Riyadh Us Saliheen – 14-06-2022
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Bismillah R Rahman Rahim salatu salam ala Rasulillah Amin and Avena Habib in a Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam about
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the other side he sort of lost behind Huhtala anybody can you know if you manage on level one you have Phil Elena's alert works really well if your father Raja tofanelli. So today Inshallah, we will continue from where we stopped last week. If you remember last time, last time we were talking about the saying of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
When he was asked about
the best thing that usually takes people to Paradise, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and set up for Allah, he was a personal alcoholic.
And he was also asked about that, which usually takes people to help. And he says, Alfonso, well found you. And I guess last week we talked about these two
elements, you know, those that can lead to paradise and those that usually lead to help and preservation of both can take a person and lead him to success in sha Allah azza wa jal.
Today we'll move on to the hadith of Abu Huraira
Caracalla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam aquamarine minion a man and accent whom colocar was here to come here come Lynnie say
the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi Surma said
the most among the believers in terms of Eman liters of iman is the one who has best manners. One who is supporting the best manner is the best in the Ummah, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
So there's a very excellent and important news for each and every one of us. Because as we always mentioned, having good manners doesn't cost you anything.
It's a free gift from Allah subhanho wa taala. That's why when the Prophet said Allah Helene cinema to somebody what to do to attain this blessing. He said, Yes, Allah, what do you think if I cannot do that is a call for Sheva candidness just don't harm anyone. And last month, I will make it a charity Please
promise a lots of I want the world to be a very peaceful world, whereby cooperation and support and help amongst the members, you know, of any community is maintained and preserved.
But of course, that cannot be attained unless if Allah subhanaw taala is in front of every one of us.
If Allah smart is in the heart, and everyone is doing it for the sake of Allah and to please Him, then He will, it will last and maintain.
So that's why only Islam can solve their predicament in the problem that world is facing nowadays. And Allah subhanaw taala has the capacity and ability to do that, in less than a blink of a blink of an eye.
As well as Allah Allah said, fix the world, regardless of the nature and you know, people are living worse than animals.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are fixed within a period of 23 years
OnStar and the husbands are fighting each other, fighting each other and they were brothers and sisters, you know, coming from the same family but no Kayla
coming from the same house. But because of the absence of the Sharia, amongst them, they were fighting each other according to the history, 420 years 100 entities and the profits are lots of managed to resolve and to solve this problem within the blink of an eye.
So that we are brothers and sisters and they shouldn't exist. And that's it.
And Allah, Allah to us. We're in the colada, who hook in Alvin Hill lead the lead people with the best manners and she ever trust anyone who tells you that the prophets are likely to sell my lead people saw it as an absolute lie,
promise a loss of a lead with good manners.
And most of the battles that the proxies are lots of engaging in they're based on self defense protection.
And of course, everyone knows that if you know that somebody is planning to attack you, you don't just pull the arms and wait for him to come and do it.
That translates those battles that the prophets Allah sama had which some people might not be able to see the reason why he went and fought those wars.
never fought people without
that he led with good manners. Many people accepted Islam because of the attitudes and the manners of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,
we also were supposed to do the same thing, as I said, is the very free gift from Allah subhanaw taala which doesn't cause you anything.
doesn't cost me anything. Be good, be kind to everyone. Be humble. And the first one that you should be kind to is Allah subhanaw taala and how to be kind to Allah. It reserved his lores the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala and do it according to the way Allah smarter send the prophets of Allah cinema with
good manners with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam accepted believe in him.
Respect the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Whenever you hear his name say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam does the least you can do to
pay the price or you can pay him, but that the least you can do to show some appreciation to that which the profit and loss of added for you.
And the best good manners towards the Prophet sallallahu Sallam are based on following his guidance and the Sunnah of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and Allah subhanaw taala restricted and limited success to be an allegiance to the privacy laws. You have to obey and have to submit is for our Bakelite in our healthcare you have chemo Kathy, Marcia Garibay you know, thermal agilepm present how Roger may not provide recently Motorcity
Allah subhanaw taala says we're into the router, which means that it's no way for you to be guided unless if you attach yourself to Rasul Allah, He said, Allah Allah who said
good manners to everyone with kindness to others could monitor the scholars but the monitor the students could manage to your family members,
minus to everyone that was also like to Allah, Allah Himself, He told somebody is a Big Sur, Aquila, Shia,
what an evil relative is this person what he heard that this person is coming
Allah Makalali Allah and Allah will kill him when he comes inside the place where the prophets Allah Allah syllabi exist
and he started talking to him in a very nice way accommodated him separately. So, I shall see the errors who Allah He
called them all politically to just say recycle Asherah suppose when he comes you say to him where is
the person Last time I told her no I shot in the Chevron, Nassim and Turaco and NASA MacArthur rushing
towards amongst the people is the one who is neglected by the people because of his evil minus an attitude he will stay away from him because of his manners.
So that was our best example. So the province Allah assume as an application to this good manners, you know, because sometimes a person might be so kind to the outer
you know, environment or when it comes to the inside his house is very impatient and intolerance. We have people like that a lot. Very good very kind to people you know, from both
brothers and sisters, from both husband and wife.
He might tolerate everyone but when it comes to his house, no, doesn't tolerate it.
Always angry, always fighting, very harsh, somebody that cannot be approached but outside, masha Allah lenient with everyone.
The same goes to the to the wife, also
very harsh to the husband.
And the rest of the family.
Outside, maybe chi, she might be working in a place whereby the boss will ask her to present something with kindness and sometimes also she might go and give the guests also smile and
give them whatever they want. But when she goes home, different story.
So the promises are largely cinema set. He says it was here to come clear convenience, as a very big test, you know, for you to become one of the chosen one among Mohamed Salah selama, then your family must make he among the best.
But is he talking about any family or a specific type of people?
Because somebody might be tested by the wicked President house you know, and he's very upright, telling them to do what Allah wants and they don't want to do and they look at him as very as a very harsh person.
Can we say to that guy, clear? Oh, come here complain. They say no, his wife doesn't see him as the best. Why? Because he doesn't let her go against the loss of Allah subhanho wa taala.
So we should understand this Hadees properly is referring to the normal situations.
normal relationship between the husband
Why should understand her feeling?
It's not like you, she needed that soft softness and gentleness and kindness, you know,
the way you speak, the way you respond to the way you forgive, you're gonna see a lot of mistakes in the house. You know, also you are like that, you know, she's not the only one who is making mistakes. Just because you're the boss in the house doesn't mean you're infallible. You don't make mistakes. You do it, she is patient and you're patient.
And so how long of this call us was mentioned in the fact which many of us are forgetting. Remember the time you take your wife?
How was she young? You know? But then now, a few years? How is she
Masha Allah Alhamdulillah Allah could happen.
But the question is, who made her like this?
Who is the husband right? You shouldn't forget that he contributed so much for this change to take place.
That's why kindness, you know, necessitated that he should be siding with her
do not show her any deficiency in the way you used to live with her before.
Because right after, you know, it started to get old then she will start seeing changes.
And sometimes especially these change appears when the husband is planning to go for the next generation.
Next Generation I want to
say the word Yeah, and he wanted somebody else to join the family.
Yeah, many, many, many situations.
It's okay Allah subhanaw taala says hello, but actually do it in a good way.
So the province that Allahu Allah himself I said to Rocco here oaklins inside.
So Hala, as we always mentioned in this, remember that the best example in terms of living with a wife for Allah hemodialysis this you will never see like rasool Allah his allies.
You will never see like Rasul Allah, very kind and the most gentle husband somebody can ever see, you know, this assuming lies and lies. Go read about life in the house of Rasulullah semana applied in your house insha Allah insha Allah you will live with your wife, very peaceful life. You might stay for ages as if she's an angel.
Because sometimes the problem is not from the wife from the other partner.
Because if you don't understand who she is, and the way Allah sponsor created you in a way different from her, you will keep on clashing you know, every time the promise Allah sama give us a very nice principle is Elia Foucault movement Minuten in Kenya having hair follicle Ravi Amin hair follicle Alpha. He said a believer shouldn't hate another believer his husband shouldn't hate his wife
in carry him in half full upon rhodium in half.
If he's not happy with one of her attitudes,
sure, he will be happy with the other one.
Because he won't get as much data on for sure she has a lot of things which are good.
So that's why I want to first call it set if this head is is going to be taken into consideration and everyone is going to apply the vast majority of the complaints that you are having you know, between husband and wife is going to go so good man is unnecessary in everything, especially when you live with your family. She's the partner and the prophets Allah sama described her like a see you know, see right.
I see it is like a slave, war prisoner somebody who is in prison
prophets Allah sama describe a wife like this.
Why is that? Because at home in her house, she used to have the freedom she got out of the house whenever whenever she she wants, but now she has to get permission. She has to let you know wherever she's going, you know, she wants to deal with somebody she has to let you know somebody wants to come to the house she must take permission from you so many things just like
the way the slaves are doing.
So in this context, the prophets Allah Azza call them around and and
so that's why if you look at this, then be the light Allah you will be more merciful. And you will understand that Allah subhanaw taala is going to side on her side. If things are not going in the right in the right
place a lot of semi died begging the OMA to be kind to the to the sisters. And to be gentle to be soft
As I said, the best example for us is this
rasuu Like the example of a solar cell
the way you dress you know we usually look at the sisters Healy Matoba. Right. She has to beat herself but you
Elena, you know, you live in the way you want you dress in the way you want, you don't care I've lived in her mother said he used to decorate himself and wear the best clothes for his wife. He said because the way I want her to be like this, she also wants you know,
we always think that we are
the ones who are in trouble and we're the ones who look for the bills who have desire. The same thing the same thing this is the partnership in German from both
one of the strangest cases I've ever heard in my life is a case that they mentioned they brought to Irma the law.
A woman was dragging her husband dragging what they've been dragging she held his hand and on the way she was telling her mother in law who I don't want
I want to divorce
him or look at him first. And then he saw him in the herd is the head is dirty currently, you know, I'm the cloth mashallah as if he just came back from but
the better battery?
So Omar understand that. Yes, of course there has to be problem with this guy in the house.
So he told the wife, just go and come back maybe with him. You want divorce? Right? She said yes. He said go and come back afterwards. Give her time to
bring them and he's sitting there. sat him down. Mm hmm. He told him what is this? About blend him badly?
No. And he told one of the brothers Please take him to your house. Lend him a place let him please take shower. Wash himself. Where did I suppose and then come back to
Hala Demandware calm his head upon Mashallah.
So when he came on, he sat down Malko the sister came back.
So remember the Lord has come.
So you came back for the case, right? She said yes.
What is your husband? She looked she couldn't find it
and I read this I said maybe it was the first time in their life.
She couldn't recognize.
After deep thinking she was focusing she realized that Oh, that was the one this is the one you know and it's somehow law according to the story she told me
this this is him he or she said I don't want divorce Come let's go No
That's true the same way you want to say no, also your wife.
So back to the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said to Rocco clear comeliness plus I said this
the promise Allah so was he referring to when the Live is normal? Not when the person is asking the family to obey Allah subhanaw taala and they don't want you know and the hatred because of that and then we cannot apply this hadith. Here to compare complete listen.
When I showed her the Allah on her college admission, the VSL Allahu alayhi wa sallam, I have gone in a minute a huge Jericho the host Nicole Loki, director saw me.
Hon Allah, the prophets, Allah Azza wa said a believer will be given by Allah subhanho wa Taala the level of somebody a believer who is having good manners, you know, because of this good manners Allah sponsor can take up, elevate him in ranking to the level of somebody who is fasting and always pray in at night.
Hello, that's why I call it free gift from Allah subhanaw taala you smile, you love everyone who deserves to be loved. You're kind to everyone as the Sharia asked you to do is your good manners to everyone
according to their level, and then you get this reward. Allah subhanaw taala will look at you like somebody who is there fast in everyday and also praying at night everyday.
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according to those who authenticated Hadith, very excellent good news also,
the prophets Allah Azza wa said, I can guarantee a house
the low level of Jannah for self to be given to somebody who stays away from jokes.
We're in Cana Elisa Musa Hala,
to get idea, but it is preferable always to do it in the correct way
not to do it in the way it turns to be a lie.
Get it you do the one that is the correct way not to do it in the way it turns to be a lie. So if you can stay away, I'm sorry.
The hadith says demand Terkel, kellyboat and kanimozhi.
So as long as you stay away from lying even in a state of joke, if you can stay away from lying even a state of joke the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said I can currently house in this level of gym that's additional house on top of what you will get the the light Island disability.
Some other attitudes and manners.
And the you know, as we always mentioned in this member that lie in has never been tolerated in the Sharia, Mohamed Salah selama is accepting free places right? When a person lies to his wife to fix the good, the bad relationship that is taking place between them to save the marriage, you know, and we'll put when a person lives during the battle. And when a person lies to fix the problem between two missing brothers who are fighting each other.
Other than that, there is no way for a person to to lie, and that light will be tolerated Islamically
even Tony, Tony has to say something which has two meanings for more than two.
So you intended the father's meaning but the one that you speak into will be understanding the clauses.
That one you cannot do it unless if you're you're pressed. When you are pregnant, you can go for it to save your life.
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I'm sorry. The first one says demand Tara Cal Mira, this is an agenda.
We're in cannibal Hedgecock even if you have the right to do so a legitimate debate arguments
and these arguments they are referring to the unnecessary argument.
Alas, Martin says we're just dealing with ability here.
So that's been there are some type of gender that okay, Islamically as long as you're doing it in the right way with knowledge, you know, in right way and the purpose is not to defeat that person. Their purpose is look for the truth and to introduce the truth, but there are some people who will not just accept it easily. You have to go through a kind of debate this one is okay.
So if you stay away from the wrong one, or the one that is not necessary, even if you don't, if you do have a right to go for for that, the premise that like I said, I can guarantee a house in that level of paradise. And you have another one to be given to somebody who stops lying in the middle of Jannah or somebody who stays away from line is joking
or waiting for the island Jannetty the man has been a holocaust. And I can guarantee your house on top of gender the highest part of Jana, if you can fix your manners and attitude.
So, you can see the house which is given to those people who have been good manners is the best house among the three mentioned by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
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The prophets of Allah Allah Who cinema sin in this hadith of Jabberwocky Allahu Anhu. It says in here we have the come in a year or Academy community medicine.
The best you know the most beloved person to me the prophets Allah, Allah Somerset, and the closest person to me on the day of judgment. Asana, Kampala, Holika if you have good manners, you're going to be closer to the practice of law someone that you have judgment and you know, what does that mean you wake up face
In that trauma, you know, but you see the process or next, you
know, you might not feel anything, you know, as soon as alasa my next year as a success, it says, if you have good manners, Allah subhanaw taala will bring you closer to
somebody might say
that, How can everyone let's say everyone, you know, millions of people, they have good manners, each and every one of them when they come to the person, then there'll be so much right.
And then one of them maybe, will be so far, you know, because of the crowd.
But then forget we are dealing with
the Day of Judgment life after, after that dimension is different. The concept is different. What you see here is different from that which you receive, totally different.
That's why you bury a person, typically, but put them in the same grade, one of them might be punished and the other one is in the near. This one doesn't get affected by that all you have to graves, this one here, the other one that one of them is punished. And the other one is getting the Nero
when people are crossing the Surat Allah Sahaja says for duty, but Baynham disorder alone, but Bolton who
will need payment.
So these are very important information that everyone should know.
Because you were living in a time where people are trying to compare that which Allah mentioned to be in existence on the Day of Judgment, you know, with that which they see. See nowadays, and that's very wrong. You will make a very long judgment, you are going to reject a lot of things. And this is exactly what is happening. The science of the object will have been twisted, you know, the way the prophets will also put them but nowadays we twisted.
Why? Because it doesn't fit the time we're living in according to those words.
That's why submission to the minute intended by the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is necessary.
And the key to succeeding on these matters is to believe that anything that Allah is what I mentioned about the Day of Judgment, it sciences,
the science, the science of the day of judgment and the science, anything that Allah snorted, I mentioned, or the process or mentioned is part of the, the unseen
and unseen. This is something that Kharbanda we don't, we don't see. All that is required from us is to, is to believe
that's the stance of the believers, to believe in whatever the prophets Allah, Allah who serve us and he said that will happen in the future. And to believe in the meaning also in the way the prophets, Allah having Surma said it, and to take literally also,
and to take literally,
literally in the way the Arabic language suggest, no modification. Note that we know anything.
Because the prophets Allah, someone wants you to know that we
it will guide us to porn that way.
And the components of the privacy law, somebody elected in the way it came to them. That means they understood what the privacy laws Omar said because they were the Arabs. And the best amongst the Arabs, we are talking about the language they speak the language much more better than us.
So taking those
information given to us by the profit and loss out of their context can put us into trouble. As I said, many of these things mentioned by the profit and loss are going to be rejected because we divert the original meaning to something that we see fit.
So that's why I said this very important information for all of for all of us. So on the Day of Judgment, whatever is going to happen, this is beyond our comprehension until you go and see and you have to understand that it is totally different from our from our life. So you want to be closer to Rasul Allah. He said, Allah Allah, you set them on the Day of Judgment. The Prophet said, Allahu Allah, you said I said Ali kabhi has to
be appointed the best man is Allah subhanaw taala will take your clothes to Rasul Allah,
and the worst, and the hated one. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the farthest one from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are third
in Arabic Priscilla
isn't the one who talks too much?
No, although literally what we call a sell, sell somebody who talked to
but he'll the promise that somebody's not talking about this, because you might find some somebody by nature, he talks too much, that he is good. And whatever he says is correct. You know, all the although you find it useless, but he, he doesn't he doesn't lie. You know, he doesn't say something which is saying you know, you cannot say that this is taken away from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
Somebody gave a lecture from morning till evening.
So he's talking about those people who are engaging in unnecessary things, which is useless and they intent. They increase them a lot.
A thorough this whole idea to kill them to kill
something that he doesn't need. He forced himself to just talk randomly just like that.
And I guess you can ask also in our life, people don't like these type of people.
Naturally, you don't want to sit with somebody who's like that.
The prophets Allah, Allah sama said, Tyrone, well Moto, shed your code, and mutation decode.
These are the people who are showing arrogance, but through the words from their words you can receive that this person is trying to expose himself I'll tell people that he's somebody
called whatever you call human with a camera. These are two words that
I mean synonymous to each other, after Al, Morticia, decode and modify your code. These are multicam the rule either by action, or by the statement.
Profits are like the same asset these are the five best people for me on the day of judgment and the most hated ones. No to me, I felt sorrow or limitation decode on with a vehicle. A limitation is the one who speaks in a way people can can sense that this person is trying to expose himself and put yourself on top of everyone flow through these words
will motivate you won't be able to cut the road somebody that frog is action you know that this person is good
as Mr. Cooper in all of its forms, is rejected by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so this is the last Hadith
last Hadith for what do you call for today? And I guess it will also be it might be the last Hadith until the beginning of the semester, I'm talking about the face to face class. The online class will be continuously than
that face to face. Maybe this one might be the last until the beginning of the of the semester. Insha Allah, Allah Subhana Allah Morbihan the Kushala learn to relate salam Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh