Ruling on a Wife Taking Husband`s Last Name

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Karim Abuzaid

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Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Rasool Allah, why shadow Allah ilaha illallah wa The who luxury Allah will shadow Mohammed and Abdullah who rasuluh Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in fil a well in wolfville Deen of Allah, Allah Allah Allah, Allah Yama Dean, my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam. We welcome you once again to Colorado Muslims fit counsel. Yes, Luna, can they ask you? We received a question from brother jachym. I've met all the way from New Jersey. He's asking regarding the ruling on a woman. When she gets married, she takes on the last name of her husband, brothers and sisters in Islam, this is unlawful in Islam

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because of two reasons, reason number one at tributing oneself to others, then the parents is not permissible is actually Haram in Islam is unlawful in Islam. And I will provide the evidence in a minute. The second reason is imitating non Muslims This is a non Muslim tradition. And certainly this falls into the area of mimicking and imitating the tradition of non Muslims. What evidence can I provide to simply establish the unlawfulness of an individual to take on

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other names then his own parents and that's in general by the way does not have to be a wife getting married and that's one scenario but but adoption also and all these things could apply there.

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Number one, hola Donna are the only add him up on software in the law for a lambda alemu

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Dini wamalwa D come call them after the parents after their fathers. And if you don't know their fathers, then they are your brothers in Islam.

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And we know brothers and sisters in Islam the story behind this particular verse.

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They don't know haritha about the loved one. The companion is someone whom howdy God Allah one has given to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as a gift. He was a slave.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam, Zaid was taken from his father's tribes land years back and sold in slavery in Mecca, Hakeem is both him and gifted him to Khadija rhodiola Juana and when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her the job of the Allah Juana. He was granted him by hadiya as a gift. Now, the father of z discovered we're about his son is.

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So he came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam with his family.

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And he said they are a Salalah name, whatever ransom you need in order to free him. I'm his father, and I would like to take him home with me.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam looked at him and he said, I have a better offer for you. Ask zetonna hairdresser, or Viola Juan, what does he wants to do? If he wants to go with you? He can go for free. And he's a free man.

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But if he chooses me, I can tell him he must go with you.

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Imagine brothers and sisters in Islam, they are of your loved one. said to his his father. I will stay with this man. Some lilavati Rasulullah I have lived with him for years.

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I have not seen but good things from him.

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Rasul sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wanted to reward Zaid

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he wanted to reward him. Imagine he chose Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam over his own parents. He said to him from now on, your name is no longer zetonna haritha Your name is a dog no Mohamed Salalah Halima Sadler

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Allah subhanho wa Taala did not condone that. Allah subhanho wa Taala did not approve of that. That is why he revealed the verbs are the only ABA II him who are accepted in the law for a lambda Alamo, a home for a while confit de la de come call them after their parents.

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To more evidence brothers and sisters in Islam filipo hario Muslim Khalid Abdullah will be failure of your loved one and read the text. Whoever attributes himself to others then his own father while he knows or she knows her father, this act is an act of poof act of disbelief.

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Of course, we can point fingers

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we're labeling the act to be act of disbelief because some individuals that I'm telling you a lot of Muslims living in America they do this out of ignorance. They don't know. That is why we cannot call them disbelievers but the act itself is an act of disbelief and they need to leave it they need to repent off repent for maturity. The second honey efficient and if the manager and the Hadith is indicated by Schiphol Albania Rahim Allah, Eliana, that whoever attribute himself or herself to others then her own parents or his own parents, the curse of Allah, the angels and the people is abundant this person, we ask Allah Subhana Allah to help the brothers and sisters who fallen into

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this out of ignorance, that they find a way that is not complicated to clear off this. And we call upon the brothers and sisters who are getting married recently, not to promote that culture, and also to promote the religion of Islam in this particular tradition, or this particular area, which we really have found in the West when we migrated to live here Jessa como la jolla La

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ilaha illa Anta

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al hamdu lillahi wa