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Friday Night Etiquettes Class – October 22, 2021

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Daood Butt

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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu wa he was Allahu Allah and V Hill Karim Ali of total solar thermal tasleem rubbish. Ravi Sabri were serially Emery orchidectomy lissoni of Cabo Cali my brothers and my sisters a selam or alikum warahmatu Allahi wa barakato so Today is October Sorry about that. Today is October 22 2021. And we continue with our chapter on the etiquettes of visiting the masjid today's an interesting day because

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it's Friday humbler and Fridays are always interesting days you know the weather's getting cold

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you know it's in the masjid is still at the same capacity we want to see a full again humbler you know all these announcements coming out and news sort of protocol and so on is being discussed so we'll wait a little bit I know a lot of people have been asking me you know what's going on what is the muster deciding on let's just wait let the management have a meeting in sha Allah to Allah with regards to the new announcement by our you know, premiere here in Ontario, the province and then we'll see what decision is made by the management so until then, let's just carry on Okay, let's just carry on and shot a lot of data that's just the way it's been for the last little while. And

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it's nice to see that hamdulillah we are able to still at least meet virtually I wish we could meet in person hopefully we will insha Allah very soon. Because you know, I think

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I look short on the screen. And I just, I don't know maybe that's one of the reasons why we need to meet in person so that I could look tall again hamdulillah But anyways, we're gonna carry on last week we talked about a few things again, pertaining to the masjid and now you're on

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speaker Soviet so going like this when heading to the masjid because we're considered to be in the prayer or in prayer, right? We're getting rewarded for that. raising our voices and now you're in shed. So basically prohibition of making announcements for things that have been lost, you know, if anyone has found it and so on today, we continue in sha Allah with a few things that we probably already know. But I want us to, I'm gonna try and finish up a little bit quicker than usual hopefully. And then what I want to do is open it up for q&a, cuz I know some of you have some questions. And yeah, hamdulillah another thing that's happened this week before I even forget is the

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fact that the hatom right, as we saw last week, there was an announcement that the harem in Mecca and Medina would be open full capacity once again, and that was announced on Friday. But as of last Sunday, we saw that the mustard was full and so it's a good sign. I know I've been looking almost every single day in fact every single day at pictures of McCann Medina and trying to see you know, the improvements and the capacity limits and how it's been going. And so how long it really feels like it used to be so it's a nice feeling. Hopefully we get to go for Hajj again sometime soon. Hopefully we get to go for Amara as well. And, you know, we really hope that every single one of us

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has the ability and ask Allah Subhana Allah in drought to grant us the ability to go to Mecca and Medina once again, whether we've been there before or not to be able to stand before the Kava to be able to make the offer on the Kava to go between sufen Mandala and perform say, ask Allah Subhana Allah to bless every single one of us with the ability to go for ama and to complete that aroma and to be an accepted aroma. And ask Allah subhana wa tada to grant every single one of us the opportunity to go for Hajj once again and to accept our Hajj and to make it easy for us to complete that Hajj perfectly and properly the way that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam performed it

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and ask Allah Subhana Allah to allow us to come back after performing that hedge completely free from sin as though it was the day that our mother had given birth to us right free from sin entirely and fully I mean

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hamdulillah so now we continue with our topic right the topic of joas 100 mil or more a dunya we all MOBA how filled mustard. So the permissibility of speaking about things that are pertaining to this dunya while we are in the masjid, and those are things that are permissible that pertain to the dunya Okay, so things related to this dunya that we talk about within the masjid that are permissible, it is permissible to speak about that or, or to speak within the masjid about certain topics and things so

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it is permissible for someone to speak to their Muslim brother or Muslim sister inside of the masjid, about that which is permissible systemically so what is not permissible and what's meant by you know about which is permissible is that we're not backbiting someone else. We're not lying. We're not cheating. We're not doing

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Something that's wrong or, or lying, right we're not making up stories or tales. We're not creating false stories or plotting against one another anything of that sort. So if someone is talking about something that is permissible to speak about in general, about this dunya then it's permissible to speak about in general within the masjid as well.

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And we see in a hadith of Anissa Malika or the Allah or and where he says opmf de Sala when maybe someone longer Allah, US alum, so the Salah was ready to start, you know, the iqama was was going and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was talking to a men on the side of the masjid.

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And he didn't get up to go to the prayer from Oklahoma. He just saw that he had dynamic come until some of the people had become so tired and they were like dozing off. Right. That's how long they waited for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which is a very interesting thing. I saw lots of our Colonia shifting theory. A lot of a Zico hate, we should share screens and have you teach the Hanukkah in sha Allah, Allah Subhana Allah bless you in your family, and keep all of you safe and healthy and strong upon email in Islam, I mean.

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So we see in this narration of unassuming Malik or the lower end of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam was inside of the masjid and was standing on the side of the masjid and the solar is ready to start right. But of course the Sala the prayer doesn't start until the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam walks to the front and stands in the position of the Imam and begins the prayer right so what we see happening here is the complete opposite of what takes place in our massage and today usually when it's time for Salah we you know everyone's sitting there looking at the clock it's rare that people are making only a few people are making to our you know some people praying or something and

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so on and everyone's looking at the clock like okay

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alright it you know the time goes it's 815 for example it shows at 815 so you see the clock tick 815 and it's time for the Sala to start so technically the Imam should be in the front and the more than stands up and everyone stands while listening to the iqama among Kabbalah well I should well Illa Illa Allah shadow under Mohammed was

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here at higher alfalah cardio calm that is solid cardio calm at Asana are more

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in love.

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That happens

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in our massages today. Most most of the places that I've seen that I've been to all the time regardless of whether the Imam is there or not, the more than will start except in cases where these massages have more than that is appointed, who knows that he's not going to call the iqama until he sees the Imam coming. And it's rare I've been to only a few masajid one mustard in particular, I won't mention which one but one mustard in particular, I remember sitting in the front and the more than First of all, there's a list of more Athenian like a list of people that are to call via then and a comma

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in certain days and times are listed there for each one of them. Okay. And I remember sitting in the front row next to them other than he was on my left side actually. And you know, there are a few other of the Imams a few other imams. Right so I was there as you know, a visiting Imam and there were a few other imams that were sitting next to me

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and this was during the month of Ramadan and it was time for Salah Malaysia and despite the clock ticking that it's time to start despite its you know it being really really late at night right Asia late at night during the month of Ramadan and you know nowadays Ramadan is late right? Or sorry I shot as late. And so despite all of that, I remember sitting there and I'm like Pamela This is amazing. The more than would not even get up you know another massage mother would get up and look around like where's the demand and create a big scene, right? The more than stayed sitting and waited.

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And I don't even remember him turning back ever. This one wasn't in particular that I you know, spent some time with. I don't remember him ever looking back to see where the Imam is coming. He he he would tell by two ways two things that he would notice. If the if the Imam is coming. First of all, if you would see that Imam coming between him right, coming next to him passing by him and standing in front of him then the more than would stand up and call the iqama

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secondly,

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he would smell the perfume of the email.

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right he would smell the perfume of the Imam and he would know that the Imam is near. And then he would stand up and he would start the iqama. And I would I would watch sometimes some some of the days I'd watch it spamela is like clockwork, like there's some sort of, you know, vibe but Allah Subhana Allah puts between the Imam and then it's time for Salah higher the more at the nose the Imam is behind me he's coming, he can either hear him or he could smell his perfume. And so the oven stands up and begins the farmer and the man comes forth and leads the prayer. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in the masjid. Okay in the narration that we took of anus of America or the

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Allahu Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in the masjid and he was talking to someone on the side of the mustard and the Sahaba of the Allahu anhu waited for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam till the point that some of them were feeling sleepy and dozing off and this is normal in the desert especially when there's no air conditioning so how Allah you know you're sitting there the mustard is hot and it's warm It's been a long day and you're just like oh, you're dozing off right? It's super hot. So can Allah look at how patient this habit aldila no more with regards to waiting for the prophet SAW longer and he was alum to lead them in prayer, as

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opposed to what we do today. May Allah Subhana Allah bless us all and guide us with what is right and what is true of this Deen and allow us to embrace the Sunnah of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam what really irritates me and I'll say this here and I say it in front of everyone and I'll say it here. What really irritates me is sometimes I'm here in the masjid or the Imam the other time, you know, is here in the masjid. And people don't wait. The clock, you know, changes the time and immediately someone stands up and starts calling a farmer. Whether you know we come or not doesn't matter. They'll just tell someone I was going to lead the prayer. And it's happened where

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both the Imams are in the masjid to lead the prayer, and someone else ends up leading the prayer because the people just push a random person forth to lead the prayer. This is not the way it's supposed to be done my brothers and sisters, so please, if you're listening, if you're watching, if you're one of these people that's in the front row. Don't do that. Okay, don't just push someone else up randomly. Wait for the email. Wait a minute, wait two minutes, wait three minutes, right? Look around. Ask is the Imam here. Sometimes, you know, I get caught right outside of my door, just in the back of the mustard. Right? Someone stops as you know, as with or something like that. Or you

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know, you're busy with something and somehow you're trying you're trying to get out but sometimes you're stuck with people, you know, they're going through emotion, you know, emotional roller coaster and stuff like that. It's very hard, very difficult to just walk away from people. You have to give them you know, a little bit of respect. And I know people will say well, what about the solo? You have to give us all our most respected? Yes, but the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam understood that, you know, there's no rush for the prayer. There's no rush. Okay? Yes, we pray on time and we're praying the prayer on time. We're not delaying it. There's no rush, like, Oh, I need

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to pray right now. Right?

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So some advice with regards to speaking in the masjid. Okay, it is permissible to do that, based on the Hadees that we saw of the Prophet sallallahu and he was speaking to someone in the masjid.

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And he himself sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to do this with this habit of the Allaha at home, it would gather in the masjid and they would speak and talk about things to do with this world. But some advice that we keep in mind first of all, that we don't disturb the people that are around us when we're talking in the masjid. So if you're talking about something in the masjid, that is not related to the deen, and it's related to the dunya. First of all, we keep our volume low, right? Generally, we're in the muster, we try not to disturb people, we keep our volume low. And we try not to disturb the people that are around us. Someone might be praying a prayer someone might be

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reciting the quota. And someone just might be making dials. Someone is sitting there reflecting thinking about is over the Quran, or just pondering over the greatness of Allah Subhana Allah, they just want some peace and quiet, they left the hustle and bustle of their work in the home in the dunya and everything outside the walls of the masjid. And they just want some peace of mind.

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So that the

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second thing that we need to keep in mind, you know, piece of advice with regards to speaking in the masjid

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that you don't make it a habit of just coming and socializing. Right? There is not a habit of just being in the prayer area. I'm not talking about the other parts of the of the masjid building, right? But in the prayer area, we don't make it a habit of coming and sitting in the prayer and just laughing and talking and you know, having fun. Thirdly

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that we stay away from talking about or saying things that are not permissible, so you're not going to get in the masjid. And you're talking like, oh, we're talking about the dunya right? And it's permissible as the prophets and along it was talking about him talking in the masjid. And we're backbiting No, we're not supposed to do that. Okay, so we're not going to be in the masjid, backbiting others, telling lies, you know, talking about this criticizing that, that all these other things, leave it right leave things like that of the dunya talk about something that's beneficial.

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And lastly in terms of pieces of advice that we could share with regards to speaking in the masjid

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that we don't sit there for hours or lengthy periods of time just talking in the masjid wasting our time. The mustard is a place that we come to to worship Allah subhana wa tada and that's why the rules are not so strict. Right It's a place that we come to to worship Allah subhanaw taala adequate is a place that we feel sick enough a place that we feel tranquility a place that we feel safe a place that we feel happy place that we meet our Muslim brothers and sisters a place that we enjoy talking to one another, a place that we can seek some help and advice right a place that we can go and learn some Deen or even some dunya right some math tutoring engineering, science, you know,

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physics, chemistry, coding, whatever it is that we want to learn, we can do that in the masjid Al Hamdulillah. But it shouldn't be something that we come and we make a habit of going to the masjid only for the purpose of socializing. And we don't come to the masjid for the purpose of prayer. And I hate to say this, but it is a reality. Okay, it is a reality. I hate to say this, waking you all up. The reality is that I see people I'm here for sometimes lengthy periods of time. And I see people coming to the masjid to meet up with friends to talk to one another. And it happened more prior to COVID than it does now. But I still see it happening. Or sometimes even minutes minutes

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before the comma then has been called but minutes before the ikoma people are leaving the masjid.

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And that's one of the things that we're going to learn about as well. Right? Is it even permissible to leave the masjid after the event is called. So what I'm reminding myself and others about here is that we don't just come to the masjid as a place to socialize. I know some massages are called community centers, right but the community center may have a mustard within it as well and masala a place to pray. So for coming to the mustard, you might see some people coming to play a sport in the gym and then they leave minutes before the prayer we shouldn't do that stick around for the prayer can stick around for the prayer. Submit to a loss of conduit to Allah in Salah Some people say oh I

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need to go take a shower I'll just pray at home. You're in the masjid you're in the masjid go Miko freshen up stop a few stop playing 10 minutes before the event is called. That gives you 20 minutes before the prayer right where you can make your room you can freshen up you can go outside get some fresh air you can you know relax, you know D sweat instead of de stress. D sweat right and you know cool down and then come to the prayer calm you know at ease tranquility hamdulillah Okay, the next thing that we'll learn in sha Allah Allah with regards to the etiquettes of coming to the masjid is Joseph achillea short film mustard that it is permissible to eat and to drink in the masjid. okay to

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eat food and to you know to consume solids liquids within the mustard lab so they actually were short to be filibustered. There's nothing wrong with eating or drinking something within the mustard Leanna Leanna Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam acana yet Kula

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Kearney Aquila film, film Masjid that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to eat in the masjid

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were fairly who that Elijah was right so the fact that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam did that is is deleted that is evidence and proof that it's permissible to be done because he did it. We see in the Hadeeth

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couldn't call it Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam I feel Masjid hubs will lamb. Right that this habit of the Allah and home they say that we used to eat in the masjid during the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam we would eat bread and meat in the mustard. Right so indicating the types of food as well that they used to eat inside of the mustard so Al Hamdulillah right hamdulillah we can do that it is permissible to do that. Now of course we need to make sure that we don't spill any food we'll leave garbage garbage behind and this again is another problem and mistake and I just wish that people wouldn't do this. You know a lot of the time we say you know

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when people come to the muster they just leave their shoes on the floor. Why can't they put their shoes on the shelf To be honest, there's so much more than that. It's like people come to the masjid and they go to the bathroom and they use paper towel and they just drop it on the floor instead of putting it in the garbage and it's like he like had you just put it in the garbage can is huge garbage can and paper towels just this small they all you have to do is drop it right in there. This big this small can't get it in bad at basketball. Okay, that's one thing. Another thing that happens is we see that people just leave a mess of water everywhere if they're making booboo and just splash

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Splish Splash having a bath all over the place. Somehow Allah May Allah spanaway to help us. Another issue is that sometimes we see people bringing water bottles, plastic water bottles or cups of coffee and leaving them not only inside, but also outside of the masjid. Right like literally leaving them outside the door of the mustard. I walked out of the door just two months ago, walked outside the door.

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Or the masjid opened the door and there's like three or 433 Tim Hortons

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coffee cups and a

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plastic Tim Hortons ice cap cup that you know each one of them was actually half consumed and just left outside of the door literally just three feet away from the door of the masjid. You know if we're coming to the mustard we need to keep the mustard clean. So it's one thing to talk about the permissibility of eating something or drinking something within the masjid the acid is permissible and it was done by this habit of the Allahu Allah and the prophet SAW longer it he was Salam did it but we need to keep in mind that when we do eat something in the masjid, or anything in general around the masjid, we make sure that we look after the masjid more and better and more particular

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than we look after our own homes. So make sure that we look after the masjid even better than we look after our home you would never find in our homes.

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Hopefully my last panaway data you know make it easy for every single one of us. You will never find inside of our homes you go into the living room you go into the kitchen you walk around the home you're never gonna find garbage just piled up everywhere where you just leave things right random things you take it you put in the garbage you empty the garbage you bring it outside of the recycling the organics we separate everything in the house of a loss of Penwith at a place where we come to worship Allah azza wa jal why is it that we feel that we can leave water splattered everywhere paper towel dropped two feet away from the garbage can not even placed into it shoes that

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are not put on the shelf? Empty coffee cups empty water bottles on the carpeted area as well. Why? We shouldn't write so we should take care of the masjid the massage it not just this mustard almost Ajit take care of it better and nicer and more neat than we take care of our own homes. Okay.

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My cousin st when he was in Bahrain, people used to adjust their call and mahatva inside the masjid in front of the mirrors right yes. Yeah adjust our economy should warm I thought today my wife can be like yeah, why didn't you Where were you shut off? Right? I just did in front of the mirrors make sure you look good and neat. And that brings us to

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actually there's something we're going to talk about just in a few minutes inshallah right between related to what you're saying awesome. So the next thing we'll talk about is Joe was going to share how to fill Masjid so we said that is permissible to eat something or to drink something inside of the masjid. We said that it's permissible to speak inside of the masjid, but it is also permissible to do

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to what?

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Sing poetry in the masjid. Okay. It is permissible to sing poetry or Nasheed within the masjid Okay, we're not talking about turning the busted into a concert hall. You guys will be love what we're seeing happening in different parts of the world you know masajid closed but

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but concert halls and venues are full right places a prayer we have to be separated No, we can't go there's a certain limit capacity but you know, places a party machelle lots of Article law, right? We ask Allah Subhana Allah to help us and

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and to guide every single one of us but when we talk about Joe was called the share of the masjid. It is permissible to sing poetry that is permissible to sing poetry but poetry that is that is permissible to begin with, right? nothing that's going to deal with ship or say anything that's wrong.

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He that Canada MOBA Han lay somewhere had ramen, right? It is it has to be something that's permissible to say, right, and also that it is not impermissible. Right? There's nothing how long that is there. And we see that this is permissible due to the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam has certainly been 30th or the Allah and you know, he was saying she, you know, poetry in the masjid and the Prophet sallallahu it was something was there and he was, you know, praising or saying nice things about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the believers, right? And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam actually made dua for him for you know what he was saying? About

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the deen of Allah subhana wa, which Allah so it's permissible to do that, not with instruments just to sing or to say the poetry. Oh, right. I'm not one to sing. My wife always says you can recite what and why don't you sing to me? Like, singing is not my thing. Right? So So Pamela,

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it is permissible to do that. And you know, there's different types of singing, you have the singing of the Bedouins.

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Very like, and then you have the singing of the North Americans, you know, which is Michelle lots of otter Cola, right. So the next point that we go to is Joe has a lot of Bill Okay, so

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The permissibility of playing, playing within the massage ID

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and here we see a Hadith of the shadow of the Allah now that we all know very well you know the abyssinians that were in the masjid on the day of AIDS and they were sort of like wrestling they're actually playing with spears and shields right kind of like they were reenacting a battle or you know, just playing around play fighting, basically wrestling with one another, you know, using their strength and their force, but having fun with it. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he saw that in the masjid shout out, the Aloha, comes behind him, puts her, you know, chin on the shoulder of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, her cheek against the cheek of the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wasallam and she's watching and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked her you know you want to continue watching right? Do you like this? And she says yes, you know she wants to watch and so she watches and then he asked her Are you done? And she's like, No, you know she she continues watching continues watching continue watching then he's done. Yes. Okay. And then she goes away, right? He tells her Okay, so you can go now. And so what were they watching? They were watching these? You know? abyssinians right? They were they were from avicennia. Right? But most of them in the masjid praying with the Muslims but playing as well afterwards on the day of every day

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of joy day of happiness. So the scholars say that it is permissible to play within the masjid. Okay, now I know a lot of people like stuff that a lot how can you play in the masjid? Well, it's permissible when you're playing something that is permissible to play in the masjid. Okay, so again, if you can't say something, that's how long then obviously we shouldn't do something that's how long Okay, we should be in a way that is permissible to be in general. Now what is meant by that, or in addition to that is that whatever it is that we're playing should be something that has some sort of skill or develop skill, right? This is why when we do our youth programs, we usually have the youth

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in the masjid and then we play like dodgeball or something with them and then you know, basketball or volleyball or badminton and then when people say let's play cricket we're like no no sorry. How long we can't play cricket right? It's not held on but we just barring

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a couple of people moving around everyone else is standing there waiting for like three days for the ball to be hit somewhere Oh, here we go. I'm just teasing you guys I like cricket hamdulillah but yeah, when it comes to playing in the masjid what we do is first of all we want to keep in mind that here in North America we need a place for our Muslim youth to come into joining together and to do things and so hamdulillah we accommodate that here within the mustard we have the gym area but sometimes we use the masala area and when brothers come in the mustard they're like what's going on what are you guys doing here the masala well the profits on a longer I needed some didn't freak out

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when he saw you know these abyssinians in the masjid you know playing around with spears and you know, and shields and so on. He let them be and of course again, people say but it was the day varied shouldn't be the norm. But there's nowhere else really in the society we live in for the Muslims together as Muslims to come and play and do things so if we allow it in the masjid as long as the mustard is being respected and the prayer timings are being respected and the people who are there to pray are being respected as they're given the space and the time to pray as well. And we all of course gather to pray and there's nothing wrong with that but there should be some benefit to

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the sport as well right? That it develops some skill it assists in skill building of some sort it could be mental skill it could be physical skill could be you know, agility or strength or or

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what's that word precision right some sort of precision you know skill or sport that we are playing in the masjid and that's beneficial and useful so you know a lot of people like oh stuff but a lot what are you doing Why are you guys like running around in the mustard hamdulillah they're practicing they're practicing for you know their blood flow and removal of cholesterol in the heart I'm

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just trying to make it light hearted because I know you know how to close earlier getting earlier and children are watching so hamdulillah when it's in person we can go wild and jump up and down right but when we're online has to be a little bit more tame. Alright, so the next thing we're going to look at inshallah, Thailand we only have a few minutes left his

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his to his heart was Xena Li Salatu Juma valeriedene. And this is something that we all know we don't really need to spend too much time on. used to have Muslim and yet his lease Allah to Juma will read will retain. So when jennylyn yet a gem metal be right it's encouraged and recommended and preferred that we as Muslims when it's the day varied in particular, or if it is the day of tomorrow that we get ourselves ready and we look good the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would take a wholesale Of course and put on nice clothing is nicest clothing not only for eight but also on the days of tomorrow. Right you would get ready and look nice the profits on a lot of wear and he was

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someone like to wear white

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was from his favorite colors to wear. And so that is something that is encouraged also mentioned is green

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and there's even a mention of a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam or malignant photography Allah and you know, he saw a gown a silk gown and he was like, you know, this would be good that you can wear it for tomorrow.

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And you can wear it when when meeting

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delegations that come to speak to you and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was like No, I'm not going to wear any clothing. That is that is for the people that will not benefit in the hereafter right basically.

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So silk right is not permissible for the men to wear. And then afterwards the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam sent this gown over this you know, suit to clothing over to omelet with the alone, and he was like yeah, to sort of like I'm gonna wear this thing you sent this to me and you like he told me it was not permissible for us to wear Why are you sending it to me He's like, I thought maybe you might benefit from selling it to someone else, or gifting it to someone else, someone who can wear it right? A woman for example, is permitted to wear silk so you can gift it to her or you know, you can give it to you can sell it right sell it to someone else. And so the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wasallam knew that I'm about the logo and liked it look nice. And so he told him Yeah, you know, that's something that's good you can you know, wear something nice on the day that he didn't tomorrow or you know, when delegations are coming, but just make sure that you're not wearing something that is not permissible for us to wear, in addition to that, perfume

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right? sentimental fantasy or the logo and he says that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

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if a man or if a man prepares himself right

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on the day of jamara

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and performs with all right, purifying himself and then performs a loop clean and proper right and then

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puts oil on him and this is more particularly on his hair, right oils his hair and then applies perfume from his home and then leaves to go to the masjid and doesn't separate two people right two people sitting down in the machine you come you're like excuse me I'm coming through here you come into like a long walkabout right and you're pushing people aside right? We don't have that issue with the six foot distancing anymore but it's coming back very soon and shot along with that. So you put on the oil right you dress yourself nicely after cleaning yourself put on the oil, right groom yourself your hair make sure you put on some perfume and then you leave to go to the mustard and you

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don't separate two people in order for you to come into play in between them. Something that you're slowly and then praise from what Allah Subhana which Allah has made it easy for you to pray whether it's two o'clock hour Florida six o'clock 10 o'clock 12 o'clock Island 14 1618 2020 220-426-2830 allow for the kids are watching they're entertained. If not you guys are probably like oh my god, that was annoying. And then some have Allah you know the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says praise what you know is what Allah subhana wa jal has made easy for them to pray or has written for you to pray

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through my insult

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and then is remains quiet either to kettlebell email,

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when the Imam is speaking

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for men does all of that or person does all of that.

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On the Dave jomar

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is quiet until the moment is done. Praise the prayer.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala forgives them of their sins from this drama

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and the previous one, right where this drama and the next one.

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So basically between Juma and Jamal if this is what we do, then we're forgiven of our sins a lot. Very nice very easy, right? And so yes, we're talking about clothing, right? So I'm saying people come and look in the mirror and fix her or whatnot and she mouths and a boil and all that Yes, right. We look good when we come to the master we should be prepared. Right? And I know chef Riyadh sometimes he comes to the masjid and he sees brothers at fudges time and he's like, Why are you coming in your pajamas? Like you're coming to stand before last? Can we tell it? Yes. Alhamdulillah. We're here, right? Come to the masjid you come. At least at least people are there. Yes, I get that.

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But we should also prepare ourselves for coming to stand before last panel to add our Creator. Like look nice, right? And I remember saying this years back years back when I was still a student in Medina, and then I remember

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at the next prayer, right, the next prayer, I saw one of the brothers who was in you know, the small halakhah that we were doing with some of the youth and he came with his suit that he were like for his graduation just a few months before that he just graduated from high school came with a suit and a tie and everything

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I was like Michel North America you're going to a wedding today is like no you taught us this morning that when we come to the mustard we should come with our best clothing right come presentable to stand before our last panel dad so he was coming in a suit and a tie all the time for slot up. I was like this is amazing man this brother literally for weeks I would just see him in a suit and a tie. Even though he just graduated from high school he wasn't working a job where he needs a suit and tie but he just felt I'm going to the muster to pray to Allah subhanaw taala let me put on my best clothing right some people take it real seriously can that's the way Allah had a

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loves when when we do things to the best of our abilities right with sn as best as we possibly can.

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And the last thing that will take very quickly inshallah tada and now you're on include mina msgid, burdell.

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That it is not permissible, discouraged, disliked, to leave the masjid after the event has been called. Okay. except in the case of a necessity. Let's say someone breaks a rule and they need to go and make although now at the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam they didn't have washrooms ease of access to washrooms and water like we do over here. Even now, if you go to mustard and neverwet you don't make blue inside mustard, the gnabry you put your shoes on, you go outside, you walk over to the muscle, to the to the muscle, you basically go down, right the what's the word I'm looking for, for the escalator. So,

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you go down the escalators, to the washrooms you go over there you make although you come back and walk all the way in takes like 10 minutes, right? So in the case where a person needs to leave for a necessity, something that's a necessity is permissible, but generally once the event has been called, we don't leave the masjid up or whatever, or the Allahu Akbar mentioned. Actually, no.

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Yeah,

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couldn't help or rude and filibustering. Have you heard the alarm and someone's habit of the alarm when we're in the mustard with over a lot of the lava and then and then and then called the event? For calmodulin. mean MSG, the EMG if it's bearable or whatever. So a man stood up in the masjid and started to walk over and above what I was watching him he was basically following him with his eyes watching this man where he was going, had a juvenile Masjid right until that man left the mustard for color All right, then overlaid on the logo and said

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I'm the fact that I saw a bell Qasim some Allahu Allah, he was alum. As for that man, he has disobeyed

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abou possum, right? Who's that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Why? Because he did something against the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam against the advice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. This habit of the allow anyone would not leave the mustard after the air then was caught. So we'll end here in shallow data if anyone has any questions, please do feel free to type them in right now. I know I said I was going to finish earlier and I'm just rambling on right now just so that in case your children are watching, they're sort of going oh my god, this guy doesn't stop and he doesn't take a breath. But anyways, if your children are watching and they're

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already in bed hamdulillah that's good for you. Now last Penwith added bless you with more time to chill with your children already sleeping in bed.

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Any questions? Please feel free to type them in.

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October 22 to 2020 2020 it was 2021 all day I've been writing 2022

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it's 2021.

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Even though my notes I wrote 2022.

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All right, any questions? I didn't see any. Um, the law means everything was perfectly fine and crystal clear. And my wife's on and she hasn't said anything. So I'm hamdulillah You know, that's good for me. And

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see my cousin is on.

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And I see a few other people who love this good

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face. We'll give it another minute. Because I know some people type. And I know some people swipe and I know some people do this weird thumb thing. I don't I never typed like that. I can't do that.

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I swipe. I'm a sweet person. Oh no, my wife has a question. You can ask me when we get home.

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It might just it might just be too long. You always ask tough questions. Please have mercy on me. It's been a long day.

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When will the in person halakhah reopen soon inshallah. Tada. Hopefully okay. There was some announcement that was made today by Doug Ford. And the management I know since last week has been like discussing it and looking over options. How is it possible that I got so many groceries but still forgot the milk? How did you forget the number one grocery on the list that we needed was milk and you forgot milk

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and I don't have the car. You have the car.

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I have my scooter.

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I'm going to ride my scooter home.

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Tell us more about Bruce

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as part of La Bruce awesome guy. Honestly he's like he has inspired me hamdulillah I know Xi'an is on Zan, you're not allowed to ask any questions you have to come to the master for Salah. Okay? No questions.

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How do we build the habit to pray in the mosque?

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You get a buddy a partner, right? Someone who you meet when you go to the masjid or encourages you to go I know some people do a carpooling thing some people message each other. Yeah, let's go. Or you have someone in your home that goes with you. So the two of you go together. That's important. Also, when you do go to the masjid for yourself, try to pray extra some prayers because then when the days you are lazy to go to the mustard, you're like, oh, man, it's gonna take too long. You're like, okay, I'll just pray the phone and then come home. Right? So at least you go for the phone and then come home. I was trying to make it easy.

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Hence my question. How is it possible? I don't know how it's possible, but Didn't I tell you that you're gonna go do groceries and you're gonna come home and you're gonna tell me? Oh, but I forgot that one thing that we need.

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handled a lot. It is the color of a lot. That's how it's possible. This is the color of Allah subhanaw taala that you go to groceries. And I don't know how much you spend on groceries. But you come home and you forget the milk. The thing we haven't had all day, the thing we even had to borrow from the neighbors this morning. Look.

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Somebody from Allah Subhana Allah has made you to forget as the Prophet sallallahu it has seldom said right?

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You know, Allah has made you to forget, right? hamdulillah

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Okay, can't get upset with you. Because Allah made you forget getting upset with you for forgetting would mean I'm getting upset with a lot.

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So are you going to get hurt? Or am I going to get it? Let me know. Because if you're going to get it, like I need to go pick up my medicine too. So

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all right.

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Is perfume permissible for females? Yes, perfume is permissible for females, but they should wear it inside of their home.

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Okay.

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Even for men, right? Men should not wear perfume that is going to attract others. And remember when it comes to applying perfume in Hades, inventions, apply the perfume in your home from your home. Why? So that you smell good at home for the people who live with you at home. And also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when this habit of the EULA, and when we're returning from being away for a few months, whether they wait for some time, few weeks, few months, few days, he would have them stay outside of Medina, and send someone forth to let the families of those men that were coming home, let them know, your husband is coming home in case they want to, you know, prepare

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themselves and you know, maybe beautify themselves and so on and so forth. Or, you know, whatever they need to do. Basically their husband is not coming home surprising them and they're like, Why didn't you tell me you were coming home? Remember, they didn't have WhatsApp. They didn't have cell phones like we do. They didn't have email, they didn't have, you know, tracking devices and all that. And so they would send someone force to let them know that, you know, someone was coming up. So is it permissible for women to wear perfume? Yes, it's permissible for them to beautify themselves inside of their home for their spouses, for those that are home for them. It's

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permissible for them to wear perfume inside of the home, but not outside of the home because it may attract someone.

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And again, it's not just for women, it is for the men as well, but for the men they can wear outside of the home. That's something that's permissible. Remember the perfume they're rude that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam would love to wear is usually a perfume that people don't find to be too attractive men like it men love rude so you'll notice a lot of men you asked you love rude they're like yeah, I love rude but my wife hates it. Isn't that amazing? The rude that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam would love to were rude.

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He's a perfume. Of course I'm not saying that it's not like no the smell incentive the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was his own scent was one that everyone admired. But when we look at you know, fine, pure rude, it is scent that men love. And it's a scent that women generally don't like. Right? Because I know when I were rude, my wife is like,

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and I spoken to many brothers and they're like, man, your own smells amazing, but I can never wear that at home. I have one brother who comes to my office specifically to get the strongest scent of Uru did that I have before Sala and he just puts a little bit on so that he can smell it but he's like I need to make sure that I wash my hands and stuff and it gets off of me before he gets home because his wife doesn't like it. So rude in itself is interesting. Now last panaway to Allah blesses all 8073 more minutes to go, okay, you're going to get that good.

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So Xi'an Yeah, I mentioned that. Do I like kunafa

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Love kunafa love kunafa absolutely loved enough hamdulillah when I used to go to Jeddah from Medina we used to go get kunafa freshly made hamdulillah didn't used to find it in Medina to be honest at that time.

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What's the proper Islamic understanding of jilbab just Sakuma level phaedon?

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I mean well barakallahu li walakum wa sallahu wa Alaykum wa

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jal Zakouma local hired on for the question

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what's the proper stomach understanding of job well we'll cover that another day inshallah daddy because it's almost time for Salah toleration I don't want it to go longer and then people stay on Monday and say I was late for Salah because I was watching the live stream generally speaking the job is something that is worn that covers the body and that is loose and goes from top to bottom. We'll leave it at that inshallah Tad is not going to lower headed for attending Baraka low FICO, mostly all of you soon for solid arratia and if I don't see you for Salah delay shall see you on Sunday evening for essential fick

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