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You are listening to lesson 10

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surah till cough bisha Dr. Hasan al Haddad happy the hula brought to you by Islam 21 c.com

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articulating Islam in the 21st century,

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Rahim

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hamdulillah alaminos salatu salam ala nabina Muhammad Ali was a young man this is salata.

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And as we have said that this is a key surah dealing with the topics that match key sources, those sources that were revealed in Mecca deal with.

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And we said that sort of stuff is dealing with those who reject the bounties or the favors of Allah, Allah Allah upon them, and who those who reject any favor of any one upon them. And we mentioned that in the beginning of the soul, Allah Allah, Allah told us about the people of polish. Yes, they rejected the clear proofs that were presented to them by the prophet sallallahu sallam, even they rejected some rational proofs, not just the evidence, not just the textual or the divine proofs know, or the divine revelation. They also rejected what the common sense but that's why Allah gelada says,

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He toony be kitabi men probably had the authority to matter their own i mean do any law?

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Yes, by Allah Allah Allah is using them hotjar clear with them and irrational to think about it. My mother holla communism our

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Jamaat e 20 btw and our 30 minute remaining content so they can show me what they have created. If they have created nothing, then you can't claim that they are what there are gods that you can make dua to okay besides Allah, Allah Allah. Yeah, this is a rational proof. Then we said that after that, Allah Allah Allah mentioned the this in the Lydian account or I'm gonna allow for Mr. como la jolla, Allah spoke about the his Katana and we said that there are a number of possibilities why Allah Jalla Allah mentioned this after talking about those who rejected the proof. And one possibility is that Allah Allah, Allah always says that yes, there are bad people who reject the

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truth. But there are also

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there are people who are firm on the health and they will accept the health they will endorse the health they will go with the help. Yeah. The dunya is not just full of evil people, there is evil and there is what failed as well. There is goodness in this dunya there is there are even people and there are good people by Why is this because we said that if Allah Allahu Allah speaks about evil people, this world is evil, no one will reject no one will accept the help no one is going to believe in Allah, Allah Allah then human beings, they will say yeah, of course, if sorry, they will say. So what are we going to do? This is the known of the human beings and we have just two human

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beings and we will reject this and there is no proof that and there is no precedent.

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Yes, that there are people accepted this. No, this is not the case. Yes, and more other as we have said before, number of times, Allah Allah, Allah wants to send positive messages to us. Allah wants us to be positive all the time. Allah wants us to be optimistic all the time. Yeah, so that's why Allah Allah Allah mentioned what in Allah Dena follow boon, Allahu

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Allah, Hakuna Matata, those who said that our Lord is allowed under Allah. And then not only they said this, they were firm on this upright on this instead, they remain Yeah. firm on this. And this is the steadfastness that

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is a challenge.

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Yeah. And we mentioned that it is the real challenge. That's why when that man came to the Prophet Solomon, he said, Tell me about something that is very encompassing, very comprehensive in Islam, and the prophet SAW Us and Them said to him, Well, I'm going to be law he and then what don't mister

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Then remain firm on that. Yeah.

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Then after that, Allah Allah Allah said while saying an insanity why the day he is and

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we have enjoined upon that insert that human beings to look after his parents and to be kind to his parents and we have spoken in length about this. And we said that Allah della Allah mentioned it in Surah tilaka, which is the surah that talks about those who reject the help to show us another example of that. Another maybe another example or another angle of the human being when he gets the favors not only the favors of Allah upon him but the favors of what of his parents upon him.

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Yeah. So,

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Allah, Allah, Allah saying, despite that we have enjoined upon the the person, that human being and we have given him our senior and advice, valuable advice and it is an important advice to be kind to his parents. Yeah. Some people, they what they reject they they reject the kindness of his parents upon him. The favors the boundaries of his parents upon him. Yeah, well, I say that in Santa bhiwani de Santa hemella Tomoko wa wha wha, wha, wha hoo, hoo, hoo. Sarah Tunisia. Yeah. So this is the Manasa but this is why Allah Allah Allah mentioned, Allah Allah, we can't confirm, but it is likely that this is the link between this ayah and the entire theme of the chapter of the surah

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in this ayah, which we have explained or which we have mentioned

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in this ayah, the kindness to parents, okay was mentioned and was stressed on and we have mentioned that, and we have mentioned number of examples. And stories are from the early scholars by

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on the importance of being kind to your parents in general and to your mother, in particular. And we mentioned other ayat and other ahaadeeth. Yes, the other prophetic traditions or the statements that confirm this. Yep.

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That the rest of the ayah goes like this.

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had either blue or blue telefoon Shahada, yes. Warhammer Whoa, warfare. salehoo serafina Shara, the meaning of this, and the bearing of him and weaning off him is 30 months. Yep, the bearing of him. And the winning. The winning of him is 30 months. What does that mean? Well, hemlo, who works inside Oh selecciona shala Yanni the period when he will be okay inside the womb of his mother, and his mother will breastfeed him the total period from the minute she bears him until the minute waffles hollow means what?

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The minute she stops breastfeeding him, that period is 30 months.

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Yeah, that period which consists of two periods, the pregnancy period and that weaning period or the breastfeeding period is what 30 months by this color said that? Yes, 30 months? Because

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Allah Allah, Allah says in Surah Baqarah fissara houfy me?

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Well, what you saw here, I mean, means the breastfeeding period is what? Two years 24 months. Okay. They said that the total period of breastfeeding as well as pregnancy is 30 months.

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If we deduct what our Jelena mentioned, yes, about the breastfeeding period, which is 24 months, we are left with six months, which is the possible period for pregnancy. So they said that the total period is 13 months. Sometimes this period can be nine months for full pregnancy as well as nine months for full pregnancy term. Plus, Uh huh.

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plus 21 plus 21 months for what

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breastfeeding. Yep. And there is a possibility that the pregnancy period lasts for six months only?

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Yeah. Six months only. And the

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the breastfeeding period lasts for 24 months. Yeah. Okay. The total is 30 months. They said that I live in everybody

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took from both waffles or lwvma. And this I owe him to Officer lucilla, funa shahara that the minimum shovel a period for pregnancy is what? Six months? Yeah.

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What does that mean? Yeah. What does that mean? They mentioned the story that happened during the time of matter

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of fact of the law

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that a man got married to a lady. Yes. After six months she gave birth.

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So he said to her, you give birth and you give birth in six months? It means that you were pregnant before I got married to you. Because the pregnancy period is what? Nine months and you gave birth to this child. In six months. It means that you were pregnant before I got married to you. Which means that you have committed Zina. They took her to Atlanta follow the law. And who? And he said yeah, this is a clear proof that you committed Zina. Yep. And he we're about to apply the punishment on her.

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Then, yeah, then Alibaba pilot heard about this, and the

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law, the law and who he was a very intelligent person and of the person. And this shows that although it might have fun, we believe that man will have fun, he is more virtuous than any being a pilot. This is the only the sooner but this is the belief of understanding that the best of people is aboobaker then then as well then Allah May Allah Allah Allah be pleased with them all. By Yeah.

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But as one time, Abubakar missed something, and then a lady reminded him that can happen. Yeah. Oh,

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something happened. Something similar to this happened to the amount of no coupon so on you might be any the best color in the world. And you might only forget certain things. That's why it is always important to what to consult and discuss. So

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yeah, don't be overconfident. In fact, being overconfident means that you will make so many mistakes. Anyway, so you might have not found out the lowdown on who he never thought of this like this. I live in a barn from the Olive Garden who said no, no, no, no. ameerul momineen. He stopped. He said what he said, according to the Quran, an ad can be pregnant for six months only.

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He said What is this year? What did you get this frog? He said Allah Allah Allah says, What do you swallow? houfy amin

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Jani, the breastfeeding period is what, two years or two years or 24 months and in Surah

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Allah, Allah Allah Allah says we'll have a few seido selecciona Shahada Yes. So breastfeeding is confirmed by Allah, Allah, Allah and Allah that it takes 24 months. Breastfeeding plus pregnancy is confirmed in Soraka for 30 months, which means that

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pregnancy can last for six months on Lee.

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Yeah, so this is your son and you cannot accuse this lady of Xena by Yeah.

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Okay. There are a number of Vianney fettke massage in here but we will not deal with them. Okay. So how many who are facade who Salah Sona Shah

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by these 30 months by the way it is known that there are 30 what learner months or?

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Or Gregorian months. lunar months? Yeah the lunar month or what?

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ceramic months

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As the prophesize lm said, a shallow Hakka Hakka and hacker. This is Jani, how many days

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29 1010 and nine yeah 20 not the lunar month can be 13 months it can be 30 days or 29 days

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unlike the solar month or the Gregorian month, okay. So the handle and the facade, the total period of pregnancy and breastfeeding is 30 lunar months. Then Allah Allah Allah says, either Bella

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Bella, ballerina Santa Paula on bo ziani and Ashkelon amateur keleti, Antalya

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the day. Yes. And Allah Allah Allah says,

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to tell when he attains full strength, this is the translation. So the otological Allah says, tell when he attains full strength and reaches 40 years he says, My Lord, grant me the power and the ability that I may be grateful for your favor, which you have bestowed upon me and upon my parents, and that I may do righteous good deeds such as

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such as please you and make my offspring good. Truly, I have turned to you in repentance, and truly I am one of the Muslims submitting to you. Well, okay, so Allah Allah Allah, first of all, my dear brothers, we forgot to mention, in fact, that in alladhina, palapa namaha, so messed up Akbar Mo, this ayah here

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in Alina Paulo buena la Masako,

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some mufa Syrian said that this ayah refers to who to Abu Bakr, Siddiq rhodiola

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Yes.

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Okay. And some of them have Assyrian says it refers to said even though I be what boss Why? Because they are very righteous people. And both of them are from down Abubakar, the first one granted gender and Saudi Arabia is also granted gender and he is the maternal uncle of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salvia cillum, whom the prophet SAW Selim said, Yes, this is my maternal uncle show everyone should should show me his maternal uncle. And in the other year, the prophet SAW Selim said enemy feedback Abby will meet yes shoot, yet may make May Allah make my parents as as a ransom for you. Yeah. out of love for Saudi Arabia. Yeah, sadly, will not be your cause. He accepted Islam

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at a very young age. His mother was a mushrik.

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pipe. And Abu Bakar accepted Islam as well. He was 37 when he accepted Islam. His father was an old person, and he was Muslim.

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Yeah. Okay.

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So these are the only two people mentioned us, Jani, those who are intended by the IEA. Some other scholars said that no the ayah in melody Nakamura no longer Masako is general and this is the correct opinion. But those who say that that is the ayah speaks about Abu Bakr Casa de Yeah.

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They said that that Abu Bakr rasa death in the beginning, he accepted Islam neither of his parents accepted Islam. Yeah. By and despite and then our Lord Allah said and we enjoyed upon him was cyanogen upon abubaker as a date to look after his parents. Yeah, by this color say that. So this is talking about Abubakar acidic or the Allahu taala and who and his family

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by you. Yeah. So we enjoined upon upon Abu Bakr Siddiq to look after his parents. And then the IOD. Yeah, mentioned that

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had died or shut down when he reaches the age of 40. When he reaches the age of maturity, yeah.

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up to the age of 40. He would make the data that is mentioned that Oh Allah make me thankful to you yeah.

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And make my children or offspring

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as righteous the children by so they said that this is talking about Abu Bakr Siddiq

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Abu Bakr Siddiq. They said that he when he accepted Islam after some time, his father accepted Islam. His mother accepted Islam. His wife accepted Islam, his children, all of his children accepted Islam.

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Some scholars said that there is no Sahaba at that time, who accepted Islam and the rest of his family accepted Islam as well except Abu Bakr Siddiq, because Allah Allah Allah loved Abu Bakr so much. Yes. And he wanted to make the house of aboubaker House of pure email.

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Yeah, so none of his family members is what is machinic.

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They mentioned that one of his children Abdullah man, he did not accept Islam immediately. And they said that maybe he is the one who is meant in this ayah some other scholars said no, no, no, no, no, he's not the one who is meant in this ayah that one lady Holliday Who?

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Yeah, it was Abdullah Manny will be back when he was captured. He said to his parents room. You are calling me to accept Islam. He was captured. Yeah.

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Some facility and said this but other officer he said even if he delayed his Islam, and his I this I was talking about him. At the end of the day, Abdullah Abu Bakar accepted Islam as well. And a la jolla Allah made the house of every backer is a house of pure eema kurama Tenley Abu Bakr Siddiq.

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Yes, yeah, I know Muslim no Sahabi Yeah. Has

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biani has this this this virtual except a robot.

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And despite all of this, despite all of this, there are some evil sects who, yes, curse Abubakar also declared the alotta Yeah. Anyway, so this is a robocall subdiv some scholar said that those I talked about a talk about Abu Bakr also did some other scholars said that those are talk about Santa Claus because he accepted Islam his mother was machinic did not accept Islam and she used to what Yeah, what you call

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will stop eating by Yeah. And you have like hunger strike in order to to to blackmail him or to push him to leave Islam. And there were some stories what he said to his mother see, well I if you have 10 lives and you will your new life leave you one after another you die and then you become alive and then you die and well I will not leave my religion

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Yeah, by

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some scholars said that those are yet we're talking about setting up your house anyway. But even if they were talking about Abubakar and all Saturday, whenever your dose is out general the meanings of those are what are general Yeah.

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So, the this ayah which is we enjoyed upon the human being to look after his parents, this ayah mentioned that had this inside the inside the human being when he reaches his maturity. Yeah, some scholar said that the majority of the person starts with his blue. Yeah, when he reaches the age of puberty, some other scholars said that it starts with the age of 18 some of them they say that it starts with the age of 30 Yeah.

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all the way until he reaches the peak of his maturity, which is what 40

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Yeah, which is 40 years of age is what? Like that is the peak of maturity. Now the ayah says Hata Bella Oh, should the who were Bella our ballerina center? Yes, tell he reaches his maturity or fullest

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Sorry. Yeah. reaches. Yeah, full strength. By Bella I should do full strength by

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some, some some some people. Yeah. Or some some translations.

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I don't know which one

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translated like this until he reaches his full strength which is 40 years. Now this is not an accurate translation. Yeah. Because it translated the full strength to be what?

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To be reaching 40 years. No. Okay. This is one opinion and it is not the mainstream opinion of them of a city. Yeah, the mainstream opinion is until he reaches his full strength all the way until he reaches what 40 years during that period, he will say, yeah, Oh Allah. Yes, he will say, Oh Allah

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grant granting me the power and the ability that I may be grateful for your favor which you have bestowed upon me and upon my parents. Yeah. So, during that

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period, he will be saying to Allah making dua to Allah Allah Allah. Oh Allah What? Yeah. Oh Allah.

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Okay. Grant to me that I will be thankful for your favors that you have bestowed upon me and upon my parents

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sounds good scholars said some of Assyrian said they said this is Yanni ajeeb. Because as if

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they said that when the person reaches the age of 40, does he need his parents?

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Yeah, does he need his parents

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they said that as if I was saying that, that the righteous person he will continuously making to his parents and he will feel the need for his parents, even if he reaches his full strength and he reaches the age of what 40.

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Yeah, by and they say that this means that the boundaries and the favors and the the the need for the faith that the parents continue. Yes. Continue until the human being reaches the full strength, it doesn't mean that when the person reaches his full strength that he is in no need for his parents. Yeah, actually, my dear brothers and sisters, when the person reaches his full strength, which is his full physical strength as well as his full what intellectual strength he will realize.

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Okay, more the need for his parents.

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Yeah.

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One of the in psychology, they say that

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from zero to 10.

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Yeah, sorry. Yeah, from zero to 10. That child sees his father or his parents as everything in the world. Yeah. And he thinks, which is way way those parents, you know, know this, by he thinks that his parents know everything in the world.

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By they, he thinks that his parents know everything in the world

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by and that diminishes towards the age of 10.

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Yeah. Then from 10 to 15.

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Yes, by the age of 10, that diminished so much, and then the curve starts to change from 10 to 15. The child thinks that he knows any things which is similar to his parents or what his parents know. And he knows exactly what his parents know. They are equal in what in knowledge. Yeah, they are. They say he doesn't see that there is Jani

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advantage of his parents over him or

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Or, or that his parents know more than him? No, both of them know the same. Okay.

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From 15, and the peak of this period is 50. almost the only plus or minus don't take it Danny, in a in a very rigid way or? Yeah, by the age of 15, or around the age of 15 towards the age of 20. Okay, he will think that he knows double of what his parents know.

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Yeah.

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Okay with that now he is like a prey. He's a teenager now. And he thinks that his parents don't know much. He knows more than them.

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Yeah. From the age of 20, to 30, roughly speaking, as we said, it's not any very strict. He thinks that his parents should consult him before taking any decision.

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Yeah. By, by the age towards the age of 30, he becomes what? mature towards the age of 30.

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Yes, and he becomes what he starts to realize that he was so foolish.

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so immature, he used to think that his parents don't know much. And then he starts to realize that his parents were so wise

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and so mature, and he was behaving in a very childish way, during this period. There, and he starts regretting

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by this is the end the cycle of the life of the human being, by

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Darwin, some people might say, Well, no, I'm not like this.

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Yeah. And as we always say, as parents

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any you know that, that is a

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there is a story. someone invented that study pipe, and he put it as a play

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that a man with his son, and he used to, you know, when he disciplines his son, he used to say to his son, listen, when I was a child,

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I was so good to my parents. They used to tell me do this and that he was listening. Why, what's wrong with you? By when I was a child that I was studying a lot when I was a child, I was not behaving like you when I was a child. Yes, I was trying to be obedient to my parents. When I was a child. I used to listen to them when I was a child. Yeah.

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So one time, he was doing some playing with with his child, and then he had an accident. Yes. And getting in his head. And that injury in his head, yeah, affected his brain. And he started to act, he lost his they said 25 years or so if of memory. So he became what? A child, he forgot everything. Yeah. And now he is acting like as, like a child. So now,

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yeah, and he, he is a child.

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So, and he doesn't know anything about you and him being a man, etc. He knows about him himself as a child. So he was talking about himself. Oh, where are my parents? I am sick of my parents been telling me enough telling me do this and that I will never listen to them.

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Yes, yesterday, I missed the school online. I will not go back to the school. I will do this and that. And his son was what? witnessing all of this.

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Yes. Did you understand that? Yeah. The story. And his son said, Oh, this is my father, who has been telling me all the time, that he was so good to his parents, and he was so disciplined, and he was listening to them. Now I know. Now I know. Then the studies goes on me that his father got killed. And then he became normal. And then he started the story again, listen to his son. Listen, when I was a child like you, he said that. Don't do that again. Don't do that. I know your history. I know. You're really

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Don't kill me off. Yeah, that you were the best child you are attending this school, you were disciplined, etc, etc, etc. Allah Allah, but this study tells a lot, that we are the only ones we become what? mature and we got our full strength. We forget what we used to do when we were children, how we how we used to mess around with our parents, may Allah Allah Allah, forgive us for this And may Allah Allah Allah forgive our parents, yes for being patient with us. The gesture of this, my dear brothers and sisters is that when the person becomes more mature, he

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will understand.

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Yes, and acknowledges the favors of his parents upon him.

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Yeah,

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some people might be brothers and sisters, it takes them time

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to acknowledge this. And some other people. Yeah, they acknowledge this

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very young age. So you should place yourself in the right place. Don't be among those who

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needs a long time Don't be among those who need maybe a long period of time to become mature people to acknowledge those who have favored upon you and to acknowledge what is right. Or to identify what is right and what is wrong to distinguish between what is right. And what is wrong. Don't be that person. Try to be a mature person before your age. Yep, don't collect age as the main factor to make you as a mature person. Yeah, if you let yourself to act as a very immature person, yeah, you might even reaches your a we have seen people who reach the age of 40 Yes, 4550 and they still the way they think the way they behave is my children. And by the grace of Allah, we have seen one lie. I

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have come across in my life, young people 20 on their 20s and they act in a very mature way. Yeah, very mature way disciplined, not disciplined means Jani they are Yes sir. Yes, sir. Yes or no? What I mean by that is they know what is right, and what is wrong. And they the way they behave as if

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they were 14, or maybe more than that. So Pamela, this is Yanni from Allah, Allah Allah. And of course, there are a number of factors that might help towards this, but you I am advising you my dear brothers and sisters to try to be mature before your age. And this is what a lot he a beginner.

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Yeah, a beginner by and you can tell, you can tell you deal with people, you see a person, maybe his beard is white. But when you deal with him, he's like, I'm sorry to say this, but he's like a child. The way he thinks the way he behaves, the way he even controls himself, his emotions. Yeah. But you know, he's not wise enough to take the right decisions and so on so forth. Okay, he might get himself into trouble he might get his family into troubles and so on. And on counter on contrary, you might see young people that you 40 at the age of 20 at the age of something like this, who behave in a very mature way by Okay, anyway.

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Part, Part of Jani being the mature person who attained his full strength is to continue to make what do

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you mean

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by is to continue making da da da da da, da da da da da, da, da, no, Santa, Paula. Ne and Ashkelon medical na T and

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the D. O Allah helped me the grant to me that I would be thankful to you and Ashkelon air medical lady and I'm dialing

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today. And my dear brothers and sisters. They say that assignment.

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of maturity and being confident is you acknowledge the favor of those who

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or the favors or you acknowledge the favors that have been given to you by others. Yeah, this is part of what of maturity and it is part of a maturity that you don't acknowledge the favors of those who have favors upon you.

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Is it clear? Yeah. And shokran NEMA in particular is a very important sign of what of maturity

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and the person who does not acknowledge the favors of those who have favors upon him or her Yeah, those people normally act in a very childish immature way.

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Is it clearly a brothers

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Is it clear? Yeah. By So, if you acknowledge that this person have done something good to you, you need to acknowledge that and the more you get used to this, the more you will attain what maturity, it is a sign of confidence, they say that the person who listens carefully to others even if they are younger than him or less than him or whatever, than him and he listens to learn something from them. This is a sign of what of confidence and the one who Yeah,

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the one who prays

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The one who praises others for doing good things. Yeah.

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But this is again a sign of what of confidence.

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Yep. And confidence is always accompanied or married to what

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to maturity

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yes or no.

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By confidence is always Yanni coupled with what with maturity, yeah, okay. Bye.

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And, and in the Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, NIOSH karela min la Yesh, quirinus.

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If you are not grateful to or sorry if you are not Yeah, grateful or thankful to people, you will never be thankful to up to who to Allah. If you are thankful to people, then it is likely that you will be what thankful to Allah Allah. Yeah, look at this. And sugar, my dear brothers and sisters is one of the very high

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Okay, virtues or a flower or qualities to the level that these colors differ. Who is better? a rich person who is being found for Tama gelada or a poor person who have suburb?

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Yeah, they said the poor person who has suburb Yeah, and he's helpless, but then said,

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a rich person who is thankful to Allah, Allah, Allah, this person is what? Yes.

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He has a high level of a man that despite the luxury life that he is living in, that did not divert him, or obstruct or

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stopped him, diverted him. Yeah.

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From being thankful to, or distracted him, yes, distracted him from being what? thankful to Allah de la. That's why Allah Jalla Allah says, weather in Chicago.

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As eaten by weather in Chicago, if you are thankful to me, to Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will increase you. And that's why Allah de lo Allah is what we're calling Allahu Shakira and Isla and one of the names of Allah Allah Allah is what a shocker a shocker means what? He thanks people for anything they do.

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acknowledges what you do to him. Look at this. Yeah, this is one of the very high attributes

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Have lofty attributes of Allah, Allah Allah is that he is what? Shaku unshackled. Yeah and it means that he is grateful and thankful to who to human beings when they do something good to him something good to him top and Maori doing communities Allah does not need anything from us. Yeah, but when a person when a person does, yeah And when a person makes a vow to unlock Allah Allah, Allah Allah will not forget that they that Allah will thank him for that a bad that he did to Allah Allah Allah and this is out of Rama, mercy justice of Allah de la Okay, bye yeah, we will continue inshallah the Tafseer of the ayah okay and the next das inshallah we spend a few episodes in this ayah it is a

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very important I challah by any any any question

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Any question?

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Yes. Yes. Yeah. Come on.

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Yes.

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compulsory.

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Now, any scholar said that this is the right of the child.

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Yeah. So, it is highly recommended for the mother to bless here to breastfeed her child for 24 months.

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Yeah, this is highly recorded.

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Yes.

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The translation is

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made for a female Yes.

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This is the problem of English language.

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Yeah, this what I think I mentioned it last time by inserting it means male or female in Arabic language or in the Quranic context, but the translation just talks about him. Yeah, because there is no word that is by maybe refers to both him or her, but yeah, and maybe this is before they reformed the English language and introduced this zess this is

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the person who has not decided his gender there is he and she and z

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this

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Yeah, yes. Any other question before we Yes.

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Go ahead. Yes.

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Yeah.

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This works in my head of the item

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Yeah, yes.

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Yes.

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Oh

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god this how to deal with them this is another issue okay. By

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this is another issue, but but but that should not be something to be tolerated by cursing Abu Bakr and his family is not something to be tolerated. Yeah. And they and it is a sign that this person this individual or this sect, that they have no alcohol, no sugar,

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no alcohol, no sugar, it is a clear sign. Because the the closest person to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is an evil person.

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Yeah, and this is this is in fact as I always say, it is an insult to who?

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To the Prophet. So, if I am an intelligent person, okay, imagine Yeah. Or I am an intelligent person, a good person, etc. And I have very close friend who is evil.

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And I trust him a lot. I traveled with him. I got married to his daughter.

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Am I intelligent or stupid?

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Either I am either like him.

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So

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agree or not common sense.

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Yeah.

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A person my friend, he is evil, he's undercover. Yeah, he is by and I have full trust in him

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I married to his daughter, yes. And he is the most beloved person to me and I go with him travel with him visit him frequently etc etc etc

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can this

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can this journey be acceptable just rationally

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cannot cannot it means either I am evil myself or I am myself Yanni

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so foolish that I could not distinguish that this person is an evil person. I agree.

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So, once

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one once they insult Abubakar or Asia Yeah, the daughter of Abu Bakar, the wife of the Ababa Casa de la bella.

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Yeah and Anna, what does that mean?

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It means that they are insulting the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Yeah, I agree.

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But, that cannot be be rationally accepted by that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam with his intelligence with his wisdom with his Yanni and more often in fact, it is an insult for Allah.

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Because Allah allowed his prophet sallallahu Sallam to be deceived.

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By who?

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by his wife, and by his best friend. One time the person said to me, but loot his wife was what? Even my wife so profit, loot

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agree, and his son was even Yes. And Allah Allah Allah mentioned What? By?

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No handload Baba la mesilla de la vena cava Mata

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Nui mama Duluth, Canada

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Allah Takuma so they said maybe a stuff that a lot of the mystery we cannot even mentioned this maybe he was an evil lady like the wife of no and the wife of who

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have loot. Yeah, so they said that there is a possibility.

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I said no. That is not possible. They said forget our don't mention a delay. I said the wife of no handouts to float a lot expose them because I want to protect the dignity of who of his profits no loot yet is a Stanford Law School federal law we cannot even mention this. If I was an evil lady, Allah will not keep quiet.

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Yeah, alone, not keep quiet and let the oma lava and let his profit loves Asia and she is stuck for a lot. And either lady, Allah will love Diani. Allah will expose her and the fact that she was not exposed in the Koran. Like the wives of new and low were exposed. This is the strongest delille that she is what she is a righteous lady. And she is what by and now we never You, Me Nina. I mean emphysema as Mahajan that she is our mother. Yes. And we ask Allah, Allah Allah, that Allah Allah Allah intercedes or make the love of Allah insha Allah The Allahu taala and one of our best deeds that will intercede for us on the Day of Resurrection.

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salaam aleikum wa Taala