Ebrahim Bham – Purification Of The Heart #20

Ebrahim Bham
AI: Summary © The term "backbiting," which refers to sharing emotions and attitudes in the heart, is used to cover things that are not in the heart, such as actions and words. Backbiting is a way to share opinion and emotions, but it is also a means to gain power. Backbiting is a way to share opinion and emotions, but it is also a means to gain power. Backbiting is a behavior that people do when they see something classified as evil or has a serious meaning. It is a behavior that people do when they see something classified as evil or has a serious meaning, and is a way to share pride, admiration, and exemptions. It invites others to share their own experiences.
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lynnderella hamdu lillahi Wa Wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Milena v Avada a mavado form Avila Humana shaytani r rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem. Hola yo de bajo. khumba you hiboy hadoken a akula ii maten fuckery, tomo sobre la blossom, respected viewers and listeners beginning by praising Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala sending salutations upon our beloved nivia Karim sallallahu alayhi wa sallam continuing with our series on the purification of the heart. Today I have recited a verse in the

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26 Jews of the Holy Quran in surah, Gujarat in a letter that says, Well, if the bad kumada do not backbite one another. Now, many people will say that backbiting is to do with the tongue, how does it come under the title or with regard to the serious purification of the heart? And the reason is because of the underlying reasons, why do you backbite and that is to do with the disease of the heart, as I will go on to explain. Let us start off by saying that no doubt the tongue is the seed carrier, the carrier of what is in the heart. Many times what comes out in the tongue is that which is in the heart. So the tongue is a manifestation of emotions and feelings and attitudes which are

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in the heart and the stand is also amazing. It is one of the greatest gifts of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala Hello Collinson, Allah Allah. We created human being and we gave him the power of communication and speech. It is such a great name of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala. It is such a great favor. Many of the good deeds that are in the Quran and Hadith cannot be done without the tongue. Zero for mighty Allah remembrance of Almighty Allah showing Allah subhanho wa Taala our gratitude asking Allah Allah for forgiveness, the affirmation of the Kalam Allah, Allah Allah Allah, the affirmation of being a Muslim and the affirmation of being on human cannot be done without the

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tongue. But yet this very same tongue, if it is not used correctly, correctly, becomes the means of all the greatest Guna and since many of the commonly committed sins, or many of the greatest sins that are committed are with regard to the tongue. There is no doubt whatsoever with regard to it. And therefore in a hadith narrated by Marty Mujibur Viola Tran, who he said nebia krimson Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, people will go ahead and log into jahannam mainly owing to the indiscretions of the tongue and one of the indiscretions of the tongue. Is tech biting. Allah Allah says, Allah

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bada don't pet bite one another. Don't back. Now what is bad biting? The reoccurring source from one day as the Sahaba uttered Runa mareeba Do you know what is backbiting? Sahaba as many times they would reply Allahu wa rasuluh alum and nine is Rasool knows best the via Karim saw some said the karaka, Huckabee maka, that to relate something about your brother, that if he comes to know any year about it, he would dislike it. Now that is the definition given by the greatest human being Allah subhanho wa Taala has created and that is, you know, the most important thing someone is putting put it in this way sharing opinion about other people's lives. backbiting is sharing opinion

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with a third person about another person's life. But what is the real beautiful definition, speaking about your next person in a way that if he comes to know about it, he would dislike it. Now the common refrain? And the common answer to that and the common follow up question to that. But what if the, what I'm saying is correct.

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And many times people say but if it is true, what I'm seeing, then maybe a clue sources if it is true, it is backbiting. If it is not true, then it is slander, then you have got double Guna one is backbiting and one is talking lies. But if it is true, then that is bad biting your law when you look at that particular definition. They are perhaps very few people who do not fall under this category of committing and doing backbiting and backbiting is not only with regard to speaking bad about a person's character. It is about speaking bad about a person's character, his appearance, the way he stays his house, his car, speaking bad about any aspect with regard to a person and that

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didn't make you the guardian for you to speak good about other people. And that didn't give you that authority and right. So therefore any aspect even if it is sometimes a hint

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As I shall be allowed or not one day in, you know there was there was competition for and rivalry for the level of Nivea cream sauce them. So she hinted with regard to as it severely allowed or been of a short stature and maybe a cream sauce slim rebuke. And then we saw some said we have done something that is wrong. So this is the aspect now what is the seriousness? lucara laterra says, Are you a hippo a hadoken a akula. Murphy he made them to speak bad or to speak about another person that he would dislike if he come to know about it. It is like eating the flesh of your dead brother or sister. Now firstly, to eat the flesh of a dead person. It is repugnant. And then to eat the

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flesh of someone who had died who is rotten. Can you imagine how repugnant and evil it is? pet biting is equivalent to eating the flesh of a dead person. Yeah, Allah What a great and therefore nebia Karim sallahu alayhi wa sallam has sounded such great warnings that were occurring. So Aslam has given an indication there's a transfer of deeds that take place. When you get by someone, he is evil deeds come to you, and your good deeds go to him. And therefore there were so many people. And also another thing I must tell you, I hadn't been, you know, they say the person who listens is part of the backbiting you can say I was I wasn't saying it. I was only listening. That is also part of

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backbiting. It is made about mentioned about Mahmoud misia. He never ever got involved in backbiting anyone if anyone discuss anyone's fault, he should say Please stop it others and walking away. This is the serious nature despite its serious nature. It's absolutely amazing that everyone say that it is bad, but yet everyone enjoys it. Everyone talks about how serious it is. How does karate nobody talks about it? Yet it is becoming so so common. Now what are the reasons with regard to it? It doesn't make mention with regard to the reasons and maybe today or in tomorrow's program. You know, many times when people who beg by they hide their own imperfection and they harm others. backbiting

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is an attempt for one who is incapable of doing data. And perhaps one of the reasons is that you regard yourself as superior and the reasons motivating backbiting are not always no one. In a literal sense Fela to Saku and forsaken. don't regard yourself as superior and praise yourself, he knows who is pious. inshallah tomorrow we will continue with other reasons with regard to why people that bite in the treatment and the cure, and perhaps also some of the exemptions in this particular regard. Let Allah protect us. Welcome

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