Haitham al-Haddad – Tafsir Surah Tahrim #04

Haitham al-Haddad
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of protecting oneself from extreme heat and temperatures, as well as the need to strike balance and avoid giving up on one's interests. They emphasize the need to avoid negative consequences and find a way to live a decent life, including finding a job and finding a family. The speakers also stress the importance of avoiding the danger of fire and finding a way to live a good life, while avoiding negative consequences and strike a balance in life.
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Bismillah Alhamdulillah

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wa salatu salam ala nabina Muhammad

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Ali he

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we are studying the tipsy the meanings of solar.

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And so,

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we started by

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alighted on a soft admonition

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given by Allah, Allah to His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam

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for a reason, which is why, for a reason, which is there, what was narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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from him from having acid, honey, because one of his wives said that, or some of his wives said that this person or this honey is leaving a bad smell. And the Prophet sallahu wa sallam used to be the best of

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people and he is the best of people in terms of everything, including his personal hygiene and his personal dress. And the prophesize lm didn't like anyone to detect any bad smell from him. So, he said I will never have said so Allah, Allah Allah. Allah, Allah, Allah is softly admonishing the prophets, Allah said that you should not have done that. Then Allah Allah, Allah gave him the solution, that if this happen, either from the prophet Isaiah them, as we said, or from any of the believers, then there is an expiation, but follow the love of a man. Yes, an expiation for any of them. Allah Allah Allah

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mentioned a story. Either the story is a connection of what we have just mentioned, or it is a different story.

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Whereby, if we say that it is a continuation of the oldest story,

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then we say that, in that his story about the law, or in that story happened that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam disclosed a secret to one of his wives. And that secret has number of points. She disclosed the secret to another wife, Allah, Allah, Allah told the prophets I send them that your wife disclosed the secret.

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Then the prophesize, Allah went to her and he informed her that she disclosed part of the secret. He did not inform her that she disclosed all this points that he mentioned in his secret to her.

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Then Allah Allah Allah.

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That turned the address of the surah to the wives of the Prophet Isaiah love who disclosed the secret of the prophet SAW Salem by telling them in the tuba in Allahabad, Sabah boo boo Kuma, you should repent to Allah, Allah, Allah because your hearts have turned away.

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And if you repent to Allah, Allah, Allah that will be better for you. However, if you help one another, again is the Prophet sallallahu sallam, then you should remember that Allah, Allah, Allah is his helper, the melodica the helpers of the prophet SAW Selim, the righteous people are the helpers of the prophesies I love and the the the, the gibreel as well you breathe is one of the helpers of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So whatever you had, or whatever you fought against the prophet SAW Salem, the prophets I send them have more helpers and it is enough that Allah Allah is supporting him. Then Allah Allah Allah said,

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boo Impala una

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una Muslim a minute in Kony 13 the event in the dirt inside your heart in the event of a cow. Allah Allah says here

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that if

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Okay, this is one interpretation that if the profits are like this and I'm worried to divorce you,

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yeah. Then Allah Allah, Allah will replace you

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With believer believing women who are Muslim and

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there are Muslim at minute clear and it is clear what is the difference between Muslim and carnita that means, there are either it means they are humble or they do a lot of a bad

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yes or they do a lot of drama in particular for a lot of long term Yeah, this is it can take one of those meanings or maybe all these meanings carnita in a backing that

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means, their situation is what they are continuously do Toba because Allah Allah Allah did not say Muslim at the minute in corny

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or didn't say Muslim at midnight in yaku Tina, they do need to know on it it means that it is a constant attribute for the quality of those women. Similarly tie it back in it means a constant attribute of those women. Yes and this is what this is is it is it is different from what from verb means it will be done. Yes.

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saw fatin way up.

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Yeah, Allah Allah Allah described it in Surah

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Fatiha sarfati means, the Ansel is what that their wings are stretched way up Belbin means occasionally they are doing it Yeah, the dilemma of the SEM is different from the dilemma of the field, the connotation of the idiom is different from the connotation of the field the connotation of the assume that this is a continuous happy Yeah, swap in wire the connotation of the fail is it happens what occasionally? Yeah, same thing here on IT team means this is their habit.

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This is their habit that they continuously repent to Allah de la dee da tin Okay, what about Mr. Martin more minute and quantitating Yeah.

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This is not a bad No, all of these habits are a bad but Allah Allah Allah wants to what single out certain qualities. Yes. And as we know that, when you mention similar qualities together, you mean to differentiate between them with any particular with a particular differentiation, but when you mentioned similar qualities in different places, then any of those qualities can be or any of those names can be synonyms to the other name, yeah. For example, you So, if you say I had two cars, one car run by petrol and then other

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ones by diesel, it means that you are differentiating between petrol and diesel. Yeah. However, when you say that petrol the prices of petrol went up, you mean the prices of what fuel?

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Yeah, and general okay. Same thing this is in language in Arabic it is more visible. When you mentioned For example, I mean, when our Muslim own you mean to single out the believers and to single out the Muslims. But when we say yeah, I mean, it includes Mormons and Muslims. Yeah. Okay. And this is a clear we all we are all aware of this. Okay. So I'll be that in here. Allah Allah Allah wants to single out this quality of continuous a better

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than a la de la vida said said he had inside your heart in according to some scholars, that it means what? They are doing a lot of sia here. And they refer to the Hadith of the Prophet SAW Selim sia to omit the word.

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Yeah, this year of my manager sia.

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There is another

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Meaning that means Mahajan. Yeah, immigrants, immigrants are either physically or spiritually, spiritually means that they are immigrating from one status to another the status, which means that they are continuously immigrating and moving to a lot, Delilah. So you heard him say that in women who have been married before,

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women who have not been married before. Some scholars said that this

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refers to the era. Okay? Some scholar said that this refers to the dunya, that Allah Allah, Allah will replace you with women who have those qualities, and among those qualities that he will give the prophesies and a woman who have been what, married before Yes, tell you that and women who are virgin have not been married before. Those are scholars who said that this is talking about the because because it is a fact that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam did not divorce them. Did not divorce them. Yeah. So, this is if it refers to the earth era, by it says that in general, you have to be careful, all wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Use Allah because Allah can

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replace the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with women in the dunya as well. And in the era, in that era, their qualities, are those qualities. Yes. If this is talking about the aphylla, then they said say that you say that? It refers to

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it refers to us here. The wife of federal, yeah, because federal will go to * fire. And Angie is what among the people of Ghana? What Kira who is Madame been to Iran because she has never been met? Yeah. And so I was gonna say that those two women they will be the wives of the Prophet Allah in Ghana, that might be the case that might be the case. Anyway, the meaning of the iron pipe is clear, as in follow up on that it says if the privatized and long word to divorce you then Allah de la vida would replace him with a replace you with what with women who have those qualities? Yes. This is if if and there is another meaning that says Be careful. Allah might command him to divorce you in

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order for the seller on order for Allah to replace you with women who have those equalities clear here.

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Rabu in Bala acuna, Natasha the prophet in Bala code

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is it declared as a boo it may be if he he should be with capital H divorce Do you all Yeah, he Yeah. Because he has a boo

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boo Yan it might be that okay.

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That Allah it might be that a law if he if a law commands you commands him to divorce you. Yeah. That Allah commands him What? Divorce to divorce you okay then Allah will replace him. Replace sorry, replace you with those women? Yeah. So boo Impala Hakuna au Videla, who, by

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that Allah? Yes, Allah His Lord would give him

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would give him in a studio few. This means that the profits of Elias alum get married to all his wives.

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As What? As a command as a commandment, Allah, Allah is the one who commands the prophets I send them to marry this not to marry this to marry this not to marry that.

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Yes, Allah, Allah Allah says au be de la who

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Hi Ron mucuna Allah is the one who will command him to divorce you and Allah will replace you with women with those qualities. Is it clear? Yeah. And you will be the who and this is

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it has been confirmed,

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it has been confirmed

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in this era in this era of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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When the when some of the Hadith he spoke about the way the prophesized Selim got married to some of his wives, as you know, that

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was recommended to him here recommended to him by some ladies, but Allah, Allah is the one who chose hadiya for him, and there are some studies that indicate this. Similarly, sort of the law. It was mentioned in the Hadith that

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that gibreel either his Salaam broadhead for two to the prophets, Allah as a lump in a piece of steel. Yeah, hurry, okay.

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zeyneb been to Josh For example,

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when she was married to his son by adoption, Allah, Allah, Allah commanded the prophets, I send them to Maddie,

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after she was divorced from z, yes, in order to in order to say that your son by adoption is not, does not take the ruling of what of your son by birth. Okay, and hence his wife is held on for you believers, and see it was helpful for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wasallam so there were some studies that talk about how the prophet SAW Selim got married to some of the wives and it is clear in those Hadith that Allah Allah commanded them, commanded him to marry those particular women. And this can be generalized to the other wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sahbihi wa sallam Yeah.

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and this as well as the I have to demon Tisha. I mean, when we eat a common Tasha, yeah, is also or are also indication,

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or different indications that the prophesize lm wouldn't do that out of his own will, but it was a larger Nevada that commanded him to marry those particular what, ladies? Yeah, okay.

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Casa boo Impala Hakuna Videla, who as wurden Hyun min Guna Muslim Martin manakin pani into Yvette in 13

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in Africa see

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here Allah Allah Allah mentioned the qualities of what haha no not just women, good wives

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good wife, what are the qualities of those good wife there are Muslim and there are men at

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a higher degree they are committed on it as we said there are doing a lot of pm or a lot of drama. Yeah.

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Okay. And this indicates that they have a level of humbleness.

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Okay, a level of humbleness

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is either pull it up or pull out there. And note this output by it cannot be the safer the quality of our gun to people. And yes, those who do a lot of

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a lot of a lot of pm or long pm with contemplation. Normally they have this unique quality which is what? humbleness Okay, they are normally humble. Similarly, among the best the qualities of ladies is to have this kind of humbleness that long and long they are lane will

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We'll we'll we'll give it to them here will lead to it. Can you tie it back in again?

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The Toba is one of the very good qualities of what of believers in general of women in particular, but good women who keep pretending to avoid Allah Allah. Yes, have this quality again again My dear brothers and sisters, those who have this quality, a lot of repentance 312 repentance, you rarely find them as arrogant people okay.

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And be that in means that there is one of their What? main equalities Okay, then they say again, that if we say that it is here or they are migrating to Allah, Allah say that in waka.

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Now, this means that this means that

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a large Allah Allah here gave us the qualities of righteous women, he would what they choose to the prophets, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, your psychic gifts in those, yeah, Allah, Allah, Allah told us here about the qualities of what righteous wives he would work, a choose to the Prophet size. We said in this ayah in this surah, there are there is some emphasis regarding the qualities of righteous women regarding how women should be.

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Yes, this Sure. First of all, among the qualities that have been mentioned that they should not disclose the secret of their work of their husbands, they should be obedient to their husbands.

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Yeah, they should be obedient to their husbands, they should not plot against their husbands. Yeah, these are the qualities of righteous women, this can be taken from the beginning of the surah. Then the end of the surah

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confirm this explicitly.

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Are you following this, the beginning of the surah, those equalities were discovered. We take them we derive them from the beginning of the surah by the end of the surah. Allah Allah Allah made it so Clif Bar Allahumma salli, ala Dena cafaro in Morocco, Morocco, Canada.

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Philomena and women in Allaha,

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la la homothetic only Latina men. Oh, so Allah, Allah, Allah told us, yes, the qualities of what? Of bad evil women, such as the wife of who are new, and the wife of law. Okay, we'll come to that. But it means that even my dear sister, even if your husband was the best of people, you can be the worst of people know alayhis salam is one of the prophets among Lunas. Yes, among the people who might or the profits of mine. Yeah. And

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yet his wife was among the people of what? Of Fire of *. Same thing with Prophet Lu. Yes, he is a prophet. He was a prophet, his wife was an evil lady. And she was destroyed. She was plotting against him. Which means what? Which means what? That by having a good husband, it doesn't mean that you are automatically what a good lady? By what shall I if the sister of a woman were to ask, how should I behave? What about law who Matalan Lila Dina

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Around? Her husband was evil. So she might say what shall I do? First of all, you should free yourself from the from your husband. This the first equality because he was evil, which means that if your husband is evil, don't follow him as well. This attach yourself from him. Yes, if he is evil, if you can disattach it from him in the dunya that is, of course. No doubt about it. Okay.

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And if you can this attach it for if you can't, at least the minimum is to this attach yourself from him in the field. Yeah. Okay

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whatever law method and

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figure out if all at what rugby net Genie

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when a genie from who from around and from his actions because he's a coward yeah so from him and from his from his work actions as well yeah so if a lady said well He is my husband I love him etc etc If he is evil then you should choose a larger law and not to choose your husband we will talk about this inshallah when we come to them, so, Allah Allah Allah in the surah is giving us some of the qualities or the main qualities of who of righteous women, yes, which means that the qualities of righteous women not to what

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not to be leaders within the Muslim community

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yeah by not to be the well known do out although it is a good quality for sisters to be there, but that is not your main what focus

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Okay, the main focus is what your relationship with Allah your relationship with your husband and you can see that the through the surah the focus is what the relationship with Allah and the relationship with who

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with the husband

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Yeah. Then the surah said if it happened that the sister is what is an automated

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warmer humanitarian Ron what is the main quality and Lottie Burnett for

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him it was you know, was a beacon in Iraq Bihar, what could you be what can it

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mean and look at So, you should accept it a law will give you something better either in the dunya or in the era if it happened that you did not get married and be from what I will call an E t. Yes, ohana team is not activism is not political activism is not giving lectures by is not being

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among the leaders of the oma la nicaean here is the focus is what is on your Ava and relationship with a lot.

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Okay, so,

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so Allah Allah Allah says to the prophesies, Allah says to the wife sorry of the law of the land if

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I were to command him to divorce you see as our boo in palapa, as we said, Allah Allah Allah mentioned boo boo Impala Hakuna means Allah is the one who is going to work to command him to divorce you. Yes. And he will replace you with women who are better

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with better than you okay? It is

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a clip them

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Allah Allah Allah says, Yeah, you have the Drina poo poo Sakuma de como la la.

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Okay, all believer, God yourselves and your families against our fire. The voice of that fire is

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men or human beings first. Not a gala. Whoo ha ah and Hagana to Annette no and Natsu when he da Subhana Allah, the fuel of the fire of * is what the human beings

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are the human beings and the Hague, Allah.

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And we as human beings will be along with the stones and the rocks, the fuel of the fire. What kind of fire is this? What kind of fire the prophet SAW Selim says, Now the home had the liberty to produce juice on min Sabina juice and min and now

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Laguna Beach, Florida, your fire is just one part. Either it can be said one part out of seven key parts of the fire of * each part. Yeah. The heat of each part is like the heat of this fire that you are aware of. or Yeah.

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Your file is one part is a part of one of 70 parts. Is it clear? So it is a part of one of the 70 parts of the fire of * juice on min Sabina juice. Min enough. Okay. Although it seems that it is one out of 70 Yeah, one out of 70 coluna, Mithra hydrea, all those parts that heat Yeah, and they're burning power is like your fire that you are aware of imagine this kind of fire. And that's why this kind of fire will not be fueled by just anything normal will not be fueled by wood or normal fuel. Because the normal fuel, the normal fuel, produces our fire that is similar to the fire We are aware of.

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So this is totally different fire, in terms of heat, yes. And burning power, in terms of size, in terms of everything. We could not even imagine that and in terms of how long it lasts. So this fire Allah Allah Allah said, You believers, be wise. protect yourselves God yourselves and your families against what? against this fire. Yeah.

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Lee calm now

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as you know, also that

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Allah Allah Allah

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described the fire of *, in many verses in the Quran. In fact, the number of verses in which Allah Allah Allah describes the fire of * is almost double the number of verses in which Allah Allah Allah described what paradise

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and there are many occasions the fire the fire of * was mentioned in 126

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places and the paradise was mentioned in 60 places okay 60 something places roughly like this.

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in many places the fire fellow is mentioned at all. And the Paradise is not mentioned in many other places the fire of * is mentioned even before what before the Jana is mentioned, okay. And in most cases when Allah Allah, Allah encourages people to do good deeds, Allah Allah, Allah is encouraging them to do good deeds,

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by what?

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To do good deeds in order to work in order to keep away from the fire of help. In some places Allah, Allah Allah encouraged us to do good deeds because of what

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because of gender. Yeah, but in many cases, or in most cases, according to my own survey, when Allah Allah, Allah commands people to do good deeds, in order to command them to do this, he commands us to do this in order to act to protect ourselves from the fire. That's why, you know, many statements, we read many statements from the earliest scholars that their main worry is what their main worry in this life is what

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I used to be afraid to sleep and then wake up and find myself in the fire of health. And among one of the setups said, when I used to be afraid I used to when I used to go to bed, I when I remember the fire of *, I could didn't have to sleep.

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Yeah. And among the self, also those who said that when I sleep, I just wake up all of a sudden thinking of the fire of *. Yeah, those are among the righteous seller. These are examples These are examples.

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They said

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the alotta and who he used to have two lines on his cheeks. Why? Because of what? Because of crying crying out to fork out to fear

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Booba Casa de la de La da da who as you know, said if I have one of my foot, one of my feet in Paradise, I wouldn't be confident that the second feet will follow it in paradise.

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Tomorrow the Allah tala who said if I am in between Ghana and fire of *, and I wouldn't know where am I going to go? Yeah, I wouldn't. I would prefer to be an ash. Yes, Allah Allah Allah make makes me like ash, rather than to know what am I going to go? This is who

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are the Loctite on many of these others, it was reported that Abu Bakar and others they used to say what did to anillo show Jonathan? Where did he come to share the rotten about us if I was a trunk of a tree? Yes, that is cut. And rather than being a human being who might be subject to the punishment of the Fire of * if I

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if I commit sins.

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So their main worry is what is the fire of some people? Some people might be brothers. My dear sisters say this is a matter of exaggeration. This is a matter of exaggeration. Okay, that is not true. Think about it, brothers. Yeah. Think about it. Brothers and sisters. The possibility of any human being to go to Paradise and to go to Hellfire is 50%.

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Yeah, the believer, the possibility of the believer to go to * fire. Yeah, is 50% because he might What? leave Islam before death.

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So you are not confident that you will die on Islam.

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And moreover, we are not confident that what that

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we will not be subject to the punishment of the Hellfire whatsoever. Because we read that there are many of the believers will be punished in the fire of * for some time. Then Allah Allah Allah will take them out.

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Yeah, so even one second in the fire of * will spoil our life. And we all know that hadith of Sahih Muslim Allah, Allah Allah brings a person who used to live the best life and but he will be among the people of fire of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will dip him for a few seconds in the fire of *. And then takes him out and then asks him, Have you ever enjoyed your life? Have you ever felt happy in your life? Have you ever lived a good life? No. The answer will say no, no, no.

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No, when Subhana Allah because of what? Because of few seconds. That's why even

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Mahmoud Obama haven't said any punishment other than the fire of fillies Okay.

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Any punishment other than the fire of fillies okay. And any bounty or any favors that Allah Allah give us other than Jana? Yes. Means worthless. worthless. We are here temporary, we are living to go to gender dunya is just a temporary metab Yeah, enjoyment and amusement. But the real life is as a legend on acid. Yeah, women have to admit that this life is just a deception. So that's why Allah Allah Allah says, Yeah, you heard lady in ermine who flew Sakuma Nico now.

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Yeah. And it became unfortunately, a fashion in some places. That Oh,

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to claim that the people of our the people who give Dawa they made it difficult for people to go to Jenna.

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How How? They said they always talk about farfel farfel farfel. They don't talk about the agenda. First of all, if they speak about fire of * only and they don't speak about gender, then it is a mistake. Definitely. Definitely.

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It is a mistake doesn't mean that it is completely wrong. Here. The other thing is when we speak to people about fire of health and you

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We should focus more on what the poor am focused on, which is what

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fire of how God yourselves and your families against the fire.

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Moreover, my dear brothers and sisters, the person will be motivated by aha by avoiding the punishment more than he will be motivated by

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certain prizes or certain any achievements he might get. Yes.

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Because this is the nature of the human beings, maybe they can be temporary

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encouraged by certain positive motivations, if you do this, you will get this, but after some time, this will fade away. But if you do this, you will be punished. That will remain. Yeah, it will remain longer. And it is will it will be unlikely to be violated easily. That's why even in all countries, yeah, in all countries, they don't say to people, all legal systems. Yeah. I mentioned this to some brothers who Eonni used to criticize some people, some speakers, I said to them,

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all legal systems, they What do they say, if you cross the speed limit, we will punish you, you will have never seen any system in the world that says, if you don't cross the speed limit, we will increase your salary.

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Or we will give you this gift. Have you ever seen any legal system like this?

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Why it doesn't work? It doesn't work? Yeah. If we want to stop you from certain acts, then the way to stop human beings is through threatening them or punishment. Now, aside from that, if we want to encourage people to do certain positive things, then that should be done what it through gender, but you don't carry with you don't discourage people from committing sins by agenda. Yeah, by promising them again, no, you encourage people to do good deeds by promising them Ghana and promising them

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some some, any bounties or some reward. Okay.

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And anyway, my dear brothers and sisters, I really encourage you

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to read about the

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genda and Dina the era in general, I always encourage myself and my brothers and sisters, to think every day to think every day, at least a few minutes, five minutes, even five minutes, about agenda ended up about,

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about the about the graveyard about resurrection, and about what happens on the Day of Resurrection. And finally about again, this encouragement will be very, very useful in motivating the person to be on the right path. Allah Allah Allah always mentioned this. Yeah. In fact, the whole

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the whole,

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okay, is focusing on what?

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worship Allah, you will go to Ghana, don't worship Allah, you will go to fire for that. So

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is there anything else in the Quran? No, worship Allah, what will happen to you? You will go to Jenna. don't worship Allah, you will go to what? Fire of *? That's all. Yeah.

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Worship Allah, Allah, Allah. Allah mentioned, he introduced himself to us. He spoke about his glory. He spoke about his magnificence. He spoke about the love of Allah, etc, etc. But at the end, the summary is what

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if you don't watch a lot, you will go to what you will go to fire. That is the message of the Quran. That's why Allah Allah Allah says in Seneca will help the word Beshear on

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the message of the prophets Allah is what

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where she went to the ole Nazir analytical area. If you worship Allah, you go to Ghana, you don't worship Allah, you will go to Pharaoh, fellow

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Is Parana speaking about

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age is the core and putting any focus on the dunya none. No. Yeah. No. Whenever dunia is mentioned in the Koran it is mentioned in what? Haha in a negative way.

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Yeah. Show me in the Quran that Allah praised the dunya

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Okay, go ahead to dunya ilimitado yeah

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na material and animal health,

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and so on we can

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wherever the dunya is mentioned in the Quran is mentioned what haha with them, as the scholar said with this praise.

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So, the point is, inshallah is clear, I encourage my brothers and sisters, to think about the alpha and to be worried about the alpha as we caught it the last time or one of the terms that the prophesied, sent and said, If you make your concern, or you gather your concerns to be one concern, which is what the worry of the alpha, then a larger Nevada will surprise you. But if you become concerned, yes, with the dunya, Allah, Allah, Allah will let you down. And voila, he My dear brothers and sisters, the more you think about the dunya, the more you will be imprisoned by the dunya.

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The more you will be imprisoned by the dunya. Think about anything, think about anything if even if you have illness, and your main worry is how to treat your illness.

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Yeah, you might not find treatment for your illness. And okay, you will be worried all of your thought

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it will even your attention will be what distracted and you will not be focusing on something productive.

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With this is with illness, which is the most worrying thing for the human being. Yeah, but if the person is worried about what is ophira Yeah, he will see that the journey is easy for him.

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Yeah, that's why that's why the Muslims, the Muslim prisoners, the only way they can cope with any the heart of the prison is what when they don't think of the dunya recently one of the the the Messiah who was in prison for nine years without a trial, when he left the prison. He said by Allah, I have never ever asked a lot Delilah for one time to release me from the prison.

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And most of my time was a bad and I had full satisfaction inside the prison. He was there for nine years. And as you've been telling me, I said, what my enemies can do with me? Yes, wherever I travel, my Ghana, what troubles with me Subhana Allah, which he did not because he entered a Ghana of a bad day to law, Allah will let him enter the agenda of the dunya as a preparation for entering the agenda of the era. And that's why some scholars said if you don't enter the agenda of the adonia, you will never enter the agenda of what of the affidavit is the agenda of the dunya when the person is connected to the agenda of the Africa and he is worried about his era. This will make him

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what this will lead him to enter the agenda of the dunya and in sha Allah this will lead him to the agenda of afterlife ninja said worry for the dunya is what

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is darkness in your life. Why do you for the ophira? Yeah, why do you for the alpha is light in your dunya

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being worried for your akhira gives you light being worried for the dunya gives you what darkness in your heart. So we ask about

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Allah to make us among the people who are worried about their okay

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God yourselves first

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full circle. So, the your main concern first of all is what

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yourself this is what the circle they know that then that was circle of what of concern

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then after that you have another circle which is what

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this is the second circle now, then later on which can be derived from the versus the other verses of the Koran that the person should be concerned about what about the people around him in general? And then the why this circle of concern? Yeah, will be what Uh huh, will be the oma in general or the whole humanity even But first of all, the person should be worried about himself.

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Then Allah Allah Allah said what was the outcome? Now, many scholars have spoken about this and they said this means that you should okay first of all alikum here, some scholars said an econ includes your children and your wives.

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Yeah, some other scholars said no and ECAM here refers to what

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refers to what the wives and your What about your children, your children are included in what and fusa because your children are part of you hear the sound and takuto mean bu t comm our bu T.

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He did not mention our beauty avina echo because the a there is no blame that you eat from your houses or the houses of your parents, but about the houses of your children. This girl said no unphysical means your children yeah unphysical means your children.

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And the prophet SAW Selim said in the higher Lama to mean kiss become in our last min cast become the best of what you have earned is from your from what you have, what the best of what you eat or consume is what you consume, from what from your own earnings and your children. Yes, your children it means that children in general from your what endings, so, this is one meaning that others could have said No Why did he come here refers to your wives, refers to your children refers to your immediate family anyway, the matter is Jani the clear who am for Sakuma licona. And they said that the righteous person will not be worried about himself on late Mati should be worried about what

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about his children

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when how many mongkut he enjoys the good and the evil reminds them with a large Allah Allah some scholar said commands your children to make is still far. Yeah,

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of course commands your children command your children to us to make Salah Maru akamba Sala Lisa, Audrey boo Malaika they are commanded to pray and they are seven and smack them if they don't pray when they are 10 as the professor said, and also the person is responsible for his wife to teach her Islam and to command her to do good things and to abandon the bad things. Okay.

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Okay, I'm not gonna let us finish this I Allah gelada describe this fire, that Allah by by being or it is the fire that the fuel of it is what human beings and it's stones. And Allah Allah Allah appointed, yes appointed angels to be what? To be the gods of this fire. Yeah.

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The husband of the gods of this fire mela laid out when she died.

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Yeah, Lila when she died, the stern and severe some scholars said that it was reported maybe in Israel idiot. Yeah, that the angle, of the matter of the of the fire one of the angles of the

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Fire. Yeah, you will see that he is dark, dark.

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Dark blue. Yes. With the with the with the any app what is an app?

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Yes, with fangs, yes with fangs, you just need a person will will lose conscious by just looking at one of them, let alone that when the when the person will go to the fire. And they said that there are so huge, so big, so scary. And the flyer or the

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the bird, it travels from one side to another side in 500 years. This is how big those angels are. And they said that Allah created them for a dab they do not understand anything other than as death and punishment. They have no mercy and they don't. They are created with no mercy at all. And their job is to what is to punish the people of fire of help. That is their job only. Imagine my dear brothers and sisters, that the person is going just to live with

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cliche creatures like this, let alone being thrown in the fire of *. Yeah, just be living like this. And as Elijah levada also said, why not the yarmulke dequeue via

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a book parlor in akun market when the people of the fire of * will enter the fire. And then they will be burned, burned, burned, burned, they say Jamar lick, which is one or the head of those angels appointed to look after the fire. That has been according to most of the scholars of additional demand created long time ago and been burned, burned, burned in order to be ready for us, for the disbelievers. So they the people when they enter the fire fell and being burned in the fire of *. They said yeah, medic, they will call Malik Malik is the chief of those gods, they will say to him, please ask Putin load ask you, Lord, just to kill us. So, ask him that we die

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in Kumasi to know the answer from Malik it will come to them that no you will stay there for forever. This girl said that it will take Malik the chief of the gods of the fire of * it will take him 1000 years

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in order for him to answer the people of the fire of the answer will not come immediately. They will remain for 1000 year before they hear an answer a positive answer No. In Kumar keytool Kula Allah domina ui do fi

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whenever they want to come out of the fire of health they will send the to the fire of *. That's why my dear brothers, my dear sisters, seriously, yeah. Any achievement we achieve in this studio, apart from guarding ourselves and protecting ourselves from the fire of him is worthless is worthless. Think of any achievement, you can be the best doctors you can be the best leaders you can be the best human being every one of the other human being considered you the best celebrity that

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the role model for them. Whatever you achieve, if you are not if we are not going to achieve being saved from the fire of *, then that achievement is a real loss. It is deception. We are deceiving ourselves My dear brothers and sisters and that's why once the person thinks of the final film like this holla he will be occupied by thinking about of what of what are those things that what haha okay, that God me from the fire office. That's why look even in the ayah Allah Allah Allah says, oh,

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Full Circle multi. E by Allah Allah Allah whenever Allah Jalla threatens us. Yes, with the fire of *, Allah Allah, Allah gives us hope. There is a way that you can be protected from the fire of *. It is not just the threatening you threatening you threatening you. And okay I want to run away. I want to save myself. how Allah Allah Allah gives you gives us what the solution and how can we be saved from the fire of *. Okay.

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And as we said that Allah, Allah described those Malaika that they don't disobey Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah created them for punishment, and they will never disobey Allah, Allah Allah, they will just obey and do whatever Allah, Allah Allah commanded them to do with a psychological or other to protect us from the fire of *. And we asked Allah, Allah to protect us and to protect all believers. And as

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as even Tamia, Allah said, My dear brothers, my dear sisters, yeah, that way I am belly and abdomen, and your coonan is still follow me Nina de la who Debbie lever should have a habit. Yes, to make it still fought for himself and for the believers.

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Yes. Yeah. The person should make it a habit that he makes is still far for himself and for believers. Yeah. And that's why Allah Allah praise the new alayhi salam, when he walked

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into holla at me in one minute, the prophets are seldom used to ask the Lord Allah Allah is too far for the believers. We should have Rama towards each other. Yes, the real Rama that we would like to experience or to exercise with each other mighty respected brothers and sisters, is the rahima of the era. Yes, if we want to be merciful to each other, really merciful to each other, then we should help each other, not to go to fire of *. not to go too far. And we should make a lot of history for ourselves, our parents in particular, and all the believers, yeah, whether they are dead, or whether they are alive. We ask Allah Allah Allah, to forgive our sins, to forgive the sins of all

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believers, to protect us from the fire of * to protect all the believers. We ask Allah, Allah Allah to guide all the disbelievers to the help, yes, because they cannot afford even a single minute in the fire of *, and out of Russia, for them out of Russia for the whole humanity. We should follow that up now of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, when he was sent mercy for the whole mankind. What does that mean? It means not to take them from what from the fire of * and to what to put them in paradise. And as a law We ask Allah, Allah, Allah to make us among those whom the prophets are seldom mentioned in one of their ideas, that they drag people by chains from the fire

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of * in order to put them in Paradise, or solo Mozilla modicon NBN Mohammed rather early, he was the main

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This is an online question.

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How important is it to be basically

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to be financially stable for marriage? And how can we reconcile from the statement of mentioning the virtues of marriage and how it increases once?

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This question was posed after the after we spoke about fire.

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Do you have any other questions?

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Usually when when the threat of the note is being mentioned, a lot of people have this impression or

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that they want to

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So, I think the question is how do we

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strike the balance? Yeah, good question. We normally receive this question How to strike the balance okay. I say to people, before we get into the intellectual answer, I say to people, okay Call us if you want to run away from the fire of * and forget about the dunya do it

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yeah, do it

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and the answer will be what

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what will be the answer

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is not possible.

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So, if it is not possible, if it is impossible, then why are you asking the question?

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Did you get it?

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If it is impossible, then what's the point of asking the question?

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It is impossible that the person forgets about the dunia here

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completely It is impossible. Yeah.

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But I'm answering this question like this, because I want this answer to lead to the second part of the answer which is what Yeah, do because it is impossible do whatever is needed for you to live

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as what as an independent human being

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clear? Is it clear? For example, if you want to forget about the dunya

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by how are you going to eat and drink

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Yeah, and you will not have token unless you abandon food and drink? No, you need to have to acquit and work

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agree or not?

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Yeah. So, you need to walk to work in order to

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eat and drink

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Yes or no? Where are you going to stay in domestic

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they will kick you out

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then where are you going to stay in the street?

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Okay, bye. So, you need to work in order to have what

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somewhere to stay then after some time you need to get married.

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Is that wrong or not?

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So, you will propose to a sister you will go to her her father and he will say to you Oh my dear son, what do you do? Where are you going to keep my wife will tell him that you are homeless?

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So, he will

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remain homeless forever. But you will tell them no no, I have someone to say what is it? So, you will take him to one single room? Yeah, no furniture No, nothing is that will he accepted

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only accepted he will not accept it. I agree. If he accepted later on you have children where are they going to stay?

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Yeah, okay. Then you have the children you are a child needs maintenance. So, you have to work in order to provide for the job. Agree. Okay, after some time your child got bored. He wants you to take him to the park to play with him.

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So you have to play with him. Agree

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Yes or No?

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Then you find your family will be both. So they told you Okay, take us for a holiday.

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Although you are working for the author and you are worried about your offer, but you have to search for a cheap holiday.

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This is like, this is like the key thing, my dear brothers and sisters Is that why are you doing whatever you are doing? This is the key question that I always ask people to ask themselves. What Why are you doing whatever you are doing?

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By and the answer is the answer is in summary

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do okay, whatever you need to do in order to work in order to live a decent life yeah, that enables you to do more a better

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this is the criteria

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type there is a level of HDR sometimes you do this more sometimes you do this later. Okay, too so the purpose of whatever you do is what

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to enable you to do what to do a bad a bad it's what and it's wider sense clear later on their Eva might involve what

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might involve What

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do you

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a bad day might involve what

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not be scared

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but I will be in trouble you will not be

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okay later on a bad my what compelled that you are you should be involved in what

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in politics

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agree Yes or no?

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and so on.

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By So, they buy the takes what different forms based on what based on the need

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just remember this the bar that takes different forms based on what they need, this is the criteria Think about it, you can see that this is a very strong criteria. Yeah, the application might have a level of HDL Okay.

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Question Yes, sure. You know, from the descriptions of enough of the moments when they are relieved because they can get it they are asking the melodica they are talking

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or is it continuous punishment or is that part of the punishment that they asked

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they said that it is there is no single second depressed

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in the fire

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continuous either

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they will be sleepless Yeah, they will never have any even waters Yes, that's why we're in yesterday to you also be mad in kalamaki Yes, Hulu Sasha was

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even when they ask water. It will not be by that Okay, take some water just as a relief.

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And then we will give you the punishment No, no rest at all.

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Yeah, are you and that's why also. Yeah.

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Some scholar said, Allah tada Fado Phelan azita, Camila Dabba they said this is the worst

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the worst the statement the people of the final film can hear which is what taste Haha, we will increase it more

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taste, we will increase it more Federico Phelan azido caminada, which means that they wish that all in the future it will be released, it will be released or they will be relieved. Yeah, no, no, the future will be worse. Federal felony a law

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Yes, in some situations where it says that for a believer Allah subhanaw taala will overlook his bad things and reward him for 15 and inshallah quantum gender. But how about during the profits time when he was passing the grave? And he saw one of the believers who was being punished for like not cleaning himself properly? Or how does that balance work?

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In that sense, yeah. Yeah. First of all, we will come to that maybe later. First of all, we have to remember that there are believers who will be punished what in the fire of

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this is the listener

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that there are believers, there are Muslims. Yes, among us, who will be what? punished in the fire of * for some time and then they will be taken out of the fire of

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Why if there has an

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overweight by their means they say more then yeah. And they have no one to intercede for them.

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Yeah. And they have done nothing from those good deeds that might be acceptable by Allah Allah Allah and increased by Allah Allah Allah in a way that wives that say yet, then definitely, they will be among the people of the firefight. This is also for someone who's been constantly doing Toba and is that we will come to that and as one of the scholars said la Campbell honey mulberry stick to what the easy boot booty. Yeah, yeah. Easy gift. What is the easy gift

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is continuous.

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In one of the hardest one of the rewire the process Allah made a long shoot, and he whipped salada and he recited what was America and Allah who Madiba, whom, for whom he is still heroes hiru Allah will not punish them as far as what they are making what is still far. Yeah. And that's why

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biokovo heavy one of the seller said you

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will not be able to fulfill the commandments of Allah. You will not be able to thank Allah Allah Allah for his bounties over you. So what can you do to do even

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Sita, Eva B have Toba in the morning and have Toba in the evening.

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And Buddha had said the students will be the number said the one who does not make Toba in the morning, and the one who does not make Toba in the evening. In the home enough Bali me

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is among billows who have voted against themselves. Yeah, some of our scholars said, Yes. Look, these are two Toba how many tober the prophesied, seldom used to what do every day 70 times or 100 times we ask the Lord Allah Allah to forgive us. And we ask Allah, Allah to pardon us for our mistakes, our shortcomings and our sins.

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