31 The Disease And The Cure

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AI: Summary © The conversation covers the struggles of achieving Islam, including struggles with education and the importance of paying for it. The speakers emphasize the importance of acceptance, learning, and being in the right place. The pandemic has had negative consequences for society, including loss of jobs and lack of access to healthcare, and the need for acceptance and balance between work and personal life to avoid negative consequences. The speakers emphasize the importance of finding a balance between work and personal life to avoid negative consequences and stay in the right place and be a good person.
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Bismillah R Rahman Al Rahim, WA salatu salam ala Thea Rahmatullah alanine and abena What have you been hammered and said Allahu, Allahu Allah, Allah. He was happy he was salam. About Elio Shula mean Shari Jumada Ola Alpha bomba is nonverbal and more ethically.

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Arba missionary January, Alvin Weidler Shireen, Walsall darsena Fei Khattab in Mobarak they would do

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so we are still dealing with the evil consequence and the negative effect of the Massey

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since last one Rotella protects all of us from doing that which Allah subhanaw taala doesn't want

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according Molly for him of Allah wa categoric even Abdulaziz

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and or might have been Abdulaziz erode ill I'm sorry.

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To the cities you know, in those days, if you remember the Muslim community was united, led by

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one person who is located in one city, we don't have countries we have states. We don't have countries we have states in the in the past.

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That is the capital city of the Muslim territory sealevel Islamia is to the medina then move to

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the move to Iraq and then move to China.

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So and then also history shows that there are other small, small, small Philadelphia that took place in this life of Domo Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, but

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generally Muslim are led by one Imam, the rest of the countries, which we'll call countries nowadays, they are like state, they have governance, you know, to deal with them. So, their instruction is coming from, from the center, you know, instruction coming from the center, so Omar, Abdulaziz bin Khalifa, he will send the command to the, the rest of the cities, you know, we call them countries, you will talk to them and ask them to do what he wants them to do so, so in those days, the leaders also scholars, you know, some of them are really, really, really it's called as they're well versed in the knowledge and are just normal people, they really learned a reload. So

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Omar bin Abdulaziz, they mentioned that scholars in front of him, they always become students. Because he really study is a scholar, big scholar, actually, not just a scholar, big scholar. That's why they said sometimes when we go to him, we feel that we are kids in terms of knowledge span, Allah, what a nicer title, you know, the leader, the Khalifa, you know, much more greater than the title of president and

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prime minister and the king, you know, because he's leading every Muslim territory on Earth, you know, but at the same time, very knowledgeable person, very knowledgeable person. So

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he used to advise them also on what to do and how to feel the last one who to add. So he said that he sent them one day, this letter, he said, Oh my God.

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It's very hard. erasure of Shame on you, our people love will be healing but he said this shaking of the earth that takes place from time to time the earthquake, he said it is something that Allah subhanaw taala uses to punish people with is a punishment from Allah subhanho wa Taala he said this thing that you see is a punishment from Allah subhanho wa Taala Carla shoot when you are people love will be here but Allah subhanaw taala punish people with the criminals and for the good ones is going to be mercy upon them but sometimes we also play a role in that era attitude because we see them doing but we don't even think about reminded them

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or cut

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Khattab to either I'm sorry, and Yahoo would you video me Kevin work at a fish Anika Okada among Canada who share on Philetus and he says I commanded people, you know, in every part of the Muslim territory to go out of their houses in certain days, you mentioned the days and then participate in the charity support others you know, in the sense of repentance, you know, asking them to go out of the house do righteous deed, especially given the charity

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in the law high school because Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran of law Harmon is a CA

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Wherever becomes peel, meaning he has a very clean hearts, you know? And how do we get this test good enough so that we have been struggling to get it is something that is very cheap and very simple. But unfortunately, we spent a lot of money, you know, attending courses, and attending places and doing so many things, you know, to get the test get enough, see, you know, to make yourself you know, very pure and clean, but unfortunately, we're still in the same position that you know,

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because nowadays, and in many, many data platforms becomes business. And people don't understand that, you know, Allah subhanaw taala guide us to the truth, we're busy trying to convince, convince people and to make them happy, you know, happy in the sense of making them laugh and joke a lot, you know, in all most of these causes, but at the same time, they don't go out with anything except a few.

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An EGD when you have these, I'm not saying all you know, so that nobody will come and smack me after that. But you do and you see places where the registration is so high, you have to pay a lot for you to register then to study the deed as well a lot look for somewhere and gone to that light is my advice, look for somewhere and go and do that.

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A place where they take a very simple amount, or they don't take it all, you know, so those ones even light Allah the class is much more you know, and you also want you to pay more naturally you'll pay attention to it to get an idea but when you pay more than you expect in certain you know, level and things to be granted to you if you don't get it you get annoyed and sometimes the speaker will be giving you something which he believes is beneficial to you but to you, not within your expectation you

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even write in articles in the journals, usually when you have those one who don't take anything and the most accurate one. Let's see this one, the one that they mean business they are talking about in our academies, you know,

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chemically they are the best, more much more than those who take money. You know, many, many of them you find them very low in terms of quality and that integrity is not is not there.

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So anyway, as I said this test kitchen knives is very free is very free and very easy for you to reach this level of task he lives. That's where Allah smart this is where the Charis Merapi for Salla Allahu Akbar, he purifies his soul. How do what does he do to make it pure to heat a wallet, you know, to heat our wallet, there is nothing you know, in this life that purifies the soul more than the tohill of Allah subhanho wa Taala we will like to have a life which is away from shame completely, like Ibrahim Ali salaam, you know, he got a lot of praises by last month in the Quran. Actually, it's not easy to find somebody who Allah's monitor mentioned by name, you know, and praise

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Him in the way Alaska talks about Ibrahim al sol. We've got the narration of others, Musa alayhis salam took the vast majority but in the way Allah has wanted to talk about Ibrahim, almost nobody received this, you know, smart love from the past and the previous nation. And how did he reach that conclusion to hate

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it very dedicated into it, all of them are like that. But Abraham's alayhis, Salam dedications, who have lice, very unique,

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tested by law smart and pass all the test, you know, strong trust on a last monitor, and this is how he put his family members and they will also like that, you can see the impact of this tarbiyah of Ibrahim alayhi salam to His family, when Gibreel met hijab, in that place where there is no life, you know, place where there's no life nowadays. You see how much we come all the why he's crying, the children are crying out and the husband doesn't know what to do, you know, he tried his best, he couldn't get more, but then people are not happy with that level. They get, you know, they push him up, sometimes to go and take rebar, you know, in order to make life better according to the way they

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But Abraham was not like that. It puts his children upon the good tarbiyah interocular last time making an effort. They put effort that's why she did not give up on she was looking for water saying that no Allah SmarTech can bring anything I just sit down here waiting for him to bring you know, she put him forward. She went here and there here and there to see whether she can find this is that the real talk will you know,

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to see whether she can find water or not. She got tired but still she doesn't give up. When she hears a voice talking to you look and she said you bring out a Salam. So Allah this does that this woman taught everyone on earth that Allah Swati should come first and you should be holding upon Allah subhanaw taala and there is risk the sustenance is in the hands of Allah Samantha he provides. They were in that place and they don't have anything. And so how Allah decoded Allah Akbar in Spanish

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A lot of people got it Allah who didn't get the best one, she was a woman. And you know, being a woman in that place, you know, you know what it means, you know. And the brothers, they came, you know, in bulk amount, and they couldn't do anything. And they have to bow for her sister for her for her leadership, you know, she told them, you can stay next to me, but I'm the one who has the right to use the water and you have to take permission first when you want to use the water, and they have to take the permission also, from how to live in that place. You know, this is our market get to be established. What do you read? What did you read? Tell her. He said, Who are you? She said, I am the

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mother of the son of Ibrahim alayhis salam.

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She uses Ibrahim Alayhi Salam. So God says

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or why is it Why is he he left you here? Alone? She said yes.

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Did he leave you under the custody of somebody? She said yes. Hala. You know, she doesn't get annoyed, you know, the food finish, but she's not really. He said, Did he leave you under the custody of somebody? She said yes, he did.

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He said Who is that? She said Allah Subhan Allah Subhan Allah, you know, no water, no food, no life, no mud, no, no money, nobody to talk to. She's alone with that baby. You know, baby, baby, baby cannot even sit down, you know, alone in that place. And the husband left her in that place. You know, imagine somebody in our time these materialistic people, how was made the feeling you know? How is the person is going to remember that last orderlies there.

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I hope each and every one of us understand how much Iman Ibrahim alayhi salam put in the family, you know, she was able to resist, you know, to maintain her Iman and talk and good relationship with Allah and have good expectation about him.

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She said Allah, and he really says *en Wirkkala coma in a caffeine. He said definitely he left you, you and your child under the custody of somebody who is sufficient for you. And then he tell her, let's actually obey. He said, Don't you ever be afraid of getting loss? You are under the protection of the best of the protectors. And that's the last one who gave her this command. And then he gets her the water. He said, Don't worry. There is a house of Allah's water in this place. This son is going to build it, he and his father.

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You know, that's how Allah as Martin said, Doom to them. They came, they live in that place, you know, and the control of of her she's the one who's taking care of the water because there is no water, there is no life. And they came to the place actually because of the water. She was protected by Allah subhanaw taala to respect her, and they respect her family members. When it's my age grow, they marry you one of them. I just want you to understand the kind of Tobia this man Ibrahim alayhi salam, he gave his children to heat a wallet. That's why they never lost, you know, they always gain and they are under the protection of Allah smarta until they went back to him. So he married from

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them. You know, Taliban are Vito, he learned from the Arabic language and he married from Ibrahim visited them one day. And he found a smile is not that he used to visit them from time to time. So he couldn't find his way. He found his wife. He asked his wife, what is your husband? He just want to old money. She doesn't know who he is the first time she met. What is your husband? She said?

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He went

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to look for food for us. So Abraham says Alayhis Salam, it says

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how's your life by the way? You know, squat a lot. Unfortunately, she missed, you know, how's your life by the way? She said we are in a very terrible life. How Allah said difficult life. We're in the state of difficulty. You know, life is not easy. She complained a lot. Abraham says, what do you what is your food? Since you're in a very difficult life? What do you eat you guys? She said we have meat. And we have water. You know, in a David have meat.

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Ismail used to live with some some alone. No means no foods, no anything. Zamzar Milan, he and his mother.

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And they tolerated the life school and she complained Ibrahim said no problem. When her husband came, tell him that I'm saying salaam to him and he should change the front part of his door. She doesn't know what what does that mean? You know when the when the husband came? She told him an old man came he realized that something happened in the house. He said Did anyone visit you today? She said yes. We've got an old man who came and they said these are his features.

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It's your that's my father actually is what did he tell you? She said that he said I should convey his salaam to you and you should change you should change the front part of your door.

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Ismail said, unfortunately, this is my father and he's asking me to stay away from you. And it will ill Hackie Alec he devotes her Why did he divorce her because she doesn't deserve to stay with a smile and a Salah not having toggle and Allah smarter not being satisfied with the little and content I deleted that last month I granted them which is not literal, you know? It's all about contentment, you know, even satisfaction, being happy with that which Allah subhanaw taala granted you although it might sounds literally lay down he married another woman, you know, and when the father visited, is that one also a sauce? That one was so smart. Alhamdulillah when the father came,

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she did not know who he is. But that is a salaam to him. And he asked her what is your food? She said Alhamdulillah we're in the blessing of Allah subhanho wa Taala she praised the kind of life they live in. And and then Ibrahim told her that okay, this if your husband can please do convey my salaam to him. And

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also tell him to keep the front part of his door. And he's referring to Haha, it's my instinct. Well, it's what I'm trying to say is the sisters especially the parent Wallahi filament Allah, box Immobilier he there is no gift you will give to your children that is better than a Tauheed of Allah subhanaw taala teach them to heed of Allah, let them respect Allah and recognize Allah subhanaw taala accept anything, but not shake, you know, I'm not saying to accept my assay and tolerate Massey but and you can be lenient you know in on any matter but not to heat because to heat if a person loves it, his life will be miserable, even if he's so rich in this life, but Allah subhanaw

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taala will remove the contentment and the inner satisfaction and the peace of mind and at the end of the day when he meets Allah subhanaw taala How is going to be confirmed. So be very careful. The first thing to teach your child your child is to wait to wait to hear from the younger age. Let them according to their capacity teach them about Allah you know the basics. Allah is the Creator is not created you know everything is created about Allah whatever you get is from Allah smarter everything you get from Allah always have to Oaklawn Allah subhanaw taala things like this, you know, words in the school, which

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I mean, which I should keep you informed them this one is sherek associating partner with Allah, all of these tiny, tiny things according to their capacity. You know, the more they grow, the more you increase, you know, the lessons a little hate until they are able to grasp everything and then you go teach them heavy books be the lighter.

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So that's, that's, that's the first thing you know, you should do. And the second thing is

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the other part of the Tobia you know, the first thing for the for the test kit, and next we're talking about test kit, you love Cisco heat, and the second thing is the other.

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Translation, two interpretations of little heat which are the righteousness, the actions of the limbs, especially the vicar of Allah subhanaw taala, especially the salah you are doing, especially the charity you're given, especially the first thing you're doing especially the Hajj, especially any anything that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam argument that we should be doing.

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So I guess this is very simple, you know, simple and free of charge. You don't need to pay a single cent Wallah. You don't need to pay a single cent you can beautify your soul at home, you can do it. Everyone knows what Allah subhanaw taala will just do it sincerely for the sake of Allah. According to the way the Prophet sallallahu semi desert stay away from RC Allah smarter says cut off la Harmon desert ca in some place. Another place Allah subhanaw taala says Avila Hamza CA, the one who purifies his soul succeed. What could Habermann DISA? How do you purify your soul? Through the forehead of Allah subhanaw taala through the remembrance of Allah through the prayers, you know,

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fixing the prayers, praying on time praying with her show, praying with sincerity, praying according to the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam

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fasting according to the way the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I did you enjoy. I'm telling you to be honest with you, I don't know about you, but the day fast, I feel more in control of my brain when it comes to revising things, you know, I focus more

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then you will understand what the scholars have been talking about, you know,

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that this fasting is also a source of what consciousness Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam I said, and you know, whoever doesn't have any ability to marry his, he said he should go for fasting. It helps you to control your desire that may go in the wrong way. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said was CMO, Jonathan Kegel neti Adhikam pitta, Calcutta he says fasting acts like a shield like

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Can armor just like the way when you use the shield and armor to stop the arrows from coming to you faster and it's acting in that way you know?

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So it helps you to stay away from RC That's why even gangsters sometimes you know, the moderate one amongst them, you know in Ramadan didn't go against the fitna, you know, they fast you know, that's why they said Vassilis is madrasah so there was this is I really want you to understand this properly, don't complicate things things are very simple. You and Allah subhanaw taala there is no barrier, we put a barrier you will get into trouble and you will not reach your goal. So be with Allah smart to have a trust in Allah subhanaw taala and have a corrector heat Don't you ever accept deficiency in appeal? The most dangerous thing that a person can be in is to have a wrong Aqeedah

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and this Akita of Islam is the most easiest thing you know, in this life. My dear brothers and sisters are key that is the most easiest knowledge

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because it's the key to the success and it's the only thing that can take you in Islam or take you out of Islam. That's why it has to be made, you know, extra ordinary easy, but unfortunately, we fight about Akita why because we refuse to submit to what Allah smart Allah says, We agree, a lead to use our call to interpret that which Allah subhanaw taala want us to do to do it in the way we want, not in the way he wants. Or the worst. Wait, what is that? Peter? Walla? What is that Peter Aqeedah means to give Allah's mantra, his right to believe in what he says and to keep it in the way he says was What's so difficult about this, you know, that's why I told some people I can teach

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actually that in 15 minutes, you know, actually is exaggeration, this is more I can go 10 minutes, I can teach at NIDA, whatever you want to do to succeed in this life in 10 minutes, I can give you that is very simple, very easy, what Allah is what I want you to do, you can deliver it in 10 minutes.

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But because of others, you know, other people's attitude, people teach Akela for ages,

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as even as the Hanafi says, it used to be very simple. But unfortunately, you have so many innovations in the aqidah and whenever a an innovation comes, the scholars have to come and refute it. That's why the books become so big, you know, but the contents look at activity the whole year, you know, I wish I have a copy here. Look at that Achilles heel is very, very small, small book, you know,

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I don't have it here, unfortunately. But it is very small, you know, as small as actually smaller than this book, you know, akin to how we are it contains almost everything you need, you know, it's almost just like the size as small as small as this.

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But unfortunately, if you are to talk about it and to talk about other people who brought other things, you will spend ages, we need that because without that, then we cannot protect our children, we cannot protect ourselves. The burden sisters the issue of the heat and Akira is very simple. What is that Akita to believe that Allah's motto is one in his creation, his control and his ownership. Why is it so difficult about this, he can he create an owns and controls. This one, if you maintain it, it will guide you to the rest of the types of data hit. This one that I mentioned, this is what we call the hidden Rubia the hidden owner here to believe that Allah subhanaw taala is the only one

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who has the right to all of your actions. You do them for his sake alone, without associating partner with him.

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Your life is governed we do hate whatever happens in this life. You relate it to Allah smarter, when you do something, you know, you make sure that you unite the last 14 When you pray for Allah, you've asked for Allah you'll give charity for Allah, your go for Hajj for Allah, your do Sarkar for Allah, you say the truth for Allah you deal with people for Allah you you love somebody for Allah, you hate somebody for Allah, everything you know, if your life is like this, then your to hate will be perfect. That's the Hebrew here. The last type of hate is to hear it or smell or see fat. That's mostly fat. What is that? To believe that Allah has names and attributes and it's very simple

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concept. You know, a few seconds you can talk to the people about what they're supposed to believe in this regard. Because it is nothing other than accepting any name Allah gave himself or the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that this name is the name of Allah and you and the attributes also like that, and you keep them in the way they are with no modification, please Billahi alaykum What is it so difficult about this?

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And it has a very strong impact in our life. Because if you go through the names of Allah Sparta, that is known to us, you know, put them into practice and action and see how you life is going to be very excellent. You will be very dedicated to Allah azza wa jal and very kind to humankind, you know, look at the names of Allah each and every one of them. I

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One of them has a role to play in your life. But do we do that we spend our life fighting this fight in that.

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Stay with that which was done by Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and that's more than enough for you. And that's actually what is required from each and every one of us.

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Then with AXA to hate, you go to the IMA and yet Islam has five pillars. And what are these pillars salah, Zakka, and Hajj and unsolved and shattered eight. Iman has six pillars, to believe in Allah to believe in angels to believe in the books and to believe in the prophets and messengers and to believe in the hereafter and to believe in the Divine Decree of Allah subhanaw taala which is one of the most powerful things that a person should remember in this life in order to succeed.

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These are the things you know they have a little bit of details that somebody should tell you about. But they're very simple. And the My dear brothers sisters, the way Rahim succeeded, you will take that path also last month, I will grant you success in this life. As I always say success means peace of mind. You are happy in this life is not about how much you get. But are you happy or not. And happiness, I mean, the real happiness, not pretending to be happy. Sometimes we pretend to be happy, but we're not from inside a burning. And it's some people they're in in the middle of disease but they don't know. That's another kind of punishment. Allah might make a person take something

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which is not a source of happiness as a source of happiness. And that's also a kind of punishment from Allah subhanaw taala so please do understand me correctly. My dear brothers sisters test kitchen knives is very simple. You know, everyone can do it. Everyone can do it. Repent to Allah subhanaw taala stay away from the sin, fix you to heat your good relationship with Allah subhanaw taala and pray to Allah subhanaw taala on time and do whatever Allah has wanted to ask you to do within your capability within your capability. Okay, Allah says cut off lemon to cut well, that charisma beef masala bell to fuel your hair to dunya the reason why we are distracted, you know, we

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don't purify us all because we favor the life of the dunya over the life of the akhira.

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Yeah, also, how is it possible that somebody is so busy with looking for a job? Even if it is haram, it doesn't care. Why is that because we favor the dunya. The companion succeeded because they fever. They look for the dunya but the one that is given the preference is that

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somebody heard a mention of Jana, you know, by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said Dr. Su Allah. You mean if I got killed, you know, during this battle, I go to Jana, the one that you mentioned just now, he said yes.

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The man says jasola If I stay until the time I finish eating these, these pieces of timber, the date he was eating some timber in his hand, he said in her lahat and taweelah Is it is a very long life.

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Funeral had to do dunya favor in the life of dunya is one of the songs of evils in this life. So give the preference to the accurate look for the dunya that is no problem in looking for the dunya you know, but make sure that you use the dunya in the right way. Make sure that you use the dunya in the right way. Allah says well, we take a FEMA attack Allahu datalocker. Use the dunya to serve the Africa. That's why Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam I said Nirmal Malou Salah liberated Assad.

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He says it is so excellent to have wealth that is halal given to a person who is righteous because you put it in the proper place.

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That's why you can get the better place in Jannah. With what

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with wealth.

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Last Motilal grantees good

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Carla Krafla Hammond doesn't care whether charisma be infallible to throw their hat to duniya Well, hello to Chiron wildcard at the same time Acura is better wildcard and is more lasting you know, it will never end

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is more or less in and it will live it

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will go to war Kulu Kumbhakarna Allah so Sylvain Elia cool, so he says Allah Subhana Allah says this is a Whoa, do come up Carla. Adam, you should say always like what Adam said, or a bonobo alumna and for Santa. Why Lambton Finland our hamdulillah Kula nominal Cassidy. So he's recommending and advising everyone to repent to Allah subhanho wa Taala by saying that, yeah, Allah we have oppressed ourself and if you don't forgive us, and you show mercy upon us, we're going to be among the losers in this life.

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are going to come akala you will lose and we'll call you come up Allah. No hurry Salaam and as you say also like what No, Alehissalaam said, while let him fill you with a handy communal capacity. No, Alehissalaam said, Allah if you don't forgive me, and show mercy upon me. I'm going to be among the losers in this life.

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kolu Kumbhakarna Eunice La Ilaha illa Allah subhana Can you continue to volunteer and always say, like what units Ali Salam said,

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the witness that that is known to be washbacks ftu Allah in the continent of volume in and among those who oppressed themselves.

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So basically what Omar Abdulaziz wants him to do is to repent to Allah subhanho wa Taala

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what color Imam Muhammad had definitely

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had death in Abu Bakr in language and artha Raba and even O'Meara kala Samyutta rasool Allah salAllahu Alaihe salam ala Kol in our bananas will be dinner with their whatever they are will be Linetti whatever you as an apple Bukhari Waitara could you had a PCB Allah and Allah who be him Bella and Leia, Pharaoh who had tell you Roger already

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narrated Hadees that says either abundance will be dinner with IT people become so stingy they don't give the right of Allah subhanaw taala in their wealth you know they have dinner they have their home but they don't give the right of Allah subhanaw taala in their wealth in abundance with dinner with water by our Ruby the reader. Maybe they don't give the right of Allah and also they engage in Haram businesses, especially the business of ADA.

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What is the Rena ena is

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buying selling something on credit and when you buy it from you buy the same thing you repurchase it from that person cash but at a lower price. For instance I sold so high

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this this thing is always that but I okay that is a cup here he gave me okay I sold this to him you know how much I sold it to him tendering it and he pays on credit okay.

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That means after one year he is going to pay me a tendering but then I know that Suheil doesn't need money money then I told him slide what do you think I take this cup from you and then I give you I give you a cash nine ring

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and so I agree to give me the the cup to buy the let me buy the cup from him. You know I just sold him the cup right now. I just told him that he wants me to

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to buy the cup from him. But at the cost of the price which is lower than what he will be paying me after one year

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you know so I purchased the cup from him at the price of nine ringgit

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and I pay him cash. After one year he is going to give me 10 during it. So in reality this is a loan contract where whereby Suheil took from me nine ringgit, but he pays me 10 Bring it in, in the future. That's a that's the river by we go from the backdoor, you know, you don't want people to understand as properly because if I give him a regular T 10 from him, everyone will tell me this is Riba. But then we tried to put the cap so that we can disguise ourselves, they will think that this is a business, but in reality, it is not swipe your card says who ever watches what these people are doing. He knows that the intention is not business. The intention is is a loan is a loan contract.

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So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam said, if you guys become stingy, and you don't give the right of Allah, and at the same time also you get involved in the sale of Aina playing games and tricks with the Sharia of Allah subhanho wa Taala what are called yet and if people stay away from Jihad visa, Villa defense, you know, visa vie de la Welcome to another Bukhari and they become busy with the tales of their cows.

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And the Allahu Allah He Minister Ebola and Allah subhanaw taala is going to send down a masiva calamity you know from the sky to them for Leia veru Allah on whom had tell you Roger who did Allah subhana which Allah will never take it off until the time they come back to their religion.

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So let us observe this you know in our finances you know, we have to be very careful these are sensitive matters you know, more than button person should be very careful you know, how many times you make dua we're making dua it's like we are done we are not asking.

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So sometimes it is coming because we eat too much haram

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make sure that your risk is coming from the halal way. You know, don't worry about risk. Just look for it from the halal way. Get it any finance that is based on rebar. Nowadays we have students taking loan which is riba you know they pay a certain percentage of that loan at the end of the day. These are all riba you know

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no matter how much we try to modify it, it remains in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala every person should feel a lot smarter know what exactly he does. But it is education. This is this and that education is not

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Education is not I'm sorry. It's wider, but it's not the ruler, the ruler in the sense, education is worship. But it is not the role of the right in the sense that if you don't go for that education, you will die. Because these are the only situations where labor is halal when you

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know that if you don't go for the river, you will lose your life. Cause like that. It's better for you to go and look for a loan or chain that I mentioned, go and study something that you can afford pay risk is in the hands of Allah subhanaw taala. Don't you ever connect your risk to what you study? It is not linked to it. You know, unless you've allowed someone to decreed that, but risk is separated from it, you have a separate file for the risk. And you have also Elman education, you might become rich because of your knowledge. But risk is given by Allah subhanaw taala to people who don't know what knowledge is all about.

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Because he's the creator. And he's the one who provides that. So it is very important information for all of us, you know, for all of us, especially the students in the universities, where we always think that at the end of the day, I get the certificate so that I will get the best job. No, it's not like that. So like that last one I prepared for you. You know, you study because education is is a pleasure. And it's a blessing. And it's an honor, it's a prestige, you know, and is respect is a deficiency for somebody not to study you know, it's good to be an educated person is very wrong for you to be ignorant. But at the same time, don't you ever tell yourself that only through your

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certificate, you will be given the risk from Allah subhanaw taala it doesn't go like that. You get an idea. We Allah smart Allah grant is good. So open your eyes and check about whatever you do it. Don't do something you know in finance or in business except that which is how to be satisfied with that no matter how much smart it is. Allah subhanaw taala knows how to make you happy.

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Or Carl has an elbow surgery.

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In the lfit Aneta Wallahi mA here electro Koba Minh Allahu Allah NASCI it is a fitna is nothing a lie except punishment from Allah subhanho wa taala. To to the people.

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The calamity that comes and happens to you from time to time is a punishment test and punishment also, sometimes.

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Whenever abou MBA bunny is right in MIS Nairobi, him booked and the pilot beema

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beema Kizomba Idina salud Tallinn. Oh, yeah, so literally khalaby Marchesa Vitaly Idina select Alena Mala and if we call

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some of the prophets of Allah subhanaw taala. Look at what Bogdanova is doing. Dr. Nasir is one of those

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tyrant kings which are really criminals, you know, they, they really punish the Jew, you know, they really punish them.

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And he went to a city and took it down to the ground. That's why some scholar said he was the one that Allah is referring to in Surah Illustra or he says bafna Alquimia madeleina Ali Batson shady didn't Francesco Kilala Dr. We talk about this very strong unteren King.

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That's both teleSUR. So one of the prophets look at what he's doing it really kill, destroy and kill and destroy. He says he was addressing Allah he says Yet Allah I really know that b Mark has a better idea. Select Elena Malay artifical air handler, you let us be so vulnerable, you know, and weak in the presence of that person who doesn't know you and doesn't show mercy upon us.

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It doesn't know Allah subhanaw taala he knows Allah subhanaw taala but somebody who doesn't feel Allah and as such for sure he will not have mercy on the creation of Allah subhanho wa Taala So what is he trying to say here? Your attitude? You know, if they are so bad Allah azza wa jal might invite others who are your enemy to teach you lessons? Because of your bad attitude, you might be in that situation.

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Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. Or Caulobacter Solidaria malady celeb Ania Allah comida Allah Eva hottie Attica will do dilemma call me and

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I mentioned that one day Daniel was told by Dr. Nasir Dr. Masato Daniel, they said he's a prophet amongst the bunnies in Allah Allah and but that's what I found in the history. I couldn't find a single Hadith of the Prophet Allah Allah could be trusted, which says he is one of the prophets but this is what I found in the books of history that Daniel was a prophet. They even claimed that there was a great for him in in Iraq, I guess in your accent or somewhere else

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But, please, but all of these fake informations fake information, because there's this color set and especially chocolate Sammy Timmy, he says there was no grave on earth for a profit which is known to anyone except one. And that was the grave of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Salah this man made life easy for all of us, you know, many people have been cheated, they will show you a grave they will tell you this is us. This is Abraham, this is this and that. How do we know?

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How do we know? You don't know? Because there are so light you know say that? How do we know that this is exactly musasa

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and people are spending money to do the wrong thing you know?

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So Allah subhanaw taala did not expose any grave of a prophet except the grave of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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So bhakti rasa told Daniel Juan de mala de salud Daniela? What do you think the reason why I'm given opportunity and authority to punish your people in the way I'm doing?

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What do you think is the cause that I have the power over them, they couldn't do anything. They just have to follow and submit

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both data sets Danya told him either Makati attic.

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He says because your sin is so big. You reach the peak of evil attitudes.

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You know,

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your sin is so big, your attitude is so bad. You know, that's one because you went beyond that level of criminality.

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And the second thing is, we're Voldemort, Comey and for Sally. And also my people, they oppressed themselves.

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You know, the oppressed themselves. Oppression doesn't mean you're going to oppress others. But oppression is to commit sin as the worst type of oppression competency.

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That's why Schilke is considered as oppression.

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Oppression against the last one to have taken his right because operation is to is to take the right of somebody

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whether you give it to yourself or give it to somebody else

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and should kiss that taking the right of Allah smarter and give it to somebody else.

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That's why it's the worst type of sin. Allah says initially kill a woman of the shells verily is really big sin and in fact, the greatest sin so they oppressed themselves through the Masse they commit sin. That's why the enemy of Allah subhanaw taala is given chance, you know, to come and teach them lessons Lomita maybe they will come back.

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And unfortunately law has a limit to that.

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But the current gonna be dunya dunya mentioned although this generation is weak, or into shape, Nasional Barney is a weak narration.

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He said the carabiner with dunya mean might have been the acid

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or whatever down in the visa lollies dilemma in Allah either either bill or anybody near Martin Martin.

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Whenever Allah subhanaw taala once Nick committed believers when Allah asked me to want to punish a people are not allowed fine. He will take the life of the two children the innocent ones what outcome are harmony SAP and Allah's Martel will cause the sisters to be to be barren?

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They cannot produce children anymore.

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And as a Nicola for 10 Zero Net much well SAP him

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so after that, then Allah Samantha will send down the punishment in a way that is nobody who deserved to be shown mercy amongst them.

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Good idea so there's no reason is weak. But we have narrations which are more than enough that we're getting the mercy from Allah subhanaw taala because of those weak and innocent people

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where they're caught up, and malakian even Abby dunya that Cara and Malik Oh Luca Malik.

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Well, their current metacommunity Now mentioned also a narration from Maliki dinar.

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Arabic is battling with dinar very

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any one of those strange and scholars of the past very dedicated peoples

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Yes, tufa with him you know like FIFA, they said they never saw him working with somebody to the masjid. Those one they utilize that time even the time to go to the masjid they use it in revision of the Quran and Dhikr of Allah subhanaw taala except one day they saw him with one of the biggest thief in the city.

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And he was shocked and what happened was the thief came to the house of molybdenum to steal something.

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He made a mistake he went to Malaga within hours house.

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This is one of the

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dubs are hard, you know, he doesn't have anything in doubt. He checked the house Check, check, check, check, couldn't see anything. Nothing to steal in the house.

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And Malik Mindanao was watching. And he knows that this guy's a thief, because they know me the city, you know, they couldn't do anything with it.

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I'll tell you finish. It was he park his things in an angry way, you know, to leave the place.

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molecule in the article.

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He says, My dear brother, it says,

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Since you couldn't find something from the dunya Allah kirkburton phylloxera sa since you couldn't find something from the dunya Do you have any interest in the Accra? He said yes.

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The man said yes, he said

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and then he took him to that place he asked him to make Hulu made Hulu. So let's go to the masjid. It also have Allah so I am taking going to the masjid with him.

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guided him you know, spider look, collarbone Safiya you

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took him to the masjid.

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The people are surprised. They said Do you know who you take it? He said yes. Is that who is that? They told him who is that? He said yes. He came to steal us but we stole him.

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He said he came to steal us but we stole him.

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They stole his what he called his evil attitude and replace it with iman smila

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globalmed Safiyah these are

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the those righteous people the student of of delight in our bus had Allah somebody says the student of the library our bus couldn't loom even with diabetes couldn't have ministered to him. You know, this one is enough. You know, this is enough you know as a recommendation for a person. You know, it's enough to him that he is a companion of the Prophet Allah so Allah and the prophets Allah so my trusted him you know, delight Massoud, he said, he said either had difficulty with the line was old fella to caribou ever blind Massoud tells you something done, deny what he says don't reject accept is enough as recommendation, but a very look into the life of this man. He says Allah has blessed

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him with students. All of them are righteous people. very dedicated people.

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You had a student called Robbie, Robbie Abel, who

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is what is amazing. Is his his made in the house. She she she thought that Robbie is a blind person. He thought he was a blind man.

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So she used to go to the house and tell Abdullah Massoud when when Robbie came to look for him. He used to take your blind friend is that the dog waited for you. He used to laugh at her and say No, he wasn't blind he just didn't want to look at

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so she saw him always doubt and his eyes is somehow closed so she thought he was a blind person. It was like that he was applying the statement of Allah subhanaw taala called minimum Guberman I'm sorry, lower your gaze. So anyway, so Mark Cuban dinar was one of the great scholars you know in Islam very righteous person. Cebu Kinetico. Allah has evil. Karla Karachi Hekmati is it I have read in a wisdom. So he doesn't say that this is a Hadith, but he says this is wisdom. And he because Rahu in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam as is. So he says, I have read in a wisdom, your call Allah terracotta Allah Allah subhanaw taala says, and Allah moleculer Mook colluvial Mu cubed.

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He says, I lost my hotel I says, I am Allah, Malika look that the one who owns the Kings, you know,

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I want to say the King of the Kings, you know, Malik is the owner of the Moluccas the kings. He owns the kings colluvial, Maliki bat, the hearts of the kings, they are in my hand, the hearts of the kings are in from an opera. I need y'all to Allah Hemara admitted whoever obeys me, Allah says according to this narration, I'm going to make him I'm going to make them Ramadan for him. There'll be mercy for him, I will make their heartbeat merciful to him or woman outside the jail to Harley Necmettin and whoever disobeyed me I'm going to make those tyrant kings you know, to become a punishment against him. But that is going on for second Bisabolol and as such, don't you ever get

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yourself busy by cursing the kings and the presidents and the leaders and authority then waste your time you know cursing them while I can to a year before home Alec Allah's Martin says Get busy in repentance repent to me, come back to me. And then I will make the heart inclining towards showing mercy to you. So although this narration has a question mark on it, but if you look at the

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rather than assume, you know and look at the meaning that is contained in this narration, it is correct. It is true by the takla Danilo Colucci if he Allah subhanaw taala everything is going to bow for you, but I will not pick this up for you but every other thing is going to be leaning and gentle and soft you know to you, including your enemies sometimes, including your enemies sometimes

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I mean, Mara City AL Hassan, Khalid Abdullah who'll be coming Hiren from the mercy of the hassle

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of Al Hassan

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Okay, this one is weak also, Khalid Abdullah who becoming Hiren wherever last month I was good for

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for people. Jah AMRAAM

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hola my last one hotel I will let them be led by the smart and the righteous people amongst the patient people among them.

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Well, they are home and the soma Hi Suma. Hi. And he will make their their their fate fit means they're about their salary, their gift, you know, the money coming? I mean, Allah's motto put it at the hand of the lenient one. The good one, those people who are not stingy

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were either Arad Allahu becomming Chevron Jhala AMRAAM Illa superhigh. But alas, Mata wants evil with the people who will make their affairs at the hand of the sofa. Sofa means the protocol. The Ages there are stupid amongst them, you know, but there will be the one who are leading them

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of a harm in the book ally and risk, you know sometimes will be coming through the bucola Those people who are very stingy

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so last Marcela Salah what

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are the weather currently Mohammed was one Qatada Caracalla Musa era anti Semite. What are the former Allah from Allah to gather because Murdock Carla invest Istanbul to Allah come here confirming Allah Mattia Reba era with Istanbul to Aleikum sharara confirming allometry Sophie Ali.

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Muhammad narrated this narration

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that Qatada said, Musa alayhis salam, these are all Israel yet you know, no confirmation from the Prophets Allah Allah selama. So we just say Allah Allah, but it is mentioned that Musa said yeah Allah you are above the heavens. That's correct. There's Akita of Allah Synology MA in Allah Summer College Algeria. When will we are there on earth the way you please us from the Allama Takada, Vika maybe doc How do we know that you're happy with us and how do we know that you are angry with us?

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Karla this Tamil to Allah come clear confirming Allah material by Yannick if I I assigned the best among you granted the authority to the best among you to lead you. That means I am happy with you. And if I let the wrong one to believe in you, that means I'm not happy with your attitude to the madness. That's why this caller said commander Kulu you are learning who your leaders are the flexion of our attitude our leaders are the reflection of our attitude. We fixed in Allah will fix the situation for us be the light Allah where the crab is dunya and filet mignon in Carla oh hello in a bottle and via either assign the money or if we select to Allah Himalaya, Tiffany, Allah

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Subhana Allah has revealed to one of the prophets of Allah subhanaw taala according to this narration, which is also weak narration that, that,

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that one of the prophets of Allah is monitor received the ye from Allah, that if the one who knows me, but still he went and do the sin, you know, if somebody who knows me committed a sin, select Allah Himalaya, I'm going to let him be punished by that person who doesn't know me.

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So he will be defeated by the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala so the next narration is a bit longer narration

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so I guess this this is the best place to stop in sha Allah. May Allah smarter grantee good and success in life up there man. If you have any question please do come up with it. Patrick love you

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Difficult question is best as written

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under the new ruling of the scam,

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we cannot let our father in law into the house if they come as a surprise. Can we haven't solved the permission of our husband is separate. We cannot let the father in

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Law to

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come into the house, if he comes as a surprise and let's be informed or

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no, it depends on the nature of the husband, it has been accepted, you know, woman, when she lives with the man, the husband, you know, she should, she should understand the husband you so that good relationships should be maintained. She should know what the husband wants and what the husband doesn't want. That's why this is my personal suggestion, taking it from, I guess, one of the scholars

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about his name. Anyway, guess this, this chef gave a very nice advice for the married new newly married people.

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I know sometimes it's very difficult, you know, it's like somebody's in a state of tragedy right after the marriage, no patients at all. No patient that's bring tragedy sometimes. That's why this caller said, be patient, you know, be lenient, be gentle, be patient, you know, give some time. Things are not going to be taken by gives them time. It is so important for you to observe the Sunnah of the Prophet, Allah Allah sama at the very beginning of your marriage. And he was adding an advice he says that he did that and it really benefited

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which is when you meet your wife, okay, when you meet your wife, the first thing you do after you do all the necessary things, the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, put your hand on her head and make that dua you know, pray the Turo card that is mentioned by some scholars. I mean, do whatever the prophets Allah Azza wa said in the Sunnah after that before anything else, before you start your relationship with your wife? Sit her down first. And you also sit down.

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Talk to her if the husband doesn't do it, the wife should do.

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My dear wife or the husband, you know, tell him this the first time we met. Unfortunately, nowadays, they met millions of times, you know, and but this is the first time we're meeting in this way. And now we are husband and wife, the battery has been taken between us. And let us agree upon a principles that our life will be based on. Please take this one seriously. Be patient, hold your breath and do it. I don't know you and you don't know me. So please let me know. What are the things you like in your life. Because sometimes problems are taking place in marriage, because the wife doesn't know what the husband wants. And the husband doesn't know what the wife owns. She'll be

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doing things thinking that he's she's pleasing Him. But unfortunately, he's wrong. He doesn't like it. He will keep on fight and fight and fight and and she doesn't know.

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And she will be doing he'll be doing something, you know, trying to please her thinking that he is pleased enough. But unfortunately, she doesn't like that.

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So the resistance is really crucially important. You know, at that meeting, she should ask him and he should ask her what does he like? And what is she? What? What does she want? Let them be very clear, I want this including, how does he want the visit to take place in this house? Who does he want to visit

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for care about any any anything else, you know, you have to establish a life, one of the problems the sisters, and also some of the brothers are doing. They take somebody else's life and bring it to their own family, you know, what works with that person who might not work with another person.

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You know, somebody might do it at work, but another person when he does it, it will really be a tragedy. Let me share with you a very funny, funny, funny, funny, funny story. But please don't forget the lessons I have been teaching with this funny story. You know, it's a very funny story, whether it happens or it didn't happen, Allahu Allah. But somebody told us this, that there was a woman who used to take from the gold, the the husband is selling husband is a gold seller. So whenever he brings it home, she used to take a bit amount of it and unhide it not in the sense of theft. But she used to think that problem might happen in the house, the husband might get into what

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he called a trouble, you know, and he needs money, then I will give him this. So she used to hide a bit by bit. And it comes where the husband got broke. It became bankrupt, and he lost everything. But she has been saving from his gold a bit by bit until the time it became so huge. So the husband came back home. And he was very sad.

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She told him what happened. He told her that I lost all of my money. And now when I didn't know how to deal with this and that, she said, My dear husband, don't worry. We have a way out. He said what do you what are you talking about? I'm telling you I am in a tragedy. You're telling me it shouldn't worry. She said relax. I have a solution for you. And the husband was waiting to see what what is she going to do? You know? She went to the house you know and someplace where she had the thing and according to that story, you know, she brought him the the gold when the husband see that

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At no so much is enough to bring his business back. So he asked her where do you get this? She involved in that she has been taken from his gold. So husband is supposed to blame her Why did he take but now Subhanallah This is the very righteous deeds she did for him. You know, he was so happy Hanukkah and smile and praise her and their life became so fresh, you know? So she was always happy because the husband change any any from from A to Z, you know, becomes very different. She was speaking to her friend one day, her friend was asking her how come you always happy always happy you never share any bad thing between you and your family? What happened? You don't have problems? She

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said no, I don't have a hamdulillah they say why? No problem. You know, husband is very okay. She said yes. Very okay. I'm not trying to hide his problem. No, very okay with me. Very, okay. I'm really happy. So the friend told her, can you share with me the secret? How did you manage to reach that? She told her the secret. She said, I'm also going to do it, you know.

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But unfortunately, she has also started she started to hide the business of the husband a bit by bit a bit by bit. One day, according to the story, I said, this is just a story, right? The nobodies come and tell me and it's a big headache. Anyway. So they said one day, this?

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What do you call the sister she has been saving the thing from the husband and the husband got broke?

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She also told him, don't worry, the husband got mad. What do you mean by Don't worry. She said, I have a surprise for you.

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And she went and bought the things for him.

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When he saw the things, and she told him, how did she manage to have this huge amount of things that she has been saving? The husband smack her and Biogen hit, you know, and hate her more? And guess what was the business of the second husband? He was selling the calendars, you know, the calendar, when the time finished, that calendar is invalid, you know.

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So that's why forget about this story. You know, just take the principle they said in the Hekima what works with somebody might not work with another person, especially in the marital life. I'm telling you what work with another family with this family might work might not work with your family. So sit down you and your husband and plan on how to live according to the principles and the values you both agree in the way you don't go and impose your life on others don't bring other people's life this mistakes have been happened in families and the family became this integrated and sometimes divorce will take place. Why? Because somebody brought the life of other people aren't

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coming in posted in his own family. The only family that you impose their life in your life is family of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, that one I can guarantee you will succeed when you do that. To good idea. So dear brothers sisters, is really important for the husband and wife when they match to have this clear understanding and then they can go and enjoy themselves in the way they want me alas Martina Grantham. Good. You get it? So back to that question. If she knows from the husband that he doesn't mind when anyone comes from the family members, she should let them in

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to get an idea. But if she knows that the husband doesn't want somebody to get inside the house without his permission, she is not allowed to bring somebody to the house without his permission, even if that person is is her father

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or her mother. That's that's very simple and very straightforward from the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam but as I said she should understand who is the husband first before she make a conclusion? Yes.

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Cushing the brother Abdullah cinematical.

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At Shiro is at seven 5am.

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Can we play shows at 730 and continued to have beers after that? Yes, because they shoot the shoot during the shoot a person shouldn't pray. That's why that Salah that is called Saturday Shraga she is shouldn't be prayed at the time of the shoot. Shoot means the time when the sun is

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what he calls the in the process of rising during the sunrise sunrise, the president shouldn't pray at that time. He should wait at least 10 minutes. Okay, at this 10 minutes. Then after that he can pray. You can pray that prayer, you know, and go ahead with the rest of the prayer of the Doha. These are all part of the Doha Priya Doha prayer is the prayer that you pray during the time of the Doha you know, because the latter were being selected Shahrukh you know

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they all do have prayers

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but 30 minutes is very okay you know 30 minutes after the shock is very okay.

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Cushions ceremony

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in terms of

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Education. What if the course in the university take our chance?

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What is the course in the university that our child takes, we perceive that it is too demanding of their time, such as in the case of architecture, when we see they're struggling to balance should we advise them to consider to change the course or we keep on reminding them to ensure they keep the intention solely for the sake of online, keep crying, they should keep the intention for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and keep trying. Actually, all of these things were Allah Harlem, they're happening due to the the mismanagement of time.

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If a person manages his time properly, dunya knowledge doesn't take that much from his time, maximum five hours in the school, and two more hours for practical approach is more than enough. So if you have seven to eight hours for the dinner education is more than enough. You still have

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around how many hours left? 16, right, around 16 hours you have balanced to do whatever you want. So as testimony this one she just needs somebody to help her to balance you know, to make a proper balance, you know, readjustment of the time and manage it properly, be the light ally will not be difficult, but changing the cause if she doesn't manage the time properly, then even the new costs is going to be like that.

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What does the I literally mean in a way

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this is talking about a cyber connoisseur recon Allah SmarTech classified people into three categories in Surah tilaka.

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A cyber cyber cone as humbly Amin and then as how Shimon is Alanya, NERC

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coolamon Hola. So as a cyber cyber con, these are the best. And according to the best interpretation of the scholars, it is not restricted to the past, you know, it everyone can reach this situation. So Philomela welline is small in Philadelphia with a huge amount of group in a huge amount of people, you know, from the previous nation.

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Well, kalila, middle alkylene, but from the the contemporary time, you have only a few.

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So you have these type of people in the past, they're more than the present. So if you relate it to the time of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and the time you're in and the tablet TV, for sure, you know, in that time, the Sabbath gonna say we can do a lot in our time, they are not that much. They are they're also the cyber conocido. But they're not as much as what they they used to have. Who is somebody who is always competing others in righteousness, trying to be the first in righteousness whenever he hears about righteousness, he tried to go first before anybody else that's gonna say the call log aren't as good

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as a drama.

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Question, Mr. Schaeffer

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shear does that mean we can derive from this that in a secular country, the state of the government may be worse because of slang or being practiced by the mass or even in a Muslim majority country, the right kind of practices are not made, and hence the state of the comment may be worse. Yeah, this, any place, any place that you see the injustice is rampant, and it's not willing to go, to be honest with you, if you look at the attitudes of the people in that place, you will see is also resembling the nature of those authorities and leaders are even worse. I have examples to give, but is not the time to, you know, come to our community and see the injustice and oppression that has

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taken place in our family life. You know, in our schools, you know, in our shops, you know, injustice and haram things that are taking place, haram relationship, you know, oppressor oppression, in this in the community. All of these are taking place within us.

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And then tomorrow we will point at the leader and say he is this and that. Yes he is. And we are also we are

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so you're right Shiva, you no matter who you are like, You want things to change Allah subhanaw taala I mean, you have to change first, then Allah Smita will change it for you.

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It's very simple, you know, you change that Allah will change.

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Allah guide is the truth.

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Now, the question was extremely

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Is it permissible for the son of a recently deceased father to

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cuisine is MedPage that was planned just after the father has passed away in a month's time from the dead, and his mother still

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is very, very good actually.

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It was very good. If let's say he does it

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three days after that is good also, it's okay. 100% Okay.

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But if his mother asked him to postpone it until late, and he should listen. So his mother says, Please delay your marriage, do it after a few weeks, you know, one month, two months, he should say yes. And take that advice very, very happily, you know, make her happy with that.

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Good idea. Oh, she said you do it after I finish my head. If this is her request, then he goes with that.

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Last mortal Atlantis, good

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sushi, the mother can attend the wedding.

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She doesn't need to go further. She doesn't need to go for the wedding.

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As the wedding we there is no need for the sister to go.

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No problem it goes as long as they observe the manners. But it is not a requirement at all.

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The father or the holy is a requirement to be in that place. The husband who will take the marriage and the two witnesses. You know and the MaHA does it

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even if she doesn't go in many cultures woman then go to the place of the wedding at all. They have their own walima they have their own celebrations you know people will just tell them the marriage happens and then they go and shout and scream and enjoy their food and

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all of these things but they don't need to be present in the masjid when the marriage is taking place. It's not haram but it is not a requirement at all

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Christian based history

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in continuation and the question of the ratio rock,

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how long is the duration of the Salah

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the salah.

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shrug means when

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the Salah

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is referring to the

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if she refers to the Shamrock time the short term takes around five to 10 minutes is better to make it five to 10 minutes or 15 minutes from the sign the from the time the sun set started to rise. You wait for 10 to 15 minutes and then that's it. Shala 10 minutes is okay be the light and then you can start your prayer. Once you start your prayer it's up to you

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is when one hour, two hours, five minutes 10 minutes.

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Six hours the point is don't let the hook comes and get you in that place.

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question was straight shaheed.

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One of my children is asking

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babies who died in infancy in be at what age when they're

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very young age 30 to 33. So

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that's around 33 years or youth as the most prestigious age there will be at that age inshallah in Jannah they will go to gym anyone who dies amongst them, the children of the Muslims before the age of maturity will be going to gender straightforward will be in the School of Ibrahim before the day of judgment and then after that.

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Go to Jana insha Allah Ibrahim Ali Salam

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May Allah subhanaw taala grant to children righteousness, such ADA

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Okay, that's a very good and then with this question of the boy May Allah subhanaw taala reward him and put Baraka in all of them and all of our children and grant them good and make them reliable people for the Omar Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and we Allah's want to grant all of you good and success in life. BarakAllahu li comes to Hannukah la Morbihan diga shadow Allah Allah Allah and a stick forgot to retake. See you tomorrow in sha Allah with any other side. Hey, Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh