Hussain Yee – The Fragile Vessels Rights and Obligations Between Spouses in Islam – 73

Hussain Yee
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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim

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in Al Hamdulillah

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Muhammad who in a Stein who wins the cathedral

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when we learn in Cerulean fusina was Molina

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May the hill

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following with Delilah on my YouTube haul father had the

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chance to learn in a more well known land sharing color. Why should I do and then Mohammed Abdullah who or pseudo Oh see Kumar iya Olin with Takala pocket, cocoon, como como la Jota Anna fillo Khurana caring about the Ottomans. Belemnite shaytaan your regime? Yeah, you hygiene laminata como Hakata County, Aleta, more tune in one two, mostly one.

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Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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Alhamdulillah appraises belongs to Allah Rabbil Alameen for His mercy, for his blessing for his guidance

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and also for his forgiveness upon all the sins that we have committed, being human.

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Nobody is perfect. We have a lot of weaknesses here and there. But I mighty Allah is always there to forgive all of us and keep on

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guiding all of us to today we meet him

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in our care our

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brothers and sisters Alhamdulillah we have been trying our best not just

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to be a student of knowledge, the seeker of knowledge, but we always try our best to be a practicing an active Muslim.

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There is a difference between being the Mosley and being an active, practicing Muslim, a Muslim man.

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What is lacking among the ummah today is not the numbers. We have a lot of Muslim here and there. But we don't have very active, practicing committed Muslim and Muslim

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and that's why we are here every Sunday to try to learn and not just to learn, but to practice what we have learned.

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Allah Akbar Al Amin who created all of us know what is best for us.

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And he have seen profits from

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Time to time. And the last prophet is Mohammed Salam wa salam who was seen as the best example.

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How would you be a successful youths how to be a successful son, a successful

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hasn't been a successful leader,

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a successful father, a successful businessman, until the end of our life.

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A laudable alignment also, who loves us so much keep on reminding us in the Holy Quran as a divine guidance, what to do,

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and what not to do.

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There is very important for every one of us, we need to know what is right, and what is wrong.

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Brothers and sisters, firstly, were to convey the salah more for the good brother and sister, who have been the case of Allah performing hash this year 2023

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We just returned back from the Holy Land.

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And of course, the Joomla.

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The people who was the cares of Allah is double from the one we have experienced last year. There are more people this year compared with last year.

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And because of there are more people, there are more challenges.

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So every year we face new challenges. But one thing I would like to remind all the good brothers and sisters who are still healthy.

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And you have the mean, please plan your journey to the Holy Land as soon as possible.

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Keep on changing, but this is something that everyone Oh Allah, at least once in your lifetime.

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That there's a lot of blessing, a lot of things that you will learn that you cannot learn through books.

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You cannot learn just to where you are, you only learn when you are there.

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How to cope with all the different collar races, young, old, male, female,

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how to work together as one family, the children of Adam and Eve.

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This only you can experience it when you are in the Holy Land.

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How we can stay united worship Allah together, standing straight south, helping each other feel for each other.

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Even the heat this year was a mob, even in the evening, you're 40 Plus in the data of 50 plus, but Alhamdulillah

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everything was okay.

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Do any experience Yes, new experience. You can see where we are walking towards the harm of the chamara that

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we witnessed as people who drove and there's the end of their life.

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They die while walking towards

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it is a blessing for people who are there to perform Hajj

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and to have the last

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of their life

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because by doing that

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their soul will be forgiven by Allah.

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And millions of people is praying for that.

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Almost every day

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we pray more than 10 times for funeral prayer

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is prayer there twice after Zoho announced one twice for funeral prayer after so twice again.

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We all know every living thing will have to end. We all want to have a good ending.

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Brothers and sisters, we are still on the fragile vessel is talking about family. We believe all of us are here. A family man and a woman.

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We always try our best to remember what Allah and the Prophet samosa have remind us about family in

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In verses 74 Chapter 25 This is my mocha Dima, we are not going back yet to that book.

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Allah, Allah mean, have remind the prophet and the prophet to his followers, not to forget to ask Allah one important thing in our life.

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And this prayer is not just for the Prophet Muhammad sons. It was taught by Allah to even the early prophets and Messenger.

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One of the DUA is Ramona help Lana mean as Gina was to Riyadh Tina Kurata you which are under Lindenwood. Akina Ema

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is from the time of Prophet Abraham Alayhis Salam, the father of the prophets and the messengers of Allah rubella mean

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by saying, Oh Allah,

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our Lord, grant is from among our wives

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Gren as among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make as an example for the righteous what we need from a family is to have a righteous partner and righteous offspring family then you have almost everything you need in this life

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we do not just want to have a partner in life but a righteous partner

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our Prophet some are more salaam did mentioned in one of the hotties come on there's a rugby Allahu

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Minh Raja who Moho Imara gunsolley her pocket Allah who allows that redeeming.

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When Allah grant one, a righteous,

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righteous partner, He, Allah has helped him by debt to preserve half of his religion.

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Let him then fear and have Taqwa in Allah to regard the other half.

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This is how the prophets some of Muslim tried to explain to us

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that went along grin is a righteous partner. We always pray for that. A righteous partner is a partner who always bring peace, tranquility, love, mercy among one another.

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We want the best we must ready to give the bears that is how life is.

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This is the area that a lot of us are not aware of. This is a prayer that own the Prophet keep on asking Allah, Allah mean

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to the extent there is another chapter in chapter 37 was 100. Allah guide us again and said Rob, Hubli Mina, Saudi,

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probably, Mina saw the

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meaning Oh Allah, grant us child among the righteous one a righteous

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What is righteous is not the right

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word, the one to have the right one. But we are not acting righteously. We must know how to talk how to do things in the right way.

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We like to communicate with one another. So you must choose the right word.

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We must know when to use the proper word at the proper time.

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All these is being guided by

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Allah robola mean and also taught by Prophet Muhammad. Some of them are Salam.

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But majority of us don't really follow. We will follow how we feel what we want to say

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We can follow the way that Allah subhanho wa Taala has taught us, but nothing is too late.

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The world that we are facing is going to be more difficult because of the AI technology that only Allah knows what kind of challenges the future generation is going to encounter.

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But for us as mostly we have been warned by Allah, the Creator of what what is coming.

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At the end of the day, Allah says, Whoever follow His guidance, none pin you astray. But whoever chose not to, then nobody can guide you anymore.

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Allah has shown us two ways or her Dane who Notre Dame

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and he always guide us by saying, when you need anything from Allah, the first important prayer that you must not forget is dinner set out almost

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without fail, we keep on asking Allah, Deena Cyril

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Oh Allah guide is to the straight path.

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The straight path is what Allah said in his book, the Quran, and what the prophets have.

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That is what we known as a straight path.

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Don't look for anything other than that, and keep on asking, or Allah, diapers, gators, but you still are not following what Allah say and what the prophets say. You still follow your feeling you follow the people, you follow the majority you follow the environment.

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But then you keep on asking the same prayer.

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We are very confused. People, you ask for something, but you choose to follow the other ways.

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Just imagine if you do not know where you're going.

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You have application on a waste then you key in everything. Then after the waste is talking to you. But you're moving in a different direction.

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Then waste also get confused.

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For five minutes, you're going to reach your destination, then suddenly visit 15 minute and then you getting confused.

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So anybody who really are sincere asking Allah for guidance, then you just have to follow.

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Just be a good follow. And Allah you won't be deaf.

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So as a Muslim, we always pray May Allah subhanho wa Taala help us to be righteous Muslim,

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those who are married righteous couple, husband, wife, those who are children, righteous father and mother. Because you want to have righteous children

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yeah Gu alayhi salam, who Allah Krenn him with to have children,

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including use of Alaihe Salam Binyomin and all other children

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when he was dying,

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look at

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what Jaco said to his children.

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When he was dying, he never forget to call the children gathered them around him and asked them

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what, what are you will be worshipping after me.

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But alhamdulillah because the Prophet is always there to guide their children.

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So the children keep on helping one another among the sibling.

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Then they say we worship the Lord of

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your father.

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The loss of your father Baker, Prophet Abraham, worship Allah, we worship the same God,

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the God that you worship, the

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Gotta get your father wishing

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is also one God. True God, Allah, Allah, Allah mean.

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Now, let us reflect a bit among us today.

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We have witnesses, a lot of elderly people who is dying.

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But we hardly hear them reminding the children about this.

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They may remind about a lot of other things. But they're never reminded children, about God

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about how to worship Allah

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Insha Allah, the end of the month, is our course again, on perfecting my salah.

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How to make sure that we perform our prayer in the right way, so that our relationship with Allah will be good.

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And the special cause we do it every month, once and for this month will be on the 30th of July. For those who are better than have attended, may Allah make it easy for you to remember. For those who have not been attending, don't miss the opportunity again.

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So important for us to do the right thing. So that we enjoy worshipping Allah, Allah, Allah Amin.

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Now lastly, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said by Omar ignore Amara Radi Allahu Allah Houma at dunya Kaluga Mata

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or Jairo Mata in dunya in Murata saleha

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the prophets Allah Salam, now keep on reminding the men first because the men always want to take lead, they want to be bossed

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is okay to be a boss be a good boss, a righteous boss.

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The life in this world the prophet is telling dunya Kaluga MATA

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is about accommodation is about things.

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We need thing to survive, we need things to move on, to travel from one place to another, we need transportation, all these are things. So the prophets Allah is saying that the paths of is accommodation is a righteous partner.

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When you have a righteous partner,

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almost you have everything.

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The goal, whatever thing that you have, you need people to take care of Polycom, salam, or amatola abre barakato.

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You need to take care of your things. And you have the righteous people, most of your thing considered taken care of. And Hamdulillah. And that is very, very important.

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Now, if you go back to the book, we were talking about the fragile vessel, about the relationship.

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And also about the wife of our prophets, some Allahu alayhi. Wa early he was telling them

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I don't have to go

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to a lot of other things that have been discussed earlier, by the earlier assistant of mine, when I was not around.

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But in general, we just have to remember, Prophet Muhammad Salam Salam who was granted, granted May Allah we have many, many wives, because Allah subhanho wa Taala ordain it to happen.

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And also, there was a limit, and is a very unique situation to break the tradition of the GIA Helia because there's a lot of tradition before Islam, any tradition that contradicts Islam, you need somebody to break it. And it's not easy to go against the tradition.

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Tradition diehard we all are aware. We are facing a lot of tradition and so difficult to abandon it is easy to say it's easy to plan. Just example before you want to get married. You

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Want to follow the right way of getting married, and Hamdulillah you don't want to get caught down with all this tradition. But when the marriage planner comes in, then you know a lot of things is going to change.

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It's not you who decide anymore, somebody is making all the decision on behalf of you, suddenly, you are caught by surprise of what they have prepared.

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Not only you will be caught by surprise, even the scholar were caught by surprise.

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Because we know that tradition can be very, very good. It can be very, very bad. The waste of money, and some of the tradition that is happening in our wedding day is completely an Islamic

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by the what can you do

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when everybody is there,

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and you are the king and the queen

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of the day.

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You are just as patient just follow the flow.

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So we know it's not easy. And that's why if you look back to the wives of the Prophet sallallahu sallam,

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he married

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majority widows and is against the tradition, the married widows, we do have no status

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in the GI Lea period, nobody

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except widow, widows is a going case met them.

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And also,

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she that is some tradition that is against the Helia to no one can

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marry the wife or the ex wife of their

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adopted children.

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The one you have adopted son or daughter, and they are married, especially son, when they have a wife and after they have the wolves then is against the law. The culture edit them for any especially the adopted father to marry adopted sons wife ex wife.

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Yeah, but it happen. And Allah subhanho wa Taala command the prophet

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to break the tradition by himself, exercise

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the right of another woman

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who is at the wasI even she's the wife or the adopted son, the adopted son is adopted son is not your son.

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Your daughter in law will be haram forever. But adopted

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sons why? A Salah for you.

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Just an example.

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So there are many things that happen.

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And the prophets almost Salam is a very responsible leader. That when his see and when he was aware that among his uma

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who are married later on, one of them

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left Islam

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one of the wife was sent to a B Cena. We topia today

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and then the husband

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left Islam

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and their husband later on die.

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Now the wife

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after anybody become a Muslim, then the love Islam, then the wife will not be the wife anymore after the period in the time.

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It da for the living woman is three months, in three months, that is the devil.

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Then Alhamdulillah the prophets Allah salon married

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that woman again, to show that anything happened to this ummah, he will take responsibility to protect them to protect your rights and honor.

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So brothers and sisters,

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that all of us try our best

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As many will want to do something. Don't forget to ask Allah for guidance and protection. Remember, what you read, digitized reciting the Quran, the best book on Earth?

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The Word of Allah. What must we do before that?

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What is the thing that you must do before reciting the book of Allah?

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seek protection.

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You're reading the best book.

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Even then, Allah remind us.

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When you want to read the book of Allah, first is Billa ministry on your regime,

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seek refuge in Allah from the disturbance, the whispering of the Satan.

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The Satan cannot stop you from restating the book of Allah.

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But what he will do, he made you a good recite.

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He can make you a good recite,

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but just lip service. Whatever you recite the Quran will not penetrate through that will not move you at all.

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So what would have happened to you, you will become a person who read the book of Allah, but you will go against Allah's command.

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You don't have the right understanding.

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You don't act upon it.

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Meaning you are not sincere in reciting the book of Allah.

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When you recite the book of Allah, you must recite with sincerity,

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you must recite with sincerity

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and shaitan have promised and admit to Allah, that he will whisper to every one of us.

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He cannot stop us from doing what is right.

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But he will just divert our focus.

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The only group that he surrender, he said that I have no authority, I cannot control them. I cannot influence them is when these people is sincere in what he or she is doing.

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He is it fabric is the

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fabric is it can Jana

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with your power, I will turn them astray Illa eBUY Tikka humulene meclizine Except one group among the believers, that he feel and this, those who are sincere to Allah meclizine We hope all of us who are here

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we are sincere to Allah.

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Sincere in learning his knowledge, sincere in acting upon the knowledge,

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sincere in doing whatever we want to do in this life, since God do not mean that you are given the right to do anything you want. It must be guided that whatever you do you follow the guidance of Quran and the sunnah of our Prophet, Muhammad Sallallahu sallam.

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Insha Allah brothers and sisters, we hope we do have the right understanding about

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why our Prophet, some Muslim, was commanded by Allah ordained by Allah to have so many wives

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and none of the wife feel him and neither he feel any of the wives

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and whoever don't have the ability, the knowledge,

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don't have the understanding. You go back to one why?

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Because that is the Amana of Allah. Allah mean

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generally, anybody who have a righteous partner, I think they have almost everything.

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They have peace,

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they will have love.

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Then the Mercy of Allah will be upon all of them.

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So we hope Allah's Mercy is always upon all of us. And please remember

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whatever we are doing here we are

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just trying to make sure that everyone who is learning from us

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is here to practice what you learn.

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And we are lost how they help those who help themselves until we return back to Allah, herbal al Amin and remember our children is a trust from Allah to us. Give them the best. Make them righteous children

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and those who is grown up children, make sure you become the righteous daughter and son to your parents.

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Then allow, what can you your righteous children, when your time come in chama

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today, we is a big day for us too, because we have brothers who's going to make the shahada

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I think most of them is here now.

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There was there was a brother. So

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they can come in now.

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We will try to close the class first. And then we will move to the second session. Second part. That is the revision the shadow of our brother, who Allah subhanho wa Taala have choosen them to be with us today to make the Shahada.

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We close the class by reciting Tasbeeh and Pivara Sahana Allahumma

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will be humming, DECA. I shall do Allah Illa Illa and

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as the funeral care

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why to the lake.

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Meaning of these resuscitation, glory be to you or Allah, or praises belong to you. We bear witness there's none worthy of worship except for you alone to you. We seek for forgiveness to you we repent. May Allah forgive all of us and accept our repentance. Amin eurobodalla mean?

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