Riyadh Us Saliheen – 14-02-2023

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Well salatu salam

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Tinian Alameen anybody you know have you been hammered into the Allahu Allahu Allah ad he or something he was telling about earlier on Fela setting Mashallah. MashAllah Raja Alfa Romeo

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Aruba tomorrow and more effectively Aruba, Tasha and Sherry worry and Sharon waltzing with us and if he had extended Mobarak that he answered here so the last one or Dalit radical female a few minutes at level one extra learners last week for a lucky word fidelity to goofy really. So today inshallah we try to

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complete the commentary of the hadith of a blind banana.

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When he said, When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the suffering that is a lemon Zylon from in

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Cuba who

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are minimal who aphasia is not that Monetti or Sula, he said Allahu alayhi wa sallam Kosala kajaria Question Ana Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi Allahu Salam

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probably Illa can happen on a matter who

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were younger whom Shanaya and Gula were in no matter commodity during the past year to have

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a wedding was saying you see here I have more than 20 Runa what a GMO food snack in Europe Keiko What did you fit in on Europe people mahabhava because you will fit in Fairport new heavy him of lickety format and Kashi What did you will fit natural fair coral movement Harvey

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Harvey Harvey column Elisa Allahu alayhi wa sallam from an amber news as you are you the color Jana felt to him and ear to Who are you mean it will actually I will ask it will Yeti the nurse emotion been huge in the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam after he talks about the Phaeton that will affect the lungs, part of this ummah, Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, the last generation Muhammad salallahu Alaihe Salam. And last time we talked about the Phaeton

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and when did they begin?

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And the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam after that he told us how to I mean, escape and pass the test. During these meetings. He says from an

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end user has a hand in nearly what you where you decide

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to give money to WHO ARE YOU community led.

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Wherever I want to see Allah subhanaw taala taken him away from health and also putting him in paradise.

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Away from help and putting in paradise. Filthy Jiminy to who you need to be like.

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A person should make sure that it does not reach

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in except on ima.

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As Allah subhanaw taala says we'll have to move on to Muslim who don't you ever accept to live this life except in the state of EMA? So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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faced karma

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after a person has the Eman believes in Allah subhanho wa taala. He put the EMA into practice of action. And he maintained this attitude and manner until he reaches Allah subhanaw taala This is a meeting of the human ear to many hymnbooks Manaea is just the Promise of Allah and Islam I said make sure that you reach death in email, your email is with you when does when does approach you.

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Well, who you mean will actually have enough as a believer

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as a believer in the last 100 words will you meet and the hereafter

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make sure that you reach them in this situation. So if you want to pass the test of this life, observe the IMA leaving a lot smarter than the hereafter believing in the hereafter will help you to regulate your life.

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To always be standing upright and to always be prepared. Because the one who doesn't agree with the day of judgment he will see him being the most negligent person because he doesn't care he knows that according to him there will be no accounting accountability in the future.

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This is very natural, you know you waste it due to the to a straw. You miss manage things because you know there will be no accountability after that.

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But if you know that there's going to be accountability. A person is going to think a lot. Think wisely

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in some places where that company

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It is very, very, very heavy. You see the people who are placed in an office, they really take care of it properly.

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And they are very sensitive when it comes to the wealth management because they know sooner or later somebody is going to hold them responsible and accountable of every single cent that was missing under the leadership.

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So, the belief in the hereafter is really necessary for the regulation of life. Without email in the era, life cannot be converted on Earth. Many people many people stay away from right wrongdoing, simply because they know Allah subhanaw taala is going to bring them back after death.

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You know, death is not the end of life. There is another life after this. And that is the real one of us wanting to say so in the last year telehealth Hye won

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Subhanallah that was the time that you will see the real reckoning that's why they mentioned Allah subhanaw taala to be the real one who just decide if you're going to see the hisab correctly. As far as record is concerned, the most accurate one is that of Allah subhanaw taala

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that's why the criminals on the Day of Judgment, they will say Monday haven't catabolism without the use of electron wallet can be altered.

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You know, they see in the book, which the angel angels presented to Allah subhanaw taala on their behalf, they will check inside and find every single thing which they did in this dunya things they forgot will be them.

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Things they forgot will be there and they will see them and they will remember them.

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They will remember them. Mommy it's been cited Mahara management Hill. So Intuit Dillo underbite how available Amazon, Amazon guide. So whatever a person did Allah's merger is going to hold him responsible. So that's the benefit and the significance of believing in the hereafter because you will always remember that whatever I'm doing now, I'm going to have first aid in the future. Yeah, whatever you plant now because now we are just engaged in planting dunya just like Missouri is the second like you're

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just planting things.

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Maybe somebody can remind

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that person to lower his voice

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the EMA in the in the era

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brings this opportunity to life and regulates the life anyplace that people believe in Africa you will see life being the best in that place. Everyone is trying to do that which he is supposed to be doing.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said filthy human ear to Who are you going to be liable to mill asset while you're in nursing? My neuter Elaine was less likely so my sinful chatty human yet who are you going to be a little bit awkward while you're at Elan nursing my hippo on YouTube?

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This is similar to the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam that says a tequila hating or quit what we say yet it has no title. Or Harlequin Nasr. The following has

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the professor last summer told us in this hadith that what you're doing in this life is all about Ma Ma Ma Ma Ma Ma

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Ma Ma Ma Ma Neff sic LM Muhammad Ali.

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You are dealing with Allah subhanho wa Taala or you're dealing with yourself or you're dealing with others.

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So Rahman, Allah azza wa jal is based on Taqwa of Allah azza wa jal, I fell chat to him and ear to Who are you mean Billa he will.

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Let him reach the many deaths as a believer in Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter.

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Thus, Muhammad, Allah has to have the Taqwa of Allah subhanho wa taala. This is the manifestation and the translation of the Iman which is in customer means. Nothing other than practicing the Sharia of Allah subhanho wa

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Taala means practicing the Sharia of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and to Jetavana, Medina Kobina Allah Vela, who we try to take, I mean to keep coming I mean, surely they put something between you and the punishment of Allah subhanaw taala that will protect you from the evil of that punishment. And what is that thing? The practice of the religion of Allah subhanaw taala based on the Quran and the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Surah Surah Allah is that Allah Allah Azza wa said, Fear Allah subhanaw taala wherever you are, and this is the essence of the Quran Mala Mala has been dealing with

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Last week and then he says what the Seattle has Senator tempo ha and follow the evil deed with the righteous deeds.

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Always follow the evil deed with the with the righteous one, this is Mamilla moment, my next

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because when you do something wrong, you're harming yourself because then Allah subhanaw taala punish on the Day of Judgment he's going to punish the body. So you are not treating yourself well when you are going against the laws of Allah subhanaw taala because there will be heavy punishment on the Day of Judgment

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against Allah subhanaw taala you come back to Allah subhanaw taala in repentance and increase in the righteous deeds you are doing,

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you repent to Allah azza wa jal really increase the righteous do because Allah subhanaw taala says working solid out of heavy was delivered mid to late in elhassan at the Hibbeler C at Valley curricularly victory. And also last mortises established the prayer you know, in a day and night to pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala

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to two sides of the

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night and the day and also some parts of the night pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala to bring the day and pray in the night. Allah says in Al Hassan that you've given us a yet because the righteous deed naturally a meant to act as removers of the evil ones. The more righteous deed you have, the lesser evil you're going to have in your account. When you obey Allah subhanaw taala smarter will make those obedience that you have as kuffaar for the sins you are doing as the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu SIRVA says if you make although all the sins you committed with your hand will be removed by Allah subhanaw taala from those who commit with your mouth when you rinse your mouth will be

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taken away those which you commit with your eyes will be taken away. So these righteous deeds they are acting as Kuffar to remove the saints you are you are committed

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to the promise a lot of cinema in this hadith indirectly is guiding you towards how to perfect the Guatemala between you and yourself. Wherever you go against Allah subhanaw taala repent to Allah subhanaw taala and increase the righteous need to avoid harming yourself in the future when you meet Allah subhanho wa Taala and then he says we're Harlequin Nassif echolocate Hasson, so we can take this while Malema lives in the Saint of the province Allah sama William will ask you because when you remember accountability, you're going to be standing upright, you're going to be doing the correct thing because you know Allah subhanaw taala if nobody sees you, but alas, Mahajan, I saw you

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when you're doing the thing,

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and Subhanallah This is very, very, very important in our life, to have these kinds of consciousness. You will learn you need it to survive. You're have a good relationship with Allah subhanaw taala you need this kind of consciousness. This is what we call Morocco, Morocco which Allah has to be mindful of Allah subhanaw taala throughout your life, what does that mean? You don't do things without studying

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them to know what Ullswater want exactly to see you're doing in relation to those things which are intending to do Islamically This is how a Muslim surely

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the scholar said it is not harder for a person to do something as a Muslim it's not hard for you to do anything in this life without knowing what Allah smart Allah wants you to do concerning that particular thing.

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Nowadays, we are not like this, we just get involved in it. And then later on our heart is not willing to accept it because it's wrong. But we just went and did it you know, especially when it comes to the business Yeah, we just engaged in the business as long as somebody told you it is a very profitable business we don't care about what Allah subhanaw taala says The point is, I can get profit from

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the later on you know heart you know, is equipped with this kind of natural disposition which is very changed heart whenever you approach something that lasts for Jota doesn't like as a Muslim you might, you know, you find lack of satisfactory in your heart.

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That's why you see them, they don't relax at the end of the lady have to come back to the same person which they're trying to avoid and ask him about.

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They were supposed to come before Yeah, because it is much easier for them to.

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We have to understand this as a Muslim. You must make sure that before you do everything of this life, you will know what Allah

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As PowerShell wants you to do it

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this is how a Muslim should be living his life.

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And whenever I talk about this matter, I remember a statement which is attributed to the father of Imam Al Bukhari.

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You know, Iran Buhari told his his son, he said, Son, Muhammad, that was why he told me Muhammad.

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I'm going to leave behind me, you know, for you, Al, Al,

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la Alamo, dear Harmon, fish of the sea, I'm going to leave behind me for you as inheritance, you know, alpha alpha

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1000 alpha alpha. 1 million.

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You know, that's huge amount of money.

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1 million has become, he says la isla Muhammad Vinny shuba. Is it I don't know a single dental hub out of that million, which has a doubted

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any who can claim this?

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It says that has dealt he says I didn't know any of these derive that are going to live for you. As your inheritance. He says either a single death hump that has dealt in it. That means to his belief, every single day or hump is 100% Halon. Handle percent.

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Even Shuhei doesn't help me. How did he manage to reach this status is very simple. Either he knows what I lost more to let say he's concerned with what he was doing to generate that money. Or he doesn't he doesn't know. So what is what does he do? He called the scholars explained to them in detail without cheating. Because nowadays, when we go to explain to the

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the chef, you know, which

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many times which how do we cheat? Because I don't give him the details completely.

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Yeah, that's how when he gives the answer, then I will start to tell him no, maybe you don't understand and then I added some ingredients, you know?

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No, you have to give him in detail with tafsir moment.

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You have to tell them every single thing that exists in that business which you are trying to do, so that he will understand the concept in order to provide you with the correct

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color set. And her camera she Faro and the summary

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for you to be able to make a judgment on some

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case is always dependent on your understanding to the concept. There is no way for you to give a correct judgment if you don't even understand.

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So for me to give a correct judgment on something I have to understand it first. If I don't get it, then my judgment is going to be wrong.

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And Hekmati che furrowed unto salary. So I have to get the information in detail, then my judgment, my comment on it is going to be accurate. But if I get a deficient, logical explanation, the judgment also is going to be deficient. That's why sometimes a person will come to you and ask you about something and you tell them, yes. Okay.

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And then he goes and start practicing another person who saw him doing, you see No, this one? Are you sure you ask him about this? Yes, I asked chef Karima. Actually, Chef Kareem says is okay.

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But then when that person took the concept, and he brought it to the same chef, and he told him Chef, what do you think about this? Fisher who read it and tell them no, this is how

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you know by nature but swamps also person said he asked you and you told him this is okay. Tell him? No, he never told me what you said.

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Yeah, that's all we have to fear Allah subhanaw taala and understand that the issue is not about the chef telling you. Yes, just go ahead. The issue is you do in what is correct?

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How to get the correct, you know, ruling from Allah subhanho wa Taala so that you can practice what I lost my heart.

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But unfortunately, nowadays, when we go to this callers, we ask them, you know, we are inclining towards Yes. We just want them to say yes. So that's what we try to minimize the information, you know, give them a bit of it. And we put it in the way we believe most likely the answer is going to be to be yes. This is against the terroir of Allah subhanho wa taala. So as a Muslim you must have this maraca what Allah what is

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doesn't mean it means you should always understand that always, always, always, every single second, Allah subhanaw taala is watching you and you cannot get away from that watch.

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Trust me, my dear brothers, sisters, if this is your life, you will really enjoy a very good life which is full of trying to stay away from things which are not appropriate Islam.

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Especially when you have a bit of knowledge that tells you who Allah, Allah is. So that you will not be scared all the time, you will not be shivering all the time. Allah doesn't want you to do that. But Allah wants you to maintain the balance, remember His mercy, and remember his punishment. And remember that he is Elbasy which means he is always watching.

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Always watching and he sees that which you can see. And he is the only one, the only one. You know, the one and only one that you cannot hide.

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If he I mean from him. He's the only one. Anyone on Earth, Jean Angelus, whoever, you know, the only one that you can hide is the last month.

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So if you have this, in your mind, that Allah sponsor is watching me, and he wants me to be doing this and that. And yeah, in this life, he might not, you know, send any punishment, he might not punish me, but that is heavy accountability that will be taking place in the Hereafter. And I'm one of those people who believe in the hereafter. And as such, I'm going to be standing upright, doing only that which alas, Martin is pleased with, and he's happy with. So that's the baraka of Allah. We cannot live my dear brothers and sisters without the Morocco of Allah. And then the last part of the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asset.

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He says, Well, yeah, Tila nurse you might have been you totally were Harlequin Nasser before Okay, so that's what I was referring to. And also behave towards others with good manners towards others with good marks the prophets Allah also made this hadith he says will yet in a Nassima have been huge. And he should also do to the people, you know, treat people in the way he wants them to treat him.

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But this one is not not a lot,

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you know, unrestricted in a way just

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do anything as long as you like it, then you can just do it to others. No, it is not like that.

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Rasulillah somebody's talking about higher because the vast majority of people they want good. They don't want anyone to approach them with higher

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than in this life. There are some people who don't mind even if you approach them with Sham, it's okay. It's fine. So they say millionaires many Hibben youth Cara Willow Billa Annette.

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Yeah, there are some people who who wants to be mentioned even with curses, they don't mind.

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Even with curses, the point is to be famous even with curses is okay.

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No rasool Allah Azza wa setelah you mean how do you come help tell him how

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Yeah, so that's

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to get to that o'clock with the promise a lot. So Mozilla you had tell him earlier he might have deleted See, you will not be a true believer in Allah subhanho wa Taala

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until the time you love for your brother, that which you love for yourself.

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So the problem is a lot of cinema said In another Hadith means

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of good. Yeah, avoid having some people who want evil to themselves. You shouldn't want to try this restricted to yourself and the people that aren't good. When you treat people, you treat them with what is known to be good Islamically what is known to be good Islamically or to be good according to the culture which is not contradictory to Islam. But you cannot say that like

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you want the shadow and the promise Allah sama said, I have to love for people what I love for myself No, as long as it is shared. This is only between you and yourself. You also you shouldn't like chakra approach.

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And as such, you are supposed to look for sure, towards the other. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He says, Well, yeah, Tina Ness may have been you tiny. If you treat people in the way you want them to, to treat you. And that is life is is it's all about sunnah. Lila has, you know, Hala, it has system that

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Allah has water waterbased to live off

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in a way, come out to dinner to that, you know, the same way you treat people, you're going to be treated in that way.

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Yeah, he treats people in.

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In a way, you are going to be receiving the same thing. So that's very much you have good people because it talks against people care about talking

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about labor Roger said in his book gender no longer hiccup, it says we saw people who say I remember people who they never talk against anyone.

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And as such there was nobody who was talking about at the time they just started talking these people then we also realize that everyone's talking about

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has been in Nashville. It keep quiet, hold your tongue

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but then we're going to talk about it while because you're very kind, you also Mind your business even talk about this

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more, shall we say is for cool Luca. So

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while in Nancy, l Sue, you know, it says

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if you see it in

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Yeah, now when I look here, I see only one it can focus on only one person.

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The rest I can see images of people standing next to me. But how many eyes are watching? A lot?

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So how many deficiency if I'm looking at the deficiency of people who are having a deficiency of event am I going to be able to see little?

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If others are going to look for my deficiency? How many deficiencies are they going to be witnessing a lot because everyone has to eyes is going to be focusing on me how many eyes will be focusing on you?

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So Imam Shafi says if you want to be protected and your honor is protected, he says fella in the coming can Lizanne will be so Atem for call Luca so it could look so awesome willingness.

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He says if you want to live as a successful person, nobody's talking against you and nobody's talking about you. It says don't talk about the deficiencies of others, because you are all about deficiencies. While in SEL so you have only one tank and you have 1 million surrounding you. They have tons you know,

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if each and every one of them is going to be talking about you Wallahi that will be real for the embarrassment. So the best is to take the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam disregard when he says

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my kind of humanity to rely heavily on your physical hierarchy of this world. If you believe in Allah subhanaw taala in the Hereafter, you should always say good or keep quiet, very simple principle which Subhanallah we refuse to take. When we sit down we chat or we talk against others which is not going to bring any benefit to your life. It just enjoy him and the same way you are exposing his secrets. While Lima diversity says Allah promised to expose yours the promise a lot of sama Cydia for the whole Hola. Well, okay if you're calibrating Allah is going to embarrass you Allah subhanaw taala is going to expose you in the eyes of others. Even if you are in the middle of

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your house, hide it. Allah Subhana Allah is going to expose you

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may Allah smart Allah grant is good and to feed and be with us wherever we are in sha Allah, we will complete it in the next class.

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A lot more behind the Kushala learned it's difficult to relate a salary

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or category

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Okay, there is

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a question that says do man

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Yeah, men need to wait for their parents permission before seeking marriage.

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a person can marry even if his father doesn't approve the marriage, a brother,

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a sister cannot marry except with the approval of the Guardian only.

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But this is

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what she says as far as right is concerned.

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But is it advisable for somebody to skip his parent and go and marry without their permission? This is absolutely against the spirit of

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absolutely against the selection, right. And being kind to the parent, not appreciating what they did before. The only time when a person can do that, and must do that is when he knows that either he married or he will go and commit sin. You know, you're going to commit and commit Zina. In this case, he's not supposed to listen to the parents he has to go and marry to protect himself and the community from from Xena. Rather than go into community and get into trouble with Allah subhanaw taala none of the parents will save him in the eyes of Allah. In this case, you can go but these are rare cases. You know, these are rare cases.

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These are rare cases. As for the sister who reached this situation and the parents are refusing she should move to the next wedding. If that next colleague also is refusing to Father refuse, the uncles grandparents or

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her brothers siblings in all of them are refused. Then in this case, she moves to the one

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the leader, a king,

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Minister, Prime Minister, President, or anyone who is appointed by them to be in charge of those matters. The province a lot of summers have been scheduled for Sultan will unilaterally, you know,

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there is conflict, and they don't want to agree. And that is no problem with the person who she the one that she introduced to the family, memory wise, he's okay religious wise, he's okay. He has no problem at all. They're just refusing because of the culture or because of something you know, with them, which is not related to any of those conditions laid down by the Sharia.

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So as long as the man is okay, Islamically he is okay. And also a man is okay. The the leader, you know, the king or any of those that I have mentioned, can arrange the marriage and that system is not, is not disobeying the parent. The parents have to repent to Allah subhanaw taala because they're not supposed to reject that as the Prophet sallallahu sallam said that documentary Allah Deen, who Holika hope as a widow, letter falou to complete that review Abdul Hassan Kenya

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If you have somebody who's managed, okay, religion is okay. Problems Allah someone said when he comes to you looking for the hand of your daughter is it give him as long as she agrees. She wants it the promise Allah sama said, Just give what else fitna is going to happen. And so that is exactly what is happening, how many times you hear about a girl running away from the family, what she's doing is wrong. Or who put her into that situation, the parent,

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the parent would do benefit from if you let your daughter go and do the wrong thing. He your daughter been pregnant without marriage, or she goes and skip anyone is sometimes it's just gotten to find any other person to arrange the marriage.

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I know a case where the girl married, you know, And subhanAllah because of this strong rigidity by the parent, she ran away. She married to a person the parent did not know. I'm sorry, she cannot run away. She lives with the parents. But she has a husband, which the parent doesn't know about. That marriage is baffled because the prophets Allah sama said any, any girl that married without the permission of the Willie fennica, who have bought in bulk and bought it three times he found out that marriage is gone.

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And just telling you what is the consequence? You know, we have heard a lot of people who are married without informing the parent and they have children, and none of the family members knows about it.

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Question, what do we benefit from this? Paula Hina, that kind of rigidity will never benefit. And people should understand that we're living in different time. It's not like the old time where you come back home after disappearing from the parent for a long time. You know, you went for education, you come back from your university, wherever you go, you go home, and then your parent will tell you just get into the house and see salaam to somebody it gets inside the room, you see a woman smiling to you and your wife? And then you say, okay, a bit. Yeah, he used to be like that. They marry them, and they just accept life is very simple in those days in our time, no.

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Your five year old challenge you sometimes in the past, we don't know this, whatever the parent says, Yes. This is not the time to marry. Yes. But now No, we need to understand the kind of time we were living.

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That is always a better way to bring people back to the correct way. Don't force your child to marry somebody who they don't want and do not reject somebody who they want to go with as long as that person is. Okay. Just because you don't like him. It doesn't look nice. And in some places of Hala. So silly. Wala is so silly the way people think. The girl that the person filling need to marry, I mean, wants to marry his mother need to agree that this girl is beautiful. How is she the one who will be staying with that with his father need to agree to agree and understand his father and his mother understand, right.

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But his siblings also has to agree. In some places, she has to show herself to the family members, they have to prove that she's okay.

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What are we doing? And we have heard a lot of people run away during the marriage without informing the parent. Why because of this. So my question is, what do we benefit from? We're living in different time, we have to understand that we have to understand that rigidity will not take us anywhere as long as this rigidity is not part of what the prophets are brought to us as actually of Allah subhanaw taala. So my advice to anyone who wants to marry, please try convince your parents. Don't you ever marry without informing that this is wrong. And you might pay the consequences in the future. Most of these people who went and skipped them and marry will likely face a lot of

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difficulties in life.

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Yeah, so try your best. And be patient, be patient. Sometimes it's just a matter of patience, one year to use, extended, keep on begging them. Resist in a nice way, don't fight but resist in a nice way. They are going to agree at the end of the day, even wider than is good for you to have a marriage which the parents are happy with it to come with your wife to them. They want to see how you also want to bring her and she is comfortable with them. They are comfortable with her. So this is my advice, especially with the sisters, you know, both and given advice to both but especially with the sisters. Do not go and skip your parent. Be patient if they don't want. Look for another

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person. They don't like this one. Look for another one.

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See how many men we have on Earth.

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Billions of them. This is not the last one on Earth. If your parent doesn't like him, they don't like him gently bring another one. Yeah, keep going like this until the time they accept somebody who are you like it is not good. Just keep the parent and marry without their permission. As I said unless if a person knows that if he doesn't marry He will definitely come in sooner. In this case, it has to go with the lesser of two

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to evoke, actually he has to marry, he must skip the permission and go and marry if he's a brother he can just marry. If she is the sister she can go to the salon. The Salon can arrange the marriage and the marriage is is valid and legal. And she's not disobeying the parent, according to what the scholars have told us, that loss of a hotel or grant is good and Tofik

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