71 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu


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The speakers discuss the need for people to be more aware of the negative consequences of social anxiety and the importance of acknowledging and addressing it. They suggest that people should not be afraid to speak out and being open-minded in order to protect their privacy and well-being. They also emphasize the need for individuals to be more aware of the negative consequences of social anxiety.

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to see the Dasha missionary, the hedger and for Romeo with nonverbal and worthley.

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a sudden loss of a hotel and you buy the coffee now humanitaire lemahieu.

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As usual, Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah, we managed to come back. And we thank Allah subhanaw taala for granting us this opportunity to live

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a longer time, because nobody knows what will happen, especially in the middle of this pandemic, may Allah subhanaw taala protect and grant us long life in righteousness, and Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah also, we managed to see the time we come back to this because sometimes, once you have a break, initiating the dance, once again is not easy. So this is really, really, really blessing from Allah subhanaw taala that we see the time that we are back hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah so my advice to all of us is to exercise patience. Please maximize your patience in the way you are. Try your best do not miss a class. These are the best moment that you have in your life. I'm not talking

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about my class, I'm talking about a class any class that you go and you have an increase in Iman and knowledge about Allah subhanaw taala these are the best moment you have in your life. Any

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Michelle, you're gonna call us such as she and matar and others, they used to tell us that one word you learn, you know, for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala is far greater than whatsoever you find in this dunya and, and, and the dunya itself.

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So these are the moments you will remember when you move back to Allah subhanho wa taala. And as such, I really urge you to be patient, exercise your patient, exercise, I mean, maximize your patience, and do not miss a class or less if it is necessary for something that you cannot avoid. give priority to any Islamic class you are attending, be very dedicated to it, and try to revise whatever you are learning from time to time. This is how we generate knowledge and we keep it you know, intact. So I really urge you advise you out of love for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala for all of you. May Allah subhanaw taala make you among those whom he loves, I really advise you to fix

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your intention to make whatever you are doing for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala and to dedicate your time for the sake of the knowledge and don't look for anything except that which Allah smart Allah has, which is His pleasure in this life and also in the hereafter. So let's maximize our patients, and also observe the same manners if not better than what we have been doing, you know, in previous classes Hamdulillah we are doing a lot you know, we almost half of the book, that's really a success, you know, that's really a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala and a success. But alas, my hotel accepted from

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those who propose to have the book, whether they're here with us, oh, they have something which

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I mean, divert the attention to lead. But whatever the case might be in the last month I reward them and all of us and put whatever we have been doing in the middle of your hasnat. There's a very long journey. I take it our journey, you know, until we we live this life knowledge has no end. The moment you tell yourself that you will reach the peak of knowledge, then you're you're gone. It will smell like knowledge has no end. So we're going to have keep on having this journey in sha Allah throughout your life until we meet Allah subhanaw taala we finish a book we go to another one. And then we go in sha Allah, people liked Allah as long as we live, we should take our wish, take

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knowledge, it's our hobby, you know? Allah subhanaw taala accepted from us and make us reliable scholars who the OMA of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam o will be proud of having a shout out a lot of you common ask Allah subhanaw taala to show us the time whereby we will have a face to face class. I really miss those words but inshallah soon we'll get rid of this

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A pandemic and come back to normal life in sha Allah azza wa jal Kay, let's move to both both as he or she

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is still talking about the battle, and the jihad between human beings and shepherd, between Muslims in particular, and shepherd, what exactly Shepherd is using as a weapon to make sure that he,

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I mean, a defeat, you know, a human being, you know, and defeat his Iman. So he's utilizing all of those forgot, forgot, we call them these are the the areas the angles where a person could be attacked by the enemy. And we have the eyes, we have the ears, we have the, what we call that the tongue, you know, we talk about all of these and we have the Jawara the year, you know, we have the leg, all of these things, we have the heart, you know, all of these, they are they are serving and allow us to make them as Giroud army to protect the heart, you know, these are the angles and the root and the path to the heart. So shaytan is trying to defeat you know, a human being in those

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areas, because if he managed to remove the security that allows me to place in those play areas, then the heart is going to be attacked, that those things that are surrounding the heartbeat might not be able to protect the heart you know, so you need those harassed you know, security and the army to be maintaining that position. You get it so even law came talk about the I talk about that, the what they call the ears, and now he's talking about, about the tongue. You know, now he's talking about the tongue.

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So, he says, possible. And this chapter is a new chapter that we'll be discussing how to listen, Alan Kalani and Mohammed will be discussing their protection the importance of the protection of the tongue from saying that which Allah subhanaw taala does not does not like

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can't go do something and then it can't can't.

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If your system is going and you can just go do something, the later on, you can

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story, drama and everyone.

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So he says, heavily sonalika me feel Mohammed, the protection of the tongue from engaging in saying things which Allah subhanaw taala doesn't like weather. I mean, they are fascia. They're just normal things with their shake whatsoever. As long as it lasts for hotel and make it in permissible and prohibited. You have to protect your tongue from engaging, you know, insane things which Allah subhanaw taala detest

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Parlophone female como Alessandra, listen, I know several of them who are Kybella to Al Malik.

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And if you mean of Colombian Mildura, who well I am one and yada yada he che on Minmei over. So then Chapin will emphasize when he's talking to his his workers, you know, to his June geonode Peace army. It says you must make sure that you maintain your position next to the tongue. And you must make sure that you don't let anything that is beneficial reach the tongue. Don't let him say anything that will benefit him and always influence him and push him to engage in saying things which are not beneficial to him. Somehow, one minute or one engineer Allah He showed me my invite a woman Nicola, he was thick funny, don't let him remember last week I wrote Allah And subhanAllah how

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many times you sit down doing nothing.

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And as Imam Shafi sharpy says forever at an armory time she Subhan Allah, smart Allah, definitely, it's a great loss, that sometimes you just sit down doing nothing. You neither do something of the dunya and you're not doing something of the akhirah you know, that's really a great loss. So all of these are from Shaytaan you know, all of these are from shepaug. We let chip on comes on, dominate the tongue so it makes it so heavy for you to mention the Likud. Otherwise, how light it is, you know, to say those are the car. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said this in this hadith which he completed his book with Kenny Mitanni.

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Very beautiful conclusion of the book can be metallic coffee for that. He also concluded his book with a hadith that talks about the legal judgment and also the head

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Is that protects you from being into trouble when you meet a loss manager which is to maintain I've got it is Kelly metallic coffee for that there are two words which are so light. Can you protect Alison Hubby, the attorney in Manhattan attorney Phil Meezan they are very loved to Allah smart Allah Samantha really loves them so much they're so light on the tongue. And Allah azza wa jal really loves them so much with Akela Tannehill means that, you know, subhanAllah they have all the qualities, you know, of, I mean, the good qualities, you know, and the virtues, first of all, they are so light,

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very simple, were to be said, and second of all, they're very heavy on the knees. That's what you need, actually, on the Day of Judgment, you know, you need these things which they might seem to be small, but they have a strong you know, weighed you know, they're so heavy in the way you know, they will

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push the side of the righteousness when you meet Allah subhanaw taala on the scale so that you can pass the test you know, you need that those ones you know, he cannot complete everything last month that I asked you to do so you need those things which seems to be so light, but so heavy in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala and also on Amazon on the Day of Judgment meeting, so it says calibre tiny coffee but Annalisa subpoena Jonathan, Misa although they're very light on the tongue, but they are so heavy on the Mi Nisa. And on top of our Allah subhanaw taala really love Allah really loves them so much. That's why he says, have you beaten in? What are these words? He says Subhan Allah he will

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be Hamdi Subhana Allah.

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How many seconds I wish you were counted. Subhan Allah who were handy, so Hannah, to 30 seconds to 30 seconds. And you get this love from Allah subhanaw taala even if you say it sincerely, you might receive this love from Allah subhanaw taala because you are doing things which he loves. And if you say it out of love, you know,

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Allah subhanaw taala even the light Allah will grant you what you're looking for. That person who was reciting Quran Allah had in every

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every regard of his prayer when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked him, what was he doing that polyandrous would have liked it and how house Sefa to Rama.

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He says Yasu Allah because it is the CIFA of Allah subhanho wa Taala and I really love to read to read something about the CEPA philosophy. He says yes, we love because it discusses the attributes of Allah and I really love to see myself talking about Allah subhanaw taala and reciting something which these were the attributes of Allah subhana wa Tada. That's what he's doing. And guess what Allah smart Allah gave him a lot smarter loves him because of that. He got the love from Allah subhanho wa Taala because because of that, promise, just memorize what you can

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complete the page. Please don't come back again. Okay.

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So so so so Allah Subhana Allah loves him because of that. So that's why I said, if you are also to say those are the card which Allah Subhana Allah loves, out of the love from for Allah subhanho wa Taala you may receive that one in the lions ocean.

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So they are so light, but unfortunately you might find as I said, a person sitting down doing nothing. You know how many times you can say how many times we can say subhanallah we have these 100 likes.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said was Subhan Allah, Allah Subhan Allah He Tim lo mobbin is something you know

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how Tim loves summer? Oh, come on, pardon me Salah Lisa, he said Subhanallah it feels the heavens no Subhanallah will be humbled. He said it feels the heavens and the earth.

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A lot. He's talking about a reward of those two worlds, you know, is something that feels the heavens and the earth.

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What a prison is waiting for How's it possible for you to sit down to nothing?

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So that's the reason why this caller said lie. alicona lie in the headache if you see somebody who lost in the sight of Allah subhanaw taala definitely this person is the real loser is a loser, lost more to contest. So Szczepan tried to deprive you from making the vicar remembering Allah subhanaw taala in all of your problems, and try to stop you from doing this thing far. Nowadays, you have people who are justifying that sin they're committed.

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And my dear brothers sisters will likely take this from me is a great blessing from Allah subhanho wa Taala for you to realize that you're committing said and you reflect that that's really a blessing from

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because once that sense is taken away from you, then the person is gone.

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There is a minimum from Allah subhanaw taala for you to worry when you commit sin

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because that push you to go and repent to Allah subhanaw taala but you have some people they don't worry, you have some people who justify the commission of the sin. And you have some people who not just justifying but they're happy with the Commission of the sale in New Jersey when he was talking about this, it is one of the worst type of life you know, you know, one of the worst ever things to receive in this life is a loss Maha Rotella to make you desensitize your committed sin, you don't have the feeling that you're going in the wrong direction. That's really he said, that is one of the worst type of punishment, because committing sin is a punishment from Allah subhanaw taala, one of

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the worst ever punishments is to have Allah smarter making it in the way you don't even realize that you're going in the wrong direction.

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And he said, the one that is on top of that is somebody who is happy with the Commission of the sale. He said somebody who is happy with the punishment, Allah is punishing him, but he's happy with that.

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He said kilomole Robbie, like somebody who is taking Riba and he's happy with that. Is okay. And you have they have a so called sheet advisor, advisors, you know, who would tell them that? Yes, you know, I heard somebody saying that, actually, the reason why Muslims are backward is because they don't accept interest. That's why they're backward Subhanallah I don't know what kind of Sharia this person learned, if he's even a scholar at the first place, you know, I don't know what is what is he learning, but you can see what I have been saying that the worst type of entities on Earth is a scholar when he when he became corrupt, when he became corrupt, He's worse than any other entity,

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when you have a scholar becoming corrupt out of the villa, Villa villa, they are the one who will justify what anybody is doing and tell them go ahead. You know, whether these people are authorities because they will rely upon them and he will tell them what what what he what he knows that I mean pleases them although he knows that Allah smarter does a lie he will tell them this and the community also human misguide. You know he will miss guide and people already believe that he's a scholar and he's qualified to be speaking you know about these matters, you know, people trust him and take from him well live in a very contaminated you know, you know, time the time is okay, it's

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out of you know, it's not bad, but environment, you know, subhanAllah the situation we're living in, the person has to really, really, really be careful and be extra cautious. Okay, last one are Tiller grant is good and protect our our ima. So, you have some people who will be taking the river, you have some people who will be committing sin, but they have all kinds of justifications, you know, for their sins, they will do and if you ask them, they will tell you that they will give you justification. Coaching is you know, caught and had it's very simple, you know, to deceive. As I mentioned in the last class, he says Dr. Phil Kamakura last martela call that kind of statement, you

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know, they beautify the making in the way people will definitely accept it.

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May Allah subhanaw taala guarantee is good and tofi and protect all of us. So He said there will stop him from mechanistic var instead of repenting to Allah subhanaw taala because one of the good things about, about about everything about Islam is good. Everything about Islam is good. One of the uniqueness of Islam is that you are always welcome and you will never be late. Allah just wants you to repent. Then what to how much you go too far. And it's nothing called you cannot come back to Allah. If Allah accept those people whom he said they curse him. You know the Christian when they say Allah has a child, Allah says the person did very, I mean, they're very hard you know, and but

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insult which the heavens and the earth they're almost going to collapse when they hear the first human being saying that Allah's mantra has a child. You know, that class vortices, the heavens and the earth, they're almost going to move from their position, out of the fear of what will happen when somebody uttered the word that I lost, Martin has a child, but still these ones are lost when I told them a fella to when a lion was thinking well, why can't they come back to Allah subhanaw taala and repent. He talks to them with a very simple tone, and let advising them to come back he will accept them. So if Allah is mortal, accept as somebody who is insulting him somebody who is cursing

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him, what do you think about a normal sin, but shape and shape on you know,

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promise and he will never let human beings succeed? So what does he do? He will go and make this car very heavy on your tongue. It's not easy for a person to open his mouth and say a stag ferula

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what Tilawat Tiki Tabby and reciting the book of Allah subhanaw taala. We take years it take longer time without reading the Quran. Quran just knows you in the prayer.

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All of these are from Shaytaan you know

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All of these are from Chevron.

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Want to say hi to everybody and they will always try to get a person convinced that if somebody's giving him the say Ha, you will tell them they're getting into affairs, personal matters. These are my choice and my freedom. You know why you talk about that?

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You know, Abel came as if he's leaving with us because my dear brother and sisters life is the same thing. You know, the same thing. Human beings are just the same. It just time ain't changing. If you go to their life, you could deep inside and see what people are doing. You have a lot of similar similarities. type of civilization might differ but the mentality is still still the same. Watching our ticket, want to see how to embody what the consumable element Nafi whenever you decided to talk about something which is beneficial knowledge that benefit that will deprive you

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you know, smart Allah know how many times a person goes and study something which is not going to benefit his dunya and it does not benefit him.

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But instead he thinks he's doing justice to himself. Where kulula confy has a family I'm Ronnie albumin lottery winner big Hema refer to shaytan will tell his people and his army if you do that, if you try to control the tongue, you will get two things which are so great.

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Number one, you will get that person engaged in a typical little bit Bobby

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always been involved in saying that which is falsehood,

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engaging in speaking in a bad way, for in the Muhtar Kent Lima Bill Barbieri, our home in equality equal women, Belgian de como como villa, because the one who is speaking, saying bad things which are against Allah subhanaw taala is a brother of shape and shape I understand in his army, if you convince a person to be speaking in a wrong way, this person is your partner, and this person is going to be your real brother. And this is your real supporter from amongst the human being.

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So the first thing you will get if you control the tongue is either you influenced that person to speak in a wrong way to say the wrong thing to say bad things, or a secure channel, or he will keep silent, it will keep silent when it comes to the saying the truth. You will never say the truth, you will see something that he needs to speak about it and he needs to fix it. But he will not say anything. We just like to happen in the Secretariat how often occurs? Because the one who keeps quiet, you know, he knows the truth, but he doesn't say it is

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what do you call that across the one that doesn't speak them.

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Mute you know, a mute shape on mute devil shape on across, you know.

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That's why they say a socket, a socket, unhappy shape.

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You see the truth. And you don't want to speak the truth. And you know the truth and people need it by either speaking about it, you know, people go straight, you are a silent devil. That's how they used to describe the person who seeds the truth and he has the capacity to speak, you know, but the truth, and this and he's on the authority to talk about the truth, you know, but he doesn't want to say it and he let people go astray. This is a silent devil. So sharepad is telling these people try control the tongue because if you do control the tongue, a person will be one of the two people either a person who is speaking bad things, saying bad things all the time, or keeping quiet when

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things are going in the wrong direction. And he has the capacity and authority to fix it. But he will never do that.

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Oh, well. Aquila can nothing so the first one is the speaking ship. And the second one is a silent ship. And it's

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audible allow Allah sometimes when you when you mix with people, and you see the nature of people nowadays, you know, as if it will came with just looking at people telling you this is this

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what Obama cannot come in, you see, a person will be a tangible 18 He's selling his Dean trying to please others, you know, what I'm looking for? Is duniya you and that person you will be going back to Allah subhanaw taala. For what? For accountability.

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What Obama kind of authentic amfa That's why the Kamala Khan, it's a panel will tell them sometimes actually, the second one, the silence ship on is more beneficial for you because when he keeps quiet, people will understand acceptance. People understand acceptance, and especially from the student of knowledge, you know, especially from the student of knowledge.

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It's very dangerous, very, very dangerous, very dangerous, you know, people are monitoring what you're doing, what you're doing, they're going to become they are going to become you know us

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source of information, you

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know, then, and every everyone, the moment you get yourself into this study, you know, you're like that. I remember, you know, I told some of you, that was one one brother, he graduated from Medina actually, he was one of our juniors. He visited my house, and he found something in the house, you know, when he saw it, he told me that I used to have doubt whether it is halal or not. But then today, when I see it in your house, then the doubt was gone as you Subhanallah you know, this man, if he sees something I do, and he go and take it and do it, and if this is incorrect, Allah is going to bring me in question me about that, you know,

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I was in, in a place, you know, a group of students were waiting.

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So I was there, everyone is that. So I have to be there

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is a walk in place long ago.

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Right after the event taking place. Somebody asked because they know, my position, whenever these things that happened in I isolate myself, I went away. I was trapped in that place. No way to write after the event. Okay, I did not participate in it. But was there Subhanallah a group of students, okay, so I mean, stars, were just waiting to see what you were going to do.

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We're just waiting to do what? To see what you're going to we're waiting to see what you're going to do,

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then we will understand whether it is right or wrong.

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So I realized that yes, what this call is have been mentioning that there are things which might be halal, you know, for a normal person, but, you know, once you are a student of knowledge, you know, I'm talking about a student, you are a chef, a student of knowledge, or whatever, as long as people look at you, as somebody who is studying, you have to really be careful in your actions, to really be careful because people are imitating you and Allah is going to hold you responsible of all of these things.

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That's why Muhammad when he's in that in that manner, you know, somebody came to me when he told him, he said, Why can't you just tell them Quran is my clue, you know? Why can't you just tell them Quran is bucklew

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and this is what nowadays we can do you know, subhanAllah why can't we you will be trapped people invite you to do something which you know, it goes against your religion, you know, it is against the law. So what can you tell them? Yes, and you got to do for what you know,

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for what, you know, what are they going to you're waiting for them to be pleased with what you're doing.

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That will never happen like that never happened in the past, they were not like this. Once they hold upon that which they believe in, they keep it

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they keep it

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they will never change.

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Recently somebody was telling me he cannot do something without mentioning that you know me and last one tenant protections from innovation is absolutely innovation.

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And I didn't know who gave that person hotbar to come on, think of somebody to come and do it you know.

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And it was so painful you know to have some people that you have husband of running them they are the one who will tell you just go

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pay the one who will tell you

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is really painful to see somebody who you have personally been in him in terms of following the correct method of Mohamed Salah is Solomon staying away from things which are wrong, but then you see how much they become so lenient, you know the submitted completely. Yeah, the one who will advise you to, to go.

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We have been in this from time to time. So we need to learn from the previous callers that once you know that this is against the religion of Allah subhanaw taala you don't force somebody to take it, but you between you and last matter you must make sure that you show strong, you don't compromise you don't tolerate you just stay away. You don't force him whoever is going to choose let him go and choose that's between him and Alas, Mahara.

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That's between him and the last 100 data. almost 15 years ago somebody was asking me he's still alive in the classroom you know, he's want us to do something wrong, you know? So he asked me why don't you and why whenever I decide this you know you you get annoyed you know?

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I still remember this.

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I told him in the in the classroom. Yes, because you know, I don't have an answer when I meet a lot smarter What would I say to him?

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What would I say to him? But you guys it looks like you do have

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doesn't say it was a very strong thing on his head. You know, I said it looks like you guys you're okay with it. You have you know, and that's why you don't worry but me it

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I still find it so difficult because I don't have any explanation. And so Hanalei worked with him apologize and up to the time that semester was closed, he never did it again. He works. So sometimes you just have to voice out in a nice way use wisdom and tell person who you are and what kind of medical

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restrictions you have, they will understand that sometimes Subhanallah you will not do any we just submission out of

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trying to protect somebody else's feeding by selling, you know, your righteousness and your closeness to Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, which nobody can bring it back once you lost that one, you know, accepted the Mercy of Allah Subhan Allah if Allah has monitor decided to accept you, again. Say Muhammad, you know, was told by even if you do it, why can't you just tell them what they want, so that they can take you out of jail?

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smartlight you know, what do you did? Your mama told him, just look, look, look out of the jail, then what do you see that he sees 10s of students, if not hundreds of them, each and every one of them was, was holding a pen, you know, and his paper was that just watching him I want to see what what happened. Teachers waited for him, you know,

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most likely day and night, the students were there because it's because of his status and his position. They're just waiting for him to say the word. Even Allama told him it's serious once they're just waiting for me to say something they will write it down, it will be written, you know, and people will be narrating this that Imam Muhammad said this and I know it is mapping. I know what some other scholars are doing of the Toria you know, to go out of it, but my situation I think is is different. So we need to learn this, you know, you need to learn this, but you know, is against Allah subhanaw taala you stay away from it. And you apologize to the person who is inviting you to

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go against Allah subhanaw taala Abu Muhammad has a very nice statement here when he says, What about do they believe in our EBIT?

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Da Nica afterall. But then if I didn't know that, so the manifest I'm 64 They are all in other kasarani He said, If somebody invites you to commit innovation, or to commit sin, you know, or somebody invites you to engage in something that is doubtful. It said founded Bedini ik actionable that ran away to protect and protect your religion, even if that can cause you to reach the last part of the Earth, said do that at dinner sulemani First time 60 Please do understand this statement properly, you know, a dino cinema. He said your capital is your religion. The capital in business, right? This is just an example. You know, it's far greater than that. First time sick Lee said hold

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the bullet for the women around them in kasarani. Because losing the deen is the greatest loss that a person can encounter. The most sensitive thing in the life of human beings is religion. She take it as that. If that has anything to compromise, it shouldn't be your religion. If there is anything to compromise, it should not be the relationship between you and Allah subhanho wa Taala for Allah he says Allah knows how to put you in a state of difficulty. Allah knows how to remove the success and the peace from our heart. For Allah we have the money or Kobe, Allah subhanaw taala knows who we are. That's why he says, and Allah, Allah Murphy and physical.

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He says, know that Allah smarter knows that which is in in your heart, and therefore beware of Allah subhanho wa Taala so that's what he gets. He says, What a bummer kind of advice why?

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Lacan, you know, the second person you know, you have two things when you control the tongue, either you make him speak in a wrong way, or you make him keep silent when there is something to be said he needs to speak but he doesn't. You know, all that he has to do is to use the wisdom but he does so one of two things. He says the perhaps the second one might be might be better for you the one who keeps quiet when there is a need for him to talk but he keeps it keeps quiet.

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Amongst me Tim Colin now say hello moto Kelim, Bilbao Polish chef Andrew Knapik. While was psyche to an unhappy shutdown. So that's what I have just mentioned, the one who is speaking falsehood, you know, this is the devil, the speaking devil, and the one who is keeping silent you know, he doesn't want to speak the truth. They says that devil that is silent for rebuttal, rebuttal. And yet I can never be hacking away from a second or even second bath in it. Chapin will tell his his army. Make sure make sure that you control this tongue. You shouldn't let this person ever speak something that is correct or good. Always influencing and motivating to engage

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In speaking in a wrong way, or use the Kenyan market, don't let him stay away from saying the wrong wrong thing was saying, you know, who can attack a Luma mill battle we call the panic and makes this academy battle we couldn't italic, you know, speaking in the wrong way, make it so beautiful in his eyes

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was what how we flew minute talk a little bit how can be cool italic and always put fear in his heart so that he will not speak the truth. Tell him if you speak the truth, people, today's people that don't say it, And subhanAllah they always do this. They always do this. You don't want to keep narrating stories to you. But I have a lot a lot to share. Because then in this matter, they always do this. If people are going to listen to what others are saying long ago, new data is going to be given on earth not long ago. So what I believe in, is that a day should use the method of the Prophet alayhi salaam, wisdom, knowledge and wisdom and leniency and gentleness. But do not

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compromise and don't give up. And don't worry about the titles being given to you that will give you all types of titles we have heard all that upsets some of the titles they're so funny, you know, you don't even fit that person who is been described by that. But people call him that.

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The Alaska hotel I grant is good for rebuttal. rebuttal. The hardest one?

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Yeah, Bernie Yeah. So they will, they will tell, he will try to influence that person to believe that if he speaks, the truth is going to be into trouble. If you say the truth, you're going to be in trouble.

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And at this place, I will advise my my dear brothers, sisters, you know, wherever can hear this, that there is always a better way to speak the truth. You know, sometimes the problem is, we just want to see whatever comes and this is very wrong.

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We just want to say whatsoever. And this is this is very wrong.

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This is very wrong. You have to think you have to decide when and how, as they say liquidity McCammon mopod. There are some situations whereby you shouldn't go let somebody goes, there are some situations you don't need, you need you to even talk. Silence is more than enough to fix the things even talk save your words

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of wisdom in Dawa is necessary wisdom in Dawa is necessary.

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That's why you have to fix your manners and live with people in a good way. Sometimes you become so harsh, you know, many people you know, they become so harsh, there are some who believes that righteousness necessitate what righteousness necessitate

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angry face and if you are righteous, you have to be angry all the time

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our gestures take you?

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Anyone over. So some of us believe that righteousness necessitate anger. You have to be angry when he meets people will see his face. Very angry, you know all the time. Subhanallah you'll be questioning who does who does what you know.

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If I claim that I'm following Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam is Rasulullah Salah similar like this. It's a very simple question that I asked everyone who thinks he's righteous and his righteousness necessitate his his face to be in an angry mood every single moment.

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There are some people who don't give any room to those people who are in need of doubt.

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No tolerance at all. You know I'm not talking about tolerance of the mass you know, you cannot tolerate Marcia, you don't tolerate.

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you don't tolerate maths, he has no way for a Muslim to tolerate Masia, even things you cannot tolerate them.

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But what I'm talking about the tolerance here is open some space, that that person who is doing wrong thing and going in the wrong direction. You can have some space to give him down. Don't close the door. Whenever you see him you get angry. That's called us Do not say this. They emphasize on this in the guard to somebody who is really criminal, opposing Allah and fighting Allah subhanaw taala and Dawa has been given to him from time to time. These are the ones that we have to cover. If you remember in the depths, we had

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to add up and let me know if you forgot that. But there was a Delos we used to have Coleman Zuma to add up talking about the other you know, he says, Well, I can be watching. Look for hidden neuron buddy.

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He's talking about that person that you already advised him and he doesn't want to listen, you try your best, try your best. These are the ones that when you meet them, sometimes you might change your face, you know, because you have to

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It is best and there is no way for them to get convinced. And they are also inviting others to listen.

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But the vast majority of the people are not like that. So when I talk about the tolerance I'm talking about you opening some space so that you can have those people whom you see them going in the wrong direction and advise them because who knows salaam to them you don't say salaam you don't reply there Salam, you know, when they say Salam to you don't reply, when they give dower to them. When they give power to them. It's like you're just sending a message to them that you just take your path path we I'm going to go to my

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with my path. What do you benefit from that? So always remember the saying of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam Al and Yadi Allah will be Cara Yulin wa hidden, if Allah is one to guide one person because of you, you know, this is better than, you know hundreds of red camels you know, better than the dunya and whatsoever in it. If you have one person be guided, you know, but you and what is the point of sending the messages in the Prophet tell me which Prophet of Allah subhanaw taala was sent to righteous people? Which one which one? Allah is smarter, send them to criminals and evil to us and really worse people frown and Kowloon Hama, and you know, the prophets were directed to them to

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those ones, you know, the Marines, you know, all of those criminals, you know. And those last verses were Korean and painted Valiquette. kathira.

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So it is our job when we live in this place where there are people who are in need of us to engage in the Dawa. Don't be judgmental, don't be so much so quick in your judgment, you know, and rejection of the people, give them data and be patient and given the data, give you an hour and maximize your patients. May Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So please bear the burdens he says let us engage in this our activities is not the job of phyllanthus Allah, it is the job and responsibility of everyone. But as I said, wisdom is needed. Knowledge is needed, and also leading to leniency is needed as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said in the hands of Aisha, and this is

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one of the clearest evidence, you know, that shows that we really really need to pit to pity those Assad, those people who are going in the wrong direction. When did you came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and they said Assam, Allah Carswell Allah

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samadhi means death, poison, you know, don't be open you and they were saying this to who? To rasool Allah, Allah Azza know Muslim can tolerate this, you know, there are so Lysa sama never tolerated this, but as hula is the day he wants those people to accept Islam and to convert and to come back to the truth, you know, so he heard them many times when they come.

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The other time when they came, they found Irish and the place and they still said that they said a very quick way as someone else will have the biller. That's what they were saying to me. It almost a Solomonic, you know, almost look like a Solomonic.

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I Aisha when she heard that she said Wallach Messiah wala Anna to lie What God

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she cursed them.

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Do they deserve that? Yes, they do deserve. She cursed them. Guess what they do sol Sol Sol do nothing. But you can understand that you're dealing with evil. So they came in they said death be upon you instead of a Solomonic and he heard them properly. And I just said, you also death be upon you and May Allah curse you and me the anger of Allah subhanaw taala His wrath be upon you.

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Imagine if somebody in the present in your presence and come and curse your father.

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Read a strong man to tell you be patient, as Islam ask us to control their emotions, but just imagine like this, as well as Allah sama is far greater than all of our parents. I just want you to understand why I couldn't be patient. But patience and replying in other way is greater and better for Islam and for her. That's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, ma Yeah, I show what's wrong with you. Aisha said, jasola Didn't you hear what they said? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? I said, Yes, I heard but Didn't you hear what I said? Hon Allah. He said, Didn't you hear what I said? They said a Somali. And I said, Wow. And YouTube. Very simple. You're gonna

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say what are they gonna sell? You just say wow, like, it means whatever you have asked for me. You also may Allah sponte grant you the same and they know what the prophets Allah someone's talking about. But they will understand that he is so gentle in his what he call response and he saline it that's why the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said in another place mark can reef Kofi che illness and others

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If leniency and softness has never been placed in, in something except will make it beautiful, when you remove it from something, it will make it make it ugly. So please do understand correctly in the dollar you should engage in dialogue should have knowledge if you have wisdom, humanity should have leniency. When I say leniency I don't mean at all to tolerate sin, you know, to tell people in the way we hear nowadays, just accommodate everything right is not like that, though you have to detest it, you have to correct it, you have to change it according to your capability. If you have no authority, you have to fix it by hand. If you don't have authority, but you can speak you have to

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speak about it. If you don't have the authority to speak you have to hate it the minimum you you can do you know between you and Allah is mortal as to hate it, when you cannot speak and you cannot stop it then you hate it.

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You cannot tolerate it you cannot say yeah, we accept like this accommodate everything. You know, he respects the commission of the sin. We didn't do that. We don't respect the commission. We're kind to everyone this is what should they are commanded us to do today kind to support them in whatever they need of the support and to show them the guidance. That's the greatest support, you can grant a non Muslim or a wrongdoer amongst among the Muslim.

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So back to the statement caller ridata the Bata, Karla, Allah Maria bunny, and the Forgotten listening who will let the only can mean who bunny Adam, Allah SubhanAllah. And Chapin will tell them you should know that this angle, the angle the tongue, that the vast majority of the human being they get destroyed because of the tongue.

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What what oh Kibeho Meanwhile, I'm Anna helium, finance and through the tongue, I am putting them on their faces in tight hell.

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And that's why when the prophets of Allah Allah who sell them or talk to them, or eyes, even a chatbot and go and see that hadith in alarm, oh, no, we're very beautiful mention of the prophets, Allah Salama about the principles, and the things that a person should be doing in order to make it to paradise. After he talks about the pillars of Islam, and those principles that are holding the pillars of Islam, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tomorrow, he says, Yamaha Can I guide you to something which is controlling all of these mod said, yes, you're surprised? What will be that thing? Actually. Because these are the greatest things in Islam and the prophets, Allah

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somebody is telling him that is something that control all of these.

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He says, and then the province of summer broke his tongue out, he held it. And then he told him, confer Alec had you held it? And then he said, Can falaka control this one? Make sure you control it. So while I said yes to law, are we going to be responsible of our statements just because of what we see? The prophets Allah Allah Himself has said Feki let's go and look okay, let's go and look at is the dua negative dua, that you know that when the prophets Allah, someone made a negative doctor a person, Allah will turn it into mercy for that person.

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Otherwise people get into trouble you know, so the problem is Allah somewhere because he knows he's human being he said, Yeah, Allah, I'm human, you know, and therefore and I and I, I feel what human beings are feeling and I act in the way human beings act. Yeah, Allah if I curse somebody, why say something bad against somebody who doesn't deserve it? Yeah, Allah I asked you to turn it and mercy for him.

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So that's why you can see in some of the books of Hadith, you will see they will talk about the virtue of of course in but when you look at that, the Hadith coated under that chapter, you will not see Hadees that is that is talking about the virtue you know, like Lashkar Allahu buttonhole for Maria the prophets Allah Azza wa said May Allah Sparta not give him ability to be full in his life

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because he called him or sad and he told the person please tell us tell the Rasul Allah only little left to my fruit to finish you know and then he said the boy again that he told me also that almost that he wants to finish his food

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the Broza lotsa got annoyed, he said lash malaba Allah spoken Nagi give you a chance to to be full in his life. That's called as counted this as a virtue from our way because of that dua, his wife, Sophia, when the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam or to the judge Lesko during the Hajj, whether whether they are happy now they're returning back to their family, the prophets, Allah Azza wa said, Let's go, you know, and then they told him

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Luffy said Fuller, Did she notice that they are referring to the height not any faster in the fast she hide comes

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the prophets, Allah some already made all the preparation to leave. And when they told him this and he knows that the one who is in a state of hide, he cannot go on, he cannot leave the muck he cannot leave Makkah before making that often if all the prophets Allah azza wa jal really annoyed, he says Akura helper had this habit subtler heat

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and Helcom this is a this is a dua dua with evil to happen on a person you know, what is the Accra, Accra and halka This is Accra is like that the sickness and disease that affects a person which will cause a person to die or may Allah smarter center disease to that person which will cause that person to lose all of her hair. Imagine that kind of cancer that comes from some some you know by this is okay, it's not okay to have a cancer but to see above the present amongst the brothers, you know, it's fine but sister gets involved.

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Or some disease may Allah protect protect, which happens to some people, she lost all the hair, Had Allah Allah spoke to the show mercy. So the purpose also means making dua they don't care about this, you know, because the prophets Allah some already say to Allah, Ya Allah, if I make to our dua again, somebody who doesn't deserve it, yeah, Allah turn it as a mercy for him and a blessing for him. So she got the blessing. That's why we are never told that this happened to her, you know, in her life, she got the blessing, you know, instead of having those things but she got the blessing from from from Allah subhanho subhanho wa Taala that's how excellent was Rasulullah sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam with his with his companion because she doesn't deserve it. You know? She doesn't deserve it at all the height when it comes who brought it? She wasn't the one who brought it that was part of part of the nature Allah supporter voted for her but rasool Allah sama he knows that he is, is a human being. That's why he he said, Yeah, Allah whenever I say something bad against somebody, yeah, Allah turn it for him as as well as a mercy.

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So the prophets Allah Azza wa Taala Ma, he said, Feki let's go mk 30. Let's go omocha means May Allah SmarTech cause the mother to lose you to get to good idea. So that's, that's that's the DUA against him. You know, but it turns to be a mercy for for the month because the prophets Allah some already made dua, made that dua so he said, the prophets Allah Ali Salam, WA Cubanas fanatic, Allah Matthew him Illa, Hassan, Al sent it to him, is there anything that is putting people you know, dragging them on their faces inside how that which is more than that, which they are saying with their tongue. So that's mean the vast majority of the things that is take the vast majority of the

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things that are take taking a person to hell, they are the things we say with our with our tongue. That's why shaytan told his people, most of the people amongst the human being get destroyed because of the tank. So closed in shallow this class for today with this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was asked by one of his companions, manager, how can I pass the test in this life? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, to believer mecanizado, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam I said, Success

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is granted to set to that person who controlled his tongue. He gave him three things, which are the basis of the success in this life. He says control your tank.

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The first thing he mentioned to me is a control.

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And the second thing he says Walesa will come to mind your business.

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Some scholar said we should take literally, if you don't need to go out still. If you need to go out, go out, but make sure that you might do affairs. And don't mix with anyone that might invite you to sins or things which are last month and as a like, always focus on yourself, but isn't on itself doesn't mean you shouldn't care about others know, you think about your sins and reflect upon them done, criticize others and accuse others always look at yourself, what did you do in between you are the last one to repent.

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And last and he told him he said what are the attic and make sure that whenever you commit sin, you go back and reflect and repent or last month and cry because of your sins. So these are the three things mentioned by the prophets Allah present to maintain the success in this life. And and you can see the first one mentioned by the prophets Allah Sama, what the tongue to be controlled. How do I control my tongue?

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Right? This hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam mankind youth need to be labeled

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Wherever believes in the last month and the hereafter let him always speak good or keep quiet. If you believe in the last month and the hereafter if you try you

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Best whenever you open your mouth say something that is good or keep quiet Allah smart Allah grant is good we continue Shala in the next class baraclough FICO has moved to questions if any

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The first question is machine salary

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what is the reward of those that support his rent to go to areas of strategic knowledge and make them to scope is this considered

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both Jihad and Tao yeah if you participate you not grow yourself

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but you you participate with your wealth you facilitate those people go into the place in sha Allah whoever is guided you will get the same reward those people I mean

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getting you know let's say somebody convert to Islam everything he does good which is good in his life, you get the same reward and the do art also who are going because you paid paved the way for them you know whatever they they got of achievement you're also going to be partner because you will participate in taking them to the place and making life easier for them either light Allah you will be sharing the reward in both ways whatever they get you will also be getting the same finish Allah Allah grant us good

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question my sister

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during our free time is it okay?

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Salam Alaikum

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already consider me my battery finish I have to

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go on the computer again. The question

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the question was a union of a time is a good river as to mix the January remembrance with challenging days.

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Or should we do more of these changes

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as it is

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whatever is easier for you guys, this thicker which combines almost all of them Han Allah will hamdulillah La ilaha illallah wa Allahu Akbar wa hola La Quwata illa Allah can see almost everything is here.

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If you get busy with this, that's fine. Or if you don't have

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I mean you'll find it to be lighter if you just get busy, sad Subhanallah we have the also handle lots of hand Allah Subhana Allah or stick for last for the last time for Allah or during the light era in Allah, any form of vehicle that is narrated and attributed to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that will be fine be in sha Allah take whatever is easy choose from that calm narrated from the Prophet sallallahu selama the easiest one for you.

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Second question is Is someone said she was recommended to the

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JSC when she is in state of difficulty

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and that will help her find a way out.

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Or doesn't. The best way to get yourself relief from difficulty is to look into your relationship with Allah smart Allah and fix it properly. That does it and do that car which are authentically narrated from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, anything that somebody tells you to do ask Him to show you the place where he got it.

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Make sure that it is authentic if it is authentic God, you don't need to ask anyone but if they give you a weak narration or if you have doubt call somebody among the student of knowledge and ask them about that. I don't know this to be in existence in the

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Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, the best way to add to remove hardship is to fix your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala and to follow Islam correctly, because if this happened be the light Allah Allah Subhana Allah will grant you peace of mind and tranquility and once you get this inshallah all of these things that you might be suffering from will be gone inshallah automatically medical off equal

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reading Quranic gentle but then specifically mentioned a surah reading Quran in general, any sort of any sort

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okay sha Allah given, if this is the case then I will see you on on Tuesday right tomorrow when we have the sun Hey, we will

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work Allah

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Subhana Allah Mohammed Kushala staphylococci relate As salam o alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakato