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Ibrahim Nuhu


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The speakers discuss the importance of avoiding distraction and entertainment in parenting children, as it can lead to embarrassment and distraction. They stress the need to focus on one thing and avoid offense, as distractions and entertainment can lead to embarrassment. The speakers also emphasize the benefits of investing in gold and its impact on society, citing studies showing that people spend more money on metals and that it is a source of income. The speakers emphasize the importance of letting children know about negative consequences of investing in metals and ensuring that children are not just a source of income.

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said Allahu Allahu Allah, Allah He was talking he was salam Muhammad Ali yo, Sasha

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Celeste Tasha Michelle Michelle Ramadan Alfa Romeo was laughing about about Elmo perfectly suited Asha Michelle ehpro and find worth now Sharon, while Citadella Santa Fe have and Katana bilimora tabula as well, so Allah subhanaw taala anybody convener of humanitaire lemma one yo Farah Lana is alert

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anybody Kofi Shanina

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are similar in a zealot. So, today Inshallah, we will be dealing with a new Surah Surah two column and this surah also is my key, like the previous one. So, I

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mean, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I received it when he was in Makkah and

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this one is very clear, because the nature of the surah starting from the beginning can suggest this, this has to be something

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because of Medina you have a different issue. Maca you have what exactly the surah is, is dealing with.

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So, the surah is called Surah to Kalam

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because Allah subhanaw taala the first part of the surah says no, welcome, woman is

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Kalam is mentioned usually the smell sewer

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is taken from something in the in the sewer itself.

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So the first part of the surah is known. Allah says no. Welcome to my store.

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There's no one

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the scholars have talked about these

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letters at the beginning of the sewer, we call them haruf Nakata,

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Alif Lam, Meem edit learning RA and inflamm ra Hamming sought call golf known see in Baja, California inside

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northern pass the entire scene I think I mentioned them.

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So, this horrible micarta you have different opinion amongst the scholars? What exactly they need? What is the meaning of these things?

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Today even have meaning.

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One thing you are sure about is the fact that yes, they do. They do have a meaning.

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But the question is whether we know the meaning or we don't know let me that having a meaning Yes, they do have

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some set this meaning is known to us

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in whom a local table in his book will kill the Quran. Fight Fight fights so much against those who said there is no meaning, which we know

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for these harmful NACA

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yeah has its own justification.

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But the best and the closest opinion Allah Allah is the one that says it is part of the agents of Quran

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Quran is merges love than warmer and merges. merges means miraculous in terms of nature. And the text also is a miracle in a way nobody can provide something similar to it.

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Because the Arabs who are the experts of the language the past or the present, wants to talking about that the past in the Arab in the past, they were the experts of the language very very strong in the language they used to be proud of it. If you have this, you know skills among them, you will be respected like a minister or king. The hakama is to go to them

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to seek advice from them, they are smartly barcoding to

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that important and notable

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people in the community. Why because of the Arabic language they have so strong, so powerful in their condition.

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So you can see when the prophets Allah Azza wa reached mark.

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They don't like what he's doing. Why because he destroyed

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all the business in Morocco. From A to Z province, Allah Sama, canceled River and other freebies, free money that is coming to them when people come to Makkah

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because my car was the center for the, for the Arabs to come and do their Hajj they have a free business business that is reaching them which everyone who comes is coming with money to present the idols. Prophets, ALLAH SubhanA said all of those 360 Idols about

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that's why they see the province as a threat.

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And people are accepted as soon as they sell MLS means

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the economic system going to be destroyed and whatever they base their culture on it Rasulullah sama is taking it away. Going back to the old culture of a smile and his people

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going back to the old culture of his Milan, and his people.

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That's the interpretation to be given to the Hadees that says the prophets a lot the cinema can Allah didn't call me

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Arbaeen Santa.

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It doesn't mean he used to worship the idols. No, they're talking about the values and the manners which used to exist starting from the time of Ibrahim alayhi salam and ismail Ali salah. You know, it's still some of those Bell balance of those ones, you know, in the story of

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the banana, even though find the father of Satan and say, you will understand this. I'm Ruben Hamza. And some other companions.

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I'm sorry, some other Arabs who decided to stay away from

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the cultural practice of the Arabs and go back to the route. They don't know what exactly the route is, but they find some of the balance of that route and they maintain it and they go against worshipping the idols. And

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so what I'm trying to say is, these people they don't like Rasulullah and they like what he's doing. They fought him Maka because some of his companions, they prosecuted them, they pressured them so much.

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Until the time of the pros a lot someone had to leave his and his companion to Abyssinia and then to Medina. And then he himself also had to go last one out and I send them out of it and they plot against the prophets Allah somebody tried so much to kill him.

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It doesn't work. Even after he left to Medina, that doesn't really satisfy them, you know, they had to follow the Prophet sallahu sama in many battles better they lost so many people in battle, they went too hard, they lost a lot in their heart. They went to observe the loss also they went to so many battles, they lose it.

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And Rasulullah sallallahu selama told them, You guys says them lie. And you want me to stop and they did everything.

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He tried try to provoke

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is human desire, you know, because human beings they have desire on those three things. A man or the Assa L.

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A shell what?

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They told him if you are looking for wealth, we agree we will collect money from ourselves to make you the richest person in the community just stops inviting people to Islam. It says no, I don't want that. I'm talking to the wrong person actually.

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So they told him about the rasa. We will agree to step down and to make you the King instead of the one that

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may move to the woman. They say we were agreed to look for the most beautiful one in this society. You choose and then we gave you

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a talk to his uncle Uncle talk to him and he told him no, this is a command from Allah and I'm not going to stop

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and Uncle disappointed them. It All. It all Sula selasa go and do whatever you believe is correct. And I will never submit you. And he told he told them look at Alamo and Lebanon lamb okay. Let DANA What are your honor the accounting about it

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as a support to so as Allah Azza which is a clear disappointment to to those people who he is still in their Deed right. And he says to Allah He Linnaeus BGMEA he was Salafi turabi the fina, he said the time you see them reaching you that means I'm dead.

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Funkadelic account and this is what happens. The time they managed to reach the province a lot less salaam Abu Talib was was gone.

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So the point is they followed him in Medina, they engage in those battles. They lost so much lives but what he wants them to do since you said I am creating this book you come up with. I mean, everyone knows that logically, if the Arabs in those days can produce something like the Quran, they will definitely do it to avoid all of those clashes.

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Why did they try to reconcile? They tried to do too many things to stop him. And he said you don't need to go for this. Just prove me wrong, that this Quran is not from Allah

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and they

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Could the Arabs of those days could and the Arabs of today also cannot? That's why you have all of these jokes. So they have so many suitors, you know, the recent one, they have Surah to Corona. Yeah, I think a few years ago somebody was sharing some Do you hear about it anymore? It goes like Ria and go like that.

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Nothing will oppose Quran and remain

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so that those Arabs that couldn't do it, and they are the experts of the language and the people of today, they will never succeed. Definitely. That's why one of the those Christian he criticized Miranda, he was saying in the front corner, we're

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and so Hala even to read the text he could. So Muslims are laughing You know, how can you detect a mistake and in a book, even reading it is easy for you.

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And why is the mistake the mistake is in your reading then

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the thing is

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so anyone who oppose Quran in terms of the text, you know, those are real jokers and they end up making fun of themselves the community will be laughing at them because those Arabs we are told that some of them made sujood when they heard about the hear the recitation of the Quran you know,

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and of those things that I remember when I was reading those books about Colombian aroma Quran when Rasulullah selasa read, Fela must stay as women who follow sunnah Ji

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they mentioned one of the bed wounds may Sujit after that he said this sentence, you know, full of Bulaga and fossa, you know, how Allah subhanaw taala put it in that concise form. Namaste the choice of word he said this cannot be from the humankind. So we're not, we're not here to talk about the ages of Quran. But I just want us to understand that Quran naturally is like that. One of these things that exist in the Quran, which makes a Quran miraculous and merges you know, naturally is these hurtful Mahkota.

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To say that they are Arabic language and the expert in the language they don't know what they need is something in their language and they are proud of having the language and they're proud of being the expert in the language but still, they don't understand them. Allah subhanaw taala kept it for himself alone. That's why the best opinion will Allahu Allah. When it comes to the interpretation of Visa Approval Nakata is to say, Allah Who Aaron am the Marathi that Allah subhanaw taala is the one who knows what exactly he meant by them.

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It doesn't negate and contradict the Saint of ALLAH SubhanA ability sign in our V MOVIE because any message that allows me to want you to get Allah Azza hotel has said it for you in the clearest way. So this word, although we don't know the meaning, but the intent is known which is a jazz to make it something that nobody can can imitate, no matter how much they try it otherwise you will end up with Alfie Rimmel few

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there are a couple of you who then will have to win Kosovo they have the sorts of death that hamdulillah denoted

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as the surah attributed to masala metal kelda.

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So, his people also when they see they know that even at file them do this and feel material you cannot fall into this or like it will ask you what is the moral of this and then it will get stuck look a certain fee last month that I mentioned very small in terms of size but the message is so strong and so powerful.

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So Allah says noon so the first word we didn't know it meaning we just leave it with Allah subhanaw taala as part of the ages of the book of Allah and then he says well color me one is to rule Allah subhanaw taala says noon one color

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there are so many interpretations about this known you know if you read the even cathedral code there's so many a hadith referring to the meaning of the noon Some of them said is the host itself because the last part of it alas versus Valetta can cause it and

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it also linguistically held this cause sometimes also known so that's why some set no one here is referring to that one is not the age as we are talking about what law Haarlem it goes with the same fit.

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Cough because it's just letter is a letter. It's not a word. Okay? That one is a word unknown. Okay, but this one is, is the letter okay? So it goes with the pages of the book of Allah. So then Allah subhanaw taala says, well column

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one is the rune

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He says well Columbia mines to

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the best opinion amongst the opinions of the scholars, which is the most important apparent one is the one that says and column is the column we use. The one you guys are right, but not necessarily yours but Kalamata Allah.

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Allah subhanaw taala is swearing by the kalam woman so he says

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this will become a hello hello hello internet. mean Allah, the Quran Buka, Accra, and Liliana, then Kalam, Andaman in Santa Monica.

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So this is Allah subhanaw taala swearing by the color because when he says welcome

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Yes, focus

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is fine. If he doesn't cry, that's me. He has a problem.

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Yeah, that's true. People don't understand this. Sometimes. kids when they don't play, they don't jump they don't cry, as when there is an issue.

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So when columbium is to rule, So this is the swelling but Allah subhanaw taala with the pen and the net because it's nearby that Allah smart Allah granted humankind which is suffering to knowledge, because we document the knowledge in it. And it is so important in the way the prophet is a lot nicer mindset. The first thing that Allah subhanaw taala created, you know, the

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debate was between the Pentagon, the airship Allah subhanaw taala and I think we talked about this last time, right? So, Allah Allah made might be the closest opinion is the one that says the first thing created by Allah subhanaw taala is, is is the pen.

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So Allah Sanchez swears by the pen, woman is to rule and what we are writing with the pen

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Colombo miasto. So Allah started swearing by, by both and this is okay with Allah subhanaw taala because Allah is for our De Lima unit, he can swear by anything he wants. But for us, we cannot swear by anything

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except by Allah subhanaw taala

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base to swear by the parents, by their idols by so many things.

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How much swearing by the caliber

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is go to the big ones.

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Don't forget carrabba Alamosa

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have I sweated by the cap

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Yeah, is a question directed to harlot

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can we swear by the Kaaba? Why no. He says by to law

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by to line

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No, I'm just asking about selling by the camera not the rubber avocado we have no question right

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and Asia Professor lots of I said I know when you are angry.

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And when you are sad she said you have to like how do

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you say whenever you are I'm sorry when you're angry or you're happy?

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She said yes love whenever you're happy.

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I'm sorry.

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Professor Melissa said whenever you are happy you say what up boom Hammond

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whenever she's angry, she said Rob waiver

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of the lion armor with his afraid slave. The maid that housed sometimes when she did something wrong he will say to her color candy Harlequin Kiera wahala khaki Calico li M

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used to cry

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but is there any difference between the two? No. Yeah. So swelling by Robert kava around budgetary Robin NAS is correct is the same as saying walleye. Oxen will be law

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although Somalian way well below what Allahu Allah you know

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these are all the same, but the camera itself can also be an Aqaba Why not because his back look right. Okay, this one you have to fail.

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Quran CanAm Allah Azza

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can somebody swears by the most half

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you take the Quran he said Oxford will be harder he says

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Why do you answer why isn't live the chance to

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Yeah, you can also buy the most because

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must have is a combination of ink and the papers you know, so many things inside but swelling by the Quran itself Quran Quran

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is it correct? Yes because Quran is Kalam Allah al Kalam Sefa municipality, Allah has the origin. So you cannot take the Quran in the court and say oxen will be harder, because you're pointing the show in the book which is papers and

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the one that you're reading that's Quran of Allah subhanaw taala. So when you swear by the Quran and Quran is the kalam of Allah subhanho wa Taala will easily mclucas Kumbhakarna

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rissalah Busy Pharaonic

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laser knock looking

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for your beat while I see better Limerock look environment

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so it's not muck look, that that will perish and they all attributes of a Mac look, that will fade one day. Yeah, look at your pictures.

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When you if it's still there.

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You might say to your mother, are you really sure that this is this one you know, you change completely?

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Allah smart is not like that. That's why that matters of the heat. You can say with certainty that is no difference between the Sharia of Muhammad and Sharia of Adam malice, because they're all talking about Allah and Allah doesn't change. Say more so me and proceed with the kalam Jabbar alcohol from them of Ireland and to know it

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matters of Sharia. These are the things that you have changed from a Sharia to another, another Sharia. Allah says the cooling gel and income Sheraton

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in Tahiti, they're all the same. And that's translate the sale of Allah subhanaw taala Quebec commonly

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held mostly because somebody might say that we are told by the Sunnah, that oh one a loser who knew Jalisco

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there was no assume the follow.

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Could be prophets but Rasul No.

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No was the first one but Allah azza wa jal says his people rejected all of the messages. Somebody might say how come you know they rejected only one and he was the first one actually, and they did not leave until they see. Mohamed Salah holism did not live until the time of Rasul Allah. Allah says they rejected all of them. That's called a set because the message is is one Yeah, the message is one what No, he told his people is the same as what Muhammad salah they said them ours was saying.

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So back to the question Allah Subhan Allah I mean Quran you can tell by the Quran because it is the Lamb of Allah subhanho wa Taala but you cannot swear by the by the most half.

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So known while Kalam Yama is true, Allah subhanaw taala swears by the pen and also that which people are writing using the pen.

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Say we say Allah subhanaw taala can swear by whatsoever he wants but we cannot do it except by Allah subhanho wa Taala The Prophet said Allah Allah who said of us it Allah Allah Allah forbid we are by a confinement can have different failure Alif Billa Ali yes mod

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as you're done, swear by your parents. You see, why be

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about me but what are the if

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what about you know, the prophets Allah, someone said whoever wants to swear by something, he should use the name of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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if you use the name of Allah subhanaw taala he or he should, you should keep quiet.

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So Allah is wearing usually when Allah is going to us was he is going to emphasize on on something. Okay, lady ramsha when added up to agenda Omaka Baqarah will in SI Kamala shatta Hala very big minutes to emphasize on this Allah sponsors who are swears by these things to catch the attention of, of the listeners, shrimps with a ha any place where you see Allah sponsors very wait and see what will be mentioned.

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So he says, While column yoga is to merge into binaire material because he knew how long those criminals one of the things that I always tell my kids that kuffaar by consensus from day one, they all agree to call the messengers, Magellan.

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Everyone comes in. They love this world so much marginal, marginal marginal in such a way that Allah subhanaw taala says, but I'll send them in public Amir Rasul Allah Carlu Saharan almajiri

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in some place Allah Subhana Allah says Allah sabe I didn't make it like once a year before he dies. If somebody comes to you until they have a profit call him budget, what

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are they saying this? Are they making it in this way? Because all of them are saying money. Oh,

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Love them.

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But Allah says bloom common PowToon This is a result of arrogance. You don't need somebody to tell you, you're going to end up doing the same thing your predecessors did, even if you don't know about them.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says ma entrepreneur mature Baker be imagined. Allah subhanaw taala says, You are not what Allah and hamdulillah mean now, imagine all but you know it means insane. So in that which you are inviting people, you are not lying to them. And you're not really have a plan.

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You know, they are the one who are doing that. They have a heaven is like the talk of the person who drank drank wine. So what you told them is none other than the truth from Allah subhanho wa taala. That's where Allah subhanaw taala says we're in nella kala agilon higher on the note

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and that would shut doing is very straightforward and is Colombian Ocala is a word that is coming from from the market. And Allah subhanaw taala is going to reward you for that, as you run right over noon.

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You have a big reward Viola Mamnoon Isaiah ramach tour, the one that will not stop

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Alas, monetarily word the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, because of his his deed. If you're looking for a prophet, you know all of the prophets of Allah azza wa jal Calamba Laguna Salah atonement would you know prophet of Allah Subhan Allah to Allah you know who went back to Allah as Mata without a conveyed the message in the way alas mica wants him to do. And Rasulullah Salah sama is the most

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successful one all of them succeeded.

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But if you go through the history of the prophets, Allah sola to see how much the prophets Allah sama suffers, so that we can get this message pure and clean, you know, Islam will reach everyone understand why Allah azza wa jal says we're in Mecca, agilon Ramadan,

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You Allah. So Allah, Allah, Allah Azza in Makkah, look at the, the way Allah subhanaw taala gave him the Tobia. Lilina Amanu. You have a few little hidden layers, you know, a yam Allah. in Makkah, they will fight they were killed, but what was the command but Allah subhanaw taala patients do not fight back. He suffered so much the believers suffer so much, but they are patient. They are looking at the future. You want Islam to succeed.

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went to Medina also they did not let him there. He fought so many battles. Some of them he was almost going to be killed in some of this battle. You went to that if you know that. Even that was a proposal for the people five to be destroyed completely but the prophets of Osama do not accept that.

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I don't want to see people accepting Islam

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the way he loves the Ummah, you know, no prophets love his nation, all of them loves their people. But if you compare the love to their people, without a Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam das will be insignificant in comparison to his. That's why when Allah subhanaw taala gave each and every one of them the chance to ask for dua.

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Why did he say he'll soon as Allah Salam, it says all of them ask, except me I said mine, I want to keep it for my OMA as a Shiva for them on the Day of Judgment.

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So less allies.

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So the least you can do to

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compensate the province a lot of cinema is to say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, whenever his name has been, it's been mentioned, as the least you can do. The best reward you can do to reward the prophets Allah Salam is to follow the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu and precisely,

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not only thank you rasool Allah, follow rasool Allah, some precisely respect Him and follow Him. Allah says, we're into the room who tell you, our knuckleheaded, Allah multiparty and maybe somebody said,

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there is no way for you to be guided unless if you base your activities on the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and you can only be guided

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and this isn't a joke My dear brothers sisters, we are in a state of loss. You know, we're in a state of confusion nowadays. Why is that? Because we detach ourselves from the Sunnah of the Prophet silvassa

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We think we're so smart we can do it without consulting Rasulullah sallallahu Saba and Allah he will never work you know this status and destitution the OMA is a we remain like that. The Press And mean the tail of others you know, until the time we come back to the correct man Hajj, which is following Rasul Allah some precisely in everything

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How do you how do I do it? Do it like this all of a sudden?

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You know that person says if you want to succeed in this life he said either

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a desktop or a laptop does not tell us and Alec iLab Asuna he said if you can

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if you can make sure that you don't do anything except with the Sunnah of the promise a lot of cinema do including wearing the shoes

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assessment offer him and ask him in his book

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was tackled also. He says

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well valium in your configure it for effective I imagine his sanity while while in October Java yupptv, for husband, Minho, radon bhiwadi. Well, he says the actions that come from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam even if it is part of his cultural practice he said when you want to succeed in that regard follow him

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because Magetta differently maybe somebody similar did Allah share in Hydra

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to get idea when the promise a lot somebody did something it shows that it is permissible to be done with a watchable must have we've understand this from the circumstantial evidences.

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But even ask him to make it easy for you he says if you want to succeed stay away from all of these explanations whenever it drops or somebody did something just do

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just even if it is his own cultural practices as long as it doesn't harm you usually will not why do I say this because sometimes the profit or loss might have a system in the way he eats and this is a commercial ended up at modelled on the system of eating which is designed by the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is the best of the systems read it welcomes completions about this you will understand what I'm talking about but at the same time some of the things mentioned that the promise of awesome I used to do not everyone can do right when you go to the restaurant to eat you have a cup of water next to you can stay away from drinking that water until then but there are some people for health

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sake they can't they have to drink after every to his wounds they must drink if you tell him followers will so lightly salaam he might get into trouble and the solar cell did not make you I think that's why it okay and from time to time in his writings about this topic, he will see what

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different nature but the vast majority of that which has a lot less than I did when it comes to the heavy in terms of eating, everyone can afford that. So he says in your conflict it for work for victims inadi his sanity. While he worked over GWAS he actually for hospital and our main home revive him already. He says the action that come from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam shows nothing other than permissibility. But at the same time we say it is enough for us what was enough for us who is alive so if he takes we're also going to take that one.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says we're in Nikka we're in molecular agilon Viva la note, you have a reward which is not going to be to be cut off in so many ways. The last one to reward in the prophets, Allah Salam, Rafa, dico you know, every Muslim country where you go where they don't band, because in some places they started right, you don't bind the other hand. When you say I shall Allah Allah in the law, the second one is a shadow in the Muhammad Rasul Allah. Whoever comes to Islam is going to mention this you are a foreigner laka vicar was mentioned previously in the previous books and also in the Quran. And also people are mentioning him up to date, because

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that's the part of that profile thicker and then he wrote that Allah subhanaw taala granted, the Prophet sallallahu sallam, one of these big rewards, which translate the reward Vayner Maamoun Hallo Makoto, is that whatever you do, we come here and study right? We are studying in sha Allah, all of us who are doing it for the sake of Allah. Every single reward each and every one of us get Rasulullah salsa has a portion of that.

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That's why I see it. I know that they are saying it out of love. Somebody will do something with it. I gave them the waters will Allah Yeah, okay, you need it on the day of judgment and so like doesn't need this anymore. Whatever you did. Allah gave him the same amount of reward.

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When did he get the best place? Even if you don't give him anything? No. If we die, all of us right now, okay, nobody's doing something which is increasing the reward of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he is already been given the best position in Phil dos.

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The best place in fidelity is given to the Prophets Allah Allah.

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So what does that mean? Focus on following his sunnah. Then focus on saying that yeah, I do some activities.

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And then I sent the reward to Yeah. And also by the way, we really need to be very careful. Allah will you be very careful even with the dead ones, you know,

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most instances, apart from those activities, which were done by the prophets, Allah sama to support them like charity, going for Hajj, if they do not do, if they promise too fast and they do not fast, you will pay that fast for them. Apart from that the most important thing they need is that you are, stay away from all of these controversies, whether we need Quran for them, or we do keep them aside, you will need it they already there. Make dua for them, Allah sorta can accept your DUA and show mercy upon them, but you need this reward.

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So one of the scholars said, is good when you go to hedge, I'm sorry, you want to make camara for one of the dead ones. Make a camera for yourself. But the DUA in every single part of this camera, make it for that that person, you get the reward, and he also get all of the DUA

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because you need the journey so long. I'm not saying we shouldn't do, you should do but he shouldn't be busy doing it for others, you know, they deserve especially the parent. But why can't you combine both for you and then

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and whenever there is a controversy on a matter whether it will reach a dead one or you will not reach it. The best is to stay away from all of these and go back to what everyone agrees what is that? There are the few things the promise alasa mandate is quite interesting to know that the prophets Allah sama lost his wives how many he lost during his life to Khadija and there have been two cars right? This one they died all of these things that we're fighting for nowadays did he do them never he lost his daughters all of them apart from Fatima he lost his sons all of them during his lifetime, but he never did. Wala he know can Highland Lhasa guna la Why do I need to find why

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can't you just go and trace what he did and do the same thing. This one you are sure you reach but the other ones were in a jewel? You can either and you have the controversy every book you read where this controversy exists you will see people talking about that. Some scholars said yes some scholars said no is want to stay in this one. Yeah, he just relax. If I were in your position, I will just relax I will ask one question. What was it done by also less alasa? Did he do that? No, he's not which one he did he did this just want to do that one because this one you are sure it will reach that person. So as I always say pity those people in the graves they have their own different

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life and we have no access to that life except through the divine revelation. And I should go and have access to that divine revelation through the Sunnah of the prophets Allah sama to see what exactly can benefit somebody in the in the grid and do it for him rather than doing things which you're not sure you lost. And he lost now that the root because as I said, we're in the medical memory model I've never been here so you are losing the thing if it doesn't reach so you lost it and he lost a good idea. So Islam is not the money the what I see to be correct. No, it's not like that. What Sharia says to be correct. Whether I like it, I like it but what she does is to be correct.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says we're in molecular agilon Rama known were in Nicola colicky Naveen Allahu Akbar, La Samaritan Law says you are upon a great man.

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I shall be Allah and he was asking that famous Hadith. What was the whole look of the prophets Allah Allah cinema for Khalid can Kulu ko whole Quran?

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Apart from those manners and good attitude that the prophets Allah has the Prophet Sal Osama can have what are often

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in the arm that Allah has searching.

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Because he says, apart from those attitudes and big attitude, he has the prophets Allah sama never crossed crossed a command from Allah subhanaw taala or something that last month I told him not to do so following the Quran kanessa Ji Linda beasts Allah Azza it is part of his life is a mobile working Quran when he Sircilla Salah seven

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that's how Muslims should be active

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trust in the book of Allah subhanaw taala and follow it precisely.

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So cancer GH Allahu hooligan, water

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follicle, Tata bajo

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tobacco, terracotta Jubilee, porcelain and cinema takes the Quran to be his attitudes and manners and he left the natural attitude that Alaska decorated him upon full of what Allah subhanaw taala wants.

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So as I said, this is apart from the other

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attributes attitude of Prophets, Allah

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cynical see the truth here. Shyness Academy generosity is they describe the prophets Allah Azza colada Rafi Fidelia.

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In the past, the younger sisters did. They come out very rarely.

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So and they're very shy, very shy. And when I say nowadays they're not but

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I'm just describing the past is to hide is so they when they describe the province of Lhasa they said he is one telling you how much the provinces are so much shy, like no.

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Karim was scheduled.

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And at the same time he's not weak he might find a shy person is weak sometimes. Right? But that was

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so interesting when they described him they said,

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kind of awkwardness during the Battle of Azov, they try to you know, the to break that rock. We couldn't, how many nearly 10

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You know, 40, something like that. I mean group of people, they couldn't break it.

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They try their best they couldn't. Because Allah is Allah is Allah, that he can hit the thing

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three times and thrice and then get destroyed, to fight it.

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Back and also last a lesson. It shook somebody until he took him to the ground. Somebody told him jasola I want to fight it. If you can show me a miracle I will accept Islam, the prophets Allah sama say what do you want? He said, nobody ever wrestled me to the ground. If you can take me to the ground, I can assure you that I will accept you. So does it seem as if this one

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is among the people that that thing couldn't be the Shabbat?

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He says he says I just want to go down and then I will accept the promise Allah Azza took him down. said he wasn't ready.

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Get ready. You ready says promise Allah sama took him Tu*a is here one last time. He's still dreaming, you know, because Mark Luke Namath.

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There are some people like that never lost you know? So it was so much okay. The third time he except live no lies to the prophets. Allah someone he told him who can take care of halogen Nabhi

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he said our salah I can do the job for you, but I don't know him. Rasul Allah, Allah Azza wa said, Keep going until you reach the heart. You will see it sounds so I don't know him. How do I recognize it? It's a one you see. You see?

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Yeah, you will be scared of it. You know, that's how it will come to you. It says Yasser Lai McCulloch never never scare me in my life. Is there any sign not this

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is not allowed. So as I will tell him who I like as well. He said the time I saw the man I do not recognize it is not just I feel the fear inside the body is surely

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is the is the guy.

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So sola sola sama Asha Anna's one of the most interesting thing they mentioned. They said it a hmil wealthy's When you see nothing except blood is any flying and the dust to the Companions. You know, everyone will be scared because you see death next to you. This is during the battles. They will be looking for Sula, they said the best place to protect yourself is behind me. But then Subhanallah when they look for him, Where is the Rasul Allah, they see him in the middle of the enemy.

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They run away from that place actually, they wanted to go and hide themselves I mean themselves behind him, but they will see with a bit of the battlefield. That's why they said nobody follows us well as Allah sama except ash Jonas,

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you need to be brave for you to be able to go into places where the prophets Allah Sama, of course.

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Remember that guy who came through one of the battles he says, I just want to Rasul Allah, and I want to kill the companions. He told me also I relax. We do the job for you. He said, No, he wants me.

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Reading Sierra is Hala. Maselli is a no he wants me. They said no to Allah because the man was covered from head to toe. They said you have just a small hole in his eyes that he can see you know, it's all metal even if you hit him you're just wasting your time. And he said he wanted Mohammed he said he wanted me.

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So Allah please let us do he said no.

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He took the

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the spear Cordova has has written by Arun Amina

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is in the province of sama took it and he shook it in order you know that sometimes when somebody is

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and you do like this in front of you will see the the ads go like this right. It's even the promises of move the thing

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I'm hesitant of iron Amina is like the wind that comes out of this shaking is going to cause him to fly.

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So he said Subhanallah the prophets Allah Azza wa chute and he targeted that small hole and it reaches a place

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of AMEA Naboo yeah right said that he got the man in that place in his crush him and the guy says, Qatari Catellani Muhammad

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he's people told him what I talking about it just crushed you like this. You know he was so scared he said no, either touch Allah Allah Muhammad said what? He said to me If you spit on me, I know I'm going to die. And subhanAllah he died and he was the one somebody told him from the answer. I heard Rasulullah Salah sama saying in our country Luke. That's why he never relaxed starting from that Abuja and managed to convince him he told him no, you have to go. He said no one of them said. He heard Muhammad said in Nakata, Luke and Muhammad never lied.

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Either Arad Allahu Allah, hi yah Allah who has been who they managed to convince him to, to death, and that's what happened. So sola sola Sama, assuredness so don't ever hear that until I saw some more soft and gentle he will lie he was very lenient and he was very soft.

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very lenient and very soft

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and always forgiving.

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They said as soon as as a mentor comma abuddin Lin FC Elantra Dhaka

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hermit Allah if you see him taking revenge or fighting Jasmine, somebody is good against Allah. But if it is for him, no Rasulullah sallallahu Mohsen like that.

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And a similar Malik said, I live I lived with the province a lot of summer, I shot a scene

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with a man is Nina and some narration, eight or 10 years, he said, I was with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he said, he never told me why did you do this?

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And why didn't you do this, go to the home and see, you know, how the house are converted into fire you Allah, every single thing that child does, the parents have comment on it.

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And that's why we lost trust. Those of you who are in the system, fix this, you know, child should relax at home, you Allah it affected badly the brain capacity and understanding they should relax, just have a red line that they shouldn't cross this, they shouldn't be a monster in the house. And all this word is going like this, you know, it doesn't go here,

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go to the home and we practice the same thing again. But that's not the correct manage,

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they should have an absolute freedom. And I mean my word except when they go against the religion of Allah swatter this should be the

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the red lines, you will be sitting down at home, believing that your processes your daughter's work data will come or your son will come there will see a cup being here this time, mainly for two, three days like that. The one of them will just come like this.

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Push it

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and they will look at you to see which comment

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testing or this patient.

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If you're in that country, they will never forget that moment in their life, you know.

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But honestly speaking, what is the best way to get rid of this? Yes, turn away.

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Just as if you don't know what happened.

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You hear a lot of comments, you know, from them, they relax, you will see that their heart is beating because they don't know what kind of punishment will come.

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Just allah how many verses it will help you. Your kids will come and tell you what happened out of the house which are not there. They will come until the abbey we did this and we know you don't like it. We are sorry.

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Yeah, the more you punish your child, the more he lies.

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To when you want them to say the truth. Don't punish them. That was the manager of Rasul Allah. So Allah that is always a better way to train the kids to behave way well.

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But unfortunately, we always want to impose our authority. You know, they have to know the Denison thority in the house, they already know naturally you are the father, she's the mother, they know this. But sometimes in halau, they have to know that there is authority in the house. So while we're trying to impose, we lost that natural, you know, this position that Allah has been put in them which he created them in the way they already know. This is my father. This is my mother. Because now we want the artificial one.

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So be like Chris Wallace Allah Salam as I said they should have freedom no punishment, no punishment no matter how much they go against try avoid punishing them or less a day is really necessary and close your eyes. They ask a Bedouin Manila Arkin

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Malaysia car and faulty and motor body

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and fault in a motor laughing. I like this word so much faultily mattagami old motor often

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said that there are killed the smart person is 14 You know the awkward somebody who will who has occurred is a smart person who overlooks a lot

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of this duck and as a father, I know what people are doing, you know,

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we see we heard, you know, some of these houses are held to the wife and the wife also with the children to Allah that the mother is like hell to them, you know,

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when they have a guest they like to go and stay with the guests, you know, they're always wishing that she doesn't come.

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And it's very difficult to fix this. It's very difficult to fix it. I'm not saying we should be like negligent No.

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We shouldn't be negligent

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manage of the prophets, Allah Azza Rasul Allah was negligent he taught those those kids that's why they became who they are with that kind of leniency so that Bedouin says, unfortunate but an awful the one who overlooks you come home, you're going to see a lot of things been done and people will keep on

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complaining to you this one Yeah, this one this one did this, this and that.

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As a father, you shouldn't side with anyone. Smile, and look for a solution and compensations and make everyone happy? Yeah, me many people cannot do this. But this is the best overlook, you came to the house and found this is destroyed, that one is destroyed. This one is destroyed. You know.

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Don't make that much comment just related to the color of Allah subhanaw taala and tell them please don't do it again.

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I'm just saying based on my experience, this is what I have learned that leniency bring good to the family and help you to raise a better child who is smart, not dumb. Our kids are very dumb. Sorry to say this, because they do things based on our dictation. Right after they go out of the house. They became others.

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At home, they're very disciplined. But out of the house, there are others. You know, when you die, what happens? The true picture of those ones will will exist. And sometimes if you don't give them the correct tarbiyah you are in the gray. Your account will remain open.

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So honestly speaking, this hadith of the Prophet Allah sama Anna saying that the Prophet saw someone never blamed. We really need it. I don't say don't blame at all. But do it like Rasul Allah is Allah,

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out of 100 mistakes that your child is going to do?

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Focus on one.

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No, it's very difficult, but focus on one. The rest just forget. At home, when they throw something, I will be reminded dolt because I know by experience, you have a child with a cup of water next to him, they like to drink it in an hour.

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Seriously, and when are they going to what is going to what is it going to happen? 99% They're going to spill it

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when the spirit you have reminded them how many times many times what does that mean?

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Yeah, but he shouldn't do that.

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My new one has is I go with them. I don't pay attention. I didn't talk I didn't do anything. I just go with them to clean it. Actually, I will command the others to command key.

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So I don't want to talk about the result and what I get from that. But that's exactly what Rasulullah selasa got

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to get idea, that close relationship and your children will trust you and they love you so much. And they listen and the word will have strong value to them.

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And others were punishing all the time.

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The kids you will see that when they talk. They smile, you know what kind of smile is that?

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Anyway, so please, parents take this Hadees seriously, it's very important. Your kids at home should have freedom, you know, you shouldn't punish them unless if it is necessary, and this necessity inshallah will come after maybe once after 10 years.

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One of the most successful parent is at some of his children. He'd never even show them angry face. And people are telling him why. Sometimes they kiss even his is food when they're looking for

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for his forgiveness, when they did something wrong, they come to him to ask Him to forgive, to that way. And I've seen with my own eyes, which is like this, you can understand the kind of relationship the father and the mother is having with the children. I saw a person will not tell you who this the son did something and he cried so much for almost one hour. And why was that? He was the result of a good relationship because he doesn't want to destroy that relationship. And that father to my knowledge, never smacked the child not even once.

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In the way some people are asking what exactly is going on in the house.

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He told them what happens so following the manager of Rasulullah saw some is the only solution we have, especially in this time of ours. Wallah in Madiba instances if there is any time that we need to follow the man Hodge of Rasulullah. And given Tobia to our kids, wherever we make them the best friend of ours is this time that you have a lot of distraction and entertainment. And out out of the house is stronger than us. You see the school combination of everyone. This is the place where the kids are learning should you shoes, they come to your house. You know they keep quiet you see the most you know Sally home would tuck own you know, but in the school only Allah Santa knows what is

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going on.

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Because you in the in the house, you are trying to take you have how many kids? Two, three, or sometimes one and you're suffering and people are complaining, right? That's why they tell you don't have children because you don't give them terribIe properly. Allah guide them. You should have children, this is what she says. But the mistake we are making is, you know, the first child comes the mother sleeps, the father asleep and the mother sleeps. They don't give him a proper Tobia, right. And they are still a human being they want the next one to come. The next one come the first one is not graduated yet. So now the other two, you know, two of them. And the third one will come

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down three and none of them was given a proper childcare by the mother and the father because you are still sleeping. But believe me, my dear brothers, sisters, if the mother is smart, when the first child comes, she becomes very serious with him. And she take care of him. When I say very serious not to become a monster. I mean, serious and given him telling me how to blinking closer to her and educating him in a nice way. Believe me, when the second one comes her job is going to be very low. And by the time she has three kids, they are going to support her in giving Tarbiat to the child number four, she will reach a time believe it or not, whereby she sleeps and the house is

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educating the the younger ones. Most of the job will be done by her so she can have 1015 or whatever she has, and those Western criminals will not come and tell her about family friendly planning right?

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Allah subhanaw taala grantors Tofik This is a very important and big topic. But please, please My dear brothers, sisters, those of you who are having children, please adopt this message of making your children the best friend not to let them do everything whether it's right or wrong. No, they should know that Islam shouldn't be violated in your house.

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You should show your angry face when Islam is being touched but at the same time, open a room of discussion because what is going on my child takes for me that this is what Allah Sparta wants and this is what Allah hate. And they stay away from it not because Allah doesn't like it. But because I didn't like it. And this is very dangerous. Yeah, it should train them in the way they will be stopping the thing because Allah hates it.

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That's why when you shout you must make sure that yes, there is no any other way except shouting and keep your child next to you and your daughter next you talk to him like your friend, don't you think is good to obey Allah smarter?

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Do you think this is not good? Look at this, look at that. I just want you to succeed you know, who should you feel fear? Allah subhanaw taala or me? He will say Allah. If you do something because of me you are committing Sure Can you last anymore? Talk to him in a nice way, you know, respect and talk to him a nice way. And at the same time, don't get angry, give him something give some gifts to Him. Slowly, slowly, this fear of Allah Sparta is going to be placed in the heart and they will be stopping things because Allah hated not because the parent apparently.

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So be the front of your children already know, be the front of your children. Don't you ever take them away? Otherwise friends will take them. The environment is going to take them to school is going to take them and they trust them more than the way they trust the house because you have nothing in your house except fighting and rejection of their needs.

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When you go to the shop, what do we actually do? Your daughter or your child raised something they want to buy it tell them what

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they touch and alone? No.

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They touch and alone. No.

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Everything they touch no.

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You became the new guy, right? And then at the end of the day, they will not ask they will keep keep quiet. Seriously, you see them keeping quiet. If somebody asked him, Why don't you want something? They'll say, Yeah, because we know the answer is, is no.

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Why you say no. Because if you open the platform for your daughters and your son's, what happens?

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The bank is going to be empty.

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So you're trying to save money? Do they understand this concept? No.

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Somebody told his child you have to know that money has value. He said yes. You know that because your father was poor. But me my father is rich when he wants me to suffer?

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Because he said the truth. Yes.

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Those were when the father was there, his father, the grandfather was very poor. They have no food to eat. So he knows how valuable is the money. But you from day one, they have been getting everything they want. And you want him to understand the value of the money in your own way. There is always a better way to let him understand the value of money but not in the way we are doing. So honestly speaking, what is the best way when I go to the shop with my kids? What is the best way to make it?

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No, even restricted load. But I agree with Scarlett restrict them. But in another way, in a very smart way.

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My dear daughter, you have a budget of 100 and get this is wondering it and close your eyes letter going on. Hello, I see this, I found is so interesting. It's very funny. I mean, even even the you know the little one, the little one I have a little daughter, I will not mention her name. Oh Allah is down she goes.

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So when he takes this, the mother asked her one day, why not? She said it looks so expensive.

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When they're taken from the bank of the Father, I just come and see the basket is fully you know,

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but now since they have their own money, everyone is managing because they don't want to cross that line. That's the smartest way but not many, many people understand this when you give it to them if they finish it. They will not blame blame anyone rather than everything they show you. You tell them. You tell them no. So unless you're gonna Malik said, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam and never told me no, whenever I did something, he never tell me. Why did you do it? Or why didn't you do it? What kind of Toby is this? That's why they speak the truth. They don't get scared of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam when he asked him for something, tell him what happened. Exactly. Do

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this with your children, believe me, they will be truthful. And they will be honest all the time. So he says also, if somebody from the house tell me as usual.

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Of course their mothers will not accept the the child's toy and this and that, you know, she needs to have a lot of patience. When they blame if they are not blessed with the absence of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. You know if your solar cells always there and they blame he will tell them know why he blamed him. Talae Imagine your child listening to this. He will tell you Yes. Thank you.

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So let's tell them why do you blame him? Mark could derive Akun whatever last mantra decreed will happen.

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But then forget as soon as someone give them the whole concept right? Otherwise tomorrow they will smack things and tell you Marco Dara, you're cool.

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With the process I'm gonna teach them the Akita correctly. They will not do it intentionally. But when it happened, you know unintentional the profits or somebody has held assistance at home. Don't blame him, because whatever loss might have decreed what happened.

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It's a clear mark on the record and a set I have never touched something

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hairy, you know silk, the pure one is very soft, you know, he said I have never touched hurried that is softer than the hand of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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So Allah says when Nick Allah, Allah, who look in the eye, and he died, they couldn't understand. They said Ankara and

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imagine a person doesn't recognize himself. Sometimes you don't know what exactly is going wrong with you, you know? They said, uncover now would you wanna come on?

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He could understand. The kids, the sisters in everyone. They know that the man is dead.

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From every dimension, you will never see somebody like rasuna salsola Maori, even hacking my tsunami in the companion shouted at him. He even tell them in the prayer. What's wrong with you? Worthless

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in the prayer he talks but when he meets a promise a lot of summer he thought as soon as Allah sama is going to be very harsh if this is the reaction of the companions, what will be the lead or be the reaction of the leader no but Subhanallah the way he went to profess Allah sama smile team and he kept asking him to cool down relax. You told him

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this this is the prayer it can it cannot talk it is this hardcore animals. So he was so happy with the way the premises are somebody's teaching him he says ma two more halimun cup two cups of water by the humanism. He said I have never seen a teacher like Muhammad Allah Azza Madani wala God and you won't shatter money, you have to mention it. And what happens after that he was

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I mean relaxed and he relaxed so much. In a way he started sharing with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam what is going on in his own community? Why do we detach ourselves from sharing our

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issues and affairs with this with the scholars? Because we don't get any room to come closer to them? Sometimes even their salaam when you say to some of them they don't reply because they are busy. Who is that person who is busy? So Allah or buddy of some Isola someone never pass a person without saying to them when they say salaam to him, he replied. Not only that Rasulullah saw Osama sit with children and say salaam to them and make jokes with them.

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Nowadays, we have no time for this. We're very busy. I don't know how is it possible that a person doesn't have time to reply salaam

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spouses would like to say what to say about the attitude and the manners of Rasulullah Salah sama is is a lot to Allah subhanaw taala says, we're in Nicola Allah, who loci of him. He says you are upon the best of the manners and I shouted Allahu anha said, kind of hung up on the visa lottery, cinema and Quran. So inshallah in the next class B in the next session, we will be dealing with the saying of Allah subhanaw taala for set to zero, where you will see

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Slavonic market Allah

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gave you a discount last time when I took back my discount

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Lolly Well, Alex.

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First question is why

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we lost, trust me mentioned that is taking place between the parents and the children? What are some steps we can take to rebuild that trust and communication now that the children have become adults?

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As a father and a mother,

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let me hide who talks too much to the children.

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As a father and the mother, reduce the amount of your complaint and blame? No, it's very difficult.

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You know, intentionally I talk about the children nature nature, right? It has the Mercy of Allah has monitored that I know that there is something wrong with my child when I don't see him jumping in the house.

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Yeah, because especially at the early age, they don't talk and tell you their problems. How do I know he has problem when I see him shouting in the house jump in, you know, jumping on things jumping on you, you know, has been things are nice with him. And he's healthy.

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So reduce the blame in the house.

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Reduce the blame, don't you ever blame your child unless, if he did something which you can keep quiet. And even that one, I know it's very difficult for some of the parent, sisters and brothers to adopt this. But even that one Don't talk too much.

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As the parents who are given terribly accurate kids, sometimes when she or he is blaming the child, they will be repeating the same thing.

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I told you last time, don't do this, you know, last time when you were doing this and I told you don't do it. And you also do it that someone I tell didn't do it. And I don't know why did he do it after I tell you don't do it? You know, they will keep on repeating the same thing in different words, you know, for many times.

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So when you happen to talk first don't talk too much. But when you happen to talk, just a few words. This is wrong. I hope you take lesson. Yes. I'm very sorry. Apology accepted. Come hug. I know with some talent, this is like putting fire on him. He destroyed my things and I hug him. What is this?

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They will let their hand hug him right

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in the wrong way. But this is the best way for somebody who is looking at best, you know, way to bring the kids closer to to them. Don't complain that much. Don't blame you know that much. Always show them respect, you know?

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And when they talk to you sometimes they're talking

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useless and rubbish and you know this is very rubbish go

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Wallah at home that the youngest one will come will tell me Can I leave what I'm doing

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what are they going to show? They have their toys cake toy Cake Cake yeah something food which are all toys we prepared food for you can you eat here why not to then this food to you what is that you know there was mention that there was a Abby's line but

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but show respect it that's what they will respect your word this is what they believe in they will go and do some experiment they will come and tell you you see you see you look at it you smile

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but to them it's everything and this is the achievement to them that's so great. You know sometimes I use my phone I tell the owner that we have to take picture of this because it should be captured as a good thing you know? Can we do it? Yeah, why not? Capture the thing you know? Show them respect it don't blame and whenever they do something they invite you you go this is what a solar cell awesome I used to do they say the system will come you know although she has some problem you know and would catch the hand of the process I'm gonna take him to wherever they want to them will come to the Prophet saw someone pray with him any and play with him. And he is he is praying at that

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moment. And he will never get annoyed

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he will let them finish first until they're satisfied they go the lie and they tell me which houses like this.

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What do you hear in the house is mostly is dot dot dot dot dot you know?

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So you become a monster in your house whenever you come to the house. Somebody told his parents why whenever you come we get annoyed. Everyone has to sit down and and relax. You know nobody's doing anything.

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Is that a good question? Very good question. You know very good question. Carly's very sorry. Very good question.

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It shouldn't be like that Allah has seriously shouldn't be like that. You should be a person whose life doesn't change when he comes back home

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yeah, that's a good parent. When you are around life doesn't change.

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When you are around your child doesn't be extra ordinary you know careful. They act as children.

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You just monitor them where there is a need to correct this correct.

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Show them what to do and show them what not to do. And just watch then you see the Apple will be developed. Otherwise they will be dumb as I said, you have to tell them what to do every single thing you have to tell them what to what to do.

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The hadith of Missouri she says OMG

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in the Hello

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yeah okay hamdullah here

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is Harrison Missouri and she has memorized that hadith although it's long but it's so funny you know? She says oh gee in duckula forehead when courage acid Wallah yes

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she said my husband when he gets inside the house is like fat what is five the cheetah it says sleeps so much that means it closes an eye and overlooks a lot so because she knows especially in the past people will think this is this is so weak what kind of precedence This is is that even a man you know but she quickly fix it she had this is his life with his family very soft and gentle and relief

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when hydrogen acid but if he goes out he's like acid like lion Don't you ever think that he's covered you know what I said our mind you don't come back and tell his wife how come this thing you know is moved I remember that I put something here but now it is not here. How come who moved it who take this who take that they'll do that

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some parents are experts before they reach the house they

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they press the horns so that everyone will know that the monster the gin is coming. Yeah, they move their shoes they knock on the door in the harsh way How come nobody comes on open and he has the key you know

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so do that be this is a Manhattan masala sauce. So I guess the question of coda is been answered indirectly so be the friend of your children. You can always fix it. You know, he used to be a monster but just fix it. Just fix it, how to fix it. Just bring them closer to you and reduce your commands in the house and reduce your blames in the house. Bring them closer to you. Talk to them. Smile to them. Let them share their stories you know, and respect your perspective. Believe me, you will enjoy life with your kids. Allah grant us good luck.

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in this class we mentioned about drinking water at the end. So is that a scenario at that?

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Time said even long time said Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam never ate food and drank water after that.

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We talked about the health benefits in that that you should wait a bit when you don't drink

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with the food itself or before, after eating, you wait a bit first and then drink the water. That he says Not everyone can tolerate this and that's true.

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Not everyone can tolerate this. So you drink with the with the food. Or you wait a bit and then drink

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the water if a person can do that, or if not go with your system, the way your body can tolerate.

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I like going to school unless there is water today.

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One last question.

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So the question is when a mother

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gives her daughter gold for her wedding,

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after after divorce, if you just hold

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on based on that.

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The owner of the gold

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this gold is is for that. The daughter right?

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She came back home after divorce. And law protect in the daughter now is at home. Why? Because of the divorce right? The gold is hugging her gold whether she is with the husband sheets or with the husband it remains hers. If the mother wants to own the gold, she has to have first I want to go to the doctor she gave her

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how much? Yeah, this kind of gold is 85 grams of gold, the pure gold.

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The pupils that is the way they do the calculation.

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To understand how much gold you have, you know is in this current system right now.

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The last one I got is the

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is a Pakistani

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way of counting. I never heard talam Talanoa.

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I forgot I'm with the expert here.

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Yeah, so Tola, right? Yeah. So

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I had to call Sal man to tell me how to do

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so that there is a way to tell you the pure gold How much is that? So the focus is on the gold itself? If you have gold that reaches 85 grams, then the cat is watching upon you, which is 2.5%.

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It doesn't matter? It's very good question because many people think if I don't work, I have my saving, but I don't have any source of income. Do I still pay this account,

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you have to pay as long as that money remains for one year and it reached the prescribed amount you have to keep in this account until it reaches the time where the car cannot be paid. Meaning it goes below that the prescribed amount.

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That's why you should always invest

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so that the cow will not eat the whole thing. But

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not having a source of income doesn't affect

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a person has to pay. The same goes to the person who owes us money.

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But he did not pay. And then when there's a car comes he said no I have to pay some debt. It doesn't work he has to pay there's a car

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loan doesn't cancel Chicago, if I want to pay and I'm serious I should pay before the time of this account. But we don't do but easily two people saying but I have loan on my shoulder. I have to sit on that one first. No, you have to pay this account for the whole amount and then deal with the loan.

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After that, you cannot take out the loan first and then pay this account for the balance it doesn't work you have to pay this account on the money

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as I mean as a whole then whatever remains you

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you go and pay the loan and they don't do actually they will keep on delay. When there's accounts they will say we have

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it that's clear

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no more question.

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Okay, thank you very much in Alaska Mahara grantee good and Tofik and be with you wherever you are in the hood ecology meaning caffeine Subhanak la Morbihan dica Chateau La Land a Stanford about to be like Santa Monica Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh