Friday Night Etiquettes Class – December 4, 2020

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have been an amine was not a word to var he was sedam who either an OB he'll carry him as a form of solder to atom tasleem rubbish roughly so the way I certainly agree that him in discerning of gobble coli, my brothers and my sisters SNM or they come to LA he robota cattle. I hope that everyone is doing well. In short, a lot of Tiana I pray and ask a lot as our agenda to keep everyone safe and protected from this virus that we know so well as Coronavirus. COVID-19 ask Allah subhana wa tada to open his doors of mercy and Akuma and mofetil his doors of mercy and His doors of forgiveness upon us make it easy for us to turn back to Allah subhanho wa Taala that at all times. ask Allah subhana

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wa Taala to make it easy for us to learn this Deen and tonight we are starting a new chapter in sha Allah. We concluded the chapter on the etiquettes of the Quran last week. And we will be beginning the chapter on the etiquettes of a set out the etiquettes of giving senem or salutations greetings to one another. And so as we begin on this journey of a new chapter, you know the chapter of the etiquettes of senem about devasthanam We ask Allah subhana wa ala to shower is set up His peace, his blessings, his akima upon us. As we say in a drought a lot in the entire setup. A woman can say hey, you know I've been a besana Tabarak to God when he calm or about Okta.

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allotment to Santa Monica says,

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Hey, you know, I've been at the center, right? So we'll continue inshallah, to add, I usually try to delay a little bit at the beginning to get people on because everyone gets that notification and then they need to drop what they're doing and come on. But we'll kick right into it In short, a lot of data. Okay, bad data set up.

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To begin, we're going to be looking at some examples of the setup. Okay, we're going to be looking at some examples of conveying salutations to one another. And so Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran, this isn't sort of the norm verse number 27. Yeah, a young lady in ermine, learn to do kulu tenovate around boo Chico had a test that needs to what do send me more Allah Li Allah subhanho wa Taala says to the believers, yeah, you have Latina mm right. This is again a lesson for us anytime we hear Allah subhana wa tada call out to the believers. We need to pay close attention and listen up okay, what is a lot some kind of what's Allah trying to tell me now? And so I was kind of without

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it begins by saying, Oh, you who believe let at Hulu 10 away or bu t calm. Do not enter homes that are not yours had until test that needs to until you've asked permission. What to suddenly more.

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And once you've asked permission, or by asking permission, seeking that permission to enter the house, but also to convey Salutations to the occupants of that home right to greet the people of that home with a seller more alikhan

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also an example that we see in the Quran, Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah says in Surah Nisa, what either her ye to be to hate yet in for how you will be asked and I mean, how I would do her, what either who you be to hear

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for Hey you be acedemic

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do

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Allah Subhana Allah says and when you are greeted, right what you got for you to be hated. When you are greeted, someone greets you with a greeting, then respond with a better greeting or at least something similar. So for example, Allah subhana wa tada saying, if you're greeted with a set mRNA come then respond with y la cama Sena or with y they come with cinema hematoma or with La La como Salaam rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. Okay, so respond to someone set them with the equivalent or something more.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when explaining the Hadith of the creation of Adam, Allah has set up in this particular

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Hadees that we know of, that we actually spoke about last week, I believe last week or the week before in the creation of Adam Allah has sent him Allah Subhana Allah tells him to you know give Salaam to the angels for call a celeb or at a con. So he says to the angels are sent Mr. alikum. And the angels respond to Adam added his salon by saying a salon where I lay cap water to law

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further dwama to law, right. So, we see that the angels increased in their response

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to the senem of Adam alley, his center

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will call out a suit of law he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam learned hula ginetta had said to me No, we know this hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, you will not enter Jannah until you believe

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you will not enter agenda until you believe Okay, what does that mean to believe? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, Well, I took me no had to help boo. And you will not believe until you love one another right until you have love for each other. Now this is showing us an element of the completion of our belief. This doesn't mean that you can believe in everything else but because you you know there's there's some love missing in your hearts that you are not a believer. What it means is that this is an addition to or a completion or a perfection of our belief. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, led hula ginetta had said to me none of you will enter into

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paradise until you believe and none of you will believe what took me you had to have boo none of you will believe until you love one another.

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I do look America in either fell to move with the help button. Shall I tell you about something that if you were to do it, you will acquire love for each other? Now of course every single one of us knows this Heidi's really well right the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then says I've just sent them a beaner spread center, right spread center salutations greetings amongst yourselves of show Salaam Urbino calm spread that send them to one another amongst yourselves. That will increase the love that we have for each other. And the love that we have for each other is a completion of our our belief in Allah subhana wa tada our Amen. Thus guaranteeing or affirming the fact that we

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are from the people of Paradise right that we need to continue to do this. Now of course there are many other narrations as well indicating or hinting certain things that we need to do in order to believe that you know I had to come head to your head really iffy he may hit Boolean FC, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also says that you will

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you will not truly believe right as in your belief once again is not going to be perfected polished.

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Had depth until you love for someone else what you love for yourself. Had your head really I think he made your head booni NFC until you love for your brother what you love for yourself and of course in your that statements you love for your brother it also means what you love for your sister at until we acquire that love for each other right in our hearts that I would want someone else to have something before I have it myself. I would want to see someone else enjoy it before I enjoy it myself. That is a part of completing our belief in Allah subhanho

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wa Taala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the prophet SAW Allah Allah He was sending him said as well. Those of you who are just joining us, we just begin the chapter on the etiquettes of a center more on a con etiquettes of setup. And we're just giving some proofs and evidences of sundown before we get into the topics themselves. So here we see another Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said How could you Muslim, our little Muslim? How could a Muslim a Muslim sit on? Right? So the prophets all along I need to send them says that the rate of a believer upon another sorry, the rate of a Muslim upon another Muslim are six. So there are six rates of the Muslim upon

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the Muslim.

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And the very first thing that you mentioned and that's the most important part of it is either lucky to send him Allah when the Muslim meets another Muslim. He gives him senem or gives her setup. Okay, they agree to it set up. I'm going to pause here and ask you a question. These are the six rights of the Muslim upon the Muslim.

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In one Hadith, the five rights of the Muslim world

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The Muslim. Okay, which are the same? And then the narration of email Muslim marketing a lot have six points. Do you want to know all six of them? Are you sufficient? With just or, you know, are we able to suffice with just one? So let me see in the chat or in the comment section. How many of you are okay with just learning one of these rights? And you don't want to know any of the other five?

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Let me know in the comments. Do you want to learn all six? Shall I explain the six to you now? Or should we just suffice with one?

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Only two of you have responded so far. So that means maybe we'll only give two. Okay. Three people. Four people. Five people. Six people. All right, that's six. Now we need another six people to say that they want to know all six as well before I give all six. So one. All right. I love this fella to

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the dean by I shall not lie. I need some more people. I need four more people to say they wanted all six. Otherwise, we'll only give to

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you got your chat box there your comment section, you can just type it in all six or all of them or six, whatever you want. I want to see who's paying attention.

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And for more people to say they wanted all six. Otherwise, we're only going to give two. Okay, that's three. I need three more people.

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Can't be five doughnuts out of six Krispy kremes. Well, hey, if you're going to be delivering six Krispy Kreme Doughnuts Bismillah.

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All right. How about my wife actually just messaged me and said tell him all six. Everything. How about so we have no choice. So the brothers are, you know, they're just cleaning the mustard. It was Friday today and they did half of the cleaning earlier and they're doing the other half now. They're actually cleaning right outside my door. So if you hear the vacuum a little bit, just ignore it inshallah. Okay. So what are the six rights of the Muslim upon the Muslim? First of all, as we saw when

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you meet him, greet him. So the first one is when you meet the Muslim greet the Muslim, I said, Mr. Eddie, that is the right of the Muslim. Right. The second is

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when he invites you respond to him. So when someone invites you accept the invitation, unless you have a valid, you know, reason you have something else going on, you're unable to make it or whatnot. But you know, the importance of accepting the invitation we learned last Sunday in class, you know, in our essential fifth class, the importance of accepting the invitation. Okay. So the first one is, when you meet him, greet him. Second, when he invites you respond to him? Number three, when he seeks

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counsel.

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give him advice, right? When someone comes to you and seeks advice, give them advice. Right? Share some advice with that person. You may say, you know what, I'm not someone who has advice, but go to this person. That's advice as well. Right? That doesn't mean you know, sometimes people hear this Hadeeth or, you know, they tried to understand it themselves. And they think, Oh, I need to give them advice. If I don't give them advice on, you know, not fulfilling the rights of the Muslim upon the Muslim well,

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telling someone or guiding someone to where they need to go to, in order to

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Shall I see that call that their, you know, guiding someone to, to get the help that they need from someone else or somewhere else? his advice as well. You know, I may not know how to help you in this, but I know someone who can help you in this and you guide them to that person, right? That's giving them the advice. So the first one is when you meet him greet him when he invites you respond to him. Third is when he seeks counsel.

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Share advice with him, right, give him advice. Number four, when he sneezes, and praises a lot when someone

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I choke

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Alhamdulillah then you would say yet humble Cola, or you have to have a kid law, or you're having common law. Right? Make sure that you respond to the hand the praise of a loss of hand which Allah that someone makes after sneezing. So if someone sneezes and doesn't say anything, then you don't have to say anything. But if someone sneezes and says Alhamdulillah, then you should respond by saying,

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okay, you should respond by saying Yeah, come on, come on.

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And then they would respond by saying yeah, you

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Come along, we'll see how bad it can. So that's number four, the sneeze. So we have the set m, the invitation, the advice and the sneeze. Number five, when he is sick, visit him.

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When a believer is sick, when a Muslim is sick, visit them. The visiting of the sick, helps them to get better, it motivates them, makes them feel empowered, makes them feel like they have the ability to please Allah subhanho wa Taala. Even throughout their sickness, their illness, their difficult time, it makes them understand the importance of forgiveness, right, and they seek forgiveness. And we know that when someone is not well, you know, even the pricking of a thorn, is a means of our forgiveness. And so you know, when someone is sick, visit them. And of course, like I said, last week, when we travel through this book, this journey on learning the etiquettes, we will have a

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chapter on visiting the sick as well and we'll look at that Okay, number six, when he dies, follow his funeral when he dies, follow his funeral. So those are the six rights of the believer upon the believer, okay, so we need to make sure that we follow through with the advice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Now, I know that some of you are very clever, and have invited me and you know, messaged and said, things like, would you accept dinner, a dinner invite, please. And I have an excuse COVID-19

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during this time of COVID You know, it is very difficult for anyone to accept invitations, so please do you know Forgive me during this time, but we do have advice from the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam to sit put during the time of a pandemic, right, whenever there's a pandemic, we are meant to sit puts sit tight to basically the people of Cuba in Toronto that are in lockdown, they shouldn't be coming to Holton, you know, to join us in prayers, they should stay within peel and Toronto in order to contain the virus there and to avoid spreading it further. This is the advice that we get from the prophets on a log when he was setting up.

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So just knock on the local haven for all of you that have you know, reached out with an invitation to invite me and are going to use a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to support your evidence in me not turning down your invitation. And dinner for me can actually mean something really small. So honestly, if you just give me a glass of water, or if you give me a coffee or a tea, you know we're good with that in sha Allah to Allah. But, you know, please sit tight during the pandemic and after the pandemic is done in sha Allah data we'll see what we can do and we'll see what we can do. All right now let's get into some of the the different topics within this chapter of

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setup getting sent out. So it is from the Sunnah of the prophet SAW the longer it he was solemn to say Salim to another believer, but it is Wajid right? It is wajib to respond to the sentiment of a person. So when we see another believer we should say a sense where it come to them. It's a son of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and we see this happen Muslim Island Muslim says the the rights of a Muslim upon another Muslim are six right.

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And the first one is of course, when you

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sorry when you meet him greet him right greet that person with setup.

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But now we have to look at responding to the center. Responding to the set arm is actually compulsory. So giving setup is the son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. When you meet someone give Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam advice Shall I tell you something that if you do it, it will spread love amongst you. I've just said anabaena could spread Salloum spread salutations amongst you. But then we see the prophets all along it who are sanlam sorry, Allah Subhana Allah mentions what either her ye to be to hear it in for how you be center minha Allah dua, Allah Subhana Allah then gives us a command in the Koran and you know when someone greets you with a

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greeting someone says send them to you

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for how you will be accepted in how to do that respond to their senem with something that is better than it or equal to it. So we're going to look at the differences in the setup but if for example, someone says a sem or a comm, then you can respond with a set while a comma setup or with something better than it

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When it comes to Santa Monica to LA, or why they come to Santa Monica to La wovodat capital, okay?

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So it is from the sun net to get set up and it is wajib. Right to respond to the centum once it is given

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and I use this sometimes at the beginning of some of my lectures, right when I begin and I say I said Mr. Eddie come up with a logical but I kept with everyone who's sitting there in the audience at a auditorium or in the masjid, you know, in, in the gathering. And I say, said, Mr. Eddie cannot afford to live in a castle and only 20 people respond, you know, it's the right of a Muslim to hear that that response, right to get a response from them. However, we're going to look at whether we all have to respond, or is it sufficient if some of us respond, okay, we'll look at that shortly. inshallah.

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In fact, let's just take that right now. Right. So if a men or person I should say, right, because I'm just reading off of, you know, the book, and a lot of the time, they'll use like, male or female terms, and it's just general applying to everyone. So if someone is walking, and comes across a group of people, and says, a set mRNA, calm, okay, someone's walking comes across a group of people and says, I said, I've already gone.

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Does everyone in the group need to respond by saying why they come with senem? Or is it sufficient for one person to respond and say why they come with set up, and this is where we see it even be thought about the lower end, he said,

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you'd see an agenda, he said, when people are passing by, it is enough, if one of them gives a salutation on their behalf. So if one person is walking by a group, so here's the group and this is another group walking by, okay, and this person from the group gives them to this group as they're passing by. So they're coming by and this person says, a set mRNA como De La Hoya about a cat. Okay, it's sufficient for that one person to give senem to the entire group. The whole group doesn't need to stop and say, sir, I'm already gone. So now you have all these peoples like this one said, I'm already going on. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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I'm sorry. That's why we've seen people develop this way of just saying slightly concerning completely completely. So called Sonic and Sonic and Sonic, right, people say it wrong, we need to make sure that we see set them properly. SNM is a con. Right, a salaamu la con, it's important to say it properly because it's a do out, okay, it's a con the people, okay, now.

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He says I need of the alohar and says that it's sufficient for one person in a group that's passing by another group to say send them to that group.

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And it is enough for those that are sitting if one of them replies to the sent out. So if only one person gives sent them to the group passing by, and one person replies to that, set them on behalf of the group, then that is sufficient, you get that? So it's sufficient. For example, if I'm standing up and doing a lecture and I say send mRNA come and one or two or five of the 100 people say why they come set up, that's sufficient. Right? As it's an acknowledgement and a respond to your set em was done on behalf of everyone else, okay. And so that is what we learned from the Sahaba of the Allah

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sefa to center.

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How do we say setup?

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So we say a seller mu alikum warahmatu la he was our cattle

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and that is the best Sallam to give or to say a salaam aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.

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After that, as in, that's the best. The next best would see would be to say a Salam or Aleikum, wa rahmatullah.

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And the next best thing to say would be a seller more at a con.

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And that is the least of them. Okay, so the least we should say, is a Santa Monica.

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And then if we want to say a little more, we can say a set M or n equal to y. And if we want to say more than that, we can say a set M or alikum warahmatu Allahi. Wa barakato. And that is the best that's the best center. Why is that the best center because that is the centum that we learned from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Now, what should we say in response to that? I'm mostly photo Rudd for him.

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We are coup de mis the center OBS any min Hartley colita Allah what either ye to be the hatin for how you be accent Amina or do we already mentioned this so the

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the description of the response of the senem should be or la cama Salam what Welcome to LA he robotic capital or what La Casa Del Mar to LA or LA como Santa

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okay so if someone says said Mr. La con they can say why they como center or la cama Santa Monica to what our la cama Santa Margarita walking over capital if someone says cenomar aleikum wa rahmatullah then the response would be y la como Santa Monica to LA or la cama Santa Monica to LA Eva capital. Okay. And now if someone says a Santa Monica Morocco to Lima capital, then the response should be y la casa de Morocco to ye robotic capital.

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And not less than that. Okay, good.

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What is the evidence and proof for saying a set M or a con? And which one is better to say set mRNA come our Santa Monica, Monica de la or Santa Monica. Welcome to logging over cattle. We see this in a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, okay?

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No matter what whatever, whatever. But the module and model Allah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So a word out of the lava and says that a man passed by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what was the image listen and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in a gathering for color SLM, or alikhan. And so he said to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, a Salam or Aleikum, for color, I should have said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said about that person 10 rewards. Why because that person said said Mr. alikum 10 rewards

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for metal modules

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for call center or any call to law, and so

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another person passed by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and said I said Mr. aleikum wa rahmatullah wa. And the prophets and a lot of it he was sent him said for call Harish Runa Hassan.

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When de rewards for that person,

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for Maharaja and for call center, Marley Kumar coming to learning more about our cat. So another men walked by another person who walked by and said, a Santa Monica mark with a walking robot, a capital, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that funa has 30 rewards.

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Thus indicating to us that the best to say is set M or n equal to Allahu Akbar cattle, you get 30 rewards. And if you say, what I'm up to why, and you end there, and you get 20 rewards, and you just say cemani come, then you get 10 rewards, right? And so that's Hadeeth where it shows us the importance of saying the full centum if we want to get more rewards, every single one of us wants more rewards. So we need to stop just saying I said Mr. Icahn, we should say set up already come up with a walking robot a costume but there's nothing wrong if we just say a set of RNA The thing is we always want to do sn we always want to get more we want to be closer to Allah want to earn more

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rewards from Alice panaway dad and that can be achieved by saying the full setup okay

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um here's a must Okay, not masala we're not talking about food. Talking about masala Okay, masala masala is what you put in your food right the spices okay. He then data alemu pathetic this lm aurender wallbottle cattle for hell your sugar Xia la palabra en la a sn Amina. So if the person who is

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responding to the center Okay, and the Salaam that was given to him ended with wallbottle cattle. So someone two people, this person says a Salaam or Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu. This person says Allah Subhana Allah says to respond to their setup with what is equal to or better than that. So can I add and I know some of you asked this question and in respond to it, because I know that first of all, we're taking questions at the end. But also I'm going to answer a lot of your questions as we go along. Right? So if I know that we're covering that, I'm just not going to bother answering it because we're getting to it inshallah. So this person says, I said Mr. Eddie, come to

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LA he will about our capital. This person says I need to respond by saying why they come to Santa Monica to LA to buy cattle or the accent Amina. I need to say something better than it. What am I going to say?

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So this now is the masala right the masala what is the ruling with regards to this should someone add to the sentiment say something in addition to it like one mo fewer to what Sam and so on and so forth should a person add to it and say Wiley comma Salah Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh to one or two

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or should the person you know what what do they say?

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And here we see you know the answer to be that a person should not add anything extra on to the senem after what about a cattle Okay, there's no need for anything additional after the butter cut of Allah Subhana which I had, right? The bulk of a lot is Ziad. It is extra when you're asking for the Baka of Allah subhana wa tada Baraka is extras of something and so that in itself is the extra Okay, and so that's where some how to love We don't need to add anything more than y la como center or to LA he robot a cartoon, because the Baraka of Allah Subhana Allah is the extra already that is going to be added on. Be sincere in your response to the system. And you will see that the loss of

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handling to Allah will reward even more.

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Even a bus and even armor, don't do bah bah bah even on bus and even armato Viola and Houma.

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They said, inter has Salam ala aldora cattle

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Illa Allah Allah Baraka, as in the ending of Salaam is at the Baraka when you say where la cama Salah monochromator wa, wa barakato come along as Ella gel and Sonic everybody, as Allah subhanho wa Taala said about his righteous worshipers. Allah subhanaw taala said in verse number 73 of sort of wood

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or metal law he robotica to who la con el Beit rahmatullahi wa barakatuh who and they come a little bit so they say who is that even Ibis and even aroma of the Allahu anhu both of them said there's no addition after it. There's no there's no need to add anything more and we should not add anything more after the buttock of a lesson had a way to add a Why? Because Allah himself says in the Quran in surah, verse number 73, what are my two well he wrote about our cattle who la come out a little bit.

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So Allah Subhana Allah says that dogma and his Baraka is upon them. So why would we add something else? A lot doesn't know or a lot didn't know. No, that's sufficient. That's enough for us. And that's a way my brothers and sisters of us having self discipline

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and applying self discipline to ourselves, right? The the ability to control ourselves control our desires. As believers no doubt we want to do more. And the more that we can do is by responding with what the prophet sent along with certain topics or however, you want to get more reward sake when it comes down to lucky robot. That's enough, doing more than what the prophet SAW a lot of either us or more than what Allah subhana wa tada wants from us, is us thinking we know better than or more than Allah subhanho wa Taala which, when any other Billa is not the case, right? None of us knows more or better than a loss of Hannibal, what's

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the last part that we'll take for today is come on to do that be I like SLM How? It is disliked to start with la casa, instead of a salon or at a con. Right. It's dislike to respond with. I like SNM

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jabber even Salim al who Jamie Guardiola I'm so happy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said,

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Tatum nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for call to LA Casella. He said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam la casilla selam upon you bpce

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for call the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam responded to him and said let akula Allah center

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don't say aliko center while I can call a salaam aleikum, rather say a salon where any so the prophets all along I think it was some of them told him Don't say aliko center say a salon where la con

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or a set em where I like

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And we also see in another narration the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said letter will Allah SNM do not say La casilla for in natuurlijk SLM to hear to Mota

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upon you be peace, this is the Salaam to the dead. That is the Salaam that is given to those who have already passed away, not to the people who are alive. So the center that we give is a center more at a con, not la casilla. Okay.

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And we'll learn more I know some of you are thinking okay, what about the response to the non believer? What are we supposed to say when an unbeliever says it said Mr. Na, come to us? Are we supposed to say the same thing back? Or is a different a different response? Is there you know, one response for the believers one response for the non believers, you know, what do we do? Be patient, we will get to those, you know, those topics as we continue along this journey through this chapter in sha Allah to add, that's all that we're going to take for today. We'll open it up for questions. inshallah, if anyone has any questions, please type them in. Now if I if you typed a question before

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and I didn't read it, then please do type in your question. Again, just copy and paste it so that I can see it. Okay.

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Is that allowed?

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So I think, Amir, I answered that right now. Right. And you know, some people say why ecommerce seller market why what are cattle agenda to win gender to hell? Which animal? Hold on.

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So, no, we shouldn't add to it. Right? Don't add to it. Okay, you want to make another door out for someone make another door out for them, but don't add to the center? Okay.

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Okay, good question. Can replying to someone send them with a better smile or a better gesture than they presented to us be considered a better reply.

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Yes. So we are not only

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we are not only rewarded based on our words, we are rewarded based on our actions. So for example, someone enters the class, right? We're sitting together in my office, right? discussing someone knocks on my door and comes in. And they say, send me come

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and ask you a question. And you know, they're nice, they have, you know, a smile on their face. And because I'm busy, I might be like, balicasag, what do you want? Right? I'm not showing them kindness, I'm not going to be rewarded for my behavior, right? I may actually be sinned, because I'm not showing kindness to them. Whereas the senem itself, yes, would be would be, you know, sufficient in the setup and the words, but now if you go above and beyond, and that's what the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam used to do, he used to go above and beyond always right, always showing a better example always trying to teach us what's best to do. So if we say, you know, someone comes,

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send them where it can can ask you a question. See, where they can sit down whatever the line? Okay, how are you doing? I hope everything is well. I haven't seen you in such a long time. I saw lots of other color. Really glad to see you. Yes, yes. What is it that you want to know? And I'll be like,

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I'll be here forever. My wife had never seen him any more if I if I respond to people that

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sometimes I need to just be like, no, what do you need? I cut off yellow. We gotta go. We gotta move.

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But yes, if you are nicer, you're putting more effort into it. You're putting more you're, you know, some kind of here's another example, brother. I mean,

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I mean,

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I need a guru

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to buy

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if someone who you had a grudge with right you're, you're not on good terms with comes and says said that morning.

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And you think to yourself, oh, man, here's this brother again. Man. What does he want? This guy's always bothering me. I was like, irritating me. He's gonna come and he's gonna tell me something again. He's gonna say something that's annoying to me. Ah, let me just respond to him in a way that he knows. I never want to hear something from him again. I think that's right. No,

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we should respond in a way that this person is like, oh, man, he's changed. He's such an amazing person. He may have forgiven me for what happened in the past. So he comes in like, I want like I they come a set of Yes. How are you? How's everything? How's the family? How are the children's everything good about a while back fix just bought a saving grace online cafe. Right? And that person would be like, Oh, my good mood today. Right. So some have a lot that's, you know, one of the ways that

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We can help to fix the hearts of people remember the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said I do look around a shaman or if I do look malattia if you do this thing right Should I tell you something that if you do it bring love between the hearts I've just sent him a beaner calm so when you give Salaam don't give a Salaam that's rude to give us an M that's nice okay

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already

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next time you initiate Salaam I'm coming to hug you

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after COVID after COVID and after I've given the okay you know brothers still keep coming and trying to shake my head this brother came in that drama brothers always come right comes into calls when it comes in like just standing there like sorry I can't do it and you know I don't do every Friday you try and shake my hand and shaking your hand

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right sometimes

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okay shaking again I'm not going to answer questions of things that we're going to still learn about in the chapter inshallah Okay.

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Let me see let me as we enter our house, which better send them to give okay when you're entering your house, you say salon and give a complete center.

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A salon where le Kamara to lie about a catwalk this Mila he will edge Now what this millennial college now I know I've been at our calendar right give the best always tried to give the best always do more. Right always do more.

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My wife's gonna hold me to this I know when I come home today she can be waiting to see what kind of setup I give.

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So then we're gonna come on off to live at a calculator shift from Santa Monica to LA to broadcast so I give you a sentiment the beginning I'll give you a Sadam at the end. It's very hard for me to keep responding to every single person setup. What is the best way to get them to enter an empty house after you come back from work and get okay I just finished answering that. I get sent out and then shake hands then hug then beatbox What about that?

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jazz it alone.

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So shaza is a good friend of mine from Malaysia he's actually the Malaysian champion beatboxer hum the like he's like the best beatboxer in Malaysia May Allah subhana wa tada bless him with the best of his dunya and the year after she has it. Do you know how to beatbox salaam

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aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Okay,

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if non Muslim say Salaam how do we respond? Okay. Like I said, we're going to talk about these things as we go along. There's so many topics in this chapter. We'll come across that inshallah tada Okay, just bear with us shall lie.

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Want to say something? She had acid but you're banned me from here? No, no, don't say it. If I'm going to bend you. Okay. I don't want to lie. You gotta catala somebody by legal Sarah

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Galloway do you go?

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I'm

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just checking to see if there's any merit

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to lower capital. zz barakallahu fee for Coachella Valley from Santa Monica to la hora capital. La Boca Chica Lacey can handle they have to La La Selim Alec.

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Kalia. Yes ma'am how to best box no no no aliases? No, no, no where near she has it she has it is Masha Allah Tabata Cutler, okay, is next level. In fact, if I was to put him on here, and he started beatboxing you guys would be like, Whoa, how did you even know this guy?

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Okay, if someone says I said Mr. La come to LA and I reply with just one a comma Sam ma sinful? Yes, some of the scholars consider that to be a sin. Some of the scholars consider that to be a sin. Why? Because Allah subhanho wa Taala commands us to respond to the Salaam with what is equal to or better than it will either her ye to be to hear it. In fact, you will be asked and I'm in her older do our last panel without it gives us the command to respond to the senem with what is better than its or what is similar to it. So yes, some of the scholars consider that to be a sin. Aha, yes, I know he is the best he is the big box further chatted about jazz and she has it.

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She has that she has that. That's how he says it. The Malays English is that

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me and my son Achmed saw broche as it

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Second twins have faith. Yes. From the law under the law and the law

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as it is next level. All right. I think that's it for all of the questions. I don't see any more questions. Just come a level head on for attending. We'll see all of you.

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Yes. Excellent. Well, you know what Madonna and Lena were saying earlier in fact, Lita brought it up she's like, she roses dad comes on your 100 cars in the evening. I always see his name come on there. Right so Manuel Nina are always asking about sharrows and

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hopefully we get to see you soon. Ciao. Ciao.

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Okay, uh, the name of the book that I'm teaching Okay, so I'm using this as a reference but I will show you the book and the name it's Arabic. So if you don't know Arabic, it will be hard for you to understand Okay, he tab

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okay and here for a given Abdullah z is a shell who

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she

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even Abdulaziz shell who

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Okay, that's the book that we're using for those of you that are here you want to see it tabula Deb Schiff word. Now disease should hope

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those are gonna hear you go

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back to chisako Hayden,

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we'll see all of you soon in sha Allah, may Allah subhana wa Tada, bless each and every one of you.

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Here's a good question. We'll end with this inshallah. Someone brought up a very, very good question. What about when someone texts you and says a Salam or Aleikum? Can it be abbreviated? So I always tell myself we can type so many things, we can sit there and type for hours to people. And we have no issues right? You know, writing lots and lots of things to them and talking about things why is it that we need to abbreviate our setup

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one thing that's really weird is you know, we fall short as Muslims on things that are so easy for us and most important for us to do. Okay, so if someone is beginning a message to someone don't just start with senem start with a set M or na

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right start with a Salaam or Anika and if someone writes to you and says center, then say what's better than that? say why ecommerce center

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right? Why ecommerce center

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and so you know, those are some of the things that we should do like this anywhere. Anywhere. Right? I LWI er This is this new thing that people started about a year ago whenever someone you know messages on a group or sends out a message and says so and so person passed away or you know, someone knows someone who passed away instead of saying in Nan de la he were in that era hit it in the law he was in that era. Roger your own ai LW ir that's what people right now. It will work. Why? What's it worth? In an LLC waiting

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to end well, I say in nulla Hema in that why are we even saying that? We what's in with say in Lila here we're in LA here I do your own Allah Subhana Allah says in the urn

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La Nina either Asada to Muslim but Oh, in any luck you are in EOD your own Allah subhanho wa Taala doesn't say in the Quran and Lady, you know, either assigned by Tom mostly you bet on carlu in with, let's say in LA or in a garage.

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I even had one brother, right? I lift lamb. Wow. Yeah. Oh,

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man lost a pound of water, I learned make it easy for us.

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One thing I do want to point out with regards to set out on a group.

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You know, when you message a group and you say said, I'm going to have to talk about a cattle, tomorrow's drummer will be at 1245, for example, or the first time I will be at 1215 445 115 145 to 15. You don't need 100 people in the group to say why they come and set up you need one person to respond to the setup. And that person might say it with their tongue. And so sometimes when people message me, and I simply respond, and I they'll write it.

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They'll write a whole question out, right? they'll write a question out, and they'll be like, so now morning shift, I have this question and they ask the whole question, and I will respond to the question and be like,

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yes, it's permissible or no, it's not permissible based on this.

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And instead of them even caring about their response, sometimes I say,

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share fear Allah, you'd even respond to my center. How do you know I didn't respond to your center? When I read send them I say why they come a center. That's that's what I've trained myself to do when I see Sonoma County center, right? That's what I do. So sometimes I will reply and I always try to make it a point to reply with. We're at a call center always right. However, sometimes due to time or where you are, what I'm doing sometimes people messaged me, like 30 seconds before the Juma football is about to begin, and they're asking me a question. Like, what time is the football livestream going to be right to say Santa Monica? What time is the Juma football going to be live

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streamed? And it's like 1214 I'm going to livestream at 1215 so I just say 1215 in the message

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and I'll get a message back shift fear Allah you don't even respond to my setup. What kind of shake Are you

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on my murky hamdulillah Okay, so

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that's all some people will end with this inshallah some people have been asking about my glasses, they're not for reading or anything. These are actually blue light glasses to block. I have three screens in front of me and spotlights. So this is to block the blue light out of my eyes. And I don't know if any of you have been trying this, but I've been trying it for the last like three or four days. And these are working wonders. They're actually making me feel so much better. My head doesn't hurt my eyes. Don't feel like I got punched in the face. So any of you spending a lot of time online in front of screens? Get yourself some blue light glasses. These ones are actually super

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super cheap and flimsy. I think I need another pair cuz they're like, getting all distorted already. My wife's gonna complain, but you just bought them with a no good way to buy something. That's no good. But yeah, I made a mistake. And I went with the cheapest thing I could find. So

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yes, you can get blue light glasses and I encourage every single one of you who's in front of the computer for a long time to get blue light glasses.

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Well, yes, the senem as wr wb SLM where aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato in any way not in a Roger, okay.

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We'll speak to all of you soon inshallah. Does that come a little faded and see you on Sunday at eight o'clock for our essential thick class, but a lot of econ or some longer Central American and Amina Mohammed wanna send him send him Arnica.