Channel: Faith IQ
Marriage is an important aspect of one’s life. Adjusting in a marriage may take time. Some people find it difficult to adjust. What advice can be given to a person experiencing difficulty adjusting?
Ustadha Taimiyyah Zubair answers
I got married recently, and I'm having a lot of trouble adjusting. What can I do?
One of the best pieces of advice that I was given was that marriage is like moving a plant from one place to another. Now think about this, when a plant is pulled out from one place, and it's planted in another place, it's going to take time to adjust. It's going to take time to establish its roots. Marriage is very similar. This is a huge change in a person's life. So allow yourself time to get used to your married life, and communicate with your spouse, focus on your spouse and strengthen your roots. Build your trust and build your relationship with your spouse. And insha. Allah with time, things will get easier. Communication is important. trusting your spouse is important. And
building a strong relationship with your spouse is also very important.