Riyad Us Saliheen – Hadith 712

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To live Muhammad

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Ali Oh, why didn't I shoulda mentioned the Jumada an older, alpha herbal medicine come setting our own and more ethically Hamsa Mishary December. I'll find you salivating mushroom while cylinders Devasena if you haven't tabula Mobarak are the eldest son hen. So Allah subhanho wa Taala and Newberry convener of humanitaire level. One year Karolina as the lead word for a little while if you were father legito He really

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so inshallah today we will continue from where we stopped last does and if I'm not mistaken last class we talk about the ayat mentioned by Iran we'll never we and the chapter of a crumble above

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honoring the guest so today Insha Allah we move on to the first Hadith which is the hadith of Abu Huraira and then the BSL Allahu alayhi wa sallam Parliament can you mean Avila he will Yeoman

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fairly according

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Bible or mancha Anna you mean Allah he will your mill.

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Foley acelera Rahima for mankind you mean Billa who will Yomi

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failure cool Hiren le as

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soon Eliza Allahu alayhi wa sallam I said,

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Whoever believes in Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter

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fell you couldn't buy

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or sell as a large sum. I said, Whoever believes in Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter, one of the sign, signs of that belief is to have this person respecting and honoring his guests

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during every thing possible to make sure that the guest is feeling comfortable.

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This is part of the Iman in Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter.

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In other words, they arise that Allah Subhana Allah grant the guest when they visit somebody, the host has to grant them that right.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi sama reminded him that this right,

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he is going to be accountable when he meets Allah subhanaw taala. And on to the judgment, if he doesn't give

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it a second Hadith Insha Allah, we will see the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam explaining to us those rights, what they are.

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It says if you believe in Allah and the hereafter, you should respect and honor your guest

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or mankind or you believe he will your failure Cinerama. And whoever believes in Allah and the hereafter, he should make sure that he observed this letter, right.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam talk about this

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matter of symmetry, right? Because it's one of the essences that brings the unity amongst the family first and foremost, which will be extended to the community.

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And you know that strength and power will be taken away if unity is gone.

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So Allah subhanaw taala made it widely been obligated upon everyone to make sure that he observes the skeleton right. Senator remains, being kind to the relatives, whoever happened to share blood relationship with you. He deserved your kindness. He deserves your support.

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Visit him you support him you care about him. IT support him financially and emotionally whenever he needs you.

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As soon as I said Allahu Allahu Silva said, when Allah Subhana Allah created

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stopped in that position next to the adage of Allah subhanaw taala and hold the ash. Allah subhanaw taala said Malik was soon with you. It says yeah, Allah had makan will be camino. Katya

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says yeah Allah this position of mine. This is the position of somebody who is seeking your help and your support

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and your protection from the patina to write.

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In some directions the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

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the Rahim ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to cut off any relationship between him and anyone who is cutting off the ties.

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Allah subhanaw taala gave the rock in this promise that whoever cut off the ties Allah smarter will cut off the relationship with

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Salaam Alaikum

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So, Allah subhanaw taala promised

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the RAM that he will grant

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it this.

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So a person who wants to succeed he must make sure that he observed the selected Rahim properly. So to Muhammad Allah subhanaw taala says For Allah sh Interledger and TFC to fill out the water pot through our hammock

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there it can lead in Allah Allah whom Allah subhanho wa Taala of surah.

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Allah subhanaw taala addressed the believers.

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It says what do you think your situation will be with Allah subhanaw taala if you were to turn away from the reminders from Allah subhanho wa Taala

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interpolate them and to see to fill out and you end up doing facade on earth. What to put through our hammock and you cut up the ties between you and others.

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Allah said hola Aiken Levine Allah, Allah whom Allah these are the ones that Allah subhanaw taala curse,

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for are some of whom were of surah Allah smarta makes them deaf and blind. Their eyes

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I set min Arada whoever wants Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant him extension and expansion in the risk

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and also to extend and to expand his age manarat and usarla houfy

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theory while you observe Allahu theorists day, whoever wants Allah subhanaw taala to grant him expansion in the risk and the age failure Scylla Rahima it should make sure that he observed the skeleton right. So it's a very good means of securing Baraka in your life. Because this increase in the age could happen physically and also spiritually.

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By having the cabin plays in, in your life, what you're supposed to spend years doing it, Allah subhanaw taala can grant you ability to finish it within a few days or a few months.

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That's Baraka things that you have to struggle for you to achieve them. You need more time that Allah subhanaw taala will bless you with Baraka in your time, you will be able to make achievement in whatever you will do it in a very short period of time.

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That's much greater than giving you long periods of time which is going without any benefits.

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So the scholar said this could happen physically and also spiritually.

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And also Allah subhanaw taala will extend your risk.

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The prophets Allah Azza wa said, if you do the selection, Rahim, Allah subhanaw taala will grant you extension in the risk.

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So it's one of the best and noblest acts of worship that Allah subhanaw taala loves, which unfortunately, nowadays, it has been replaced with what devices

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and only a few of us also have time to call their relatives and say salaam to them, but too much occupied by unnecessary things. In the past, you can see an old man, you know, penetrating the difficulties of the forest, going all the way to another city just to visit somebody who is part of their relatives. And if the relationship is even too far, they come Subhanallah it will go he's a farmer, you get some chicken, you know, living one and some of the produce in the fall, something very simple and come to the city and visit one of his Aqua River and pass it to the

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Subhan Allah they were together in the past. And nowadays, everyone is on his own. That support is God. Neff, cnmc. Allah, this is the life of others that we adopt into ourselves, which doesn't fit us.

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Yeah, the Western Community there used to this, everyone is on his own. Right, everyone is on his own. This doesn't fit us. Unity is supposed to be there in all circumstances and he start from the family. Family should be united and if there is no selected regime, which has been properly observed in the community, trust me, the unity in the family is going to take place

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by their processes. Let's try our best to change this wrong way of living that we are dealing with nowadays. Your device, your media, your work shouldn't deprive you from doing the silicon right.

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Some people they take a long time

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Before they visit their parent, and that's absolutely wrong. impermissible Islamically as long as they can afford to go in, they have to go from time to time and sit with them. They have to go from time to time and meet those relatives of them to make sure that the connection between the families is is Monte Carlo mankind human Avila he will human failure failure Kareem

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blame for mankind a human will lie he will human African failure Scylla Hina for mankind you mean delay who will human failure call Hiren out as much the professor along sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, and whoever believes in Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter, he should always say good, or keeps quiet.

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And he will Allah this is the best advice every Muslim should adorn himself with, especially in our time. Many people talk in their own ways, a speech that brings nothing to them in this dunya except

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it brings nothing to them in this dunya except tragedy. And when they meet Allah subhanaw taala that will be the worst.

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backbiting, slandering, you know, talking against others criticism, you know, life turns into this.

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We live in a life. If you write a book, in some countries, when you write a book, if this book is not about criticism against others, the publishers might not have interest in publishing it.

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You know, some wrote a book and it says very long time with the publisher and at the end of the day, they told him the reason why you couldn't get it because we are hesitating to publish.

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Because we are anticipating that nobody will buy.

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But if you are refuting somebody, we will do it right now because people will buy what kind of life is this? You know,

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You Allah, this is the example of the Amma Bahama sallallahu alayhi salam are nowadays especially with the younger ones.

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So be very careful. Whatever you say about your Muslim brother, or your Muslim sister, it is written either for you or against you. So make sure that what you're saying is is correct and is good. And you do have a right Islamically to say it, because sometimes they are correct things you are saying. But Islam does not give you permission to say when your brother's doing something wrong and nobody knows except you. If you talk about what he is doing, you are saying the truth that he is to it. But in Islam, what do we call this backbiting?

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have to pay the price on the day of judgment and the price is going to be your reward being taken and given to him by Allah subhanho wa Taala think deeply Are you ready for this in the Day of Judgment, everyone is looking for a single reward to complete his account so that he can make it to Paradise, you know, that on the Day of Judgment, there was a person that profits a lot of some asset,

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Allah subhanaw taala told him

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what do you have you know, and then whatever he has has been presented.

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Except and everything is perfect, except one place for one reward that is supposed to be to be fulfilled.

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That reward is missing only one reward.

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And the problem is a lot of server said Allah tells you,

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you have to fix this one. Then forget we are in the Day of Judgment, right? Allah told him you have to fix this one.

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How can he fix it? One one, we would only left one.

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Allah told him you have to fix it.

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So he went there inside, he will meet another person who is the opposite.

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That one has only one good deed there is an old sense.

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It meets him he tells him Why so sad. So he informed him about what Allah subhanaw taala told him. So the mindset you have only one good deed left.

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And Allah sponsor says you have to fix it. Is it how about me? I have everything is messy, except one good deed. If your case is not forgiving then my case for sure. I already know my place. He told himself there is no way for me to benefit from this

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good deed.

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He's using the theists with this man. He said rather than me just going to hell and then losing the good deed nobody's benefiting from it. He said you take it. That's the only person that I heard. You know from the Sunnah that is making a gift on the day of judgment and even

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This one he is given it because he believes that there is no way for him, for him to benefit from it. That's why he gave it otherwise nobody will give you a single thing on the Day of Judgment.

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So he told him, you take it, go and benefit from it.

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So the man took the good deed, and he went to Allah subhanho to Allah. Allah asked him what happened?

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And Allah subhanaw taala knows what exactly happened. Allah told him what happened. And then he informed Allah subhanaw taala about what happened. Allah knows what exactly.

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Then Allah subhanaw taala told him, explain. He says, I met this person, and this is what happened between me and him. He realized that he cannot benefit with his good deeds. And as such, he just gave it to

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Allah subhanaw taala said, no way. Allah Allah has his own way he wants to show mercy upon the other words, Allah subhanaw taala says no way that my slave will be better than me, will be more merciful than me. Allah subhanaw taala said, no way that my slave will be more merciful than me. Go and bring that guy both of you go to paradise.

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So this is the day of judgment, you have to always look at the first person

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who has only one place to fix. And Allah's muhurta told him you have to fix it.

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So imagine on the Day of Judgment, all of those people who you backbiting in this dunya you know, and sometimes I was we were backbiting scholars,

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you need your hotspot.

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Sometimes we were quite scholars,

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you alone, sometimes we talk against the scholars, And subhanAllah like what happened with me and said, you know, some of these people that were backbiting and we talk against them, thinking that they are doing something wrong. And in reality, actually, we're the ones who are doing something wrong.

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You Allah, in many instances where you we criticize some of the scholars, if you go back and think wisely, not blindly following others, you know, if you don't blindly follow others, trust me, in many instances, you find out that actually you're wrong. People, right.

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We sit down, we talk against them, our life has been reduced

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to nothing other than gossiping and backbiting.

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And the most dangerous type of Backbiting is to talk about as color.

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In that color fears Allah subhanaw taala trust me, my dear brothers, sisters, this will be the most

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the worst tragedy, you know, a person is invited for himself. Because those ones are the only of Allah and Allah subhanaw taala says my Nardelli will end and to who will help whoever hates my family? I advise him I'm inviting him to get ready for a war between me.

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How can you fake Allah subhanaw taala if you fight the will of Allah subhanaw taala is similar to waging war against Allah subhanaw taala. And you know, what does that mean? When you when you wage war against Allah, only one side, can we therefore it is my personal advice to every one of us. But Allah who close your mouth,

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always be silent. Don't show ever join those people who have nothing in this dunya except criticize and this criticism that? Yes, we're supposed to be careful in our life. We're supposed to make sure that the one we take advice from the other righteous people, but at the same time, be very careful. Don't make your life all about criticizing this criticizing that. And also we do it blindly. Just because my chef told me that this person is this and that without making any verification, I just take it and start promoting it and telling everyone that this this and that. No, Allah you are responsible, you have to explain to Allah subhanho wa taala. Why did he say that about that person

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that you're talking about?

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And subhanAllah when do we have time for this? And trust me, this is my personal advice to all of you.

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Whoever is involved in this thing,

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they will never learn. My experience in this dunya had led me to believe because of what I have been seeing that those people who have nothing to do in their life except criticizing others. They never grow.

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Knowledge wise, they never grow. They're always in the same place because they don't have time to go and study. And why don't they have time because they don't respect anyone except those specific scholars. They accept only one or two hours a biller. How is it possible that the truth is restricted to one person

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continue thinking oh, with your own common sense, the truth is only restricted in one person.

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And so Hala as a scholar set, you start to know that sometimes you are taking the wrong information from somebody when you visit other scholars. So it's important for you have other scholars also that you go, who are righteous, and they have the knowledge and the debate. But the B means they have the attitude, they have the tarbiyah. These are the scholars that you're supposed to stick to.

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When you have 12345, then you will be able to differentiate between right and wrong. That color might be giving you something which is wrong, when you visit another share. When he explained the issue, then he will start to think Oh, but I got different explanation yesterday, as a student of knowledge, you'll begin to you will begin to do research, you will be able to come up with the best position to be used as a stand on that on that matter. But if you restrict the truth to only one person or two people, one day die. What do you do?

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Allah, Allah a place where people, many younger ones are like that. And the chef just died. So he was killed by those criminals, just like that. So hello, people got stuck. They were in a state of chaos. No unity amongst them. And nobody is I was told by some people that nobody respects anymore.

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Why? Because he forgot last month to show mercy upon him. He forgot to put them upon the tarbiyah. And he forgot to create and produce people who can replace him after he goes

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in the way they they grew up after he goes, they don't have attitude towards the machine. They don't respect anyone. You go one year, two years, three years, four years, five years, 10 years, you come back you see him in the same position never move forward. Because he doesn't respect anyone so he doesn't study anymore. The truth used to be with that person and that person is dead. What does that mean? The truth is, is that

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we have to be very careful. I remember one of our scholars shared with me in Russia, moolah.

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When somebody praised him, he was very upset, very upset with him.

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And he talked to the to the to the to the student in a very harsh way.

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And he told them, I don't want you to restrict the truth to somebody.

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Always handy to Rasul lies Eliza because the truth which Rasul Allah is allowed, someone will never die. But if I say that the truth is only with this,

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others are all wrong. When that Chef died, that's when the truth is is gone.

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And I will get stuck. I will never know what to do.

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So this is a very dangerous situation that some people put themselves in, and we really need to advise them and to stay away from it. So mankind a human will learn you will you will fail. However, if you believe in Allah and the hereafter, it should always say good, or keep quiet.

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Silent, if you don't have something good to say. It's always better for you. They will lock Imam Shafi SAID IT security much Geron felt awesome to either me if he did hand for less to the hassle. He said I saw my silence as a best place to invest. He said my silence, I see it as a best place and the most conducive environment for an investment in Ireland if you're driven for us to be Cassidy because I realized that

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either I gain or I will not lose anything. So it's a win win situation.

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Is a win win situation. It says either again, oh, I didn't lose anything.

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You Allah because Allah subhanaw taala says smile filming Colin in La

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La they hit rock cable RT. You know what I mean? Right? You will never say a statement. Except that you have the rocky Bonacci lead.

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Who is rocky and Moroccan. The angel that is on which side?

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Right or Left?

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Right. That's wrong.

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Yeah. You have a KB you have a teen who is in the left and who is on the right side.

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Both of them. Sure.

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You have both of them are being described with Rocky Bonacci. The one on the right is called Rocky manatee. This one also is Rocky.

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What is really somebody who is always watching always you cannot do it.

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something which is not going to be caught by by his eyes, never

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attained minsum somebody who is always with you, if you send this message to those who believe that angels don't go to the bathroom

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and as such, they do whatever they want in the bathroom, because somebody told them that angels there with you all the time but except in the bathroom as a joke.

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Those angels wherever you go,

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they're with you. They're watching. And they're also with you, wherever you go. It's like magnet being connected with you. Allah says male fisherman Kohli interval dE Hiraki, Blanchett

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Hala, that's how Allah has wanted to put the system and imagine if I'm going to reflect upon this, Allah, he might act of worship, and my deeds are going to be righteous. If I reflect upon this, I'm going to do the right thing.

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That's why one of our righteous predecessors, it says, Well, my memory in Illa WEF, now

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we have karma Katha batido

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for that, to be Catholica they are shaking, a pseudo capital P and T. And Tom, I really love this

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few statements of this scholar that is more thoughtful, it says umami namely in in a way if there is nobody who will remain forever in recommendation why now my YouTube Allah told the prophets Allah so my you will die and for sure if Allah subhanaw taala takes the life of Hamas Allah Allah Salah who is somebody else, everyone is going to die you Allah, whether we like it or we don't like it, we're going to live this life. The most beloved person to Allah died. That's Rasul Allah is Allah

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in a coma by now my youtube

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so we will learn so this mindset is Chef he said Mommy nemaline Illa away if there is nobody on earth, no human being except that the time will come when you will be it will be dead

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by Bonnie New Day, what's next? It says web marketer batido

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it says nothing will remain except that which your hand wrote

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it was just trying to address those writers you know, nowadays, we need this so much because everyone right now qualified or unqualified, everyone is right. And you know, it's more dangerous than speak speech. Because what I say you might forget what you say I might forget.

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But writing remix, Imam Malik wrote a book, Mom Shafi wrote a book law Muhammad wrote a book, you know, how many years now? 1200 years, 1300 years, the books are there with us, everyone is using them.

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You get idea. You say something you wrote something it reached places where you never expected.

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So he says for law tech to be configured via che, I added a selector called the factory Cafe rashie. Don't choose say anything with your tongue than to write anything with your with your hand. Hi, Rochelle. Except that which you want to see it on the deposition or whatever

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it is, you're going to die and nothing will remain except that which you which you wrote or which you said, your deeds in general. That's the only thing that will remain.

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It says Therefore, my advice to you later to be Catholic Russia in a sort of broker, Philippi Amity and Tarot is Don't you ever do something and you ever write something and you ever do something except that which you will be happy to see when you meet Allah Subhana?

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Allah, I really invite you to do this in your life. Whenever you want to do something, ask yourself first.

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Are you going to do think you'll be happy to see this on your paper when you meet Allah subhanaw taala this will resolve many, many, many issues, you know, because sometimes you're confused which opinion you should take whatever opinion you're going to favor, ask yourself this question because sometimes we don't like to be on the safe side. Especially when the other side which is a bit harsh according to the way you say it. You know, it's not serving your interests.

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But always ask yourself

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when you meet Allah subhanaw taala

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Do you think you have enough evidence to defend yourself? Do you think you will be happy to see this on your paper when you meet Allah subhanaw taala? If the answer is no, Allah, He advise you to stay away from it and stop.

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Whenever you talk against others you sit down to discuss the matter of somebody. Ask yourself this question first.

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What is the reason why I'm

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Talking about him. I mentioned the name of this person, why am I mentioning his name? Why am I talking about him?

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If you don't have a proper justification, or like, keep quiet. I'm going to advise him about one of those callers. I have to think wisely. Why am I advising him? If I'm going to talk about that scholar negatively? I must think wisely. Because Allah watches and the angels are listening and they're writing whatever I'm going to say about him.

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And don't forget, if you made a mistake in doing that, which is wrong, consult him that person if that person is one of the only of Allah trust me, this is the beginning of the tragedy. Because the one who will be stuck who will start fighting you is rumble ality.

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And we have seen in history, the evil consequences of those people who are backed by the scholars.

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Muhammad Allah in masoumeh mentioned Maha married woman, aka Hamid, it says the flesh of the scholars are poisonous, whoever smell it will be sick, and whoever eat it will die. And he says what we see in this life is that Allah never let those people who have nothing to do except to eat from the flesh of the scholars never let them succeed in life. And he always humiliate them and put them in a state of disrespect in this dunya so Rasul Allah, Who gave you the best way out? He says, when can a human will actually have a failure per hire? And honestly, you should always ask yourself, when you open your mouth, what are you going to say? If you know you're not going to say God, as

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soon as Allah Azza said, keep quiet.

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Imam Shafi says assumptive you know, keeping quiet or something is better. It brings prestige, it brings respect. And then he says, talking too much bring in nothing except less respect and humiliation. You know, people respect the person who is more quiet than the person who talks too much. And he gave an example with a lion. And the dog is able to do talk shower Hisamitsu while caribou Yosa, laemmli Wahoo and a bath. It says, you see the lions, everyone is scared of them. And in most instances, they are silent and you will hear them screaming. They said they're hungry.

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In the normal circumstances, they're quiet.

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But dogs

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all the time. At the same time also, law respects everyone respects line, but nobody is respecting the other one. So he said this is the parable and the example of the one who talks too much. And the one who talks a little

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so this hadith explained the responsibility of the host

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towards his his guest but I guess the time will not permit us to go through it I have only one minute left. So inshallah I will leave this hadith for the next class meeting Allah has Georgia. Allah subhanaw taala grant you good and Tofik in the dunya and the ACA and OB college Emilian caffeine Subhanak Allah Mohammed Kushala learned a stockbroker to be late As salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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There is a question about somebody who is addicted with this evil images but images of the opposite gender the corner

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The graphic kind of pictures, and also engaged in masturbation and all of these things which are bringing nothing except.

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But consequence to the one who is doing. So he's asked, can he take the lesser of the two evils by having a girlfriend that he goes?

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So I wish I can see him to ask him, How is it less of the two evils.

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He has to be patient. And my advice to him is to stay away from anything that can lead him to that.

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Cut off himself from whatever website or site he's visited, and cut off himself from the internet unless if he needed, and whenever he needed, he should go with somebody should always be with others. This really helps a lot. And he shouldn't stay.

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Doing nothing should get himself busy with things which are beneficial to him. And also, on top of all this haste in the marriage, don't exaggerate in the marriage, because in the question, he said, he cannot afford marriage. If he is with me, I can ask him, Why does he think he cannot afford the marriage, because sometimes we exaggerate. You want some kind of marriage, which you cannot afford it at this moment. So go with the one because it is protecting yourself, which is why we have upon you and Allah subhanaw taala has granted you a way out, rather than go in with the illegal relationship with others, why can't you do the correct one, get somebody who can help you to protect

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yourself and have a good relationship with Allah subhanho wa taala. So first and foremost, fear Allah subhanaw taala. Cut a few ties with anything that usually put you into this trouble. If it is internet, cut it off. You know, be patient, if this is friend, stay away from them. They are not good people to be with. Again, it's whoever is, I mean, pushing you to be into this situation, stay away from that person. And as I said, also marry, try your best to hasten to expedite that marriage ceremony.

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So try to make it as quick as possible. And as I said, make it so simple, you know, because the idea is to protect yourself, and to be with Allah subhanho wa taala. But it's really important for you to cut off your ties with anything or any person that is pushing you into this evil behavior. The second question is about the tips in learning the Arabic language. And I guess this is not the place to talk about this. But I advise a person who can join an institution that teaches Arabic and the environment is Arabic.

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I mean, Arabic speaking people, even if they're not from Arabic, they speak Arabic is the best thing for a person to do. Be the lighthouse dojo and read a lot of books that are written in Arabic and listen to lectures which are delivered in Arabic language. And don't worry, even if you don't understand keep, keep listen. Trust me, reading books, speaking to those friends of yours who speak Arabic language and listening to the lectures from the Arabic speaking people will be the light as it takes a few moments for you to master the language in sha Allah, who as Allah, the next question is about a wrap

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around the perfume that the person puts on the on. I mean, before they have it for both sisters and brothers. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said if a woman believes in Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter, she shouldn't put perfume that smells a scent in an authentic narration. If you put the perfume that smells as she goes out, people smell that perfume. She is similar to somebody who is committing Zina, as I said, and this this we don't need this because what do you want?

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You can wash your

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hands if you have

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is okay for them to use insha Allah so you can wash it. But as I said use the detergent that doesn't have a fragrance which is available Alhamdulillah

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Okay, that's all insha Allah may Allah Ghannouchi good until he can be with you wherever you are in the whole ecology healing field some Hannukah