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One thing I would like,

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why is it that this part once

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says that there is a,

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there is a forest area that he's going to pass by, is the travel is going to pass by the owner. And as he passes by, he said, there are a lot of a lot of parents over there. He said, just give them my Salaam and just say to them to the powers that are on the trees, just tell them my condition, and what happened, and my condition and bring me back whatever they say.

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Fine, so that the owner went up, he traveled, he passed by the forest. He saw the parents there.

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And he said to the missing parents, this is the case. And they said the whole storage of them.

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And the parents as soon as they said the store to them. All those parents, they dropped dead to the ground.

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Should you Allah, what the old drop right from the ranch all drop dead to the ground?

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And you're on the floor? Why? What is this? So he did his business came back over to shop set to the parents. His parents said, you know, Did they say anything? He said, Well, let me tell you what happened. He said, I gave you a message. And as soon as I gave you a message, the old drop from the branches dropped dead on the ground.

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No sooner Did he say this? And his parrot dropped dead inside the cage.

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He thought What? What is this? So he took the parent. He thought well enough with this part, took it by the legs to his door, opened his door through the power. And as to the power the part flew. It wasn't dead if we go to the branch.

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Right?

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Because some clever, right?

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Was this?

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He said, Oh, no. Oh, no, I got my answer. Oh, no. He said, But What was that all about? And the part explaining the part said that

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I've been so good to you.

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And I've given myself to yourself, as in your whole business is running nice without, you know, with my situation.

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And I had a problem inside your shop. And the end wasn't even my fault. And you just come and you slap me up just like that.

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So I needed to get a remedy. But I I was in caged. I didn't know what to do what to say. So I thought I'd stay quiet. When you gave my news to my friends to the forest, and they dropped to the ground. What they really told me is, you better show that you're dead. If you're not dead, you're not going to escape from this place. My whole point was to get an escape from you. Because I'm this I'm in a cage. I'm making business for you. What do you really care for me? What do you really love? I'm only good as your business is good. And if that is good, that's fine. Otherwise, I really don't have any freedom here.

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And I want you to get that freedom. I wanted to get out of here, but I didn't know how to get out of here. You'd never let me out of here. The only way I get out of here was what they did. They weren't dead two. They only pretended to be dead. They gave me a message to be dead. And once I'm dead, then you've got no reason to keep me and you will set me free.

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Now allama Rumi Rahim Allah he narrates the story. And after writing the story, he says he quotes a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was the Hadith from Ceylon it is mu to Kabbalah and to mu to die before you actually die. Become dead before you actually become dead. Your true freedom as a human being, you want to get everything you want. The only way you will get everything you want the only way you will experience good and true freedom. The only way my brother my sister is that you become dead while you're still alive in this world. How do you become dead while you're still alive in this world? Well, what you do is you must remember that all the individuals that are around you

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every single person around you, likes you for a reason. Just like that perfume seller light his parrot for a reason. Don't tell me there's any other thing. Okay, everyone's got a little bit inside. They've got a little finger inside you. You're having a wedding. Whose wedding is it? Tell me whose wedding is your wedding. Right? Whose wedding? Have you want to get married or who's reading it? Your wedding? Yeah. So you get married with this one girl.

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jumps in uncle jumps in Javanese or jumps in Malika jumps in aunties, and they all get together. They want to

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have their little bit you know.

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You just want a simple wedding. He's one hurt you and her I said, No, no, no, no, no, no. You got to have God.

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Flowers, you gotta have milk before you go out the door.

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Don't forget that all my father for father do that all the time you have to do that. They'll jump in, they want to share and your friends, they jump in and everyone else jumps while they're jumping for because they want to soothe themselves because they want to, you know, flash around the cameras, you know, they're here for you. Yeah, they're here for you. But they're here for themselves as well. You know, I'm saying like, everyone, whoever you are, everyone's got a little bit that they want from you.

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Even your own family members, we're not saying everybody's selfish. No, but we're saying that everybody is there for a reason around you a very, very few people there without any reason around you. The only one there's only one that is there for you and me without a reason.

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Who's that my brothers

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and law. Allies they're a law does not have any conditions on me and you.

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Allah does not say I love you. Oh, Abdul Rahman. I love you. Because you look handsome in front of the mirror.

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Allah doesn't say, oh, who you know, Faruk. I like you because you can do some nice bench press ups. You know, Allah doesn't say that I like you so and so because you've got a lot of money. Allah doesn't say any of that because Allah is the provider water that Allah gave them muscles. Allah gave them money. I like a word that he gave that to everybody. Allah azza wa jal, what does he want? What does he want from us? What Allah azza wa jal wants from us is, he wants recognition. He just wants us to recognize who he is. And he wants us to know that he will never let us down the one being that can never ever let me in you down. is Allah azza wa jal? Tell me this. Tell me this. You woke up in

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the morning?

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You woke up in the morning when you woke up in the morning? Tell me this, yes or no. When you woke up in the morning, your eyes open.

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Your legs walk, your hands moved. You're able to go to the bathroom, you're able to use the bathroom bathroom yes and otomi

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did Allah need a condition to do that would mean you in the morning?

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I if I'm a person who is against Allah, if I say rude things about Allah, if I say I'm not gonna even pray for you Allah. I said, Well, I'm not gonna even listen to you Allah. I do all of that. But Allah azza wa jal His name is a man

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his name is Rama he doesn't have any conditions to look after me look after you know condition without condition who looks after us His name is Alba dude. The one who loves without a reason to love. The one who loves unconditionally that is what is one known as more head. More hip is the one who loves for a reason. And will do this the one who loves with that reason, Allah azza wa jal love for us is without reason, without reason without any reason at all, he has given us everything that we've got. And the only way my brothers and my sisters to find true tranquility in this world, the only way to do all of that is that we need to learn how to die before we actually die. That's the

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way you will get through freedom. What does that mean? That means that when you're on this earth, you're in this earth, you need to learn that your, your connection with your with your family members, my connection with my friends, my connection with everybody else, my connection is there Al Hamdulillah inshallah, I'm going to carry on keeping that connection. But the one connection that I must never forget, never get rid of the one connection that will always be there dunia Acura, the one connection that will take me all the way through is the connection with the man. There is no other connection. You think that freedom will come and goodness will come from your friends while

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you're wrong? Because you were friends once in what school? Soon as you change college, he goes to a different college, you go to different college, you don't even see each other.

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Then you hang around with your other friends. Okay, you hang around with your other friends. Every other day every other night. He's at your backyard, saying Hey, hey, come up. Throw your stone out your window. Yeah, trying to text you to get you out of your door. As soon as the guy gets married. You don't even see.

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You don't even see you like get divorced. You undermined his wife.

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What was that? You don't see him till after maybe four months, six months, eight months, whatever. Then he pops out. Yeah, he's got a new friend. It says Why?

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new friend until the wife gives him problems that he knows you again.

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They'll come back. We'll come back

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They come back when there's some problems and they need to come back. Even the mustard seed people forget the mustard. They'll come back when they need, you know, they need the mom, you know, they need the man for a few things to see, when they get married, they need the man, when they have a baby, they need the man. And when you know, one's dead, they need the ma'am as well, you know, so they were gonna come back one way or another or they got some kind of problem they need the man to come back. I'm not saying that's the only reason why you guys come to us. What I'm trying to say to you is that, you know, everybody around you, everyone's there for a reason, my black friends, don't

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you try and fool yourself that everyone you know your best mate, your best person even if it is your own blood brother. There's a limit to how much everybody will take you far there's a limit.

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On that limit is up, you will find that no one is there. No one is the only one that will be there with us is Allah azza wa jal and his name is a rat man, my brothers and sisters, that our man didn't just look after me and you rock man looked after all the Kufa all the covers, that a man has given his risk to all those people who are not even interested in him. That man even provided to those who are going to shift and associate the partners with the rock man is the one who protects them by day and by night. And to get to these recommand is a pathway and the only pathway to get to the rock man is through our email. That's the only thing that can connect to them. What is that email? My

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brother's he man is a seed Eman is a seed that seed needs to be put in and then you need to start watering the seed it needs to grow. That Eman grows into several branches for the believer, somebody Eman that's only a seed only a seed will take them to Janna. But what will happen they will go to Jana after everybody else will have to burn in alpha for a long time. If your Eman is steep Now see, you can still see you haven't planted you even you haven't grown your email to something you will find that on the Day of Judgment. May Allah protect me May Allah protect you. But if the normal thing goes happens, then that person will be in jahannam and Allah azza wa jal according to a hadith

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of Bokhari, He will say to his Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, he will say whosoever will say to the angel, Whosoever has got a mustard seed of man, or this seed of a man, that might you take them out of a Hellfire then you take them to Jenna, what does that mean? That means they only had it as a seed my brothers, there's others who will have Eamon and they put it in and allows me that says, first, Allah azza wa jal says what it says that they planted it and after that, it starts to grow. So Allah Sufi, Allah says that it's got basically a stem. Allah says first stuck lover, it becomes thicker and thicker, and as that becomes thicker, it grows and grows eventually Rasulullah

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sallallahu Sallam Medina, he gave an example of a man he sat with the Sahaba and he gave them a question whose question was which tree is that tree around the whole of the year it's always giving fruits its branches are reaching out in the sky. It's it's roots of firm in the ground, which true with trees that resembles the believer also. Now the Sahaba started to think about trees far and wide. You got this condition number one is given fruits all the way around all seasons. Number two is that his branches are reaching out in the sky. Number three is that his roots are firmly in the ground. And number four is that this tree resembles the believers now the Sahaba so far and wide far

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and wide, nobody could give the answer. And then Rasulullah sallallahu himself he gives the answer he says it's the date palm in the date tree. If the date tree they say Suhana law date trees always in Medina, we could have thought of that tree rose who was asked us a question. We didn't even know that the the answer this question. Now. What is that with the date tree? The date tree is such that you always have fruits all the way around. The dates always come there's no particular season for the day tree the same way the believer, the believer. His feet are firm in the D this is a believer who's grown his seed. The believer he's got many branches Rasulullah sallallahu said he man with

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Varun nashoba. Eman has got more than 70 branches.

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Allah Allah.

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Allah the highest of all these branches Oh Lula, ilaha illa Allah to say that ilaha illa Allah and the lowest of all the branches. A believer will never pass a pathway where there is some harm and he won't remove that note. I believe that will remove the harm from the pathway that is a believer. That's his lowest branch. He will move remove harm

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Now Subhan Allah What does this Hadees tell us? The Hadith tells us that a true believer does not want to harm he removes harm. That's the lowest branch of his faith. That's the true believer. A believer doesn't go around criticizing, looking for false finding somebody and saying, Yeah, do you see? Both Kamala both Kamala make too much money me too much money. Who in the world are you to say that his calamity came because of you know him not praying? Or because of him not doing so cheating? Or Who in the world are you? Are you God? Are you the one who knows what's in the book of love my food, you don't know that. But Allah azza wa jal says his message says what the believer his lowest

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thing is you remove harm away from things from the pathway from any way you can find and the highest is what? Oh, La Ilaha Illa that you make yourself firm and what are the what are the fruits the fruits of this tree that date palm is that just as the the the tree gives a lot of fruit throughout the whole of the year? The believer always benefits people around him. That's the true believer, my brothers, my sisters, this is the true believer. The true believer is one who always around him people have been benefited. They can be safe from his tongue and his hands that's a true believer in the mustard if you find certain people you must stay away you know certain brothers, you have to

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stay away from them just to stay stay safe from them.

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You guys never met any of those guys is loosened socially.

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You don't have those people around you. You don't have to stay away from people to

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Lhasa last Nicola hadiza Timothy, converted me I'm going to tell you this hadith and you understand the diplomacy of the province of Lhasa.

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sola sola means with Ayesha de la Juana and this also there's a there's a similar Hadith in Bukhari, but the explanation is more intimidating.

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He's sitting with his wife I shall be alone.

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And then somebody knocks on the door

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of a cell Allah husband says to I shall have the alarm. He says bit Salah she, he says the worst man of this, the worst man of this society of this community has just come to the door. Meaning that he is he is a person who's got evil that he can put out evil. When he said that he went up to the door. He opened the door. He smiled at the person. He talked nicely to the person. And he said farewell to the person. He closed came back in and then I shut up the alarm he says I don't understand Mr. Bhalla. You said that he was the worst one of the worst. And then you make then you display such good good manners. Now some people look there's two sides to this I don't want you to get the wrong

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stinkface the wrong end of the stick of this is not hypocrisy. Now as we learn that it's not that it is Rasulullah some then said oh Ayesha, there are certain people that you have to certain people in order for you to save yourself from the evil you have to be like this with them

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in order for you to save yourself from the evil you need is not you know you're a hypocrite you need is a better be nice to this guy and just stay you know, okay with him, because this guy is gonna cause some kind of evil

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unison agenda some

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Yes or no?

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Even the heating dismisses game to some of you.

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So what happens is that also some taught us is diplomacy. When you're a true believer there are certain people you have to stay away from Suhana line as even if you're a true believer and you have the good faith, what you want to be is when people around you they feel safe. Forget about others. I want you to say to myself right now, am I a believer who other believers like to come to they don't they don't have to think twice about me. Am I such a believer? Because Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam said he said what I loosely woman said in many Muslim OEYD Muslim is one whom other Muslims are safe from his tongue and they are safe from his hands Muslims should be safe from my tongue and

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Muslim should come to me and not feel I'm going to cast him

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Muslim should not feel his come in front of me and I'm going to start making comments about him your sub bravura manga what's up Matt don't see Ron these days you know he's just getting into you don't see you right these days. I was I was uh, what's happened man? I heard this about you. Whoa

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you know have some good thought has some good thought of even if you're gonna do it in a nice way not like yeah, I had about what how can people assign this value? How can this or not Yeah, man What's up with you? Like having a god people you know what? I think what? Your true believer what a true believer other believers should be saved from your trunk.

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And then there's others who will go and they'll say things to you. They'll call you like basically, you ended up being like a little bit more short than others.

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Yeah, so the coolie show a call immediate

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call, you know, dwarf

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Call you you know, Snow White husband.

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All these names they're trying to like, put you down. There's a hadith that says Rasul Allah says we said clearly said wala Taku Assyria kasi don't say to one who's short. Oh shorty. Don't say that. Why? Because who made him short my friend?

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Was it us? Who was it? Tommy Who? Allah. When you say shorty I you when you if you if you try a woman's food? You try a woman's food and you say right kitaen lasky

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What did you cook yesterday? You know if you say that it's not about the food that you're saying? Or you say eat like how are they wanting Allah? How can I eat this thing? You know? You're not saying anything about the food? You're saying it about the cook? Yes or no? Who's gonna get the food they're gonna get hurt the food can't even hear you.

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The cooks gonna hear you. You better You better watch out brother frying pans coming you know, thing is you can say that you had the cook the same way you say shorty. You're not just saying it to the to the person. You are now finding fault in the creation of the right man.

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If you find a person who has dark skin, and you call him a name because of his dark skin

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if you find someone with a blunt nose, and you say to him that his nose looks like a pepper or his something else, or his two sharp nose or you say well conchords here. Yeah, all these things, isn't it? Calm code. Yeah. And they find another one is big, big. So the coding beefy. Yeah, the final one is to totally call him a lamppost.

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Isn't it? Yeah, each one gets to define somebody who has maybe stopped big lips They call him rubbers.

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The find someone with a flat you know, forehead They call him TfL

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the IMT Fatima

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I'm not here to teach you all these names you guys, Luciano get a refill of full of now my words that I'm saying? No. These are real names of her in life. Really the very light. Why? Because people say that without thinking what they say. When you call someone blunt nose, sharp nose whatever it is. You're finding fault in Allah's creation. Allah has recorded that my friend you will have to answer to that you found fault in somebody who who likes a certain person who's a bit more dark skin than them or Be careful my friend because you're going to you got a life you know what a Heidi says Rihanna. Let me tell you this hadith.

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This Hadith I believe is in Timothy Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam to the nearest meaning of what he said is

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that when you take the Mick out of someone, you will not die until somebody else has taken the Mick out of you in the same thing.

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You know that? You've just cussed someone. You just said something rude to someone. You better remember, your death will not come if you haven't sought forgiveness. Your death will not come until somebody else will find the same fault inside you. I've seen it. I've seen it. You know when I saw it. I saw it there was there was a Bengali family. And one one Bengali person decided to marry an Indian

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you know how bad it is? I'm talking about some Luton man and you guys never going to invite me again. You know? Ayala de Hani Pakistan Laguna via hora de la kita. Hope you guys are never gonna call me again. Sorry, no offense to any person out here is committed and especially, you know.

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The thing is when you have an Indian person and they get married to them, she's a Muslim man. She's got a job. She's got every now please. I'm not here to cause you know, a war here. I do understand that. lutens been quite high, high in the differences between 1971

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you guys and I love him. It's like I'm actually instigating the war here. Now, what happened is

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this guy got married. And the relative another alpha, you know alpha, alpha. Yeah. She went she she sliced. She said if I say one layer,

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he could say

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who did he marry? Who did he bring?

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And and the girl is actually beautiful. But you know when they want to find fault

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Seeing the beauty especially our office, and our and our mothers, they can't see anything. Oh god the namita

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you know the next big I honestly it's just a normal leg.

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There are no Hotel ambati Have you seen how?

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Shingo gala monohydrate without data tonight?

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If he goes to sing she can't even watch the plates you know they when they cast our Telly you know when I Bengali mom they cast a wall. He ever get it you got a bad yet

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Otani that kind of thing, huh? Yeah. Indian wear t

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bottoms in any Indian woman does she know even how to cook? Yeah. Masato parbhani more lover tonight. Chicken she will cook fish you should die. She can't do it. All right. So the classes that come along my my ally, you know what happened?

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What happened is six years seven years later, that alpha son fell in love with the Pakistani fully.

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Pakistani girl has some fell in love with that Pakistani girl. So her son comes home. This is within the same family. Her son comes home and says mom want to get married. So they should I don't know. Their show you teach you this show.

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Excuse me. Go back and

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find the girl. Hey,

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buddy, boy. Pakistan.

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Guy.

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You just saw me son. What did you say? Seriously?

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She went crazy. He said what I'm gonna do

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you can make my my enemies laugh at me know the old emotion come No, Mr. Stone of heterodoxy. Randhawa you know nine months I kept you You must oh you know that you know that Bengali women utterly emotional blackmail attended to get 10 out of 10

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A can kill you

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I Tara foods has in the hava auto city. Does she have a G All my life I've fed you and I've fed you too much honey other causes that come along man that come along yet? Now what you're going to do now? Sounds in love with the you know, Pakistani girl. In the end. She got him married to Pakistan, India.

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And then that other relative Yeah, went up to her looked at her.

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You love about somebody? You take them because there was nothing wrong was a crime. It was a good girl. The first one is good girl. Indian girl there's nothing wrong.

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She was actually practicing the the other one the Pakistan. I'm not saying anything against Pakistan today. The other one wasn't actually that practiced. The thing was What happened? Well, in the end, six years, seven years later, you might take the Mick out of some I'm telling you. You take the Mick out of Africans. Yeah, you will get an African daughter in law. You get an African son in law. I mean, Allah bless you with all those African grandchildren that you're gonna get hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Yeah. Oh, my African brothers smile. Yeah, may Allah marry you to these people who are racist? Yeah, well, I'm married to their daughters and today, you know, Yeah, why not? Yeah, if love

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comes in your house, are you gonna do that same Yeah. bebida Zika corega kasi

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So then why the girl and the boy they are they are happy happy what's the judge gonna do you can't do anything. To don't take the Mick out of someone. When you better watch out the same thing gonna happen to you and movement and a believer is one who he is say others are safe from his time. Others are safe from his time. Others are safe from his hands. So am I a true believer because others should be safe from myself and as an unbeliever and as I carry on I carry on in life The more you know like you you have you know you have dates in your house. So behind Allah messenger of Allah Allah gave me an example of dates you know dates you buy them from Medina right? You get them from

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you get not from the shops you know packed up no dates, you keep dates and even if that's sometimes you can just take the see that you need the data to the dates even after years. Do they really go like you know, off just like an apple or an orange don't? Do they? Allah has given a speciality in the dates. They stay for months and months without anything happening to them. I've got dates I went to about eight nine months ago, I'm still eating them. hamdulillah The other thing that come to the Zamzam hamdulillah The thing is you eat you have Why did messenger of Allah give the example of a date because your sweetness my friend, as a believer, your sweetness does not go with the season.

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Your sweetness is there all the time the believers will find sweetness from your own

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The time and when you do that, my friend Why would you do that? It is because of your email and your connection. Why? Because Allah azza wa jal has given us he man he man makes us love one another. And if you can love your brother or your sister as infosystem saying for sisters brother and understanding for you brothers and sisters, so if you can love your brother because of Allah sake and Allah azza wa jal will give you a special place on the debit,

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account Radhika Bahati Allah will call all those people who love each other for the sake of Allah. Allah will say a Leo Meier will allow you to I will give you a shade on this day you have there is no other shade except for this shade. Allah will put me in you under the arch because our love was unconditional. Just like a love love is unconditional. Your love becomes unconditional Allah azza wa jal loves that because you are not loving people for the sake of the man.

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You love people for the sake of the man you know, there's people here Subhana Allah, I don't know I'm gonna say this right? Whether you like it or not, yeah.

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Some people not gonna like this, but I'm gonna say right? If uh, if if Luton becomes known as Luton, the place where they gave birth to the EDL and all of that, people start saying that right? You guys are not gonna like you are you? If I say you guys all of you guys you've got you know, loot when you gave birth to Tommy Robinson and his EDL and you know, created Allah, how are you guys gonna feel?

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It's not It's not something that you did, right? It's not something that it's not something that you actually created or it was something that you actually did. It's not that I think is can you imagine if I say that? No less two people are like this. Bradford people like these Luton people like this. If I start categorizing people in a certain way, are you going to? Are you going to like it if I put you in a category and people are talking about you in a way that you don't like, yes or no, tell me? No. Now tell me this year, the guys from Mali Vasa.

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The guys from you know, he is not even born in Nevada.

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The guy is from gulag Grinch. These are places for the guys who don't know these are places in Bangladesh.

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The guy might be from Rawalpindi. And you might say, Oh, you you football maker. You know that kind of stuff. I'm talking about the guy he's got his grandfather that was born there and they had they were there in that place. That thing is you and me We judging people because of their ancestor living in a certain part of the world. And we're gonna make judgments. I mean, just like you don't want me to label you because of gluten. Well, they don't want to be labeled because of the place they come from judge people according to the best of what you can think about them, give them the best of your heart given the good thing until they show you the other side. Don't start off as well

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as in America.

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I see. How

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did you guys because sometimes, you know if it's like their own, you know, like the guys from a bishop not enemies Mr. Bishop,

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Bishop, Misha, there's a little

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under a minute. What did the other guy do wrong to you? And what did this guy do right to you? One said, what was that one said? bisha. And you have one or the other? Okay? All right.

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What did he do wrong? Did he ever like get up and say to you I am typical Malinois. Sorry, I'm gonna like do this. Don't do that you like some guy who did it like 50 years ago, in some place is not saying that How can you be so judgmental on people because he's from this place?

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A believer is not like that.

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A believer has got a clean heart. You know, Rasulullah sallallahu said, a convert Hadith which is accepted Hadith that the people of Jannah are going to be people have clean hearts. We need to understand brothers and sisters. You've got to have clean hearts about each other. You meet someone for the first time. Make them feel nice just like you meet everyone as you know. So the Han Allah, Prophet sallallahu. Suna was what? And this I found only in a couple of people in my life.

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One in Manchester

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and one in my chef, Chef rasheeda, Rama.

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Whoever they need, doesn't matter who you are. They meet you in this same way.

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Whoever you are, whatever walk of life you come from, whether you have a beard on your face or you don't whether you belong to Pakistan or India or Egypt or Mombasa. Yeah, they don't care where you come from. They're going to meet you the same whether you're you got dark skin, light skin, whether you're tall and fair skin, whether you're shooting

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And you got scruffy hair, they will meet you the same way. You know why? Because this is the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu is the realization that every person they meet, they first to Masada have seen this in both these individuals, every person they meet the first do massage, they will then shake your hand

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and it will be with a cheerful face.

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And they will then

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take hold of you, and they will put you next to the shoulder to shoulder and when they put you shoulder to shoulder, they will raise you slightly tight, just so that you can feel that they really got muhabba love for you as a believer and a person who shares a man like

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you can feel that the person loves you.

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And then when they release you you see the same smile and the Chief of this

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you know that thing about meeting the brothers like that. And each one you meet them the same doesn't matter who comes does not who comes. They meet the same way. And you know, each and every one of us when we're not doing it with one of each and every one of us felt that I was the closest to the chef that Montana is having somebody here is a MANOVA they were all together and we all felt that when he went to modify the result he don't see you know different from some other guys different some other naughty kid different from someone who's really good at is reading no difference. He'll meet you exactly the same. This My friend is the son of the Holy Prophet

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sallallahu

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not the conditional ones. You know, they meet somebody it's like, Yeah, right, man. Yeah, some people like it.

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Some other ones they meet law and they got lucky.

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Some other one, like

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just a punch line.

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As his friends Yeah, some other ones that you meet him. And like, you know, to hug somebody to hug someone. You're supposed to make 50% of the way and then yes, so basically it's like, like one shot it's like it's like a little like like a part of a breakdown some

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some other guys there when they meet each other? What's it gonna do? But not the worst ones I find is that you know, when you meet someone you're supposed to make 50% of the way and this was to make 50% of the way isn't it? So you both meet halfway right? Because you're trying to just

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some guy you go to a meeting so you try to meet in the stands where is he grabbed? You got

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stuck, you know, yeah, me you know you can meet yada.

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And then you get these other, you know, our churches in the masjid, who go past a young person. They go past the young person. And the young young person never did Salaam to them. Hey

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whatever, whatever.

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Which one of Bangladesh Are you from first thing because they want to save the same stuff right? Next thing is salons in Japan. He said I'm gonna use an embed code but it never had a ceramic coating and they turned him off and they you know, one thing they can do wrong to you.

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Because you want to see this purpose a lot sooner. The sooner the promise of a loss is that the children found forget the adults. Even the children found it difficult to beat Rasulullah sallallahu to say Salaam first

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Rasulullah saw me he sees children the first a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. To children's adults Got it? Yes. That was given to children from far away he would say the salon before they could say the salon and they tried to be the professor last missing salon first, but they couldn't be the problem. That's how he was

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so sassy.

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You know, my uncle. He just wants his tremendous GI Joes because you know, I'm big man. And

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you're gonna find that? Yeah. The thing is, the student of the policy is unconditional.

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Allows word loving us is unconditional. The sooner the process means unconditional promises met somebody. He didn't care who he met. He met them the same way. And thing is when you say something, you know when you leave somebody. Most of hurt most Pakistanis, most Bengalis do this.

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On the way they say goodbye to each other. They say Khuda hafiz.

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Khuda hafiz. Yes, no. CUDA is CUDA is CUDA is a cha cha cha cha CUDA

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What did you get that from?

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From Iran pleasure from another world is not in the sooner the sooner the progress of blossom is to say salam when you meet and the sooner the brothers the lesson is to end with a Salam as well. So when you say when you say goodbye to each other, you say a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Just as you said that in the beginning,

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That's the sooner the sooner is not who the hobbies it's a draw find the dries May Allah protect you that's fine if you want to say that say some other draw that you got to do sooner but not these draws that and if you still want to say for that I was fine, but don't forget a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Don't forget that

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you got brothers who meet you they meet you the handshake get the guy's got to his hand like a dead fish.

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You don't immediately

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Oh, come on, man. You know, like, liven up, you know, cheer up, man. I know, you know, you got a tough time to your wife. And she's like, she's got the, you know, the whole rolling pillow on your head or something like that, as you probably not mine in it. What are you? What are you slowly my day for

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us is a some people who have a bad time, you know, in the house, and they want to give you a bath time because they're having a bad time. Who in the world so that you have you as a believer, you shouldn't move your stress from one place to another. No, that's not the sooner the sooner is you take in the stress yourself. I was the sooner the sooner was when the sooner loss. And the last one was, he had he had worries. He wasn't a person who was without worries. He used to sit there would say you know the alarm.

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Or we will fix it that email

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Rasulullah. Salah had long moments of silence with thought. And he was always concerned about things that are coming ahead. Low. This was his, his, you know, position. When he was we say that I was gonna go learn more. When others came Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. He put his smiling face. He was chief. He held their hands. He gave them a nicer or he said a ceremony. And he made them sit down next to him. And he was with them in a lovely manner with them. And none of that worry came across to them. A lot of this is the sooner my friend you went to work you got stressed out. Don't come and take it out on your wife. What crime has she done?

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you're stressed out with your kids. Don't take it out on somebody else. You stress down somebody else. Don't take it out on your kids. What have your kids done that's no crime to them your stress keep it to yourself. Get it get rid of it some other way but don't go make it go to somebody else. Then some guys you can meet them you know they do. The other guy was a dead fish right? This guy he started giving his hand he gives you his finger.

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So Wow. Big powerful man, you know. And there's another one right? You meet them right? They go to the other extreme. I don't know if you've had this one yet. You say Salaam to him. It's like he grabbed your hand. So how'd it go?

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He tries to break your head

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Where did he get that from? You think the problems are lots of was gripping and he had lost strength if you grip someone properly, he would break their hands if he was to do that. But he did it. He met them gently softly my brother

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the break the guy's hand Yes. Have you guys been you know he's been basically weight training yet. He wants to show you these big grabs. Yeah, I'm the boss. You know.

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I don't break my hand. And there's others they they grab hold of you and they want to like basically just just just just basically the monitor. This screen is so tragic, like please but what is in this is different with with your profit. And when the first one I'm getting done is me. I can't breathe My God make Giza or break your bones. I know you love vibrato, you cannot take it easy.

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You know, the sooner is in the middle. The sooner is in the middle. And the thing is, when we are doing all of this, we do it. Why? Because we want to please Allah azza wa jal, and we want to get close to him. Rasulullah sallallahu said what a believer he is his example is the example of a date pump. And the sweetness of those dates my brother they don't wear out. That's what mean you have to remember, you know, when pressure comes, then you find out who's who. You pump up for tires of your car, you pump up for tires, and you start to drive 60 miles, 300 miles, 1000 miles, whatever it is, right afterwards, what you find out is that with the pressure of the car, if the tires got a slight

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leak or something start to go down. So you have to you have to pump it again and you have to find the leak

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with the believers, a good believer his tire pressure handling that stays the same. Doesn't matter how far you run in a believer who's got short stamina, you've put him under pressure. You start going down

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he's good in the mustard he's good in other places but he starts going down our fridge was no not that kind of believe I want to be I want to be believer to get to the rock man. I want to connect with my man. How you connect with your email is through two things. One is through the Quran. And the other is to the student of the prophets of Allah awesome, the more closer I will be with the actual service

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Prophet sallallahu wasallam the more better I will be closer to the Rama because Allah azza wa jal has said

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buena la has a tab you're only

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on lava for Rocky. say oh messenger tell all these people If you really love Allah If you really love Allah then you must follow me as the Prophet. If you follow me as the Prophet then Allah will love you and Allah will forgive your sins and alized off forgiving he is the one who's most kind. You want to connect with a man through your Eman. First is of course the Quran. But if you just go straight to the sooner the sooner is the Quran. The Sula sauce my whole life was according to the Quran, my Chateau de la Juana, she was asked what was the character of the province and last month she said his character was the poor and if you want to see a walk in court and look at the Prophet

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salallahu alaihe salam. So if I make myself according to Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi salam, then my whole life is now going towards Allah xojo and Lhasa gel is His messengers given that example of the tree why? because me and you have to carry on growing up branches of Eman, two branches were mentioned. One branch is to say Lyla, heilala another branch is the lowest branch which is to move remove harm in between there there are 68 more or more branches. What are they some of them are to do with me having sub patients is a branch of the man. Some of them are to do with a movement is what a movement is someone who is late you don't Hey, you don't mean it late you don't a you soft

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and gentle goes easy on people go easy on to be easy with people that is a safavi man, that is one of the branches of email. What is another branch of email. Another branch of email is that I'm a person a believer is not without Salalah Priscilla is a big part of my belief, that is always going to be my case. And the thing is my brothers, you know, those of us who are connected with our man, when Salah time comes a lot of work, but you feel like you really want to be there and spend more time

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those who are not connected with money if you haven't made your connection yet. So a lot of companies that have done have done, finished halus next thing go away, I love that man, he will connect with a man through his mind how if you want to find the sweetness of the man, you have to make a code to harness a body you have to make Allah and His Messenger more beloved to you than other things. That's when you get the sweetness in how do I make Allah and His Messenger more beloved than anything else? Well, if anything else comes in the way just put a lot His Messenger in front and say that's it. I'm gonna follow what a lie saying I'm gonna follow the messenger you say?

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And let me give you an example brothers. I'm gonna give you this example. And this example will help you. Right I'm going to give you I've given you one story in the beginning about the pirate and we'll revisit that in a while. I'm giving you another story now. Yep, stories. We love stories that can only tell a story. Here comes a story. Stories, you got a kingdom.

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This Kingdom

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has got a palace, and his palace has got a king, a queen, and it's got a prince.

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But while they tell me, king, queen and a prince, right.

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And there are many servants inside this whole whole kingdom, you know this could this court and there are many people that outside fine. But inside this palace, there are many servants, many cooks many people who are gods and so on. The funny thing about this kingdom is the very funny thing about this kingdom is that you know the king has a staff.

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Whoever holds the staff becomes the one who controls the whole palace.

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And the kingdom falls under his command. So when the king has it,

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he is a king is a man. He ruled with authority and rules with good thought and balanced minded way of running this kingdom.

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But when the Queen snatches, sometimes the Queen snatches the stuff of him when she started, she's an emotional person. And sometimes she's telling off the prince and sometimes she's telling off the asthma sometimes you go goes into a mood, where she's just you know, depressed. And so sometimes she's angry, and sometimes she's really overexcited. These are all emotions that the Queen has, but when she has that something's happened. What happened? Well when the king has it, and he ruled with a balanced mind the whole lot

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The kingdom is talking about the whole of the palace, all the sevens, the queen, the prince, everybody, they all act like the king. But when the queen takes it, then they all become emotional as well. Just like the Queen becomes emotional. And then there's a prince is Prince. His name is naughty Prince. And what he does is when he takes it

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he takes it and he starts laughing joking y'all do whatever he wants run around here that and all the servants are laughing and joking around here there's a lot of chaos for a little while until the king snatches it back off of the Queen statue backup if the queen size or she gets emotional, and everyone gets emotional on this little prince after the king status back off her and then everything is back to normal again is balanced and so on and he ruled with authority.

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You're going to tell me Manasa all the way to Luton and you're telling us about king queen, Prince, please break it to us what in the world they tried to say

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you know each and every one of us

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each and every one of us inside our bodies we've got a king we've got a queen and we've got no t Prince

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three

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if you haven't got that in you then you're not a human being

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you're gonna see Allah muscles

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are stronger than this and you've over three insights on let me explain this to you. I mean serious you

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will got these three insiders and our body, our body see these fingers, arms, legs, eyes, his mouth, these are the sevens.

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There's three inside our bodies.

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One is

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a man's mind. His hackle his intellect that's the king. A woman's mind, intellect as the King.

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Another is a man or woman's heart which has the emotional state inside it. It can move from one state to another state just like the Queen Another one is the ego enough and that's called what

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naughty Prince was named no to Prince now there's a rivalry inside us sometimes you're good intellect reasoning Good thinking. It's in charge of the whole body the emotions are below it then nothing is controlled the ego is control the Queen the Queen and the prince are control and the king your reasoning is in power. That's when you perform the best

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and when you become emotional, or when you are full of just love are full of anger full of something else the heart takes over the Queen has just taken the stuff your heart is not directing you but your mind is not directing you

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and when sometimes you get into mood where you want to just break news well who cares man yeah come on lads. Yeah, let's play man let's waste time Let's kill times. Who's in charge? Who's in charge? Not a prince My friend is in charge. Yeah forget exactly. Nah Come on, man. Let's go another cabana you know the burgers looking nice man. Let's go down to the hands gonna come back. Yeah. Why? Because no to Prince. When he gets in charge. What happens when the king is not thinking the queen is not in charge. The hands and feet and the whole eyes and his everything will move according to that naughty Prince.

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That's inside all of us. What does that mean? What does Allah tell us to do? Allah azzawajal wants us to rule our bodies according to what? According to the king?

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Are you not Superman?

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ujiri illa Viki are all the model the old soul old person who is content with him. So this is knifes ultimate minor, which is what allows our data has made you the king that reasoning something that is content inside us. That part of us when it rules a hammer is very good. And there's another one low gamma, another one that is emotional, the heart. When the heart comes in power, the king comes in, let me give an example. There's a brother who sees a sister, and he falls in love with it.

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And when he falls in love with it, you know that the sister is for example, a Christian system telling you a true story here truth, the many true ones that I've got in London. So the sister she's Christian, the brother is a Muslim.

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And basically, you tell them there's another case I've got whether where it's a sister is a Muslim, Muslim man, and it's the opposite the other way where he's just a new Muslim and so on. But now let's talk about this first situation. He wants to marry her. He's crazy for her. She's a Christian. She doesn't want to convert to

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slab.

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Then I tell the brothers and listen, brother. I said, What's going to happen to you in the future? He says, look, you know, insha Allah, Allah will do things good for us as a brother, listen to me. Look at the situation of other brothers who have married Christian women.

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Look what happened to them the future. I've caught him straight up. I said, Listen, Rob, Rob, listen to me. Your daughter from this woman? If she grows to eight years old, would you want your daughter to have a job on her head? He said yes. Other would your fiance want to have a job on your daughter's head? He said yes. I said let me ask her. So I asked her she said no.

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I'm not gonna have that. I'm gonna give her freedom of choice. He freedom of choice.

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I said do you listen to that? Eight years time? You're gonna have a girl growing up in your house without the job your wife's gonna encourage not to where the job? You don't tell me that your Christian wife is going to take care to the madrasa and drop her off every single five o'clock in the evening. You're not going to tell me that bravado

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is like oh yeah, that's true man. And God think about this in a car Think about this. Yeah, your app is after one hour. His emotion. His heart is in charge the Queen's in charge. See his King Kong is king hasn't got the charge. So what happens is his heart drives him his love drives him his emotion drives him he can't see straight he's blind. The sort of loss a lot harder Some said hope will cache on your meet your love for something can make you blind.

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His blind he can't see he knows if you tell him Rob you're heading for disaster he says I know

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brother you know you're gonna after 10 years you will regret this exam now. I can't leave I can't even I can't she's everything to me She's my world she's my she's my dad. Listen man who's speaking inside you which one is speaking get your king back in charge. You got your queen speaking inside

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you know when you have certain brothers it comes to exams time and they're supposed to be sitting there supposed to be revising as opposed to doing well and suddenly they just flop they say forget this nagore Prince is in charge my friend they want to cruise they want to you know have a do they call it they want to get together they want to you know have a shisha bar you know, they want to basically get away from the exam you know they want to think about it. So they go there they want to cruise through and have a nice time. But the thing is this some guy you're gonna fail your exams because believe it or not, is not. I'm not you know?

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What, what are you talking about? You're gonna fail your exams my friend tonight.

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He knows it, but he's wasting time. Why? Because the prince is in charge. When the dean came to us, the d ng taught the Sahaba how to control the naughty Prince how to control the emotional Queen, and how to put the king in charge. But you know the king in charge, you can have a king in charge and your uncle Tommy out they can have a tea king in charge. What's the difference between me and him? Because my king as a believer will only rule according to the knowledge of the Quran and Sunnah. And that's when you have got a good connection with the right man, Allah when your mind your reasoning says whatever Sharia tells me, I'm going to put myself into that position. And I'm going to try and

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act upon that. Tell me this year you wake up in the morning and your body tells you I'm gonna still stay in bed who's in charge him

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who's in charge? Well, you're gonna call him more differentiated tells you staying bed. Enjoy this. Yeah. princes charge you basically driving and some guy just cuts you know that just cut you? Yeah. Cut me and I'm running a BMW.

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Got me.

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teach you something who's in charge?

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The Queen Queens in charge emotions emotion. Yeah. emotion. You're walking down the street. Some guy basically comes past you. And you go past him. And he's walking right in the middle of the path and he expects you to walk on the side of the path.

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You say? I'm not moving you move. Yeah, both come in the middle. So what's your problem, man? I say, What's the problem? Hey, go problem.

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Here. Well, what's your problem? It's really just because you're focused on money.

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Starts what who's dying that

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naughty that the the Queen's inside got emotional. And then after that, you get the other words coming in. You find somebody you find a mother or a father home. I know sometimes they tell you off and sometimes they just go on and on and on and on and turn you off and that really emotional, who's in charge.

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The queen.

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You find some person who's depressed. They're how they like they're just thinking and thinking. Not

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you know this what she did to me I can't forget that for my life and I just think you go to them after you know six months she's still there now go my does it Holloman Look at me evening and I watched you need to come on guests nakatomi woman we're gonna do can you sell because of your thoughts? Get your king in charge what happens? The king will tell you that you're supposed to be with a lawsuit that you couldn't go go go anywhere you want. Allah says what

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Ledeen monastery slavery was Salah, you who believe believe is if you change what you Kingman, is the enormous somebody was sada you've got a problem. You want help come to me Have patience. Have patience, patience, being put the Queen aside, put the Queen aside inside you is trying to be somebody was Salah, and come and connect with myself through prayer. This is the way to get to the Ramananda this is a way because you put your king in charge. How cool is what when you put a lot in charge, how because your king is in charge, something went wrong, what you're going to start, you're gonna start wasting all your time thinking about that. What a waste, you're going to waste yourself,

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you're going to be going from stress to depression. A lot of people go through this. A lot of people go, you know one thing went wrong, then think something more bad about it think more bad, right? And then they get depressed, depressed, then they're on antidepressants. Why? Because they can't stop thinking that big themselves. So emotional, the Queen's in charge, they can't snap out of it. The only way to get out of it, my brother is to connect up with the rock man. And this is one other thing that I told you from that story of the prince that can be done. Forget it. Each and every one of you you know when you go out there when you move away from us right now all of you Marshal all of

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your kings.

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All of you right now there's no one no messing around, see? no messing around, no signal, why you got your king switched on, you have to sit like this. Be this whole even if you mobile come in your mobile goes off.

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Everyone's gonna tell me off kings on T because your discipline, discipline is to the king when the Kings which are when you go out there when I go home, when you go home and some become lazy, either the prince or something else is in charge. And you can't put that in charge, you will go to destruction. And I'm going to finish that talk off by going to the early example.

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The early example the first example I gave you the parrot

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Moo to kubla and tomato, my brothers my sisters real way and you gotta understand this and I've got understand this and Allah azza wa jal, he has never let us down. He is not letting us down and he will never let us down. Never, never. The only one that lets himself down is myself. the only one who's let himself down is myself. Allah has never let anybody down Never.

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You hear all these stories about punishment, the grave, you hear the other day who Allah has never let anybody down. I'll never let anybody down. How do I make myself connected with the law so that I know that he's not letting me down? allow for my friend, my friend. Remember this? Remember this Allah says not to put my father in law whom yada yada come in Chicago

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to is a law Why would I want to punish you if you show thankfulness to me? If you show you a man oh man, you show you a man. Why should I punish you? Allah says in the Holy Quran, why should I? Why Allah is not a lord is waiting there to try and get us one by one I'm supposed to help is not like that. He is the man his first name when we say the parameter say Bismillah R Rahman Rahim. You know why? Because we are saying his names of mercy. Ally so intimate. He has intimacy, he has kindness. He's generous. He's close. He's hurried. He his mujeeb is the one who answers our prayers that his allies have that he loves us his model. He has no condition to love us, but he still loves us. That

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is what that is. Amanda is Rahim. Now, my brothers, my sisters who are listening.

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How do I get back to Allah? When when you want to get back to Allah, in this world, you want to get back to someone you have to go through someone.

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When you want to get back to Allah azza wa jal. You don't have to get through for anyone else. You don't need any you know, you don't need any deceit and deception. You don't need to send a letter. You don't need to do any to anyone on a you can go straight to Alaska. I want to say these, these poetry, and I want to end the talk. The poetry again is from the father of my, of my chef Rashid Rockman, who wrote this poetry and it is a poem of love of, of the passion, of love for Allah azza wa jal

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and it's a way of trying to get close to Allah through these words.

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Listen to the words. Rooster cuckoo Rhino.

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Tara Ahmadi, a friend has come to the door of a friend.

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One friend, meaning myself has come to the front meaning Allah azza wa jal but me the friend, I am a dog

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who has come to the door of a master.

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Not to eat and Maria

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as a dog, I had left my real master.

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Now that I'm back to you, though, don't take your stick out and beat me away from Utah.

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If you beat me away from your door,

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then where else have I got to go? I will roam around out there and eventually I'll come back two years the same day. The one board that I know

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our law full of mercy, or a man, show me your mercy

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whether I'm good whether I'm bad, I'm still use of a lot.

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Whether I'm good servant, bad service, I'm still your servant on law. Don't name me a sinner by naming me a sinner. Don't throw me from this place. To me being a

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dilla. haka.

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philia, you goody, goody. If you know besides you, beside you, I have got no one else. Where else would I go? Eventually I will only come back to yourself. Maybe Nick a boogie bear

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me with

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Casa curry mudo beside you who will understand the hurt the pain I have inside myself? Who will understand his pain? And besides you Who else can I go to and weep and cry?

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My brothers, my sisters, to connect to Allah azza wa jal we've got the straight path make Toba come back to Allah recognizes Allah, eternal kings on become that parrot who dies in this world meaning the other connections that we've got in this world. Forget about this connection, this connection they'll have that you carry on with the connection. But remember, true freedom is only when you free out of your cage out of the shop and you're in with a loss of a job, you're free to worship him. You're free with the freedom of the air. That's true freedom. My brothers, my sisters, we need to how do you die before you die? You basically give up your passion. basically give up your prince

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give up your desires. When I give him my desires when I will say no I'm not gonna listen to that. Then Allah azza wa jal will accept me and my connection will grow with Allah azzawajal does not know

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next December after a sharp

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year, also the 15th of December into December from Russia. We have our guest of honor chef

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with the senior lecturer

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will be coming in to do the graduation show. This is the first time in the best three counties we have in the past Mr. McCauley, Joseph, the graduation ceremony of some girls but he's telling us that this is the first time ever so humble request today one

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opportunity

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that may scholars have grown the entire country participating. They will do that. And there are we have our next poll on the 29th of December.

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Allah Oh close 101 who has given sinners the opportunity to raise the hands to him. Allah life is going by life is so short. Life has almost ended. We don't know which day which moment which time you will ask us to come back to yourself. What law there is no guarantee that we will live another 10 years or 20 years. Our law we don't know whether it's 10 days that we will live or 10 hours that we will live or 10 minutes. Oh Allah, Allah you are moveit you are more IE, Allah, you are the giver of life. You are the taker of life, you are the corrib You are the close one. Our law we ask you that when the time comes for our deaths, that you make it a moment that we will be able to leave

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this world by wanting to come back to you. Allow me to ask you know law monster at the time of death makers of those people who will not worry about their wealth, not worry about the families who will only be happy to return back to yourself. Our law at the time of death we asked you to give us good news overall hemara handwara

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our law let your angels tell us that you are happy with us and we are returning back to you at the time of death of Allah announced Yeah.

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In our content so return back to your load your gra Illa Viki Ravi attend the you are pleased with your load and your load is pleased with you. Other halevi Abadi join my servants of the prophets of the CGT in the Shahada Sala a join myself sevens who are off to Jenna avala at the moment when they will take us on. They will wash our bodies,

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our la Mola

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Our wealth will be distributed by every other person. Everything we did will be left behind us and when they take this moolah and they lower us you know and when they put that six foot down there on the soil will be placed above us our law 40 steps before for the steps are taken your angel would have come into the grave. Mola. Who else do we have at that moment? When our lips are dry when the stomach itself cannot move? When the when the worms in the insects inside our stomach will start to eat our own bodies. Our laughter the time when I feed our code at the time when we only have inches of space around our bodies. oh man oh Merciful One hour hammer I would beg you moolah. We say to you

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in this world we make your witness we make your angels a witness. We haven't seen you we haven't seen your messages. We haven't seen any of these yet we believe in you all to believe in towhee we asked you to make a steadfast into hate at that time. Our law we asked you to bring up or an bring our armor bring our salah and make us being the company our la Mola moolah who else will be there? No mother no father, no child. No one that cared for us will be there. All connection would have cut off except for your connection. Allah damn gentlemen money raised our hands save us from being next to fear on the Day of Judgment. Save us from being next to huddle.

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Next to Harmon bar on the Day of Judgment, saving be next to them all law takers to take this to say that our new Halley's Olam, Satan Eva he saved us even Aries and most of all say you know Hamilton the law they use

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our line the company of the profits by meeting the Sahaba and being in the company of the prophets we asked him Allah that you make our accounts easy, and to make us join the first 70,000 that will join the Prophet sallallahu lsmw tool Jana, our law we asked you to give our books in our right hand. Our law we asked you to make us cross the bridge without stretching the bridge on law. We asked him not to make an argument for us and not an argument against us. All we asked you to give us Northern Light in the Day of Judgment, make our faces light on the Day of Judgment. Our hands are beaming of light when Rasulullah saw loudness and we recognize it from the whoo that we didn't as

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well. Allah no longer asked you that do not make this happen without our parents being with us. Our la Mola we spent nine months in my mother's womb. I was a law we gave we gave her pain. Our law we made it heavy for her. But she did not even make any complaint she only loved us without us even being born or law. When we came to this so many nights she stayed awake for us.

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Now that we are all able to look after her and go to our beloved houses but our beloved people are not there.

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We go to our beloved houses and our beloved people who love looked after us they are not there. Our love they have left us they have gone to you so we ask you Moeller to give them the best treatment from the bottom of our heart to say Rob Durham Luma come out of

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our love keep this old energy.

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If they're alive then give them a long healthy and pious life. And if they go Mola give them the highest status inner Lee. Well on the Day of Judgment with our parents with our loved ones take us all dual genital genital photos, our lives save all our family members from going towards the Hellfire will make Toba to you Mola except altova except our good deeds will say I will not be asked you to accept this da vows and I will allow you ask you to make us people who are connected to you through our Eman.

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