Why Moral Character Matters

Karim Abuzaid


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Friday Khutbah by Karim AbuZaid delivered @ Dar Al Tawheed Colorado.

November 18, 2016

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Mel from the Lila

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Meadow wanna start in one istockphoto

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fusina Amina Amina

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Manya de la la la

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de la

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ilaha illAllah hora de vous la sharika

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y shadow na mohammedans Mohammedan Abu hora sudo

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yo holla Dena mano de la haka, Ducati wala tamo to

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the moon.

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Yeah, Johan de Pura vida como la de Holla

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Holla caminhada humeri jan and Kathy around one is

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what de la la de de una de la la

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in LA Canada karnali coomera theva

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yeah yo holla Dena mano de la kulu Conan sadita useless.

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La Koo become one of our Rasulullah who

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was a novena.

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Fair enough. Howdy.

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Howdy, howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi, WA alayhi wasallam.

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that desert to her?

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wakulla modesetting bedarra akula. Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah in finance,

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brothers and sisters in Islam.

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One of the major characteristics

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qualities, one of the qualities

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of those who attribute themselves to a hallucination.

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Those who attribute themselves to the way of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And those who united on this way

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is the character

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Sulu, the mannerism.

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He cannot imagine the great attention

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the scholars have

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given to this particular component

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to the extent that when they would offer

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literature that address the subject of mannerism, the subject of character, the subject of who they would normally make it part of the literature that teaches our kingdom

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that believes

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I'll repeat this again.

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When they address the subject of Hulu o'clock, they address it when they teach Darth Vader that believes

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they did not separate between what you believe in and how you behave.

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That's what I'm trying to say.

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And there are reasons for this, by the way.

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Reason number one, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did the same thing in multiple ad.

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He always

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connected the fact that you're having a good character. Good manner to you believes in a law.

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An example Hadith Abu hurayrah al Bukhari look at this man Karina you know, Billa he will yo military fella you the Java

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whoever believes in a lot the hereafter that's aqidah that's Mata believes this is belief Allah believe in Allah Hera that's Aki their belief system.

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Let him not inflict harm upon his neighbor that's hollow.

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Manor. See the connection.

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Man can you know

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whoever believes in Allah in the hereafter?

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For lucrin bifa believe in Allah in the hereafter This is correct. This is believes

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being generous, let him be generous, hospitable to his guests. This is a character This is a manner

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man can you allow me laughter whoever believes in a line that he had after failure

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to smoke

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let him speak good say good words or be silent.

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burn was it to nashoba bill burn was a bona shaba faith is made of 60 plus another wording 70 plus branches

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for you what is the highest branch who fleeman

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tauheed Allah, La ilaha illAllah

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Shiva den while Higher, higher,

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higher, having higher

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feeling ashamed when you do something wrong. Whether this is a character while higher or shorter that will mean show up in a man

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higher is a branch of Lima

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This is the reason why sunol Gemma, they did not separate the two

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you having a good character is a reflection and a manifestation of having the sound believe

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when there is some defects in the character side. That means there is defect in the believes

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that's the message

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that as a matter of fact, they considered having a good character. A sign of having a perfect complete Eman. We know that a man goes up and down.

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A man goes up and down.

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When we when we understand this Hadith, we're talking about the perfection of Eman camellia Eman. Look at this

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Muslim Nina imana.

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The one who has the perfect Eman Faith is the one who has the best characters

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when it comes to marriage

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the prophet SAW Selim is addressing the guardians of the women

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either jack aku, mentor Luna who Luca who Medina says

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if someone comes proposing to your daughter's look for to character

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dindim believe

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they used to say this. But

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if you want

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to find out who is better than you once it comes to Dean to Eman to face, they said this menza the oncofetal Hello, Zed and caffeine.

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If he has a better character than you, then rest assured that his Dean is much better than you.

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But we have to pay attention here to a very important point. Like we connected the character to the dean.

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Sometimes you may come across people who have good characters, perfect characters.

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But the masaka Dean is what

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Murphy did.

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You see? they're connected. They're like a tree root and branch.

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I showed the loved one can

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one day she asked the Prophet sallallahu Sallam about a man who died before the prophets of Salaam Qin.

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His name is Abdullah hypnotoad and

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she said to him may have Allahu

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wa Taala Allah is gonna do to Bluetooth on machinery is done mostly kidada disbeliever

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your rasulillah can if al Qaeda worker

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in one of the wording this man used to feed all the hygiene factor.

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He would come and say all the projects,

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your lodging your accommodation full board on me

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generosity Oh, come

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on. Have you ever been generous?

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They say about it very interesting thing, that when a person is generous, even if you have some defect in other areas, normally people would overlook the other things as if generosity covers up.

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just noticing when you see somebody who's generous or giving, even if he gets angry gets upset.

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And he has some defect in the other areas. He may not be good. He's impatient here and there generosity takes care of this.

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But the generosity

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will not take care of the hate. Carlos Alomar who I mean?

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He's a jeweler Phil. Why? Lamia polyoma Club busily hockey at Yama de He did not say one day Oh ALLAH forgive my sins basically doesn't believe in Allah. He believes in these idols. And that was

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the second reason. Again, I'm citing the reason. The reasons why the connection between what you have in your heart of believes and also what you have of a character, they are connected, they are not apart. And if there is a crisis in the oma right now is this area, character, carry carry

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back characters.

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The other reason,

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like your belief matters, your RT that matters. Your belief system has to be consistent.

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Also, your character has to be consistent. That's the reason why you believes you don't you don't come like yesterday you wish to learn today, or you know what, and then you go and worship some other lawyer, your beliefs are consistent, they will not change will literally act upon the word aqidah. aqidah derives from a noun in Arabic, called ope, they're not when you try something like this site and poof, not that basically sets of beliefs that you don't even question

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you don't bring back.

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It's no more called RT that, if you doubt it.

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That's why the word the certainty, likewise, your character has to be consistent. He can be nice one day and tomorrow, another person has to be steady, has to keep going.

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The third reason and we stopped here is

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you know, whatever you believe in your heart,

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the way to bring these believes out

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if you presented through a good character.

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But if you don't have a good character, let's assume that you have the perfect or hate.

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The perfect ad will only benefit you.

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But for this though hate to be invited to

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you must present it through a good character.

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So having a good character is the practical the apparent side of your beliefs.

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In general, Ahmed, he believes are sets in the heart.

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Now, you show this in your iPad in your worship, and you show it in your characters. Now, if you don't show it in your character, people are not going to accept what you believe in.

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They never going to accept it. They will not.

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You must have that characters.

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And there will be that split between what you believe.

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And the way that you're acting. The knowledge doesn't benefit you.

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It doesn't benefit. It's of no help to you.

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Or if you really want Islam

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to spread

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and non Muslim care less whether you have the heat or not. Whether you pray to hydrate every night or not. Or whether you are with no he cared less.

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What he sees in you is the character who are you?

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Sure, you know a worker at one stage he actually wanted to leave Mecca to migrate from Mecca to Medina.

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A man whose name is in New Delhi

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A leader of a tribe very famous of archery.

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say he will call A Tribe Called the power

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Where are you going?

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He met him in Jeddah somewhere about to get on the ship and leave. Where are you going? Man I'm leaving your town tired of you

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You guys are persecuting us harming us

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you know what you know what they said to him? Yeah

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Miss Lucario

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someone like you these are smart people

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someone like you should not be expelled nor he should leave you come back I'll give you protection you know what they said? Why Why? Why you pray five times. You break the hydric

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in the middle

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he named the same exact attributes almost hadiya name to the Prophet Solomon he came back from the cave scale thinking that he was contacted by agenda not debris.

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Just to show you the the twin ship of our worker and Rasul solanaceous

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shadow him a non Muslim so work on him

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so characters

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but pay attention here because you know when we say like this, oh, look at the shape. The shape now is asking us not to believe my lesson to be able to have a good character is that really is simple. It's not simple. It's really difficult because he ended up dealing with a variation of people. So you end up talking to somebody who is impatient. Somebody who's who's has some arrogance, someone whose intention is this you really throughout the day you're really going in a jungle like dealing with multiple people for you to be able to maintain

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good character. You have to charge

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your battery.

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Now how do you because we don't want to downplay also that a bad diabetic is how you charge your battery.

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Like look someone who raised the head to that night well lucky if they get devils laying around them throughout the day is gonna look and smile.

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us baja evenness. His soul is pure. But someone who did not even wake up for five years.

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He slept through outrages

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will lead mechanic debate. The first one is going to meet max. We'll start with his wife in the morning. He's gonna cause a problem in the moon.

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Why? Because he was not charged.

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Look, look at this. Look at the alternation yet look Rania Al Quran voila, he Mangia, Mangia. Look, whatever the rough man in LA Vina una

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mujer de Luna Carlos Allah,

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the slave of Ramadan they walk on earth humbly and when the ignorant ignorant attacked them they say what

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they say what Salah why they were able to say Salama

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and levena be to be him. So Jaden was

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shuffle a bad look at the rod.

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So that I better charged him to be able to do this

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one Latina una una de Johanna Inaba, Canada, salado.

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Then it goes back to the character when Latina De Anza kudos when they spin Lem you

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can have a Nevada coma character oh

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look goes back to the hidden when levena Dona mama alternation

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successful are they believers? I bet Oh alladhina home

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Allah salata him you have your boon. And then what what lady no man in love women horrible character.

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You're getting it brothers. Please understand. There is a connection between your iPad and your, your your your Latina man who stay in the Sabri

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masala how are you going to get patients through Salah?

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It's important, so that we don't downplay you

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This may be later for the third reason it was a given attention to law because it has our gentlemen

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who listen you can believe whatever you believe in whatever you want to believe in.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala described a nation that came before us he's angry at them

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angry with them

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and he described them one time to be like donkeys and one time to be like dogs. Why? Because they separated the belief from the act

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for Roku,

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me while Amman

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masala Vina from Mira

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chemical Hey Maria.

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Bill Alec if you see a dog carrying the greatest books of wisdom ever been authored? Will the donkey benefit from the box?

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He has the books under

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well if Lara fatwallet never Lady attina who is Angela Harmon has

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a lot of fun. Oh, yeah.

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Whatever. Haha, look at this method who cannot tell you?

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In Depth Malala he'll have a

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with a woman network admin.

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This is why brothers and sisters in Islam, Allah subhanho wa Taala chose the final messenger

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to mankind to have this caliber

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if you read Salalah Solomon biography out of this world,

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out of this world, to the extent that Allah says about him in the Quran, what?

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Hello, can

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you have the best character or

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the best brand?

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The Not only this,

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the news or the information about Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam about Russell salada said

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in the previous books, he is described to be a good character.

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This is in the tower I'm quoting the tower, which is inevitable, horrible Buhari could compile the conversation between our Prime Minister and Abdullah Nam Laserbeak of Zim Walla Valley when this is the description of the profit or loss element the laser beam when you're not harsh, rally will also help you to make noise and will

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lead to kaaboo say let me say you do not repel evil with evil belta who was fine

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but you forgive

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and him some Malala sang them coming and telling you look at this brothers brothers and sisters in Islam and this Sahih

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Muslim look at this corner salon wahala USL the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says in Nana boo boo boo tamina surely Allah Allah

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I was sent the objective of my message is to perfect the best of characters in the face of this earth

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as it

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Oh, we had law who

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only when the enemy

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testified before you

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you know when he was commanded and sort of the Shara underachiever. takala carabin. Warrior kins has a high

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he got an A mountain called the Safa

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and he called upon

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his family his clan.

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If I tell you that there is an army behind this mountain, about to wage war at you, what will you say?

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Now hidden.

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We never experienced you lying.

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We have no reason to be lie you

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saw the philomene

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Casa de Who? Before he accepted Islam, cyl Bukhari,

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a Buddha sent his brother, a brother, by the way was one of the few companions prior to the prophethood of the prophets of Salaam who never worship idols. He was actually worshipping Allah according to the Mila the way of Abraham in his mind.

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He was living in a tripod

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The route from Mecca called refer for he learned that there is a rumor going around that there is a guy there is a man and I'm sorry I'm using this language just to show you his his attitude at this time because he was not a Muslim yet. There is a man in Mecca claiming that he receives the message and he's a prophet. Imagine this is a prophet.

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So he called upon his younger brother. Oh, nice. Oh, nice. Go and check this man out for me. It is a guy in Mecca.

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Oni is when like a surveillance camera on the rassada

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watching him do everything

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he knows. He went back to his brother and he submitted that report made of one sentence you know what he said?

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Are you to Rajan yet Moreover, Macquarie Milla

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I saw a man who was commanding what good character

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and this is important for us now.

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Congratulations, Donald Trump is the President of the United States of America.

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Oh nice. So this in Mecca.

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So don't say no slama phobia I have to be mean now I have to be there.

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This is the time to show this

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you know you're under pressure. And you show good character.

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Ladies actually do

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this strength is not yelling loud. You know, even in gang language and I'm sorry to say share this with you. They tell you that the weakest person in the gang is the loudest

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the one who's loud but the guy who's you normally

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streams because

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it's the first place you're supposed to take control of is is you with your neffs Really?

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If you're unable to do this, then forget it. You have no control over anybody else. You're gonna lose control.

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on a swing back to the prophet to his brother said this man is commanding good character.

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And Subhan Allah Subhana Allah I should have

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asked him was asked about him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his character. You know what she said? He cannot find a better way to express this than the way that I expressed it.

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You know, she said Cana Hulu on

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basically the way that we like to translate in English he was a walk in

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our Rokita everything

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and this is the best way this is the best way to make that our to make our when you have the right believes you have the right character. And you're walking out there amongst people. You become like a light guiding light for them. And people need this at this time.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam

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Why would you strive to have good characters?

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What are the motives?

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Because we need to understand this.

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Some of us are born

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with certain qualities

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that will hold up GB Li

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don't use the word natural because naturaliste they love that. The Allah like the mother was fashion to love her baby. She doesn't Britain, the father.

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The normal ones here

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who love GB

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like Hattie McCarty, Rajan is generous. He doesn't have you don't read a whole lot becomes like what a trade Melaka

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a trait it's like the the character is encrypted in you you don't pretend it you just some people are just generous when you ask. They give.

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We're brothers we need to the snow please outside. He doesn't even think about it. He's turned up.

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Some people are like this.

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He doesn't pretend it he doesn't he doesn't think about it.

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other attributes you have to work

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to train yourself to have them

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like a horse you know like a horse.

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Like you. You have to do this with yourself.

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People who get angry, okay, I'm not gonna die

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and you go into the meat and you get angry.

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You will have to try again. When I tried

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Insha Allah

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we get this meaning from what? How do you feel?

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a 40 individuals came from Yemen to accept Islam in Medina. The leader was in a shed.

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Of course, they are looking forward to meet the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

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So when they arrived the necessity of the brothel and they found out that also Salaam is sitting inside the the masjid. So they left their camels, the mules, whatever they were riding, and tight, and they rushed inside the machines.

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So they left the camels and tie.

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So they are surrounding the profits or loss

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for sitting with them, and he's watching one of them left behind, taking his time going around tying the camels than us. We are so patient.

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And after he got done, you know that he was traveling from Yemen. He feels like the government is waiting is dirty. So he's changed the government and he had another government setting or the he changed. He cleaned himself up a little bit. And he came to the professor at Santa Monica, Arizona, but before he arrived, so Santa Monica man is so patient. He asked the man

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who's this man? You know what they said? called who had as a doula.

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This is our leaders.

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Imagine the leader, anybody else being a leader being a president being ahead of the

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You guys are coming up is going to be healing.

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For he looked at him salam wa sallam when he approached him, I said,

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Yeah, I said figa slotomania boom Allahu wa rasuluh

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you have two qualities, two o'clock and two look alike. Allah Subhana Allah Allah and His Messenger love

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Allah He will enter patience and forbearance.

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Look what the law says. Yes.

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Yasser Allah a messenger of Allah, Ajay Belen in Lahore, Allah whom did Allah create me with those two color? Yes. Allah created you this way. You know what he said? Alhamdulillah he led the Jabulani Allah

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hamdulillah that he created me the way that he loves to me to be

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from what they say that some characters you have hungry

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eyes. Imagine imagine this imagine this man. Talk about you know, people want to test his Helm his forbearance.

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So a group of people got together and said okay, let's follow Him and just insult him. So imagine you walk in and you get a group of people coming behind you. You have your son of this you are this insulting him and he's walking doing nothing

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until he arrived the outskirts of his tribe. So he sat on a rock like this and he faced them

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so they said what are you doing?

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He said I just want you to finish insulting me here because if I go inside my tribesmen are gonna hurt you. So just go ahead and finish insulting ninja.

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You can read that

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you can read but other qualities you have to

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like enamel, enamel Hill movies, Hulu or enamel.

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forbearance that you strive to be forbearance

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call us a lot of you are seldom one manyatta sub u sub bill hula casaba

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Yatta whoever strives to be patient, Allah one day we'll make him patient. Miss one. Yeah, you have Latina Mentos below.

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Way sob sob you

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wanna Yes?

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woman? Yes. Me? Yes, yes, yes. When you add it to the verb Fimo file that you're you're striving you're trying to make it happen. But what motive Do you have and closing each other?

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With dunia?

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Officially tirmidhi

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Carlos Allah Sullivan he was Helen and Bill Beeman, how Rama Allahu Allah now.

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They tell you a few

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Salvation success in the hereafter begins with you being saved from Hill

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not entering gentlemen

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coluna in the quarter note we're in number to a throne of Judah Kumi Oman Tiana here it is Furman z Han na enough

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because for you to get to Agenda guess what you have to walk walk over what

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what it means to worry none of you but we'll walk over Hill

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and we know that some Muslims will be grabbed by these hooks

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down into Hill yeah Akita tuna our believe that they come out before because of La la la Muhammad Rasulullah but after how many years? So here is our su Sala La Jolla Salim is giving you an incentive right here. Allow miracle Shall I tell you that a person who's not gonna go to hell? He's gonna walk over the bridge safely into jail.

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does have the best characters.

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Not only this, in the Day of Judgment.

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Look at this, there is a scene called the scale.

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When your deeds will be weighed in the scale, imagine this art from a young

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woman a man with a rotten shoulder. Look at this pile of some lava yourself profits or losses such

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as karoshi in fee Misa de la Dillman.

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The heaviest item in your scale in the day of judgment will be having good characters.

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Wouldn't you like to be next to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam in the day of judgment?

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Wouldn't you like to be loved by the prophets? Allah Subhan Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says

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in lemon had become la acabo de la ma listen Yamaha, Yamaha, Sunoco.

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In the Day of Judgment, the most beloved to me amongst you are those who are going to be seated next to me those who have the best characters

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for you, young gentlemen, look at this.

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Tell me,

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Carlos, Allah, Allah, Allah Allah.

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And as

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you know, when you say and as a human, I guarantee it, you know that that commercial I guarantee it.

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And as he wouldn't be based in fear about the Janna lemon Tara Can

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I guarantee a Dallas for you in general, if you leave off arguing, pointless arguing that you're trying to just prove that you're smarter, you're intelligent.

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Even if you're right,

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that you let go of an argument that is gonna get personal.

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You see you talk with people, you try. Once you see that the timber is going up. It's gonna get nowhere.

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You know?

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Take care.

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Well, and as I move 18 I guarantee and as I would be by eating I guarantee a Dallas bacon a masterful gentle balance for you in the middle of genda. He also did agenda look at this linen Torah, Cal Kevin says

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that you abandon lying, you don't apply. Even if you're joking. Sometimes we sit in a gathering, and you want to make people laugh. You end up fabricating a story

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that you leave

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the heckler

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make them laugh that you leave lying even if you're joking. Look at this now what

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I guarantee be very thin Fiala Elgin

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Abella in the highest level of gender? Lee men hacer una Hulu

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Don has a good character.

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Look at this

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issue of the lawn

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in the lab the wall and this is out of this world.

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Out of this world in the lab.

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Let you

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be host new Hulu

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daraga. Raja saw email caught him

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because of your good character. Good mannerism. you attain the level of someone who fast

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Every single day braise the head every single night.

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The scholars By the way, are puzzled by this. How in the world would you do this? They said here is a scenario.

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We have one Hadith hardeeville Muslims, the process of selling ask his companions when they

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do you lose the bankrupt is they say the bankrupt is the one who doesn't have assets under real estate or cash letter

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said no. The bankrupt through my own mind is someone who will come in that they've just been Salah zeca festen had, but he back with disperse. He got some disperse.

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He killed disperse. He stole the money of the person

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and the Navy segment, guess what was going to happen?

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You're gonna have to pay back

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back from work, you'll have sonet

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rollin By the way, I will tell you something, not everything that you do. Not everything that I do, will be transformed into an ad we know that for an act of worship to become a Hashanah, conditions must be fulfilled. Yeah. And some of us do things that is not accept

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is not transformative that not everything that you do. Maharaja didn't say that. A person may pray and he gets out of his selective ninth eighth of his Salah, and some of them come out of the Salah with nothing. So the fact that they are transformed into a center that means you did what? He did quality quality.

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And that's the hard currency that he has been you have gonna have to pay pppppp

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imagine this, someone who has a good carry? Well, it's like, it's like exactly somebody works for $100 a day. And then at sunset after he gets his wages like this. What do you think about this guy? This is exactly like someone who prays fast and he has bad character.

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But the person with a good character, how he will attain I'm trying to get you to understand how will he attain such a rank? He's gonna keep his Amen.

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Because he's not backbiting is not gossiping. So that least he does he keeps

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he's not gonna kill it at the end of the day.

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As a whole Whoa.

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Whoa, smell Hello.

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Hello, in two minutes to close in sha Allah.

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They tell you

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is made of two together.

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And by the way, you don't have to do the two.

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You can actually stick with one because some of us are not

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proactive. Some of us have this way.

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Careful ever.

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Number one, to have a good character that you refrain from harming people.

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Don't try to do good things positive things Meanwhile, You're what? You're back by.

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Da da

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da da da

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I have a rock and an apple in my hand.

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And I'm going to throw them at the same time. Which one are you going to take care of first? The truck

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stop harming people. Stop if you don't have a good characters. That's your first step. Stop it that's your first step to have a good characters careful.

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Color Salalah

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Muslim men Saleemul Muslim

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Muslims are safe from your hand from

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step number two proactive badly Nether now your call now.

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And they say hello.

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having a good character is easy in that area.

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What john Kelly?

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cheerful faith face. You know sometimes when you meet with your brothers your teeth is not our

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teeth. is not our

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smiling. How are you?

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Work qalamoun lean, lean, lean.

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Speak softly

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make people feel comfortable.

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Allah subhanaw taala and you have seen a roof over the head of La Jolla

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hungry lies below the mean level handle huson Athena will Jamil wa Chateau La ilaha illallah wa sallahu la sharika yaku Takahashi surreal wa shadow nama Mohammedan Abu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa as well as many many

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brothers and sisters in Islam

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a message to all of us

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really the best place

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to exercise your good character

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is with your family

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a lot of Muslims they have that split in characters

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when they enter home societies back

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home Daddy's home Yes back

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and when he goes out Hey, how you doing? Mr. Nice school guy. Yes if

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this guy is so nice if you really want to be judged that you're nice let's see home.

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Karla sama la vida usnm how you

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how you come lately?

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The best of you are those who are best

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with their

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mother, father jasola law or messenger of Allah man Hakuna

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the Messenger of Allah who deserves my best character if you have like a minute or two for best character in life who should get this yes

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see how they will treat their mothers now and what his dudes in the outside Yeah, let's go through this man. It was fun man. Man. I'm busy

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unfortunately look at the domestic violence

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imagine a man has the guts of beating a woman

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and then at night are so solid says he went to sleep with her so he beats her during the day and at night you want to have a What is this?

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What is this

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character with your

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evening? Yeah and with the non Muslims as long as you're not combat you're not fighting them they deserved our The best way to convey our is through your character. And halifa shall mature when a group of Jews passed by the prophet Salah Salem and they said what as Salam aleykum means death that's

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what I should do in Iran after that.

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Yeah, I shouldn't do this.

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Just say why don't you whatever you citizen you tend to see that by I returned them

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and salt nicely. And then he said a reef cooler yaku fishy in in lezana

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when I say in elation,

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this kindness

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even with

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this out of this world,

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sitting with his companions and a young man approaches the gathering your rasulillah

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I need your written permission your permission to commit a book

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Sahaba companions Hola. They're about to get on him said Oh, God. Come talk to me.

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Would you like someone to do this to your mother?

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People do like this to their mothers and their daughters and their sisters in their aunts and their heart and

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and he needs to

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work for them. That was

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a lie. This young man swears by a law. When I approached that gathering there was nothing in the whole world more beloved to me than having that unlawful relationship when I left as if it's removed from my heart

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Just I promise this is the last time we look at this, look at this. I've given us two examples out of this world,

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having good character

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with the human and the animals. Look at those four Hadith.

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He was told salatu salam of a woman who does not do a whole lot of nothing.

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She doesn't pray, no offense, she just keeps up with the mandatory but Subhan Allah, she's very kind to her neighbors.

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To the extent that she has some leftover of milk, she would dry and they make some kind of cheese, and she would go and get the honey. Paula here.

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She's from the people of gin.

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Look at this. The other hand is a woman who prays

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Digi Ronna,

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put your hands on it.

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Now you can apply for diesel mufflers. Why not? Why? Because she paid off the

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truck. Look at this now.

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Women who used to work as a prostitute but again as well once we say this Howdy, so people don't assume that you can go and do prostitution and then give drinks to dogs. That's not how it's done. She may Allah guided to make Toba because of this woman.

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She had a good character with a dog and she was a prostitute. And on the other hand,

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a woman went to hell because of her cat

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did not

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have a set of Amata Wanda Takata coolamon Hush Hush.

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The message is crystal clear brothers and sisters in Islam.

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That message is crystal clear.

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Seek it

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and you know Allah I will not find anything better than asking Allah.

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Because Allah By the way, having a good character is that is is a provision. If you had if you had an aka Carlos Allah Allah Allah, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam says in a la casa Marina Kumara de la cocoon Khanna center the nakamuraza

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Allah has distributed your manners, Mikey distributed euro provisions, whether the best means to get the provision or is is it with a colossal Allah Allah, Allahu Akbar, Allahu Medina. Allah guides me to the best of characters

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and he still looks into the middle and he admires his Allahumma sin Hulu ki, gamma.

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Like you made my my face. Nice good looking. I also want the good characters

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allow me to become in

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is a dilemma.

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Allah subhana wa tada and you have seen a

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llama? Allah. Allahu

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Allah, Allah Medina masina taqwa Allahu masala Dean and a lady who is a marina was Lana Daniela latifi. Hannah Shula was excellent.