra? Who are these? And they say intellect and talaq, don't worry.

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After going through the dream is a long dream. Maybe one day we'll cover it. The people on the right and the left were angels. They said Yasser Allah, you see his people are doing the hooks. In Who are they? Who? Who are they?

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Exactly. Exactly. And they specifically gossip. Specifically gossip, they would say a lie. That's what the prophet defines it, memorize it. These people would say a lie yet we will kill al Qaeda. Possibly.

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They would lie about a person, they would gossip.

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You know, when they see something going on, and just assume something. And then they would say, see that person. I think you're doing 123 I might be talking to this guy or whatever, or I think they're dating after school, whatever the case is. And this case becomes so famous doesn't happen. We say a sentence. And next day, like the whole school knows what's going on. This is the person who will rip themselves apart. May Allah protect us see, I mean, may Allah protect me and you from being in this act? See, I mean, from your heart, yeah. On the day of judgment, are we not done Allah, Allah Allah.

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We nowhere near being done. And I summarize as much as possible. I told my wife, I can speak for hours and hours about this.

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It's a form right?

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So lies illallah wa sallam, when the day of judgment comes.

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And you just you're like, I just said this word. I just never thought well, my brother one lie. I never knew all of this. Isn't that true? Who amongst you know all of this, maybe there is but sadly if you knew it, and you still continue doing it, brother will lie I never knew this. And you'll come in to judgment May Allah not make you amongst them. I say you you was not intentional meaning like you by name a person on a day of judgment.

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Allah subhana wa Taala

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will bring you

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had you back within other people and gossiped and the Prophet asks a question at Rouen eminent Muslims, do you know who's the bankrupt?

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Who's a bankrupt? What does bankruptcy mean economically term in economic terms?

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The guy with no money Exactly. That's exactly exactly what Sahaba said. And move lisman ledger Hama wa Taala. The one with no money is the bankrupt the Prophet rephrases. This definition, Islam defines things differently. Islam defines things differently. He said, Muslim and Arab and Muslim women lisanna. And Muslims they're bankrupt is the one that comes to your makishima with good deeds, Salah sia, obligatory charity, and this and that, and so much goodness. And then they come while in their life, they were backbiting about a person, they were gossiping about another person, and they have slandered this and hit that and bullied this and their mouth and tongue kept working and

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working. What happens? So these people come you back that me? You were gossiping about me? I today, I will take my right from you give me your good deeds, your Salah, your hijab, your beard, your ledger, your lane, you think you're that good guy. Now it's pay time. So you pay him back. It's payback time. You take the money back, you take the hazard that back because that's a currency exchange has nothing to say yet. No money on that day. So they take from your good deeds. They put it on their scale, and you think you're done. Then another guy comes hold on when we were in grade nine, and you have reached your puberty and you have

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accountable. You said such and such behind my back today I take my right from you in grade nine, and they might have died at 63 or 70 or 80.

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And he's like I forgot about you where the guys coming from, for a big mouth which he had in this life, taking from good deeds, and then at the end, you have no more good deeds, and all what you have left are sins, then they look around, another guy comes, you're like I have no more good deeds to give you no problem, I will pass on to you my sins. So give him sins, and then that person will be thrown in the hellfire. This is the bankrupt. This is the bankruptcy. Many of you perhaps did not notice the following point. Couldn't Allah bring that man with no good deeds and a lot of sins? And it's good to Johanna. Why did Allah show us and why did the Prophet tell us that they will come with

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good deed there'll be taken away so you can feel that pain which you put in the heart of people. So you can see vanishing so you can feel that pain and they can feel in the the last relaxation that you talked so much about us. You ripped us you're a reason why I didn't get married and I've got postponed two to three years. Yes, Aviva can be a reason. It's called a lob, it can be a reason.

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Yokoyama brothers and sisters another punishment

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Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam says forewords.

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Law yet whole agenda? No ma'am. Period.

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A gossiper will not enter agenda?

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Are you serious? Voila. That's authentic ID. If you gossip around telling a brother, do you know what he said about you? He said he wants to meet you after school. He wants to fight after school. He hates you doing this you will not enter Jen brothers just a simple sentence. I still pray you're not going to Jenna.

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Except for after a long time, up to Allah to forgive you at the moment or delay your entrance. If you're a true believer, even late Allah, your final destination is gender. But you might take a long time. And one day delay on the Day of Judgment is equal to how many years and our time one day on a judgement is equal to

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one second 1000 years can be senate limited to one day, and the time of Yokohama is equal to 1000 years. So is it worth it? Repeat after them.

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One more punishment on a day of judgment. This punishment is just I learned that just two days ago. I never knew this punishment will happen on a judgment. I never knew that we're lying.

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It's just something unimaginable. But a loss capable. Your mind is limited unless Unlimited, unless capable of doing anything. The one who back bites on that day of judgment will come. That person who has back bitten will come with the body in front of them dead body. And Allah will only represent to call you eat this body just like how you ate them in this life. And you're looking at them and Allah or did you have to do it?

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For a

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while, wire see,

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as an order, the man who you're talking about the girl, she will be in front of you then eat them just like how you eat them alive on Earth. So the Prophet says you're eating them? Well, what does that mean? Your claim is your upper lip will go as far as here, and your bottom lip will go as far as the middle of your chest, you open your mouth, we make fun of snakes, we think they're ugly. We can't look at them. On the day of judgment, you will be like a snake and you will eat them and you'll cry out loud as you're swallowing the body.

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She's stupid. You deserve it. She's done. He deserve it. I have so many examples. And I'm sure one law here I'm sure you can come and give me real examples of backbiting and gossip. Brother, I beg you tell us how can we erase this? I have done it brother. I've listened to my brother. What can we do? Now really quick.

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You cannot doze off, okay, now he cannot doze off. If I was boring the whole time. Be patient learn this.

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If you were listening to gossip or backbiting, it's equal to saying it deal. So both have the same way of repenting, but the one that listen to it

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You got to do a couple of things. If it happens to you in the future, you tell the person Stop. Don't continue. You have to do that. Or

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you defend your brother or sister that you're talking about. They say, she's a lawyer like, no, she's a truthful person. Like, no, I saw her lying. I tell you, that I didn't see anything against this girl. So you don't call her a liar. The Prophet said, whomever defends the honor of their brother and sister, Allah will defend their honor and reputation on the Day of Judgment. Defend your brothers and sisters. So you tell them you stop or you defend your brother or you go against it. And the last resort you have is you advise them like please stop talking with like this Li but we heard we heard a talk on Thursday is dangerous this and that avoided if they continue, you have to bounce.

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You have to leave. Don't say What will they think about me? You have to leave? Leave, leave, leave, run, don't walk, run? You don't eat that dead body. Right? Does that make sense? You run away you don't walk? You're like, no, go, go, go. He won't be my friend. Let him go wherever he wants to go to. Don't lose a lot. Don't lose Jenna, don't lose the profit or loss and love for a friend. Because know if they backed by about another person, and they tell you about it. You smart boys and sisters know that they will bet by about you. had they done at once. They will do it twice.

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If you did that bite, and literally as well. Now there are more ways to repent. Many of the LMS said you go to the person who tells them you know what? I beg you.

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And I apologize. Please forgive me. Many of the scholars said you go do that.

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Now that's an excellent way if that person accept your apology.

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Just few days ago, I went to a guy whom I heard backbiting about and I was so upset because the guy was backbiting is one of the most religious people in the community.

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And he just didn't do that. So I went looking and searching for the brother um exam article.

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Brother I I am sorry to tell you just we I heard some like some Lieber going on. He said brother magic Don't worry about it. I forgive you. Don't tell me what is it just don't worry I forgive you do that. If you think that person will accept it you guys realize what I'm saying? If the person will take it go do it. But I want you guys and I hope you guys follow the other opinion

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is that you do not talk to the guy you do not tell them you bet bet them you go and you seek a lunch forgiveness and the profits or loss in a moment as a manager. How was the rescue? What's the exit? What's the emergency exit? He said emphatically Sonic Hold your tongue

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when he asaka beta can stay at home? What kiala hoppy attic and cry over what you've done cry so you make dogs or lasagna Allah forgive me and you make up for that person whom you back bitten. And in the same gathering you were talking about a person the same gathering let's say we're backlink Five Guys, the same one you go there and you tell them good stuff about that person. You change it you say he said he was a liar now we say he's a good person. And he asked a lot to forgive you ask Allah to forgive him from the bottom of your heart. As you can see, this is severe. Watch what you're seeing. Think twice while you're not lose. Think twice.

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I just learned that phrase at work. The carpenter and the job they turn was measured twice is Martin or smaller. Measure twice cut once.

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Take your time measure think is that word okay to say? Is that right? Think about it think okay, go the Amazon what is that and said man can you maneuver language Yamanaka if you guys believe in a lot, and on a day of judgment? Okay. fileopen hiren audience must say something good or remain silent. May Allah reward you for coming. May Allah make you steadfast. May Allah make you powerful to resist these things.