116 The Disease And The Cure

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AI: Summary © The segment discusses the loss of visibility and the importance of eye sighting to maintain eye sighting. It emphasizes the need to avoid inappropriate views and advise against them. The segment also touches on the challenges of finding a woman who cannot afford to be married and the importance of protecting one's religion. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a book and social media post about a woman named Missy.
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evening I'm hammering said Allahu Allahu ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salim my bad audio

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sabotager missionary and air Alvin Wahid where she also does and if you haven't metabolome Mobarak at that you were sort of Allah subhanaw taala and you Baddeck if you know if you might have a level one young Pharaoh Elena as Allah to Allah, Allah whoever either a Jetta who feed Allah ye.

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So recently has Urgell

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today inshallah we'll continue from where we stopped last last time. And if I'm not wrong, we are supposed to start from the scene of the Alif

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Allah Allah will Vasari, ASR Amina Sabri Allah Allah anima bada

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So, this one talks about the comparison between the pain that happens to a person when he closes his eyes and lower his gaze, although he wants to enjoy by looking at the opposite gender, but he managed to control his his desire. So, there is a bit of pain, you know an alum concern in that matter, but the alum that happens, you know, after a personal look at the opposite gender, the alum that the pain that the person is going to be suffering from will be far greater than the pain that he is sacrificing. So, it looks at him says looking at the text and also the reality. We will ask a person to favor this one over the second one which will probably destroy his his life. Carla Shire

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called Howard MA in another one more of our narrative investors. Sherry come now virgin Bella Gottman, calm bizarre heavy had come up with lovely sunny Baden cozy well watery will Abdu Madame Thorfinn you can label her

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feet vi union Remo COVID, al Qatari. So Brubacher Letta, who Ma Ba Rama Jetta who

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la marhaba this rolly are the bit bored. So, it look I am coated this excellent statement and lines of poetry of the shine. It says called Howard if there have been no worry, he says all of those negative consequences that are taking place which leads sometimes to Zina and some other bad things, you know,

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homosexuality, lesbianism and an all or no masturbation and any any other

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evil, you know, attitude of this nature that somebody might be having, is it the beginning of all of these is from the novel. Now that means the eye side, the side you know, it begins from there, when somebody says something which he can't be patient, then what comes after that is the tragedy if he managed to lower his gaze and to control his desire, this probably will not will not will not happen. So it says were more of them anatomy necessery Sharon, just like the fire I start from what little I may keep increasing increase increasing and then it will go out of control.

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Come now Verratti can never attend Bella that mean can be Sahibi Marbella, Sandy banal, Cozumel whatever

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it says how many times you see another

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what is known as a look in somebody has which reached a place in, in the heart, you know, that kills the heart, you know, so how to live then of the day it kills the heart.

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Just like the effects and the result that happens when the coast water being used across is that is the is the ball, the water is is a rope, you know that you put on the bow which you put the arrow and shoot shooting. So when you have that one issue, you know what kind of consequences is going to happen. So when the eyes shoot, you know, it comes back to the heart, as you're going to see in some other videos, he will be quoting, you're shooting something that Subhanallah the arrow goes there and come back to you immediately and shoot your heart. You know, and this is exactly what is happening. You know, that's why you have find life.

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Not easy. person will be depressed and he didn't know this. He doesn't know the source of this depression. It is none other than the eyes that somebody in the

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not restricted, you know the eyes are not restricted.

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what he call it is happening. So, the person will not know what what is the cause of the depression you know, but it is the reason I mean it is because of that look that he has towards that person which he is not supposed to look at

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call a camera let his sanity banal cozy well what he will do madam Thompson you're a liberal or a liberal fee I in in Morocco for Al kappa you Allah he says as long as you did not restrict your side

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you know, you remember in in Moldova till adab that book that we have completed which was probably already forgot even the name

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he says

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even applicable he says in that book he says what powerful Fattah Yasa are at refer G one more table from for good who must have attended he says we're powerful fatter your legs your legs are powerful fatter is our

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there are at Virgie. One more table from good who must start attending Saturday

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is a powerful Fatah, the ISI of a person he says rightly differently, it just like a messenger that the Ferengi the private part extended smile love isn't an accurate definition of the relationship between the eyes and the private part. So it's just like a messenger of the private part is send that one to go and see something it says right Virgie, he won't be able to elaborate. And it is going to cause you a lot of trouble in your life. When you don't close your eyes, you're going to be in trouble. And this is what this one is saying. Well Abdu, Madame Madame Madame Thorfinn, you're a liberal fee is it more often and

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as long as you keep your eyes unrestricted, you keep on looking at anything.

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You know, sometimes we have justification for that silly justifications.

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For instance, somebody who's been taught by the opposite gender, but then they open their eyes, they keep on looking at them staring at them

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make sure not to make too

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much noise. Ask him since they've said sorry. So he says

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well Abdu muda muda Thorfinn yoka libera houfy I will guide him aquifer and Qatari when you

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cannot manage restrict your eyes is going to put you into a lot of trouble.

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So, when you as I said, sometimes we will have justification their own justification, silly justifications.

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For instance, the opposite gender is teaching.

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No, wait. So so so when they are teaching, somebody says that one of the

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the process of learning to make it possible, and also to be able to get it correctly, is to focus on that person who is teaching.

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You know, especially when SSA is teaching a new focus. That's a problem my brother one is teaching any, that's somehow it'll be okay because you find from the Azusa Shangri La man who are watching the brothers who are playing and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, Allah tell you to do that.

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And the Prophet sal Allahu Allah, he was selama let them let her do that.

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So we learned from this that the emphasis that Sharia put on the brothers looking at the sisters is poor.

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So sometimes the person will tell you for educational purpose if he doesn't look he will not understand properly and know who is giving them this horrible because it doesn't want he the one who's saying that he knows that it doesn't work.

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But these are all hooked up from a shipper name

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that we accept it.

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And sometimes a person will say that No, I need to know what is going on. You know, he wants to know what is going on in the world. That means he is going to focus in

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he wanted to focus in the news being given that's why he is looking and then end up disturbing his heart. These are all facts you know, you know you do it, the result is going to be the same. That's why Allah subhanaw taala did not restrict the ruling you

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He says mean Apple saw him and the scholars told us the situations whereby a person can look and then there will be no problem with that.

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Marry this business person to know who you're dealing with, you know, it just look the look that and once it's okay you see the person who you didn't say you know that person. That's that's all medication, you know somebody who comes for medication and there is no any other way except that you are going to do it and you are not of the same gender when you look. These are exceptions mentioned by by the scholars. Other than that to be just claims and justifications mentioned by any one of us which never work to the end of the day the disease is going to take place and a person will suffer and give the scholars a job to go look for the fatwa concerning his his case. So even your claim

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says in this bite Well, Abdul muda muda muda Thorfinn, your liberal VR union with no overnight cutlery. As long as you have the eyes that you don't control, you keep on any cast in you, you look on things and issue that last month that tells you not to look at them. You know, you're going to put yourself into trouble well

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and also advise any Don't you ever say that? Yes, you will close your eyes, when the bad thing comes from the beginning, do not go for that. You know, try your best to stay away from it. That will give you a support from your heart because not everyone can manage to do this. You're listening to the news when they have an inappropriate you know a view that is coming you know, you will manage to control your your eyes. And not everyone can do can do that.

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May Allah subhanaw taala guide us to the truth listen to this text he says what up do madam and I thought of in your car laborer who he died in a coven and Qatari. So as long as you open your eyes? unrestricted, you know, you don't restrict your eyes you just look Anyhow, he says my overnight hobby you're going to put yourself in a very risky situation, a very dangerous situation.

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So remote collateral mouth or Remo Jetta who llama hub and this ruling are the bit thorny, and this person will be given, you know,

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you know, and sending some happiness temporary kind of happiness to up

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to his eyes. Because the I enjoy looking, you know and then the funniest one, maybe you never you will ever hear in your life, that funniest person you

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we heard about, you know, concerning looking at the opposite gender is the person who look at another person, their sister and when they told him Yeah, I think that will

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close your eyes, you know, Alaska horchata commanded you to lower your gaze. He said no, no, no, he is not focusing on he's not looking at her. But he just applying that to Deborah. Because Allah subhanaw taala says we should contemplate in the creation of Allah subhanaw taala to see how great is Allah subhanaw taala so that helped him to say subhanallah you know

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cuz when he see he was how beautiful you know how strong is Allah subhanho wa Taala to create this beautiful, you know, entity so he's a cause him to who can how Szczepan has given codabar to these, these guys they come and justify and you know in the in the state in the name of the Dean some people are doing this in the name of the deeds, some people are doing this polyarticular

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the Allah subhanaw taala grant is good and Tofik so Allah smart Allah says yah, ha in it and our unit or metaphysical Allah smart Allah knows the heart no one who is located in secret, and that which the heart is hiding.

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So we've been joke with Allah subhanaw taala Allah says close your eyes, it means you should close your eyes, when you want to make it correct. The only way to make a correct is to find that person who you want to look and marry her.

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And as you can everything rather than getting something which will earn you trouble in in the future. So he says what happened is that you enjoy your eyes is enjoy, but Subhanallah at the same time, your heart will be suffering so you are killing your heart by doing something which is given the eyes enjoyment. Which one is more important, you know that the one who is leading you in your body is your heart. So you destroy your heart by giving something to your eyes which will cause you trouble also in the future.

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You Allah it will cause you trouble in the future. Look at things which you shouldn't look at them it will cause you trouble in the future. If a person doesn't repent.

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A person need to quickly repent to Allah subhanaw taala and hold upon the last 100 To Allah

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Maybe even a light Allah you will get the preservation of your limbs in the future when you reach the old age, your eyesight will be protected that law like we found that person who aged

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very old video

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in the past was people passes you know 100 Something you know and they are strong they go to the farms, a pray the night prayers you know much stronger than us nowadays on a personal reach 50 You know, you will be thinking that this person is see in their, in their 70s or

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in the past is water like that.

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So, they asked him what is the secret behind you being strong even at this age. He said Tilka here Djawadi have even a half his server for heavier Hala Alena when I had to give up, he says these are the jewelry, the limbs that we manage to protect, you know, to take care of them. You know, when we are young, by obeying Allah subhanho To Allah so Allah help us to protect our limbs when we grow older.

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It's one of the secrets of the preservation of the limbs, and a person not to reach the age of I mean, that age, where you go out of control

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is to fear Allah subhanaw taala and to obey Him with your limbs, it will be protected in sha Allah in the in the future is part of that middle of the scene of Allah subhanaw taala for in Allah who may shorten banca you know, whoever goes away from Allah subhanaw taala he has a very complicated life in the future.

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Alas, Martin will make his life complicated and difficult life in this life.

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And he says from Manitoba, Hotevilla de la Lashkar, if you follow the guidance of Alaska, you will never go straight and you will never you know, get destroyed in terms of religion. And

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so, this idea that you know,

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they should be written with the ink of gold or the water or you the ice

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Carlo mean, never know who you will is it has arrived it was the Herati while Herati Farah lab man is a cardinal alayhi wa sahbihi wa alayhi wa the mean out of me.

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Please listen to this carefully because it is absolutely correct, it will kind of say is one of the immigrant sequences of looking at the things that Allah smart Allah does not want you to look at, looking at the opposite gender,

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you know, especially from the brothers to the sisters, brothers, looking at the sisters, with no permission to do that is is one of the secrets of Queens. It earns a person has hurt.

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That's an Adama regulate depression, you know, crying out from inside, this is internal suffering, all of these words that even came is mentioned and they are referred to internal suffering that a person will be dealing with. And you know, this is the worst type of diseases where you are suffering intelligence, and know that sometimes the person, a person will tell you that is sitting at home

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or in his office

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or wherever, you know, but he feels the internal fear. And he doesn't know why. Internally he is been punished, you know, by Allah subhanaw taala and sometimes it appears the best remedy for this is the vicar of Allah subhanaw taala repentance. Whenever you find yourself into this kind of wash, I lost my heart and make you feel this fear entirely in your heart. The best remedy for this is to repent to Allah subhanaw taala and to maximize your remembrance of Allah smart Allah and it really helps a lot. May Allah smartercard is good. And one of the causes for that. Is this looking at the opposite agenda without permission from Allah subhanho wa Taala so what happened? After this one you

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look at things which Allah smarter doesn't want you to look at them.

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He says Yara Malissa cada and what are sub Sahara Allah?

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You know, please tell me which punishment in this life is greater than this, you know,

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you see that which you have no ability to reach it.

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What is it and you cannot be patient.

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You can't be patient.

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Because your heart is always inclining to it.

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But at the same time, you can see that there is almost no way for you to get it

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Hala like what I said somebody, somebody sees his sister and he's in the last part of the world from the West, you know.

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And she lives in the last part of the world in the east, and he's very poor. And he does not control his eyes and

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Go and look at her he doesn't even know where she is.

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But that's random example. But they're there. They're

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what he called the other example, which usually happens is a person who is extremely poor is not close his eyes and he looked at the girl that belongs to

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Masha Allah to the family that are at the highest position in the country.

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We will not say it is

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impossible for him to

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marry his daughter, but usually according to the culture, nobody's even thinking of this.

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Nobody's even thinking of this.

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So what he doesn't close his eyes, he went and look at how there is no way for them to give him.

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And then at the end of the day, he cannot be patient, the images are kept coming from his, I mean to his brain, but he cannot get rid of them. What is the best remedy to go and get that system and Marisa there is no way for them to get

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to give you

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especially when you have these cultural barriers that we have nowadays.

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She only has to marry from our own people he or live or have has to marry from his own people

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are they don't give none our non Arab didn't give Arabs you know, people from Asia and all of these things that you already know you.

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You have different languages, you have different rays, you have different colors, you know, a different type of

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so many things, you know, funny things you hear in this life, you notice

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the way people are being disrespected because of this as if they're looking for holding rain. Or somebody in Jannah will then McCullough dude.

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Why just because of the cultural barrier. He is not from us

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want to keep that culture.

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And Sharia has nothing to deal with this. But anyway, I'm not. I'm just bringing this as an example of things which you might not be able to reach. So it is always better for you to follow the remedy given to you by the Sharia. What is that close your eyes, the solution, that's the only solution close your eyes do not look at the first face. That's why this call is said looking at the sister that you decided to marry is permissible for you to look at her until the time you see that which will attract you to to marry her.

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That's permissible. It's not like to say that you are the only one who can look at whenever you want, this is about

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that you just have the permission, the door will be open for you to look the first time and to make sure that you get something that will attract you to marry. If that is not enough, you can arrange for another. But you can see that every time you have to come and keep looking keep looking, you're the only one who is permitted to do that. No, it doesn't make sense. Your brother also is thinking in that way, you know, and then this law is going to be violated completely.

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So as Carl has said, this is restricted to possibilities.

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Yeah, they said if he, if he knows that somebody like him cannot be able to get the hang of this woman, it is not permissible for him to look at the first place.

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And this thing that they will look at me is mentioning that you're going to see that which you cannot be patient after you see it. And also there is no way for you to get it. So you will live in a state of punishment. And he's going to tell you why this issue is very important because they found some people, this disease kept increasing because they look and they couldn't be patient and they couldn't get those ones and end of the day Subhan Allah the heart cannot forget what it sees. You know, it keeps keeps coming from time to time until death. It will burn in from inside until death.

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Believe it or not some of them instead of saying La ilaha IL Allah did die mention the name of their girlfriends.

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But the thing about this you know Hala some of them died mentioning about their boyfriend And subhanAllah if it is a girl mentioned in her boyfriend that she that is already evil. But what if the boy is mentioning another boy when he dies?

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So we have to be very careful. This seems to be so conservative, but these are the remedies. These are the solution to the tragedy that the OMA is suffering from nowadays. Every country you go you find this disease in existence. What is the best way out? shadowy gaze, and keep that bury that last month's output without breaking it. colorada min el Amin Adam, he said this is one of the

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The greatest punishment that allows motel a place or a person who is not restricting his eyesight. And Tara Marla sobre la can who wonder about the one accord the Rotella Kali to see that you cannot be patient. You know, and not even you can be patient, you know to get all of it. Even you cannot be patient, you know, to get only part of it.

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You know, well I could rattle Akali and at the same time, there is no way for you to get any better.

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color shine

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or contemptor unsalted Africa.

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The Calbee que yo man about at our bootcamp morale hero

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for item Medina Kulu, endocardial, alayhi wa ala about the anthracite

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he says we're contaminator ourselves photographer Cara

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you know, and your situation, your position, you know, status is that of a person who is sending his eyesight to go and get him a message to go and watch something to bring back the information to him. He says Rasul for your heart, he says at about Kalama now, you know, those things that you are looking at, are going to cause you a lot of trouble in in the future. Why is that it's a writer Lavina Kulu enter card rule, it says you're going to see that thing that you cannot be able to afford it while on Bobby antasari, and you cannot even be patient, you know, to stay away from some part of it. In some countries, you know, it's okay you can marry but it is so expensive.

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So expensive, so expensive. Not to belittle people on the human beings, but even hotel ain that are in Jannah. And the people that a person is going to be staying with them in Jannah, you know,

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doesn't face difficulties like this, your worship Allah swatter, which Allah is one to call easy, very simple within the affordability,

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then you're going to be a buying or, or taking a life of responsibility, you know,

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and worries from time to time, but then the price is very high.

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And you have to go for that. So sometimes we will be looking at the person that you wanted to marry. But unfortunately, the MA in the country is very high. You know, we're talking about 150 In some countries.

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So Allah you can understand why Shabaab is going into other things, you know, other method. And especially when that country that mentioned in an aim, make it open for everyone to visit any site and website and channel, whatever they want

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you to restricted them from marriage, you'll make it very difficult for somebody to afford it. First of all, because of the culture barriers and differences, you know, he sees what somebody he wanted, but he cannot go to that person. Why? Because he doesn't belong to them and according to the culture of that country, you know, his tribe is lower than that tribe of the GOP. So they will not

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so that's why I will claim says in the first place that solution is to close your eyes and lower your gaze as Allah's mantra commanded you because you're going to see things which he cannot afford. And at the same time, you cannot be patient. So you shouldn't try to know about them. And then you give relief to to your heart otherwise your life will be in this nature until the time you meet a lot smarter probably like what happened to many of them

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qualified so this is exactly what we have mentioned. You know, let me say things. You cannot afford them and you can be patient. That's why you cannot be patient. They're very attractive. They are going to make your heart connected to them. You will see those images been coming to you from time to time and they never go you know those people who stays away from things which Allah subhanaw taala make it prohibited upon them. You know Subhanallah they tell you that we stay for ages and the thing is coming to our brain we do not look for it but it is coming to our brain from time to time after long periods of time and then the manage to get rid of it.

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That's why from the beginning the Sharia asked you to put a barrier between

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you and them to give you heart really

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Karla will come in many hours Hala Hala de Verma kala art in LA architecture as a way to show how to buy a home in a patina come up in yeah now there are UCLA to the hover to

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have data Shehata Boehner hola Katya. Look at him says, he says Hanalei. It says how many times we see a person who keeps sending his eyesight with no restriction. We allow someone to want to do, they do not do that. And he's not wanting to stop looking at those things that Allah's matzah want him to look at the images you know, if a god the evil consequence that is taking place in his heart, which is the destruction of the heart, and taking away the peace, the tranquility that is supposed to exist in the heart for a person to attain a success and comfort in this life, you will not be having any any of this so he says you will keep on looking without restricting your side. He says

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until the time you see a person crumbling jumping in the middle of his blood you know when you slaughter an animal when you need the animal How do you see the animal moving and jumping and all of these things so this is exactly what he said

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metaphorically is like you're killing yourself and this is who you are although we see a person you know smiling but internally that person is not going to be happy.

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So alas Mattila making device a person smiling but inside his bird, that's what they call pretending to be happy pretending that everything is okay but in reality, it is not a reality. It is it is not

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Alana, UCLA to the hello to the shahada, bein Hoonah Katella otherworldly area, you will call him says

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I have also some RBI this the portrait that I did myself he says Mala Salah Mata factor that Allah has to work for Allah pollen in Uganda jameelah masala huge Eva Eva who will have to he had that shahada by the Hoonah Katina. So this is also almost exactly like the previous bite, if you came says somebody was a board of a PC.

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He doesn't like avea he doesn't like PC.

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So what did he do? He decided to break that the barrier, you know, between him and the Hara. He doesn't want to stay in a single PC. Because Allah He made Gilbert sisters living in the wilderness want to want you to live is the only way for you to earn peace in this life.

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That's the only way we want it in our own way. It will never work you know, Allah subhanaw taala sees Alladhina Amman where our new sign Hattie to Bala Maha cinema. Aladdin Armin Willem Malbis with iman whom Bivol mean Hola. Hola, como en wahama?

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Allah subhanaw taala says those who believe? Well I'm Mel Bisou Eman, a homebuilder and they never mix their Eman with volume. This is the shake and disobedience and going against the last one hold on oppression in all of it forms. He says Allah it kind of whom will have more to do. And these are the people that will be granted peace in this life and peace in the hereafter. Tell me my Deborah's sisters. This is a statement of Allah Sparta he said the only way for you to get peace is to believe in Allah is bound to and what

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believe in Allah subhanaw taala means

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What does believe in Allah smart Allah means It means nothing except to follow the instructions of Allah subhanaw taala and the instructions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and to not go against Allah subhanaw taala and anything that allows me to ask you to do then you will be able to get the piece

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so it says well I Callahan will know what to do. And these are the people who will be guided Alas, Martin will control their life. You know, give them what they want, you know and protect them and protect their religion, you know, protect whatever they're doing, protect their family, protect their life, or more to do Alas, mitosis Alladhina Ahmed woollen mill with iman homebuilding with an economic or motor so you shouldn't get bored of the piece.

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Like I say there are some people who don't like this.

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So they go and see something which they think is so beautiful and they keep looking at it had Tasha how to buy in a hookah to keep on following that those images which they thought is something you know, but it's nothing except a mirage. You know, the Mirage you know, this thing that Sam you know, that you see you think this is water, but when you reach the place Allah subhanaw taala says, Yeah, Cebu ma had to Elijah hula major Bucha and this is actually already you know, he a lot of those

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those those things you know, after the evil thing happened and then they have no value they have no no no value, you know that that sister or that person will have no value to them you know Subhanallah you can see the amount of the disrespect, they have she'll be depressed but this is something that cannot be rectified which happened to Subhanallah but unfortunately the who is who is listening to this you know, he talks about this people think you're exaggerating you're restricting people from Freedom you're making life so difficult. But Sivan Allah everyday you are hearing you know these immigrant sequences taking place or you're eating them

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every day. So what is the solution the solution is this last part I'm making a very simple way do not go through that thing which unless Bartlett says you should stay away from it.

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Carlo mineralogic Raja and Allah Allah to know the salmon Lyocell el mundo de la he had yet about what am Academy Kobe now he said it is so amazing

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to see the way that arrow which is shocked by the

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person then the novel now is somebody who is looking at something is like he's shooting so this is the era he is using to shoot the arrow will never leave it position. You know the bore you know will never leave that that position to go to the to the to the murmee You know the thing that you're shooting will never reach that place until the time it prepare a position for itself in the heart of the shooter.

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It will come and say this is so amazing to see that this is how it works when a person is looking at the opposite gender is like he's shooting an arrow when it should that arrow the arrow will make sure it prepared a position for it because he's going to come back it goes and come back it has to have a place in the heart first

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had to bow am Academy Toby now. What he considered the call the army and BC ham Illa. How much the hidden until Cthulhu. The matter me philosophy. Yeah, by the year 30, Shiva, allo

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bass Rasulullah Leia ticket.

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La even claim says he talked to that person who is treating those errors. And he's referring to the one who is not restricting his eyesight. He says BCI me love it. They said as he learns the errors have seen a lot of them side by side. And who is I mean, doing much data here means put in all efforts to make sure that he see that image or that reality, you know, or in the pictures, or in the televisions or whatever the videos wherever he's

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trying cannot miss the new CEO all the time he comes and not for the sake of the news. Although there's some time this is for the news, but sometimes it's not for the sake of the news from for some cases.

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It is just about somebody who's given the news who they can not be patient in say, you've seen that person so they come from time to time, and they talk about that also from time to time.

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He said a Shabbat is Allah subhanaw taala and newsflash problems.

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So he says until you know you are shooting something to kill that thing he said but until Katene but you are the Katyn

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is a Catholic means that the murdered one

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should to kill somebody but unfortunately you're killing yourself.

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And Ducati is is you had a cartoon, Bill Clinton continue to be better be philosophy, he says you are the you are killing yourself, the military, you know what the thing you're shooting, it is coming back to kill you. While actually it will never go to that person or that thing that you're shooting. They live a good life, looking at that person, that person will end up living a good life but you are suffering back there

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is a terrific year 30 Shiva Allah, you know the one who is sending his eyesight, what is he looking for? is looking for a remedy and medicine cue to give his eyes some enjoyment, some relief. So you can say the intention is to give the eyes relief. He said this Rasulullah he said I really advise you to keep your Rasul your messenger. Do not send him to anyone. He said just just keep that keep that Rasul Lai Attica we'll

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keep that Russell so that it will not come back to you with destruction.

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Me Sarasu like lay it give it up. It said stay keep it in, don't send it. Don't send this messenger because it is going to come back to you with

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With destruction

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amazing, strange things about this looking at the thing that allows me to doesn't want you to look at. He said,

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when you look, it causes

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your heart to be injured, it causes injury to the heart.

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And when you look again, another injury will happen.

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And you know, when you are injured, you learn less than usually, you don't go to that place. You don't repeat it. But this is not the case when it comes to see it causes the injury. And then you look and then you will be injured again. And then you look and then you will be injured again. And the engine will keep increasing. You don't feel the pain.

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Yeah, even feel the pain. Yeah, that's why you see that

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the sisters didn't have no holiday, I'm sorry us about a Salem, it says what can I do?

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about it?

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It's not once you know, the cut, they keep cutting, because there's so somebody who they cannot be patient. And how can they be patient, it is impossible for them to be patient because the use of all the chaperone has

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half of the beauty is given to use the bicep. When they saw him, they got distracted, you know, you see the cuts their hand and the hand is bleeding. And they don't feel the pain. They keep cutting, they're looking at getting catagen you know, there's a physical injury, that one that we talked about is the spiritual injury. That one is the spiritual, you know, the wild for those sisters spiritual and also physical.

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That's why you can see when they saw us on Instagram, and he lives in the house of the Azeez.

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One of the top authorities in the city,

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those sisters know for sure they will never get that person cannot reach because it's he is in the house of somebody who isn't tough. They can't reach. But Subhanallah the pain is in the heart, they kept on talking about it the city, everyone is talking Every sister who saw that moment talking about the case, it becomes an issue, big issue in the city. That's the reason why us went to jail. They did not send him to jail because he was doing something wrong. They sent him to jail to protect the city and the community or the sisters from anything to keep him aside. You know, that was injustice, absolutely justice. And now others should they take to keep him away from the eyes of

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Because he realizes the trial the problem is going to have to be so so big if use of is to be in the in the presence.

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So there's also another example of people who look at something that they cannot be patient and they cannot get it you know, and then of the data will be there'll be suffering.

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So, he says it cause a person to be desensitized. You know, things that can harm a person they will come and harm him but he will not realize the injury. They are constantly

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why the Wali island you have an Amana Mazel Tov about another item fee Nagarajan fee if it equals the Manhattan family

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what that what that kind of what I do Heiko who are fit tacky get Algeria when Allah tragedy

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but the battle perfectibility, how the Wabi Buka fell called booming because I knew that it look I'm says, I have also some

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point that I made, you know, concerning that matter, he says, I was talking about that person, you know, who is always looking at the opposite gender, he said, mazel tov tattoo tattoo about another 10 feet of it, he kept into it. A look after another word.

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He he recruited him and he had normally you're just looking at everybody means a bit for sister and a handsome person keeps looking at

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what is another kind of larger hiccup or heavy topic into your analogy? Is there a new thing that this is going to cure the injury that was caused at the first place? And then you keep thinking that this is the cure for the injury? You look at him says no, is actually increasing the injury is causing another injury on top of the previous one.

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For the better part of rockabilly how the audible book called booming because

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he said you are doing nothing except slaughtering your heart killing your heart

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by using your eyesight to look at those things, which will bring nothing to you except destruction. So you have to be careful

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have become the real slotted

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slotted word.

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What can Peter have some Havarti is a Roman the Roman has a heart. And that's why somebody says closing your eyes and lowering your gaze and controlling your eyesight is easier than being a patient when the pain comes after you look.

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We are lost Martina grant is good and Tofik. As I always tell you that on Monday, I have other commitments. So I will stop here inshallah we have around seven minutes for questions of Rama, if there is any question please to help us with them.

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I mean

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there's no question.

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These days

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you open your phone.

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And this is a view without coming across

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is 0%.

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So what should a person do with this?

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Slab drum? And can you come back and say the question again, please.

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Seeing the shift that these guys need, the moment you open your phone, and just as a view, not going across the opposite gender in terms of a video or a picture or anything. It's like very low.

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So what should we do in this situation to

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Rama Rahman, I didn't know what exactly are you referring to, because sometimes some of the phones, maybe when you open them, the the first thing that will come as a welcoming image is those ones, those one I guess could be changed. But the one that cannot be avoided, the person should try his best, you know, and stay away from them. If you're referring to the videos, I will advise a live person shouldn't waste his time chasing those videos that people are sharing any so much.

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At the moment you open and you see that this video has inappropriate pictures, you just stay away from it because you have a lot of alternatives.

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You have so many other alternatives, the same information you'll be getting from that one, you have other places to get information. Any I see nowadays, I think it's from before, but I just don't realize but YouTube

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takes some pictures, some images of the video and put them as the

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the first thing you see in the video.

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So sometimes from that one,

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sometimes from that one, you already know what exactly you're going to be seeing. And as I was saying, if something comes the moment you open it and you see those inappropriate images, the best is just to shut it down. And

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it's better to cure your heart rather than listening to the news which you can do nothing you cannot do anything. Even if you hear that yes, this is what is happening, then what can you do? In most instances, there is nothing you can do. So it's better to protect your heart rather than going through those.

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When we watch lectures, we should not we should also not look at the opposite.

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For the sisters is better. As Colin said the emphasize

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system is very bad for the sisters it is better for them. So last one hotel also commanded them. But as I said the emphasis you know, on the sisters is not as the emphasis on the brothers. That's why they look at the one who's teaching. You know the emphasis on them is not like the emphasis on the brothers. The brothers is strictly prohibited since the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam let Asha to come and see the brothers who are watching things. And they also used to look whenever there is a need and then it is okay. When she looked at the one who was teaching teaching her there shouldn't be any any problem as long as she does it modestly and she doesn't increase each

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and keep looking or focusing too much on the images of that person. No that is also applicable on them when Alas, Martin says a colleague moving it over the mean upside in they are also advised to lower their gaze. And as I said, as the scholars have mentioned, the emphasis on them is not like that which we find on the brothers. Why? Because the one who is always been in trouble is the system. So that's why I lost

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Oh ALLAH strictly by I mean prohibit that from the brother side because those who are the one when they see they couldn't be patient sometimes they use force to get what they want but how much assist to try to stay away sometimes somebody will use force

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so that's why as I said the emphasis on the brothers is is more as for sisters watching the lectures given by the brothers these are all okay these two at the time of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam or there is a game by the brothers and she watch son is okay but as I said it's always better to her also to lower her gaze and to control how her heart shall

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