Channel: Haifaa Younis
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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen. We are continuing in our journey in this blessed month of Ramadan, to look at Ramadan in a different way. And our goal is to make this month, the month of love of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And how we will reach this goal by daily covering and action of virtue added that Allah love and I knew we will do our best to practice that virtue or deed or action. So Allah subhanaw taala at the end will love me. So my goal is that Allah Subhana Allah will love me. And of course we all love a las panatela Today we're going to go to something
a character of virtue that's in the sooner are also Alia salatu salam described it or talked about it in the following way and this hadith is actually in Mohali and Muslim and he said that he Salah to a sinner
in a lot of heat. Indeed, Allah is raffia that's the word. That's the character translated loosely to gentle kind. forbearing Indeed, Allah is gentle, kind forbearing you're a word, love, gentleness, kindness, and forbearing.
Phil Emery Cooley, he loves gentleness, kindness for bidding in everything. This is one same concept. In another two. NARRATION he said our Swati Sato sinner in the la hora. Same thing. Allah is gentle, kind forbearing your Hebrew riff and he loves gentleness, kindness forbearing. While you're out the Allah, Marathi the lady he gives as a result of gentleness, way more than what he normally give for other things. Meaning if I add the character of gentleness, kindness forbearing to a deed, a good deed, I will get way more reward or I will get from Allah things way more than than he usually get. And another narration and this is an incident also on the same concept or free
gentleness or group of Jewish King Torah. Swati salatu salam and they greeted him in this way Somali Somali equal reality is death on you.
It's not a Salam alikoum it's not Peace be upon you. So rather assemble that and see that I chose with him. So she right away or Swati salatu salam responded by saying Wali calm and upon you. As Sita Ayesha looked at the roswaal he saw to a Salaam and says your Rasul Allah Didn't you see what they said death on you. So she responded why they call Lana whoa whoa diva Allahu Allah, Curse of La come upon your his death and the curse of Allah and death upon you. Saraswati saw to sit up, turn to her and said, the meaning golf I understood what they said. And I just said while he called upon you, if their intention was peace be upon us whether there is peace upon them. And if their
intention was death, then death upon them. And then he gave this that is related to our virtue of today and he said, Yeah, sure.
Yeah Isha something in the meaning of gentle Madeline, take it easy. Whenever gentleness added to something, it will beautify it. And whenever gentleness is stripped away from something, it will make it look ugly. It will make it look ugly. So gentleness, kindness, forbearing. So what does it mean when Allah subhanaw taala is gentle. So panna, number one, he took his time and in, in his creation,
there was no rush and hurry. This is something for us to learn. For example, creation of a human being takes nine months, Allah Subhana, Allah can do it in a second creating of the heaven and the earth. It took six days it could easily have been done with a minute. So unless pantalla is gentle, he created his creation gradually took his time. Number two, Allah is gentle in his orders, and his punishment
of the sins, meaning unless pantalla does not punish right away, so panela how many human being disobeyed Allah and he's still feed them. Give them more
They want to respond to their supplications. That's part of his gentleness out of hope that or give them more time that they will turn back to him. sign off kindness and gentleness. So what about me and you and us? How do I do this gentleness in my daily life, there's many things we can cover. Number one is when we are calling for Allah subhanho wa Taala. Whether we are doing this in our homes with our family members, whether we are doing it with the people around us in our work in our community, gentleness, and Tao auto in Allah be gentle. And Allah pantalla said it to Rasul Allah hisar to a salon. Will Quinta for one volleyball kalbi lamb for boom and Holic, if you were harsh,
or off, hard heart, they will leave you, they will not stay with you. So calling to unless pantalla when I want to tell them, my child, go and pray. I remember I am going to do it in a gentle way. Because Allah love gentleness and Allah will give me because of my gentleness, way more than he will give other things meaning, he will make what I am saying easier, people will listen and hopefully they will follow. So number one, in calling from law, number two, in dealing with the people who I have power of over. So if I am a boss in a at my work, and then I have employees and I, again my family members, especially my children, gentleness, put gentleness in the way of daily
gentleness, with the with the parents, this is going toward the youth these days, especially when they get older, especially when they need more gentleness I have to remember Allah is rough here. Allah is gentle olise kind are wise for bearing I need to be like him. So he will love me. And that is the name of some scholar says it's one of the names of our last panel with dad. So gentleness with the parents gentleness with this with the
spouses, family, gentleness, with a friend's gentleness with the acquaintance, kindness, for bearing. And in general kindness is meaning the meaning of is you make things easy. You don't make things complicated. So someone is coming to you and have a problem. You try to solve it even if you cannot get you at least you make it easier on them. You give them some hope. You show them things they are not seeing. Especially these days somebody lose someone beloved to them, you remind them, you remind them of the blessings a whole lot. pantalla what you will get remind them that Allah is Jen is Hakeem is wise, there is a hikma in here, you remind them that this life is temporary, we all
are going to be leaving, then they will feel as much as you can, and Allah will put the bark at it, they will feel better. So number one, number two, the meaning of gentleness is you you bring the reasons to make things easy. You You are like a way of making things easy. Practically, you make things easy, that's another meaning. And one of the meaning of gentleness is your take your time, is forbearing. Take things slowly, don't respond right away. don't respond right away. Even if something is bothering something is not right. You take your time think attorney take time. Take the time and and even when we are punishing and we said we talked about this yesterday also responding
to something that is harsh. We respond in a gentle way. Even in punishment, I respond in a gentle way. So we're going to look today as how I am going to be applying the gentleness in my daily life daily. I'm going to try and do it as much as I can so it will become a habit. It becomes my character. What will I get at the end? The love of Allah spawn Tada. So let's remember, in a lot of you, Indeed, Allah is gentle, and kind, your hibel restful Agricola he loves gentleness in everything, including and I will end up in here, gentleness again with the earth around us. gentleness, with everything, no waste, no abuse of the resources that's all kind of gentleness. May
Allah subhanho wa Taala teach us what is beneficial for us and benefit us from what we are learning ceremony.
Kumara rahmatullah wa barakato