37 The Disease And The Cure

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The speakers discuss the importance of maintaining good manners and values in Islam, including avoiding rejection and respecting others' privacy. They also emphasize the need for individuals to trust their surroundings and not let anyone tempt them. They stress the need for individuals to practice these values in their daily lives.

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Bismillah AR Rahman and Rahim wa salatu salam ala Rahmatullah alameen and abena. What have you been on Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salim Ahmed

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Today inshallah we'll continue with

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where from where we stop. And we have the continuation of the previous topic. Where I live says Alaska you only do bah bah bah bah. Since usually generate other sins, meaning if you commit a sin, if you're not careful, you might create other sins, you might lead to the commission of other other sins.

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I live says

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one of the evil consequence of Massey is that now see usually generate a VMRC

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you commit Amalthea you might end up committing another one and then another one and then Allah. Allah you only do Baba Baba had tiles the island Kobe MUFA until the time you reach a situation whereby it will be very difficult for you to stay away from it.

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And I guess this could be possibly sensed, you know, by whoever lives in this contemporary era, there are people who are committing masse in a way you know, they find it very difficult for them to stay away from them RC

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to get idea so the problem is any some of these people they get involved in it day after day, day after day, and then their life become familiar with it. It will be very difficult that at the end of the day for them to stay away from it. Carl hardtails the other lab demo Farah Patel will hold him in her to get out of those mouths you will be very difficult one in person. Let that generation of the Massey keep taking place.

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Can I call about the selfie in the middle of Kubernetes at SAE Atiba some of the righteous predecessor says one of the punishments that allows muhurta level on the RC you know is to cause him to engage in other sins after the completion of this thing. He committed sin, you might be involved in other sins because of this, as why this caller said one of the signs that a person uses to understand where that Allah subhanaw taala accept his deed or he did not although this is not a fact that we should just use it at any time to say that if I do righteous deed after a righteous deed that means my previous righteous deed is accepted by Allah, we have a big hope that when you see a

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person committing and doing the righteous deed, you know after after a righteous deed has been the previous one in sha Allah, we have a big hope that the previous one is has been accepted by Allah subhanho wa taala. But we cannot generalize or make it as a principle you get it and and that the sign you know to the rejection of the for the rejection of the action of a person is that when you do it and then you engage in committing sins

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a person

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fast for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala right after Ramadan he goes back to his bad attitude.

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We don't say that Ramadan is not accepted that is with Allah subhanho wa Taala but at the same time, the value you can understand that the value is not that much. Because if that Ramadan has been effective, you know has been effective. Definitely this person will be guided

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It, you know, I graduated from this Mother's out of Terabithia, you know, to teach him something that will tell him, it is no good and you will never be good for you to maintain that bad attitude with Allah subhanho wa taala. And it is always good for you to learn in Ramadan how to stay away from the bad attitude and keep the good ones, because you have been trained for a month continuously by Allah subhanaw taala, to pray to Allah on time, to fast, you know, to control your desire, you know, and you have been taught by fasting for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala to be able to engage in recitation of the Quran, participating in charity, participating in supporting that the human

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being in any kind of supports that will protect, protect them and protect their religion. So this is very great school that we have learned, you know, lesson that we have taken from Ramadan. So if a person will finish number one, and then he goes back to his bad attitude that man is, that shows something, although we didn't confirm to say that Allah subhanaw taala rejected his Ramadan, we're not supposed to do that. But that can tell you that that Ramadan doesn't have any value in it, because there is a difference between value and acceptance, a person might pray to Allah subhanaw taala and the prayer will be accepted the good idea but the value is neglected. It talk to you look

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at you move too much. You do things in other matters in too much in your in your prayer, which that shape and will be snatching from your reward at the end of the day you enter finishing that prayer with newly word from Allah subhanho wa taala. But the prayer is accepted, you know, as a

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responsibility that last Mahoto liberal on your shoulder, you have given that responsibility, but is there any value to that prayer? No, there is that is not that is no valid that prayer. You know, so we have to be very, very careful. This is a very important, you know, you know, facts mentioned by the time that somebody who's committed in must be very careful, you know, because it might be the reason why other doors will be open for him as some scholars mentioned that this is one of the wisdom behind this Crivit Xena as a subfield that opens other civil you know, subfield that opens other civil you know, you have a path if you take that path, it might open other path, you know, you

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a person will commit dinner but then you open the door to drink in door to a drunk leading door to theft door to misbehavior door to so many bad manners and bad bad attitude. Study they'll take you take those two bad manners and bad bad attitude. So Allah subhanaw taala says well as a caribou Xena in who kind of occasion was was as a villa.

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Allah chemical about a seller in the middle of poverty sad to say at a bad way. In the meantime a bit has a little hustler Tabata ha that is part of the reward of righteousness is Allah wanted to grant your ability to engage in another righteousness Karlova lab either AMITA Haselton call it or lamb or Melanie either is it looks like whenever you do a righteousness and other righteousness which is next week will tell you oh the slave of Allah subhanaw taala you should also try me also you should also try me the way you try the first one and you succeeded you should also try me so they're motivating you to engage in in good attitude and goodness. way the amulet way that fader

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Amina ha quality 32 Kaliko Luma Jabra, if he does the second one. The third one is going to tell him why can't you try me also, if he does the third one, the fourth one also is good to tell him why can't you try me also and that's why you see you know that the righteous person doesn't have time to kill Allah subhanaw taala says for either Farah files Saba while Arabic I forgot. It was some scholars said it means from this weekend is tracked the fact that a Muslim doesn't have a break in his life doesn't have a break in the sense that you have a time which you do, do it nothing. That shouldn't be the attitude of a Muslim. We don't mean that you should always get busy with the

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physical kind of act of worship. You know, no, it is not like that. But we meant by the break you know to have a breaks whereby you have a time which is free for you to kill. And listen doesn't have this time shouldn't have this time. So when you finish and are bad, you move to another one. That's your break. You know, you fast, you move to another kind of irida. recite Quran, you move to another candidate. Rather, sit with your wife and make her happy. Sit with your children and make them happy. Sit with your husband and make him happy. Sit with your father and make him happy. Go and visit your friend who is in need of somebody to comfort him, sit with him and make him happy. These

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are all acts of worship you know you

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I get to worship Allah subhanaw taala at home when you go out your business, be kind in that business this is also an act of worship. This is what I meant by no break, you know, and the smart person is the one who will make his life like this a continuous act of worship throughout his life until he meets Allah subhanho wa Taala what does that mean? He observe you know that the maraca of Allah smarter in everything he does in this in this life.

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That's how a Muslim should live his life and Muslim doesn't have time to to waste or to kill. You have a good intention even when you sleep you know this should be the life of a Muslim. You have good intention even when you sleep.

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That's why they say is

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they said they have this phrase and they statement they said has has an attitude

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has an ad.

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They said they're to

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your color I buy that.

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Why buy there to actually log off law I that I want you to remember this you know, they have this wisdom which says I buy their to Hulu, Amazon Fla are that what what are their two I had a holly Alia cover. I read that, that people have consciousness. This is these are added yaka. yaka means your conscious, okay, in what you do and you know, so oddly aka the people consciousness that is supposed to be a Muslim, you know, that's another word of St. Lucia because Muslim is always conscious, because there is no consciousness in the life of a person who doesn't recognize the last minute Allah is the only one to be worshipped. And we have were told by Allah subhanaw taala, that

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those ones are dead, or dead, you know. So annually our cover 100 year cover, which is the attitude that every Muslim should be

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doing in himself with a deer cover, he says annually a cover up their cultural practices, their culture practices, and denier approaches, they will be counted for them as a way that not because they're so special in the eyes of Allah, even if they practice the culture, martyrs, Allah Samantha will give them reward for that, no, because they have intention in almost everything they do. He sleeps because he knows that his body needs to sleep. And the professor will also advise him to give his body his right so that he will be able to carry on, carry on his duty in the proper way. So he sleeps, so that to get to get dressed, and to wake up on time and pray Fajr to Allah subhanaw taala

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you know, when he sleeps, he has all of these in his mind. That's why he gets rewarded by that sleeping. He drinks water, he eat food and observe the sunlight eating and remember the way the prophets Allah Hollywood cinema said it should be doing and guess what Subhanallah all of these, you can call them free rewards come into a person, you know, free rewards come into a person because you don't need to participate in any physical activities. It's all about the heart. What exactly is your belief and your faith when you're eating food

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and that's that will be the

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the factor that will be driving you to stay away from the non Halal things because he can't have a good practice of the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam and at the same time, we are consuming the Haram one.

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So it's a very good system that allows me to design for the believers but unfortunately, we don't practice it properly. So that that are that of al Qaeda, they are like Iraq that were as they evolved that of the rule of law the heedless people.

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Thereby that is similar to the culture practices because even though Baghdad is just part of the ritual, he prays just doing the up and down because this is part of the requirement but doesn't have any tasted

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and these are just the prayers if he prays like this, he feels like this you know, what do you think about the cultural practice? For sure in this case is going to be far away from reflection. So please do take this into consideration is a very interesting it's a very interesting a gift given to us by scholars in which inshallah if we to preserve it will enjoy life on Earth in sha Allah Allah. Kala VEDA Amina quality 32 Kinetico Halima Jarrah, but of alpha rib, what it has added has an honor to work at Erica Jana was a yeah so the person will be in a state of increase of righteous deed and profit you know, that was just because you committed one righteous deed and you keep going into

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righteous deed one after the other so your reward will be increased in the eyes of Allah subhanahu Tada what can Erica Jana was the yard and the same goes to the side of them RC

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Malika Jada was saying I even had teta syrup out. Well, Marcy, hi, Ross. He was either too lazy momella Koutou Tabatha follow up al maxilla. Atilla docket Alec enough so, so he says a person will be like this and the two cat types of people he described here. One of them is a good one who is engaging in righteousness one after the other. And the other one is the bad one who is engaging in to the evilness one after the other. So, both of them are going to be familiar with the good and the bad, you know, the bad will be familiar with the bad things, you know, he knows nothing except the bad things. And the good one will be familiar with the good things and he knows nothing except the

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good things. So what happens in the future shakes at Hector Sirata Tomasi, at Palo Alto, el Merced, you know, ta Tila barkatullah UNF. So, in a way, if you miss a righteousness, you know, these righteous people, sometimes if you miss one, raka actually, Monica is too much. It missed the tech Vinitaly around, as if somebody died in his house.

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You know, he missed knowledge, he missed the Halacha elmedia, the class he wanted to attend. But unfortunately, the class finished Oh, he came late.

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You know, the heedless people among the student come in late to the class is one of the worst disastrous things that can take place in his life, you know, that information, you know, that he will lose it. Because they have on their mind, you know, which has been filled by the information from this call as the one word you learn about Allah subhanho wa Taala is far greater than the dunya and whatsoever in it. And they already know that these metallocene utterly the places and the cycles of remembrance, if you are there, angels also are there in our last month as sent in special and just to come and sit down with those people because they're so special, and take you anywhere and

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take the record, you know, which can be presented to Allah subhanaw taala. And he knows what exactly is going on. That's what the end of the day he will ask the angels who gave him their record? How did you find them? They will praise them, praise them, and then he will tell them wish, how do you will be the witness that I forgive the sins of all of those ones? Had Allah that's how much we lose in when we miss classes. You know, that's the reason why I kept on saying a list. Have a class in your life, every once in a week that you attended you is a very dangerous life for a person to stay away from those places where he will be having a strong reflection upon the IMA so the angels will

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tell him, yeah, Allah but you said you forgive everyone, but there are among them, there is somebody who is not even paying attention, you know, is not that much with them, you know? And he's also included, Allah subhanaw taala said yes, he's included also Subhanallah look at look at you your position, eyes of Allah subhanaw taala if you're among these guys,

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you know what Allah says? He told the angels, hormonal COBOL Lashkar BM Jalisco, it's a actually these, these people that I have just forgiven. They are the kind of the people that whoever sit next to them, will never lose in this life

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will never be disappointed. So they are so special in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala in a way, even somebody who is sitting next to them, when the mercy come from Allah Subhan Allah subhanaw taala to include him

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as Allah subhanaw taala Tofik so the righteous people, when they stay away from righteousness, the people of Jacoba when they stay away from righteousness, to de emphasize, you will find his heart is so contracted, you know, difficulty you face a lot of difficulties, you know, you might think that some people, some of them are sick.

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I was no sickness, the spiritual kind of sickness, they're, they're really disturbed and traumatized by them missing this good thing you know, it's not an easy thing for a righteous person to meet to miss a righteous deed.

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Why? Because it has become a part of him, you know, as become part of it. Without that Allah He or Dooby Mara but he will see the earth you know, so it's so little, although it is so big, but you will see it as a as a room.

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What has some interview, Get in the hole who to either Farkle Mahathir you are we'll have a discussion of so what occurred, I know it says you will be feeling you will be having the feeling of a fish in other fish with a ticket out of the water I was

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will choke he cannot breathe properly, because they can only do that inside the water. So they die when you take them out of it. So this person will be feeling that his breathing process has been blocked Subhan Allah, these are all mercy from Allah subhanaw taala that Allah can let us reach this situation. Without MoodGYM or Akbar Allah Allah dockets enough so and you see the person who became so addicted to the Massiah if he is to stay away from them RC he is also going

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To be in the state of a movement, a good Muslim who stays away from the art

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and Subhanallah I have seen this with my eyes, you know, when we told somebody to stop smoking or stop smoking for a while on what happened, you know,

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his body was shivering.

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So that's how it is. That's how it is.

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It's Allah subhanaw taala Salah Bucha raffia. You see the person as AVI is given a news that somebody from his family members is that

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Karla Da Li Sawada Cassandra, who?

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Who I italianmoda who had tell you how we die, he is also his chance will be so congested and there is no space for him to breathe. Bees. Life will be very complicated to him just because he started to stay away from from SIDS. And sometimes shaytan will keep on pushing him and show him sometimes shaytan succeed in taking back to taking him back to the series had to endure cathedra middle for circlet work I'll not see it to mean really let that get you to have Subhanallah it says you find some of the some of the wrongdoers and the criminals they do the same you know none because he find it tasty. No, it doesn't have any taste but he's just committing the sin for the sake of commission

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he cannot live without it. Law Can you imagine this? You know, a person is living a life of sins because he's too familiar with it to addicted in a way if he doesn't do it he cannot live properly. So they will be committed in not because they enjoy the sins but they are just doing it because they cannot stay away from it Salah so no taste at all. It might use to have a taste their own tastes the way they taste it because even if somebody tells you say it says that the wine Tanisha Lachlan it refreshes the brain I don't know which brain is he talking about?

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Allah there Ah ha ha ha il early my edgy two minute LMU for Katya Kama Sutra Modelica shameful alchemy. Allah has an open hand it Hey, feel good. Just like the way one of the leaders you know, one of our leaders and has an open hand

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he said one day in his boat in his point, he said

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worker sin sheriff to all elevated off that way to mean heavy ha ha. It says I have two cups. One of them I just drink it you know to enjoy. He's talking about wine. And the other one he just drink to be medicine for the for the first one because he cannot stay away from it when you stay away from the first one. He feels so pain. So the sickness which is introduced by the first one he has to drink the second one to control the first one.

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This is really really a test. You Allah this is really a test. What tells us be careful, you know, which tells us we have to be we have to be careful.

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Carla, Carla, tada. We're here that EBIT. Ha Can I ated our shareable? How many will come every one of them said for Canada why? It became my medicine. We're here the EBI in her and it is my disease at the same time.

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So it is my medicine and my disease at the same time. Can I attend our shareable comedy will comedy just like the way that the wine addicted you know, the wine editor tried to kill himself with wine. The wine I did addicted will try to kill himself with with wine

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color well as you're on a thought were left Who are you have

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had you'll see the law who we met he al-mulla Educated Ozu in India, as well to hurry the Wailea or to the early Zhu Min unflashy Emergency he signed on Allah. So Allah subhanaw taala needs Allah, Allah, He says, And the person who is righteous, you will keep on doing the righteousness, you know, and he will become familiar with the righteousness and He loves the righteousness so much you know and he favor the righteousness until the time Allah subhanaw taala appoint an Angels whose job is to push him up to drag him to OSU and it also America and use the ODU as the one that would drag him by force in order to put him in that place where Allah subhanaw taala appreciate him him being in

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and what happened after that it will keep on motivated in the angels will keep on motivating him to engage in it and sometimes also to the ritual and variety. They will make him uncomfortable if the time to practice

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Is that righteousness arrive?

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On Allah so amazing, you know, Allah subhanaw taala will let you be uncomfortable, uncomfortable, you know, from your bed to go and do what to preach Allah subhanaw taala to participate in any of the righteous deed. You know there is a Hadith from the province of Allahu Allahu selama that says, Allah subhanaw taala Ijebu me Raji Allah subhanaw taala is amazed of a person

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who is this person, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, Paul, I mean, reply, he, you know, how come I currently be Salah Salem? He jumped from his blanket, you know, he was sleeping with his wife. And then what happened just suddenly at night is just jump. It's like something is chasing him.

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Not because the wife annoyed him, not because something is bothering him, you know, from the dunya side? No. Why did he just jump here, remember that he's supposed to pray, to record his nights. And this record is not fragile prayer is just a voluntary prayer. But look at the way he wakes up

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as a confirmation with that which even claim is mentioning who is pushing him up? Allah subhanaw taala is granting him that motivation you know, and putting in him something that will push him so much to leave that place of enjoyment and go and worship Allah subhanaw taala because then German in this life lies in the good relationship they have with Allah subhanho wa taala, which we become totally different. That was the story of of the live universe, sorry, of the liveness owed with his wife, you know, he he moved to pray at night. And then his wives and I've told him where you go in my dear husband, where you go and he said I'm going to pray. He said Please, we still have time. You

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know, she told him we still have time just come back.

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And subhanAllah she made a mistake because at that time also shaytan has been fighting him he won the battle with the shutter somehow but he's still in the process of making an achievement in his victory against the shaytaan because shaper unusually come and tie some nuts, at least three of them to practice a lot in some asset.

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If you wake up and remember Allah one of them will be anti. If you go and make will do the other will be gone it will pray to Allah subhanaw taala all of them will be gone and that's the reason why you will come up in the morning very nice sheet fresh.

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So you know you can you have this and plus I'd add to that also the song of shaytan where he will be singing La kelela and toinen for quote, you still have a long night you know shaytan is thinking in your ears you know telling you that you still have a very long night keep sleeping you have time keeps leaving, you still have time. So then aborto standing up the liveness old place where do you go come back to us? So he raised his hand and say Allahumma Houma if not what

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it says, Yeah, Allah there too. And I'm alone. Meaning the Allah I cannot handle this battle. I manage my my I manage my affairs alone to fight shaytan alone, because he's also alone. But if somebody joined him, yeah, Allah cannot do it alone you. So he says that Allah whom whom I said, What? As I'm looking at him, she said, who he's talking about. I see as I see only two of us who is the third one. He said Chapin

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so she's supporting Shiva. But he can use this this

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story, you know, to support the fact that the good ones know the good ones. It is not easy for them to miss the righteous righteousness. He mentioned about one of the righteous people I guess, the Roman Assadi or either or somebody else and among the predecessors, when he woke up late, one hour before

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he woke up one hour before they heard him from the house saying in law he were neither here

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in LA nightly Rajon in la la una. Roger.

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one of our callers. Yes, walked out when were with him one day he was talking about this fact. He said the first time he they convinced him just to stay with the

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tutor, I guess tutor or one of these social media platforms. You know, the first time they convinced him he said he was there answering questions. You know that in his social media for sure when the student knows that he's there, everyone will be rushing.

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Either he almost going to miss selected feature and not correctly add the night night night Korea. Subhanallah when he was sharing this story, the story you can hear that the sounds of these closest region to to him Subhanallah everyone was saying Subhan Allah, Allah when Allah Subhana Allah.

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That's the Tobia as the Tobia. You know, he has already pumped them with that Tarbiat they also they're not involved.

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You know but they cannot stand you know to hear that that is something which does me distracted him from from practicing the norm. So that enjoyment is is there you know when you're with Allah subhanaw taala that owns that comfort nature that you get, you know you cannot get it anywhere Wallahi I'm telling you being with Allah subhanaw taala is priceless, you don't have a price right? And there is no Nirma in this dunya that is better than that. We just don't know but being with Allah smarter is the most interesting you know, thing that you can enjoy and that you can have in this life

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which is going to be reflected in a better way you know when you meet Allah subhanaw taala on the Day of Judgment.

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Allah well as to what is reasonable and if you're actually you already see it. But as yet level Marcy, or Himba what you throw at us, using Allahu alayhi Sheltie for those who either as what Allah subhanaw taala says, An arson Allen Kathleen Shelton al caffeinate zoom as ferrata Jalali in the manner

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so the champagne also the wrongdoers also that like that, when they don't stop them RC and repent to Allah subhanaw taala they will reach a situation whereby they will be accompanied by the devils and the devils will be dragging them in a way that is like a president doesn't have any control anymore. He is controlled by the sins, you know, is controlled by the sins

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of a will go Jinda party Bill muddied facade room in UK Barry Allen he rather co watching the last 80 Bill Medvedeva candle at one and

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it says each and every one of them is supporting the army of righteousness, you know, and they became the greatest supporters to that. And the same goes to the other otherwise.

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So let's say reflect upon this, you know that the person should stay away from the Masia? You know don't try. Don't try because it might lead to the other masse. In a way you might reach a situation whereby you cannot control control you

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cannot control them assay at all. And Toba will be very difficult for you.

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Follow me and l Marcy will who will mean Aquafina I will add to that an error that he he says one of these consequences that Massey they weaken the heart, they make the heart weak. It is one of the scariest, one of the worst type of consequence of committing democracy. And today we'll call Bernie orality. It makes a person senseless in which you don't have a riot or you didn't have will in your life. Subhan Allah so you will be taken by the Massey you know, as I said, Marcia controlling you for Taqwa era de tu and Marcia, what are the Toba to share and share so that the willingness to commit sin against Allah subhanaw taala will be more powerful than the willingness of Toba? You

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know, that's why if I

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somebody has written a book, I guess a salary budget, we need to boil it. I want to repent but you know this but is always there. A person wants to repent but they didn't know how they don't know how I met young young people who will tell you this

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person you will tell them that you have to stay away from the company you are having you know, people surrounding you will tell you how you know, and they will tell you it's not easy for you to join that community and just leave them you know, easily Subhanallah This is Miss dark in conformation. To that which is mentioned by even a claim a person might reach a situation whereby they rather will be taken completely by the mousy. In a way a person will not be shown the path to the Toba to Allah subhanho wa taala. So the willingness to repent to Allah smarter will be taken day after the until the time you will lose it completely. You know, and that will be the real tragedy.

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That's why even claim says this is the worst, you know, mean Acquaviva, this is one of the worst consequences that can take place in the life of a person if he engaged in the commission of democracy. You know, and then Sally has been called the era The Tober Bill Kalia fellow Ma, nice foo.

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Fellow mieten Nisswa hula martaba in Allah Allah, Allah subhanaw taala ALLAH.

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So he said the person will reach a situation whereby no irata To repent to Allah subhanho wa Taala no intention that kind of intention will be taken from me.

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Carla follow MOUNTAIN NEWS for who? Llama llama taba it Allah azza wa jal

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If half of him is going to die, let's say in front of his eyes, he will be, I mean half of him will be taken you will paralyze completely

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you know the other half is kept so that he can have the life to prevent he said this person will not have it by law you can see some people Allah smart is testing them one after the other but to repent to Allah smarter and they don't understand that this is from their evil attitude a man is

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caught fellow ma tennis for hula Mata it Allah azza wa jal affair T mentalistic farward Toba t when elicited for automatic could have been a bill designed to be Shane Kay, you will see him doing this thing afar you know under repentance. But this is the repentance of the liar, somebody who is not sincere in his repentance. That's where he repents and go back repent and go back because the repentance just by words just inform others that he's repenting, but in reality, he doesn't mean mean it at all.

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Hello, Karl. Boohoo marco de Mille Mazziotti were Musa Ronaldo, how was immunol Mr. Katya matter? Um, can I use this what I have just mentioned, so he's repentant, but Subhanallah Demacia firmly establishing his heart and his intention inside the heart is that the moment I have chance to commit the mercy I will go back to it. Now I am repentant because I don't have any

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liability, I have no chance to do it. So I've just repented because I don't have chance to do. In other words, this repentance is useless, because his intention is to go back to the sin right after he has the ability to to commit the sin.

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Well, how does that mean? LVM is Emirati. We're at Columbia it will Hallock and he says these are one of the worst type of sins and the clauses since that can take person to destruction

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so Allah Salah will

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follow me I know instead of 4 million Colby is to Baja fantasy ruler who had written karma yes Jacoby min FC come out for last minute zero yet and nasty Allahu Kohli wala Kalam v one of the consequences that the person will be the sensitize you know sometimes

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based on the Gibble let the natural disposition you know, even like to commit in the presence of others you feel shy for somebody to see you being in the wrong way. But there are some people who are doing it openly what happened how come they don't do like you and those ones have been made the sensitized this sense is taken from them, you know, so in a way

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this evil nature of Demacia didn't see it you see it from outside but didn't see it at all. So it become that cultural practice. You know, they look at you as somebody who's strange just like nowadays, you know, a sister who wears the hijab she is backward you know a brother who dress like Islam is backward when you talk about Islam your backward you know, so ma CB became either in a way if you don't practice them acid people will take you as as a stranger you know among them as a stranger What exactly are you doing you know

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but as tuck behind me loves the hero yet and acetylcholine so he doesn't find it any any shame any shameful you know? He doesn't find the shame for anymore you know to to be doing something in which people are looking at him

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while academic or people are talking about him. He doesn't find it any any any initial info.

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Isn't find that simple anymore. Why the entire Bible for Sookie who rioted that took your time and we live?

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Had you have tequila? I don't believe I don't believe Alcea while you had this we had biphobia mon lemme Yarlung under Amina fer Kulu for Arafura. I'm into cada Amil to Keller, Salah. And he says, you'll find some of them they reach a situation whereby they will be proud of it, you know, there'll be so happy and proud of it. And they will tell you this is the peak of enjoyment, you know, that you reach a situation whereby you have no you lost the shyness you have no shyness towards anyone.

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Subhanallah and I guess, you know, you don't need my explanation we already experienced, you know, we already experienced these other people, you know, in our communities, they don't feature of anyone you know, and they enjoy doing it in the presence of people.

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In a way you will find some of them also being proud of what he does, where you had this will be Hamilton Yeah, Hola, Mundo amela and he will be talking about that, you know, a person who doesn't know what happened, he will come and tell you that I did this I did that. You know, last time there was something which was done. You know, the, you know, who did it. I was the one who did this. I was the one who did that.

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And he will say that I did this. I did that.

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Carla waha the girl woman and Nancy law you are a winner. While you said darling parippu Toba. He said these type of people will never be given a tranquility in this life, Allah subhanaw taala will never forgive them. What you said to Allah him Penny kotoba and sometimes Allah subhanaw taala blocks the means to repentance from these, these ones are to Allah Azza wa Taala him Abba Abba we'll have a look at it. And in the vast majority of the time the doors that can lead a person to repentance will be closed.

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cannot currently be said Allahu Allah Who set him up cool. Oh, my team often ill Majah who just like the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said, everyone from OMA will be forgiven by Allah subhanho wa Taala except those who are exposing that which they did in secret

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publicizing the sin.

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Allah cool Kulu metamorphen, Elan Bucha hearing we're in the Middle Ages and the prophets Allah Allah and Salman said it is one of these it is part of the job and yes tour Allah who Allah love the Hatter used to be

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an yester Allahu Allah defamer used to be

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here for law whenever whoever called the Avalon and Bill together yo Makeda work for ya Deke was an app. So we're cut the bat is to hoorah boos, Han Allah, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are talking about this type of people. He says, every one of my ummah will be forgiving, forgiving, it's possible to receive the forgiveness from Allah subhanaw taala, except in the case of those who are publicizing them, RC committing them as in public. So this one, Allah smart Allah will not forgive them. And he said, they will not get this kind of alpha, okay. And then the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam asked him or in this narration, the prophets, Allah, Rama said it's

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part of this, exposing yourself to others.

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He says I used to Allahu Allah to have a person who is whose affairs is concealed by Allah was concealed by Allah subhanaw taala. He committed the sin at night, and nobody saw him when he was committed. So

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that means last month I made it very secret

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for my use of the year for that one officer who were calling for me to color your macula, okay. He said then he woke up in the morning and he will start inviting people to inform them about what he did.

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On what they want Allah. So he's going to break the barrier between him and, and Allah subhanaw taala that sits in that concealment. You know, that secret you know, that's sitting there Allah subhanaw taala hijab that last one to put between him and the eyes of others, Allah will remove it.

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Okay, Alberto is Surah boo. The prophets Allah is someone who said he spent that night Allah smarter has been concealing his verse, Allah can send anyone to come to that place and see him doing the sin. But Allah did not do that.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it is better for a person to just repent. And it is haram for a person and Muslim to share his tragedies, the sense that he has been committed with with others. The same goes to the new Muslims, you know, sometimes the person converted to Islam. They were so keen, they were so interested to talk about their past life. You know, when the person accepted the righteousness they were very interested in sharing with others about their bad life. These are all wrong practices that we do from time to time. What they should be focusing on is to relax verse and enjoy Islam and then come and talk about the beach you have the Legion of Allah so

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hotel, how is it what is the change between your previous life and the current life? Why does it change talk about this positive any consequences, this is what we invite others be the light Allah to come back to Allah and do the same as as you do in

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Allah Akbar is to Rahu or a bow and at the same time he sleeps at the same time Allah subhanaw taala is concealing his his affairs but unfortunately he will come out and expose them to to the people

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Carlo minha an Akula mousy at middle mousy for hear me are often muddy middle middle woman allottee or halacha Allah

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unfortunately today's class I think I have to stop it here

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beetelite Allah will compensate you in the in the next class and this part alone I think we shall address it in a very good way. We relaxed in the way we address it if I talk about it, I will rush any so much May Allah subhanaw taala grant you good so let's move to question and answers in shallow the next class I will address the next chapter inshallah. Yes, of the Rama

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Koloff you

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music specialists to me

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the question is saying

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I'd like to know that there needs to be done to the community, or is it to the people around you. And isn't that the responsibility of the gala is high for men compared to women? Or is it that both men and women have the same responsibility

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that was given to the whole community, by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam have been commanded by Allah subhanaw taala to start with his family members, when the Rashi, the typical carabin start with the family members first. Because if people in the community sees you, if they see you giving dower to your family, that will give them a clear signal that you believe in what you say, and you're not bringing something evil, according to you, you're trying to bring good because usually a naturally, a person doesn't invite his family today to evil. So when you start with the family, the community will appreciate it, and many of them will think deeply about it. Because if it

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is evil, you will not start with your family. So you start with the direct family, first your children, your husband, your wife, your parents, you know, your siblings, you know, start with them first, and then engage in the dour to the community. If you say that I just want to fix my community, and then stay away from I'm sorry, I just want to fix my family, and then stay away from others, it is going to be tragedy because at the end of the day, those people whom you neglected, they will come and affect your family also. So whatever you try, they're going to untie it, you know, and especially when it comes to the children, they are more powerful than you in convincing

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the children to take another dimension. So ceremony or whoever is asking, it is really important to take this as strategy and to do it in the way Allah subhanaw taala asked us to do it start with the closest people first and then expanded and widen the platform to others.

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Second question is how do we reconcile with the Hadith which is,

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observes five daily prayers of Grandma's abdomen? That is one part of that question I forgot to address.

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Dawa is the responsibility of all male and female, it is not restricted to the Brothers is a very wrong perception. But everyone does it according to his capability. You know, in the way a man can go and fight and mix a woman naturally she can do that. And also Islamically also, she cannot mix in the way he mix with others is very sensitive matter. And that's why it's even the jihad, which is part of the Dawa is on the shoulder of the brothers. Not that not the sisters. But is it that we're brothers I address for the Dhawan sisters a lot know that the instruction came and address all of us, all of us, male and female, but everyone does it according to to his ability and capability. And

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according to his or his nature. There's some drama.

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They cultivate immediate judgment will not be the same for the brothers and sisters. Definitely those who can penetrate villages and go and travel and go and give dower and those who can do this, they will never be equal to those who cannot go and do that.

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The second question is how do we reconcile differences? When Evelyn observes the idyllic face as reading the month of Ramadan, preserves his chastity and obeys the husband, when she entered from whatever gate of the paradise she wants to, and between the fact that women

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should be should be teaching others and

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yeah, and should be getting that we're

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going out to learn and see.

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That is no contradiction at all.

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This is where wisdom should be applied. You know everything you put it in on proper place, you pray and you give the right of the husband. If the husband doesn't want her to participate outside, obeying Him is better for her in the eyes of Allah. It earns her more reward than

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than then going out. And she focused on teaching her children and educating the husband he himself on educating herself. And nowadays, I guess Alhamdulillah with the advancement of the technology, life have become easy. So sometimes you might be looking for

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or reward you know but you neglected the Mali word you know the best one which Allah squatter will grant you if you do it in the way Sharia propose. So that is no contradiction at all. It just putting things in their own proper position, do what you can, you know, put them all together is it a gym or laminate energy? Especially those those right? You know that the prophets Allah Allah is ever mentioned. They don't need any any any effort, you know, the prayers you know, they have their own specific time. So other other virtues, you do them not in the time of the prayer, you do other virtues in the time of in your free time the husband goes out sometimes you know, as man is inside

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the house, but he doesn't need you go and do some of the activities you know which will benefit the Ummah, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam but as I said, if the husband has a need, this is the greatest job she will do. Now because she's asleep, I kept on repeating this. No, these are responsibilities and honor and cooperation. Allah's Maha Rotella Miki like this, as he says, we're live with Allah Hinata Raja, so if she's going to be doing that willingly as long as he's not inviting her, to disobey Allah subhanaw taala, she will get more reward, you know, then going and doing other voluntary act, which unfortunately, most of us did not understand this, you know, until

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the time they give this example of, of a sister being annoyed when husband is interested in having certain food in the house, or he asked her to bring a cup of water to him, or to make a chai for him, you know, she might be annoyed, but at the same time,

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she's working outside the boss will ask her to do all of these things. And she does it willingly and call him sir and everything you know, all the respect is there, wherever if she does it, the one at home, Allah Samantha will reward her last month, you will appreciate it also, she will be no closer to Allah subhanaw taala. And also life will be any better in the house between her and the husband. But this can only take place if we take it as responsibility. But if we have the misunderstanding, you know, in the way many people understand that if she's to do this, she is none other than the slave in the house. You know, subhanAllah that's life is. That's That's why life nowadays is very

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twisted, you know, because the husband doesn't understand his responsibility. And the wife also doesn't do, both of them are doing and everyone is claiming different life other than that which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam advised him to to do so we should have this in mind. For instance, she said she wants to go to the masjid. He said No, stay home. Please, we have something to be done. And she stays and she did what she wants, she gets a reward for that. You know, if there is a justification to stop or to advise her not to go for something and she says she get more reward because this is obligated upon her.

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Although he is advised by the prophets, Allah Allah Solomon commanded by Rasul Allah and to stop her from going to the Muslim she has interest in it. Are we talking about contradiction of interests, as Ben has something at home and she wants to participate in the Muslim which one is more noble, that is no doubt serving the house, not just even the husband, if her children need some matters of tarbiyah and they need her to be home. This is better for her than going to the aitikaf in the masjid. We shouldn't be aware of this. This is better for her than going to the aitikaf in the masjid in Ramadan. Somebody might say but this is aitikaf you know you in the masjid. People are

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getting more reward. But if you're if you're looking for the value of a reward, that one that she get when she go and please the husband and he pleased that they have that life, although they enjoy you know, they don't didn't act that kind of ascetic life in the masjid, you know, which is very excellent. They don't have that one. But they got another one, which in her case, in her case, particularly is more valuable than going to, to the masjid. So we have to put things in their own better places, sometimes something might look so fancy, but if you put it in on the scale of the Sharia and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam you know, it sounds to be different

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from the way you are, you are viewing it, do you get idea? So I guess, male and female, we really need to understand this fact. So much, you know, sometimes the man will feel that he is deficient. Why because he is not placed in the position in which some sisters are reaching. And the same goes to the sisters, some of them they believe that they have to do what the brothers are doing for them to be perfect. You know, I found this to be you know, I don't know how to understand it, but I found it to be a disease. You allow it to be a disease, a man and a woman who knows the objective of this life Wallahi understand that this life is not about you comparing yourself with others especially

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when it comes to the dunya it is the only place where you have to do the Masaba car and the comparison is to look at you

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Brothers in terms of righteousness, your sisters in terms of righteousness, you know to see that this is a very dedicated sister I wish I became like this it feels so bad you know, so sad you know that you are so low you know, so insignificant in their presence you know, but not in the sense of the dunya you know, we neglect a lot of responsibilities to please the the dunya which last month I will remove the happiness in it. So, I guess inshallah we get some

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something from this that is a very important matter that I really want us to, to observe properly. Study the Sharia understand things in their own proper

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way to be to be understood, Allah smart Allah guide us to truth

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if this is true, or deduce this hadith, which mentions that she only prays for five daily prayers in Africa,

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and ensure that takes care for children at home.

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So will he be accountable in the day of judgment for not being actively involved in the hour? That's the hour itself.

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That's data itself. That's the reason why I said everyone should do it. I couldn't do this capability.

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We don't need all of us to go out and give dower

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we don't need to do that. Action. We shouldn't. We shouldn't. But everyone in his own position should give the data.

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Okay, you have children, focus in teaching your child to memorize the Quran, teaching values and man is you know, as the big data you give it, that child is going to lead the Ummah one day, as a very good work for you are presented to the OMA Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so Dawa is not about you going to the street telling people to accept Allah and all of these things. No, that's part of the Dow one side of the Dow

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to get idea you live in in a place in an environment, you know, you that are within that environment, you are teaching a teaching in the school, give down the school, leave other people who are not teaching to the school, go and keep the streets dry, or go to the massage, you know, everyone is taking one part of the hour, this is how we get to complete the system.

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Good idea. So it's a very noble act, an excellent act for a woman to focus on teaching the children because if this is going to take place in the light Allah we will have the leadership be the light Allah, totally contrary to what we are experiencing from time to time.

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This is very necessary is very necessary, especially in this contemporary era Wallah it is very necessary, therapy of the children is necessary.

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I will just speak into some people, you know that the fear of the children of the Muslims, if we open everything, for instance, in places where the law of apostasy is been in those, you know, a person cannot change his religion as a Muslim, you know, and you look into the circumstance and the city, and you look into the situation, the kind of tarbiyah were given our kids, what do you think? What do you think now I just, I just want each and every one of one of you, you know, within your own brain you Why do you think with the advancement of this technology, our children, they don't have a proper tarbiyah low Islamic values in education, except in the case of a few. What do you

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think if this law is going to be neglected, whereby it is just up to you to do it if you want to, if you don't want to do it, just go ahead and choose whatever you want.

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What do you think the situation is going to be? You know, somebody told me that in one place, you know, there was a time the government says is okay, let's see, you know, the freedom was given. He said in one day 6000 application they receive operate that you know, that says 6000 application to commit apostasy in one day 6000 applications and most likely, you might find the vast majority of these are the youth.

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So that's the reason why I said it is really necessary nowadays. For us to be aware of this, you know, to get involved not just the sisters at home know the brothers this teddy bear is not for the sisters is for all of us. You know that smart sister in time of the Prophet sallallaahu Simone she said jasola If I'm going to leave leave the children to my my husband, they will get lost, they will die. And if I take them they will also get lost Subhanallah and the prophets Allah Allah sama did not say no, no, no, no, no, you can just do Toby alone. You know.

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He did not say that. He he, he accept it because he keeps quiet. That's mean she was right in what she said. tarbiyah is coordination and cooperation between both father should get involved, the mother should get involved leniency from the mother and leniency from the Father. Especially the time we're living nowadays, our children need this extra ordinary softness and love

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in NC, make them your friends, although I will lie I am telling you my dear brothers sisters, if either we take like this, or in front of our eyes, our children will have to take other people to be their advisors. And they will never listen to us. They will never listen to us were in this situation, actually, you know, you have internet which, which is graduating them before the school, you know, in the school, they learn nothing. And look at our also curriculum, teaching them what. So in some instances, we are teaching them cover, you know, cover cover wages in them cover.

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At home, they don't find guidance, in the school, no guidance, in environmental, so no guidance, and we buy for each and every one of them device, you know, very, very, very, very smart device. So their life is always busy with this social media, who are they meeting Allah Allah, and, and bad games and all of these things, this is their life, you know.

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So we are in this really, really critical situation that is alarming. And I guess, the only solution we have is the father and the mother to understand their responsibility and the nature of the time they live in it. Which is different, totally different from the past, the past, they used to give us tarbiyah. Everyone, the community give us tarbiyah, you know, you see a big person, you know, he's not a father, but he tells you something, he tried to avoid it. Because if you don't, he punish you. And you have to accept the punishment. If your Father knows that you don't accept that punishment, you will get in trouble. You go home crying, as your father asked you ask ask you, why are you

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crying, you will never dare to tell the father that you shake beat you in the school. Because that will be the second offense, you talking about your share, you know, to your father, that your shack is misbehaving, you know.

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But we're living we're living in a different time.

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Therefore, the method have to change. Raise your hand as much as you can. But as I said, and I hope each and every one of you listen, you know, and I mean my words, and from the bottom of my heart, I'm telling you, as a father, or somebody who is planning to make a family, you must make sure that you are the best friend of your children, you must make sure that you are the best friend of your children.

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You are the best friend of your children. But at the same time, my dear brothers and sisters, you should maintain also alHazmi is really necessary. What is hasn't seriousness, it means your children sees nothing from you except love and compassion. But at the same time also it is part of love to fix them and to show them no compromise when they go against those values and principles.

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That's the only thing that can save us, you know, and that's the method of the prophets. Allah lism no compromise to the mistake. But he was very lovely father, you know and father to every child in the community, Subhan Allah.

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But at the same time, the child who eat with the left in a young boy eating with the left, the prophets, Allah Azza wa sallam Ghulam, stop eating with the left. Nowadays we say they are young people, you know, let them do it. No, you must draw lines that the children they should know that they shouldn't touch this. But at the same time, the vast majority of the life is joking with them, accommodating them, telling them that this is the best place for you. They will believe in this I'm telling you Allah, he don't need to tell them they still believe in this.

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If not, they will have to take others. So please, my dear brothers and sisters, and I know we are living with mothers and grandmothers in this platform of ours. So please do take this matter seriously. Do not compromise any issue of of your Tobia make sure that you live this life.

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Live in a person who will be standing as a walk for you when you meet Allah subhanaw taala and I will leave you with this you know, and Insha Allah, it will be good for you.

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There will be a day whereby you will leave a child you know and you need somebody to sit down you know and remember you and raise his hand and see ya Allah forgive my father.

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Yeah, ALLAH forgive my mother. And to be honest with you, nobody can do that except a righteous child. That's the reason why the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I said, wallet and Solomon either allow or you left, you leave a child who is so righteous that is making dua for you after you leave. You will not understand my words. But the day you move back to Allah subhanho to Allah, Allah, you're going to wish that you have somebody who will remember you from time to time. So planned for yourself, you know, planned for yourself today. So when you go back to the last monitor, you have somebody who remember you asking Allah subhanaw taala somebody who may

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I remember you giving charity, you know, it is so interesting, somebody who approached us, you know, subhanAllah, this is a wife, you know, she build

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a center for us, you know, she built the Center for us in our foundation, and Subhanallah before we finish that center, she offers us money to build another center. And they sent us for what is for her father, if I'm not mistaken, either either her father or her husband who died,

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you know, she took pick up from her pocket money to make something for them Subhanallah after the lever,

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so either one, either the father or the or the husband, you can imagine that life between them has been excellent. And somebody who will remember charity, that means we can sense that life has been good, and they have been trying to please the last one, what Allah Insha Allah,

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but let me just restrict it to your child. So this is the opportunity, putting them to Islamic values, and invest in them. I call it investment, you know, invest in them, you will appreciate receiving rewards. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said that reward will be continuous will not stop until the time they pass this life and they go back to Allah subhanho wa Taala May Allah smart Allah guide us to truth? Yes Abdurrahman.

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symbolizes to me is

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a person realizes that his family is slowly being taken away from religion. And now they're at a point they're almost losing it on the matters of the family or being suffered. How does he or she helped rectify the family when both of the leaders of the family were just

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don't realize this and are being deluded?

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Also, they can be sensitized to it. So

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yes, as I always mentioned system only

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$1 Bill, you know, inviting people through auctions, your good manners, your dedication to the Sharia, people are going to see and sense the success that Allah's point is granting you from time to time, and they're going to reflect upon this from time to time be even lighter, that should be the first step in your Dawa to the family members, they will sense the difference. And they will talk about that in your presence and behind you also will talk about that which will fade pave away you know, towards respect you know, whenever you say something it will be

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I mean very valuable statement to each and every one of them to get an idea so whatever you say and then you're going to reach a time be even the light Allah the one who is going against Allah subhanaw taala they will be shy of doing it in your presence, not because they're afraid of you but they will find it so difficult for them to be seen by you doing this and that. So, that will be the best beginning you know, to have good manners to deal with them in the best way. And then slowly slowly slowly slowly start introducing the good you learn not done attributed to yourself you know, when you talk to them tell them that I have learned from Chef so and so on so this is what Allah

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subhanaw taala wants and this bring this and that you know and I just feel that I shouldn't keep this to myself I should share the information with others you know, that's why I decided to start with you because you are the closest people who have responsibility you know, who has a right you know, over me so I feel that I should start with you before if for others use wisdom be the light Allah you will succeed inshallah and patience is needed because it's not easy you might convince 1000s of people before a family member get convinced. So patience is needed Allah subhanaw taala Brantas Good

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goods which are expected to look like

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that these these things a person can only practice them in the community that these things are acceptable

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in some communities when you have the braids you look like who

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says this that will be impermissible for you to do that will be impermissible to free to do that inshallah Tobin in the next class be the light Allah we're going to be talking about this this hadith when teacher by becoming for what form you know,

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inshallah I will address this matter more and more Charla yes Rama

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how do we overcome the fear that we don't have enough knowledge and that we might say something which is not very good

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That's wrong and deficiency, the best understanding is to understand your limitation when you convey the message just convey that which you know, is very simple. I learned about to hate when I talk I just talk about to heat or drama learn about fake when he talks he talks about.

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Hadith when she talks she talks about Hadith

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as to Toshi, you know,

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learn about, let's say, oh Zulu fakie talks about.

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And there we go. Each and every one of us you learn something, you just restrict yourself to that which, you know, don't talk about things which you don't know. The problem with the Muslims is that we are

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the people fatwa in almost everything, we give fat to every in almost everything you know.

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So it shouldn't be afraid of anything, you just restrict yourself to that which you know, something which you didn't know if somebody asks you tell him I will get the answer from others and I will let you know Inshallah, or give him the contact

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number of that person whom you trust and they will communicate with them

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another question if one

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person had two children, but didn't know if they would live past one week after being born, so he didn't do an

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attending that they lived, what should that person do? If it has been used since the birth and the children he should slaughter the kicker for them?

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He missed it he started because Africa is watching according to the best opinion. So whenever he remembers that he was negligent in doing it, whatever the cause may be, then he just do it as long as whenever he has ability to do that

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which the person do in such a situation where the doctor is in the hospital says that they might not live should even consider doing Yes, he does. He does the Akiko okay guys demo is for them elude.

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Even the doctor says they will not live. This is not their decision.

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How many times they told a person he will not live and they live.

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That's why Muslim doctor shouldn't say a person will not live does a lie

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that has given fatwa on behalf of Allah, which Allah did not ask him to do that.

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They should say that,

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according to that, that their knowledge, he might not live, you know, he might not live longer. But they shouldn't confirm that this person would not live would not survive. Just because they couldn't find something this system is controlled by Allah subhanaw taala

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Shere Khan I check box Allah says, in this life, they're talking about brain cells, you know, that if a person doesn't have if he doesn't have the brain cells is technically dead. And the controversy in the conflict of the scholars exist concerning this matter. What what is considered as dead, you know, what is considered as death, you know, is it the brain death, or the

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recall or the heart when the heart is gone? Or the brain

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and the best opinion is the heart,

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not the brain because he has a person who lost and Shahana said that there was some children who the science or the doctors confirmed that they were born with no brain cells and they live for quite a while and then they die.

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And there are people who have problem with their cells, you know, but then Allah squatter brought them because the one who does is Allah, we might say that usually this is what is taking place but we don't know what Allah subhanaw taala is going to do.

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within the blink of an eye, Allah subhanaw taala change situation from this to another one.

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Anything can happen. So you can say that, you know, that something,

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somebody is not going to live you know.

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So that's why I kept on telling you that I, you know, I have this faith and this belief.

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I have this belief

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this life is controlled by Allah subhanho wa taala. I believe in this, you know, before I see it with my own eyes, that the control, we just have to keep it in the way las martela kept it. You know, my son, the one who passed away a few months ago.

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He has been told the same thing you know, that he will not live, but he lived for 1213 years. He

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it, somebody told me that he will not leave. You know, two people actually, these are both scientists, medical doctors, they said they couldn't see anything that can support him to live. These are their words. They said anything that can support a person to live this person lacked it completely Subhanallah this this thing is not in their hand is in Hannover last March, I remember my word, I told them in sha Allah, He will live, but he lives for 12 to 13 years, I guess, around 13 years.

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Although he couldn't sit down, he lived that kind of life, but he lives.

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And that's confirmed that belief that yes, Allah subhanaw taala is the one who's controlling the life, you know, that's what that's why we shouldn't over trust, you know, what somebody is telling us, we should keep a hope with the last one, I tell her all the time, look for the medicine, the doctor tells you that this is not going to be cured. Tell them no, I believe ALLAH is one that has the power and the capacity to do it. Go and depend on Allah subhanaw taala Walla, he will show the marriages, marriages that you know, marriages that you know, things which, you know, your brain cannot comprehend. But Allah subhanaw taala does it you know, beyond our comprehension, you know, so

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that's why as a Muslim we should hold upon this that life is controlled by Allah subhanaw taala. And death is controlled by Allah subhanho wa Taala we might have this expectation, you know, we might have some, some some some forecast, you know, based on experience that usually when this happens, a person No, wait, death, but he shouldn't say that he has to die, you know, the one who is in control, you know. So that's exaggeration. And going beyond the limitation which I advise every Muslim not to trust a doctor that tells him his family member of his is going to die.

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You know, he's going to die Wallah. If they die, they are not dying because the doctor says they are dying. They died because their time is up. And who is controlling the time is Allah subhanaw taala. Whether they say it or didn't say they're going to die. Even if you take him to the doctors, they don't even take him to the doctors, they are going to die. It says just like the idea that says if you eat healthy, or you get medicine, you will not die early. And as a joke. People in the most developed countries and the best people, the you have people who are born dead, and people who are born but they don't live that longer, they die just like that.

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We should put it in the Islamic way. Eat good. Look for health. Take medicine, tell people this but don't relate it to life and death.

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Just tell them that prophets, Allah Sama, emphasize on this, you should look good, it should look clean, you should do the exercise, it should take the medicine it should do this and that but don't talk about life and death because this is this is a last decision. Allah subhanaw taala is the one who is making the plan on this and we cannot change it when the time arrives. A person has to go whether he eats good or he doesn't eat good. And if the time is not yet whether the person is doing this or he's not doing he will not die until the time Allah smarter prescribe prescribe for him.

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May Allah smart Allah guide us to truth

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question of breathing

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in a very machine

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can we do the hand or for the evil eye protection for our kids when they are going to sleep? Yes.

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Because it's dedicated scar for you when you go in the in the in the evening, though, the way you do it you just put your hand on your child and then do the DUA the prophets Allah Islam I used to do

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to get idea or either Kobe Kalamata Allah hitam Mikela, shaytani, wahama Amin, Kalina Lama,

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right in the evening, you do this for them, they go to sleep, teach them to read adequacy and the Corolla had, those are the kind of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I used to do. If you take the DUA out we call him Atala he term to Michel de McCulloch. You know that the prophets Allah sama said whoever sit in the place he should make it, he do it for them. That will be okay be the light Allah based on that, that, that dimension, but the best is to teach them to recite the ADKAR by themselves, which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam advise everyone to do?

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Which the ministry do

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the switch you mentioned for the kids this is what he used to do for the kids, you know, over either coma we call him Atilla he, Tom. These are two children al Hassan Hussein, or either Kumari Kelly Mattila he Tom Nicola Shavon and wahama Amin Kula Iranian lamb.

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That's what the prophets Allah sama used to do to them. Were either coma we call him Atala he Tama Nicola Shavon in wahama, Amin Kaline Elana if it is only one boy, or you can be Kalamata

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Hey Tom Chapin in wahama and Equiline dilemma, if it is only one goal or a zookeeper B Kelly Mattila he Tama Nicola Shavon wahama Nicola and Allama

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if it is boy boy boy and girl the same are either coma you know if it is only girl in

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only two girls also the same thing or either coma

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and if it is safe you have many may Allah sponsor grantee many children if you are not dunya dunya dunya person that you have a lot of children in

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put your hand on and then gather them and tell them or either comb if they're all girls last month I bless you with girls that are either couldn't like that if they're boys and girls are either comb be Kelim Atala hit them so I give you all the possibilities in sha Allah. I don't think somebody will go out of these categories may Allah subhanaw taala guarantee good

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I have only five minutes to to live in this class

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okay Manisha.

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Can you kindly hold a session on parenting?

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Okay inshallah. Inshallah.

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Last question for today's by the same suggester. Maria, what the sisters who are looking to get married to and their families are not able to find righteous spouses for them?

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There's a very long question, but I will, I mean, a sister who is wanting to take to get married, but the family are not willing to get somebody who is good for her right.

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I will advise her to exercise patience. And also I will advise her to insist and not to tolerate as thin with a, with a person who is not righteous. She is not disobeying the parent when she rejects somebody who's not righteous, actually, in fact, the parents are doing injustice. And she shouldn't support them in that injustice. When they introduce somebody who's not righteous, or somebody who has Akita that is Bartylla, you know, and she knows that this appeal of this person is Bartylla, the girl she didn't submit, you know, this is part of a right and she's not doing Akoko validate, by insisting, so my advice is not to fight the parent, but not to submit to resist, but in a nice way,

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you know, you can smell but you still hold upon your opinion, you know. So this is what I advise how to resist, you know, not to submit, to always reject, to always reject, to always reject, not to accept to stay with somebody who is not righteous, because only Allah swatter can protect that marriage, a righteous person live in witness a non righteous person, sometimes it will be like somebody who's holding upon the fire. And if she's not careful, you know, culturally, Ill Moratalla Denise Zoji, her wife is following the religion, the religion and the adages don't have to either of the husband,

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you find a girl who been from the Sunni house, but unfortunately, she married a sheary person, and she will this one I'm giving you an effect, something that I have seen with my own eyes, you know, Alhamdulillah, Allah subhanaw taala save them, you know, now both of them, they came back to sunnah. But she married the son, Sheree person, she became deeply in Shia, she doesn't want any she cannot tolerate any any statement about them.

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So usually woman follows the husband. So a woman should be I mean, girls should really be careful concerning this matter, you know, when the parents are not given an absolute right to deal with her, like the way they deal with the money in their pocket, you know? Yes, respect is the she has respect them, she can always have her voice, whatever they asked her to do, she has to do when it comes to the marriage and the preservation of the religion. In this case, the Prophet said, Allah Allah and so my give gave her a legal right even to cancel a proposal which is accepted by by her father, to cancel a marriage which is organized by the father, also the prophets, Allah so my gave her the

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right to do that. That sister says, jasola, I just want the sisters to know that parents have no right over their daughters to force them to marry somebody who didn't want, but they are also like, I will accept that proposal of my father, but I just came to you so that we can have something which the sisters will know that it is not part of the rights of the parent, to impose on them, somebody else who didn't want to live with so this should be based on righteousness, you know, when they introduce something who isn't righteous, I really advise the sister to be very kind to them, but at the same time, resist you know, make sure that they get you somebody who believes in Allah subhanaw

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taala And fear Allah and is the only person that can take you to to happiness in this life as well as the hereafter.

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Yes, Abdur Rahman

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I think this year okay Alhamdulillah

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okay thank you very much May Allah subhanaw taala grantee good and success in life may Allah be with you wherever you are in the hope ecology median caffeine Subhanak hola como VMDK Chateau La La staphylococci Lake. See you in sha Allah on.

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