Sins #05 – Strengthen My Relationship with Shaytaan

Haifaa Younis


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Bismillah your man, you're walking

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you're making me loving this program even more than I always do come more. So in case people come in the same if you are more, the most beautiful person will be closer to me.

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similar, so what are we going to do today actually, if you all remember last week, we have two more Tuesday's inshallah for this series, I may continue because I still have more things to teach you, but we will see how Allah subhanaw taala will, and then we will have two weeks where I will not be teaching but the program will continue. And then we will let you know how this is going to work inshallah. So last week, if you all remember, remember, this is a series about sins. And we all agreed and all of you have learned what he learned that every time I disobey Allah what will happen?

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What will happen when I disobey Allah, something is going to happen to me. This is what I want you to know, whether I know it, whether I feel it, whether I don't that's a different story. And this is something either with me with Allah span between me and Allah subhanaw taala, which means between me and the people around me, between me and the earth, something is going to happen. And what did we talk about last week? Which relationship between me and whom? And Allah subhanaw taala? What did we say? I sin Allah subhanaw taala says go. There's so many other people I can be they want to be close to me, you go and enjoy yourself. I'm just giving you an

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idea. Now what will happen with this is related to last week. So when Allah subhanaw taala I disobey Allah, I'm too lazy, I don't wake up for Fudger I don't dress properly, I say whatever I want to say I'm like everybody else, what will happen? Allah subhanaw taala my relationship with him will be weaker. Which one will have the stronger relationship now? hamdulillah

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shape on and this is what we're going to talk about today.

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Who is he? And how he will do this. And if I can ask everybody, please don't record it's already recorded. Just a distraction for me. No other reason it's already live. And it is on the YouTube and you can all listen to it later. So number one who's shaytaan

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this is a good revision for everybody. So shaitan or at least there's two names for him. There's much more, but the common two names we all know is shaitan IBLEES Does anyone not know these two names? Alhamdulillah. I doubt it. So where is this came from this. Let's start with a bliss first and then we'll come to shaitan where does the word shape on came from?

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come from the Quran. Right? And IBLEES from the Quran

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11 times Allah use the word IBLEES in the Shabbat in the Quran, and 88 times, which we shy upon as a single or singular and as che are playing in which is multiple plural or multiple. So this the Iblees the meaning he will need to know because the meaning will tell you who is he.

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And remember everything in this deed has a name The name has a meaning. For example, I did keep reminding this for everybody in my cell what the salamin

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lab here more than a relationship connection. He HireRight translation human asleep and a suitor is another relation. So there is a connection. So when I go and I stand up in front of Alana say Allahu Akbar, I'm not doing it because my mom told me when because I'm more than I'm gonna go to Jana, then I missed it. That's why it becomes duty and I don't enjoy it. And I struggled. All of us does. But when I think of it, it is my relationship with him.

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And this is my private moment with Allah You know, when you love someone, and you take the phone and you go to your room and close the room and you want to text right and you keep reading the text. Y'all are laughing because it's true.

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All right, this is how Salah should be

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when I know the meaning of the Salah. So the same thing when we come to Shabbat but completely the opposite. So what is the bliss mean comes from the root bellezza herbalists from the Arabic language has two meanings and the two meanings related to his job description.

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You know he has a job description.

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Everyone knows the job description of shaitan make sure you and I go to Jana, right now, wrong CV, you didn't read the right one?

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Exactly. You always have to think of it this way. Unless I bring this religion to my daily life and to my own understanding is going to be something else. I don't know what they are talking about. So Bliss has two meaning number one ballasts mean he remained in grief.

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He remained in sorrow. Why?

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Come on,

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because he will never see Jana again. Period.

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Like I can never say this to anybody in this room and you cannot say this to me. You cannot say this to anyone walking on the street. You can never look at somebody says you will never go to Jana. You know why? Number one, you don't own Jana. And number two, you know how they will die.

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Even the most rebellion to human being falls pantalla you don't know what they how they will die.

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But at least for sure.

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No argument why?

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Because Allah sets a huge human trafficking ACARA gene get out of it. And it is Jana, he was there. And he was really not only there, but he was so honorable there he was the leader. So number one, he's in a grief.

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Somebody will you're living in this beautiful house on the park and someone says that's it out you will never come back again. How you will feel all your life. So that's number one. Second meaning is Bella set. Meaning

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he is the spear your Anapana Rahmatullah. He has lost hope in the Mercy of Allah. Never. For him is never for you and me for anyone outside don't you also say this? Allah Lafuma Rahim Allah all forgiving all merciful. People change. You don't know what will happen. But for him. Absolutely. So that's the second name for him. Some says also is which is very interesting. This to be honest with you. The first time I learned this, it's called his origin name is actually related era 10 beasts, which is confusion

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10 BS in the Arabic language, you're confused. It's an action when you don't know right from wrong. And they say there's two things for him. He is confused. And his job description is to make you and I confused? What is right, what is wrong? Why do I need to do this? It's not for sure. What is the Sunnah I don't know is Trivium, the Quran, all these confusion, you hear it these days, this is what I'm going to share with you today. When I become a friend of the shaitan and don't say what, what I shared with you a couple, you will see how many of us are really good friends of mine.

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By choice, by the way, and I like it. And I want more of it. Subhanallah so that's the second one. Now, the other thing for shaitan is a couple of other names for a believes is actually a more more the father of more from bitterness, because he's so bitter, bitter, because again, he's out and we are all at one point we are all in Janabi villa. Second name for it is which as you all know, is the enemy of Allah. Allahu Allah is the enemy and not you and me. Maybe it will change one day we will somebody will come and we'll talk it, talk it out and talk it through and then we'll change this is forever. Do is your enemy.

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If you can think and all of you think of an enemy in your life.

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How many of you have enemies? You didn't do it? They chose to be your enemy. How many of you?

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I'm sure at one point in your life. You had someone you want to be a friend of that person at that stage. No. You want to trust them? No. Do you want to follow them? For sure? No. So he's I do a lot pantalla and of course, he is our ru

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Z an angel or He is a gem? That's a huge debate between scholars.

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How many say Jin?

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And how many shows on how many says Angel? Of course he shows how many says Angel and how many say I have no idea. I want to see the either

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Whoever says I have no idea have given the right answer. As Fatima Malik said, man, Allah Allah, in fact, after whomsoever says I don't know gave the right answer.

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Actually, there's a huge debate between the scholars the more correct opinion based on the verse in the Quran he is, Jin Yes. Because Allah said this is all right, a curve, right with COVID-19. Monica is Julie Adam, for surgery do Illa Lisa, can Amina Genie have a Sokar number of how we have ordered all the angels to prostrate to Allah. They all did except a bliss. And in here, he used the word bliss, the name, Canada wind engine, he's from the gym.

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And why is all this debate? And I'm not trying to make you just wonder what is this information going to do to me is just to know, because if he was from the angels, he will never have this available.

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This is the argument. The difference between you, me and us and the angels? Angels never disobey Allah? Not by choice.

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They don't have Wilma Sharma. And this is why there's a huge debate between the scholars who is better us are the angels.

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Look at all of you.

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So confident.

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I'm telling them there's a huge debate us.

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Some says some, some, some says is us. Because we are by choice, obey Allah. And although it is not easy, if not sometimes very difficult. Versus the angels are absolutely. This is how they were created. never bored. Never say off. Never say why do I have to never say I'm not convinced none of that. But those who says they are better. They say because they have never disobeyed a law. And there is no human being did not disobey your law. So it's a debate, but in general shaitan is absolutely most started in stronger opinion that he is from the gym down. What is his relationship with me? Where is he?

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Where is he? Yes.

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Everywhere? No, she remembered last week when Sean ma the triangle. None of you remembered we need to a little bit. Cleanse the memory. She says if you remember the the triangle I said last week, you all need to go and listen to the class again. You're absolutely right. But where is he in my body?

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This is what I'm asking. So hadith of rasa salatu salam

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and this is actually why we fast.

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Initiate on your jury fee Benny Adam Madurodam shaitan move through the human being body like the blood.

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Yes, who? Where does the blood blood goes everywhere? Have you ever had any injury and you didn't get a at least a drop of blood, there is no place in my body doesn't have a blood, otherwise that place will be dead. And he said Daddy he salatu salam. And this is an Buhari and Muslim in a shape on age or even an insane image or dumb, the shape on moves inside you mean and I want you to think of this exact like blood. So he's here. He's here. He's here I'm looking. And in addition, some says it is not part of this hadith. This is what it is related to fasting he said when you call majority he the song, narrow his path by fasting. Why? Because when I fast what happens? I get dehydrated.

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You all know that. And when I get dehydrated, now I'm going to speak as a physician, there's something called vasoconstriction the blood vessels gets narrower or narrower, so to save the fluid in the body, so his movements will become harder is moving through narrow channels. Subhan Allah so he's everywhere around the enemy, not around you. The triangle is around me, this is inside me. So you have to know what a cask we have to be away from shaitan the more I disobey Allah and this is the triangle back again the more I disobey Allah, the further I am from Allah the closer I am to shaitan you need to know this. Why? His Allah subhanaw taala said this is the culture in the Arabic

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because it is also true. What does that mean? Allah subhanaw taala said in the Quran and of Surah talara in Alladhina taco, either Mr whom or

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four minute shaytani that call for either home.

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Move soon. Those who have Taqwa look at that, not you and me, maybe you but for sure me needs a lot of work,

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if they be will be touched by the shape on what do they do? They remember Allah, and then they become aware. Meaning, the more I am close to Allah, the more shaitan is away from me, the opposite is true. And this is what it is related to sins. Because when I sin at that moment, not all the time, that moment when I delayed my salah when I looked at her arm when I was flipping through my social media, and a lot of things I should not see, I'm looking at, at that moment, I'm far from Allah, then shaitan is going to come and says, Great, she's a great pray for me.

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And I am going to do whatever I want with her and that applies to all of us, by the way. Then what should I do? Remember Allah he is gonna move away. What is the famous surah? We all know? We all know you teach them younger than this. Mean Sheree was wasI Hannah's who's that shaitan was Was he whispered? Don't do this, do that. It's okay say this, don't you know how bad she is all this? And then you say, Ah, I wasn't villa. I shouldn't say this. What will he do? Hannah's you will go down. He will become smaller he will then disappear. But his effect will be less. And that's why the more you are in connection with Allah closer to Allah. He's much weaker, but he's not gone.

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The only time he's gone one

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when I die.

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Otherwise, he's with me all the time. So let's go to the Quran. And let's see how and what sins directly directly linked to the Shavonne Can you think of any before I give you some

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like since we do directly related to shaitan

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Say that again?

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Cable or organs?

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Absolutely. Absolutely. And I'll come to it with everyone I'm gonna give you I'm gonna give you the evidence from the Quran. Yes, I'll bowl a shot but it is not

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will fascia it will move but it's not borehole. Fascia is a morality. Yes, I'm sorry. Keeper. That's what they said.

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Heba. This is all sins but I'm talking about now I want you to focus on certain sins. This is either his character or that's what he does. So let's go together from the Quran Bismillah the first one which you all know, which is what is an assorted Bukhara, this is the first time he was mentioned. Right? And what we said to the, to the angels, prostrate to Adam and to Eve, right, except a bliss here he called him a bliss, Abba are stackable, he is refused. And he became arrogant.

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Remember this, this is his character. Every time I am arrogant, every time I am arrogant. I am absolutely taking him as my example. I'm following his foot steps. Are we arrogant? I need to see hands. It's not going to show up in the camera. So don't worry. I need to see hands.

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Really, really, what an angel community this is.

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I give you one example. This was one of my teachers actually. She said when you enter the halal and haram in Ramadan is again, extremely crowded, especially before the code says when you come to the home and you come early and you sit because there's plenty of places so look at here and you shoot an empty on the right and on the left and on the right. After a while someone comes in not from your own background. They don't speak the same language or from certain country or that country and you become very happy hamdulillah that's fine. Then when on the other side comes in someone different skin color, country language or status because it's obvious the status and you feel didn't do

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anything. You just felt inside you. I wish he goes somewhere else. You're absolutely elegant.

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And this applies to me

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Really age

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when I bully someone and this is to everybody, absolutely. I am full of arrogance because what is bullying? Bullying putting somebody down why? Because I'm better

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than I am absolutely Shavon in action and if you are a young group beautiful young lady you're shy foreigners are tiny

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in that moment imagine imagine yes imagine what Allah subhanho wa Taala is telling me and you so this is the first one which is alguns number two

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what did he describe him? As the relationship should be? Which I said it earlier in a shape on this is the likoma I do Okay, that's it shaitan is your enemy Okay, fine. I don't like him. I'm not gonna go close by No. If I could tell he do who I do work. Your relationship my relationship with with the shape on should we only under one category. And that category is is my enemy. Constant 24/7 Not only Ramadan not an outside Ramadan Yes. When I'm in Mecca, his absolute enemy. When I come to California, I go to the beach he is my friend I come back from the beach come to the masjid is my enemy it doesn't work this way.

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It's constant is 24/7. The same way my relationship with Allah is the other way around. 24/7 I am connected with Allah subhanaw taala. And he said that does he do what I do or why Allah? Why? Why? As we always have to ask why he is my enemy.

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Can anyone answer? It's in the verse actually.

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Because what does he order me to do? In Nehemiah? Morrocco this su e Well, fascia I want to call Allah He mana Tana moon, what does he do? He talks to you and me and he doesn't talk he whispers. Either you hear it inside you or someone say to you and stays in your mind and you keep thinking and what does he say?

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Make sure you obey Allah and pray good Asha. Because otherwise you're gonna go to Jana now. He's gonna go you're too tired. It's okay. Just sleep tonight. Allah is unforgiving. Make it up tomorrow morning. Stay a little bit more on the social media. What I'm looking at is nothing. It's just Instagram. It's all my friends. And in between Allah knows what I am looking at. Yeah, on what he ordered what He order in a very hidden way. So evil, fascia immortality. And he makes you and me think of Allah and say things about about Allah that we don't know.

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Every time I say something, what I think because usually we start by thinking, every time I start thinking about Allah in a way that is doesn't be fit him. Do we do that?

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Do we do that?

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Again, angels are in this community. Yes, we do. How do we do that?

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How do we think of Allah? In a way that not befitting in a word do we say

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mashallah, let me test you. How many of you in this room right or left in front of you said the word this is unfair.

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That that's it.

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That's it. When you say about something is unfair. That something who made it happen? I want to hear it. Who made it happen? Allah, Allah made something happens, right? It doesn't matter. I like it, or I don't like it in general. Who may who brought you in here today? Allah who's making me speak. Hola. So when I say this is unfair, what I am really saying about Allah.

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He is not just

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this is not right. This should be changed. Did you get the point? I'm saying things about Allah. I don't know. And who's making me say it? I Hamdulillah I hope you all are making the connections, your moral compass to order you evil act in morality, and to say things about our law. That's not true.

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Every single woman in this room myself included, young and old. We do that well to the court and and don't praise yourself. We all do it how often that's the the that's different. And what do we do after we do it? That's another thing because if I do it, we all do and I turn to Allah

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Oh please forgive me Alhamdulillah brand before I justify it, what is the big deal? What did I do? Everyone does it.

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He is going to have a party shall upon.

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Let's move more what else he does.

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That's I

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and you follow?

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We got so upset with Allah subhanaw taala true or false? He did. And he was so arrogant that to Allah, He said what you all know, by Your Majesty, by everything that I know I am gonna take them like this is what he said many ways, but I'm just the one in front of me, some sort of MISA. I am going to make sure he sang Allah, that I will be part of every human being

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all your servants and he uses the word sermon to hidden them in a bedika Nasi Obama Frodo every single servant of yours, I will have a share of them.

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I will have a share of them true or false? Is anyone in this room can says no shaitan has no piece of me.

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And then how he going to translate this piece? It depends who you are,

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who I am and what state of my life in where Rama Lodi Lindner, who I am going to make them misguided. I will miss guide them. And I'll give you some examples later about how he will miss guide me one. Number two, I'm going to order them while I'm running. No. Wait Yola imagine this, to feel this idea, this verse and to live it. Think of two people so upset in front of you. And you are watching. And that person who's so upset, look at the answers. Just wait and see what I will do to you. Today, I don't have any ability. But wait, be careful next week. Anything happened to you, you will know who did it. That's how he said it to Allah Subhanallah

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I am going to order them and they will do the following. I'm going to order them. Change your your body, they will do it. That you are your own Hulk Allah I tell them change the way you look, they will do it. Are we living this?

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And we say that I don't like the way my nose is.

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It's sad, because you know what I'm saying? I love the way you created me out long.

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Because I didn't create my nose. You didn't create my nose. I have no control over the way I look. But I'm saying to Allah, I don't like it.

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And who's telling me this shape on that's why when you read when you look at yourself in the mirror, all of you. We have to say this Doha because Allah knows what shaitan is going to come you look at the mirror, and you say I don't like it. Why my skin color is this. Why? Yeah, because that's what they they engrave in US and in the beauty standards, not Allah standards. Is people standard according to the time and the place. So what are the Roswaal risotto Saran taught you and me because you know shaitan is going to come and say this said once you look at yourself in the mirror, say the following your Allah like you beautify me externally beautify me internally, what are you saying?

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I'm beautiful self esteem that we all talk about these days. And this is one of the best way, even in medicine they tell you is talk to yourself and tell yourself, you are beautiful. You look lovely. You are so smart. This is how they tell you. You lift up your self esteem. Don't wait for people to lift it up. Because that's what he does lower it and make you change it. And what do we say to him?

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Send me an hour bhana? Yes, sure. show up on set. So I'm doing it. We don't say show up on set. So but I don't analyze it in that way.

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What is the other major sins? These are external? Maybe? I'm sure nobody in this room does that. But alcohol, gambling, right? Going to a fortune teller and asking her or him what is going to happen in my life. And Allah said, these are from shaper. And he does this to you. So you will hate each other.

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So anytime I do this, I'm absolutely taking him as I'm befriending him. He's my friend. Come. Whatever you tell me. I'll do it. Allah said that. Let's look at the next one. How many of you complain of Bad Company?

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Bad Company. I wish he is not in my class. I wish he is not my co worker.

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I wish they are not my neighbor. How many

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all of us at one point in our life and you may do Annaleigh took them 100 Or Allah kept them but but he made you doesn't care anymore. Also hamdulillah or you're still struggling May Allah make it easy.

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Look what Allah said

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about chiffon he's talking to us while he sought to sell and this is also a tool and and the cattle, he said well right into Lavina your whole own Effie, I think everyone who had a whole Luffy Hadith in very well may were in my uncle naccache upon that at that point, brothers DICOM and call me a volume when you see people talking about subjects that is not pleasing to us. Or they talk about our signs and Quran and Sunnah in a way, not pleasing to Him. Imagine this is in the Quran. And you see these days and you hear people talking about the Sunnah and they don't even know the name of Imam Buhari.

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When people look at me and asked me, How do you know Imam Bihari book is right. You all have heard this? You know what my answer? Can you please tell me the name of Imam and Buhari?

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What is his full name? The Hadees is Connie cornea. Because he came from Bihar. What is his name? Nobody knows. So how can you talk about a book you don't even know the name of the author?

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Next thing I said How big is the book of an imam Buhari already know the Arabic how many volumes?

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Nobody knows. So how do you judge about something like I don't like icoi and I live in Wisconsin. How do I know? I haven't even put a foot in here.

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So Allah St. Thomas Wiley salatu salam when you see people are discussing, talking negatively about our size, don't sit with them. But company. And if she can make you forget, this is to Roswaal risotto Sara, not to you and me. Imagine and if she makes you forget, don't do it again.

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We're in Mayans, you were in Yun Sienna cache Tata called by the DECA don't do it again. To Roswaal is AUTOSAR that company? When I have a bad company, the first question I'm going to ask as well was not my fault. Its shape on what brought shaper.

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What made shape on have influence on you. I invited him, I followed him. I made his path easy. I made his influence on me easy. And the best way to move him away is reconnect with Allah. There is no other way. It's either I am with Allah Santa Ana or I am with shaitan. And of course my nerves who he works on it. So bad company. Look at the number three, four. I don't know

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how many of you. I asked you all have question today's but that's okay. How many of you let's see from the use now. When someone come and look at him says you're wrong.

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And that's very common. What do you say?

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You're wrong? What do you say?

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You say okay, really? Who's that angel?

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What do we normally say? You are wrong.

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Don't you say this to me?

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Right. And you keep back and forth? And she says no, you're wrong. Now how do you how do you know I am wrong. And then there's a lot of discussion, argumentation.

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Young and old. In massage it outside massage at work at home between husband and wife, mother and daughter, father and son, everybody. Absolutely one of his tools.

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One of his tools. And how is that we're initialled Lena. They go home. They eat out Olia him, New Jersey do Allah says this also sort of announced Shayateen will whisper to their allies, because he's not one he has many. And tell them to argue.

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And that is why are soiree salatu salam said whosoever leave argument, leave argument, and he knows or she knows they are right. mantero can Mira Wahoo Allah.

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He or she has a house in Jana?

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Because it's very difficult, because I'm right. I know. You know what's happened with me very common. I'm sitting with a group of people. I'm a physician. And Allah Subhana Allah gave me some knowledge. So a question about OBGYN I'm the only one in the room. Everybody answer.

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I didn't even say Bismillah.

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And the answer is wrong.

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And now remember this, right? Let alone about the deen and the question is to me and everybody is m of t.

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Don't argue.

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Whenever you feel you're arguing, and you whenever you start feeling you know that what happens in here? You start feeling on calm

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have trouble. I need to make sure she knows that she's wrong, that she will never talk to me in this way in the future. You that's when you stop.

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That's when you're going to say

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he's sending all his soldiers to me. So I continue.

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And because Allah says why me I thought to move on with Nicola moose raccoon, if you will follow them and listen to them. You're absolutely coming to a state of mind or should.

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So argumentation, argumentation, whoever doesn't argue doesn't mean you're weak. On the contrary, believe me, the strength is when you hold yourself. The strength is when you don't say anything. And you know, you're right. There is no way. But you say, You know what? I'm not gonna let you fine. Have an influence on we talked about arrogance that $100 brand

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says misguidance Does he miss guide me?

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Does he miss guide you? I want to hear it.

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That's Yes. There's more than 100 women in this room. So 97 They are not misguided. MashAllah shaitan has no influence and only three or four?

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Yes, you need to acknowledge the facts because I'm not going to change. It's okay. If I say you know what, I'm not an angel. I'm a human being. And he has influence on me. Not all the time. But definitely he has. That's when I become misguided because misguidance is either temporary in the morning, or in the evening. Or in that day, or that week. In sha Allah is not that month in that year. So let's look at it why why? And Allah subhanaw taala said this isn't so a lot of furries can have a year and a half cara hemlibra Allah subhanaw taala divided the human being says people this is their, the Day of Judgment, people became to two kinds, people who are guided and people who are

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misguided five, why?

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In Muhammad Taha the shayateen, only when Gunilla, he is a wound and the home was the room. They took shaytaan as their friend and they think they are right.

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If you talk to people, especially Muslims who know and you say why don't you do that? They start arguing. Very few they will say you know what, I don't know. Please tell me, please teach me or they will say I know that I'm weak. That's fine. Make make dua for with Allah keep me stronger. Allah they Allah who I don't know if I share this with you. This was like 15 years ago, I was going for Umrah young woman who's in her 20s At that time, and says, Dr. heifer you're going for AMR I said, Yes. Can you make it happen? And I always ask people, What do you want?

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I want to learn and what they do ours, they usually my children, you know, my career will get my daughter married to get my son Mary do the usual things, right? This was not even Jana. What was the DUA?

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ask Allah to make me sincere.

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More or less Subhan Allah, me ask Allah to make me sincere. Because that's it. If you are sincere with Allah subhanaw taala. Don't worry about him, you will have no room for you. You will go and find somebody else. You are here to learn only. I am here to support his knowledge only. You are here to get a budget to become a better human being. I don't care what people say. They don't know. And don't worry about what people say about you outside. They don't know say no, I'm not always used to say this. Elena vorher or Sarah Iran, the more he said we know only the external. The internal is what Allah

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sincerity which was given to you. Honestly, let me die this moment. Because that's it. That's what he wants from me. So he exactly works on the opposite.

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He makes me look at people and I want to please you will please you What did she say about me? What'd she do my friend? would she say this? Or do this that's what he wants me. And I forget Allah. And I'm gonna have so many small friends, small close friends. Once I take him as a friend, then that is it. I will become misguided.

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Because this one this is a beautiful words of Allah subhanaw taala. One day will allow we will do the parables in the Quran. So beautiful science. When Allah subhanaw taala give you this parable. Why? So this parable Allah gave it like this? How many of you like dogs? You're going to look at me What is she saying? I didn't say haram ohada I said like dogs. The creation of Allah right

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I'm not going to get into the the argument. But look at this. There's a parable of a dog in the Quran yes or no. And there's a mention of a dog in the Quran. One of them is a sort of calf, the young man of cab they have their dog with them. That's one way there's a parable about the Quran about the dog in the Quran. And this may Allah not make any one of us this parable. And this is how shaitan works what through Allah you never a lady attina Who is Athena and Salah Homina for at the bar who shave on a cannon remember how we were shooting a lot of an Obeah when I came

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in a lot of Tubba now the dog for masala who can method can in Tamil Allah he yell has outer truco Yan has done ecommerce I will call me Latina because there will be IR Tina talks also Casa La La Jolla and Africa. Let's translate. Tell them recite to them Rasul Allah salatu salam, the parable of that person it's a to some say it's a true story. But some says it's a parable. That person who we gave him or her our signs, what is the signs for us? I want to hear it. What is the signs the biggest sign Allah gave us Quran? Absolutely we all have it doesn't matter you know or we don't know or we you read it you don't really tell us different story he gave you to you and me. The fact that

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my Muslim Quran is mine. What through Allah, he must have it now if you know he gave it to you. And to me, what did we do?

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Consider him enough. He stripped himself away from it. I'm translating the words. That's not my word. Fansler Homina you moved away from the Quran. too hard, too difficult. Don't have time. It's okay. I'll resume Ramadan. All these excuses. Now what will happen where is shaved on here for Activa who shave on

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once you put Quran on the side, once you put Quran on the shelf, and you bring it down when someone dies, Quran, honey all this only show your time immediately for you.

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For Atiba will show you a bond for condominial Hawi Shavonne followed him he become misguided. And then Allah says, And if We willed, We have elevated

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Quran, we would have elevated him, but he or she chose this is what he said chose UCLA, decadal old he didn't want to be elevated. He didn't want to have a status

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with Teva, and he followed his own desire. Where is the dog now?

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For Matthew, who can actually kill

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the parable of this person? Those of you who don't like the dog, now, we know that's not unclear or whatever or I'm scared when you look at the dog you go remember? Am I that parable?

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Am I the personal Allah gave me the Quran? And everyone in this room gave Allah gave us the Quran? Am I that person? And I chose not to use it and not to follow it chose not to use not to follow it and I became like the dog into homily. He'll have otter to Korean Has he always pants

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whether there's something on his back or something not on his back.

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What is the parable is very beautiful. Whether you put the Quran and you give it to that person, but they don't use it the same as the as if you don't have him because both they will become misguided.

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Che Athan his main mission, one of the main missions is that he pushed you me in a way me and you away from the Quran.

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And I'm not talking about you focus on the church read and that's good. Or focus on the memorization and the child knows nothing of what they are reading or memorizing. I'm talking about understanding if every woman Allah Allah the eye level, young and old in this room, only understood one surah that 1/3 of the Quran which surah.

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Al last sincerity. One. You spend a month, every day, not only reading it, but understanding what it is see what shaitan will do in your home. You will run away or go to the neighbors.

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He said I don't have any any food in this house.

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misguidance is because I in I call him I introduce I actually invite him

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I saw them and I entertain him. misguidance look at the next one.

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How many of you you say Oh, she's so jealous of me.

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How many? Yeah, huh? Right. Right. And the the adults don't say that they feel it.

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Okay, jealousy

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and this is similar to So, in the beginning you all know the words but you probably never made one plus one equal to inshallah Allah Bonilla Laxus will yaka Allah Watseka why fear ki do like a Kada. And in a shape on Lillian Sani I had a warm will be son, don't say your dream. There's a lot of lessons you learn from this verse. Don't talk about what Allah gave you in front of people. Because people will get jealous. And this is what he was telling him. Don't say it. Don't say your your dream, because that father said, now who is an OB he knew this is a huge dream. He said, Don't say it in front of your brothers, they will plot against you. And then he said shame on is a huge, a

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clear enemy to human being, meaning he will make them jealous, and he will make them plot against you.

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When I am so jealous from someone. And you know what jealousy is? First thing you need to remember chiffon has taken over, and you need to push him away.

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Or if someone is jealous make you out for them.

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Don't say I'm going to be even more jealous. That's Wait, what she what I will do too. Don't do that. Don't help shaitan of the others help others against shape on? Yeah, Booney. Allah talks us through, don't speak or don't say or recite or tell them you're

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gonna have a little bit of time, five minutes.

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Have you ever been betrayed?

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Where do we start?

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The younger you are, the more the stories. And then that's what he said. We said, and betrayal. And this is the worse.

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This is very handy longer probably and here because of the solder. This is the scenario. And I said this to you when we talked about Day of Judgment. Maybe some of you were not there. They have judgment. We all we're going to be there. And we're going to be and he's going to be talking to us shaitan Wirkkala shaitan lemma or the

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when everything is done. We're in front of Allah. He decided where are we going to be going? Right. And we all be the devil ended up in Jana. I have to remind everybody you say that you know had Allah the abode is Jana. But how long is the detour? That's the question. So as we are going to the detour, may Allah not make us go shaitan will be with you. What kind of shade on a marco de la shaitan will say at the end,

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the MA Adil Ahmed in Allahu wa other Kumada Allah promised to the truth. We'll have to call for love to come. And I promised you and I did not keep my promise. For my current reality commercial con. I have no power over you. Illa and Tao taco festival optimally, I called you and you responded.

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I call you don't wear your hijab. Don't pray in the morning. It's okay. Look at this haram say this. He just was put and I said I mean.

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And then he said fell out alimony. Well, you will move on. Don't blame me. Blame yourself. Man, I'll be Muslim, I cannot help you.

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And you will not be able to help me oh man to be Muslim. In the effort to be more structure more human. I say to Allah subhanaw taala I have nothing to do with what they

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followed or what they did. I have nothing to do with absolute betrayal. How you will feel

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you all have That's why I asked you. Have you felt so painful when someone betrayed I think one of the most painful feelings because it's disappointment. It's anger. It's pain, all of the above. And this is there. And I can change it. I can change it and I will end up with this because this is very beautiful. And it's actually quickly I will say

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How many of you waste

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reading waste waste? Waste food waste water waste resources are wastefulness absolutely your front of the shaitan wa T the Kuba who will Myskina webinars savvy wala to Birdsville kappa zero in the movie arena, one shot on what kind of show

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upon your Be careful,

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do not waste I'm just stating half of it don't waste. That's what Allah saying. Not to but the tobira don't waste plenty, everything I have it. So what there will those who waste so every one, whether again its water, its time its resources, its food, it doesn't matter electricity, you go to the bathroom downstairs and you leave the lights on why? Or it's not my house that's even worse.

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In number three those who waste are the sisters and brothers of shaitan. So if I come to you, when I see that you are making wudu with a bloke with a flood zone and the water is running and I'm looking at USA sister, mashallah, what a beautiful resistor to the shape army. What are you going to say? What did she say? Why is that? And I'm just going to call the verse.

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It's not my word. That's what I keep reminding you see, it's not my word says words. You read all this? Where is it in my life? Bad language.

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Far will words.

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How will words if word was word whatever words

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and I'm looking at everybody, because if your daughter say it, you say it in the house? Where did she learn from?

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I had a young girl very recently and I couldn't believe what I heard. And she come from an amazing family. So where did you hear this? Says my older brothers on they dropped me to school. That's what I hear. I can't tell you the words I was like, Well,

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what Allah says we'll call a buddy. Your call will let you hear Essen initially upon Enza will be in a home in a Shavon candidate in Sani I do one more Bina rasa discipline? If so, tell my my servants, Are you a servant of Allah? Are you a servant of Allah, then this is for you. And me. Say the best way use best language, because it is from Shavon Shavon will whisper between them to say this. Every time you're in school, and you hear it, don't do like them. But don't look at them down also make dua for them. You're not pushed the SharePoint away. That's what Shavon does. Makes you say bad words. SubhanAllah. I will end up with this because I'm going to give you the medicine.

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And Allah said it beautifully. So to Zoho one my Yashwant declare ramen, mocha, you'd love to share your thoughts Shavon for who? Allahu arraign Yola, you all know the verse.

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The person who stay away from the remembrance of Allah Yasha becomes blind actually one of the meanings of it. This is what we will do Allah saying this, we're gonna get straight on join them and becomes you know what's earning close companion you got your shadow You move and move your cough shadow cough What are your doula who shaitan for who wanna who arraign and what do they do? We're in the home layer so do no harm and disability are so gonna know what they do. And they make sure those companions that you aren't misguided and you think you are right. May Allah Subhana Allah protect us all. May Allah subhanaw taala make us from those who listen hamdulillah but also learn but the most

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important thing is to neonatal colon a tibial nerve center and they follow the best of it. May Allah subhanaw taala make your shaitan and mine always harness always that small. Have no impulse no influence, no effect on you. Subhanallah homophobia Handicare Shalu Allah Ya Allah Hyla and stuff Hirokawa to booty Salah wanna say you know Muhammad Ali, he was Harvey testament Katya desert from Allah Hi urine. Let's get ready for Salah Nila