Haifaa Younis – The Sacred Months What’s so special

Haifaa Younis
AI: Summary © The holy month is a busy month for many people, including individuals and families. The focus is on finding the right path for one's life, avoiding harmful behavior, and embracing healthy eating. The importance of fasting during the sacred month is emphasized, along with the need for everyone to be mindful of their actions and not give up on their responsibilities.
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Find everybody. There's a Niermann, there's a blessing that we all have, especially us. And sitting in this room. And this is a cold veneer man If Allah brings knowledge to us

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why it's a huge neoma and I know people now who this is gone taken from them without their fault, let's level in this way, absolutely taken away. So we always have to remind ourselves, same thing when you comfort Dumas same thing when you anytime a lot pantile open a venue, a path for me or for you, for us to obey Him, or an opportunity to learn how to obey Him. First thing I have to do, I have to be grateful for life to feel it. Before I even translate how I'm going to change and do but number one, I have to feel it because it is available. Like everything else in life, we take it for granted. For example, color and I always say this, I always remind myself of this, especially living

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in the States. If you wake up in the morning and the car doesn't work, and you have to go to work then you know what a car is. But when I wake up in the morning every day and I get myself in the car, it's you know, of course I have a car. So the same thing is when we have a class when we have a place when it is allowed when it is beautiful, when the temperature is very nice, all these things, and it's available to me whether I am here at Hamdulillah, which I will get more rewards the fact I am coming here, or I am at home for whatever the reason I couldn't come but the fact that I have this available to me in a click of a button, I always have to remind myself of this 100 level man, I

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mean because Allah will take it once the shocker to me as he then you're grateful I give you more, you're not nother velocity, my punishment is surreal. And he didn't say in which way. So always, always an I always remind myself every time I parked my car for Tuesday, halaqa I was like 111 behind me, it is easier. Whether I am doing it with if somebody else is doing it or any place of knowledge. So remind yourself I wanted to say this to start with. The second thing I want you all to remind yourselves and I remind myself, we all still have a fresh memory of one.

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All of us still it's not it's not far away yet. Right? It is still there. It's a month. That's the last part I opened the doors and said just come. This is a special month, I'm going to give it to you. This is related to the talk. I'm doing it today, because that's another opportunity. And unfortunately a lot of Muslims don't know this opportunity.

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This three months at Ashford home, the sacred month. We all I doubt any Muslim, any Muslim doesn't know about Ramadan. And not only know of from one, but know about our mobile and do his or her best to get ready wherever they can do almost everybody in Ramadan, they are different, even if it's one step enough that everybody's fasting. And outside Ramadan. Fasting is not easy for almost everybody, but they do it. And when you ask why what do they tell you?

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It's Ramadan. I was like, of course I am fasting. The way you answer is because a lot put in you and in me, this love and all her from Milan that the action of obeying the laws when difficult becomes easy. This is the same thing this month is three months. And Allah subhanaw taala. I'm going to start with this because you always have an eye. This is why I put this title Why? What's so special?

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And number one is do I even know they are special? Do I even know that there is months in the year in the Islamic calendar is a special or are special? Do we know that? Now of course after the title, of course, we are now known, but in general, handle life I know. But my next question to myself and everybody do I have the same feeling in me? The same way when I'm alone is coming. Today we are almost past 20 days of this? Do I have the same feeling the last 10 days from Amman?

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Is it 10% plus? No,

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not probably 10% if even is and this is what I'm trying to do is to put in us another opportunity that Allah is giving it to us free of charge. There's no charge, nothing you do. But then we're not just not taking it. And the question is why?

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Number one I will say is because we need to learn about them. And these are actually for months, not one they are for a loss of this is what it told the sort of repentance which is the nine for the Quran. And Allah said it this way, in the Shahada in the life now shahara the counting the number of demons with a loss pantalla when a lot of Hannah hautala created this universe and

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Everything he decided that the year is a 12 month Why not? 13

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Why not? 15 he decides why my name is this and why your name is this why do you look like this? Why do you look like that? hakimullah and so he's now number one saying that the Shahada and Allah is not the month in the year or 12 and there is a reason why and I'm going to come to it there's a reason why he put the number. So this 12 months

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he tabula Yamanaka Malati will Allah His book meaning when he decided with Hana to create this universe and as he was planning and putting he said out the year will be 12 of course then he created the moon and the science to make this happen but originally it says decision

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What is he said then? Four of them are sacred mean how our bottom home for our sexual months and I'm going to come to this but Which ones?

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In the higher end divorce? We have no idea.

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Nothing is said about which words right? We know there are four but which one your luck? He did not say this mean? How are bottom four on four of them are sacred. Then comes Okay. Now I learned what should I do? Next in the I am still getting to the iron, then I'll get you to the heavy. The ISS a lot of women

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do not wrong. Don't do anything wrong to yourself, meaning Don't be wrongdoer to yourself.

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And then Allah says the rest of it, but I'm going to focus on this. First thing I want us all to know, what is word haram mean? in general?

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forbidden. And normally, when I say it's how long? What do I mean?

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The fucky way, meaning if you do it, something you do, if you do it and Allah says don't do it, I'm gonna get punished. And if I don't do it, I will be rewarded. Right? That's the general meaning anytime you say hi, Ron, that's what comes to your mind. But this is not what Allah said in this ayah This is not the meaning. Is it? How long the month is Hello.

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So what does it mean?

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What the sacred mean?

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This is what we need to start looking at a differently sacred holy.

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Right, something glorified to give you the meaning the feeling the whole idea is to bring feeling what else Allah in the Quran use the same word.

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His house

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his house as much as you do.

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Right is the merge of this hero.

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As much as the holy mosque we all translate is the holy mosque. We all know once I say ledger, the harem everybody knows what I'm talking about. It is Mecca, his house in markets he glorified immediate sanctuary. It is holistic. He used the same word for these months. That's the first thing I'm gonna pull off. I need to move my feelings and when I look at these months from ordinary is July, it's August, it's hot, it's time for vacation. I'm going for HUD is preparing for HUD to absolutely move it that's the first thing it is as the law says based on how long his house and we all when we say McCann we say get a car but we all have the same over.

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Here you are. So the first thing is you always want to you want to learn this deep. Look at the words Allah use. Like when you talk to your child. There is ways you speak and you say I said this for a reason. And I didn't say this for a reason. Same thing allies of the Creator. So he used the same word robot and he made them sanctuary. You know what sanctuary, all of us in our homes, we have sanctuaries, not religiously.

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What is the usual sanctuary place in our homes, for example, your living room, and especially if you have put that furniture and your grandmother or whatever, right and you will not let your grandchildren play in it. You will not take your children and whoever going to severe it needs to be someone who are or is special, right? sanctuary. So not necessarily religiously, we all have in our home. Some place that I look at a different award decided from that 12 months he created that there is a for our special amazingly Ramadan is not one of them.

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Amazingly, and those are hikma Of course, it's not one of them. Although we all look at Ramadan as not only sanctuary, it's Ramadan. Once you say the name, your heart changes. And Allah also if you look in everything, he

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Created he, he favored or gave special status to things. Look at the Quran or the source of the Quran Allah has words, but he made some surahs more true or false? Which one number one? That's that is very special. I thought you had on mosquitoes, the mother of the book. So he made this come to the days of the week, what today? Juma Why,

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why? Now? Why? You're right.

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He puts the Juma prayer in it part of the way he favored the hadith of Rasul Allah is to set up Yeoman politicians. The best day that the sun will rise over is Friday. And then he says why the day Allah created Adam, and the day Allah and allowed or went made Adam antigen, and is the day Adam left Jana, and there is another narrations, the day they offer your banner. So be Friday, so he made Friday, and the month he chose this. From everything he created, he made even from his profits.

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And loss of this insulted worker to Carlos Ruben Nava Humala, Bob these profits we made fun special over others. And then he says how some Allah talk to them. Who did Allah talk to? Say nermeen

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lateen a sub no Maria maybe not. And then we made the ASL son of Maryam is special. So Allah for his achema made things a special and he made the national reform special. That's the first thing I want all of us start looking at it from today, not July, and not July 23. It is looted. That's the first thing change in you to do instead. Now comes in how do I know what to do? And how do I know it's the next month and the month after and our job. The last hedge of Roswall is AutoSum actually is the first and the last. The first and the last hydrosol he sought to send it only one. And he did four on rows. And there is a reason why I'm saying this also. So his in his hodzic Miss habitica they

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call it farewell hunter because he died afterwards. But two months later he passed away. Allah He never had in our offer those of you who are going for Hajj inshallah, or those of you who have been to Hajj, bring back the beautiful memories. And in our offer when he stood up first thing he says, He said this Hadees and he said, this is a last time he said actually a last panel, I want to read this. He said in the manner Calista doll time has came back to its original. Just bear with me the Hadith and explain what this means. And he says time has come back the same way Allah created.

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And the year is 12 months. Four of them are sacred. So far we know this is what the iron now he comes and he says it's three in consequence.

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And he named them the panda this month risinger next month, and Muharram the month after three in sequence. And then he says waro job Uber, and he he Roger is the month Roger but he defined which are job mobile meaning that month that the people have mobile used to glorify and that and he says the Raja is the month between Giamatti and between Siobhan the month that preceded by July Viola and followed by shaba. So here we are, now I know they are four.

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And I know which four is not my choice on your choice. A lot chose them and a watoto roswaal is all

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these months are not sacred because it's also Muslim.

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It was seated from the tower same day, but

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it's not from that time. And the kufr, the pagans, the non believers used to glorify these ones. What is the main thing we are not supposed to do?

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Not to us in general, there is no fighting. No real fighting. I'm not talking about disagreements. I'm talking about fighting.

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Arab people before Islam, they live by fighting. Like no if you if somebody 100 years from now, 100 years from now, he says so people in the 21st century

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is that isn't that possible? What did they do? What was the landmark? How do they compete? economy? Right? We're all competing and everything we look about is the economy. 1000s years ago, their economy was fighting. They fight

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Then they will they bring things and they become more powerful Subhan Allah, Allah brought this month's that there is no fighting. So what did they do?

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What did they do?

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It's a three months no fighting, meaning three months. Think of it these days and age, no selling, no buying. No trademark, no trade, no trading, right? Dow Jones clothes for three months. So what do they do?

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Of course they have to do something to turn around.

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They changed it. Meaning they say this month is not the third.

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They said this month his show was so they go and fight then they make next month.

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Sometimes they make next month Sophos we changed it. And that's what Allah immediately said to sorted tober after though I just shared with you. And he says changing the month. Awful home is a sign of Kufa,

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in numeracy was the other two feet.

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You make things and they are home, and you make things how long they are.

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That's where Allah says, No, it's 12 months, it's not 13. It's not increased, don't decrease. Four of them are home. And when the roswaal is thought to some did his hijjah is had you came in the future. And that's what he said, Now we are back to normal like they say. So this is I'm just giving you a background, I want you to feel what is this? So what do I do in this day and age? This is 2019 I'm living in America, it's very hard. It's July. Right? So what is shuffled hold on for me me.

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I will start by saying the same way you looked at Ramadan. Ramadan was you are in 2019. And you are living in the States. And it's still and was a hot pot. And actually, in fact, it was much longer. And some people had actually exams that's one of the biggest problems this year. And number one is going to be even bigger next year. Because it's in the finals. It's one of the Communist questions I got is what No, honestly, it was really an issue. And when people had final these teenagers I'm not talking about you and me talk about young people. This is their final. So the first thing is look at it as it is a different month. Wait for it.

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Feel next month, as if you will go or you are going to hunt. How you will feel you're getting ready. People I know I say you know what, I'm very busy. I cannot think of this. We'll talk about it after I've had thing covered this way. No, come to the next thing. Allah says not ugly moving on full circle, don't wrong do to yourself. What does that mean? What's wrong doing?

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And he says yourself. He didn't say others?

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What is the one doing? What do I do and I am wrong doing you what I'm wrong doing myself? Look at it in three ways.

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I in my life, and I always remind myself of this before anyone? My life is the following all of us in a different caliber. There is my relationship with Allah.

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Right? There is my relationship with myself. And there is my relationship with the people and things around me. True or false? This is my life. Allah, me and people, animals, my house, the earth, everything around him. These three don't all do them. That's basically what you need to do. Take it one by one. Number one with a lot of water. What is the biggest thing we do with a lot of pilots?

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When we do wrong do

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when we do injustice, look at it as injustice. What is the injustice? If you do, maybe not us? Not everybody?

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Would we don't? We don't help. But what else we do? Sometimes we do it in I wouldn't say intentionally but we just do it. And sometimes I know it is wrong but I do.

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Main thing is we do not give a what is due right.

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marco de la haka Academy, don't give a lunch do right. And that's actually injustice, meaning

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scholars and people look is what is more than what is injustice.

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And one of the beautiful definitions I found is when you put something not in the proper place

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and not in the proper place or time then you have done in justice, meaning in normal life, look at it again because that's very recent. When in Ramadan. I do not do the things that everybody else

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Since doing that I am wrong doing I'm not giving it its due, right? So number one, look at the last part either in this three months. Now we still have to almost two months and 10 days. In the coming two and a half, I'm going to say at least my feelings with Allah subhanho wa Taala I'm not going to say I'm going to be st. None of us will be maybe will by Allah grace, but in general, I'm going to say I'm going to when I want to say something before I say what they will say about me and I shouldn't say all that what is the law? gonna say about me? When I'm standing in front of him and follow, I look and says your Hawaiian standing. Bring this personal relationship with Allah. That's

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number one. Then with yourself, can I do wrongdoing to myself?

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Can I do injustice to myself? Like what? And don't think of disobedience because we are in a class of any Islamic lecture? What is wrong doing to myself? Think of it in life.

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Following minus not taking care of yourself eating constantly junk food?

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Honestly, honestly, I said constantly, right? constantly, I am doing I am only doing myself. That's why when we say eating healthy inshallah next week, this is going to be the talk. So when living healthy and eating healthy is something I'm doing a favor for myself before I'm doing it for anybody else. What else I do is I am wrong doing myself. Don't think of anybody else you are alone in the house. No phone nothing. It's you and you prayed you didn't you gave Allah His due right?

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to myself. When I don't use the time in the way that is beneficial for me. I am wrong doing myself.

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When I am eating not healthy, always that I am wrong doing myself. When I look at things just because I'm sitting on our couch and I'm too tired and I'm watching something I know it is not beneficial from a wrongdoing myself. That's probably mahina and pusaka this is an order from a lot. Don't do around to yourself. And will Allah made it home and there's a heavy focus in a body in the one to one mile and my servant. I made one injustice her arm Allah made talam upon himself, so panna that's why on the Day of Judgment is worth Nobel Peace polynomial pianos to do a moon up sushi. They have judgment we're going to put the scales and not a single soul will have injustice. When kinda

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with Karla Huberty manhandled Athena via aka vena huseby. And if it was the size of the of seed of mustard, we'll bring it, we'll put it in that scale, and we will take care of it, as one of the scholars says I am so happy and glad, a lot will take me accountable.

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Because I know there will be no injustice, handed or nobody else. Which is true. Because as much as we try, you always do injustice and number one to ourselves. So think of your relationship with Allah. Think of your relationship with yourself before anybody else. And then come to the major one, people and things around you. Volume One, when I eat half of my plate, I need injustice to that food, and to this earth, and to the hungry people, the people who need it, when I waste. Whenever I think of these things, when I waste when I waste water, waste, let it go. I'm not paying for it. Now people always say this too, but I'm not paying for it. How about paying is about these are resources

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Allah gave it to everyone to share. When I wasted and there's people don't have it. I am doing injustice. Without even me thinking of it laughably moving on full circle. This is the title you're going to put for the next two months. Don't do injustice and don't think of injustice undertake the rights of someone right away? Or somebody took my right thing COVID in general, laughably mocking and for soccer and I'm going to share a couple of beautiful saying one of the most beautiful books I read about this subject of how was the amount of living Josie and he brought every month of the four and he said the Jew right of this month. Amazing Subhan Allah, the best act of a bad What do you

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think in these four months

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before that,

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don't look external.

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I gave you a hint.

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Don't look external.

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And I'm gonna read it two beautiful couple of words.

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The best act of worship you do in these four months three consequence, and one in Rajab, which the same thing we talked about in Ramallah, and it shouldn't be all the specially the training camp is purify your heart,

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have nothing in your heart against anyone, which is one of the hardest ones. Nothing, persevere to your force, make your heart clean, clean meeting, whatever and I, whatever they did, whatever they said,

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One, clean, clean it clean. Number two, be generous. And I'm not talking about money. I'm not talking about money, you have it or you don't have it. I'm talking about internal. You are generous, internally meaning

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generous internally meaning.

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Thinking the best I just before I came, there was a lot of debate out there about something in one of the scholars looked at it amazingly, how you how you look and learn how people who their hearts are pure, look at something obviously bad, and how they analyze it in a good way. That's generosity, generosity, meaning forgive. And pardon. I don't think a lot of people give them always benefits of doubt. One of the things you do in this month, which last week was the lecture, what was it last week.

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And I'm a role model for nahan Mancha.

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Advice people should guide people to goodness. Now I'm not going to say you go to everybody in and telling them give them lectures on talking about anything you can do. small thing changes, people, change people, you go upstairs, and you see people left the bathroom. And we always talk about that. People love the bathroom and they left the lights

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right in a gentle, nice way. Remind them turn it off

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on where they call, guide people in a nice gentle way. and receive that's one of the best things you do. And one of the best thing you do in this month and I didn't come to the external yet, because we always think of fasting everybody think of fasting, which it is, and I'm going to come to it. But before my fasting becomes special. My fasting to become sacred My heart has to be sacred in this sacred month. Don't think hi of yourself.

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Don't think I am and look what I did, and how much I do nothing. akufo aqui Roma foto de Toronto is a very famous poem in Arabic says everything above the dust is a dust.

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That's a very famous article. It's about how human beings needs to be humble and think of the beginning and the end when HELOC now. I know you do come home.

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from it, we created you What is it?

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Well, he I know you do, and we're gonna put you back in it. What is in it?

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Well, I'm in Hong Kong.

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And from it, there's not no mention of Earth. It's obvious. And from it, we're going to create to always resurrect you or recreate you back. So let's be humble. Me, it's either me or nobody else. The Ill know what I did for them. They don't know how much I did not say I lower your nerves and think of the other people and I'll share with you some stories about how people in their actions of the heart reached the actions of the people who did way more. And I think this is very important because that's individually we can work for him as the wife of Satan ahmadnagar as is the fifth Holly she was asked. What was so special about

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was the fifth califa 40 years only. He wrote only for four years. His great grandmother was a mobile hotspot for years only in his time there was nobody deserves Zika

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only four years. So she was asked what is so special about him.

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And he she said nothing.

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He wouldn't he did not trust more than what you did. And he did not pay more than what you did. And if you if you know his Who is he? You will say you really, really look what he said. And this is his wife, she said, but I have never seen someone has or had glorified a law like him. This is his wife. He's in bed and the name of Allah has mentioned he will jump like a bird.

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When he jumps when he's scared, that sometimes I say he will die this moment. And in the morning, the people, the Muslims will have no ruler.

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So panela very clear, nothing, not a lot of follow. Not a lot of Zakah Of course, the obligations on talking about the obligations are there, but I'm talking about the extra side now, beloved nosodes, very famous high caliber companion with our Swati santosa. And he lived later. And he talked to the next generation. And he said, You are and this hits us know, he said, You are? Absolutely you pray way more than his companions. And you are fasting way more than then they did. But they were much better than you. And they asked him why

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we're doing much more.

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He said, Because donia is in your heart.

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And in their hearts.

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dunia is in the heart. What I'm saying about doing in the heart, I'm not saying we're not going to leave, I'm not going to enjoy. On the contrary, they all dead, right? I mean, as I always say, I'm the wrong mode. Now say the automatic were very rich, rich, rich, rich. But it wasn't here. Their focus was not about it. But Allah gave it to them. And always we say this do I think I've said it many times in this in this place along which I'll do.

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I'll have you know, what make this life in our hands. Let's be rich, let's be educated. That's half hour. Let's be a strong nation. Why not? Why not? This is how they change the world. But was nothing their heart. And this is one of the dual language I do not

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give us this life, put it in our house, I have it, I have all the means. Don't make us attached to it and fight each other for it. And dunya is not only money and children status, who I am, how many friends I have. Who's this, who's that? So this month, mainly, is let's look inward before I will look outwards to the same Abdullah of nematodes. He used to say the following. He used to say I cannot fast a lot. He was very,

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was very famous actually was what he sought was

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described his legs, his legs was very thin, and people used to make fun of it. And he said, these two legs heavier than the mountain have heard of you see mountain of enlightened Medina, you just not one. It's a whole chain used to tell them these two legs heavier, weighs much heavier over law than the whole one whole these chain of mountains. So he said, fasting is very difficult for me.

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Because it takes me away from reading the Quran and understanding it. He's talking about the extras. And this will take us to a next thing. So what should I do in these months? And I'll give you one heavyset, beautiful man came to

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me says I want to ask you a question. And he said, who already said he didn't know me? I met you two years ago. And he said Who are you? He said, and then he gave his name. He was from A Tribe Called

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by healer.

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And then he says all What happened to you?

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He lost a lot of weight. So Pamela is like these days when you read these stories, flexor panela. He said, What happened to you? He said home the day I met you two years ago, I have not eaten except in the night.

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Meaning fasting continuously. And he said, Don't do that.

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Don't do that. A lot. Don't want us to torture ourselves.

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So when we come to what I can do, some people will say I can't fast, although fasting is one of the most beloved acts of worship Tomas pilota. So he this man said, Okay, so how much I should fast.

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He said one day, one day, a month, one day extra. He said, I'm strong. I can do more.

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He said, three days.

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Three days time, Stan says that's 30 days, three days. He said, I can do more.

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Look at this. I'm strong. I can do more. But then he said what we know Monday and Thursday, two days a week.

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But this head is what does it tell me he started with the least one day a month. Let's make it an intention. One day of this shoulder home especially

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This month because a lot of people forget the Fed. A lot of people have to remember next month because it's out of a lot of people almost everybody fast because they are far off and then we'll hold on comes ashore. But this month people forget this month the Fed so fast they absolutely we don't remember, especially us living in the West, we don't even know the calendar. Right? And that's why we all have we learn how to use the technology in every phone, whatever phone you have, that phone that that calendar has both has the history or the the lunar and has the the usual one we have added then you will know and it actually is marked. You can see it. So fasting is absolutely highly

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recommended. Because it was what they thought was said and says the best time to fast after Ramadan is one

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shahidullah he mahatama he said the month of Muharram. But, and he said some waffle fast, but don't fast at all.

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break in between. So yes, I am going to do my best to fast. If I've been in fast anything since Ramadan. One day, follow the Hadees follow the habit of roswaal a thought or so and your knee is not only fasting, but your knee is also to follow that order that he told you if I have not

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fasting alone is external back again. The best fasty the best solar, the best reading of the Quran, the Basilica, the best photo is when the heart is pure

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nulla hoppy bhulaiyaa Kabbalah, purified, purify the heart and look at it and see how the last pantalla will purify your heart and you're purified. You're a bird. There's a beautiful say, saying how many people he said I'm just translating how many people are unconstant is still far you see it on the mouth, but they are disliked by a law. And how many people are quiet. They're absolutely blessed by a law.

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And they said how how's it How's that? They say the man who is the man or the woman who's quiet, their heart is always an STL file.

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And that person was Dong is always an Easter for their heart is not an Easter.

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It's combined, not just divide. As Paulo if you see these days, we all say this, how many people like no Milan, how many people and massages everywhere millions, how long there was 7 million this year. And every small imagine here and think of everywhere in the world. And we're all we as an oma because we need to now start looking at the inside. The last thing I'll do this is going to be very soon tomorrow I want to read this to you something very nice last container maybe and I took a picture of it because I cannot memorize it. It's beautiful. It says

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my advice to you and I'm translating my This is a map of New Jersey. My advice to the person who's living in these sacred month.

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My advice to you, the person who you are living with restore life in the sacred month,

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or you're the one who are still doing home,

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still doing disobedience. And it doesn't matter if it is a sacred month, or it's not a sacred month.

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Or you were the one who in obedience of Allah, you're going backward.

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And in the disobedience of Allah, you're moving forward.

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Or you're the one who every day of your life is evil.

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And the day is worse than the day before any evil.

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When are you going to wake up from the slumber

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when are you going to wake up from this sleep? When are you going to repent from this wrongdoing? same word Allah used. When are you going to repent from this wrongdoing?

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Hasn't there read the white here gave you enough warning.

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And everybody younger old at one point will get a white here. Hasn't the white here gave you a warning? Isn't the Quran and Islam is enough for you. And then he put this poetry now I'm going to trace the poetry and he says are you going and going back going forward and coming back to one? You still enjoy the disobedience

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Aren't you to one you do not think

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You're not afraid from the day that you're going to stand in front of him. And your limbs are going to start talking about you.

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And I am so surprised that you can see. But still you cannot see the right path.

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How can you this is very common to us in dunya. How can you be okay? You're pleased with being a loser. The day the winner is the winner? How can you accept being a loser in a day where the winner will take it all? in life? in these days and age, we do not accept to be a loser. Right? We all want to have best children, best homes, and our blessing anything with this. It's beautiful actually. hamdulillah. Allah make us grateful to him. But we all aspire to work hard. Want to be the best in everything? Why not?

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Why not in the best house? On the hill? Why not my neighbor, Saraswati salt or Sarah? Why not? My subdivision is really, why not? Why not? We all look in the white when you buy a house, what do you say, right? The best subdivision was my neighbor's best schools. We should. We should but why not? And they also, it doesn't take much work inside, start working inside. So in these days, the two things, two things. Stay away from the disobedience. If I am doing 10 a day, in this month, let me do eight. I'm not gonna say be an angel in one day. Not gonna happen. Everything's nice time. But let me put it this in front of me that if I everyday I do two disobedience. I look at one thing,

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Haram. Whatever this Haram is, and I listen, or I say one thing how. And we all know when we do it. We don't need people to remind us we know that we say these two things, not today. And one of the reasons this is three months is together this month, because the two major acts of worship in Islam is during or before. Rajab is one month before Ramadan, training camp.

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Hajj is next month, those

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this month is the training camp, you cannot go to Hajj. Today you're watching TV and you're saying whatever and dressing whatever and tomorrow you're gonna go Hajj and you become a Hydra mobile, Allah is capable of doing everything that's not the usual it needs training it's not a lecture or a tool or read a book. It's training so when you go there with all the difficulties and I'm sure everybody in this room Mashallah from the know went to hide how easy it was whatever group you go with a lot with test you and then it's gonna come up, then how long is the first month of the year, you start the year with readings of a law with the glorifying a law or you have them shine your

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light to enamel.

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The person who glorify a lot symbols as a sign of this person, she or he glorified. The sign that this person she or he has taqwa these months are the signs of a lot he chose them he chose them like you say I chose this yours your choice but he's the creator and he chose this for us an opportunity to change an opportunity a reminder because we forget like when we get flu What does it remind us

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when you get flu in two days you're in the house you cannot even get out what does that remind you on law What a beautiful to be healthy what's what's me I'm I can get up and go to the kitchen with no problem and make my breakfast. But I didn't think of it every day till I got the flu. Same thing these these are training comes along remind me remind me And one last thing that we all have to remember that in these months good deeds are multiplied. And the whole three months, good deeds are multiplied, and bad deeds are multiplied.

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And because they are one of the commentary about doing your own do yourself is they say because this is the thing of St novolog nobis. Your good deeds are multiplied one day you first is not apply to first one day, three months from now. One time standards for sure. But because it's in this month, Allah knows how much it won't be. And one word, and this month is not like one word. Two months from now.

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Philosophy it's multiplied. Look at it, give it do right remind you

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each other. This is one of the best things you do remind each other and remind yourself shuffled around, see the word home and put this word to remind me Hold on Stop. Don't do the last panel without an eye previous for myself before anyone else may last pantalla make us a glorifies symbols and his symbol has not only sought out as a symbol is not only a mobile and as simple as not only hedge when I go

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to symbol It is always everything around me is a symbol is a creation is a symbol. Yvonne is a symbol, sila is a symbol

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view to me is a symbol, everything around this symbol of a loss pantalla especially those who chose to be public symbols and one of them is these three months this month, next month and the month after we are lost pantalla gives us this ability to glorify it, malice pantalla makers of those who listen to the word of admonition and I am number one before anybody else and then SME owner qualifies to be honest and they listen and they follow the best of European design from Allah Subhana Colombo

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to do so low on SES number one, he was happy to scream and get you any question

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