Channel: Hatem al-Haj
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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam are so loud he was offering him
a lot today we will go over Babel to sum the chapter have taken shelter
in the Manasa serene session and then in the following session for the second worship session we will talk about the rulings of wiping on
leather socks and non leather socks.
we know a lot I was gonna say shut up because a lot of some of the word of the song itself is just attached to them.
But the moment we sat here in bed without the sound of the chapter of taking shelter, or the loss of gelato generosity will be heavily laden with data for Roku, Allah subhanaw taala said that hold firmly to the root of Allah subhanaw taala
and do not be divided.
And then he said well possiamo will live
forever moto lmsc Moto Z mobile live horn will come and hold fast to Allah He is your protector called fastball law he is your protector and the translation here even though this is our first demo and this is a placebo. So, when it comes to handle, when it comes to the role of Allah, then I think the translation would be appropriately hold on or hold fast to
the rope of Allah.
By the left assignment self
love assignments itself comes from asthma which is protection also means protector asthma means protection. And in my case,
you find it the lexicon of Murphy's Law which tells you the roots of the words and where they come from and what the imply and infer.
He said out
loud, Hassan has those three things
holding grasping, protection and nervous and all those three things are very applicable to this topic today. It is grasping,
protection, and near this so the three letters, I in sub mean
those three letters, that is what the in for the inferior Nereus in for protection, and the inferior grasping.
So when we talk about love,
versus love to somebody, when we talk about happiness,
which is holding fast to the role of Allah subhanaw taala as Allah said, authoritarian run, holding fast to the rope of Allah.
That is different from the sound Villa which is taking shelter in a love taking shelter with a law taking shelter with a law office mobile app. So a better translation for our policy mobila although it's the same word is take shelter with Allah. So tassimo de la holdfast the rope of Allah grasp the rope of a line hold fast to it, and then while fussing with law, take shelter with Allah.
Because like I said, the word is not can be about grasping and can be about protection and here protection It is not that you're that you will be the protector it is that you will be seeking
So of course he will be happy to learn he
what would be the rope of Allah subhanaw taala time
Qur'an and the sun would be the rope of Allah, the sun, I've had different interpretations of the rope of Allah subhanaw taala. And certainly the puranam the sun would be the most prominent of those interpretations of a hyperbola. And certainly the setup would agree on this. It's just the setup used sometimes to give
examples that are not basically comprehensive in their interpretation, they would just give you like an example of what this means.
What one of the meanings of this would be such and such, such as when I have not best talks about it. He talks about it, almost
The minute Jenna would have knocked bass interprets in a manner which is trustworthiness and he says it was limited Jenna to take a bath after being, you know, after ritual impurity to take a bath. Well, someone may frown on this and say, you know, you really limiting and Amanda trustworthiness to that very little, just saying, well, he's he's not saying that this is what America is all about, he is just giving you an example of where it applies, like a practical example. It is basically that you're the only one who knows that I'm doing a job. And then you take in the Muslim means that you have that you have commitment like that you have sincerity like that, that you have read that
whenever. So the Abdullah gives an example of what it means. But this is not a basically
like a word for words, or interpretation, or explanation. So here with that set up, when they talked about hospital law, they talked about different things around and this and that will be of these things for sure. And then shut up when he wrote his magnificent book about Assad, which which, which is holding fast or grasping or holding on to the Quran and the Sunnah of Qatar was similar.
This was a book primary
entirely, like an anti better book, anti innovation book, because by the time I'm shocked to be live,
which was in the eighth century, a century after hedra, the Buddha had spread so much in the Muslim world, that we have become very divided over our practices, because, you know, every sect, every group of people, they started to have their own separate practices and we drifted far away from the Quran and the Sunnah and the way of the Prophet and the companions, unrighteous predecessors. Because of this innovation, inevitably, innovation will lead to departure from the sun,
just by the mere competition with a certain forget about contradiction. Forget about conflict, just by the mere competition with certain because, you know, your lifetime will not be enough to live up to all of the senate of the prophet SAW silent everything, the prophet prescribed everything the Prophet pointed out to us as good and practice himself, your lifetime will not be enough to basically fulfill all of that to live up to all of that. So any bigger any prey will compete well with the center and take up your time, take up your effort, take up your energy, so that for some habits that have the law here means the milestones to diamonds, all of the milestones, the guidance,
you know, can we say the Prophet himself is part of that? Absolutely. In Quran and the Sunnah. You know, the prophet the first generation, the practice of the righteous predecessors a milestone guidance after loving the Massoud said habla and America. Why, once again, he is not saying that Allah is not a Quran and the Sunnah, he's just saying that habla is also an Gema.
Ultima means the mainstream stream or the main bulk of the believing Muslims, it does not mean mainstream, like you basically measure the public practice and you find the point in the middle and you say that this is the middle, you know, so you measure public practice of all of the Muslims, and you find yourself a point in the middle and you say that, you know, this is moderation. That doesn't work this way. It's not it's not geometric like this, it is basically you know, the main bulk here is the main bulk of the practicing
believers, the main bulk of the practicing righteous believers, the main bulk also of the scholars of Islam, because the knowledge is important in this regard, knowledge is important in this regard. So the law means hold fast, grasp the milestones, be watchful of the milestones on the path to guidance or on your on your path to Allah, for your journey to Allah subhanaw taala set up many milestones for you, you know, hold on to the poor and hold on to this and hold on to, you know, the drama, the mainstream, the mainstream of the Muslims in your time and, you know, hold on also to the you know, guide
sub directories predecessors how they approached and understood and practiced, you know that the deal now righteous predecessors, the first three generations primarily the first one, the companions of the Prophet sallallahu s and now that is about to some habit and then he moves on and he's pulled to another area, which has to do with a lot of some of the some of the largest taking shelter with a loss of Massimo Villa, who can take shelter with a lot, he is your protector is your protector.
here how best as a as a protector and as a helper.
So a person will hear when when you talk about them to some biller
somebody gives a different meaning, you know, it's not exactly like Lata Sunbrella here it is about taking shelter with a loss of Hello Todd, taking shelter with a loss. I know Tyler, because on your journey to Allah subhanaw taala you need guidance, right? milestones. But also, this is a very individual journey. This is a very lonely journey, what ends up in journeyers need protection and energy power to complete their journey. It's not only that you need guidance, but you also need protection and you need power and energy to complete that journey. And holding fast to the rope of Allah subhanaw taala even though if you understood this to be in the most comprehensive way, you
know, and then you hold fast to the crown with your not only with your intellect or your knowledge but also with your actions, then it will include everything, but you know, a person who will take shelter with Allah gives an edition of meaning which is that you need those milestones on the path. But also you need power and protection you need energy and protection to complete the journey. And that is one classy move in law. So find that energy find that power find that protection with a law look for it with a law and take shelter with Allah subhana wa tada Psalm here is different from Strv, even though they are synonymous, the either when you Tao was beloved car with a biller, what
does it mean? What does our beloved mean? Because we often translate those a bit louder is the others were taken seeking refuge with ALLAH subhana wa Tada. And then of Islam, it is also about taking shelter. So what is the difference between alpha salmon is
the salmon str that there are differences between the salmon str the na?
Yeah, yes, exactly. So that is one of the differences to some a refers, although the arts anonymous, although the word that the language itself would not lend this to you. But the the issue here is that in usage, and implication, there are some differences.
As the artisan is petitioning for protection, is appealing to a law for protection petitioning for protection, asking, requesting seeking protection from Allah subhanaw taala. But remember, I said in the lexicon of Matthias and lava, he said that has to do with nearing this grasping and protection, protection through Nereus is a song. It's protection through narratives, taking shelter with a law. Do you imagine that someone who's running away from law would be taking shelter with a loss of appetite? Or that someone who's distant from a law, you could still imagine that someone who's distant from a law makes the either
you know, your distance value, you're saying protect me that could work, although you're not showing you like that you deserve it, but it instead work. It's just petitioning for protection. And even if you're this then you could petition for protection. But after some talks about you, you know, working for that protection, taking shelter with Allah, it means what taking shelter with Allah through nearness, to have closeness to him. So it does
imply that you're working for that you are coming close that you are getting near to Allah to take shelter. How do you take shelter when you're out? You know when you like how would you take shelter from the rain if you if you stay stay?
what you have to walk in to take shelter from the elements. So that is one of the differences between autism and
STI, between the Sun and the skies. Although is that disarm also includes petitioning? And why does it include petitioning, because your work would never be sufficient, you understand that inherently you are incapable of taking shelter without him allowing you to take shelter without him giving you the power
to take over without him opening the gates for you, and allow you to come in, you know, for shelter. So the sun does include also petitioning because in the your work your your attempt at nearing this, you're working for closeness will never be sufficient without his help.
So then, the song we have Lila is holding on or holding fast to the milestones to guidance upperhand the sun, the prophet, the companions, the writers predecessors, the way they understood that the approach that practice that and the demeanor of the muslimeen around you, the pious practicing believers who are around you, those are all milestones to guidance, and then what are the some bit Nam would be taking shelter with Allah subhanaw taala which would imply coming close and being near to him?
you know, how are we talking about Lhasa to some of the cabinet level in
Morocco, the emirate holding firmly to the rope of allies about adhering to his obedience while being watchful of his command.
that it which means adhering to his obedience moeraki ban the empty while being watchful of his command, with loving and revealing observance of his command you are adhering to his obedience not because it's your habit not because it's your comfort zone. Not because you're afraid of losing your status not because of showing off, you're adhering to his obedience, because you are watching his command lovingly, and respectfully. Watching the command of a lot.
And every command, you know, is met with Seminole altana every command was met with basically compliance.
submission, and every prohibition is met with
abstention, because you are watching the commander, you know, that is what matters the most, that who commanded you
is is at the center of your observation, your attention. So that that is why he said more optimally, I'm re watching his command because sometimes you adhere to his obedience just because it is your habit or because it's your comfort zone, or because of many other inferior goals, but he's pointing out to you that you need to do this. Out of watchfulness revering God loving observance of his command.
And then this also means what morality but namely you're you're adhering to the obedience watching this commit, that you'll always be insensitive to his command, you're always trying to really understand what what he wants to view. So you're really you're adhering to the sun, you're looking for correctness, you know, obedience alone, you know, is like shouting a lot bad you know, like, the about the worshipers who are not informed who are not knowledgeable, may
be maybe very inferior, or not maybe a very inferior, but may be fully you into say, into innovation. Obedience needs to be coupled with this watchfulness of the commands of Allah subhanaw taala so you're watching for commands this this includes both both pillars of both conditions, prerequisites of acceptance of philosophy, what about sincerity and adherence to the sun? So you know, pay attention to this because the chef is very precise.
Mahabharata he Morocco, polyamory Morocco Vania.
adds a lot to one half of our authority, which is simply adhering to his obedience. And then he then he says, what are some of the law what karate and kolima? Whom what the hell no. So men could later added what are some of the law who are karate and Kalima home, taking shelter with a lot is through transcendence, beyond all illusions, taking shelter with Allah is about transcendence, beyond the above all illusions, what does he mean by illusions everything else other than Allah else, you know, the the Sufis, they have the some sort of special lingo. So, hence the call this Essaouira has seiwa means what? See what such except such such and such, you know
illa seiwa, you know, it is first if not for exclusion, so, say why it means, you know except, so, has
the mean an email of it.
And the name here means anything else. So, whatever they mean as silver, whenever they mentioned as silver, they are saying anything else other than Allah subhanaw taala. So, now, Who here is a silver, any
seniors is my home is an illusion. Now, certainly the unionists, what have you and or the people who believe in it had which is, you know,
completely blasphemous, believe I would take this to mean that there is no existence that this existence is an illusion, that this is just like, there is no reality there is no,
he's just trying to say that compared to a laws existence, your existence that is self insufficient, that is, you know, that has a beginning, and transience in the sense that it has a beginning, not necessarily in the sense that it has an end, but even your your subsistence, beyond this life, beyond the life of this world, is contingent upon him is dependent upon him. So, given that it is dependent upon him and given that your instead of insufficient and given that you are
limited, in all regards, your existence is like an illusion. Like an illusion. This is a, this is an average Shay, who believes in the names and attributes of a lie, who believes in SQL who believes that other lies above his throne, who wrote about this, who who fought for this his entire life. So I must understand this word, this, you know, statement through his entire legacy. This is a chef who wrote a book about the Mad cat, Mr. Lee, you know, this is an FHA, who believes in his buddies and the names and attributes of a lot of believes that Allah is above his throne separate from his creations, then I must say, you know, understand his speech through that entire legacy. And that is
the larger context that we must not ignore the larger context, there the can text is not just one thing, there is limited context, there is large context, larger context, and so on. So if you want to understand the statements of a scholar, understand them through the largest context, what was what was he about what is his legacy?
As a shave, so he is not saying that we don't have our existence is unreal.
But he's saying that compared to allows existence,
the fact that it is transient, like you have a beginning, the fact that you are creation, he brought you to this existence, and your existence at any point of time, is completely completely dependent on him, completely dependent on him.
Makes you almost an illusion, makes all of this creation, all of this existence, all of the universe, and illusion. That real, the true one ad hoc is Allah subhanaw taala, who created us all, so transcending beyond all illusions, means that you are taking shelter with the Creator, the own the sole protector, creator, maintainer sustainer
helper. And so
then he says what the homeless woman colita does. And I'm not going to go back and talk to you about that. And, you know,
we may come back and talk about this issue in detail. But I don't want to repeat this every time. But it is extremely important because you will need to get this down very clearly and correctly in your mind.
So that you don't have a problem reading books of this nature.
And then he says what the homeless that is on Bella taking shelter was the last panel Tada. It's about transcendence beyond all illusions, and then at the homeless men correlated, which is reddens from any hesitation, rather than from any hesitation throughout the reservation or hesitation reluctance. So basically, a heart that has no certainty and heart that has no togetherness, the heart of that is not focused on the goal, the ultimate objective, and the ultimate, the final destination is a heart that is torn.
And a heart that would always suffer from hesitation.
Limited hesitations, unlimited. If you don't, if
you can imagine a heart that is not set of the final destination will always have unlimited hesitations about everything about every pursuit, you know. So, these are this is not just reluctance between the true one and the illusions, the you know, between the life of this world and the eternal, between good and bad, you know, that this is hesitations, even with every pursuit in your life, you will have visitations
but, you know, have believer would have, you know, like a little
checklist, you know, is this you know, the first thing is it had a, you know, I have to check this off first had that or not have not had, that we're done, you know, move on, forget about and then the next thing is this really, is this really
best for me, best for my relationship with Allah subhanaw taala bring me closer take me farther away Is this a distraction within that, you know, frame of mind you will be able to rule out many things and you will be able to have focus and clarity. So, the homeless man could literally do basically acquiring certainty, certainty and ridding yourself of all sorts of hesitation and reluctance.
Then he says what are the some
of the some of the armory but how bad is Islam and designer?
He says taking shelter with Allah is three levels, they are the sum of the masses, maybe the masses is
maybe I should use some other word for it other than the masses, because the masses does have some negative connotation he does not mean to be a little more than he does. Maybe he could use the public purse message
do you think
he means just the generality of the practice and Muslims versus the select few versus not that the topmost across the cream of the crop?
Well, he does not mean the moment and that because the layman may refer to someone who's not knowledgeable
but arm as for him the AMA in terms of the rankings on the path.
The path of devotion not necessarily
knowledge but anyway in our unit you understand what he means that Armand
lamb is the
the generality of the people the public, and in hospital would be the select few and army
The beginner is on the path alarm are the beginners on the past two devotion and costs are you know the advanced seekers and hospital costs which which is basically the elite of the advanced seekers
or the most elite of the advanced secrets not the elite is the most elite of the advanced secrets.
So, the he then he talks about how to seminar on time says that this that he talks about an armor because the shape is basically is always
the concept of fernet has a grip on him like a very hard to grip on him. So unless you are basically seeking that funnel or self annihilation
piece, he's not seeing you as a hassle. But in all honesty, if you if you had here today conditions of what he calls up the Salama, which is basically the autism of the public.
You will be of the topmost
of the select few.
If you truly sincerely and devoutly adhere to these conditions just for that he mentioned the B conditions for the beginners. Listen to what he says
about this conditions for the beginners now to some of the masses by the revelation, you are taking your holdfast to the revelation now that is uncovered. But cover is this lemon with submission. What is iron and compliance of iron is basically sort of submissive compliance. It is compliance with humidity, like his eye on either Missouri and like you're compliant with humidity with humbleness and humidity. So you are, you know, holding fast taking shelter away in the revelation holding fast to the revelation with complete submission and compliance is this nominal desire, but as the filati worldwide? How do you do this? By believing the promises and the warnings of Allah subhana wa tada
believing the promises and the warnings, if you don't believe in the promises and the warnings, if you do not hear him for a paradise and fear from the Hellfire, it will be extremely difficult for you to comply with the alamiri one nine in order to stay worldwide. without believing in the promise and the wording. It is extremely difficult to comply with an M and N E or the command and the prohibition
and to speak worldwide. Why is the Steve bill the bill as it is it is you're believing in Allah subhanho wa Taala because he is the one who issued those warnings us he's the one who made those promises to us. So the first one is believing the promises and warnings and to
bring this to the fore of your mind requires practice requires diligent effort to be always mindful of and why what why the promises and the warnings the hereafter and what is awaiting us in the hereafter. What are we What am I doing now, which is revering the commands and prohibitions revering the commands and the prohibitions? You don't say anything? This is trivial. This is you know, the, what would we talk about technically, when I mentioned the word technicalities in fat pie, I'm not belittling them, I'm just saying that there is something beyond them that is important also to be watched for love, which is your observance of Allah subhanaw taala. And your observance of the
intent of the legislator versus the the
technical arguments between the scholars the intent of Allah subhanaw taala should be the focus of your attention the web does Allah want of me? How do I do this in a way that's most pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala Thursday what I do, now he revered the commands and the prohibitions of a lie is extremely important. Don't divide the DNA into you know, peel and core. The whole DNA is important but we must divide that into Mohammed. Important and the more important right? There is something called important in our Deen and more important in our the there is nothing that is trivial or unimportant and are the philosophy
revealed it of the Prophet relayed that it is important, he deemed it important to relate revealed it to his messenger, His Messenger deemed it important to relay it to us, then we accept it as important, but then we must be discerning enough to understand that in rd there is there are things that are more important than others, more important than others. Remember, even with a C, Summa mela, tiara, the Athenian insaaf and to base your,
all of your dealings on AIP certainty and insaaf justice, he attained certainty and in soft justice, certainty versus uncertainty and Abraham law talks about this and he you know, he says that some people are basically doing all of this and walking on this path, just to cover their bases, just in case there is a hereafter, just in case there is something beyond this life that I'll be covered also,
you know, so, I am working for this life, but because of the possibility that there is a hereafter, I will also do these things that is called a T often not yet in and that is, you know, precaution is very, like you're dealing with the Hereafter, like someone who's just taking these precautions, just in case and then mm hm says that this does not really save you that this you know, just in case attitude towards the Hereafter, it was a lot harder, does not save you. So you have to basically find certainty, because it is certainty that will give you that power that energy and that is certainty that will save you.
You mentioned the poetry that zarma Marathi movie bucola Mela to Bothell Sadie Paul to LA Kuma it can happen
it can happen multiple Emmy fellows to be fascinating. When can happen that akula fan matter
in Canada when can happen punto casado la coma and he considers this to the service he says that the management to be the astronomer and or the astrologist and to be even the physician. You know, scientists, even in his time, some scientists were also making that claim that said the latter baffle itself to a coma that the bodies will not be resurrected. I said, Go away. Leave me alone. In Ghana, how can a guru and can happen Metapod any faster because everyone can Hakan Malibu for cassava coma, in Ghana can mattaponi for us to be faster, and if it is true, what you're saying I wouldn't lose nothing. And if it is true, what I am saying then you will be the losers, that you
will be the losers. So keep in mind, the these verses of poetry are beautiful. And there there is a strong argument and then and then but just for the sake of argument dialectics, should this should not be how you
approach the matter. You know, the you're not approaching the matter in this way, which is equivocal, or, you know, in case what you're saying is right, I would not lose anything. And in case what I'm saying is right, and there will be a resurrection, you will be the losers. That in case is good for argument. It is a powerful argument. It's a powerful argument against atheists.
It is also a powerful argument for people who are on the brink of atheism. You just tell them don't be Don't rush. Why are you in a hurry? to become an atheist there? Why Why are you rushing, you're afraid of death. I mean, if if you die, then there are two possibilities is there will be either God that you will meet or they will not be. These are the two basically
possibilities II do not even want to say logical possibilities, the possibilities presented by human beings as possibilities. Don't be in a hurry.
If there is no one, you know, the believer will not lose. And if there is one, you will be the loser. For the sake of arguing for the sake of arguing and good argument.
For the sake of your own religiosity a bad approach
About approach to face
takes it takes away certainty. And it makes it a matter of just in case don't. So don't do that don't be one of those people who believe in God just in case
or who obey God just in case, the SEC, men are already a team basing all of your dealings with a lot on yuppie certainty and justice, Justice with a lot to show him the gratitude that is due to him, to show him the devotion that's due to him and the gratitude that is due to him, being your Creator, your son's theater, just just, that's it. Just think of this. He made you. He sustains you. He sustains your heart that is beating inside now with you know what, without you even paying attention to it.
Every seven year buddy, he says he's sustaining it now. Show him the gratitude, that devotion and gratitude that is due to him that is justice with a law and justice with the people is very easy. The Golden Rule is justice with the people you know, so treat people as you like to be treated, that is justice with the people.
And then he says, Well, what are the some we have the law and that is holding fast to the rope of Allah. So the rope of Allah,
you know, just need to do otherwise. Even amroha naheed ccmr modality Pinewood Ansoff, you are believing in the promises and warnings, revere the commands and prohibitions basing all of your dealings on certainty and justice. him having said that, that is the topmost, there is because really, if you look at this, it will include the next two. This description will include the next two phases, but he wants in the next two phases to points out subtleties. You know, that may not be although this description that he gave for the beginners includes the next two phases, but he's saying that beginners sometimes may not observe the subtleties I will mention in the next two
which is the level of a hassle artesanal has been in Qatar, what is the possibility side, the two next the two following levels now is at the southern castle, which is the artists on the taking shelter.
the select few
bit in Qatar,
in Qatar means work through detachment. And then at the sunk costs, total cost which is taking shelter of the topmost, you know, of the select few
have a word about word elite of the elite. And the just the word of the elite, the
the elite of the elite. I wanted to use the word elite, but I was afraid that it does have some negative connotations,
doesn't it in our times the word elite has negative connotation. If we're talking about it from a different perspective, we're not talking about it from the worldly perspective of being elite. But it became sort of state, you know,
yeah, the no or the the intellectual elites. Yeah, whether the intellectual elite sort of infers this arrogance or the, you know, but they were the elites that he's talking about here are different from the intellectual, the sort of elites on the path to devotion, these are the elites the you know taklon, Eman lalala.
So, he says that the sound of the select few is by complete dedication, I translate in Qatar which is detachment as dedication, because this is ultimately what is meant you detach from you tend to cut off the world so that you can attach yourself to God so that you could connect with God. So I call the dedication, but maybe I should have left it as detach.
Because it's because in the next phase, he will talk about communion and identify lifted as detachment, maybe it will be better understood. So what are some of the select few is by complete dedication? Literally, he said that detachment that's detachment from a sliver of the ends other than a loss.
And that is, he will tell you now that some of the costs are disallowed.
Few, by sparing the will through restrain,
erotic, staring the web, through restrain the web, your desires, your wants, spare the wealth through restraining gear desires and wants, wanting less and less and less and less and less you want nothing but what he wants, can you do this Can we try to do this one thing less and less and less and less, until you want nothing but what he wants, except that which he wants, as that is somewhat erotic of the protecting gear herrada from the inferior goals, aspirations, pursuits, objectives, any inferior pursuit protecting your raga from wanting this and that and this and that. So protect your other hand Teddy, your era becomes in complete conformity with his era then that is
era that's the annihilation of desires wants your will, where when, you know vanish into his way. And you know someone with a public problem would mean spirited well through restraints restraining your wants for his burial Hello, tiara Humpty busca what is Donald huttopia Rl funky Boston hold'em is matters creations. So it's barreled holdup, is bad means you know it's bad to have you know is bad and garment to have like a white garment down here below your ankles, that is valid your garment to have below your ankles or to have like a long guy mama or long sleeves anything as long as like
more than enough, you know, so like more than enough is bad. So here he wants to say extending you know generously extending the whole of the year good manners to all the people is better, you know, so generously extending the good manners, your good treatment to all the people buspar busta is with generosity.
So extending great gracious treatment with manners to all creations is his battle Hauraki Island healthy buster, one of Delilah at asthma, which means the resolute this desertion of all attachments, rather bulahdelah at the asthma, that is resolute
desertion, of all attachments, and those attachments could be, you know, those attachments, even children can be devastating. It's when you become extra,
loving and protecting, you know, or to loving and protecting that kid, this can be devastating to you and your child. And this could the devastation can come back and hurt your relationship with your child. So, until you detachment from old, old attachments other than your attachment to Allah subhanaw taala and then when you're attached to Allah, you will be very good to your child, you will be very good to your mother, but their
lack of reciprocation of that goodness will not devastate you
and your relationship with them will not possess you will not be you know, and you will be able to let go sometimes, you know, sometimes you do need to let go sometimes when in like in in the cases of divorce and the fighting over the children fighting over custody.
It shows that
you're actually wanting custody because you're you're you you want this to be yours. You want the child to be yours, not his or yours or not hers
but if he lies in the center of your attention, then you will do your best to make sure that you serve the best interest of your child.
The best interest of your child and the fact that you may lose custody to your spouse will not devastate you, you will try to do the best by your spouse by that that your ex spouse, by the child and so on. to please must try and make the best out of the current circumstance or the current situation.
A person that is connected to a law attached to a law sever all other attachments became detached from all the Allah app in this dunya
is a person that will have peace, tranquility.
Inside, what there has to be the order about what it was worth, and that is grasping the most trustworthy handhold when we talked about the tablet in the first phase that is inhabiting your grid, grasp the hubless in this way, and then outward was, is the strongest for the trustworthy handhold. And that's the trustworthy handle. So that when you grasp the head, the handle, you, you let the hand hold, you let that train go around your wrist, which is a medicine, the place of the car, the place of the bracelet, you know, you let it go around, and then you grasp the rope, isn't this stronger, a stronger grasp, and then who is holding the rope on the other side, color. And then
you're asking how to some, you know, in this case is your mask and a lot to not let go because of that never lets go. You're asking a lot to help you not let go, to give you power to not let go and allow you to have a firm grip on the truth all the time. So
it was the kind that is grasping the most trustworthy handhold
while some of us have the trust, and the other some of the topmost of the select few is through communion. After he talked about detachment and Qatar, he's talking about the sun, which is attachment, you need to detach from Allah from all of the attachments of this world to attach yourself to Allah subhanahu wa tada we have this communion with Allah. And that is
by you know by the speaker, he is always dividing everything into three
beholding the true one alone after aligning oneself near him in our in our so be sure who will help you to free the beholding the true one alone. barbell is
even after you're aligning yourself aligning yourself in his mirrorless near him in our babylist illa, who found women with veneration respect, because sometimes near miss brings about tech leaf to you know to be
informal, you know, but keep in mind get near, but don't become informal in the sense you may become informal, but not in the sense of, you know, having less glorification exaltation, veneration of Allah subhanaw taala because that is inappropriate, it is not the the relationship your love of Allah is different from your love have an equal, this is a different type of love. This is love that will have to continue to be mixed with veneration respect, humility, self submission submissiveness, so that is why he says that this agreement is this that is to align yourself in nearest to someone
which is completely parallel which is good. It's it's about alignment and this alignment there is that you can talk about this for like a day. But it is about alignment. You know, so in no way you are not conforming in no way you're not conforming but keep in mind that this near and dear should not
leave should not take away the the height advantage not take away the glorification. You should also have been here and loving with respect and and veneration. And last what is take out over here quarterback and being distracted by nearest to him from all else as silver everything else this there have been too busy here no by his near this Can you imagine? If you're near to Allah subhanaw taala if you're in the Presence of Allah Spanish Allah been distracted by anything else in this new year and this will distract you from all SC one way or the other some will and that is taking shelter with Allah subhanaw taala
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