Dealing With Non-Muslims

Karim Abuzaid


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Muhammad who want to stay in who want to stop

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when we let him finish rhodium fusina

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Maja de la who follow Him will Allah

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amen on you will Fela de la

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ilaha illallah wa sallahu la sharika Allah

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wa shadow Mohammedan Abu rasuluh

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Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in fil a valine

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Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in fill in

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Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in film Allah Allah Allah Allah Muhammad in

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my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam as salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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The subject that

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is really undercover Allahu Allah waldoboro

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dealing with al Qaeda.

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That is the undercover but silly part

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of Lola aldara.

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And it's a very sensitive subject.

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very crucial.

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Normally people who address it at this time and age, they get a lot of trouble.

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So I guess the conference and brother Ibrahim selected me for this so Al Hamdulillah, Katara la Masha

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what is in Walla Walla vara, under which we will branch out to dealing with non Muslims

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in general,

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which is something that you encounter on daily basis.

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The moment that you get out of your house you have to deal with a non Muslim whether he is a Christian, whether he's a Jew, whether he is an atheist, whether whether whether whether whether whether

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what is the ruling, what does Islam say about this?

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First of all, this subject is important as well because of many reasons. But before I go there, I wish to define it.

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We always hear the term Allahu Allah. Well, Bara

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there is multiple ways to actually translate these terms. Some scholars said Alola Association

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while Bara, the association,

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some said ilala affiliation, that you affiliate a line from Alliance alliances,

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on some said separation that you separate.

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Some said, love and affection. Some said, hate resentment.

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And all these meanings are really contained in these terms.

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Both of these terms are opposites. They are the opposite of one another. And Lula is the opposite of el Bara.

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If you're going to have one that means you must have Bara

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and if you have Bara, you're going to have to well

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should they come together hand in hand.

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You can have one all the way otherwise you Allah is questioned.

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The moment that you do wanna

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technically, Bara must exist. And unexplained this I'll break it down for you.

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But like I said, these are Arabic words. What is the root of these words, maybe five or six, but I will stick to just three

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albula now if I'm going to say the definition of Anguilla I want you to assume the opposite of it.

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Which is relevant to Laura. The first meaning of Lola is love and compassion

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that you love someone

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have compassion

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For someone

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and this is by the way, what is meant for this verse in Surah, Dilma ADA, which a lot of non Muslims come after us because of it? Yeah and you have levena Amman, Turkey Julia who are NASA algolia

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Oh ye who believe do not take Christian and Jews for our Leah meaning, love and compassion because of their Judaism because of their Christianity.

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That's what is meant by it. You can do it.

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Technically it cannot happen.

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If you really have proper faith, imagine in your head in your heart. This will not happen.

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medalla oral modula the last verse, lethargy to Coleman. You mean una bella, what do

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do naman

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de la hora Sula.

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You will never find someone who truly believes in Allah and the hereafter

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who has in his heart, compassion and love towards someone who opposes Allah and His messenger. Looking look at this one you can.

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Our Abner album, our

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our shirato

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even if they are the closest of kins to them. Why? Why this is impossible. why I'm saying it's technically logically impossible.

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I'm going to explain it to you in a very logical way. The question here and expect an answer from you. With which slim do we exercise love? And I'm trying to help you here. What limb

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now, do I have control over this limb?

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Do I? I don't.

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Okay, the brother there. His name is Mustafa. Mustafa Chanel.

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My heart. Please, I want you to love most of

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what are you going to say about me?

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No, I know you're polite, but something wrong with the shift the shift lost.

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Why? Enough? kulu Bhavani Adam?

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II mean I saw the man you can leave

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the hearts of the children of Adam are in the hands of Allah.

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So Allah subhanho wa Taala is the one who directs the heart to fall in love with somebody. Now technically, you think Allah? Will they erect the heart of a believer in a law in the hereafter to love somebody who opposes a law and his messengers? Come on, will it happen?

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It's not gonna happen.

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Just for you to grasp what I'm trying to say.

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Are Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would always talk about hajiya in front of Irish.

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But of the lavon Khadija rhodiola one

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Ayesha is jealous. She got upset.

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She would say to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, what's wrong with you? Maybe?

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Moroccan hamro ship

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halachot Fidel

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Abdullah kawahara Minh,

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a woman with basically lost her teeth in reference to the age difference between her and the prophets Allah who died to begin with. Allah has given you bitters.

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What did the Prophet say to her? Yeah, Asia or Asia. Lockard Rosie. To

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her love is placed in my heart.

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I have no control over it.

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How often do you meet somebody for the first time

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and you just fall in love with the person

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you don't even know what's his name is

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how often it's

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we first had had and Hadfield and Hadith al Bukhari la Cala salada Salim kar Allahu taala Kala Salallahu alaihe salam, either a habibollah who didn't win a lot love somebody nada gibreel

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Allah will call upon gibreel

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in knee or hip bufala Nibbana fula

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For a HIPAA, I love show the son of so so love him.

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Fiona de gibreel roofie la Santa

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jabril alayhis salam will call upon the dwellers of the heaven, who are the rulers of the heaven? Who are the angels? Do human lives

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by angels?

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Yeah summer dwellers of the heaven. Allah loves show and so the angels will love that person. Look at the end of the Hadith from you that Allah whole caboodle, Allah

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then Allah subhanho wa Taala will place the love of the person in the heart of the believers in earth.

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You're getting it for technically, you can accuse me your lesson you cannot accuse me for not loving you. I can't because I have one.

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But there is a guarantee that Allah or there is a boundary that Allah drawn for me.

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That not loving you, or even if this develops into resentment into resentment will not entitle me to Rome you

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will not entitle me to treat you unjustly. As long as you're not a combatant.

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Whether look at this one a mannequin, Shanna, no comin, Allah, Allah

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taqwa, do not let the resentment that you may have

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towards somebody

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get you to commit in just a second as that person

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for the first meaning of 11 is one muhabba. And this is exclusive to believers.

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Only believers.

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can a believer love

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an unbeliever?

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Yes, it could happen, but not because of his religion

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because of other reasons.

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Other natural reasons? I'll give you an example. When the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sat next to his uncle in the dead of death begging him How do you feel Masai Baba has

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to say Van De

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La ilaha illallah wa obatala? Ba What if there is someone in the history of that religion who did the greatest service to the deen of Islam to the religion of Islam? Is this man of authority?

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He cared for this Deen in the early stage, the stage of infancy

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the cradle

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and he has taken care of the Messenger of Allah from the year when he was three years old, all the way until they eat 50 salada

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protecting him

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even when the Muslims were boycotted into these narrow corridors of Mecca schwob. He went out with them starving

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for Rasul salaallah alayhi wa sallam is sitting next to his bed. Yeah, I'm Paula ilaha illa Allah.

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He refused. He had a Ba ba

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ba ba ba ba ba ba ba sitting on the other side of it. Yeah.

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mattala Mendota Donatella he chose to die as a disbeliever

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Salim is feeling down

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he could not help someone

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that he killed for. Look how Allah subhanho wa Taala express this in Surah silicosis tala tala, this verse was revealed regarding the reaction of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam.

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towards that particular situation, what is the loss of pinata See, medical Nicoletta de man, Bab

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la um, after

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asking the question, can a Muslim love another Muslim? Yes, it could happen but not because of his religion. If you love him because of his religion,

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that's a big issue. Your Wallah and Bara gone out of the window.

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But love for other reasons, natural reasons, but I'll give you another evidence.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala made it low fall for a Muslim

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To marry a Christian or a Jewish woman, correct or not?

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Normally Why do we marry?

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Because of what? Baby baby I love you black hair dark eyes.

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what I've heard that will Corrado mean? T and Haleakala coming home as well gelita skou la vida Allah Hinako

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Mata lol hope,

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my love thing

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it is possible.

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But again, you're not on the pieces not on the basis of the first definition of work of overlap.

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Now normally if you love somebody that gives you the second definition, which is what closeness recall that you want to be next to them.

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That can be physical closeness, when you wanna when you love somebody without setup,

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or metaphorical with the heart that even though he could be in Egypt, or could be in Saudi Arabia, or could be in Pakistan, but you're connected with him

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the quality of spiritual work

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or Oh, he rojava

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there is a connection between that closeness that you hear about the shift all the way

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you wish that you can fly like this just to be next to him as it

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comes number three l Manasa. That you assessed you heal.

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and assisting and helping does not mean that you blindly help the person doing wrong, call us a lot or send them

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a haka volumen of loom, give assistance and help your brother whether he is oppressed, whether he is being oppressed, your rasulillah or messenger of Allah, we know how to give assistance to someone who is oppressed.

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You lift that injustice from the person, but what about if he's an oppressor

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to keep one over?

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Come on, this is wrong. You're my brother, I have love and affection for you. And I want to be next to you. And I want to support you. But this is wrong brother shouldn't be doing that.

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Manasa here does not mean blindly just a follow up letter, you must verify the position of this person, whether it is on the truth or not be deleted.

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Like I said,

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for you to grasp

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your relationship

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a Muslim or for you to grass, a relationship between a Muslim and a non Muslim.

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First, I want you to differentiate between two terms in Islam.

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Imagine this is a PowerPoint, PowerPoint, two terms

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as my word which is explained love and affection will be

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memorized nose, mouth, and Bill

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and Bill. Now what

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we can explain what nowadays what love and affection is and we said this is exclusive for who

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I believe about what could happen in other bases then the religion for a non Muslim to like I said natural basis because imagine someone who accepted Islam at birth,

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who lives in Canada. His father is Christian or a Jew and he accepted Islam

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is Islam asking him to hate his father resent his father.

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But not on the basis of the deen

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differentiate between the two. You go to school you go to public school, and you end up with this cool dude that you're spending time with is really helpful. He helps you out he I mean, you ended up with a beautiful relationship. Yeah, you could love that person. But not because of what

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because of other reasons. But loving for the deen

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is only exclusive to Allah subhanho wa Taala is only exclusive to Allah and His messenger and the believers.

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In Mr. Walia, qumola who was rasuluh? Who was Vina?

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That's it.

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Have we come to the second country

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sandwiches What? Al before we understood what the Lord's Day is, now he understood his love and affection. This is exclusive to who?

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On the basis of work,

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and it could happen to work

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on other basis than the religion. Are you following me? Or what are you lost a symbol, really the purpose is for you to understand the subject. If you're not getting it, then I can go around and try to convey the message but let's come to

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every person is entitled to be

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provided that he is not a combatant.

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He's not fighting you.

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What is my evidence?

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a whole chapter by the way, if you really want to enjoy the subject and have fun with it, just go and open source in Montana, all authority Montana was revealed regarding this subject. So Bynum, Luca thier burger with Natalie alley. Those who explained that chapter.

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The verse in Surah 10 Montana

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what verse learn Haku laguan illa de nada mucho to config Dini?

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While am you free to come in the

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room or to conceal to lie him? in Allah Hi, yo, hey boo, co co clean. Allah subhana wa Taala does not forbid you Muslims, for video believers to have built a good relationship with those who do not fight you because of your dean

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who do not help and assist those who are fighting you to expel you from your homes or other allies commanding you to have been acting a love

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with towards them. Specially if your intention is that what

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are you doing? Good to see you. You're looking wonderful. Can I help you you're cutting them somebody which is carrying the bag. Can I carry that back for you? You come out of the house and you see that her backyard is she didn't mow her lawn for the last month. Can you please come and mow your lawn for you?

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You can give her a gift. I mean him a gift I'm sorry, I'm talking to the brothers his sister can give him a gift.

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And that

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that's that what non Muslims.

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So the evidence is this verse not only the evidence here, but rather the application, the implementation, the manifestation of this verse at the hands of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and his companions and I will cite for you. Multiple evidences, multiple evidence here, more than one evidence.

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Let me start with the story of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and a young boy who used to serve Him will hover over.

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It's narrated for

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Iron Man, a Jewish boy who used to serve the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam did not see him. He asked what is wrong with him? Your rasulillah he got sick.

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So now we're talking about visiting a non Muslim who is sick.

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Rasul sallallahu Sallam immediately went to his house.

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He found out that he's about to die

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for Colella, he said to him Yeah, hula hula ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah

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shawanda ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah then man looks at his father just to show you the father here for Carla Bruni, my son

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Imagine he said to his son

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for color Chateau La ilaha illAllah

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Muhammad Rasul Allah wa met him and then he passes away por la sala la vida USL Alhamdulillah Hila de cada hoomin I'm not

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sure if we're at the point of reference as what that it is permissible for you as a believer as a Muslim to visit a non Muslim whose work

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in Muslim estimate, a Jewish neighbor of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam invited him

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to his house to have food

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or socialize, Alan answered his invitation and he went to his house. But this is called what? differentiate between the two is called what? Bill, not on the basis of what? You still resent the fact that shirk is involved.

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He's still doing that. That's the restriction here. That's the fine line.

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mahallesi naifa. It's a big mistake out there to assume that for you to present yourself to non Muslims, like oh, this guy, Masha, Allah is so tolerant.

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He's so progressive, he's easygoing, that you compromise your beliefs. Nobody said that. Lalalalala. At

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Fillmore, I'm Ella, while a cephalopod

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tolerance is in interaction with one another. How are you doing? Good to see you. Good, you look wonderful.

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But once it comes to me,

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once it comes to believe, I believe 100%, that the only path to salvation is La ilaha illAllah, Muhammad Rasulullah. That's no compromise.

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I believe that.

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But the fact I believe this listen does not entitle me to force you to follow my way does not entitle me to wrong, you does not entitle me to treat you with disrespect.

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let's come to this, let's come to this reality. Come on brother's

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an Orthodox Christian who believes in Christianity

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who believes that the only path to salvation that you believe in the formula that Jesus Christ was crucified on the cross for your sins? They believe in the depths of their hearts, that anybody who does not believe this, he's going to be thrown in Hill.

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So I'm gonna

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come on they believe it.

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Or rather, you're probably noticing this that we have the Western Christian

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and the Eastern Christian.

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When is Christmas in the East?

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January, what, seven, and Christmas in the West?

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I want to tell you, the guys in the east, those are the guys who normally what they actually make it unlawful for the followers to congratulate those who are in the west to say Merry Christmas to them.

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They are innovators.

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For them, they have they have zero tolerance towards the

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whole faith here.

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Like I said, tolerance is what is in dealing nothing believes. You thinking oh, I want to show that I'm taller than me. Then you go to Christian, me and you go to jail? Do you worship God, my God. God is one.

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This is the language that they are promoting that they are circulating. This is what they want to that's where that concept of one religion Abrahamic faiths, and all these things are coming up. They want what they want to break these boundaries.

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If you believe that he is good, and you're good, how are you going to give him down?

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He's good. You're going to pull him in the face to Islam.

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You believe is good. I mean, faith wise. That's what I mean by good fish a

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tolerance is not there for Allah Susannah Los Alamos invited by

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a Jewish neighbor. And you know the story of the woman who invited him the Jewish women who invited the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to Emil

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Sufi Muslim Allah. And what did he say? What did she do the sheep? She boys in the sheep. So some of the companions of the Prophet died actually because of this boys in his meal.

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But a shed the point of reference here is that he still accepted what

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and she was what

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she was not a Muslim.

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another serb assura

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Muslim also,

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one day, Omar Robbie, a loved one. So a very fancy Hola. Hola Latin. So Yara is

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made out of silk

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Eonni you could see the silk, the lines of silk.

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So he went and bought it to the world.

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facility for the Prophet Solomon. So Dr. rasulillah I brought this for you. I bought this for you in order to eat it once you meet the delegation. So you look

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at aroma heatherly Bassam Allah Allah Allah, only people who have no chance in the hereafter would we have such a clue? Omar took it back. Look what the prophet SAW, Said. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam went and bought some wording the same one some wording a similar one to it.

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And he sent it to Omar as a gift.

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You're getting it No, you're not getting where you guys are so intense. Relax.

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Come on, chill.

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So Omar, when he received this government, he took you through the process of your pseudo law. How in the world would you like me to accept this after what you said about this other one? They said yeah, Omar, I did not buy this for you.

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give it as a gift to somebody. Omar sent it to his brother who's still in Mecca, who's a catfish.

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You can give a gift to who

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you can give a gift to them. There's nothing wrong with that.

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Especially when you have that intention of

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getting them to like in Islam to love Islam to love the dean by Elsa Matura.

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Fulfill Buhari

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during the years of social

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We know that the quraishi were infected with a lot of drought and so forth.

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So they didn't have a lot of food. So as Matt, the daughter of avak, by the way, as Matt and I, they both had two different mothers.

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Ayesha's mother Her name is what?

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omo omo man, she's always a Muslim, but as my mother as Smith's mother was not a Muslim

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and she used to live in Mecca.

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During the years of drought, she didn't have food. She immediately traveled to Medina and she wanted her daughter to help her smart stopped Muslim, a Muslim. Let me go on Ask the Prophet sallallahu

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rasulillah she said O Messenger of Allah, a techni O'Meara Reba.

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My mother came to me and she wanted me to help her asilo her

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parlor salovaara the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to her busy

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slowly muck

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on how the Quran express this year.

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How the Quran expressed this was in gehad.

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Either tooshie kB

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is it over?

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Look at the combination here. We're in jaha Dhaka if they do jihad as a non Muslim parent, to get you to commit sha

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Allah and to sneakily obey them not Fela toto fell out no to this one. But at the same time, what is the verse over learn?

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Warsaw Hey boo Murphy dounia

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good give them a good companionship

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had the lay

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of the land.

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side It was one of the most famous companions of build worldwide leader in Mecca.

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Gan Ravi Hill method will be

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on if you want to use an example of how to be bar eautiful to your parents. Sad would be the example.

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When he accepted Islam, his mother knew that this is a very sensitive thing that she said by a law.

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I will not eat and drink and I will sit under the sun until I die so that the people will say until you leave Islam until you leave Islam and you go back to shoot. So the people will say that you killed your mother.

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You know what, that's it.

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Hola Omar. He said my mother

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will lie by a law low can at Lucky me at lunasin Sahaja Nuff said. Nuff said matter of duty.

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If you have 100 souls in your body

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and they would leave one after another.

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I will not leave Islam.

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You know Allah subhanho wa Taala did not condone this.

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Allah does not like the language.

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A lot actually revealed the verse in Surah Lanka with Peter Lang Kabuto Pilla, this verse that I just couldn't fill up, man, that fella tota Houma Asahi buma. If you don't, you shouldn't be talking like this to your parents.

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That's not nice. Yeah, wait a minute.

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That's no question here. But you should not be doing

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it my way. Jani. It's a very interesting subject. Very important subject, especially for us Muslims living in the West, every single minute, every single hour, every single day, you encounter a treatment dealing with a non Muslim here and there. And it's very unfortunate that you find two extremes once it comes to this subject. And this is why it's very important for you as a Muslim to actually have a grasp of it. It's very important that you understand that boundaries which you can cross and you cannot cross.

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Very important. Because like I mentioned, we have two extremes. One extreme is what we have one extreme that if you talk to a Christian or to holla Islam as well.

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If you deal with a non Muslim you Islam as well.

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That's extreme. Who said that? How are you going to give them down?

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We're going to have to talk to them.

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The if you look at the reason why the first verse was revealed to begin with,

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of surah what

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a long time.

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Yeah, you have Latina Amanullah taffy do I do? I do welcome Alia una la him bill Nava cafaro, the magic of communal hub.

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Do you know the reason for the revelation of this verse?

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I spoke earlier that you can have very

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good treatment good dealings with a non Muslim provided what that he's not what he's not What? Come on brothers. He is not what

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is not combatant.

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Imagine this verse was revealed regarding a companion who actually did this to a combat

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and yet he did not leave the fold of Islam.

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The story famous story for sale Buhari how clip ignore Abby belta Ravi lavonne Abadi.

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A companion who participated in the Battle of better another Hadith By the way, how to be used to have someone working for him. Can I actually used to treat him harshly a little bit. For one day, this person this will am this servant of how to love your loved one came to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam and he said hello hiya rasulillah layer kulana Hakuna

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he says by Allah messenger of ALLAH hafiz will enter hillford Por La Causa. He said you lying in nahu shahida Bandra

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he bought the services in business.

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What is the story of how to

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win how to migrated from Mecca to Medina. He could not take out his family, nor his wealth he lifted behind. He's not from a normal quraishi family.

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One of the weak families in so he could not.

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Now he placed them under the guardianship and the protection of a care for him.

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He's been taking care of his family, his children.

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Now when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he broke the covenant soldier with a visa and they violated the terms of the condition and they attacked one of the alliance of the Muslims and also la Sol and decided to conquer Mecca.

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And he kept this as a secret

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and he let certain people know how to get the information that Rasul Salah Salem is preparing a big large army

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To conquer MK

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what how to get

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through the air combat and now we're talking about what

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how to send a letter with a woman to warn this man

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to get ready

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gibreel alayhis salam came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and informed him of what hearted

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Rasul Allah wa sallam called upon or even avatar that in the last word and two more, I don't recall the names, four of them. Go you will find a woman Viner

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in a place called around to Hawk

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she has a letter with her. Bring it back to me.

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Olive never thought it was the amines.

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They found the woman right there in the locality, which the Prophet sallallahu wasallam named.

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He said to her

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get out the little. She said I have no letters.

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They searched her.

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She braided the letter.

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And her he

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imagined this. So they searched her didn't find anything. So some of the companions said What? She has no letter. And he said what? What aloha America Rasulullah

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sallallahu by Allah the messenger never lies. Listen

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whether you get out that letter Latrobe regional kita Lana, Lana Thea

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on Wall Street Munich

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any woman now so Yeah, go ahead. shift this woman Yes. Was it Oh, strip naked is

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just to show you even the

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less I am demanding demand

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for like, nickel for the MD for your culture.

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Because she's afraid that she will be stripped naked she decided to hit.

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The letter was brought back to the Prophet salaallah. Salah immediately called on how to mahad

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Omar of course is ready.

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Yeah, this is Kiana. This is treason. Bishop Shahada mission This is revealing the secret of a Muslim army.

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This is endangering the lives of

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if what he did was just pure cough

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but also some would not ask. He would just have embassy Allah Allah Allah Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah join Islam again

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Listen, if how to did this to assess the non Muslims to defeat Islam go

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mala for free, there is no question about but he did it for another purpose another reason dunia children status position kids.

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Major sin

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sakakawea even though there is a DB Shut up, but see the evidence that it did and crystal clear. My head I have a local

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law here assura law by Allah messenger of Allah, Masha Allah to Heather cufon one NFL con

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de la I did not do this because of this believing because of hypocrisy because of my resentment for Islam. To Rasul Allah, I'm a weak

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I have no family in Makkah.

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And this person is taking care of my kids and my Wolf

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and I wanted to pay him back a favor.

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Rasul Allah Allah send me that beautiful statement go your heart.

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La la la.

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Una tada tada Illa Allah bedridden for call Allah home era meluna maluma. She tune in to look

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as if Allah subhana wa Taala looked into the hearts of all of those who participated in the Battle of beds. And he said to them, Do as you please, I have forgiven you

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for that, that's one extreme.

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But we have another extreme here the other extreme while the other extreme. Yeah, he don't be we're all good. Oh my god.

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God is good too. Let's have a party you

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The truth is

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the truth is in the middle and that's why it's very important. Yeah what a lot of Muslims don't realize that Illallah will Bara

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is the essence of the hand.

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You see that? kalama

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What kalama

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say the canon

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law La ilaha

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illallah wa

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la isla. It's like, you know, if you don't do this if you don't borrow money for Shakeology, if you don't do the association from friendship before you associate yourself with a man and faith, it's exactly imagine you have a very, very clean clean water. You pour it in this cup and at the bottom of this cup there is dirt clean mud.

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What will happen

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what will happen to that clear water

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imagi La ilaha illAllah to be a tree that you want to plant in your backyard.

00:46:34--> 00:46:36

Before you plant it, what do you do?

00:46:38--> 00:46:38

What do you do

00:46:45--> 00:46:50

you take all that bad take all that bad stuff out. And then you play Oh, this is

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familiar for Bill. Booty borrow.

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What you mean bill wallet.

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Pocket forecasts systems, Cabrillo.

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Button mishmash and calendar machinimas we didn't bring it up. It's not us. That's from the get go. Look. What if caller Ibrahim Ali Abby, he walked me in nanny burrow omim ah boo.

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bah, Finola, Illa Allah de facto Ronnie in the

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lessee, let you make the line straight. We are F word This is a sign of a good man.

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Good man. Holla Holla Holla salam, alpha hora de man

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in Walla Walla de villa.

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Villa, Villa

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And I'm telling you, you will never enter

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into the agenda

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of this world. There is agenda and this role. Well law he did his agenda in this world. While law he in Macedonia legend Melania told her layer to Agenda

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by Allah in this dunya there is gentleman,

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whoever does not interrupt, he will not enter the agenda in the hirasawa agenda. I'm talking about

00:48:46--> 00:48:47

how Billa

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Helga Rasulullah Baba, the Whitney do

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not to that extreme.

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Not to the three

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he'll be moving with

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this verse in Surah. Rahman.

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Wiley man hoffa McComb, Robbie, he Jen Nathan attend.

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out some of the schoolers explained this verse they said Gen net and Gen two dounia

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was unnatural.

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You will never be able to enter into the agenda in this dunya without living this principle of Loyola law.

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You will never

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What is my evidence howdy fellas are over your loved one. And with that I'll close in sha Allah. Hadith is agreed upon. Por la sala de la he was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says Salah soon mancanza Fie. The Kahala watani man

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free quality

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If you have you then have tasted the sweetness of faith. What is number one?

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What is number one?

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kuno logo rasuluh Isla de Masha Houma wa

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follow Allah and His messenger on the most love to for me

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any love that you have, by the way is a branch of that. And I look at the second one, the second one is a branch of it.

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What are your hip

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your hip boo is

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that you love your brother from law

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because he loves the Lord as much i love the brother because he loves his message.

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He loves the deen of Allah.

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Look at the third one

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that you hate. The fact that you are to be taken back from the love that you haven't for Allah and His Messenger the love that you have for the believers to cook

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like you hate to be thrown in Hill,

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This is where the character

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had the shot and let you know he had been flooded.

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This is the character which will build this Deen in the face of this earth. Any other character that wishy washy stuff. Oh,

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good luck with that.

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Good luck with enjoy.

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But if you want to build the character and Muslim character shall see your body balanced.

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I I challenge anybody

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to take out of this lecture something that I'm inciting hate or is a no balanced, balanced character, a character that holds to the role of Allah to the deen of Allah

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without any compromise, and at the same time, be able to treat with the environments. I love you for the sake of Allah, I have to save my energy because I have another lecture tonight. And I'm walking on a cane so you probably can understand there's

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a shadow Laila Helen