Channel: Hussain Yee
Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 11
Presented on Mar 29, 2017
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operates due to Allah, Allah Allah mean for his guidance for his mercy for his blessing for his forgiveness. And may Allah Allah Allah Minh strengthen our Eman mean increase our patient in facing the difficult time trial affliction Phaeton and death
hamdulillah we pray me hon. I mean, make those who are not well become better healthier in Sharma for those who is healthy we make sure that Allah subhanho wa Taala them that they use the energy they have to please a lot of blood I mean to serve on last Dean so that we will not regret at the end of the day.
For those who have well we asked them to bless their well so that they are where we make them closer to a marble I mean, by spending in a concert of a marble and I mean, not to waste unnecessary. me a lot of blood I mean,
give us a lot of patience.
Especially when we encounter
Phaeton and funeral insurance.
Brothers and sisters.
We're gonna be discussing about death. And every time in the beginning of the class, I recite one that I added the profits are more solemn always recite.
And also the companions the four Khalif and the four great Imam Abu hanifa Malik Shafi and humbly aranmula hola him Jamie and there is the ayah in Surah Al Imran yo holla Xena Amata como, kata kata party watamu illa anthem sliman
this ayah remind us as believer to try our level best to strengthen our Eman to the level of taqwa.
And then Allah also remind us to make sure that we will not end and die without submitting to Allah. Allah mean.
No, the ending is also very important. We know that the ending plays a very important role in our life.
That's why we always ask Allah Allah ma Tim Lana because Neo Kadima, Allah gives us good ending while at the millennium BC illa katima and don't give us a bad ending.
To know whether we are having a good ending or not. inshallah, we can look into our daily life. At the end of the day, do we end with something good and positive every day? Our relationship with husband and wife children
paren friends, do we have a good ending and before we depart before we sleep example, husband and wives normally would have to check whether
before you go to sleep, do you have a good ending? Do you make your husband happy with you to the husband made the wife happy in
towards him and so on the children's should also look into that then
meet up with a parent and ask for forgiveness if they have the time. If not, at least no say some good word to the parent, excuse themselves, they are going to be recalled we do not know they may be the last meeting we have with each other. You can be very healthy and before you sleep, but we do not know whether you are going to wake up again or not. No one knows.
That's why every night the Prophet remind us to make a very simple
bismack Allahumma Muto.
This reminds us that oh now with your name, I'm going to die.
Even we are not dying yet, but the doctor is telling us that we are going to die.
So mouth can also mean people who are dying.
Mouth also can mean people who are sleeping.
And they will wake up again in this planet Earth. But they wake up in a different world.
So we always ask a lot of blood I mean, to make us the people who remember him before we sleep by saying Bismillah Allahu Mahmoud.
Well, I mean, if Allah will,
we may open our eyes again. We must survive for the next day. There is only if Allah will
because no one really know when we are going to meet Allah horrible Allah mean that's my unlock cause to prepare ourselves, our children who we love so much, we also do not know whether they will go first of your gophers. We hope as pattern that we will go first the norm is that the elders also feel that we have to go first.
But a lot of bulahdelah mean did not see it that the elders must go first. The Quran and Sunnah never said that only old people will go first. When your time come you go. newborn baby also can go back to a lot of blood. I mean, we are so happy to receive a newborn child. After one hour, two hour, three hours. They are normal.
It's not easy. But there is reality. There is what there is no one really know. And that's why a lot of Malala means remind us to always prepare.
And remember that that the young lion for omalu, Nola balloon, whatever property you have, you cannot save that soul anymore. You cannot buy life
with Allah, maybe human maybe you can redeem. Example, if somebody kills somebody, there is a sauce so that cases can be redeemed.
If you say Can you forgive my son for killing your son?
No, I'll pay you some compensation money in battle sauce, enough sweetness, then is allowed if the other party agreed upon
the time we can buy what normally when a love picks the time for us to go back to him. We cannot buy time anymore.
We just have to go back to Allah horrible and I mean,
and the beauty of Islam is amount of land I mean, use the term of death. As gladden
I'll use that term as abandon. Remember, in Surah hatia Allah say, Allah Zina, Allah tala Waltons are enough some mapa de la la vida.
And I've heard that means tomorrow the read Arabic for tomorrow is a higher than
the normal. Arabic is Baccarat.
Baccarat is a
normal Arab people used to use this term but the Quran use the term a codon harden tomorrow
and this tomorrow is a tomorrow of the next life. No more here. No
So in sha Allah we home all of us have prepared ourselves well, especially with our children. We all love children, especially grandchildren for those who have grandchildren will look like children more than a children's and time
is very common is not something wrong, but it's very common. Because children have their own fitrah their child, they are very pure and clean, innocent. That's why our love towards them is different. How naughty they are. They are not naughty. They are just hyperactive. It's good to use that term hyperactive active. energetic, don't say naughty naughty and because is your words is a prayer each time you say naughty, naughty, naughty? No, then they become naughty, so you don't blame them. They say you have been saying I'm not the I'm not. So you become Mati. So you must see the active, very energetic. We want our children to be
active. If they are not active or so we have become very saddening, we are worried.
The last class we talk about
when we talk about
grieving and mourning over the day, there is allowed according to the teaching of Islam, in shed tears and so on is very normal.
Those who have a soft heart, I think all of us have a soft heart in our heart is still very soft. And even something we say to someone, you have a very Your heart is like a rock. No heart is really like a rock and
only a bit stubborn here and sometimes we just happen sometimes
so today we are going into patient and it's up for losing a child I have caught earlier children who we love so much
may have to leave us earlier than us.
When we were in Japan, our last trip
we met to system very good system one is a born Muslim one is a reward
to sister was test May Allah with the death of their young children
really a test for both of them.
One involved in an accident with the whole family and LBD was okay the mother have a bad injury, broken a lake and so on. But the son passed away
then another sister who was a revert
and got married and then got one Chang also passed away.
So, when we talk about death, these two individuals
respond very well.
But we always give them good news.
Let us look into this had this physician
patient and these are most highly rewarded when exercised in the case of losing a child.
the companion of our Prophet some of Salam report that amongst messenger some of Muslims say Leia Muto the ad in the Muslim means the last minute What Fatima soudan illa the halal
way when three of our Muslim children die, Hellfire will not touch him.
Hellfire will not touch him
except in fulfillment of the earth.
If you look at the Hadees is an authentic hadith.
We will continue first with some Ayah then later on we come back to share with you the meaning of this Hadees
in this hadith the Prophet refer to Allah promised in the following Ayah what it mean come Allah wa Rida Hannah Allah Rebecca
su manana je la Xena taco Nazareth Dolly Mina v Ha. Hee Thea
and just fear none of you but will pass over in our hand. This is upon your Lord and inevitable decree coder then we will save those who have Taqwa.
Leave the wrongdoer in it on the nice
now a lot of Malala mean is telling us that we are going to go through the Sirat.
We are going to pass the Sierra the long Sirat.
Yeah, and the day of judgment and
those who have seen normally they will drop
and they are hooks below this base they are hope, get along with pull us up. And when you drop, you will feel the heat of Hellfire because Hellfire is just below
but we will feel the heat of the Hellfire, then we will be saved by Allah and pull us back at the top of the syrup and we start to move again.
The more you've seen, then you will drop more
to feel in the heat of hellfire.
For those who commit Shiri
there is no hope for him to be hooked up when you drop your drop,
because people who commit Shiro will not pass
safely. They just can't because Allah forbid, go after that Sierra. That means you are safe from hellfire.
Evil you are not entering Gemini yet because there is a smaller bridge called conterra. But you will be there until you settle whatever problem you have among Muslim.
And one of the things that will always be very careful is that among Muslim, you have rights.
Among us we have rights. One of the rights that's very, very important that we do not honor anymore is our dignity.
Every one of us have their dignity
miroir in the MLA in other harga de adamawa.
The prophets and Lawson remind us man satara Muslim man who ever cover
disclose the witnesses the wrongdoing of another Muslim,
for the sake of Allah. If the wrongdoing is very personal, especially every one of us do commit sins here and then through our words, our action through our eyes, through our tongue.
But if the sin is just within you, with someone, it's not an open sins, it's not a public sins,
then we should own on every individual weaknesses by covering their weaknesses not to expose
when you expose the professor, have some reminders that Allah will expose your own weaknesses in front of the public and the Day of Judgment, he would love to expose the sin of any Muslim who have right upon each other, then the Day of Judgment, allow it expose our own sin in
the public infant everybody.
So our is something very, very important for us to be very careful. as brothers and sisters. We have to look into it seriously, to make sure that we do not expose
the sin of any of our brothers or sister who commit sins secretly,
individually but not openly. And that's why the Prophet said I quote this hadith many, many times. But I always like to remind everybody about this hadith again and again. The Prophet cepillo Amati mafia all my Oman commit sin will be forgiven by Allah except Mujahideen 11 Mujahideen means Mujahideen is a person who is proud of his or her sin. Now he dared to challenge the public, tell the public you know,
so openly he or she commit has seen without China's without feeling of shame. And that kind of sin is like challenging a loss authority.
That Allah The Prophet said
Allah would not forgive it.
him or her so easily I've got at the end of the day is up to Allah Illa Mujahideen.
But though the see the only thing that Allah said, I will not forgive forever is Shrek.
Now Shahrukh have a lot of things to do with what is happening to all of us,
especially when we are sick, when we are dying, and nobody loves to die, and the people will come and give you all this idea to do all these different different kind of things.
And then you get in warfare in sherek.
And believing in by doing this, you will protect yourself from dying.
As a believer we know life and death is a death of a lot of
it's not because of sickness, because of sickness is just a reason suburb.
Now, the prophet was saying that when three of our Muslim children die, the firewood not touching,
the fire will not touch who
Now this had this do not emphasize girl
or boy, as long as children.
The word children used by the this Hadees is very
interesting. Maybe we don't have children. And we are married for 1020 years, we don't have children. So we may not qualify. And in this Hadith, but Allah and the Prophet is telling us that even you don't have your own biological biological children, you may have adopted children
you may have your nephew, your news, your nieces, that your family member pass it to you to take care of them.
And upbringing is with you. Now, and when they had this talk about children is talking about those who do not reach the age of maturity balance.
They have no seen they're very innocent. And you have been teaching them to be a good child in a good boy, a good girl. Because if the profit will emphasize only girl then she or he was used to what the net
and that's why you look at the name that we use to name our children. When you come to
when it comes to by being and then you know is that she and he. So, when the profits or loss on use been banned, that means go by name means by
but when he used wallet, that means it's not just your biological children, it can be any children.
Alive is very fat, you may not have your own children, you are not married, you don't have children. So how can you qualify
in this Hades by taking care of other people's children, adopted children, your sponsor some children, maybe you don't have the time to adopt them, because you have to work to survive, but you have extra money that you adopt to children and then whoever taking care of the children is in a good hand in a good manner. Then you also want to get the reward inshallah.
Except in fulfillment of the earth,
meaning except there is some kind of
NASA that you have promised with Allah, Allah when you make promises with or not to fulfill, and you break the promise, then Allah have to deal with you, personally.
And that's why the Prophet do allow us to make nazar with Allah but he never encouraged us.
If I have this, I want to do this for the sake of Allah.
If Allah give me help, now, I'm going to mocha. And then after you're healthy, you forget mocha.
You remember Japan,
New Zealand, but you forget mocha.
Now you all allow your promise to Allah that you are going that along with handle issue personally because you are promising a lot
And that you are going to do it. This nazar is very very serious. That's why Islam allowed but the Prophet never encouraged worried that we
do not fulfill the naza
example if I got these
I get this and that I will want to fast 10 days
and then this I'm going to fast after you get what you want. So happy you forget first thing.
You only remember having country and country because you're happy. You forget about fasting
but at least if you naza for fasting, also you have a way to redeem
you can redeem if you can fast but if you know that you can do it don't make that kind of promise in with a mobile alameen
so now there are other hobbies, whether it's here or not, yeah, maybe
they're coming later on inshallah. So the ayah that Allah is telling us, none of you but will pass away pal. This is upon your Lord and in evitable decree that mean is a cadet that you cannot escape.
Then we will save those who have Taqwa, Allah Xena taco and that's why Allah always remind us Oh yah, yah, yah yah holla Xena Amano. Tequila, tequila. The Prophet always remind his oma tequila, tequila, do you still remember how to attain taco
how to attain taqwa any one of us remember
how that didn't
only be two character with two character writing. Where's that?
The Prophet said it tequila, tequila, then the Prophet guide is oma What is that?
Some what thought
some Amata is submit Now what
that means when somebody is reminding us about what a loss is not what they say, what a loss it in the Quran. And they are quoting the iron or the coating the same on our Prophet sallallahu Sallam why the saying of the Prophet was also very important because Allah commanded us to follow His Prophet
by following the Prophet you are following the Quran.
If Allah said he is the best example and you don't follow the best example that means you are not
following what Allah wants us to follow.
So you cannot separate the Prophet from the Quran.
Even we always emphasize the importance of reading the Quran
understand or an act upon the Quran
is important new Alhamdulillah majority of the Muslim parents have been guiding their children to read the Quran
if they fail to guide them, they send them to chronic class and the children have finished at least once
the digital Alhamdulillah
but what make us fail towards our children, we did not follow up for the second round
after you have reset the plan now you have to go through to understand the plan.
There are two ways either you go by eye to i a
page to page do
I think it is too short.
I think page two pages
I don't think you can say is too long.
Yeah. Basically basis very practical. And
so we should emphasize the important or you can spend time as pattern. Every day you can just open the Quran, just one page. If just one of your children is very good at reciting let them recite, then somebody recite the meaning
is that easy?
For us to practice this thing is very easy. page to page is easy to do so then maybe some of them will those are very easily. Now you don't have to get them sleeping pill, you can see sadolin gone. Yeah, but it's easy page to page. I will encourage all the brothers and sisters who are here, you can exercise that immediately. By doing even tonight, page to page, do it together with the whole family. There's a lot of blessing.
There a lot of blessing.
If no one know how to resize, you know how to resize, resize and call your children to recite the meaning. Yeah, which one English or Malay is up to us which one is more convenient, easy to understand you just the meaning understand the meaning first now how to act upon the idea. You need another
Yeah, another time another
section to go inshallah.
So taqwa is those who listen and obey. Now just look at this
character of listening and obeying. Now how beautiful How nice. how peaceful, you as a parent, when you have children, when you talk, they listen. And they act upon what you want them to do. How do you feel?
if you're so happy
to have this kind of children, you have to train them from the end.
Listen first, and then we hope they will understand and they will be an act upon it. In no pattern when anything bad to happen to the children, children must have the understanding. And Allah who create all of us do not want anything bad to happen to us. He wasn't the best but we may not know he revealed the Quran but we read without understanding. So how can we benefit from the Quran, Quran is a guidance. But if you don't understand it will not help you. This is just an example in
then a lot of Malala Minh said that then we will save those who have Taqwa and leave the wrongdoer in it on their knees. This is going to happen to all of us.
And passing over it refer to the people walking over the bridge that will be erected overhead.
I think I've shared with you once many years ago maybe about what is going to happen. And the deal is gentlemen, number one after Allah
resurrected all of us a marble I mean, we'll prepare a scale.
There's a scale
where the scale will weigh all our deeds. When we buy things in this now today Alhamdulillah most of the wet market, the government has sent one of their offices to put a scale in the middle of the wet market for those who after buying all their fruits, fruit so as anything, you can even do the scaling again to make sure that they do not cheat. This is what the prophet commandments and this is what Omar m nahata radi Allahu anhu reinforced by himself when he was the Khalifa.
Islam encouraged everybody to get involved in business. Islam, encourage people to do business. There's a lot of Baraka, you have your freedom, your free time, but in the same time, the prophet remind the business people and also Omar he don't collect in tax from this business people who work very hard. They have Zakat already to tax them.
The earth is an Amana as long as they take good care, they clean the area. They don't charge them no fees.
No fees now we have to charge.
Why we trust them because we trust them so they dirty the place and when they come in on the road is so clean after that, after they finish their business, they will bring back their goods. They will leave all the rubbish
so sad to see and what is happening to us. If you go out from this bridge, you see that that's been in front is the Overton so everybody throw the rubbish outside.
This is how clean we are.
May Allah protect us
we will be just
in this case
alone one but
the scale in a market is good god there are a lot of cheating.
There are a lot of cheating today in business people lie and then they've had the Haram income comes in.
Then after that along with C'mon, everybody to pass to the bridge Sarah
and the Muslim insha Allah, majority of us may be able to pass through, then we will stop at kantara
because we have depth to
We have a lot of things, not settle here, because we do want to settle it.
And we are so stubborn.
Then you had to settle over there.
Abu hurayrah again reported that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Mom in Muslim menyambut lahoma Salah to mineral wallet
when three of Muslim capital, children's died before reaching ballet puberty, Allah will let the parent into China by virtue of his mercy, they the children will be standing by one of the gate of Jannah and will be told enter Jannah they will say not until our parent come.
They will then be told enter Jannah together with your parent, by what you have a last mercy
looked at is very hurting is very painful for parents to see their children die at a young age. It's not easy.
Normally, if the doctor was say they have a
problem, two of the kidney is gone. Are you prepared to sacrifice one of your kidney we are prepared normally.
But whatever sacrifices the parent is going to offer to someone else, even your child you cannot destroy yourself. for them is also heroin.
You cannot say take my life, let them survive. No, there is committing suicide
is not allowed. You love them so much. But you cannot destroy yourself while Apple could be ID Camilla De Luca, the profits and also a reminder by Allah. Do not destroy yourself.
If you can give them some part of your organ that do not cause death to you, you can is your sacrifice.
But you cannot see it now mine.
I'm ready to die for the sake of my son. I'm ready to die for the sake of my girl. No, you cannot do that.
Yeah, some of them we know as pattern. We don't mind.
Our love is so great to the children.
Normally, the laughter parent teacher is very powerful. But the leftover children children towards parent is always questionable.
Because we left to leave more than to die for our pattern. More apparently better die falls. They work very hard.
So now the profits are mostly Italian that according to the studies, three children.
Now those who don't have three, do they qualify? Yes, of course. They are the 100. But this had this that the highlight is about three children here. Look at what the children can do for all of us.
No, one day die before puberty. Allah will grant them that sha
Allah say go to Paradise because there's no his subpar children.
They are innocent, they're clean. They're pure. colo moleculer. Allah fitrah The Prophet said, Every child born in a state of fitrah, pure and clean, sinless. We don't believe in other people's believe the People of the Book some of them say every child is born with a sin of Adam, because we inherit the sin of our great great grandfather. But our Prophet said, no colome Allah, Allah fitrah every child is born pure and clean. the sin of somebody, you don't inherit. you inherit sins. No
You only start to collect sin, when you reach the age of puberty and you commit a sin, then the sin will start to accumulate.
When you're young, there's no sin and hamdulillah.
But you cannot train them to do bad thing, then you will come in a lot of sin, not they you yes, some people will teach the children to steal from a young age, they are stealing them is bad, but you don't blame the child.
Somebody must look into the children and educate them, save them in a Muslim country, or even a not yet Muslim country. If they found that the parent is making use of the children to do something bad, the welfare department will come and take the children away. That means this parent had failed
as a parent,
but now you know, world have changed. People are using children to do a lot of bad things.
But you don't punish the children. You check their background,
look at the back and trace back Who is the one who used them and you separate the child with their parents. And sometimes they use their children to go and collect drugs and sell drugs.
This is what happened today.
May Allah protect all children, I mean,
look at how the dialogue between a law and the children the children will be standing by one of the gates of Jannah we know the eight gates of Jannah.
One of the gates is up to Allah to put them in which case and allow us to say to them,
antigen, what collagen
they will say not until our parent come.
Now this also applying for righteous children.
This is for children before they reach the age of puberty. You have other Hadith The Prophet said, if the upbringing our children is righteous, they become wallet solid. You remember the prophecy is a matter of Adam in the children, Adam passed away, only treating that benefits them. And one of them is Walden solid, he had the Allahu righteous children that pray for them.
If your upbringing of your son, your daughter, a righteous Mashallah they pray five times a day they read the Quran, they make a lot of Zika the law of good deeds, the good sadaqa the fast and so on, and they die and you die too.
But we have been committing a lot of sin more than our children.
Because we live longer than that.
So the longer you live, the more seen you been exposed. You have more experience. You have a good and bad experiences though. And if the children die, when they are 1516 they only come in how many years?
say they reach the age of puberty for the boy 15
when they reach the age of 15, no 15 they die. Maybe it was just one year they committed?
We are 55
just calculate how many years
then they also will look for us, Allahu Akbar, when Allah commanded you have the right to enter agenda. One of the people who have the right to enter Jannah Allah make it very clear in sort of ledger. Allah say yeah, I had enough samata Marina era during Arabic era dia de Muro de Firth, halevi body what Holy jannetty what collegian knotty who have attained the peaceful heart nopsema in them,
they are pleased with Allah, whatever Allah ordain and Katara upon that, they have no complain. They know it's not easy, but they have all the summer to hold on except what Allah has ordained for them. It's not easy brother and sister. I know it's that easy.
But because we have some knowledge, we believe in Canada that helped us but can you do you try your best? Look for cure here and then still, you are not well? What can you do?
Just go back to Allah have faith in him.
By your patient, the patient will have Allah erase more of our sins
It's not easy because the pain that we are going through
that's where patient is, if there's no pain, there's no patient.
When you don't have problem, can you tell the people on a very patient person?
What patient you're talking about, you have no problem.
Those who have problem and the whole on they never give up that easily.
Yeah, they always hope and hold on
I was talking to a lot of teachers yesterday. Yeah.
And this group of teachers, they are local. And they are foreigners from different country is international school.
And talking to them, how important for them to educate the children then allow a reward them not just getting salary every month. If they really commit themselves become a more or be
more A B is more than a Marlin Marlin is a teacher.
There's a lot of teachers today, but very few more of
our profits, the Khalifa, the power grid in Malmo, they are more of de
Moura be means you are taking care of your children guiding them teaching them or you are teaching the student with love with care. And like a mother or a father taking care of their own children.
Not in in the class that you are helping them, monitoring them guiding them. Even outside the class when you see them do something wrong. You remind them
yeah, you supervise them when you travel with them. You keep on remind them when they eat you remind them know, whatever they do you remind them were in the car before you start to move. You remind them to make the door of saphir
every time you remind them it's like how we always remind our children Masha.
Zakaria namaha is accurate. You're always made sure that you and your children remember a law herbal Allah mean there is very, very important. And it says the husband and wife remind each other about the zekiel
before we eat your rich, they just say Bismillah example. No. After food you say hamdulillah anyways, you sneeze you say 100 Allah and what? Yeah, the other brothers or sister have to say to you, your harm Allah and what are you going to say back to them?
Yeah, hamdulillah we have only a few sisters who voice out
loud and clear the rest. They remember they are shy to just recite it aloud. Alhamdulillah in our class, normally, even our Sunday class, we have brothers and sisters, especially the sister Ayesha sister, Rania, they are always helping us and helping the sister represent the sister, the one who they represent the brother is Haji ariffin, the uncle of sisters are in an elderly man but he is always very responsive, no hamdulillah
we need that we need that kind of backup in
So our children, even the after Ballack, if they are the righteous children, and they die, no, and when Allah say go to Paradise, they also say no,
until my parent will come with me. And that is the time with the mercy of Allah. Allah commands the parent who have promised so much
to come out and enter Jannah not because of the abyss,
according to the scale of Allah, they have failed. But because of the prayer and the demand of the children
so if you can educate your children to become righteous children, brother and sister, that is the best asset that you leave behind.
I know a lot of children have grown up. Nothing is truly
nothing is too late. Try your level best.
If you feel the difficult. When we are free, bring them over. Let us help us to talk to them.
So that they missed that thing and value back yeah
what kind of sacrifices that our parent their parents have given them that they overlook you know sometimes children take things for granted. No. So we have to help them
we don't communicate we have children a lot today.
Very busy. We talk by giving money giving present giving things is okay now
we hope that we will give them the right value in Islam inshallah.
I was fine. Audrey reported that allows messenger some Amazon said again, I uma Marathi Mata la selasa Minar wallet panda hijab and manana. Whenever three of a woman's children die, there will be a shield for her from the fire.
Now this is talking about why in this had this noun the Prophet is talking about mother, woman.
Because a woman sacrifice more than men always
they do not just bad children.
But after the children was born, they are there they are the closest to the child.
Each time the child will cry and the mother know why they cry. The father don't know.
Call your father detailed children. The father was sleep before the child sleep.
They are so good in taking care of the children, the children will cry after the father sleep. But a mother will not sleep until the baby's sleep. That is the mother's.
And we have a lot of mothers here they can confirm and the Fathers will have to confirm
you have no choice. But you have to admit it's true.
But then again, they have time that allow a test the mother
that she'll be abandoned by the Father.
Normally when the channel do not reach the age of puberty, the mother have more rights towards the children than the Father.
The pastor, they should go to the mother. They don't have to fight.
But today because we are so corrupted,
and we are so unreasonable. Ruth groleau
we want to fight to hurt the mother.
We know the mother is very attached to the children. We go we have problem. And now.
We want to divorce her because of the problem or she asked for a divorce. We want to teach her a lesson. We want to fight for the custody of the children.
Now islamically men do that.
He is no more man. He's a diagnosis a bully. He tried to bully the wife or the ex wife. The mother of the children is very, very wrong.
islamically they have no right.
They have right to see the child of course.
But the one who have more right to take care of the children is the mother
until the mother remarried.
When the mother is remarried, then it's up to the father now
whether the father can accept it
and that the modest, still take care of the children or he can ask
for the children because they are worried that the new father may live the mother of the children but not the children.
And normally in married life and the husband have more power have more authority.
We just got a news yesterday when I was talking to the teachers
and they got information from some of their
very alarming, very alarming situation.
We are waiting for some info for the information to see how we can come in to help. They say it happened to this brother and sisters
and they are 15 and 16 years old.
Both parent yeah not from the
Same father and mother, they are with divorce. They're separated and now
both parent remarried.
Both parent remarried,
when they both parent remarried, this daughter and son refused to stay with both of them.
We do not know really why.
And where do they sleep?
In the car?
They sleep in the car.
But how can you let them sleep in a car? They are not?
five or six years old, they
barely know if something will happen with them.
So the answer, asked me, can we do something as it What have they done, they said they have report to the authority, they have report to the
welfare department, they have came and looked at the citizen, but nothing, no action yet.
Towards the children,
either to the parent, very difficult. Parent won't accept them. But the children refuse to go
is tough, very tough. Of course, if they refuse, but you cannot just let them stay.
Live in the car every night, just to have them.
These are things that is happening among our society that we are not exposed to Alhamdulillah Allah gives us good children and we are good parents. Allah have protect us, and also our children, we hope that
our grandchildren will not face this problem, inshallah.
So this is where the prophecy whenever tree of a woman children die, there'll be a shield for her from the fire. Because the father is not there. Either. The father abandoned the mother. So normally, it's easy for the father to abandon the mother that the mother abandoned the Father, the husband normally, so the sambar from the woman stronger?
A woman asks the profits and loss and how about two children if I don't have three?
you know, to also is okay.
how about one again, at the end, even one because you have other general holidays here to talk about as long they are children.
This is just to encourage his oma to have more children.
You know, profit level love is rumored to have more children, for those who have three already Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulillah. But of course, this is not something that you can force, you know, we pity one sister that we're talking about in Japan revert after the first baby died. And now she's 40 plus almost close to 50.
When you talk about children, she always cry. And the husband is putting pressure to her get pregnant again, get pregnant again.
It's also a pressure, you know, how nice is the men can get pregnant, you know, and let them also go through but they don't go to or they just get pregnant. So she was very depressed.
She was talking to my wife and
we got some info. And I was talking to the husband.
Please, you know, Be kind,
be loving and caring to your wife.
It's not what we want.
We can encourage but we cannot pressure we cannot pause.
Especially when you are reaching that age. We do not know whether it's safe is healthy or not. You have to check with the doctor the specialist everything you must prepare yourself.
I hope no doubt has been do stop
pressing putting pressure to do I know it was a good
family outing in Japan that we emphasized a lot about this family values now.
It's their job and that is go back to a steady job and most
them should express the belief in a loss of power or everything and the submission to his other.
by actual words, he should frequently thoughtfully properly proclaim His true job
with a saying in Manila, he was in LA he arogya.
In surah, Baqarah you have this ayah wabasha saw bearin Allah said, From 155 to 157. Well Bashir is saw but even before that Allah will say, what happened a minute Kofi World War One Nazi minute Amalia unverse Amara la basura sobre
Allah say I'm going to test all of you with fear, hunger, death,
poverty, everything is a test from Allah.
Then Allah and what Bashir is saw between, say, or give glad tidings to those who have sober
now who are the people who have sambar
Allah Xena is an assault by Tomasi by Paul in Allah Allah He was in La Jolla, Rajan. This is a sign of the people who have Saba
Saba is not just oh, I'm patient and patient but one of the characteristics of the person who have server is we have anything bad happen. Especially Dev, the first thing that will come up from the amount is in Allah He was in LA, he wrote,
reminding all of us thoroughly to allow we belong and three to him. We were everything came from Allah.
Allah is the one who gave us everything and everything that came from him, we have to go back to him. He is the owner Malik.
He owns everything. We don't owe anything we own even ourselves don't belong to us belong to Allah is an Amana We are here to make sure that we fulfill what Allah has entrusted us. And that's why the prophecy that in manly mala amanatullah there is no demand for people who have no Amana.
We belong to Allah we are holding the body, the eye, the ear, the hand, and know the leg. Everything that is with us is an Amana from Allah. That's why Allah called us to take good care of our life. Because our life is an Amana
when you have family, your family is a man that take care of your family. When you are given a job is an Amana
when the children was sent to the school, is there a manner for the teacher in the school to make sure that the children is safe? There is how we move on.
If everybody will respond to the Amana among what would there be a lot of peace.
We solve a lot of problem.
Those who have patient or those who when something bad happened fitna death anything that we know is not good to us. Only Allah know what is good to us. We don't seem that death is good.
But there is a prayer the Prophet summit alone.
That if you think that dying is bad,
after you have gone through all the treatment, the pain the suffering, only you know well because you bad a pin by yourself. No one can understand the pain that we've gone through.
People have given this and that we have tried this and that we have went to this hospital that nothing really make any changes in our health, then only the profit
Do I have to say to Allah Allah if death is good for me, take my life now.
If living is better than
then only you say that
after you have try your level best, but not like just one pin allowing the data What is this?
Even non Muslim don't have that kind of
witnessing the fight. They keep on fighting. They do their level best and how can we Muslim who have caught the Encarta we have a man give up so fast. is very wrong.
Just like helping your children, educating your children you cannot just give up like that. Have faith have patience.
The person who really have patient and the person who really know how to express his patient is a person when something happened, he is in Melilla, he was in La Jolla Raji on, he know that his strong Mama, everybody had to go back to him. Unless, of course, you can cry. When human you feel sad,
but you have except the fact they are going back to Allah. What is there to complain?
Know, we belong to him and he takes us back when he like
his doors who will be awarded blessing and mercy from the Lord.
This will allows it by doing that only you will be blessed you'll be awarded by Allah and it is those who are guided only those who are guided. If you say that you are guided then inshallah there's how you respond.
You don't go in and bang your head on the wall when they break your head and injure yourself. Why you do that?
I've seen somebody have problem here between husband and wife and we were so happened was the passenger they were driver, the husband was the wife was the driver. The husband
sit beside front seat, you know, we behind
Allahu Akbar. Know, I have to keep on wanting her. There is some passengers behind you.
We are so upset with the husband and they have to go to a place now they invite us and so she drive is like she's going to hit somebody. Especially when there is the
no the bumper here never stop.
She liked to fly.
We behind in Melilla, De La La ilaha illa Allah but can he control the way
you put more pressure his press more? No Allah
very difficult sometimes when you have no patient
you show your anger you know Salama reported that allows messenger Prophet Muhammad SAW said mommy Muslim to see bajo musi baton fire Paloma Amara la in LA LA in la hora de Allahumma Jitney Fimo see buddy, walk live Li hiren minha in the Allahu Allahu Akbar Amina. Whenever there is a friction fitna deathstrike a Muslim and he or she say as Allah commanded him to do so in LA LA he was in La Jolla Raji on a llama journey Fimo see buddy or acalypha Kira minha to allow we belong and to Him we will return Oh Allah re what me for my affliction and replace it for me with that is better only Allah knows
only Allah knows
sometime maybe deep in our heart we're actually when this man is with the diet.
Enough no My problem is human now. I got headache. I got hot sick. I cannot sleep
then he died
Yeah, sometimes sometimes your patient is not easy
to to be with somebody that you don't like
you like him before man later on he'll betray you he this honor you know he beat you up. No.
It's not easy.
But woman normally they have very patient and a lover reward them for that patient.
And that's why I say that allow will replace it for him or her with that which is better. Yeah.
So brothers and sisters insha Allah May Allah bless us later and we own Salama edit when Abu Salah Medina
I thought who among the Muslim is better than Abu Salander that mean?
Her husband, he is from the first family that migrate to a last messenger after the Prophet migrate to Medina, this family the first family who follows you.
Yet I said it and Allah replace him for me with a loss messenger allows messengers and had it been a bit Botha shaking my hand in marriage. I told him I had
I have a daughter to take care of. And I'm a jealous woman. Now he is very careful. So I'm a very jealous woman. And
so a lot of messages. As Paul, her daughter, we asked a lot to sacrificial Brahma, and I asked Allah to remove her jealousy.
That mean is going to get married with a profit across any men compare the profit, nobody can be better than the profit.
They mean for your daughter, you don't worry.
There will be and then we will be taking care of the doctor together. It's not just on your button inshallah, Allah will help us and for you, you're still telling me you're jealous woman. Of course, I accept the fact you are jealous, you told me out front. But I will pray to Allah, that Allah remove your jealousy. inshallah, but it's true, the prayer of the Prophet was captured,
when they got married later on.
She just don't have the feeling to get jealous anymore.
You know, what happened in terms of profit when there is some jealousy among them. And to the extent there are a lot of gossiping now, they don't gossip with other people.
Then the profit call all of them when they
and because sometime in the profit, a very private when he is with this wine, if he so happened to have something with him, he wants to share that wine. And so he gets shared with his wife, but then when he was with the other way, that thing is not with him by later on dead wife found out that no, he shared something with the other way. Now they start the top.
Profit table is not something that the profit is not just to any one of them is to happen. Something that thing that when you are with them, you have something of something give you something. So you bring along and then you share with them. It's not purposely that but to show us their profit. Yeah, also do something and he do not just tell everybody.
This is the risky for her. It's che with her.
And then the Prophet was upset a bit because they become a bit jealous among themselves. Just because of honey, they become jealous sometimes.
So the Prophet called all of them.
Tell me what do you really want from your husband?
Because the Prophet has big responsibility not only to his family, but to the oma. He has to call people to Islam, guy, everybody. He needs support, moral support.
No. And every woman have their strengths.
Some Irish, some love children. Yes, some love to do welfare work. Some are very learned. They can pick up a lot of things very easy. Elijah is very learned. So everybody had their strength. So the profit center hope that they will help together for the oma because now they become mother of the nation. They are not my wife of the Prophet, the mother of the believers, they cannot be jealous. All the other people is like the children.
Not easy to be the wise profit for us all profits wise special. But also you must be very patient. And
then the proper ask What do you want? If this the dunya is the thing that you are fighting I'm talking about if the dunya matters is so important, I will give all of you what you want from this dunya then I will leave all of you once and
then they realize Alhamdulillah
and they realize that they have been very wrong. To have this feeling Why must we have this feeling? Why must you entertain these dunya
when you have something so great waiting for you here and gentlemen. What is this? The little your sacrifice here? You get so much in return? Why can you look at that picture
of God been human?
They went now now now.
The human obviously, may Allah bless his brother and sisters No. So we hope all of us will try our best to make sure we start by doing one simple thing What is that?
What can we do?
Can we do something that you can do you can see I can
Why is that?
Be honest that possible? One day one page of the Quran
at MIT on a family after D nine, maybe it's after the time you you look for the right time. You have a lot of blessing. Imagine LD is learning to get the one page
and whoever want to become the, the disciple of as much as you get more reward.
Yeah, and we hope that after understanding the Quran guidance from Allah, we all respond summit na, what our partner del taco.
They we have children who am attacking. That's what we want.
inshallah, is there any question we open for q&a
sister tozi, fatale Aleykum, Salama
Now one day I doubt they will become adult, those who are children, they're in form of children.
when we as a project are resurrected, you remember a woman came to the Prophet, an old woman came to the prophet and asked her Can I go to
the Prophet don't really mean Eva just there is no old people in general.
So that woman was a bit know he cried. He lived kahless No, I have no more future. So the proper call somebody to call her back. I mean, when you're in Jana, you're not going to be all all our young in the age of 30. Plus, for those who have
age for those young children, they become children.
Children is still children, only those who have
bypassed 30 plus 60 plus, don't worry, you're not going to be 16
Yeah, you were Asian that atheist and of course all of us are huge. My children, his children, their fitrah is different.
And they are they are considered children.
Allah will let them know the parent.
The important thing is as That's why, when the if even you die, if the mother died while giving birth all if the child die and the mother died together all of his Shaheed
when there is a soul there is there is a life already consider a human
second question from the other sisters.
Sister Oh honey remind me of a job. You know, we mostly may
very seasoning Muslim You know, when come to the man of Rajab, there's a lot of messages going through here and there about the benefit the significant remind people reject there is no authentic Hadees about a significant of a job except if you want the past Monday test the 13 1415 you can there's no special prayer
all the thing that you are being informed is not based on authentic and this is what happened we all love all this kind of thing. They wanted me to unmake the unknown from not because of Lucha yet because you want to make dua to Allah will Allah mean
we know after a job is what Siobhan after Shaban will be Ramadan so we can keep on making to our May Allah give us the opportunity to pass in this coming Ramadan.
Because Muslim always loved to meet up with Ramadan
is a blessed month.
We don't know Allah will allow us to survive until the timing of Ramadan but we always
Pray May Allah give us
the blessing of this coming Ramadan
so when Ramadan is getting closer brother and sister what is important, make sure that you who
still have some fasting that you owe a lot from last year.
Please make sure you play before the coming Ramadan
if you still can redeem it as soon as possible before the day is trying very fast. And then suddenly tomorrow Ramadan we don't like to be caught in, in a situation that last minute situation and May Allah make it easy for all of us. So remember all the Hadith talking about Rajab have this this this is not based on authentic IDs.
Last question from the sisters
from the brothers
none Alhamdulillah So once again, I think next Wednesday we are still around Yeah.
You know we still be around then we'll be going for as long as we have a one when there's a break inshallah, but next coming Wednesday, class will be still on inshallah. And
back to Africa, not here. Yeah.
We are leaving on the sixth.
Yeah. But anyhow, on the Brandon sisters, we just want to remind all of you and share with you that last Sunday is the day we have the price giving for the Super thinker. The college program activities is a collaboration between super thinker and continuous. We have it here hamdulillah children came the home of hope children was here, because we have people who bought the the the MLS sponsor the children, and they got the certificates of participation. And also they got prizes for those who
the competition at hamdulillah. So we like to take on the brand sister who participate in helping some of the children who can't afford
to participate in this collage competition.
So once again, may Allah reward all of you for your payments will be like 250 or acleda. Allah Subhana Allah Hama will be handicare. Shantou Allah, Allah in stock Furukawa to boil a Samana Bharata la obata