Hasan Ali – – Home Sweet Home

Hasan Ali
AI: Summary © The importance of decorating a house and having lights and deco to make it a home is discussed, along with the holy grail of Islam, which is a salary for individuals who have had sex with their partner. The speakers emphasize the importance of "has" in cultural culture and the need for everyone to be clean and safe. They also discuss the conflict between shaytan and demons and the importance of learning to deal with stress and avoid sinful activities. The speakers stress the importance of providing for family members and not overdoing work, as well as creating a " ridden home" for family members.
AI: Transcript ©
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Everybody wants to have a home sweet home. And the main thing is that most of us who have a house, okay, who make it into a home, we most of us do it thinking that okay, you just basically get a home you have a family and today everything's gonna be Humphrey at home. That's not according to the does not always according to the people, or let's just say the let's say that's not always according to the those who occupy the heavens that are angels above there.

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There's another, there's another way they look at the homes down here.

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And there's homes here, the way we look at our homes is very different.

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Our way of seeing a nice, you know, a good home.

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Our way of seeing a nice good home is that we want to see decoration inside the house, we want to have nice sofas, and have nice lights and have nice deco and so on. Do you know that in a hadith, and it's a hadith with a good chain,

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the angels from the heaven when they look down on the earth, imagine this the angels from the heavens are now looking down in this. They're looking at punishers

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they see

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they see the houses in which the Quran has been recited that those houses are lit up

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the shining with light

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and the houses that have got no recitation of the Quran in them. They are not light. So you could have all the decorations you want. You could have all

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you could have all the decorations you want.

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You could have all the sofas and the people and the laughter and everything else and everyone's happy inside. But you know what your house is not recognized as the house that's the letter from the from the heavens. Because there's no Quran recitation side that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam told us is a do not turn your houses into graveyards. They said how much you have Allah. He said, leave some portion of your Salah he's talking to the Sahaba who came to the masjid who do the first Salah with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, he said have lived some of your portion of your Salah make sure you do some of the pushing of your Salah inside your homes to make sure that it doesn't tend to

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graveyard so what what is the graveyard we don't see a graveyard when you go in the houses the people of the people who know the truth and those who have been given the true knowledge of the Quran, sunnah, they know that it turns into great because there's no Armel there's no actions inside there. The main thing is to have actions inside there. Now we start off I'm going to start off very briefly with from that from the moment we get married.

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This is from the moment we get married till the moment we actually go to the grave. I'm going to capture this part of our life because in there the children will also come inside as well. From the moment we get married to the moment we actually go into the grave there's something called Baraka

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Baraka we know I'm gonna bang left on board cartonboard coat, right Baraka Baraka in Arabic Barakatuh in Bengali, what is that? Baraka? Baraka is something Allah puts inside something, something which I can't do something which you can't do. So let me give you an example. Allah says the Holy Quran, wah Ma Tei to medieval Lea Rabu Fe M word in Nassif, Allah you are in Allah. Allah says all the dealings of usury and interest in riba that you've got, you think that your wealth is increasing to me Falah your war in Allah does this does not increase in the sight of Allah? What does that mean? The man had 100,000 pounds, he put it in the bank, the interest rate is 3%. So he's

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gonna get now 3000 pounds from that 100,000 pounds, he put that 3000 pounds extra. Now he keeps hitting it. The interest rate goes up to let's say, 5% Okay, he's gonna get more return on this every year. He keeps the money in there. There's more and more money accumulating inside in his bank account to him. Now after a few years, it's now 125,000 pounds. He just left it there it is.

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left in the bank, the interest rate automatically gives him money every single year. So he's thinking I'm not 25,000 pounds in the plus, Allah says that 25,000 is no plus.

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In fact, your 100,000 is also in the minus now, because you dealt with rebar, you dealt with interest. Allah says, Why am I added to the curtain?

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There's a card that you give to 2.5% of my wealth, a man has got 100,000 pounds. And now he's he's got 100,000 pounds just sitting there. Now at the end of the year, he has to give 2.5% Which two and a half 1000 times he has to give to the car. Next year comes the money still sitting there, he has to give 2.5% of that as well. So he's given almost another two and a half 1000 less than that, but almost another two and a half 1000 pounds out every year he has to give that zakat money out by another four or five years he has given like 10,000 pounds away now his capital is 90,000 pounds there. So this man is saying that I have got 10,000 pounds less Allah says the Holy Quran. Mama

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attitude means Academy today. Allah for Allah Inca Hoon muda iPhone. Allah says not only am I going to increase your capital because you gave the car I'm going to increase you.

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I'm going to put burqa in your fold like all of you. The man gave zakat Allah says Baraka in your wife Baraka in you Baraka in your children Baraka in your household Baraka in all of you, I'm going to put Baraka in there now, how does it work? How it works very strange mean you can't calculate that. The man who dealt with rebar would use it with interest. He's got 125,000 pounds sitting in there, but Allah says Falah here in Allah there is no Baraka day this is nothing's going to increase the you know what happens? What happens is one way or another, that money doesn't seem to be enough.

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So let me give you an example. Sometimes Allah gives you some money. And honestly if Allah was Baraka inside it, you can see how well that money lasts you. So example. Allah gives you a simple salary. There are certain members here in this community Allah has given you Baraka in your household. You have at the end of the month, you have like 1500 pounds coming into your house. If you did a proper calculation, you need like 2000 pounds to run this house. You don't even know how Allah just makes all the bills get paid. You don't know how Allah makes things last because you know the milk that you bring inside the house, that milk Subhanallah for the person who has got Baraka in

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his house. The milk lasts two days longer than a person who's got no Baraka in the house. Your shoes that you're wearing, Allah will make it last. You wear it for five years 10 years your shoes are lasting. Whereas the person who does doesn't have Baraka one year two years choose I got your, your your machine that you've got the different machines you've got inside the house, the actual car you've got Allah put Baraka inside, it's going to last longer. You don't even know how your household repairs only happens now and again. Whereas the person who's got no Baraka, a lot of repairs that need to be done there. Your own family members are happy with the little that they have

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Al Hamdulillah that is baraka, the man who has no Baraka in his house, they want to go on holiday here they want holiday there they want a wedding come for example wedding comes, if you really follow the system of Baraka, you're going to make a wedding very simple. You're going to make a wish and I'm telling this from the Hadith of the prophets of Allah Islam. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, The walima that you do that has got the most out Barakat and the most Baraka the most blessings from Allah in it is a Saru ha nuttin is the one that you spend the least amount of money and we get the volume Adam

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when Jr another Jota nomina Hanuman from I said, maybe you didn't hear what I said. Because when it comes to our weddings is like hey, our weddings they're gonna be the biggest hole you can find. Right? We want all the chairs decorated. We want all the we want the full shebang. When everything is out there. From the moment people come inside the starters this start that started this drink that drink walk inside, they're gonna have the you know every chair is decorated with three pounds, four pounds every chair the cloth they put on the chair was the niqab in the you know the club they put on the agenda cover it, you paying for that? Three pounds, four pounds on that the table you pay

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then the items that are coming under you paying for every single item that is coming on the table. You're praying for all of that, in the end how much 10,000 20,000 30,040 50,000 pounds gone on one single walima

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the worst thing about this is you know me We pray that Allah makes the wedding last say I mean,

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the worst is after you spent 50,000 pounds What about what happens if these couple don't even get on?

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50,000 I'm blown just like that. Baraka is there when Allah puts baraka and Rasulullah sallallahu said you have ice

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that'll have the least expenditure that you have to spend to get the walima done you get it done. Some of you are gonna say you're gonna be Judaism

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you know the bongo li culture is based on one single phrase. And this one single phrase makes sense to all the things we do.

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This one single phrase makes us buy 100 pound of Mishti

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this one phrase makes us do that. What is that? Man? Check it out.

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What will people say? That's that's the Bengali phrase that everyone is scared of the one thing that you have to keep in mind shake it up. Because mine Chiquita What will people say? We'll go out of our way to do all of this. We're going to have the full deck of we're going to have Florida we're going to basically make them break them all come to the wedding. There's so many different cultural things that you have to do. Why did they do it? Man check it out. We're gonna give milk to the groom before he leaves the house. Why? Man Chiquita? We're gonna make him make wear shoes like Aladdin. Why? Man Chiquita?

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We're gonna make her sit in a clothing all day. She's very uncomfortable. She can't even walk. She's got high heeled shoes. She walks like as she's supposed to do. She's gonna trip over but we're gonna do mine Jake. We're gonna dress in red. We're gonna pull Mandy all over them and over face we're gonna have no one function. You're gonna have three four functions. We're gonna have seen if and why Monchique we don't have it. They're gonna call a stingy, we're gonna make make them have the Guyardo the signified we're gonna make them have the have the Mende Mende now Wendy was for the women now mainly for the men as well. Many

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people gonna say we didn't we didn't do it. So people gonna look down on us just on this money shake it out. What will people say we do all of this spending hundreds of spending 1000s of pounds why man check it out.

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We're going to the groom's house we're going to send we're going to send this gift that gift we're going to come on the day of the wedding we're going to bring limousine we're going to be all sorts of things why mind check that we were going to make him come with a limousine inside the hall for another few times. But my chicken soul let's try and have a competition on who can beat who we're going to have the Muhammad needs to be simple. No Mahad we're going to put on the paper 50,000 pounds. We're going to actually pay maybe 5000 pounds.

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Without the wife mind Chiquita haber fully regular medicine. How did we give her daughter it's all based on my Hoka didn't say wouldn't mind she said same with me. My see with me. For

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me everyone after 3123 minute shaky a hormone follicle test based on this

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man chick.

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Where is Elijah Horiba? No ba kita Horiba what will Allah say what will the prophets Allah some say? What does the Quran say? What does the Hadith man shake it up for you? BAFTA the so

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all my whole old generation everything that they were gonna do like this we have the actual marriage that's done okay after the marriage and all the customs we have

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every single custom is based upon again magic the What will people say? So now you've heard the word okay you've heard the word you come inside the house. What is the major thing of this home sweet home based upon is based on Allah and His Messenger SallAllahu wasallam. So if we have if we have got the if we've got the if you've got Salah here we've got Salah inside the house, northern light is spreading inside the house. If you've got Quran recitation, then there is like I said to you know, light spreading for for those in the heavens are seeing us with Northern Light. The whole house should be based on Allah and His messenger now, sinful things. For example, if you've got

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look, if you've got the TV on all day, if you've got the smartphones and these other you know tablets and whatnot on all day and you're watching this and you're watching that and watching Halal haram everything together, then the thing is, you're now bringing sin to the house. When you bring sin to the house, you bring shaytan to the house. This is not me saying it my friend. This is from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, our whole Sharia is based upon doing things to keep the shaytan out.

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You say Bismillah when you enter the house shaytan can come inside with you.

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We say Bismillah when we come inside the house we say Bismillah when you open the open the door, we say Bismillah close we say Bismillah when it comes to we say Bismillah when it comes to even just just just putting the lid of a pot on

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On top of the on top of the pot we say Bismillah ye shaytan can put his hand in the night is all a hadith shaytan can put in his hand Jim can put his hand in the night and take something out and put his you know put his influence in there

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we say Bismillah when we come into the house No no we say Bismillah to God, we do everything on the name of Allah not just for Baraka, most of the houses are for what decoration or it could have been there for protection, my friend the main protection from all these genes and from the devil of the shaytan is myself my armor, so I need to keep myself clean. I need to secure myself clean all times 24 hours certain Muslim brothers we see them at weddings we say or even when they're working on Sunday say Brother you're gonna come and pray with us he said nah, can't work or why can't you work

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Jota Fatima

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I'm not pure to pray probably be you know pure to pray. Your reason why now you're pure not pure to babies. We don't you don't clean yourself properly after you go to the toilet. You can't do if you're doing that if you're not pure to pray. What am I Malakal mode came what am I dead and you have death came what would happen to you you're not pure you want to die in that state you want to wake up on the day after now in that state. Now we must simply keep ourselves clean at all times. No matter where we are now. Man One thing is clean. Next thing is Mac what I'm reading next thing is my my recitation. Next thing is myself coming close to Allah. How every day I need to have certain

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things in my life where I'm going to come close to Allah azza wa jal. That's where the baraka comes inside the house. You want plenty of Baraka, you want angels coming inside the house, you have to have good actions inside the house. You are not automatically called the devil to the house, you start doing sin, you start committing sins. For every person who commit sin inside the house, there are devils coming in. For every person who's doing good actions inside the house that are angels coming in. Now there's a conflict between angels. There's conflict, there's a conflict between the person the conflict between the angels, that conflict with the shayateen and the Devils on one side

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is a big conflict. If you want to make it home sweet home, if you want to make that the whole family need to put up the AMA. Now the next thing comes is this. We have to give dower to one another. We as family members, we have to give down we have to call one another to the team. Don't stop talking to your family members about the religion.

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A lot of people think that Dharwad something is for us. Is your mic actually working? I don't know what's happened. I hit it. Then Malema left over.

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Here. He starts working here.

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The Dawa needs to happen inside the house. What does that mean? My brother is not praying inside my house. My sister is not wearing a hijab a praying in my house. I have a duty to call them to the dean. If I don't call them to the dean. I am responsible. On the day of Jasmine. Allah will ask me a question. Why did you pray but you never call your sister, your brother to pray. Now I know some family members, your brothers and sisters are not going to pray when you call them. You have to carry on giving them data, giving the data in different ways. We've all got family members that are inside the house. So maybe maybe Alhamdulillah inside your husband with the old praying but you've

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got relatives, you have to give them Dawa. You have to call them invite them whichever way you can at least give them a quick invitation with something find a hadith you can talk to them about find something you can take them about

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it's okay, all people are here right?

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My voice is okay.

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On the back is oh yes. Mashallah.

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So we have to find out we have to try to bring them together in any way we can because look, if I stopped giving dower then the Hidalgo of Allah will come on me first.

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The punishment of Allah will come on he first now as long as you give him the dollar, as long as I mean we're inviting and now and again. Every time we'll remind him that you know, we should pray. You might say to me, Look, I'll pray later. Okay, fine, thanks. Fine, but I have to give my dollar

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to my brother to my sister to my mother to my father trying to save me whatever I have to kind of get it out. That way. I'm still with the angels that are with me. Because in a hadith he says when Allah sent a punishment to a nation, there is the angel said, Allah, how can we punish that nation when there's a man inside there who is a very, very pious man is a righteous man is always praying. ALLAH says, take my punishment to him first.

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Him first then there is why. Because he's just praying. He's just doing his thing but he's not he's not someone who's calling his people to come to me. Dawa is something calling inviting others to religion of Allah is our our our feature now I'm gonna say nothing. Now communities we're having sometimes an argument with your brother, sometimes arguing sister, somebody you're arguing directly through the blood blood connection.

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Blood type you can never ever break your blood ties no matter how bad the argument is.

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We have this inner baloney families, but you have more of a piece Forgive me for saying this in this regard is a basketball is a little bit earlier. You have more in the Pakistani families. Sometimes these relatives or the blood relatives that all speak to each other for five years. Five years 10 years and they actually are proud

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he upset me 10 years ago, I'm still not going to have a record. I'm not talking for five years under the 10 years. Will you guys will you guys now see me as the dawn

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the main guy you know you have to give you credit for not talking to him for 10 years, five years. Now how long have you been of Buhari says if a person if a person does not

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if a person breaks ties with his blood relation with his blood relation that Allah azza wa jal will send the past is punishment that come from the heavens to the earth is on the person who has broken his blood ties and is doing nothing to me. Like your brother is not talking to us he says that told you you have to seal door no way to talk to them. You have to say salaam to them they ignore you you say salaam they're breaking ties into you make it this is where you you're showing Allah Allah I'm on your side I'm on the Messenger of Allah is in sight I'm under I'm doing my absolute best that new Sunday I will save my voice box God My

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guys need to have emergency batteries as long as they don't have them without labels listen to

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us for what some

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is it working now? MashAllah and I don't need to sharpen that's okay. So now Dawa has to be given I need to invite them Blood Ties shouldn't be broken and I'm saying this very clearly. Why? Because we will always have arguments with one another now and again. You have to resolve that you have to be man enough woman enough to resolve that doesn't matter what it is doesn't matter how bad your system has been. Doesn't matter how bad your brother's been, doesn't matter how bad they've been. You have to amend that Baraka will come and blessings of Allah will come angels will be there if you follow the Sharia. So Salah is done in this house. Quran has been paid in this house. Sin has to be

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eliminated from the house. My friends, look over family members and try your best to remove sin from the house. Why sin attracts Lulu mat it attracts darkness, sin, attract problems, sin attract family members hating one another isn't the Quran. In the Quran. You look in Surah Majda Allah azza wa jal has said when you deal with Hamid when you deal with intoxicants when you deal with gambling, when you deal with deal with this, Allah says that the shaytan now has found his way to through to you.

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Number you read the shaper and you care

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about how many well Mason Allah said due to the fact that you're dealing with sin, you are now in in you're selling alcohol or you are in you are you're committing the sin of of drinking alcohol, you are gambling, if you're doing those things, Allah says now the shaytan has found his way to you, and this is what he's going to do to Allah says in the Quran, he's gonna He's gonna make you hate one another. He's gonna make you enemies with one another because now I'm gonna Allah, what is Allah saying? Allah says, I want to move the baraka, I want to move to angels. I'm not gonna have frequent angels come to your house shouting are gonna be inside your house, they're gonna have a field inside

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your house.

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Where your suit and shaytan will now be able to stop you and prevent you. And

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from prayer and from vicar of Allah Zita she told me why Allah is saying, I don't want to do anything with you. And I'm gonna allow him to get to you now, the good to understand if you now stop the sins. Then once you stopped the sins you are now calling the angels again. Now you're inviting the baraka inside. Now you have Allah on your side again, and then this is going to reverse. So in the house, sin and sinful things have to remove for the extra angels and the baraka and the blessings coming from Allah azza wa jal now, in the in the house, in the house, we need to increase our armor. Our actions, not only for ourselves, but increasing with the children increasing with the

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siblings increasing with others.

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Once you do that, you will see one thing.

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You will see that you're in, you're out Allah azza wa jal will put a burqa in many different things of yours. This is now I'm telling you from I've spoken to people I've spoken to people I've spoken to people I know who are practicing, I have observed houses and homes that are practicing and observed observed homes that are not practicing. What will happen is Allah will give you Baraka in your monies, your financial assets, Allah will put back what Allah was better kinda Subhan Allah you will see, small little amounts of money will last little amounts of money will ask. Allah will put Baraka in your travels, Allah will put Baraka lessons in your time. Allah will do Baraka in your

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lives, Allah will Baraka in the things that he's given you. Whatever Allah is giving him

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Allah is gonna make sure that your children inshallah Vela, they don't go through as many trials as others go through those trials. Allah is gonna make all that happen. Why? Because you people who are now don't get me wrong, people who practice Islam, they also have problems. But what Allah does is Allah is going to do a massive thing, massive thing and this thing I've seen, which is Allah azza wa jal will remove the stress and distress from the lives of your house.

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Biggest problem biggest problem we have got the biggest health problem we've got in the west right now is stress distress which turns into depression. A lot of teenagers a lot of adults a lot of people as stressed out

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stressed out for what the problem they've got inside their head they keep the can't move it from the head. They keep on thinking about it even thinking about it.

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Or shamanic

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everyday everyday the same thing oh my god, this is happening oh my god, that that that place that we've got that land we've got the Bangladesh but up to that oh my god zone. So this stress can be eliminated. How it is that you first do all your Salah, you do your Quran recitation, you're in on top of that you what you need to do since Salawat, and the Prophet sallallahu

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any household any person got stress, the cure to that is abundance, Salawat salutations on the prophets, Allah Allah says Again and again and again and again and again. What happens is this.

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You send Salah to the Prophet Allah Salam, once you send it a second time, you send it a third time. There are millions of people across the world that are sending Salawat in the province of Lhasa, Isha understanding Salawat profit and loss and props and loves him said in a hadith Abu Dawood Allah reunite his soul with his body and Rasulullah Larsson gives the reply to the person who sent salaam to him you send salaam to him process from sending sending Salam back to you. And when is he sending Salah back to you? Allah is sending you 10 messages from the heavens angels that come with 10 messages onto you onto 10 messages you say something

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saying you didn't

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warm Hola.

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Hola le.

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He was you sent it to the property last month was the last lesson right now since Salem back to you. And Allah poured down on your 10 verses right now. Now you send again and again and again. And again. You send it 10 times 100 times and so on. Yes, there are people across the world who are sending it daily like 100 times. So verbs Allah has been sending Salah Bugzilla back, okay, fine.

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You send it

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the 500th time you send it the 1000s time you send it the 2000s time. Now the Prophet Sall Allahu alayhi salam is wondering why this particular person of my ummah is sending me Salawat 1000

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Why are they sending me 2000 times? Why is it today they sent me so many times yesterday, the same thing the day before that said the exact same thing. So now automatically Rasulullah sallallahu This is not us making this happen. This is an automatic thing that happens in the in the in the the other world the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam the now things why is it that this almighty of man this person is following my from my followers is sending so masala then Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam in sending the salam he also in the rave in the unseen he will make his request to Allah for your problem to be resolved

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automatically because he feels the pain the Quran says

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Whoa for Rahim

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hurry you sooner Halleck

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I had the power the one who is very you know who wants to

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The best for us.

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The one who feels ma I need something that's burdening you it's distresses him too. So when you send Salah to the Prophet Allah them again and again and again and again like that, you will find that look, this will lessen losses making that request to Allah and same time do you send in 1000 time? times what was 10 times 1000 progress?

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Everybody's not failed them that

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was 10 times 1010 1000s Megilla. If I get this wrong, oh my god, it's gonna go on Facebook right now. 10,000 Do you realize that time you said the moment you send 1000 times the person, you just got 10,000 of rock my mercy on you. When that 10,000 drama comes on you your stress is going to be sitting in the midst of the Rama and mercy and mercy and mercy and mercy of Allah, that mercy is going to come out your space is going to start eating it up.

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You will feel tranquil inside any person who's was stressed, distressed, I've given this to if that continues to send Salawat in the process wasn't they felt calm, Your problem might still be there. But you're going to feel calm, you're going to be able to deal with it better. That's how we believers lead our lives. You do your Salah, you do your Quran, you do your zikr you listen to Allah you obey, you obey Allah, you remove sins from yourself, you remove sins from the house, you give dollar to your brother and sister inside the house, to your mother and father. Others wanna practice this time you give them power. You don't go towards blood breaking blood ties, you don't have the

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sinful nature inside your house. You don't deal with haram you don't deal with sinful transactions, you try your best to follow Islam and then you've had the angels more and more less less Shayateen less devils inside the house. A lot of butter compressing comes inside the house and into yourselves into the items. Remember I said to you Allah says Allah

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I will make you grow. I will put Baraka inside you

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now next thing is we have a child that comes inside the house when a child comes inside the house from this couple the thing to do is what we start the first thing with Iran

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Why do you start fasting with the Islam said you start the first thing with what guys? What would you say with God say loud with with with the with the welcome party. The second

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thing you do

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with balloons are a balloon and think

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what is the coolest thing?

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Before the baby's born they have this thing about balloon.

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Baby la holla.

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Baby shower.

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Baby Shower easy to contribute boy is it going to be girl

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is equal to people is it going to be girl we have baby shower at night everybody can be happy. Oh my god.

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You still got three months ago.

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She hasn't delivered yet. She hasn't delivered. We know for a case that you know there is a small percentage of babies that don't even get born.

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You are now celebrating the coming

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of your baby What's your baby's name? Jesus is something

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you celebrated the baby before it's even though

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I don't even I don't even understand that. And honestly it's like saying look imagine this imagine this one honestly I would love people to do this. Three months before the GCSE exam results are given the given on the August of 20 something right? Three months before that before you sit your exams.

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Be Your show me your dad sunrise in May when you haven't even sat for the exam. Please have a celebration of you passing exams. Come on. Let's do it. I'll be out there shall I'll have the food or go away.

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I won't kill How do you celebrate your exams you there's a level exams coming out in August. Do you celebrate your exam before you start your exams or let's say you just you just start your papers and then you're going to have a celebration after that. No way. You wait till the results come out. You wait to open the envelope you wait till you see it and then you celebrate if you're going to celebrate you don't know the results yet.

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And how people do that. So anyway baby shower baby shower, blue balloon and pink balloon and he was happy he

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added another bedroom for no reason anyway. Go you have your baby the first thing we start with other

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first thing we start with Adam wants to know most people know this most people see this okay? You give the Afghan the babies is come straightaway. Why? Because Rasulullah saw asthma said every baby that's born the shaitan touches it

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Everyday that's fantastic

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except once the van is given the nether shaytans influence is not going to go away that's why that baby comes down is right in front of us.

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Okay, you've gone through the you've gone through all the all the Akita you've done all of that right the baby is young now. What should the baby be listened to baby should only be listened to and should be surrounded with the stuff. Yes. Now I'm not here to talk about how to raise it raise a child. I think one of my other bands in this tour is to do with how to raise children. What I'm going to get to is this.

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Most of us get happy too early with our babies.

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Our children, the babies now as a toddler, the toddler becomes four years old. When we stand for Salah Have you seen our four year old comes right next year big big big big big two year old with a good big poster hat on little wonky right stands in front of us. Allahu Akbar looks at us. When we go to recruit they go to clinical

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diversity Yes.

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My child is so beloved to my child's already gone to heaven or paradise with the bigger so excited, especially when a child was the topia's child sits down on the Salah, a child does this allow a child reads the Surah kulula A child reads a food or fast food. We get soup next it

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my friend.

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You're making a big mistake. The mistake is this. If you start with a four year old next to you and you basically took some ganja in your mouth

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you give a chance to the baby to do exactly the same thing it will do exactly the same thing. You sit there on the you sit there in your house and you start doo doo doo doo doo all that you see your baby doing

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the baby is only copy

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you gotta understand this the baby. Allah has made babies he's put some things that babies they just want to copy the people around. They want to copy the eldest That's all he's doing. You do anything you jump up and down like a monkey he'll jump up or down like a monkey. You sit there silently all day the baby will slowly sit sit as well like you. Your hand movements, your your mouth movements. Everything baby wants to copy. This is not the time to get excited. Yes. Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah your your child is praying. Yes. When he's seven is praying. Don't get excited yet.

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When he's 10 he's doing Sir Yes, you send them to the maths maths tutors. Okay, okay, okay, I've heard all of this.

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The real deal starts when they at the age of 1112. The real deal starts at the age of 1112.

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And unfortunately, most of us have got mustards and muck tubs where we send our children from the age of 546 or something we send message and when they're 1112 they finish reading the Quran and then we have another big party divert.

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We get behind the Maulana Imam Saab mess up Xyzal do Quran should you condense on top what days you're gonna finish the Quran and they they have a you know, they have a race to try and get to the end of the Quran. By the time they 11 a troll that finished the Quran. You call everyone in the masjid everyone comes the Quran Academy is done. You know, everyone's happy, you know, the who's the most happiest on that day? It's the kid that finished the Quran. You know why? Because he said bye bye to everyone. He's not coming tomorrow.

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He's gonna put the Quran on his shelf inside the home. And now he's at the age of 11 or 12 or 13. And guess what? This is the moment when you need the child to practice Islam the most are we making leave the Masjid? Is this true or not?

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This is the problem.

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The system that we should have is don't make it I'm telling all the parents here. Don't tell your children when you finish Quran this the objective of the Quran the note

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I want my child and I'm gonna ask the educators of this Masjid to say look, make Tajweed the main thing. Let them remember how to do that we let them finish the Quran. Only. Only when let me tell how it's how it should be done. When they're reading with Tajweed they've done five just with you give them two subjects. Give them two different places to read. One place they read to the teachings of the masjid another place they read at home and tell them encourage the student to do his own tilava her own tiller and finish the Quran at home. We have seen like these students have finished the entire Quran they don't make a big deal out of it. They finish the Quran every single year. We

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have competition every single summer for them to finish one Quran. We have competition Ramadan for them to finish Quran. If you start in Shaban if they do have a juice from Shaban all the way to Ramadan if we carry on doing that by the end of Ramadan, they finish the Quran. Our students are 1314 15 they finish multiple Quran it's not a single student where we are in our academy has ever said in 25

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Yes I finished the Quran I need to leave the mercy

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is how you put your mentality in your community in yourself never come behind the Imam to make your child just finish the Quran reading no because then your your child will leave the objective should be your child should stay to 1516 is all they need this they need when the teenagers that's when they really need the

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most of our kids go off the dean at the age of 1213 1415

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That's when they needed Islam the most that's when they needed the masjid the most. And we made the system that they're going to leave the Quran now I'm gonna ask you to reverse all of this make them come to the masjid In fact when they 910 11 bring them with you to the masjid make it a habit. Make sure that you Salah would you in Jamara in the house if you're not gonna come to the masjid make sure it's built inside them make sure you're asking them to our inside the house even though the left the masjid even though today when they're not going to go to the massive ask them have you done your portion of the Quran ask them this.

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When you're under Dean like this, okay now your kids are growing up the Dean needs to be what first the Dean the religion needs to be in me as an adult.

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I need to be practicing Sam to the best I can

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and then my children will follow me because the children will just follow whatever the parents are doing. They will follow good or bad they will follow anyway. After this what is the next Baraka?

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The next thing is my friend when the children are growing up if your children have grown up, as they're aging, each age has a new challenge. The smartphone there's a challenge to try and get the children to cut control how many hours they play the the PlayStation five, the experts have you got rules inside your house to limit the time they're spending on these things. Okay they are for entertainment, entertainment stays for entertainment. We have to remind one another inside the house. We are not here in this dunya for entertainment because the next home sweet home is my grave your grave.

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That's the real home sweet home after this. I'm here for maximum I'm here for 6070 years maximum.

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Even if Allah gives me the time to stay till 6070 My time is limited to your time limited. I've already told my children my house. This is not my house. I've told my young children I look at my house I want you to do this. Look at the four walls of your house and say this I'm leaving my job this is not mine. To say in your mind this is not my

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wallet I'm telling you this is the best way to live all the things you own in this life don't look at it as it's mine. The moment you look at it is mind the house the the land that you own the assets you have the bambbles You have never look at it as your own.

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In fact, you should already have written your wasI or your will I've got my will already written

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it's written the things that needs to be done sooner that I have written you have sold it there

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have entrusted certain people already soon as a die you just take that and it's in a book I said this the way the book is gone. Gone. enforce it. I'm ready. We all got to be ready. Any moment I can go anywhere when you can go wherever we go in. Look, you're not staying here you can make you can buy the best leather sofas. You can buy the best carpet for your house every time I buy something from my house. Okay, that's for the next generation. That's for them. Okay, I'll use it for a little bit. I was looking at like this. Any card that you have. Okay.

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One day you know, I'll go to the graveyard of macabre the scrapyard we both got you know I'm saying we both have

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lights going out for him lights gonna be out for me is the truth. I'm making I need to make my next home build my next home was my next home it's a great

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my great when I get there I don't want to I don't want to be telling you Look, it's a hadith body. When the body is been washed hadith of Buhari when the body has been washed. When the body has been carried by people, it will either say one of two things.

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Either it will say

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as zero as zero quickly quickly. Take me Come on stop wasting time. I want to go. I want to go to my home. I want to go to my final abode. I want to go to my grave. Either the body's saying this. We saying it but the people next to us can't hear it. The soul is speaking. No one No one who's watching the body can hear it. But he's speaking on the second one is the person says ha ha. What are you doing? Hey, guys, are you taking me? Hey, are you leaving me? Huh? No, no, totally me. Don't talk with

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eBay saying that. I don't want to be the second person who says that. Every one of us is going to the home. If there's one person who's not going to the great 100 right now.

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Absolute Absolutely because it's 100

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Typical now what am I prepared for the grave? Because Rasulullah sallallahu told us, he said three things will follow you to the grave. Your family will follow you to the grave, your monies and assets will follow you to the grave and your Armand and your actions whatever you did in your life in your house outside your house in your whole life will follow you to the great era gentlemen with Nan two of them will return your families will bury you they will return back your assets will go to your grave you still own it then they come back all your assets all my assets every single thing I had every item I had in this world all of its distributed to all my heirs all the people who have

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just been gone the only thing that stays with me is my armor. That's now the new home sweet home

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that's it I've now got to migrate now what we're facing my grave I face in my grave that what the prophets Allah said either is going to be rolled up in the oven Jana is going to be one of the one of the best places I've ever been to paradise paradise on earth basically look I can't get into the full thing of this where the soul goes and so on there's a there's a

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there's a whole talk of mine on the internet if you want to see it and it's has helped a lot of people who've had people passing away in their households it's called Six lives of the soul six lives of the soul you can just YouTube it and you find it the soul is goes to a you know CG the body stays in tight inside the grid, but it feels it has a connection with the soul. And it feels what's inside. What whatever is happening to the soul over there. It feels it inside the gray. Anyway, long story short

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I've left my home behind me everything we did my whole house assets everything left behind where am I going? Allah says

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it further every single person will come along to Allah dangers. Now when it comes to Allah on the Day of Judgment, I have no home. I have no home the grave was a temporary home when it comes to Allah on the Day of Judgment now my alma, Amal, everything I've done fazes me. There's no There's no turning back. There's nothing I can do about this. Now I want you to think about this. The moment you go into the grave, my friend, which is we will go on to the greatest anniversary yesterday. Oh, come on, guys. One big shot. Yes or no? Yes. Okay. As soon as you go in the grave, there's no Wi Fi.

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There's no Wi Fi passcode there, but you don't get inside your grave. You say what's the Wi Fi password, please can have the Wi Fi password. Now people do that. When they go to the house. They do that they go to any place. What's the Wi Fi good? Wi Fi password. There's no Wi Fi.

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There's no lights. There's no electricity. There's no PlayStation five down there. There's no Xbox down there. There is no smartphone down there. The world can have the iPhone 20 By the time you've died. They're gonna have the iPhone 21 iPhone 22 Whatever. There's no iPhone down there. There's no Samsung down there. There's no There's no device out there. There's nothing done.

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There's no there's not even any politics down there.

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There is no BNP down there

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does not allow me leak down the astor's even my whole life will lie.

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There is no you know, labor down there. There's no conservative down there. There's no government down there. There's no one. There's no kings down there. There's no biggest down. There's nothing. There's no parties down. There's no friends down there. You know all these friends have every single day. I want you to think about your friends right now. All of all of them above the Earth. While you're alone in the grave. None of them come Come with me. There's no mother in there. There's no father in there. There's no child in there. Everything you do right now, you know, you know, this was the sad thing is this is a really happy thing I'm gonna tell you, and it's a really sad thing.

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Let me start off with the sad thing. The sad thing is the man he killed himself. As in he he worked his socks off, to try and feed his family to give the best education to his sons and daughters to have the best house he can on this earth. He worked two jobs. He worked around the clock. He put sweat with sweat. He didn't have time for a bath. He couldn't get enough time to go to the toilet. He did all of that for his whole life. He died his family rejoiced with everything he left behind and he himself goes to a grave where he's facing punch

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is he hasn't prepared for his next life. Tell me these guys tell me Wallah he told me this. What is the point I want you to wake up and what is the point of you or me working around the clock for my family? We need to do it we need to work for them. Yes Don't take we don't need to unwilling to work for them but not run the clock. We need to we need to feed our families. Yes, but we don't need to overdo it. We need to provide for them. We provide for them a place on this on this earth good and a house and comfort them to guess but don't go over the thing where I'm not preparing for my home sweet home grave and I'm preparing me

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waiting for them home seat on the earth. Because the moment I die, I'm going to go to my grave.

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That's the sad thing. The happy thing is this. The man worked. The man provided for his family. The man didn't average the man also he provides a deed is it is best for the Accra. He did his brother, he did his worship, he did these few things for Allah. Okay, he follow the Sharia. He felt his family as well. He made a home as well here soon as he dies, he goes to bed.

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Soon his dies, he goes to much better. Allah azza wa jal make this true for every one of us. I mean, what I'm going to do now is

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I'm going to ask everyone please, I need to actually go to another, another place with it with the hosts that are here in sha Allah, Allah will end the ban here. I know your Aisha is going to be at I think quarter past so I'm going to leave early with your permission Shalabi Nila whatever I've said. Allah azza wa jal give me give you the tofield to implement it on your blog Alameen whatever you know I've shared with you may Allah as well take it to a home's very quick summary is pleased to be Baraka Amma actions Salah Quran, vicar following Allah following the Sharia remove sins give the power to every every one of the family members don't break Blood Ties keep the blood ties keep keep

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keep calling people to the deed make your world here enjoy this world and your monies but home says home here home sweet home the greatest foe always think whatever sent from my from my real home over there. Once I've gone no one's going to be with me. I want to be alone. I'm gonna go to Allah and then the final home is what final home is either is going to be hellfire or is going to be Jana.

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That's the final final home. We want to all get to Jana. May Allah make that make that for us. But don't forget if I don't get to Jana myself first and if I can secure my Jana nobody else can secure my agenda for me. Don't think you're going to make a half of the Quran in your house and he's going to take you to a lot of people have this in their mind.

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I mean he's a good morning or good rationalizing tomorrow, his motivations and if

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you're going to make a habit of Quran he's going to take me to Heaven take me to Paradise is your heart is the Quran going too far as far as you told me? Is we can no guarantee if the half is gonna go first. If he goes then fine Allah will give him 10 tickets and if he has 10 tickets who knows if he's gonna give you one or not? He might have beef with you

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you know though you don't know he might give it to all he's not Kenosha at all is your hubby Gooshie everyone is going to attend tickets. He gives one to his wife on to these children. Oh he loves his grandchild he's got too many branches. All you there is a

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guarantee your own spot in Jannah your own spot don't rely on anyone don't rely on anyone to the Quran. Have them after you die. These are small TIPS TIPS Quran

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Quran haven't dug a few pennies to grave a few pounds do great Bob has another good reward. The main Armel I'm going to do is my life in my life, how many to how much time they're going to do for you. Hyundai's didn't do a lot of the communities that go when I die have a big Curatola this these are pennies when you have a life of 60 years 60 years to the armor you think 60 minutes people are gonna make more for you than you 60 years I need to guarantee my own place forget Quran hadn't forgotten what else I need to do my own guarantee of my own own paradise once I've got done once a field and good Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah then others can give Quran Hutton's they can do this. They can do

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that fine, but I need to guarantee my own spot May Allah Azza

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wa Alhamdulillah

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so if I can say salaam to everyone from here, please and then we'll leave each other

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