140 The Disease And The Cure

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Bismillah R Rahman Rahim or salatu salam ala Magoo, Rahmatullah al Amin and abhi in our heavy bin Mohammed in said Allahu Allahu Allah early he was happy he was tell him about

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alpha Rathjen ratio to answer to their Santa Fe had the metabolome Awara at the EU as Allah subhanho wa Taala anybody convener of humanitaire lemma. One year of your retinas alert were filial model if you were vida de la Li. So we are still discussing and talking about the Hawaii. Rob do Albus. So I do Albus

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and we reach the feminine the Benefit number number eight

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call Molly for him Allah wa minha I know who your suit draw a shape on the model Hello, local. By now weird Holloman another city where I'm from Omaha in El kalbi as Sara Amin Fazal how I feel mechanic Harley.

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He says one of the benefits of lowering the gaze is that it helps you to block the means which which is used by the shape and to reach the heart. Because shaytan usually use the eyes to get to the heart. Yeah, just like the way the wind move so quick, so quick when it is in a place which is empty,

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nothing blocking it. So shaytan use the AI to reach the heart very easily. So when you lower your gaze you're blocking that means you know that road that shaytan is usually using to your heart.

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So when the shutter reach the place color for you, Matthew Salter Matsuda Ilya who is a Yamaha Tsujita and usually

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make an image in the heart. And this is exactly how it is yet. They were shocked they have that image in their brain in their heart. So shaytan will look like that image for him in his heart and will always make that image beautiful. A nice way John has cinnamon. Yaki for it has come from year end, who are you money? Are you okay carboneras. shouty or you will get a half double Massey, allottee lemmya Kognito Sally they have been doing till a surah they still call Buffy Allah He is a ship and what it does, it tries to reach the heart through the through the eyes, once once it reached the eyes, and again through the eyes to the heart. So it will try to

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create an image, you know, image of that person which a person loves in the wrong way. So we have that image in his heart. And shaytan will make it like a pseudonym that a person always, you know, worship, you know, stay with it. Hello, cool Valley che means Illuma to stay with something, and to always and constantly, you know,

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show respect to that to that thing. Yeah, you hold Monday. So shaytan will be giving you so many hopes, you know, that's why sometimes Subhanallah the image that a person is admiring, you know? Is it he knows it is impossible for him to get it?

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He knows it's impossible for him to get

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he doesn't even know why does this image exist? It's just a surah of somebody that person will be thinking about it from time to time. So, shutdown will be giving him a lot of hopes, yeah, you can you can it is possible, you know, and then we go and the love will be an increase, you know, it keeps increasing and it reached the level, you know that it becomes like a fire in the heart of that of that person. So that heart will become a seed enslaved by that Saddam which is created by the Chapin, in in the heart column from indelicate Sahib tickle and first allottee year GDP why generic, which will cause the ferocity which will kill her party in Colombia that had been the Iranian

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colajanni been for work, he was healthy, he could shout if he was healthy.

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He said the person will be like somebody who's in the middle of a fire.

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And imagine somebody who lives in the middle of fire. What do you think will happen to that person? You'd be screaming and yelling and breathe in very hardly. And he says you will be just like a goat or a sheep that is in the middle of the furnace over? And he said that's why in the

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I'm here after the punishment of those people who are committing Zina is Allah subhanaw taala put them in the Tanu is a kind of a pot you know, that is placed in you know the thing that they're making tummies and hubs with it when you go to that actually I think like that Allah subhanaw taala will put this unit and they will not have cloth with them naked put them inside that pot and the prophets Allah Allah He said I said Yeti Lavell Allah he will mean me now. a flame of fire will be visiting them from time to time whenever it comes to them and enrich them whenever I touched that that point. Bow the promise a lot someone said it was created and you can see the oil of their body

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coming out of out of them the same way they enjoy. You know when they're committing Zina, Allah subhanaw taala is making every part of their body also

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tasting the punishment.

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Carla while he had that candidate over to us heavy shower at least swirl Mahama and during Ella homefield Berezovsky because having the edge of the surah of an image usually doesn't end. In this way. It ends by Alia, we will laugh sometimes practicing the real

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evil things

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called a Jayla filberts, Dr. Neuro Minang. Whoa, the art or Warhol fear so that that part allows one to put their soul inside and they will be punished, Eli will be shoe Allahu subhanaw taala I decided, actually, I decided there will be punished in that way until the day of judgment.

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There was a punishment in in the grave, right. The prophecy last summer was telling us about karma, or hula who was going to be hitting Eminem if it had eaten whatever callosity so that's an authentic additional props a lot smaller. So those guys will punish in, in the gray, you know, and they will remain like this until the Day of Judgment, the punishment of assignee and Zania, the person who is committing Zina is replacing that kind of fire up to the time he meets Allah subhanho wa taala.

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So if you close your eyes, you lower your gaze, what happens, you block the shaytan from reaching your heart, because the best you know, way for the shape and to reach your heart very quickly is the is the eyes. Mom for the muscle is the easiest way for the shape and to get to the heart of a person.

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Carlo minha Anhui federal level Kalba little fake karate fimasartan He will surely be like local Borsari you can see the elica where Holbein who are by now, this is quite interesting. He said if you lower your gaze, it helps you to focus and to contemplate and to think and to reflect upon that which is beneficial to you in your life. And also it helps you to get busy with doing that which is beneficial to you.

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Whereas, if the opposite is to happen, you see that you see radica were Holbein who have been

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to will cause you to forget what is Monza for you. And that image and the shaytan will be standing between you and that is what what is beneficial to you. You open the door to anything that can lead you to destruction, but what benefits you shutdown will block you from seeing it. Why because you let him interfere and get involved in in your life and your affairs. Karla femme fatale Amaroo we are COVID TV How are female conflict and decree Robbie Allah Tala wala to terminal for Nakaba one Karina what Tebah who were can Ambu photo. So if a person cannot think about what that which is beneficial to him, you will find him being negligent in almost every offense of his of his life. If

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you don't take care of your religion, you don't do what is good for you. You don't focus on that which is beneficial then Allah will test a person by doing those things which are not beneficial to him.

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And if that's the case, then he will be negligent whenever I come whenever, whenever it comes to beneficial things a person will be very negligent in doing so Allah subhanaw taala says we're allowed to terminal Phil culpa who and they Karina whatever haha we can move forward. Don't you ever be that person that we cause his heart to be very negligent when it comes to the remembrance of Allah Subhana

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Allah says don't follow him big because you will find this type of people you know these type of people you will find them following that desire that's why he says whatever haha because if a person is blocked from remember remembering Allah subhanaw taala he is going to be following his desire

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No one who follows His desire will never succeed Allah subhanaw taala says do not obey and follow those ones are tubba Kana Maru for that you find them always been negligent

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either taxi you know negligent or they go to the Gulu gone beyond the limit, you will never find them maintaining the balance you know on that which Allah subhanaw taala asked him to, to call it luck will never the usual heavy mode A fella and if a person you know does not restrict his eyesight, he looks at anything that allows Muhammad Allah makes it permissible, he will be losing these benefits and he will be engaged in the mercy but alas, Mahathir mentioned in this

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letter to them and I felt knucklebones will reflect it to Valhalla. And finally to finish he will become amongst the heedless and also he will be following his desire and also at the same time you will find him be negligence not using that which is beneficial to

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Carla ship and nearby in aligning well kalbi Hmong further water you can use them for Salah hottie Hema

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one yes no heavy Salahi one you have sort of diversity for either for a certain color for Salah novel way the first set another Rufus

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you know he says there is between the eyes and the heart there is a connection that is Mumford there is a route similar to what he says earlier.

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So they are connected to each other, although they are separated, but there is something that is connecting them to to each other in the way, if one of them is okay, the other one also is going to be okay. If you remember in the past, he talks about how the eyes side contribute to the salah of the heart. Because if the heart the eyes is not closed, the eyes will see what is inappropriate and send the message to the heart. And the heart will take it

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while they're just in it, you will take it off, it might not be able to resist properly, you will accept it and once the heart Accept it, and this will be possible to do Aloka.

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Because if the if the I accept it and the heart doesn't accept it, it's easier

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to swallow. If you don't have a heart which is prepared for that and you send some image to that heart, the heart might accept it. And once the heart Accept it, nobody can reject it. And no part of your body can reject

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the decisions in terms of what you do and your life will be based on that decision of the heart. And that decision is taken from that decision which is around that image.

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That's why it is very dangerous for somebody to open his eyes and look at everything

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So the best and the safest thing is not to look. Yeah, isn't what I'm saying the eyes can accept it and the heart rejected because sometimes you might look at something and then your tongue. And I'm saying what?

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You worry so much. And you do a lot of testing

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a lot of Instagram, what does that mean? The heart is resist the eyes wanted to enjoy it but sending the message the heart is resistant in a very strong way to indistinct for going back to Allah subhanaw taala praising His righteousness, you know, trying to delete that image keep trying to get busy, you know, all types of commands that now the heart is given to the body to this do that reflected do this do that. Don't focus on that on that image. That's why for the good ones, if they see things, you know, they turn and they think wisely, you know in terms of how to protect themselves in the next next time to

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color. So, this is what happens. So he says you have sudo yes lobbies with Sunni facade. When that is is bad the heart also will be will be affected.

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Allah fader faster called Mufasa Nava when the heart is gone, the site also you got

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when the site is gone, the heart also is going to go You rarely succeed if the ISIS is gone because it brings you a lot of tragedies which you need a strong hard to to defend and sometimes you might not be able to to have

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a lower academic a few journalists

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fader hurry battleline will first carry about cargo of a sudden

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you know why was sarcomas volatility here Mahalo. And Niger set Welcome to Raj will

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you know that when he keeps seeing implicating says when the ice is corrupt, the heart also is going to be corrupt. In the way the heart will remain like what like Miss Bella, but as much as well the place where you put cabbage and fancy things. So it's me

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means whatever eyes, throat, who put in the heart. So it says all of those dirty and bad things will be placed in the heart of that person because the eye is always sending the bad images.

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So the eye will fight you know shaytan will fight through the eyes will go and dominate the heart and fight so much. You need strong strong email and support from Allah smarter for you to be able to chase Washington after it gets inside your heart. So that's why the best thing is not to let him inside. Right? So if you don't do that, your heart will turn into a much better place of garbage where * where shaytan is sending bad things through the eyes to the heart.

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Alpha is the holy Sukanya mod if Atilla he will habit you will inevitably when the place becomes garbage base. Is it appropriate for the remembrance of Allah? No. When you go to the bathroom, you don't say you don't do the you don't read Quran, then do good things because it is inappropriate for you to remember last winter in that place, it's when the heart becomes worse than the bathroom.

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So it will not be appropriate for any form of remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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Karla villas De Lima if Atilla it will not be appropriate for recognition of Allah subhanaw taala and increase in terms of knowing about Allah subhanaw taala or Huberty love for the sake of Allah, loving Allah and lovesick Pauline Alberty Lee and going back to Allah subhanaw taala because every day those images are coming, dominate in your heart from time to time, in a way a person might not be able to go back to Allah subhanaw taala in repentance will also be he was Ruby could be he he

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when am I just going to be of that value. So a person will never be you know, subhanAllah satisfied and comfort, comfortable when it comes to him remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala it will not be sufficient, sufficient for him.

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So what, what he will be doing at that time, he'll be busy with doing the opposite, hatred, hating Allah subhanaw taala you know, going because when you are committed sin is a form of hatred. If you love Allah smarter, you will never go through that through this. Salah cinema Kalavati Chateau de la vie for work at Rockville, balsa wood, totally problem our he said, these are just some indicators, you know, a shout out you know that even Academy send them to us, you know some of the benefit, you know, some of the benefits of lowering the gaze, which are more than enough to tell you that what is beyond that is much more greater. And you will allow lowering the gaze, not going to one last

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mountain I won't accept by accident or when it is necessary. Although I feel high Kulu. As I always mentioned, it earns you focus and tranquility. And it helps you to feel peace in your heart.

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It helps you to have the peace of mind and to be able to reflect it properly and to do the right thing on the right time.

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You remember even your claim said the remedy and the medicine for all of those tragedies is based on two things right? Number one is to stop it from coming before it happens not to let it happen. Number two is to work on how to remove it after it happened. It started with the first one and then he mentioned that the reversal he said is to do this because you will help yourself to stop it before it comes. But sometimes a person already mess up everything the thing already there. How do we deal with that? So now maybe we have time we'll start talking about the other side of the medicine right? Kind of political funny, a man or woman who has solid

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Minnesota local Colby

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College in Chicago called dilemma you bury the who.

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That which prevents the heart from getting connected to those images.

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I'm sorry, this is part of the first remedy also not the second remedy. It's fun to be a part of the first remedy which is to take precaution. Instead the second. The first one is to lower your gaze. The second one is

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to do everything that will help you to stay away from having your heart getting connected to those images.

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How to do that carnage shallow cul de Rhema. Your adu and Danica were Holbein who have been a low quality

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you know, you'll make sure that your heart is busy doing that which is beneficial, which by nature prevents a person from having his heart getting connected to them.

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was images and it stands between you and those bad images.

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What is that? Carla ima how awful macular con are Hogben Missouri.

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It says either a strong fear that puts you in a state of stress.

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Because when the fear is too much, you'll be depressed because you will be in a state of strong stress.

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Carla Hepburn massage or the love that is disturbing love too much which goes beyond the limit.

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Carla fermata Hello Carl Bowman healthy Marva to other rally human has really had an Mabu. Whenever you have your heart, which is empty from

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anything that losing it

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is worse than getting what Sheila

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get it something that if you lose it, losing it, it's worse than getting this thing that you are loving

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are how FEMA has sort of a double whammy for what you have.

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the fear of, you know, having something in which if that thing exists in existence is worse than losing that Bible.

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You get something it's like you're afraid of

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thought losing something, which that loss is worse than getting what you love. I mean, you should sacrifice to lose that thing. You know not not to lose the one that you lose, you know, you lose the sight of Allah swatter for instance

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and you get the sight you get the sight of the man who you love somebody's sister or brother you know, but loving that person is is wrong Islamic so you're losing the sight of Allah subhanaw taala to get though

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they get it so her so for what you have losing the sight of Allah is what is worse than getting anything that you get from from anybody else.

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Oh, the opposite might take place Carl, Mahatma who and valla who were Hyrule home in heaven

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or he loves something that is more beneficial to him and better than what he is aiming for. What for what to have the rally him in Fortune.

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And losing that kind of love is worse, you know, in his life, then losing the other love which he loves. Which he wants can eliminate it but diminish because what if he doesn't have this kind of fear of losing that which is beneficial if he doesn't have that kind of fear of losing that which is beneficial to him, which the loss of that thing is worse than getting what he's looking for. Ignore cablecar him says there is no way for a person to avoid his heart from loving those images and attaching his heart to them.

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You are loved the only thing that prevents you from this is when you have the fear of Allah smarter in your heart. It prevents you from

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loving those things which allows martela hate you to love Yeah, he's going to make a very nice explanation in the near future then you can understand this properly even like a subject so I'll help from in Allah has the origin I'll have him for what Muhammad Allah the fear of losing the sight of Allah subhanho To Allah is the best thing that you should put between your heart and the images. If that happened, the evil eye has the JELA you will not love those those image. Carla was shahada and enough Salah to Komaba and inland Eva bobina Allah O Hashem accrue him pursue other Allah He mean for what he has.

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When somebody loves something so much, what could possibly force that person to stay away from that which he loves? Something that is greater than that?

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Good idea. He loves somebody so much the only thing that can help you to sacrifice that is something which is better than that.

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He also won What is it better than your soul?

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Murtala has the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala that's why you find in the time of the prophets, Allah, someone they have the jihad, people are sacrificing the their life knowing that they might lose their life but they go for it. Because they know that what Allah has what is preparing for them by this sacrifice is greater than the soul they have

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to get idea. That's why the poll says do not accept anything to be the replacement of your life and your time accept something which is more valuable than than it

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and what is more valuable than it more that Allah has the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala so he says if you want to understand the previous statement because he

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is a bit complicated. It said I will explain it to you in a very simple way. Usually people don't stay away from that which they love except if they have something which is better than that one, then they move forward. They can compromise that one to something that is that is better or they are afraid of something bad to happen to them if they are to keep loving that thing, then this jeopardize it for a while and go for that thing.

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Aloha Sahiba who Isla moraine in Florida Houma, ohada Houma, la Mian Billups,

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he says, For a person, you know, to observe this, you need two things, you must have those two things, if you lost one of them or both of them, then you will never be benefiting, you know, your life will not be beneficial to

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number one, but Siracusa he hadn't color huduma but zero 10.

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In fact, he could have been at the redacted movie while mcru You need a strong insight to basura means inside, the inside is beyond the buzzer the buzzer, get a take something and put it in the heart and your brain and then that's reflection to understand things in the way they are and to make conclusion to make a decision on what to do based on what you see is called the seer.

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To understand things properly. Yeah, that's why you see you might see death, but unfortunately, somebody doesn't read it correctly. It goes inside. And he lost his like we tell him Yeah, the eyes doesn't benefit him because the bacteria is is missing.

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Yeah, Lambro Cabela uncertain for Wila in Ireland palummo Serena.

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So you need a sera, sera means strong inside that will help you to be able to differentiate between the levels of loves and the levels of hate level level

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of those things that you love and the levels of the things that you you hate, they are not equal, your love to things that you're loving is not equal. Yeah. So you should be having the procedure that helps you to differentiate between this and that for you to Alma bobina adenoma. Yeah, because you will get stuck if you didn't have a zero but if there was zero exists, you will be able to prefer this one because it is greater in terms of benefit then and this one. You love both of them that you favor this more than this because it gives you I'm sorry, it is better than than that or you can see something, some elements which this one have and the other one doesn't. doesn't have

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this one has it and the other one does does not have so it favor this one who have those elements over the other one who doesn't have them.

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Carlo? Well yeah to me, Adele mcru Heini later calesa mean Allah Houma and a person can sacrifice I mean can handle and tolerate the lesser in terms of evil

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to avoid the big muscular taking place, you have two evils and there is no way for you to avoid both of them. You can avoid one what do you do in this regard?

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You try to go with the lesser one to avoid the bigger, bigger one.

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How can you do that? You need to zero

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otherwise you might be taking the worse trying to take the least you need to go sera sera means strong insight and reflection and understanding that is a gift from Allah subhanaw taala which helps a person to be able to differentiate between right and wrong. Allah subhanaw taala says Intetics Elijah Allah confer upon it, but you can fit on comme si article, wherever you are this Farrakhan multiferroic wannabe Bennell happy about it. Allah will grant shuba sera there is the ability to be able to differentiate between right and wrong.

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So how do I get through the Taqwa of Allah subhanho wa

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Taala How do you have such an Oracle This is one of the the manner of the one of the features of the Oracle and the benefit of having the uncle to be able to make this you know, observation which one is more beneficial for me to go with it and which one is less in terms of benefit? So then I will stay away from it and go with the best the best one. Allah you, Arkadin man can be the developer whoever doesn't have this verse zero is not considered as

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Belka de ACOTA call

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center Halloween.

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The call center Harlem Halloween, you know these type of people sometimes even the animals that they have better position that that you allow some of the people if you look at the life

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and the life of the animals, I think animals will be happy their animals

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Animals will be heavy their animals.

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This is Carl Hemara tome i don't know whether you heard this

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already called poem or not Carl Hema Rootworm in order

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LMR here Hema Hema was saying

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low answer for a low answer for the whole country or Kabul, Leon Niger Hill embassy to Asahi Johanna more Kabul.

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So the hammer the donkey was saying, or lie this light is full of injustice. If that is justice in life, I will be the one who will be writing on top of this guy.

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Because at least I'm juggling more capacity Gehenna mercy means I know I don't know. And I admit that either. But the one who is on me, he is jarhead but he doesn't know he doesn't know.

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It we call it the head of Moloch

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we have a NASA come to come Mascarenhas, Aruba. Originally yesterday, where did he and who led?

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We'll add the new library of America more carried on from what?

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He said you have four types of people, the one who knows. And he knows you knows. So these are the scholars that you have to ask them at any time. And the second category is the one who knows. But unfortunately, he doesn't know that he has that knowledge is it is the heedless guy. Somebody needs to wake him up.

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And you have brothers, they're the best one among them is the one who doesn't know. And he knows that he doesn't know

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an ignorant person and he admit that he doesn't know. So he's looking for the knowledge is that this is an ignorant, that need to be educated. And we have the last one, which is the worst. And lead the lead three. Well, I had no holiday. He doesn't know and he doesn't know he doesn't agree that he doesn't know.

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Carla, Veronica vocabulary is an arrogant person from q2. It hates you and cursing. You don't curse but he should be taught a lesson. Allah Salama to Lafayette. So this is this is that basura that he is talking about? A person really needed for him to be able to differentiate himself from the animals. Yeah, yeah, Allah Swanson says to some people in whom illogical anatomy. Bell whom Avila Sabina. These guys they are none other than an arm. The cattles whether the cattles cow sheep and goat and Jemele you know, camels, Allah says they're worse than the animals.

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And then he says, he said, they're like animals and they say hello, Houma della Sevilla, they're actually worse than the animals. You Allah. Some people are here, especially in our time, they're worse than that. A coffee was replying a lot of caffeine. They're both Kufa and both of us were supposed to be Christian Christian when one of them gave fatwa that same sex marriages

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and the other was also both of them are leaders of different country you know, the other Catherine said, I don't know how to cry. That one who has given this fact whether this is Hallett is this Should I call him dog?

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But then he said I'll probably have if call him dog is that I don't know how to explain to my dog when

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my dog asked me Why do you describe

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you alive some people, they describe nothing Excel. I mean, they deserve nothing except this description. Allah says balumama lu Semilla.

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A dog, if you are kind to a dog, what do you receive from the dog? Kindness, he might the dog might harm anyone but not you. You might hit it, you might beat the dog and cry in front of you and it would never attack you know, out of the reply, you know, with the mouth, the mouth you are doing for the dog.

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That you know that the worst people in terms of going against this nature. There are those who are cursing the companions of the Prophet Allah salah. Many of the companions of the prophets, Allah someone lost their life because of what because of the interest to make sure that Iman reach as peaceful

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Subhan Allah we become Muslim at the expense of their blood.

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And then somebody who doesn't know what Islam is all about is the one who will tell you all the components of the prophets Allah Azza wa kofod. So alcohol isn't those guys, they don't know this as well, like they don't even believe in our Quran.

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So even if you use this idea to remind them about what they're supposed to

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be doing they don't even believe in, in this call to them all the comparison to prophets, Allah Azza wa kafa somebody who struggle who made sure that Iman reach you is sacrifice his wealth, his blood is time his everything you know, to make sure that you get the best of the religion of Allah subhanho wa taala. And then at the end of the day, what is their reward?

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What do we compensate them with? It's like you have some in this life who open their mouth and cruise the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And if I'm to ask you this question, please try to look look for any description for these guys. Other than to describe them with animals in electrical and Amber Humala look, Sabina

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Carlo Thani, who were to ask me for sovereign Yeah, Tama cannot be hidden fairly harder.

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What Turkey he needs coach as you know, the first thing you need is that the receiver point he has the viscera he thinks properly. Now we need the action. Right? So he has he needs strong Azima strong intention, strong willingness to put that Basilar into into action.

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Yet what could it be really hard I will talk if it is something that Allah wants him to do, he is able to do it if it is something that Allah doesn't want him to do is able to stay away from it. But

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my attitude Raji nokhada, at felt lacking yet abana, who bought for NFC, he was similar to who, why was MIT and our eternal anvaya You Allah, this is really correct. Sometimes a person might know with the Masirah, that this is good for him. This is the best thing for him to do. But so.

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So we can have some excellent, so weak, so weak in the in the same way, he cannot sacrifice that lesser in terms of important for the greater benefit. So that's why it local him says the second thing he needs is called as Eva, he has Azeema has a strong intention, which is supported by what high determination by being very decisive in terms of execution that will show you see to be the the best it will claim says sometimes a person might know that this one is the best. This one is less this one is bad, but Subhanallah he can do it.

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Many people you tell them this is wrong. Basically we know it's not.

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We can't

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like that person who told me that this one told me by himself.

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I told you that person like guide him. He's still living with us.

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We're sitting with him, you know not here, you know, this dunya still alive. I was sitting with him and then sister came from one of the countries and

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say salam alaikum O Allah warclaw Hiko and then shook the hand and he gave.

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So I, actually Nellie Allah, whenever I always have my versus seminary when they graduate.

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So after they finished talking, they shook their hands he left. Then he told me in alila, he went nearly illegible. He also said in them because he knows I'm referring to.

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And then he told me a rhyme. I also have the same belief. Like yes, it is haram to do ceremonies. What he told me, I believe also is how to shake the hand of the opposite gender is not Islamically halal for a person to do it. But it said if you if she stressed, she brought her hand. If he doesn't shake hands, he is breaking her feelings.

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I don't know whether he's begging her feelings or his feelings. He

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doesn't want to break his feelings.

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So you can see he said about himself. You know, I didn't even tell him haram halal. I just seen her live in a village. He said, I know it's hard. And I know I shouldn't do.

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But what do you expect me to do? She came with all of our feelings break her feelings. He said I can't.

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So if you came in saying that sometimes a person might know that something is haram, but he doesn't have the courage, the strength and the power and ability to to do it.

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I mean, to stay away from it.

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So this this is what this is based on what the greed that a person might be having manger che heresy. Although it never said he was at MIT, he will law because sometimes the him that determination is very, very, very little. If it doesn't even exist, and it's useless. You see, the way this person is thinking is used this type of things, is that the kind of people that their decisions and their plan when you look at it, to be wondering who is pumping them with this type of thinking.

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That's why you need to have the strongest

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When you when you see yourself not resting properly trying to achieve you know that which is better for you in your life

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that means your determination is is very good and you value so you will love please take this seriously when you value your life. Your your your Murad Yamaraja your goals are going to be so tough. Yeah, that's why that poll says it Acana to know who Kibana

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to EBIT fi Moradi alleges humble when the souls become so tough I mean I mean so valuable you know that you believe that your life has strong value tie but fee Murad

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those person they know no compromise they said have a target we just have to reach this target even if it is there on the thorough year to do everything possible to reach it. They don't know why because submission they know nothing except either to get a goal or die you know? I mean they don't fight but

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I'm trying to say that they do everything possible with no laziness you know until the time they reach age their whole

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life land if you're been FC he will antihero behavior you work at Manor Allahu Imam Atleti imata dini in lemon al basally Walia King, la haka. He says these type of people, they cannot benefit themselves and they cannot benefit others. His life is useless, it will not be beneficial to him and it will never be beneficial to anyone who attach themselves to him while I interview him and nobody is going to benefit from him.

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Allah subhanaw taala stopped us from making anyone our leader except somebody who qualifies to things al Masirah Well, what are you happy? Iman and Masirah strong Iman and reflection that is based on that EMA? You remember there was zero talk about the insight. Last Muhammad Allah says we're Jalna who are emitted Kumbhakarna Tada. We call it here till more to do like what Allah smart Allah says and with the statement of Allah subhanaw taala those people who are looking for guidance, they seek guidance, they can only be guided by the statement of Allah subhanaw taala and listen to what he says. He says we're Jalna who are emitted. Yeah, you're gonna be a marina Lama Suburu Allah

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subhanaw taala says we have made them leaders. They're guided by the by Our command and reliance means surely

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you had you want to be a marina lemma Cebu when they were patient?

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Is summary.

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Be somebody really okay. Yeah. Last time I mentioned it Elbasan is somebody really a pain patients and also yucky

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patients? That's referring to what he talks about here, go to Azima in terms of the execution of the plank, have somebody while your key, again is referring to the knowledge that is based on the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala patients that gap, these are the two conditions for a leadership to be given to anyone somebody who's Cebu and somebody who is also knowledgeable.

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Allah says we're Janome I imagine Yeah, doing a VM Lina lemma several. When did Allah swatter make them a ma Allah swatter made them leaders is is la masa will when they were patient, what can will be it now your pinion and they always have strongly again, with the with the Ayat of Allah subhanaw taala that means they're very educated, well educated, you know from the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam so we have patients and they have yaki

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Paulo Hola, hola, V and Yun Tefo BLD This is the person that we get benefit from his knowledge. When we interfere daily there's a person that benefits himself by the knowledge he got when he went to therapy and people also can get benefit from this person, somebody who has strong Bashira somebody who is patient and somebody who is knowledgeable.

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Caller when they do lie interfere will be me he will interfere will be

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the opposite of this will never benefit from his knowledge. You might have the knowledge but it is useless. You will become calories

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filled by that. You actually have Verma will now folk of the holy Muhammad.

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You can like like a camels

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in the in the beta in the desert Sahara. You actually have them are they about to die because of the first hallmark of alcohol rehab. And they have water on their back.

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They couldn't benefit from it. They die out of lack of water under

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Chances are on top of them.

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Alaska hotel says kammerphilharmonie Yeah, as far as some people they are like donkeys

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carrying books.

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What does donkey benefit from those books? So there are some people smila They have knowledge but the knowledge doesn't benefit them. Why? Because they stay away from Allah subhanaw taala average Allahu Allahu Balaam Berurah that person that was very knowledgeable but Allah smart is he's from Salah caminha who shaytan for can Amina how are we? Well, oh, she never found out will be our like, you know, athletic, or whatever. So it's about how following the desire and the dunya can cause a person to lose the beneficial part of the knowledge. What is the beneficial part of the knowledge, the fruits of the knowledge, applying it knowledge without application is useless. A poet says we're

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all human. We all make a layup melon, ma Doublemint cobbler bothered with the one who has knowledge but he doesn't use his knowledge might be punished before the idol worshippers.

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Allah is more telekinesis to the truth and help us to have this Masirah in our life. Hello millionaires money interviewer OBL me enough see, while I interview be viral, and some they might be benefiting themselves with the knowledge but unfortunately, nobody gets the benefit of that knowledge from them. They restrict the thing to themselves, they don't share with others.

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Our EMC if you know he when she knows within only the first one is the one who benefit himself by his knowledge and benefit others. So he is like somebody who's working in his light and people also sharing that light with with him. He's sharing the light with with people with tiny puffy and who for who I am she if you Zulu Mati. So we have those people they work in their light and people also share in that that light

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and you have the second category which is the back counter example. Somebody cut tofu and who has the knowledge but Allah Swati extinguish that knowledge for whom she could build a mat from Antalya, who can Anika villa, so he is moving and living in darkness. And whoever follows him also will be living in darkness.

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I really hope that we are understanding this correctly, because honestly speaking, this is exactly our life nowadays. Look at the world nowadays, you see an application of this. People are divided into these three categories. Those people who have the light, and they work in it, and they benefit others also, these are the real scores. What do we call them? Hola. Hola. Hola. Yeah, let's call us for the sake of Allah. And you have the second category and types of scholars also living with us. These are all Mr. Ali. Let Dola those people they just give fatwa based on what the authority and the leader said Halal haram did it okay. And you have the third category, who are all Mr. LeeSha.

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They give fatwa according to what will make people happy so that they can have more views, more people coming to, to the yeah, they can have more followers more.

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So they don't care whether it's halal or haram but they are willing to give fatwa in the way they will

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attract people. That's why we are doing nowadays having somebody who used to be very dedicated to the Sharia. But then suddenly, he changed and some of them the change, he said could far help him to change

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your life. One of those that statement of some of them it said confer help them to change. When they join, join some of the universities and they meet those Orientalist haters of Islam. They help him to change from the correct method to the wrong wrong method

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is all following the dunya and you have after that dunya is committed.

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Yeah, that's life. You bring strange things you have a lot.

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You go with the norm.

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Then you have a little follow. So Shavon wants you to worry so much because all the little fall following but alas muhurta tells you in the Quran, we're into the experimental RV, it will look and Seville

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right until Gemma Allah Quinta or attic, you are the Ummah even if you're alone, the point is make sure that what you're doing is correct. It has a source from the Sharia, even if the whole nation against don't work, don't harm anyone but hold upon what you believe to be what Allah is wanting to ask.

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Somebody follows Alhamdulillah nobody follows. Keep it. A time will come in sha Allah they will realize the truth. Yeah, most of the most of them on you listen to their statements during that. So Allah is very great. Those who did not repent before those who are guided by last winter they managed to repent before they will tell you

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As well as some of the policies, you see that statement, which most of us did not know, he will love, you will be wondering why people are still following his old version of writings. The recent one when he talks in as well it talks Absolutely And contrary to what people are following, but who knows this only a few. But he said it and he died, you know, holding the Quran and the Sunnah. And confessing to the people that this is the method, ignore the previous one, we are on this until the time we reach a mass monitor.

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So you have all these types of scholars. So you have the real one who are working in their light and also sharing the light with others. You have some among us, they are good, but they restrict their goodness to themselves. There is a third category that they will have I mentioned, he says with 30 themes if you know why. They walk in the light alone. They don't share with anyone. So he learns but he doesn't teach.

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Yeah, that's knowledge is deficient.

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He's not paying the car for that knowledge. Does the cat have the knowledge is to teach others he is losing a lot, losing a lot. But is he is better than the middle one. The second one, the second category, those people who learned but unfortunately out of the fall out of following the dunya Allah swatter extinguished that light, they lost the light completely. So they become people who are misguided, others do misguided and they misguide others. The prophets Allah is so massive in hola hola, hola, como, el en because InDesign in Tassie, are humans to do religion, Allah will never remove the knowledge and take it off by taking it by force from the heart of the people. Allah will

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never remove the knowledge by taking it by force from the heart of people and a US caller. And then tomorrow just wake up and no knowledge and all of it is gone. Allah isn't going to do that. He does that with some people, they forgot everything. You know, Allah knows, why did they get this, this punishment, but there has to be a cause for that. But usually Allah doesn't remove the knowledge from the heart of this Congress.

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Well, I Kenyan tizio become dilemma. Allah smart originally removed the knowledge by taking the scholars who will take the scholars one after the other, they will keep dying. Together with that knowledge.

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Carla had title me of Kalamoon. Until the time no scholar left it to have announced who Olson to Harlan people are going to take leaders, leaders referring to scholars, not just leaders, not authority, but as scholars, because scholars also are leaders that are real leaders, actually, spiritual leaders

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rose unto her 100 But this one they are

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totally ignored. But then since they oppose the scholars, who do we whom do we ask? The we ask them and when we ask themselves they don't feel Allah subhanaw taala what are they going to do? They will give fatwa, the Prophet sallahu sama said people will be asking them for after they will be given the fatwa for Vaalu they will be misguided and they will misguide others also.

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When you think about our time, yeah, go make the analysis and observation yourself to see whether we are living in this time where we're not long ago, 800 years ago, this causes us to think that they are living in a time already.

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I wish they're in our time to see

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where the scholarship is not given to human beings which are living, moving, Hillman. The scholarship is given to robots and apps. They are here for YouTube. We have Shehu Google, and nowadays the new invention is that the virtual

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here alive, I don't know what kind of nation we're having virtual machines.

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You know, even in real life, this caller said you shouldn't take the footwear that is given to Abdurrahman rayon, should I take that photo?

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Yeah, because when he comes to me, I will say I will tell him the Brahman please explain to me your case. He will tell me the history. Yeah, it happens like that. He will start Yeah, this isn't he will tell me everything. Then based on that, I will tell him okay, a Brahmin. If this is the case, you know, according to what you tell me understand this and that then the outcome for you is like this.

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Every Yan comes and he told him like this, that and he took the fatwa that I gave up them and they applied on on himself, but they don't share the same history

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to get an idea, that's why they said a place where you

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this is just an example. Place where somebody Dunn's and he is praised by everyone is just an example. A praise where somebody dance or sing and then he is praised by everyone. They give him money for that. If another person does it

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He might get what? beaten. And they give an example of a woman.

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This is just an example. Okay? I don't know whether it happens or not, but they say, according to them, Allahu Allah, but a woman who

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has a husband, and the husband is selling gold, you know, take you as an example. But I'm telling you, it has a very strong meaning to tell you that what fits this person has fatwa might not fit this person, you have to look for this. You have to look at the circumstance first. So her husband was selling gold. Yes. And then she always takes on part of the gold in secret and hide it for him. Her intention is good. What she was doing is wrong. She can't she has to inform him first. But she will do it with good intention. In case in the future, if something happened to him, he got bankrupt. She can present him with the backup.

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According to the story, it happens. The man became bankrupt. He came back home depressed. She told him my dear husband, what happened? He told him, we lost our business. She told him don't worry. So what do you mean that?

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He said Just wait, she went inside the house. She brings a little bit of gold because she has been saving for ages.

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husband says Wait, where do you get this? She told him the story. He was supposed to hit her right? But then nowadays bankrupt. It was so heavy haha. He told her Alhamdulillah Allah azza wa jal give me somebody like you, you know, the life became so excellent between him and that wife, her friend, always happy and happy. She asked her what is the secret of your happiness? Because my house is tragedy almost always fighting? You know?

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She said, Yeah, I have very nice life with my husband. How did you reach that? She narrated the story for her complete from A to Z.

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And that other sister also said, I'm good. I'm going to do that. Right.

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She also started hiding the defect.

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Until the time her husband became bankrupt.

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And she also told him, don't worry.

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And the husband says, but she said, Wait, and she went and she broke the thing to him.

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And what happened after that husband kept him

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give a pension hack kicking her, you know, life became worse than before. And guess what was the business of the husband,

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the husband was selling calendars, you know, calendar, if you finish the month or the year that it's finished.

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Salah if she let him you know, and he sold those calendars you could have yet maybe the bankruptcy might delay.

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Anyway, this is just a story. But to highlight it has a lesson. And it's not everything that works with somebody works with another house. And I always tell the, the couples, especially the woman, do not adopt somebody else's life to house because we always make this mistake. My friend told me what he does at home, I bring the same light to my house. And trust me, my neighbors this is this is very wrong. Because your spouse, your husband, and your wife might not be the same as that one. When you adopt that line, which fits them, it might not fit your house, what are you going to generate? It fits them. That's why they live peacefully but surely doesn't fit your house. That's why who

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designed for you how to live with your spouse.

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yourself. That's true. Don't you ever let anyone no matter how much closes that person, you know, even your parents, don't let them come to your house. And I don't mean that let them come to your house. You know, that's a good thing. I mean, don't let them interfere and design for you the way you live. Trust me, you're going to end up having a lot of crashes. You and your wife, you and your husband, you sit down and design the way you want to live in the way you know interfere somebody else's life. You shouldn't also let somebody to come and interview your life. What fits them might not fit, which allows them to the grant is good, I guess is the best place to stop. I will stop here

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in sha Allah.

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Until next week, we say we stop at six right and on six. We have three minutes for questions.

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it depends. Yeah, they are not supposed to come to get involved in the house of their children. Although some parents they do. As I told you so strange to find some of the families. They even be the one who will call the husband or the wife and tell her what to cook at home.

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Like this is very wrong. And this treating the children like babies, you know, come on. Somebody told me even to go out of his house. He has to

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take permission of his parents. He has children, you know that.

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That's one of the disadvantages of living in the same vicinity with with the parent

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to get it if they don't need it is better to stay a bit far from the Miami bit far. I mean living separately you have your house they have the house company, Adam, no problem, but each and every one of you and parents shouldn't interfere

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your life

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as the best contributor. But if they command him to do something which he tell them, as long as they don't ask him to disobey Allah smarter he should

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know if the thing is going to destroy the house, then this is from is against Allah, he shouldn't be.

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The father comes to the Father, to the father, the father comes to the son and tell them son, divorce your wife.

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He cannot just go and tell her Karima yella out he can't. He has to. He has to ask him that. Why?

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Yes, he must ask why.

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And the father has to explain to him he can say to him, I'm your father. You just have to divorce. No. He has to explain to him why. And if the father gave him wrong justification. For instance, I just don't like

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Sterling Shere Khan.

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Thank you very much. Don't add.

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When you go home, kiss your wife. Kiva. You Allah just kiss her on Kiva? Dun, dun dun DeVos. Yeah, but when he says yeah, because I realized that she's dragging you out of the religion out of Tobia living with her is causing you to stay away from Allah subhanho wa taala. Yes, in this case, a person should should go and divorce because it's not good for him to stay with that person. But unfortunately, is it the case, in the vast majority of these hatred is just hatred. They just they just don't like the wife. And they don't have any reason. A son is not supposed to obey them in this. Somebody told me about Muhammad when a mama told him, Don't divorce your wife if your father

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asked you to.

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He said chef, but Rasul Allah is Allah sama to all of the live in Allah to divorce his wife when Omar asked him to divorce her.

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No, Muhammad said yes, it's true. If your father is like Omar, you also have to divorce your wife.

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His father is like Omar,

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did you have idea what does he mean? It means Omar will never ask him to divorce his wife because Omar doesn't like the wife. Actually, those ones they don't interfere the life of their children at all. And this is how it's supposed to be your child should have an absolute freedom. You can advice in general advice son, this is how to live with wife daughter this how to live with husband and let them go and decide what they want to do in their life. You can even what to cook you have to tell them where to go you have to tell them what kind of life is this

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good idea so you obey them if they don't ask you to do something which is destroying your family. That's why if visiting if parents visiting your house is destroying your house, they should you shouldn't let them come you go to them

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yeah, they get this one. Yeah, if you know that it is destroying your house and your house is really really following the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala correctly Are you sure about that? You know destroyed because they might be advising you to follow Allah but you don't want and you consider that as distract destroying your house? No, they were right, they have to come to the house every time.

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But if you're doing the right thing, and they come in trying to help parents or your parents, any one of them or any of the relatives who is bringing that thing to the family, you can block them from coming to the house and you're not doing a corporal one day you go to visit them for you don't let them uproot your family because wherever they come they invite them to mercy you have to stop them otherwise you face the consequence on the judgment and you cannot tell Allah these are my parent that's me you're favoring the love of the parent over the love of Allah

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you get a lot smarter guys. It's a truth

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a person a person

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Yeah, that's why that's why

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we have to be realistic. Yeah, we must be realistic. I can't tell you which category I will I will not tell you but I can tell you which category.

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You can tell me which category if you're realistic to yourself, you know, whether you study or even study, and after you study you are spreading the knowledge you know whether you're doing it for the sake of Allah or you're not get it or you're spreading the knowledge or you're not doing

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Given the knowledge or you're doing it for Allah, Allah, you're not doing. And there are some who has the knowledge, they know themselves, they know, they know, deep down inside them, they know that this thing that that they are saying to the people is against their knowledge. They know what Allah wants, but unfortunately, they are feeding the community with something which is the country, they know themselves. So that's why this judgment is based on myself my judgment first, and then the community. And trust me, the community knows because community are reading about,

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about us, everything you're doing. That's why my simple example. I always tell you guys, if you are to write about yourself, how many pages you produce.

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Yeah, most five pages, means you talk too much, you know, please sit down, I'll give you one hour to write about yourself five pages. And as normal size font, don't write huge, you know.

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Usually, when you go to half a page, one page, you ask Abdirahman What should I write?

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The good idea? And then it will tell me right? Yeah, I know, you went to Singapore last time you went to Makkah last time you went to this and that, to make it look nicer, you know, a bit.

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And trust me, I cannot write about myself a lot. I write a little and sometimes I have to be thinking of what to write what else do I do?

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But if I give him a title, PhD,

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PhD on Ibrahim, can he write? Thesis? Yes. That's why we have this scholars live. We write a PhD thick book, you know, very thick about their life. That shake I believe if he's going to talk about his life, he can talk about his life in five to 10 minutes. If finish, why does somebody comes and produce a PhD in his life? Yeah, because people are reading or life, whatever you do, people know. So that's why people can tell you don't go to that person because it's not good in his Yeah, because he has been given fatwa in the wrong way and people have been witnessing that this is against Allah, this against soulless Allah serve. And he's doing that just to make some people happy to be

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monitored. Whatever you do, people are monitoring. That's why when we are going to marry we check about people from who from themselves. of drama you Okay, of course, he will send me as I'm okay. I'm even fasting last night.

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Yeah, somebody says you're sweating last night.

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So he will tell me he's okay. But I will ask shares, I will ask you if I ask you about

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your idea. Yeah, we're just asking about some somebody just now. Right? I told her Grandma, please check for me. Who is this person? Right? Yeah, that's how we, we check what people so this is how we know I have to be realistic for myself. I know who am I, whether I learned and whether I'm sincere. Nobody can evaluate my sincerity. I can see a sign that this person is sincere, but I cannot make a conclusion. Because I might see him not being sincere. But in reality, he is

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sincere. Only Allah spots. I can judge that. But I also I can judge to certain extent with and since you're not, because I know why am I doing this? I come to the classroom. I know what am I coming to the class? To get out there? I pray to Allah SWaCH I know why am I? Why am I praying? I'm praying for who? And thinking about who I know all of these things, people surrounding me because this is a hidden thing. They cannot read that. So my answer to this question is to be realistic to yourself. I mean, all of us when we are realistic to ourselves, we know which category we belong to scholars who have the knowledge and share with others or those who have the knowledge and don't share with us for

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those who have the knowledge but Allah subhanaw taala took the knowledge because of their bad attitude. And let them with deviation. They are in darkness and they are misguiding. misguiding others, Allah grant is good.

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I have to leave. There's a question too sensitive that I have to answer.

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general questions maybe we can take

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any question from people who are not with us in Malaysia?

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So I will stop here because there is no water in this area and have some part of my family that they do not pray.

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Thank you very much. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.