Ramadan The Month of Love – Day 29

Haifaa Younis

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Bismillah

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah wala Ali who are so heavy woman Well, last panel Tyler said in the Quran in surah An Nisa the woman, chapter four of the Quran, and the worst number is 36. And you have it in your planner the day 29 of Ramadan a lot with this verse and ended it with something he doesn't love. So I'm going to share with you the whole verse and then we will see the end character that Allah doesn't love. Allah says the following. Why would Allahu Allah to Shri COVID Isha worship Allah and do not associate anything with him? While bill while hidemi Asana and excellence with parents? Why would Allah how Latisha Kobayashi, m ob guanidine Asana, what we

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did a horrible, excellent treatment to the relatives

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with God, the corba, your neighbor, that is your relative, while your real job, the neighbor that is next door to you, or sahibi, Belgium, the person who's close to you in a traveling or in the in the house, like your spouse, or the children, people who are close to you. You see them every single day. Asahi Belgium, Wabi Sabi, the traveler, or mama cat, a man and the one that you have control over in that time was the woman is slaves. And then Allah ends the IRA by this divorce. This is what we are learning. In Allaha la you're hibou mancano Matalan for hora. Our last poner does not love anyone with the two following criteria. What Thailand for hoorah self deluding, and boost for self

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deluding, and boost. So let's take them one by one self deluding mortal, and for hold. Water is an action self deluding is by action. Usually it is a figure of speech use when people walk in an arrogant way. They walk as if there's nobody else there or they walk to impress people, whether they are dressed something new and they want to impress, but not only to impress to make the others feel that that person is better than them. For who are the person who boost his boost for the boost in speech. I did that I did this, I am that I am that boastful and very interesting. When Allah subhanho wa Taala use this verse

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by ordering to do a good deed. Worship Allah, excellent to your parents, to your relatives, the neighbor whose relative the neighbor who's next door, the poor, the people who are close to you meaning in daily activity, that traveler or these are good deeds these are good these and then he ended a bye Don't be boastful and don't be

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don't show off water in the way you speak and or in the way you walk. What do I learn? What do I practice a couple of things when I do a good deed, any good deed as simple as I fasted day this is 29 day formula so I fasted 29 days right? And let's assume I did all the nights Salah I did that. I should not be be boastful externally and not even internally. Because boastfulness reflect that I did it, I have the ability to do it. Reality is everything we have, and we do is actually by a law. A law makes us do what we are doing. He gave us the ability, he makes things easy. So when I say I did it, and this is a concept unfortunately, it's very common these days. reality I didn't do it on

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what made me do it. The only one, the only one who should be boastful who deserve to be boastful is a last panel what Allah what a whole Kibriya Allah said it's a loss at the end of SoTL jatiya. He is the one who always boastfulness bit. Why is that because he is the only one who's capable. He's the only one who gives. He's the only one who holds. So you and me and human beings were very weak. And Allah again showed us through the COVID-19 how weak we are, how weak we are, how we couldn't a small via

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doesn't have a structure, stripped our freedom, stripped our health, stripped the life of some people, we couldn't do anything. We couldn't do anything. So what is it when I do a good day to this person or that person, and then I start to become boastful. Or I see myself better than everybody else. colloquially, Adam, were adamant to rob, all of you, belongs to Adam. And Adam originated from dust. So three things actions, we're going to look at and see was I boastful in it

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cooked a dish, and then I feel so good about it, nobody cooks better than I am. I have to be careful, because that could be the beginning of Being Mortal for her, let alone I speak about it. Some people praise you that's from Allah Al Hamdulillah. But even when people praise we need we need to look and says, almost pantalla made made it turn to be very good. And may Allah subhanaw taala make me better than what people think of me and forgive what they don't know about me. That's the Tao or Swati center to center. So whenever we feel good about ourselves, let alone we look down at the people around us simply because we did this or did that or we have this or we have this Allah

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will not love us at all. Now your head woman can have more talent for whoever and he said that in the Quran three places actually, not only in Surah Nisa he said a local man saved in a local man when he was advising his his son. One of the things he said last time she fell out of the Mara ha don't walk on this earth with boastfulness. Right in excellent. Don't Don't do that lie ahead, woman cannot Matalan for horror, same world. What doesn't love those who are boastful and they are arrogant in action, they show what they think they are better. So three things let's look around and see how I can be humble. And we covered this before also, I do three acts to act as humble. So I'm

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sure I am not arrogant. And if this comes in, something comes in in my daily life that will put some arrogance in me. Immediately I stop it and I say Allah does not love it. Your ability john lennon mortality and for holding your law Don't make us of those who are boost for and who are self deluded and remind us always Allah that we are weak were human beings and whatever we have and we do and we achieve is from you and you only Alhamdulillah help