Ibrahim Nuhu – #26 Tafsir Juz Amma

Ibrahim Nuhu
AI: Summary © The success of Islam is highlighted, including the use of heat and the importance of the brain as the heart. Prayer and finding a balance between success and risk are also emphasized. The speakers stress the importance of praying for Halal Islam and avoiding risk, finding a good life and avoiding double-stuffing, finding a good partner for one's life, and finding a good life with privacy and a good life. Viewers are encouraged to delay questions until the next class.
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I'm Terry White

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was the leader said if you have acceptable work, traveling as usual as Allah subhanaw taala anybody convener of humanitarian level one year fillerina as the lead word for the limited cathedral wherever there is a trophy really. So today inshallah we continue from where we stopped last class. Last marital assets kind of lemon. There's a cup, where the Kairos Murghab D for Salah Belle to Thirunal hurted dunya will ask her to Hi Ron Wonka in

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Sofia, hola. Available. Musa. Allah smart Allah says, Allah mentors. In the previous class we talk about the sin of Allah subhanho wa Taala for that killing live it because the karma Yaksha with general Ashkar Allah Islam na and Cobra, familia Motoki how when I lost one Rotella advisors and reminded us to give reminders to others when reminders benefit.

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And Allah subhanaw taala told us the nature and the kind of people who will be benefiting from our reminders Allah subhanaw taala says who the Linwood taki Al Quran is currently at Jimmy everyone but where Allah subhanaw taala specified and emphasize on the Moutoku that's called set because they are the one who are mostly benefiting from the

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from the Quran. So a lot of years this gives you in

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a less

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conventional way to Genova. Lashkar the bad ones, you know the wrongdoers, they're going to stay away from the from the remember it's for the reminders. They will not pay attention to it. Allah subhanaw taala says were to general Ashkar under the Islam natural Cobra, those who Allah smart Allah decreed that they will be going to * based on their choices.

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Allah the Islam natural Kumara Mangalam OTV How will I lost my interest is in Jana, I'm sorry in *, those people will never receive life and they will never receive death. So no death, no life in Jannah Allah says we're at I'm sorry in in *, where it will motoring call the mechanic overhaul the my eating, he will see death from every angle but unfortunately, he will not die. And Allah subhanaw taala says Colima now we judge jerudong But the gnome Giroud and Aveda Halia Zuko and other whenever their skin roasted, we will replace that skin with another skin so that they can feed the punishment. So after all these last behold era tell us an important message to all of us, which

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tells us how to succeed in this life and what can lead a person to a failure has been mentioned to us. Well, last merger talks now about the success. It says cut after Herman Tezak the person who purifies himself his soul of law after Hammond succeeded.

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If you're looking for somebody who succeed in this life, look at somebody who observed the test kitchen

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this kitchen knives is the most important thing to be busy with nowadays. But as I always mentioned this kitchen knives is not safe.

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has to be attained by

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talking you know,

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you have to act upon it. Tests getting us cannot come through talking. You must put that talk into into action. Yeah test cuteness can come only through the heat of Allah subhanho wa Taala if there is no to heed of Allah subhanaw taala knifes will never be purified you Allah that's why I see those guys living in the western communities where there is no Islam, then fools is not the key is not favor, just give them a time. So highlight in some of the comment, comment and also stating that you will understand that the knifes is not by Eva, it's not by Eva, only through the heat of Allah subhanaw taala Test Kitchen this can can happen. So the soul could only it could only be purified if

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that person has to eat to eat of Allah subhanho wa Taala and also that Tawheed cannot benefit the bear. Unless if that person is putting it into into practice and action. Whatever he learned

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he acted upon.

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So this is how you can find his kitchen knives. Allah subhanaw taala talks about a vicar and also Salah here whether Cara's gonna be for Salah Allah azza wa jal says men were their charisma be for Salah. So he has a test kitchen of screw the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala the Alladhina amanu UTMA in Nakuru boom with a kid Allah, Allah, Allah heated my no Paulo Vickery Sofia, Calvin, if I mean Jamil and just, well.

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us any any notice and any dentists, the vicar of Allah azza wa jal purifies the soul soul from it leaves you with a pure and clean heart. And this is the only heart that Allah subhanaw taala accepted Allah subhanaw taala says Flm mercy Ruth will our own alone alone Yeah Can Olivia

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yes my oh wouldn't be a na time Well, I'm sorry. Well, I can Tamar globality you sudo Allah subhanaw taala says why didn't they travel on Earth?

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which will enable them to have cluniac and want to be held hard which they will reflect with it? Yeah, that's why they said culpa, horrible do a tackle. The place of the article is that is the heart is not the brain is the heart. That's why the focus is on the brain. I'm sorry, the heart and purification of of the heart. Allah says cluniac Luna via they have the hearts which they reflect, you know, with it.

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Yes, now will be all they have is you know, because sometimes the journey is not physical journey where you travel by your feet. Sometimes you travel a lot, you know, while you're still in your, in your in your room, not through the 3d 3d. I never use it, but kids told me that you can see things as if you're driving

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through that one, but if you read the history is like you're having a journey to.

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So Hala sometimes is much more beneficial than going physically because you can read a lot. Read a lot which if you want to read physically, you might not be able to demonstrate all of those, those places. You need a lot of time to be able to go to those places, but in your house you can travel around

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and when you read history, that's why history is very, very, very important, very important in the life of human beings.

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So Allah says, Allah Mr. Avila de facto quinolone khulumani

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Then yes, now will it be for a Nahalat Tamil absorbed or like in Tamil globality? Huizhou.

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Allah subhanaw taala says

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the real blindness is not the one that you see on the eyes.

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The real blindness is the blindness of the heart, like in Tamil coloniality is to do

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we witness in our contemporary time, blind people Salah

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this month in the community,

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very knowledgeable people.

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And people will take them as the best and the source of fortune. And they would like

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they see with the eyes of the heart.

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They have the Masirah which is the most important thing. If you have eyes you don't have the Syrah the ice will be useless. The American will absorb tiempo Allah LM the Khalil mo Selena.

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So it is important for a person to take care of his his heart. When we say it is good enough to talking about the key to alcohol.

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Although there is a difference between laughs

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and call the two different entities

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a soul we don't see it. We

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No, what is that? Exactly? You know, until the person is dying then he sees the soul according to the Sunnah of the Prophet. Solomon had this

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person when he dies, he will see the soul being taken by by the angels and also the whole it has been it's something physical that could be touched. But I was supposed to talk about that. No, Allah says, Where's the rock and roll? Call your room in Abu Dhabi, or my ot two minute Illa Kalia, they ask you about rule. So tell them the issue of the soul belongs to Allah subhanaw taala are my OTG on me luckily there and the knowledge given to you by Allah subhanaw taala is very little. So profit is deprived from speaking about the soul. Just tell them Allah is the One who is in charge of this

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hour us Yeah, that's why me as his L A philosopher alumna and although saboteur philosophy

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you don't submit to this stage of Allah Azza bato he could have gotten Alvie Yeah. So her life you see that statement is adorable Aqua is one SE is something in the blood, says his blood itself started this. But Allah subhanaw taala told the prophets Allah is Allah call Roho mean, Amira the case is close. They ask you about the soul, tell them this is a loss.

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Or the core issue. Nobody is allowed to go through, we'll just leave it like that. You know, you hear a lot of funny statements you know about the soul the soul is part of even as somebody who says part of Allah subhanaw taala Yeah. Well, who says part of Allah spontaneous way doesn't die. That's why this one.

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Allah subhanaw taala cut the story short, he says, Just tell them the issue of the soul belong to me about teaching Illa Illa kalila you guys have been given little, little knowledge, no matter how much we have, in comparison, our knowledge in comparison to that of Allah subhanaw taala is very, very little. So insignificant actually.

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Everything eligible Allah smart Allah is far greater than what you can imagine.

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So test kitchen as is necessary. And this one as I said, you get it through a vicar and the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala suito heed of Allah subhanaw taala fertility healing to practice and action and also praying to Allah subhanaw taala prayer is really necessary for the test kitchen loves that prayer has to be done according to the Sunnah of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. If you do pray, according to you, understanding going against Ursula Salah Salem pesky turnips cannot cannot happen at all.

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So this is what we're supposed to be busy with. Right? But then Subhanallah we're talking about the Muslims. If you look at the life of the Muslims, are they

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according to this

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chosen, you know,

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behavior that last one to choose for us know when like that. So that's why the last one will tell us tells us the reason why people are in trouble and they fail to succeed in this life. is able to funeral hair to dunya. issue is you favor the dunya life.

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Yeah, the vast majority of us a favor in the dunya life. Allah Allah. Yeah. Whereas the Accra should be given the the preference. How long are we going to live here?

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Here in this dunya,

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Allahu Allah Yama do the right a lot. Lower militare are more or no, let's say you live 1000 is in comparison to the akhira.

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What is the ratio between them that one is infinity,

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you have something that has no end. This one is 1 million is

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take the good idea. There's no comparison at all.

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That's why that statement that says you should work for the dunya according to the time you spent on it. And according to the time you spent in

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this dunya is temporary and the accuracy is permanent. So that's why the smart person is somebody who works for the ACA more than the way he works for them for the dunya

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good idea. So this should be applicable in all aspects of our life.

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It's really, really crucial and

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important even for a person to understand this fact that our color should be given the preference, you know, all the time you should give the accurate preference. If you have to choose the dunya or the Accra, a Muslim should go for the for the Accra always but at the same time also a person shouldn't for

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Get the dunya Allah subhanaw taala says, In Karuna Academy and call me Musa February.

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We're out in our middle Kuru Zima in the Marathi who let her know we will switch for the core, if Canada will como Latifah in Hola, hola, Hibou and for what geography maratac Allahu data collection center, see we're coming to dunya you know, karoun Right? Can I mean COVID was a he is one of the people amongst that people, Booz Allen set up.

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A person who is not known.

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But then Allah subhanaw taala made him rich. And somehow a lot that rich, this caused him to be down here, you know, to be so arrogant, and claiming that even the richness actually came from his smartness and his skills. It wasn't from Allah subhanho wa taala. The biller

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calling them ot to alignment, and so the reminder that was given to him, although he was so rich, you know, up to date, I can't imagine a person who is

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as rich as Carl.

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But Allah subhanaw taala told him, we obtained the FEMA attack Allahu datalocker.

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What does that mean? Look for the ACA through the dunya. That's how it's supposed to be actually, Allah subhanaw taala makes you rich,

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you can actually get the best position in Jannah. Much more better than the position of the for Cara.

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Yeah, much more position than better than the position of the forum.

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They have allergy affordability issue, when they complain to the province a lot is that the rich people got all the reward? Is it how come Sal slightly say, we pray and they pray. We've asked if we fast, whatever we do with it. But it isn't the quality photo that I'm wanting.

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But at the end of the day, they give charity from the balance of their money.

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Or ma our ladies and gentlemen, but we didn't have something to give us a charity.

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Promise a lot of someone said but Allah has given you something also that he can give us a charity. So what does that do? So Allah, he said, you do the test we fill in Dubravka Lisara. After the prayer, you do this one a lot 33 times we'll have the letter, same thing with Allah when the same thing and the Lila heilala The completion of the meter. He says if you do this, you will supersede even those people who proceed preceded you.

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So they are so happy with this good news. And this a secure conversation between them and Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. But then somebody revealed the secret to the ritual.

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Yeah, somebody revealed the secret to ritual.

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So when they heard that, because they are also people of dedication, so they started doing that was the prayer.

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And then the poor people went back to the prophets, Allah, Allah, someone told me Allah, so Allah, somebody told him our secret.

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Now what can you tell us about somebody who because this kid is for who?

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So that's why he told them that he can follow Allah here at him, Aisha. Yeah, there's only thing he has told them. This is the father of Alaska he has given to him so ever he wishes.

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That's why it's called said although, in the akhirah, the rich person will go to Paradise after the poor, five years after the poor people. But it doesn't mean that the position of a rich person is always lower than the poor. No, that was because of accountability and heavy questions that he will be going through, and then forget, as long as this rich person is righteous, and he does the right thing. Who controls a lady on the half? Rumble alary. Allah can make a night very long for some people, and then short for others.

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To get it a lot smarter can make a time very long for some people and

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for some other people very short. That's why they have judgment. For some people. It's just one day the same day. For the nonbelievers for the wrongdoers for the bad ones they see it as 50,000 years for the Muslims are they going to see like this? No, they will see it much shorter than that. So that person has to go through the process. Answer the questions but the last one will tell about how did he gets the wealth and where did he spend it? Heavy questions about last one hour Tyler

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but don't forget that the general principles remains that Allah subhanaw taala with all of these questions, Allah can still make the day that day for him a very short day he sees it like that.

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Allah Allah Hola. Hola. Kula shame.

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So that's why richness being rich is not it's not evil.

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The evil is in

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Our behavior

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to become rich is not evil. That's why if it is possible,

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the rich people should only be Muslims.

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If possible, the rich people, or at least the vast majority of the rich people should be Muslims.

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But unfortunately, we are not aiming for this. And why is it necessary that the wealth should be at the hands of the Muslims?

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is simply because they are the one who was supposed to use it

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And we will ask when he accepted Islam and he came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He said, Allahu Allah, He said, My holding fee goes with that.

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He said, Yeah, I'm going to appoint you to lead an army as a meal for them. You go

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and then you will fight you will get the victory for Tagalog. And Allah's motto will give you the risk. He said, No, we are rasool Allah. So Allah I did not accept you because of this. When the Prophet also mentioned that then even the money he said, Yes, well, I did not accept you because of this. The prophets Allah is an asset but what is wrong with that? It says Nirmal Marsala. And Rajat Asada is a well it is always excellent to see a good and halal wealth being given to a righteous person.

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Yeah, because he's going to use it correctly if you put the Hello risk in the wrongdoers hands. What do you think he's going to be doing with it we'll use it to disobey Allah subhanaw taala and increase the corruption in the community. So it is always good to have a richness being held by by the by the good by the good ones amongst the Muslims so the problem is a lot of time I told them they love the site and then Ramallah Salah in nephrology a son so richness is not evil, it's always good for you to be satisfied. But it is also a virtue a person to have that amount of satisfactory level of risk which insha Allah help him to handle his life properly

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that's why the province that Allahu Allahu cinema said cut off Muhammad Aslam or is it a coffin or can now allow me Mata the one who accept Islam succeed?

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As well especially if Allah subhanaw taala grant him Cough, Cough cough is the amount of wealth which is enough for you to address your need. Whatever you need, you have money for that a food you have money for that although it's also fancy but it's okay you survive. You need education, you have money for that. You need to buy something you need to address the matter of your health you have money for that your family needs. Although it is not a lot but it is enough for you to address me it is not to address it is enough to address you need. The province Allah is Emma said this is the excellent most excellent kind of risk melasma what is a co worker now hula imata And Allah subhanaw

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taala granting contentment from that which which he gave because the real richness is based on contentment. Yeah, sometimes Allah Sparta will give a person a lot, but unfortunately, he's not content.

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So that person is poor. He's always be in a state of need. And this is what poverty is, is all is all about. So it's good for a person to have cover off. But it doesn't mean he should look for a being and becoming the best in terms of richness. It is okay, it is fine. It is good actually for Muslim to fight and to struggle. When I say fight, I don't mean physical fighting in intimate effort and to struggle to make sure that he become a very wealthy and rich and rich person.

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As long as the source is correct, the source is halal. And the way he spent the money is halal. He's always in a good position in sha Allah, as well as Allah so Allah said, the feed of one of us will never move from their position until the time Allah subhanaw taala asked him about four things right. One of them is his wealth. Where did he get it? And how did he spend? So this is what a Muslim should be busy with? Get money become rich, as well how many times we we have a need

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to know where to go? Yeah. Because most likely the wealth has been placed at the hands of the wrong people. wrong to us. Allah Sparta is doing that for wisdom.

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Unfortunately, they don't use it correctly.

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They get it unfortunately, and are they going to use it correctly? Allah smart Allah grant us good. So as I said, richness is not evil. But a person should always remember that there are heavy accountability on the Day of Judgment. Where did he get the money? And where did he spend it?

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But as long as you're doing these correct things, then richness is always good and it will take you to the higher and better places when you meet Allah Subhana Allah even

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in the companions of the Prophet Allah Sama, you have very rich ones, like who

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have the Rama, you know,

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that's racism, he only remember other than

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any other person.

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As long as I find Yeah,

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it looks like Richard another hobby now, actually, because of the mark, if that happens, you're supporting the whole day. It happens from with men where they allow.

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And you have Saudi Arabia.

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There are many other components of the prophets, Allah cinema was so rich, even Abu Bakr is not

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for you know, they have the wealth, and they look for it, they struggle to have it. And then they put it in the way unless Vata is happy with.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says, well to rule hair to dunya, the thing that is depriving us from this effective telecommuters katie loves is the ethos of the head engineer. We favor the life of dunya. And Alaska, we'll ask her to hire on whatever car you know, you favorite the dunya, but Acura is better? And Suhana Allah because of this simple and tiny, you know, and silly amount of the dunya a person will be selling his religion. Yeah, how many of us are willing, when you're told that this is haram, and you will be willing to stay away from it instantly?

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Only a few, you know, amongst Muslims. So whenever a new business comes, where the Muslims arise?

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And the Islamic

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system arrived, you know, became so famous, he was the Everlong, but start to become so famous, almost everyone is cos finance, finance.

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Many of the seeds of knowledge, if not all of those ones that are very close, you know, they went to that.

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And whatever you ask, will tell you.

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We went to do our own data and

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only one was honest. When I asked you why do you go to this is that this is where money goes, you know?

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Yeah, so that's why the intention is not good in most instances. So there's, at the end of the day, what happens is our fatwa is going to be affected by that wrong intention. So that's why we're not able to say the truth. Because I, I believe that if I say the truth, this will be the end of pipe risk, the business will collapse, or the people might not be happy and then they will just fire me you tell me that this is the end of your contract.

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Yeah, so many assumptions we have in wrong ways. So that's why when the fatwa is given, I mean the question is given to us, the fatwa is mostly going to be wrong, according to pleases the organizers of those companies. So a person should always remember that Allah subhanaw taala is waiting for him with the best. Yeah, and this life is temporary, you know, don't favor this useless and silly things of the dunya which will perish and finish either in front of you or you will go before before it over the Achla Allah says similar hair to dunya will accurate to hydro aapke. Allah smarter says whereas the Acura is better? Well, aapke and it's more lasting than than the than the dunya. Yeah,

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how long is this doing?

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Maybe the scientists were right. We don't know. And I'm not talking about human beings. Human beings we know through the Sunnah of the prophets a lot, some of them around how many years

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I know I mean, the the arrival of the human beings on earth

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for how long we have been living here on earth.

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1 million

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do you work with the scientists?

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Yeah, if you did history correctly, we're talking about 10,000 Or maybe a little bit more. But what he says is correct. I heard somebody saying that they discovered

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those bones higher. The according to the analysis that was that person was living 1,000,600 years ago. 1,000,600 years ago.

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Yeah, maybe we have different Adam you know.

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Call it

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to them actually human beings are not coming from Adam they're coming from

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monkeys. Yeah. Allah guide.

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So that one we can trace from the Sunnah of the prophets Allah sama that is all about 10,000 You know, like that, because current, according to the best opinion of this call is, is either 80 or 100 years.

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And the best is 100 years because this was a lot so my talk about one of the boys

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he says he he had Malambo cabinet. This boy is going to survive for one quarter, and he died at the age of

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100 is soy bean Adam mono Hashimoto Quran, Abdullah says, so Adam died at the age of 1000. Probably. And 1000 Later 1000 years later, no holy Salam came.

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We have 2000 years. No, hello sir. I'm also live around one house. Sula salaam, so myself between him and Musa Ali Salaam.

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Abraham between men and Ibrahim Ali Salam is 1000 is. So no live. 1000 is 1000 is later.

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Abraham came. That's 4000. And Abraham is a Genovesa. La Silla is a father. It's my it's my who is the father of homeschoolers, largely some mother, the grandparent of Professor Alayhi Salam. So it took him about

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between Ibrahim and Mohamed salah is a matter of three to 4000 years ago. So put them all together. barely reach

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10,000 Yeah, so sciences, okay, good discipline, we benefited and we keep we will keep benefiting from the science but it doesn't mean science is infallible. This kind of treatment that whatever sign says is correct. Is the thing that leads let the atheist you know, what do they do? atheists believe that whatever contradicts science is is wrong.

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Yeah. Science is like a luck to them. Science cannot be wrong, you know, according to them, you know?

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Why does science

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if they can define it accurately so we accept that which doesn't contradict the news. And we stay away from that which contradicted the source. And we tell them what

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we are waiting for you.

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Yeah, why do we tell them we're waiting for you?

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Because Allah says Henry him at a national park, where he unforeseen had terrible yellow.

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Allah is good to read these confessions of the scientists, you know, they used to believe that yeah, it cannot it is not possible. But then now, they confess here is correct is true. Yeah.

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Yeah, slowly, slowly, they're coming back to Quran. Yeah, because Quran is the truth. And whatever information is given to us by the Quran, Allah, He can never be wrong.

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If you see something different, that means you have to go back to your understanding, maybe most likely, you don't get it correctly. But the information cannot be wrong, because it is set by a lamb who you are. The one who controls everything, and the one who knows everything, the past the present and the future.

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Again, it so that all we know. But the amount of the time though the universe tells when the universe was in existence. And that's when I was saying that. Yeah, maybe the scientists arrived. When they said millions and millions of years. Allah Allah. Yeah. Because we're not talking about the existence of Adam on Earth. We're talking about the universe itself. The world since when the earth is that lol? The correct answer is Allahu Allah.

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That's it. But we believe that it has been there for long.

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Because I used to be angels used to be jinns you know, before the creation of Adam, how long were the angels and Genesis before the creation of Adam, Allahu Allah.

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So Allah subhanho wa Taala says, will ask Allah to hide wildcard put the time that dunya spent and the universe spent.

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It has a limit. True? Yes, but the akhira doesn't have a limit.

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In both houses, there is no limit for that. So Allah's forte saying what's with people you know, how can you you know, not use your uncle, to understand that it is always better for you to favor the future life

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which has no end other than ever.

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To get an idea, like many people built up the duniya right after they finished building the dunya Allah take them back. Somebody is benefiting from that dunya but not them.

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And then now they left with what with their actions. If the deeds are not righteous, horrible hustle. You Allah if the deeds are not righteous, who are hostile

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or can be Maliki roofie

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That fella might

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have heard, which is so nice, you know, and this is the best. The best example for this is that King quoted were able to compete in Libya, when they hire, they build a house for him. He bought a castle for some Maha Darel hold

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her lights and we were early to casino, he built a house and he called the house that will hold the house of eternity.

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Because he says, The day he gets into that house, he died.

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Here's a good example. Right? So kids when they heard this, they said this house is their own moat.

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So I like the Mexicans because they upon their fifth arrival, it said but then now the house turned into that remote, you know, not that cold. And this is the reality.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says, we'll ask her to Chiron will have everything in the Astra is more permanent and lasting than what you have here in Virginia, Virginia has limit and the Africa does not have to limit. So that's why a person should do the thing in the right way because whatever house he finds himself, the person might stay in that place for forever and ever. If the two he's not perfect, you get it. But if a person purifies it, so Allah smarters is what was delivered to the janitorial Matakana they had a moto Denali, kuliah, wagon haffi manca, Chevron mandibula baby which is a carbon, Molly, so only the one who purify his his his soul will be able to go to paradise. And

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this paradise, we talk about it. And everyone knows what is in that place will lie it is genuine. And I mean my word genuine insanity to find a person who is weak, and at the same time is favoring the dunya over the

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is Junoon and that's the peak of ignorance. A person who doesn't know what Allah is what I prepared for him in, in the era, one spot that you can put, you know smila stick which will beat other people with the Prophets Allah sama said he will mean to near O'Malley modero Sultan, Phil Jana, a place where you can just put another small stick that you hit something with that spot that is covered by the stick is better than the duniya or Malia?

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What is the length of your house in general?

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Downsize Allahu Allah.

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If your claim says although that Hadees has some weaknesses in it, which says that the length of your kingdom in Jannah and this is the lowest personal agenda

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is measured by 2000 years?

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A lot 2000 years, you will have to travel 2000 years to see the end of your house.

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Somebody might say where do we get this space? Right? Why do you trust the trust scientists when they talk about those galaxies, you know, billion light light years you know, even if we stay in the space, maybe everyone can get this, this this amount of but now we're talking about the heavens. We're talking about heavens you know, the Messiah is a much bigger than what you can ever imagine. Because all of these galaxies that we talk about they are within the space, our own way you know dimensioned that we live, if you take the whole thing, we call it dunya you put it in the heaven number one, they will disappear completely.

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You get the point. So this is very simple with Allah subhanho wa taala. And actually not only that, Allah is going to give each and every one of us this amount and much bigger than that because the prophets Allah sama said like Adam movement, it says it is almost impossible for a believer to see the last part of His kingdom in general this one is authentic.

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Keep whatever your claim says if this is not that authentic, but take this one actually is more accurate and more powerful than the first one because he says it is not easy for you to see the last part of the Kingdom agenda

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2000 years has a limit. This one is not easy for you to see the last part of Kindle And subhanAllah the way the scholars describe what they said is a place where if you wish you can see everything that exists in your jungle.

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The move it has extends

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right when you're sitting now you can see everywhere yeah, see the net one everything else are you move.

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You can see that it will have no and it will keep increasing.

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So this is lower

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A person in in general what do you think about those who receive

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any better than this? This person? So the prophets Allah sama say like I mean, it's almost impossible for a believer to see the last part of His kingdom in paradise. So how is it possible for somebody who knows this? And then tomorrow you favor your business tomorrow you favor your family. Yeah.

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Yeah How many people obey the family?

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You know, rather than obeying Allah wife is listening to the husband and she knows what he does is against Allah subhanaw taala and the husband is listening to the wife and he knows what she is asking him to do is against Allah subhanaw taala

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in the hereafter you get a better family

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right? Yeah, that's why when you die people when they make the offer you they say what I'm gonna ask you a question and I want I wish you will be brave to answer my question right. You said Abdullah

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Dara hiraman Daddy

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was origin Kira miss

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if the wife died and the husband is there and you will the email

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you're gonna see a lot of did hazards and highlight

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those Yeah, what would you say? As the email

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any other Yeah, okay in the in insalata Janessa. Usually we don't mentioned the DUA loudly but the promise Allah somebody did it

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louder and we can hear

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that's why somebody says I wish I was the one who died.

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Can you make the same dua for the

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am afraid that husband is going to drag you from behind until you wake up? Wake up? I'm here.

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That's why many scholars amongst the fuqaha they say this is only for the for the brothers because the prophets a lot of Somerset Albula. But actually, they actually that's what a wife is going to be with the last husband she stays with.

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But the secrets behind this actually there is no it doesn't. It doesn't matter, even if even if you don't ask.

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Because if she is to be given a choice to choose the husband, no, this husband that she lives with in Jana, do you think she will accept him?

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I thought I'm asking a question.

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Do you think she will accept

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or you understand? She will never.

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This one is one. She will never.

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You also if you ask this one is what?

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Remember the chef that his wife died, right? Okay, that one I inherited from my sous chef in Medina. It was amazing. The story, I'd never come across it myself. But Sheikh said, one of the scholars in the past lost his wife. And when he buried her after the prayer and everything, and now she's in the grave. And then she looked at the grave and say, antibiotic, antibiotic antibiotic three times.

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So the student thought that maybe because of the impact of the death, he lost his uncle

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because they share what happened.

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He said No, I'm okay.

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When he told them that because I read that in Jana. She's going to be with me.

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So he's divorcing her right now? Because he doesn't want to be

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a question

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that divorce

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is illegal. Divorce does it does it occur?

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Divorce happen on on a wife right? Is she his wife after death?

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So he divorced her now.

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Is it a collectibles event so me divorce can only on the way right and she's the wife right? According to the best opinion with the exception of the Hanafis who says she is not a wife.

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After the death then collapse the relationship is gone. But we say no. The Sunnah of the Prophet also is very clear. That relationship remains and both of them go to Jana. They were going to meet each other in July insha. Allah

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bye if she's lying, then saying she's divorced. Why can't you say that now in general she will not be

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you don't have an answer to this.

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Because divorce is only applicable.

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When a person is is alive and also the kind of marital relationship that remains after the death is not the full one. It just the connection remains. He is the only one who has permission to touch but those others

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Things which happens before the death cannot take place after after the death it will be disrespect. You can either so the kind of relationship which remains is not like the old one completely. So that's why divorce is not working here. He himself also he will be looking for her in in Jana. So what I'm trying to say is in Jana, there's going to be new people in Jana is Muslim, but new Muslim is of drama but new.

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I don't know who they want to marry in the future, but it is their wives but new wives in general, she's the same, the same person, the same person he knows and she remembers whatever life they used to have in the dunya but different way of looking at different nature, different things. Everything is different. So that's what makes both of them new. So if you even if you don't ask, when you call Allah smarter to give a hybrid in the deposition, when she made that person who is going to be the best husband looked like the one in the dunya so better than the one she left in the in the dunya they get a logic otherwise for sure that person would never understand you when he hears you saying

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to Allah Subhan Allah let her go to somebody else who is better than this one. You will not be happy with just keep quiet if the Sharia asked you to actually do that. But as I said, it doesn't. It doesn't matter so back to the scene of Allah subhanaw taala will screw up to cut the story short My dear brothers sisters, Allah He there is no room of comparison between Jana and the junior. No room of comparison at all. So exercise patience and maximize your patience and make sure that whenever there is contradiction between what Allah wants and what your soul likes, it's only one one choice and one option which is to choose what Allah subhanaw taala one's aim for the ACA, the ACA lasts

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longer and it has no end dunya will perish. And don't you ever sell your Acura because of this dunya dunya never take a person up without bringing him down to the lowest level. This is how it is matter how much rich you are. If you don't use that richness in the right way, light is going to become a bag upon you. So this kind of faith and belief is the only thing that can help us to survive in this life of ours. Yeah, because we have many people because of the dunya we sell the asker and we don't mind. So all of this wrong foot was given to us because of what dunya you Allah because of the dunya that Sheikh is wanting to please those people so that they can give him more.

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That's why he's given the wrong photo. So he should remember that what Allah subhanaw taala is keeping and preserving for him is much greater than what he has here in the dunya and so while I guess guess what happens usually when we favor the dunya over Allah subhanaw taala do we get the dunya yes, if it is written for us, we'll get a lot but alas Mata removes the happiness and contentment. You know, speaking to you I have couple of examples of people who are so rich, the Sahara you don't see the richness in their faces and they don't relax. And if they are to tell you their stories is tragedy. Wallah it is tragedy nobody will like to have that kind of life now.

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Remember, one of our scholars in Medina told us one day he says Ask Allah subhanaw taala not to become rich in this day.

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That's contrary to what the students are looking for.

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And I have some

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reservations this statement but he has his own justification. I would never ask a person to ask Allah to become rich in this dunya you should ask Allah swatter to grant you Hallen richness that will lead you to righteousness. It's good. Should Ask Allah smarter. It is always better. To restrain yourself from asking others even loan. If you have your own money, you don't go to others. Although our life nowadays they tell us that even if you're rich, it's better for you to take loan when you buy things.

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Yeah, they say this but I don't know what are they talking about?

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It is always better for you not to go and bow for somebody and humiliate yourself looking for a loan. If you don't have something, you go on back others and sometimes they give sometimes they don't give up you just have to take what you call the destruction of your honor and dignity. So it's good to ask Allah smarter to grant you wealth that is halal. That which which leads you to righteousness is better than going with the poverty, poverty.

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Poverty brings and create a lot of issues. But anyway, he has his own justification which the justification is correct, regardless of the statement whether it is correct or wrong, but the justification is, is correct.

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He says ask Allah to make you rich with a share why? He said because my problem with richness

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is my observation is that I realized that the most I mean most of the people that are rich if not all of the people I know who are rich, they have been tested in a way.

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In most instances somebody is utilizing the wealth not

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whereas the normal person is enjoying everything but this guy, he will be tested in the way somebody is enjoying the richness and also people that are counted as the richest person in the region. Yeah, he but his life is always busy. And now he aged out a lot. I know that person he aged and He's the richest person in that region. According to the Forbes and all of these things is the richest person but I don't see the man relaxing you know? That teachers are that holiday that break you have you sleep nicely they don't have Subhanallah what kind of life is this? You know?

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I didn't have time this will say that he married his calculators

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Yeah, I don't have time with my family will lie this is not a life whereby all of my life is outside I don't have time to come back to the family and sit with them. This is not life. A good life is when you go out you have time also outside to communicate with your families Hey salaam to them this is salaam to you during your break?

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dates they just have in the car Come on connects the door to them so that they will not get tired of walking

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you through the time we even look for how to find find bicycles. This is the way the children are living in the Sahara the father cannot enjoy them enjoy the money who is enjoying it.

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But as I said the correct method is to ask Allah swatter to grant you risk but that is halal. Which will lead you to righteousness.

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Carla will ask her to hide why because in her that is older. So Abraham or Musa. This mentioned that people are favoring the dunya over the ACA. This mentioned about the accurate been better than the dunya and you have everything that Allah azza wa jal says look comfy hermitage the heat and physical Allah comfy

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Hammer Matadero Newsela Minnesota right? Even some of our scholars said noozle is the first refreshment that you give a guest. Allah so Allah says whatever you see in Jana is just what we told you is no Subhanallah then what exactly is waiting for you that you know what we learned from the Quran, this is NEWS, because it means the first refreshment that you get from your host when you meet him at home, add some water and then go inside and tell the wife to prepare the heavy you know, food that's why you tell him please don't eat a lot. This is just to refresh your

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brain and I don't know which.

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So Allah smarter says loser. If you take noozle as that interpretation given by that, that scholar, you know Subhanallah then what exactly you will find afterwards then. But this is Jana, Allah says whatever you wish you will get it matters to hear and also communicate it in, in general. That's why he says in whether it from my right and our iman, or Mullikin Kabira the greatest Kingdom is that which exists in Jana and who is the king in Ghana, you and who is the Queen, your wife,

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and who is the real queen, who Elaine or the wives here, the wise here because they can never be equal to her.

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Yeah, this is the fact they can't be equal to her because she went through the test, which they did not go they were just created in Jannah.

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They did not go through that. So that's why the this is how house, they're just provided in that phase as a maid, who serve the people in in the house and you have the will that there is nothing which you will need in Jannah except that you find it in abundance in a way much more greater than what you are you are looking for. So this mansion is not just in the Quran, Allah says it is there in

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Allah's mantras is in heaven if this sort of ruler, the books, the previous books that Allah subhanaw taala gave the previous nations This was also mentioned there the keys to success and the keys that can lead a person to failure. Alas, Marta mentioned that in the previous book, that's me is the most serious matter, right? Allah talk about it in the past. And Allah's muhurta talk about it in the present also he says of Abraham Musa, the songs that were given to Ibrahim be contained this information. And the songs that were given to Musa Ali salaam also contain information that Allah subhanaw taala grant is ability to purify our soul and to do the right thing and to see

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inshallah they will have a nice stay and visit in Jana. It'd be so interesting Subhanallah to have a nicer sitting or gathering in Jannah remembering all of these listings in sha Allah

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as they said if you pass the test on religion, the day of judgment you will see a lot of HIV in that place. May Allah smart Allah grant his ability to be in that phase and be among those people who will be seen him they they are not in light into those Allah Allah in Arabic knowledgeable in the field so Hannah Colombo Handicare Chateau La La Land as they forgot to like come off

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watched you wearing long socks? Can we do

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wiping up the socks? Till in the socks? Let's

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just do them until the ankles right yeah, that's it because I had read that it should be above your ankle itself. It cannot be below your ankle the socks it depends on the opinion the person is taking you cannot find this from the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah so my hope has to be above the ankle but most of the scholars said it has to be about the ankle. So since while we wash we wash the feet including the ankles so when you are wiping it just right until the place of ankles and does it

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even need to do without one or you don't need to do that every

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yes like this

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I mean

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what is it even Halal to wipe on the socks? Anyway

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I had a question. You have

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a loved one to him. Circle COVID Shoba

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the one who is feeding people should be the last person to drink

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okay, what is the question?

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Yeah, Allah smarters is one more Allah can be selected was severely learners alkalis Cananda

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very interested in the last one to focus on this tarbiyah that you should give your family the tarbiyah especially the prayer. Everyone in your house who is under your custody has to pray in the house. Your wife has to pray. You

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recall the children have to pray, no discount. There is no good in a family where somebody isn't pray. So Allah says commanded him to pray, make sure that everyone is praying to Allah subhanho wa taala. And don't worry about risk.

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Yeah, it's a learner's alkalis Cananda we don't ask you in a risk, we will make you rich. We don't ask you to provide us with any risk we will make you wish. Some of the scholars said maybe this one happens according to that audited atom in the past because when they go to worship the idols they have to present money.

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So you might find a new Muslims who converted to Islam, you know, he might think oh, now we're going to the Creator. That mean the money has to be more if he pays 2000 ringgit for the idol but now he's approaching Allah and maybe he has to provide 50,000 or something.

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So Allah wanted to delete this that Allah squatter doesn't ask people for risk. He is a learner's Allah Christian, nonetheless, we don't ask you for anything. Just command them to pray to Allah subhanho wa taala. And don't don't worry about anything we don't want anything from you. Allah says in Allah what result of the Maori demeanor on the rescue of Maori than us mo in Allah who was caught in the tea. Allah doesn't want any risk from anyone he's ever sukawati Almaty say Lana's Allah Caliskan Nana to cook we don't ask you any of this. We will make you rich Allah smart Allah says. So we learn from this, that Tarik to rich richness to risk is righteousness, especially through the

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to good idea. Yeah, the more righteous a person is, the more risk a person is getting from Allah. But then misunderstood and think of having the physical risk in abundance. Allah squatter might give you that one. But we're speaking about the rich, the real richness, which is the contentment of the heart. So Allah might give you a little bit he makes you content satisfied, and make you happy in your life. So you enjoy life, whereas the rich person is not having this enjoyment because he's distracted by his by his risk, as well as well as a lot itself. I said, Mark Allah Kapha Are you with me McAfee, Oh Allah, that little amount that allows me to give you but it is enough for you to

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live your life. It is far greater than that which is a lot. But it distracts a person from from Allah subhanho wa Taala so somebody who wants to risk he should be righteous.

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Allah might give him the the physical richness, you know a lot and also put the burqa in it so no, no Nana, no ruler, no light upon the light.

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and Allah might give him little but he makes him content and make him happy. Yeah, so that's

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the reason why also in another place the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it says lie Milena is tiptoe risky and Tetra boo hoo baby Mahala. He says Don't ever be deceived by the delay in the risk which might lead you to go and look for risk richness through a go look for the risk through the Haram channels. It says for innama in the light line or in debita it isn't because what Allah smart Allah has cannot be achieved except through the righteousness you get. Yes. So this is how we understand Lana's l Caliskan. National marriage Coco well actually TBWA

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last one Rotella please spread this because this this is what we are suffering from tarbiyah at home

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really bad.

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nobody's willing to do what Allah subhanaw taala is asking them to do. The wife is busy husband is busy. So both of them are working, although they're going for Halal things but at the same time, neglecting the real job which Allah smart Allah will question them about. We're not told that if you go to Allah subhanaw taala Allah will ask you Why didn't you go for work?

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That you will be questioned about every single matter of your family. Why didn't you give them the tarbiyah correctly? I'm saying this because we have a lot of issues in the schools

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primary schools and secondary schools a lot a lot.

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So spread this message and have the awareness in the people inshallah Yes.

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because I've seen return like

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the society, they want to give the whole time and go and volunteer and do this and that, but end of the day when I look at their family, like people I know

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I see the children being not having enough to be the basis across

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which your own family is

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focusing on being very selfish, you're

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this is this is absolutely incorrect

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Rasulullah sallallahu is the busiest person you can ever imagine your life.

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This month sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam you can see technically he doesn't rest. It's like a machine which is working 24 hours 24/7

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it found it so interesting sometimes even after he comes back from some other places, you know, you can imagine how much he was so tired in the daytime do this with almost everything he does, you know, arranging you know, Jihad visa Villa education everyone being concerned visiting this one go into the marketplace to know who's everything.

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At night when it comes he's gonna pray to Allah subhanaw taala to four to five hours pray. You can't even imagine when did he sleep? You know? And sometimes Subhanallah there was a time he just came back home from a mission he just sat a lie down to rest Jabril came to him and told him Yeah, Muhammad and he asked about

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afterlife you know,

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even Allah's want to meet him in a way he and the rest of the prophecy are all like that. The eyes closed but the heart cannot sleep.

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He says our heart cannot sleep, the eyes close, normal person both sleeps, the heart sleeping, the eyes sleeping. That's why sometimes even if you hit something next to them this this person is like a dead person

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with Rasulullah Salah some it's not like that.

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But still, as soon as Allah Azza never, never never neglect his family and they're right. He gives them tarbiyah 100%

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And he gave the children also consent until they're 100%

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No violating any any of the rights, how is it possible for somebody to tell me that he has a job which is causing me to be negligent or lie this is not an excuse and he will really answer heavy question when he needs a lot more data. That is the first priority these type of people they have to learn for Kololo yet Rasul Allah sama said a bit of secret human manteau Allah subhanaw taala says work one there are theoretical akorbi There is no way for you to start giving Dawa to others and you neglect your family and think that that is okay no it is not okay.

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No matter how much the society needs, you have to finish with your responsibility for us given society that time of yours is for the keyfile

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teaching your family is for the eye.

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And there is no way for you to combat compare between for dine and and for to the fire. So, no matter how much busy is a person he must have a time for his wife and the family at home no matter how much busy the wife is she must have time for the kids which unfortunately we live in a time which but nobody has a time for for the children and the family at home is busy outside during his junior year hamburger if he is supporting the community then he doesn't have a time for the for the for the kids. But in most instances we are busy with the dunya I go to work, you know from morning until night sometimes. So he comes back home exhausted

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and guess what happened?

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Very sensitive person.

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when the wife comes to him, she is also scared to approach him in that way. This is very sensitive. His was a very, very very short sentence headshots replies, you know, they understand that the monster had come back. The kids also cannot play

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all the tragedies he inherited out of the family, he is going to bring them inside the house and apply them on everyone who's there. Subhanallah and we think this is okay. They I mean they don't get you in the morning. They lost you in the evening. And some part of the night also they lost you or when you come back home also you become very sensitive and approachable. And you think that is okay, this is good. This is unfair. A person who wants to do this he shouldn't marry at the first place.

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He will law a person who wants to do this that's what you find some scholars they don't Yeah, we have our own scholars who did not marry their justification they give this at they are afraid of harming their wives.

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Yeah, because this is her right. Those colors that we have heard in the past they're not doing the right thing at the line with the the company of the province of sama he wasn't doing the right right thing.

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When he neglected his wife until the time she went to the professor locked him and told him era school Allah. My husband was a very excellent person in terms of manners and attitude. Elana will lend me Atlanta, Russian, but the only problem he has, he never sat on our bed.

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And the prophets, a lot of Sam understood what she's talking about. So he told her no promise. So he called me asking, Is that who you are? He said, Yes, I pray every day, at night, the whole night. And I fast also everyday. Everyday, he is fascinated. So in the daytime, he is a bit distant from his wife because he's fasting. At night. This is a time when she can have some time with him. He prays to Allah swatter from the beginning of the night until then,

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trust me, there are some people that it's a book which I will never share this book with you but there is a book somebody was trying to convince us that somebody is Wally, from Allah, Allah azza wa jal, one of his virtues is that for the past 18 years, he never touched his wife.

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And they said, Masha, Allah, you know, our villa. Yeah. Yeah, they will say another statement that religion is lost is missing because somebody is busy with, with the wives. Yeah.

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That's why I said, we'll never share this book with you insha Allah so that your brain will remain pure and clean? You know? I don't know those guys. Do they think that they are better than the professor last summer? What?

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Do you think they're better? No. So as soon as I told them this is this is wrong. You have to change this attitude. Your wife does have right over you.

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That's caller who his wife said she agrees with him. And is there any woman on earth who agree, Emily's happy will be in the second. I mean, she tolerate that. Yeah, accepting because Allah said it is okay. Every Muslim should accept every Muslim should accept but somebody who accepted and invited

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Yeah, we have heard a lot. But

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what is inside is inside to good idea. But this woman said to her husband, or to the people, she agrees that if the husband can stay away from his books, she agreed with another four wives, not even three wives for another four wives to come and stay with her. You can imagine how much this woman is suffering living with this person. One of our grade scholars, they say the time she decided to take another method, maybe she can attract. She went and put whatever makeup maybe she swim inside. She were the other thing and she came to him. And she was smiling to him and the guy was still reading his book. It doesn't know that there is a human being next to him.

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When he got tied in on you are like this, sometimes you get tired. You need to fix your neck. Yeah. Right. So when you get tired, he looks up and then he Oh, you're here. He saw how when he saw her in that way, because this is also the first time he said this kind of decoration.

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And it's so she was so happy that she succeeded. When he saw her his mouse. Unfortunately, there was a garment next to him. It took the garment and put on her and then go back to his book.

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Yeah, some people might say oh, these are the righteous people who didn't like dunya Allah he this is wrong. Yeah, oxy move Allah. This is wrong practice. Whoever is doing it is wrong. He has returned to Allah subhanaw taala actually the first place, they are taking somebody else's right. The scholars, we have our own scholars who delayed the marriage. I don't know whether they married until now or not. But the justification that was given to us is, I really do myself and I'm afraid of harming whoever I stay with. So he stays away from the marriage.

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Is he right and staying away from the marriage? No, he's not right.

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But this is the lesser of the two evils rather than bringing somebody who come and get depressed under his custody.

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Good idea, even Tamia did not marry. But if you look at the life of genitalia going around, you know that I will teach it almost four hours, you can understand that whoever agreed to go with me Tamia Allahu Allah, what kind of life she's going to. Yeah, but up to date, we look for excuses for them.

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So what I'm trying to say is that, I have no doubt this method that these type of people are taking, which he mentioned, I have no doubt that this method is wrong and injustice and also going against the Amana that Allah is meant to put on the shoulder of a person you cannot favor others if your family are in need of you, you have to start with them first settle their affairs and then go to go to others. So as a as a teacher outside I must have time to teach my my family you know that they have a statement that the most ignorant people used to be the the family of the of the scholars.

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Yeah, two things. Both are coming

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In the cry, the wife is not interested and the father and the article The husband is not serious. He rather keep the fame outside than having also sharing the information with, with the family, you know, here he teaches, you know, and also you see him laughing, smiling. Trust me, if you see him teaching his wife and his family, he is not like that very sensitive person.

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There is us the person here when he comes to us, mashallah, whatever mistake we make, okay? It's okay, he can fix us. But why this family? No, cannot tolerate that mistake. And the way they don't want to come to study, you know, because they know whenever they study, they have to go through that kind of Jahannam for them to learn one, one lesson.

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Is that the correct approach? No, your family should receive more leniency actually, that

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then the people outside, if you're leaning outside, they also should receive receive the same thing. So my conclusion is, is that those guys are wrong, they have to go back and read history, and the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and anyone who is not willing to give the right of the family, the only advice we can give him is to stay away from marriage. Because if you marry without giving the right, is she doing the right thing? And is he doing the right thing? No, you will go and meet Allah smarter and get into into trouble. So no matter how much busy is a person,

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you Allah, he has to look for a place where he has, he can have a time and come back to the family and teach them and the wife, if she agrees to work, no problem. As long as the place is okay? And conducive, she must make sure that the primary job that Allah Sparta will question about is taking care of the of the family at home. So she can go on work and do everything, but must make sure that there is no contradiction between the original job and what she is doing. If there is a contradiction, it is wajib wajib, I repeat, shall repeat again, was for her to resign with immediate effect. And go back and take care of of a family ticket idea. This is why because Allah will not ask

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you about why didn't you go out and work? You know, I have heard you know, people are asking the question that the community are telling me that if I don't go out and this and that, and I prefer taking care of my family and the community is criticizing that you have to go out you have to do this and that? No, this is not correct. And we'll look into the need first. Because in most instances, there are other people who are doing that job.

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And as such, she's trying to continue with this one is a virtue.

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I don't know which country is that? There are some countries that they told us that if sister stayed and take care of the nation, they pay her money every month. I wish I can remember this country and that not Muslim country also, by the way. I forgot which country is that? But not Muslim country? By the way? So I'm not saying working is haram. No, it's not as long as the place is conducive is okay. And both brothers and sisters also they should find a place which is conducive is not only for the sister, they should have to look for conducive environments not is for both that I'm just saying, you cannot neglect the job which Allah Sparta put on your shoulder because you want to become rich.

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You want to work to go and be in an environment. So the priority should be given to the family first, and then others. Yeah. So we combine both. I believe in all circumstances, there is always a way to combine between outside and inside is wrong for you to restrict yourself to the house without sharing the knowledge with outside because the evil consequence of that is going to reach your household. So if you don't educate other people's family, you don't educate their wives, you don't educate their children, their wives are going to influence

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your wife and you suffer from this. The good idea of a Muslim colony he was he was having a very nice life in his house. They said when he comes to his house, from the first engage, he will say, As salam o Allah, this is his system. Don't tell me where did he get it from the Sunnah. But this is what he do between him and his wife. If he comes to the house, a Salam Alikum she'll say, well, Alec was Salla Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar. You will remember Allah azza wa jal, she has between him and his wife. He came back home one day as salaam alaikum, no reply.

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Tech, low tech no reply.

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He was what is that? Is she sleeping a lot because usually she doesn't sleep at this time. She waited for him because life is so good between them.

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When he went to a he found her in a very angry mood.

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So happened, maybe a wife she said she started directing the

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So she told him, You have I am told that your position with the Khalifa is very strong, and you're very close to him. How come our life is still like this?

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You should talk to the khalifa to give you some money so that we can improve ourselves. Talk, talk talk. So the man realized because she said, I'm told that somebody visits our house and who visited one of her friends, and she told her, You Myskina you're living like this, your husband is always with the king, and he can just ask and the king can give everything. What do you accept to live like this? And she were convinced, and because of this life in the house is destroyed. I have an advice for people who graduate insha Allah concerning this matter, but what did he do? He says Allah Houma man, I've said Allah yet zodia tea for me bizarro And subhanAllah they said he used to be a person

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who is known to be Mr. Chappel.

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It says Yet Allah whoever contributed in this tree destroyed my wife yet Allah make him blind Subhanallah they said that woman instantly became blind person.

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So the house they have we have she remember that the last transit she had is in the house of that man, and they know him in the community that this person, whenever he asked the last party, God, he got this down will be accepted.

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She managed to go to get her eyesight back when she goes back and please forgive.

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Yeah, but the question is, see, the knowledge where it doesn't reach other people who are your neighbors, you know, if they're bad, they're going to, I mean, extend this evil man is to your house. So it's very dangerous to live with the people without giving them the power, because the corruption also is going to reach you. That's why I have this advice for any wife,

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and the husband,

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do not let somebody to

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interfere your choice and your life with your spouse. In most instances, what happened is he made his friends and the friend told him how he lives and he tried to go and do the same thing in his house, your house is different. And the wife also will go her friend told her things and she will come to the husband, she wants him to do the same thing. Or your life is different, as well what is the best thing to be done, both of them she sit down and design the way they want to live according to the Sharia, and do not entertain anyone to come and interfere law come Dinoco Alia de he will many marriages are gone many marriages without without vertical exaggeration, many marriages are

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gone, because the wife is imposing the life of others in the house of her husband, and he is totally different from those those people he couldn't tolerate that at the end of the

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divorce, what is he benefiting from? And subhanAllah you notice that a part of this those sisters who influenced her to lose her husband, they still with their husbands?

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So who lost she lost? So listen,

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but keep it in the way it is.

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Unless it is something which is really from the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah someone you guys are not doing a when the husband comes in, introduce that to to him.

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So to summarize that question, it is haram what those people are doing when they neglect their family.

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And they give their time to people from outside whatever justification they are given is is haram. The same goes to the job if I go and work in the place where my family didn't have a right it doesn't have my time this job has to be changed I have to look for something else. Yeah, because on the Day of Judgment, there will be Masoli career on this which which will not exist in relation to my to my job. Allah grant is good.

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First questions says just one, compile them in one question.

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Share if I easily get doubt in Islam.

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And I because of that I try not to believe in Allah subhanho wa Taala and try to leave Islam. Is it possible that I will stay next to Allah subhanaw taala and thereafter? And the second question, if I don't put hope to marry in this life, because I want to marry in Jana? Is that wrong to do that? Is it wrong to do that? Okay, for the first question, I will advise whoever is tested by having this to look into the surrounding who are his friends? Yeah. And what kind of,

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you know, life the person is choosing for himself. And why is he getting this? He has to study this properly. And he shouldn't be alone. She shouldn't be alone. He shouldn't be alone. Choose good.

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Friends, good company, those people who will monitor what you're doing and guide you, according, accordingly, this is really unnecessary. And also stay away from the internet, especially taking photos from those doubtful website, you know, go to the scholars physically and ask them

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and ask them about your questions and your doubt. And also I will advise this person to look for somebody who can guide them, you know, correctly to share the story completely with that person, what exactly are they suffering from? And how did you manage to reach that you get a proper advice, but what usually brought this is staying away from Allah subhanho wa taala. Yeah, I would advise this person,

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man or woman, you know, to observe and to have a good relationship with Allah subhanho wa taala. Because if a person is with Allah subhanaw taala be Israelite as usual, these type of thoughts will never come, because they are coming from who from shepherd. And if you're with Allah subhanaw taala these thoughts will never will never come. So I guess this is a very quick enough in sha Allah, good friends, good company. A person should leave alone, because thought comes when you are alone, and you don't have anything to do, and have a job. Get yourself busy. Memorize grants, seek the knowledge study, you know, and also minimize the attachment to the social media, except that which

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is 100% beneficial, and you're sure about what you're getting. And also whatever footwear you need, go to the scholars physically and ask them and if possible, look for somebody who is professional in these things and share the worries with him. And listen to the advice he gives you get somebody who feels a lot smarter, who can put you on the right way, not a person who will increase the possibility of the deviation and loss formula grant is good. As for the second part of the question, choosing not to marry in this dunya wanted to marry in the hereafter. Is that a good choice?

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It's a matter of freedom, right? Is it valuable person for person to marry in this life?

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It depends like, it depends. If a person cannot be patient, then it is watchable for him to marry. But if you find a person who can be patient, in this case, it is soon enough for him to marry it is certainly a must have for him to her even if he can be can be patient. So it's always good and excellent for a person to marry. But it is a matter of choice as long as he can be. He can be patient. We want to be patient until he meets people in Jannah as also fine. But if he asked for my advice, I will say no, don't use that. Look for good partner in this life, in this life. Even in the past, you know that in the life of ours nowadays, there is no way for you to succeed and to survive

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in a properly without a partner

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to get idea, and the best partner that should help you to survive this life is is your spouse.

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He will like you marry a good person. Yeah, that person will really help you to get relief in this in the fitting of dystonia help you also to stay away from them RC from so many things that Allah SmartOS doesn't like. So it's a virtue for person to marry in this in this dunya so we need the company and the best company is you is your spouse, then your family members, your friends. Your idea, so it's better to marry than staying away from from it shall Allah grant us. That's what he said about it that for dunya hustler Avila Keleti Hustler, but then go and say hustler but you mean has an another Hassanein?

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And then say that some scholars said hacer is referring to

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who is right yeah, there is an opinion that says have been added. If it didn't it Hazara is a good wife.

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Yeah, be gentle. Don't say Hazara, but you're just thinking about that. Right? But you're saying Rabbana Arjuna for dunya Hasina even good in the dunya and also good in the era so why can't you get good spouse in this dunya and good spouse also in the accurate response in the accurate already good? The dunya we're not sure that's why you ask Allah subhanaw taala to give you the best in this dunya so Nicola home as any question,

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many questions so can we just delay them to the next class? Okay, thank you very much for your patience May Allah subhanaw taala grant you good until he can be with you wherever you're in there will be college Emilian caffyns Hannukah la Morbihan decrescendo La La La and SF River to the lake Assalamu alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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