Haifaa Younis – Sins #06 – Weaken Our Relationship with the Prophet Muhammad

Haifaa Younis
AI: Summary © The transcript describes a series of disconnected conversations and topics related to Islam, including the importance of learning the Hadith and practicing it to avoid becoming angry. They also discuss the importance of avoiding negative comments and staying quiet, as well as personal and business-related topics such as Jana's business and her response to various requests. The segment emphasizes the need to practice these principles and avoid becoming angry.
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Sara Murray come

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to quiet because it's raining.

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Sam Aliko

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Smilla well hello salatu salam ala Rasulillah while early he was so happy he woman Hala Loma Linda Mayan fauna on finer Bhima alum tena Nikka Simeon would you withdraw Lamoni I will go become an admin I am fat what I'll be like show and I've seen letters about what do I mean like you SMA or Bonilla to the Kulu bonobo is had eaten our Hublin amulet and Curfman in a country will have to be strictly Sodre USA li Emery Watlow longer term listen you have Coco coli. How's everyone doing humbler?

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How was the day there's rain everybody was saying you're waiting for this rain

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hamdulillah Hello blind what is the dua when you see ring?

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Allahu Allah.

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So you've been Nafa and then when it gets very heavy which happened in Medina

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Yeah, but before that

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when it gets very heavy tap and did his time actually there was almost a flood. What did he say?

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Muhammad he started by this Allah Maha Elena Allah Allah Hina. She Allah wrongdoers, but not on us. Allahumma tsuchiura la Mola Sophia dub your Allah make it rain, that it's a source of Rama, not because of punishment. Because when any, of course, you know, Medina is a desert so there isn't that many clouds and rain. So one time there was clouds coming in. And he was with the seed eyes and she looked at him and she saw his face changed. You said the Rasul Allah, its cloud. This is good news. Right? What did he say?

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Every time you see cloud, you need to remember this.

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She said it's cloudy. So there is rain is going to come. This is a very good news. Why your face changed. What did he say? He quoted the verse from the Quran

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five, that's okay. I'll teach you that's why I'm here. So he said to her, how do I know this is not the same source of punishment that the people have had. And he caught the verse in Surah Tala off he said, Hello, Mara. Oh, wow. We're stuck with me. Oh, dear to him on Haha, you don't mean Aruna? Well, who am I started to be very hung up here. Either boo NaVi Bulama or oho and they so are you don't stop Camila Oda to you when they saw the clouds coming towards the valley or ohada ARIDO mon Petrona. Oh, these are clouds. Rain is going to come they were very happy. And Allah has responded.

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Pablo Hidalgo Montagnana Well, who am I started to be No, this is what you are asking your prophets let him destroy us. Or Johan V ha guna alim, it's winged that's going to come and bring severe punishment. So every time you see this, you know yes, it hamdulillah in general, rain in the Quran is always came in the, the

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in the form of Rama in the form of good news, but also you don't know so always always when you see rain Aloha Mahalo, you're gonna start to become severe or continuous. It's been 24 hours. Right since last night Mahalo. It is raining. So now we start voting because there was a flood warning. I'm sure you all have it on your phones. Now you start worrying. So Aloha, mahalo Elena. Elena, along with Allah Sophia. rathmore, less perioden Allah make it it's rain that will bring mercy loving mercy of yours. And the most important thing when you see rain, what do you do?

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I can't hear you one person. Yes, it's one of the times we do eyes granted, whatever it is, doesn't matter. You're alone let me pass the exam. hamdulillah your OB please give me a child hamdulillah any as long as the DUA is not haram or cutting the relationship or any other DUA and then you have all day from yesterday today to make

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the DUA So may Allah subhanaw taala always shower us with his Rama and having said the word Rama. This is what we're going to be talking about today. You probably never thought of this subject. Is that when I am using this is we're continuing with the series. When I am using what will happen to me and you my relationship with the Manila Alameen the one that Allah subhanaw taala sent him as a mercy loving mercy to us will be severed.

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Gradual, you never think of it.

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You never think of it. And before I come to how is that is going to happen. But let's talk about chooser. Rasool Allah salatu salam

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Yeah, he's a Mohammed Abdullah Abdullah Mata

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I'm not talking about that. And I'm not talking about the seerah. You know, he was born in Makkah, and then there are three all memorized. Who is he for you?

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Other than he's Rasul Allah Who salatu salam, literally, this is the first question you all ask yourself, and don't answer me is all about me. Who is he in your life? To questions, and we have to be very honest with each other. Does he have a place in your life? But tell me yes.

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I'm talking about real place in your life. And I'm going to come and show you his place where the Sahaba and then you tell me where is he in my life and yours?

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So number one was pantalla defined why He sent him Omar Sana, you all know this. Omar Sana kala Rahmatullah Alamy. We have not sent you but as a source of loving mercy to the people, meaning now you all know the verse What does it mean?

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When Rasul Allah Sato Salam told you don't do that. Don't say it's not fair. Don't say this is too hard. This is mercy. He sent him for that. And when you see MA in the Arabic language, meaning everything that is going to follow, is that the reason there is no other reason. So when he told me and I'm going to give you three examples, at the end of three things, he said, Don't do and let's see how many of us, does it. So here you go. Anything or Soiree. Salatu Salam told me he did encourage me told me about the reward, it's mercy, do argue,

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let alone and I'm hearing it this again and again and again, including last night.

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You all say this hadith is not strong. This hadith is weak. I'm not listening to any Hadith.

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I heard the class night.

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So you'd be very careful when you talk and what you say. Marcin na que la rahmatan de la la me and who is he? And how much we love him. What is his status all Allah?

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Does anyone can think of what is the status of rasa risotto Sam muda Allah. Who is he with Allah?

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He's a messenger, of course. But it's not like any other messengers is 300 plus messengers. What's was it's only human another messenger.

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Only humans say Brahim hurried Allah. And you know what's clearly the law is not the friend. Absolutely not a good translation. Or you know, what is the one that you really love? Deeply that they go through your blood.

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You know, when when you say it's a figure of speech, I love them to the point I feel they are going through my blood or the whole Khaleel.

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And he said Ali salatu salam. He said, This is June doopsie. In June, he said I heard the Rasul Allah salatu salam saying this five days before he died

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five days before he died normally, and he knows he's going to die. So things he say and teach you and me it's very important. You watch he wants you on me to remember and he said the following in the abroad, it Allahu Hakuna li mean, come on, Holly. I am free or I acknowledge to Allah subhanaw taala I didn't take any human being as a hadith as a really close friend that goes in my blood.

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Your friend and he didn't say at the messenger, so hey, makan Helene or Rama. I am the hurried of Allah. He chose me. He chose me as a Harley. If I was allowed to take a Harley, who would have been so you'd know

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what a quantum attack is on Halina to have the two Ababa clean Kalida if I would have chosen

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friend as special friend, it would have been outside in Abu Bakr, that takes you to who was Abu Bakr

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who is saying that we welcome that Allah so Allah Santosa, these special messenger to Allah chose him. So that's number one. Number two, let I'm just going to take you through maybe things you know what maybe things are, let's say it's like taken, but we need to go back and define who is he in our life? And he said about him. So I think he's salatu salam, he said, and I say you do well at the Adam, while I am the leader of the sons of Adam, and I am not boosting. That's what he said. I thought why not? Oh, Elementor shortcode one who Yeoman pm and and the first one, the Earth was split. And I will come out on the Day of Judgment. First one. Well, I forgot he kept saying this

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well for her no boosting I'm not bragging in our term. What an overview shafa and I'm the first one who will intercede. Allah will allow him to intercede what an Orwellian which affair and I am the first one who Allah who will allow me to intercede to some

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One that's why we pray that he will intercede.

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But why will he intercede for me?

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What did I do for him?

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Honestly, what did I do for

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my relationship with him? Is it sunnah

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is how we look at it.

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It's soon.

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And now on the day of judgment that day I really need I turned to him and I begged him.

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But he's he's going to do it because his rules ie not you and me, why not? Oh, well, OSHA fair. Why? What are you want? We'll have the VOD and the banner of gratitude or praise will be carried by me when alpha Hall.

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This is who is he? Or he salatu salam. And this is what we need to teach our children.

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But if I don't know it, how they will learn.

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Get yourself familiar with him Maliki salatu salam, not only again, his Sierra, the general Sierra, we all know, as I said to you about maybe four or five weeks ago, the book about Shama, but him how he looks. Remember I wrote to sum up from the book, The make this book as a reading book in the house. Every day after maghrib. After I share that dinner table, just read one, it's very easy. Just read something about how long has here? What's the color of his eyes? What did he like to eat for that? He said, simple things is not like, you know, heavy, heavy things. And you all know what he suffered. So you and I sitting in this masjid, saying La ilaha illa. Allah. I don't have to take you

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again through the Sierra, or what did he suffer? We get so upset. When someone talks about us.

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When someone says something negative about you, we get so upset, so hurt deeply, especially when it comes from

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when it comes from

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beloved one, closest one, someone who have done a lot of things for them, and they absolutely Forget it, and they just attack you.

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Did he go through that? Who talked about says family?

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Crazy? He is a magician, right? You name it. He wrote the book. And on and on at the end of what did they do? In our daily language kicked him out of his house.

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And his beloved city? What did he say to Macau when he left?

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He looked back and what did he say?

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Hola in Nikita habla de la you know? Calbee by Allah he looked at it looked at the mountains. Imagine the feeling right? When imagine when you are here. You've been here for 20 years. This is your child. Some of you born raised here. Then somebody just keep making your life difficult to the point is I'm leaving. I can't stay here anymore. How painful is this? And for nothing. You didn't do anything on the contract?

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And then he looked at McCann says we're logging Akela Habibollah Delilah Colby. By Allah, you're the most beloved piece of Earth to my heart. When hola como que Rajani Mahalo. And if it was, it was not for my people moving me out, I will never leave. And that's why when he came for the conqueror of Makkah, most of the people of Medina they said he's not coming back.

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He loved it.

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But that tells you who's he always preferred others or for himself?

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Because he will never leave them. And he said this, you know, the famous

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and one day inshallah we will share it when he when they all said that's it, and they sent Saddam know about the go and go and find out is he going to stay with us or he's going back to his people. And then he said, the meaning of it. How can I leave you You are the people who accepted me. You're the people who supported me.

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And then you got jealous because I gave this person this person more than the new and that's where he died. Ali salatu salam. So here here we are. The question comes what I did a new date for this Deen

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what I sacrifice for this religion will lie Aleikum everybody. Everyone in this room don't answer me. Go home. Take two minutes. Sit down, young and old. And say what did I sacrifice for this Dean? Let alone What did I do for him and a Salah to a sinner just to say thank you.

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Just to say Jazak Allahu here. This is what you do that you are when you go and visit Medina in the role. What do you do you face the guy his grave and what do you make you make dua for him. What do you say?

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Met long dua but the point is you have delivered the message right Asha

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Do unlockable after we sell our data Amana we bear witness you have delivered the message and you fulfilled the

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trust and then you turn to a man says jazzy Anna cinema zeta or hieromartyrs Eight and Sabine and almighty your Allah rewards in the best way you reward profit for his for his people

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and you say to yourself What did I do for this religion and for this for him money Salah to sell versus how much I did for me or my family, my beauty, my career, my and my in my in my

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life and then I want him to intercede for me in the Day of Judgment

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Subhan Allah

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rasool Allah Salatu was I'm going to give you examples of how much they loved him, or you already, some of you may need to take your tissues out. And this is a description of one he was in your hood in the Battle of a hood, not in the beginning, when terrorists things turned around, turned around and say the Haldeman when he turned around, y'all know the story, those of you who went to Medina if seen it, right, he turned around, and he turned around and other parts of the army was in the site, and they basically were trapped.

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Every direction they were attacking them, many of the Sahaba flew, literally ran away. Very few stayed and I'm going to give you examples of the very few who stayed including to woman and this hadith is to woman but the other one famous one is new Sabir but I'll tell you this, and he said a man called Abu Talhah.

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So I will call who was a famous Archer, like you know, somebody is a famous this but he was a famous Archer. So this is what happened. They retrieved back to the back the back of the Roswell risotto Santa, he was behind him was the mountain or the small Yeah, there was mountain or hood and he was there and the Sahaba whoever stayed literally surrounded him and one of them was Abu Talhah and he was a famous Archer and literally in that day in that day that many he sent the he actually broke two or three of the arches broke and whoever comes in have arches throw it to elbow Paula and they said and Russia they saw to Sam was behind him so one time when I saw they saw it with some stood up

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to see what is going on. He said everyone to me Allah so Allah, I will give my mom and dad for your life. Put yourself down I don't want them to see you.

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Meaning let them kill me. But my team

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let them kill me but not you.

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And they say they saw him almost sleeping and he still throwing all these arches. Yeah, Billy boohoo as they say, and say to Aisha and say that also name to woman.

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To woman What did they do? It's a chaos. I mean, if you if you if you read about it, it was literally a chaos. The two woman they even said they they lifted up their dress so they don't trick tied it and they carried the water on the back and then came into whoever needs water give water this empty or unblock you're talking about this is in the middle of fighting

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to woman.

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Same question is going to come to me what did I do?

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I just complain.

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Honestly, she was so good in complaining. Complaining about the Dean complaining about some complain about Allah subhanaw taala complaining about trouble Swati salatu salam but we don't complains clearly but our * our our state tells me this tells me this everything is complaining and turned around to myself. What did you do that you carry a water and gave it to a needy person and there is people fighting you and there's a good possibility you will die.

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Look at the next one. This one is actually very amazing.

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So Rahsaan I saw to sit down, went to the barber

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back to haircut.

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What did they do the Sahab?

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Does anyone know?

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They went followed him. When he sat and the barber start to cut. What did they do?

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They put their hands right there. surrounded him with their hands. They just want one hair to fall on in their heads in their hands.

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This is actually unseen and it is in masa Muslim. He said not only look at the right to rasool Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam what halacha what offer me here is horrible for my Regina and Tasha Allison laughing at Roger. So that I saw this is a madness. He said that I saw the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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got a hair cut by the barber and the companion came around him and they eagerly wanting not a single hair to fall but in their hand that's called

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This is love. This is not pretending. This is not just because this is love you don't do these things unless you love someone.

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If you love someone you will run to solve them without even they are saying a word yet.

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You want to make sure they're comfortable without them asking because you love them. You don't know who's coming today and your face smiles and you want to serve them for me to get up for my sunnah for my wardrobe, let alone for OSHA. Good luck.

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Don't talk about your son.

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Don't talk about Monday and Thursday.

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Yesterday was a Eclipse right? What is the Sunnah when the eclipses the

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Even you can do it at home not necessarily in the masjid.

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What is the dua What did he say when he saw an eclipse? That's all him or a solar to Sarah.

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Now Allah subhanaw taala What did he tell us to do with the Roswaal is

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very clear in the Quran.

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What did he say number one before follow.

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He said it's always together while to Allah wa to have a suit. Well after your Allah Azza wa rahmatullah wa to Allah wa Rasool three ways came in the Quran

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what are your Allah What are your all of us who will fit into our Latham for in Amana rasool Allah will Mubi Allah said this is Kurata knew the light, obey Allah and He repeated the word obey. That's a form of emphasis. And so you know, the, you know, where is he? Because he said, OPTIO Allah wa Aveo Rasool

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is not as Allah subhanaw taala Of course he's a human being, but the order for obedience, don't make it less because Allah made it the same.

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And then he said, you don't want it

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for interval.

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Exactly. You don't want it. Okay, your choice. Panama Rasool in unbelievable movie, the only thing he came is to deliver the message is what I always tell people, when you call someone just now, whether it is your close relatives, whether it's your neighbor, whoever is that person, don't get upset if they don't listen to you.

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And he keeps saying this and you are absolutely calm. Because if you get upset, it's your knifes

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it's you you want people to listen to you. You're gonna upset How dare they don't listen to me versus you say, you know, in Amala or Sunil Bella will movie I delivered the message when I'm in front of Allah subhanaw taala I said you're above Allah, whatever you taught me I thought they didn't listen.

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Well, I'll tell you a lot of the older school things I will lead to you in a manner or sooner is better when moving in another form. And here this is probably you know this and this isn't Certainly sir. The Woman Oh my god, I love how Rasulullah

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is this is the condition. You obey Allah Hangul Rasul, he put them together without repeat repetition, what is going to happen? Where will you be?

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You will obey Allah Allah Rasool is not one of them both. Same what will happen for Hola, Erica dos.

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Hola, Allahu alayhi mon nabina. Also, the Athena was shahada or Salah ahead what Hassan Allah ICA or fee if you want to be with the prophets, show me hands. You want to be with the prophets on the Day of Judgment, show me hands. You want to be with the truthful people show me hands. You want to be with the righteous? You want to be with the martyrs and you didn't go out and you didn't die? Nobody killed you. That's what he wants you to obey Allah. What are what has to know like coffee or water company? What are friends they are, what a companion they are.

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His obedience is equal to the obedience of Allah subhanaw taala and he said here again, and may your prayer Roger, this is the clearest indication or the clearest statement in the Quran that you are obeying Rasul Allah Santosa you're obeying Allah. It's not the other way around. Or my neutral Rasulullah

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Dakka Dakka Allah you know which mashallah Tabata. Kola Hamdulillah.

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You obey your Roswaal SR to certain automatically, you have obeyed Allah.

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Woman tell Allah

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In the same concept, those who doesn't want it, don't want to do it. What is the Sunnah too hard. I'm too busy. I have too many things to do. Okay? My Utopia was wonderful Cuddapah Allah wa lento Allah, he's telling it to Roswaal. So to ascend, don't get upset. Don't worry, Palma or Santa Kalyan? Kathiawar we did not send you as a protector. They have to do with they have to listen. No, it's your choice.

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It's your choice. And this is what I say to myself be smart and make the right choices.

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Because it's only one chance once I leave there is no more chance my Utopia rasool Allah Allah aumento Allah declined you don't like it you don't do it from our sun Naka Lee have healable

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Allah subhanho wa Taala said this is probably one of the I think it's the only one that tells you

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okay, let me ask you this before I say the state how many of you love Allah

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the last two hands I want to see

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what is the sign you love Allah from the Quran

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what's the sign I can claim whatever I love you I really like I can't sleep if I don't see sure Show me

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and he said it it's an assault Ali Imran cool in continue to have worn Allah factor we are only all of you know that I am Mashallah.

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If you really love Allah, and Allah has seen Turo, Swati sought to ascend. You know what I want you to feel these words I'm sharing with you. It was it came down to Rasul Allah, soft yourself, he was hearing it before I and you know it. So imagine Allah tells you, if you really love me, you better follow him. Who are you with Allah?

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So Allah here it comes to me. And Allah is saying to me, tell them if they really love me love Allah, they better obey you. Who are you? Imagine a president as dignitary, a king, whatever the biggest in this world, right, calls you.

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And so you tell it and then make a public announcement on Twitter, 3 million followers

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or four or five or whatever, or a small tick tock video

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saying that dignitary,

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I love her. You better love her. The sign you will love her. Is when you obey her. The sign you will love me as a dignitary is you obey her. Who are you people will say who she will

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call you in contempt of her bone Allah. Toby only you love Allah. And he puts foul. Those of you who know r&b meaning

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right away

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is not let me think about it. When I grew up in the summer when I finished class when I know

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it translated then but it's immediately like when you come in the door there's two people coming if somebody comes in the next one is immediately after you say she entered and it's both and but it's not the same in our OB. But if you come in and then after five minutes another person comes in, say toma

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here Allah says the sign you love me. immediately follow Rasul Allah salatu salam and what is follow? What is follow? Someone follows. When you say my shadow follows me. What does it mean? We all say that what is the shadow? My shadow follows me what does that mean? I go right. The shadow goes right, I go left. The shadow goes left the shadow doesn't say the Hadith and double hurry or not.

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Or is this is strong or this is too difficult. The Shadow also I can't move is too tough for me. I need to speak No. You go front shadows front.

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Fan TV only then what will happen? You want to love to love you

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have no answer. We don't want to love to love you.

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Of course. That's what happens. So it's a statement. My goal Allah Allah loves me enough Allah Allah loves me. What else? Let me die tomorrow. Now actually, if I know for sure he loves me.

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You want Allah to love you? Very easy. Don't worry. This level Roswaal is Auto Salon. Truly, not by claim and I will give you one statement. It's it's going to come in no. So let me share it with you because this is going to make your exam

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Exactly feel it to say no more painful rato Alia salatu salam say no more and they were honest is not like you and me please forgive me I was like you know we claim we say things we don't mean it they said your Rasul Allah will lie in yellow Handbook by Allah I love you

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axon when he more than anything else except

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yes it's up to me

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he was honest I love you rasool Allah more than anything it learn of see that's exactly what he said except to me What did he say

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no no he said no lie yeah oh

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no it's not gonna work this way lie yeah Omar hotter Hakuna hubba

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hubba earache mean of sick NO NO NO NO MORE it's not gonna work this way. There is no exception zero accept. So accept my beauty till I become 50 or accept my children so they graduate except my home till I build the house. It doesn't work this way. That's what he told him. He said it'll NFC he said no. till I become more beloved to you than anything else. So you know Omar is not like you and me. Well, let me think about it. Let's see if this is gonna work. What did he say immediately? He says then more than minus more than me. Immediately he answered. What did he say? Rasul Allah saw to set up an hour or more. Now you're truthful.

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Now you are truthful. You really love me? Can I say I love Roswaal risotto Sara more than me.

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Can anyone in this room say this statement?

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Everybody's looking at me smiling.

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Right? Why don't you fast Monday or Thursday?

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The communist question the communist answer is what

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what'd I miss my breakfast? I must have my coffee.

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Right or my tea? Whatever you drink now see? Then Then. Then I am not then I am not

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so when he said in learn offset, he said no. It's not true. Just like you know somebody you really love. They tell you I love you the same with

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I love you as I love my sister and my brother you get hurt?

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Because you always want to be

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it's like they are like me Come on.

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So the question to everybody is he more beloved to you than your naps? Your your family your beauty your house your your your your

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so where is since comes here?

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We're talking about since

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right? Nobody asked me was like where is the relationship?

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What's the relationship between the Roswell resort or some of the scenes?

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I'm gonna go from the back the front because I want you to think I'm going to share with you three of his Hadith three of his sayings. Right? Then tell me how much you do it. And then let's see why we don't do it. Okay, so the first one you all know what am I doing total Swati cycle of Sudan and which is also why we companion but there is no need. And he said to him, you're so Hola. Hola. So any

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advice me? Give me a piece of advice. What did he say? The famous Hadith one word. One word. What is it? Not all of you all know it. Don't be upset. Don't get angry.

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What's the relationship of anger with sins?

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When I am angry How many of you in this room don't worry cameras on me. How many of you in this room has Temper

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Temper Oh, I love that.

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And how many of you have bad temper? Things just start flying

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hola you, you're in a key

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time. Why did he say Don't get upset? Why it's feeding?

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Because what do I do when I get upset?

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disobey Allah say things that is not pleasing to Allah. Most of the time and most of us if not all of us will regret what we said.

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If we broke something, I didn't mean it. Right. If I slammed the door I didn't

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mean it? Cut the relationship. I didn't mean to throw the phone on the floor. I didn't mean it. But most of the time, we say and do things that is disobedient to Allah. How do you define this word? When I disobey Allah? What is the name of this word? Sin?

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It's a sin. So now let's bring it all together. He told him that album, is it an order? Or a recommendation?

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Order? Meaning, don't do it, and you better not do it. What makes me do it?

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And where is the relationship between me and the rasa risotto Sal will get weaker and weaker and weaker.

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So that's clearly you all know what you all raise your hand that adopt, don't be upset. That doesn't mean by the way, one day inshallah we're going to do a series about the Hadith, of Roswell, this AUTOSAR doesn't mean don't get upset. Of course, I'm gonna get upset. I'm a human big. Well, what did he mean, when he said lots of Bob? What did he mean?

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When he said don't get it, don't get upset. What does it mean? No feelings. I can my feelings.

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Meaning don't act, don't say. Right. But you have the feelings. Of course the best if you don't have the feelings. That's something Allah gave you. Like Alexa jr. Is he said this famous. It's in the commentary of this hadith. He looks at him and says yeah, should is one of the Sahaba said you have two qualities. Allah loves and you have them two qualities. And he said what they are so Allah said that hey, Manuel, Anna, you are you have the quality of Fairbury forbearing take your time. You don't get upset. While Anna you think you do think slowly you don't rush. And he looks at him says Yara so Allah, this was given to me. Or I learned it. He said no, it was given to you. Don't be give

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it to us. And then that's a Sahabi said that Hamdulillah that Allah gave me true qualities Elon.

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Ask yourself what quality you have. Allah gave it to you. And he loves it.

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Each one of us have something you may be generous. You may be lucky I should. Your forbearing you may be calm. You may be forgiving.

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You don't act on things. So when I get angry,

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who are I am befriending now connected last week with this week.

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And who said so?

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Why is your right all of you why?

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Okay, I'll give you a clue.

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What's the sooner recommendation? The sooner prescription for getting angry? What did he tell me? Go and do we'll do why?

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Because shaytaan is from fire and water extinguish fire. Simple, easy. So when I am angry, I have to look at it in too many corners especially when I am not in that state when I go back and start reflecting and I'm gonna say you know what happened? The one who you will be dying for him to intercede you already made it is harder on him. The one you claim you long

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you did not act the way he he want.

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So that's why we all need to learn these Hadees and teach these Hadith and practices Hadith and when I forget I need to someone when someone looks at you and says commands he said lotto Bob What do we say? But you don't know what that what she said to him?

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What do you don't know what they did to me? Or even worse? You're here it's very commonly about anger. What do you hear?

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When someone gets so upset and you try to advise them? What do they answer? This is me and I will not change

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that I'm pushing myself away sins we can the relationship with our with our suave salatu salam gradually what is the next one? The next Hadith I hope you all know it and if you don't know it, definitely I'm doing a series about men can a woman who will lie will your will.

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men cannot renew Billahi Willy Amina whomsoever, truly believe in Allah and they have judgment. Let him or her say God, or stay silent

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or stay quiet.

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That's an order through what is high

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that means a lot of lecture but let's just give a little bit of idea what is higher? What is good

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anything beneficial

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anybody what is good what is what is a good word

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could be I'm sorry, could be an advice for you what else? So all that from morning to evening I'm going to giving advice to everybody.

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You will not even like nobody would call what is high you need to be practical, you need to be realistic. He will not ask me to do something unless it is possible. So he said my kind of you will be I will Jamelia high on all your smart he gave you two options. You forgot the second option. Everybody forgot the second option.

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Say say something good or stay quiet. In this day and age we live which one is easier?

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Stay quiet.

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Stay quiet, right? Let's define what's higher.

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What is good in talking? What did Allah say?

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Hi, our ruler Felisa.

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Yeah hi Euro noun La Jolla. Rafi Catherine Mina Juha home there is not much good in what they say. Connect Now the hadith of Rasul Allah is sought to serve with the Quran that's how we learn. There is not much good in what they say except the three memorize these three.

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And it's not about dhikr by the way Subhan Allah because it's practical law hierarchy Category Manager Juan most of what they talk about as no goodness, Ella three things. When Amara, we saw the cotton. Oh, ma roofing our slashing bananas. Three things you say? This is good. What he says, do it. Now hierarchic a three minute 111 Mr. Ravi sadhaka. You advice? You are a meme. And that may not necessarily by the way, talk these days is not only words, you know, what's the biggest talk these days texting and sharing and posting. Now higher efficacy millage one before, memorize this before you post share forward anything is what I am saying for sharing with people is going to bring

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another goodness charity sadaqa. So the company is not only money, right? So there is this person sick. We're gonna go and visit. That's charity. Somebody needs this there is rain, right? And this person I'm just giving an example doesn't have an umbrella. You come in here says anybody has an umbrella. That's clear.

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That's one sadaqa Oh, ma roof. Ma roof is something good accepted in the community or in the city or something that will bring also higher?

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Oh, aha, how much we do that.

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You're laughing Islam being a nurse. Bring people together? Rectify relationships between people. What do we normally say?

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Is not my business.

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I'm not gonna get in between two people. I don't want to get in trouble.

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Then stay quiet.

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These are the three options he gave a sorcerer. Otherwise stay

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And it's Carlos, when you read the commentary of this Hadees beautiful they say if people apply this. Two thirds of the time they are quiet.

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Because how much you can order people to do charity. How many people have problems you know that you're going to? Unless you're a counselor, right? And how many good you're going to ask people to do so most of the time you are quiet. Each one of you again.

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Go home. And just think of today since morning.

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If you remember

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what did you say?

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What did you text? What did you post? Does these three apply?

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So Wow. The gathering was amazing. And you put pictures is that higher?

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The vacation was amazing. Is that higher?

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You're not answering you're looking at me

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and you're posting it and half of your followers that don't can't go for vacation for whatever the reason why you're doing

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well, law enforcement stay quiet. Meaning don't post don't write, let alone

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I put pictures,

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but I do it. Why? Now connect with sins? Why?

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Why? Honestly tell me why. Show off. I'm better. Makes me feel good. And I'm looking for the comments. Do you see that? Right? And how many likes?

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Who makes you do that?

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Thank you. Yes me lovely having you back again.

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And see, the more he comes in, the more I am away from Himani salatu salam, and I'm not away from him physically. I'm away from his orders and what does he wants me to do? My kind of human to rely on human political hierarchy, our failure smoke, what is the third one? Let me share this. I'll leave the Hadith and remind me if I forget.

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He said Ali Salatu was Salam min. Oppo honey the halal Gan?

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parlor? Kulu Kulu Mattia Tolonen Jana all my people will go to Jana. All my people smile hamdulillah Wait, don't rush in Amman ever

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all my people are gonna go to Jana except those who refuse

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who's gonna refuse to go to Jana who doesn't want to go to Jana in this room?

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And they asked him, woman Abba, who's gonna say no,

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no, ask. Now answer the question. All at least Otto senses his words. Men are Annie, the Harlingen woman Asani Mahadeva who followed me who followed me go to Jana. And who did not? Then he refused?

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Are we?

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Again, it's all these questions for you to think. Think and maybe you know what sometimes when we think we don't think we are that bad? Was like No, no Hamdulillah I do this when I open the door. I say Bismillah when I entered the house I say this please forgive me when I go to the bathroom. I say this when I leave the bathroom. I say this who taught me all this him la salatu salam so I'm fine or eyesight. There is a lot of room for improvement. As as they say the last one

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that I ended up with the last one. This one is a huge problem.

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Huge problem especially in a big community and everybody knows everybody when history is damaged.

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Third Kumala Yanni Masha Allah, a sign that your Islam is excellent. Not a Muslim, not ordinary, a plus Muslim, Hashem, son, excellent. Stay away. Leave what does not concern you? That's his word, not mine.

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When Hosni istemi model, a sign that your Islam is good, is your stay away from what does not concern you?

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How many of us apply this?

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Show me hands.

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Free Hamdulillah this side nothing.

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They're still thinking.

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You have never asked a woman? How old are you?

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You have never asked a mother who has a daughter that's not married yet. Why Your daughter is not married yet.

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You've never asked your friend who's 2728 How come and she's married? How come you don't have children yet?

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Never. Is that my business?

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Then why do I do?

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This is true story.

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And I was there I heard.

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So to woman in the bus. So the second woman comes sat next to her. Right. You know? And she said, How many children you have? And the woman responded. I don't have children because I am not yet married. Of course next question.

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Why you are not married?

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In a very nice way. I love the answer. You know what she said?

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She looked at him very calm. And she said you know what is the most beloved Hadith to myself.

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She quoted this hadith

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she said when Hosni Islam anymore, Takuma Nyan

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and she translated, she said, a sign of the Buddhist now that the human being the Muslim stay away from what does not concern her.

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And of the story, the woman stayed silent afterward.

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So when I ask again, connect with sins, why do I ask?

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Why honestly, why do I ask, let alone did you buy the house or it's rented? Mighty need to know and how much you bought the house for? Did you take a mortgage or you paid cash?

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Why? As Imam Shafi has a very famous statement, when people ask him this real personal question, you know what he asked what he answered? Why do you need to know?

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Why do you need to know?

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When Hosni Istanbul, Turkey Humala, Yanni stay away from what does not concern you. And if you combine this hadith with the one before, I will be silent most of the time, because most of what I talk about is not my business. And we talk about third person, by the way, that's add to it is backbiting. Oh, did you hear she moved? Why do I need to know why I have to turn

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and now of course me comes in shaitan comes to me and it's already white, did you? Did they sell the house?

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What happened? What is your business?

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Why do you have to know this? And young and old and everybody?

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And I have to end here. So we have time to empty this room? And look at what he said about his relationship with us. And I gave you our relationship with Him. And He said mentally you are methodical. And he is solid. He said the parable of me and you

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method we are methodical I want to read in Arabic because 3d will move your heart with Nila muscle you almost can muscle your argument module in an arrow. The parable of you and me is like a man like a man an arrow he ignited a fire for Johanna janati will will feroce the icon of here all the insects in the flies are going to the fire.

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And he that man he has a wound and her and that man moving this flies away from it.

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And then he said about you and what do we have just come in and not and I'm holding you back from the Hellfire we're going to we're going to tackle a tuna mini ID and you are slipping away from me

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did you get the idea is so keen about you and me that like you see a baby on it. This hottie and I always think of a baby or running to whole to touch a stove. What's your normal reaction? Anyone? Your child or not your child? What do you normally do?

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You run and grab the child and move it back because you care. And you know this is harmful? That's what he is doing to you and me and how did how was he doing it by what he told me to do or not to do? And we are slipping away hadith is not so here. It's an Al Bukhari it's only sunnah I won't have time and your list the reasons why you're running away from

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May Allah subhanho wa Taala or Biyani teach us what is beneficial number one, and number two, give us the ability and the resolve and make it easy for us to practice on what we are learning. May Allah subhanaw taala bring a Roswaal a saw to sinner back into our lives and he will be part of our life like how he was with a Sahaba and he did not force Himself on the Sahaba the Sahaba force themselves on so we need to take the first step the more you sin, the further you are from him alayhi salatu salam Spanjer Colombo Behanding a shadow Allah either a stockbroker to boudic son Allah Allah say you know Muhammad, while early he was Hydrotest him and Kathy Rogers akmola There

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