Friday Night Etiquettes Class – December 3, 2021

Salam Alaikum wa he was set out before identity and Karim Alayhi Salatu wa Cheslin propitiously suddenly were silly Emery

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March

that's supposed to be a question already

you want to open that to

the people in the back a little more.

A little more.

It would help you stood up and did it for me

I think that's

all the way

to be honest, your mother can't hear you

I think that's enough. I don't think we need to open it more because I get like the majority of the space if anyone wants a little privacy that's fine. Right? You know, the brothers they want a break sometimes from

I can see them all here. They're like no, no.

All right. Okay, so we'll get started. On data. First off, we're gonna do a vision of what we are what we already covered in the last two weeks, but we're gonna do it a little bit quicker in sha Welcome to adda okay, because this week we have a new

a new element of fun.

What we're doing from this week onwards inshallah is every Friday night, we will do a raffle. Okay. Once a raffle.

raffle is when you come through the door as a family you get one ticket. How many of you have a ticket

Wow, all you kids have tickets.

Parents have tickets.

So it's one ticket for family because I know some families have lots of aka eight kids mother father, nieces, nephews, brother in law sister in law cousins and like one family 25 people, right? So one ticket per family as in parents and children and if you're one person who came along and you get one ticket is okay. And every single Friday inshallah to Allah, we will do a raffle. And whoever wins, it's random. So it's not like, you know, when we did a Kahoot quiz, and then every like three weeks you see the same people winning because most robots are just very fast on their reflexes, right? So the raffle will random so we have all the tickets in the bag and we'll randomly pick a

number and every week what is the price

$50 Jolanda $50 Yeah, not enough.

Like a Tim Hortons gift card cash, cash so that you can use it however you want. And if you want to use it in southern fun, give to the Muslim how vanilla but here's one thing that you will need to know. The $50 is not coming from the masjid

the $50 every week is not coming from the Masjid. So don't think like mashallah mustard is giving away $50 for free all the time, like that's a lot of money. Why should I donate? The $50 is coming from a generous brother who sincerely wants to bring the community you know more and more together. And so he said every single month you will give $200 broken up into $50 every week that can be raffled out for the sake of the families enjoying themselves and then the families can do whatever they want with the money so it's not coming from the masjid don't think all the mustard is just throwing money away or not throwing money away right? We're encouraging that maybe 10% of your $50

you might give in southern weather to the masjid or to someone else I don't know but these to do some sort of cutting with it okay, so let's do a revision inshallah whoever did not get their raffle ticket. So remember, it's one per family so any parents or adults who did not get a raffle ticket for your family you can come and see so the sisters you can come over to Manuel Mundo if you want an indie just head over there.

Okay, so just go in the back there for a few minutes. You can go see my wife, she'll give you a ticket. And for the brothers where's the Amsterdam

So there's no exam. So they know so anyone who did not get a ticket

there we go, you can just head over to say yen. And you will give you one raffle ticket per family, per family Inshallah, let's try to be honest. All right. So why don't you do that? Let's do a revision who remembers what we learned last week?

Sobre since she raised her hand first at the beginning, right?

Very good. We learned about certain sewer of the Quran that you recite before you go to sleep, who can give us examples of what we can recite before we go to sleep.

So I'll turn caffeine on. Very good to you.

I had to go see very good.

So

you, you forgot it's okay.

Means we forget to sometimes.

And then you Yes.

I've heard of anything from the transition over to the

right. But you need to sit down because I have cameras and computers and things that really are pricey. So I'm going to ask you guys to maybe just move back a little bit. Very good. I'll try not to knock the camera otherwise everyone who's watching is getting booked like this trying to see what's happening. Right. All right. Yes.

Sorry.

Three quarters. Okay, who knows what the three pointers are? And are there only three?

What's this mean?

different opinions. That's a good answer. You get it for nothing. Yeah. What are the words?

That was your answer? Wasn't what was your answer? different opinions? Cause think of it think of it Yes.

So I asked you a question. What are the causes

Okay, so So to caffeine own soda through this last sort of follow up and sort of the nuts very good on Billa Musa took the book so you get that as well. What about you? I fell out good. hamdulillah No, you can't get you can't pick and choose. I give you something you like I don't want this. I want that. It's like someone who's hungry love.

Alright, what about in the back? Okay, yes.

Sorry.

The sleeping dry. Do you remember the sleeping drive? Yeah. What is it

come closer and get a lollipop

what is the sleeping? remembers? Yes.

This is for your system?

What is it?

What's a sleeping drop? Yes.

Sir, if you answer for him, he's never past grade one and grade two

I'm gonna get to you. I didn't hear you. I trust that you said it. Right. I just couldn't read your lips either. Because you're worried about Yes. What about you?

Very good. You're gonna come here and get this

because I don't want to throw it in might hit the brothers in the face. And then they say no. In the face, right? In the face.

Of the lie. Okay. What about some of the?

The back? Yes. Yeah.

What's the question? So you sit there with your hand up, and then you ask?

What do you what did we learn in the last two weeks? You're here. I'm gonna be here. Next week. Oh, sorry.

Next week, on Friday, just suck on that. Okay. Give me some energy so that you come next Friday today.

All right. Yes.

Speak louder if you don't have a mic and I can't redo it.

So not the Fatiha. Very good.

All right, one more. One more. One more like the red shirt in the back. Yeah.

Come and get it.

When he's closer, I'm gonna ask him what he said because I couldn't hear him.

Yeah, what did you say?

The sleeping dry. Do you remember the sleeping dry? What is it?

I'm hungry like that.

Ya know, imagine that way to ensure very good that how can end up Alright, let's move on. It's all up to Anna. Okay, you've been very patient waiting Yes.

Kadima and the door. Oh, good. No one said that.

Your brother does your brother say that you're out when he wakes up?

How old? Is he? Three years old? You're just what you do. I'll give him because you know what, this is probably not gonna like this one. So I'll give you this one. But make sure every night

every morning. You have to say that out loud so your brother can hear it too. Okay? That's how you're gonna teach him and then every day when he wakes up for the rest of his life, you're gonna get the rewards shut off. Okay.

All right, let's move on

what else

there's another

no when people speak too much I take Kennedy's away. Make them go away with all the brothers that are sleeping

very good.

Is there anything else?

You get me? Don't worry. We need to move on. We need to move on. Okay, good. So today we're gonna be learning about sleeping on our stomach.

Here sleeps on their stomach. Raise your hand. Raise your hand if you sleep on your stomach. Be honest. You're in the masjid. Who sleeps on their stomach? Okay, all right. So here this is something

Remember, we're learning the book of editing

from the etiquettes is that we listen when the teacher is speaking. Right? Otherwise the teacher stops getting candy because you're already too hyper and the teacher starts giving you tomatoes

trigger

so

today we're gonna learn

about sleeping on our stomachs and how it's not permissible.

Here's an interesting name of wasabi. Okay.

His name is

Jay His name is this and will be

retired, retired he was in the masjid of the Prophet SAW. Sorry, he says that his father told him that he was sleeping in the masjid of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam What is the name of that Masjid called?

I saw

Okay, start over listen. This is your chance to redeem yourself.

The fact he says his father told him that when he was from the people, the sofa

from the people you asked on Broadway, and we don't tell him anything. So he says his father was from the people of the sofa, the people who used to sleep and they

must

in which Masjid in the masjid another we must shall.

So he used to sleep on the floor of Masjid every week. And he says one day he was laying down on the floor. Do you know how he was laying down? He was laying down on his stomach and the prophets of Allah. And he says someone came who wants to demonstrate

guys eat too much.

Too much.

Like honey and banana. Okay.

So he's laying on the floor

and someone comes and nudges him with his foot.

Can you imagine you're laying down sleeping in the masjid and someone comes and nudges you with their foot. What would you do? You would probably jump up and be like

to the masjid, who do you think you are kicking me like this, right? So he says someone came and nudged me with their foot.

And he says to me, get up. This is a matter of sleeping or laying down that Allah hates. He says, Get up this way that you're that you're laying down is a way that Allah hates you. So how is it that he was like now? What was he doing? How was he like?

Pay attention, but just because you're finished.

Listen,

attention, intention. Okay? So he was laying down on his stomach.

He was laying down on his stomach, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam comes in and he's the one nudging him. He says, Get up. This is the way the way you're laying down. Oh, God does not like this. Allah hates this way of laying down. And he says his father tells him that when he turned around, he saw that it was the prophet saw that he was standing there, nudging him with his foot. Can you imagine? Imagine laying down in the profits of water and if someone comes and says, Hey, get up, right? Obviously, he doesn't say it like that. But he says, he says Get up. This is the way that you're laying down. Allah does not like this.

In another narration,

I move on all the above and he says,

the prophets of Allah Allah came him by was laying down on my stomach.

And he nudged me with his foot. What do you do? Let's be with his foot, some assembler. And he said to him, oh Junaidi This is how the people have Hellfire lay down.

This is how the people of John lay down. Now I know when we listen to this, we're thinking to ourselves, wait a second, many of us might lay down on our stomach. So it's one thing to lay down and mashallah you know, your husband is giving you a back massage or your brother is massaging your back or something right. But it's another thing to lay down and go to sleep while laying on your stomach. It is one of the disliked ways it is also the way of the people of Johanna it's their method of paying down and what you read through the chapters of Jin

Jin are attracted to people that are laying on their stomach

and so to not lay down on your stomach remember one of the ways to prepare ourselves to go to speak is to perform what

So protect yourself by performing Moodle and then when you go to sleep you lay on your right side and you recite of course recite you're on your own calm and you know your your

you go three times when your hand which no one mentioned, how many of you started doing that from last week? How many of you started doing it

five or six of you. How many of you started doing that? Okay, how many of you have intention to start doing

good the papilla so remember, you receive your drive your your IATA, and then you

blow three times in your hands and then you wipe it over your head to your face and over the rest of your body right as much as you can.

But do not lay on your stomach. The next thing we're going to learn is

probably related to camping

even more so we're going to ask you how many of you came from other countries or since go back to visit your family in other countries? And when you're there you sleep on the roof of your home? Does anyone sleep on the roof sisters don't do anything right? They never raise their hand. Brothers if you need to go home and you sleep on the roof. I know my dad told me you go to Pakistan to sleep on the roof especially in the summer right? Very poor tonight. I'm gonna

sisters you don't do that right

how many of you go camping and sleep in a tent?

Okay, how many of you go glamping

thing is glamorous camping where you go camping and your mother and father like inflating a big air mattress. And then they're like, you know, they have like a generator or they have solar panels. Like it's super fancy. That's

one thing.

Everyone builds it goes by

how many of you go rock climbing?

Okay, have you ever seen the rock

climbers, they caught a mountain and then at nighttime, they just put their tent up by the side of the mountain. Yeah, ever seen that? Okay, so listen to this, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says,

Whoever goes to

on the roof

and there is no wall around them, or nothing to protect them

then the protection of a wall is not to

say it again, whoever goes to sleep at night on the roof of their home,

and there's no wall or anything to protect them, then the protection of a wall is not with them. Why? This is an example of how we are supposed to protect ourselves. Do you know why are you just

Yeah, go ahead

Very good. He said, when you do that, you are not putting in any effort to protect yourself. Remember when we spoke about going to sleep and protecting your home? What did I have here? We had a sleeping bag. I was laying on the table, we have the lamp we have the iron, what were we saying to do close your

your lights but close your door, lock the door. Make sure your home is secure. Make sure you are safe and secure.

Sleeping on the roof. In another narration inventions. Don't sleep on a roof that is not made of stone.

Because you might fall through.

You're not protecting yourself. So it's just like you're not protecting yourself. So if you're not going to protect yourself, then the protection of a lot is not with you. And so you see you might be sleeping on the roof or you might be sleeping on a bunk bed

and your bunk beds does not have a railing.

Does everyone have a railing on a bunk bed?

Not good. Right? Your bunk bed might not have a railing to protect you. And in your sleep. discolor say you might roll over and

to the

right. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says if you're going to go to sleep at night and you're going to protect yourself, then the protection of Allah is not with you. Because you're not doing what you need to do to protect yourself. And

the last thing that we're going to take

what do we say when we wake up? This little boy came before and he said the last thing that we are going to learn Okay, what do we say when we wake up? So what from what are the things that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would say, in the hadith of rabada installment of the Amman, he says

when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would wake up he would say or you told people to say when they wake up

repeat after me

was that part

so I'll say it again.

When you wake up

Subhan Allah what hamdulillah what are

what are how Lola villa in it and how we work towards

marriage.

Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

you could say a logo

or make a doorknob. So after you say this, make it to her out to a wife or make me rich today. or Allah bless us with high fives or something I don't know whatever it is, right? All please don't let me get in trouble today. All of these things easy for me to win the $50

At the raffle in the masjid

whatever it is that you make your profits on along with us some of them says then make up

and your DUA will be accepted and if you perform who and pray that your prayer will be answered

is not easy to do

okay so who remembers what we have to say?

We have to say what do we say

Subhan Allah what

is that hard? Okay I want someone to count how many seconds it takes to say it

right

Allah

Subhana Allah

last morning

so there's a difference of opinion, you guys say 17 And they say 12 on biller. The point is it takes about 15 seconds right? You could say that faster than

like we oversight solo, right?

Right. No, none of us are saying like that. And

another thing that we can say when we go to sleep at night is as the Prophet SAW long are you gonna do when he woke up? He started to recite from the last 10 verses of Surah Al and

who do you do the

last?

Did you already know that?

So the last 10 verses of surah Allah and Ron how many of the parents knew that

two three

parents

know it's a lot easier to get married, find spouses who are righteous and pious. May Allah make it easy for the fathers who are sitting here to look at you and to say these three young brothers need to get married and also convert data choose from amongst their daughters to bless you with a pious righteous wife will help you to get to genitals

all the mothers are not saying anything sorry.

So the last thing

so the last thing that the province along with some would say or net we're going to learn that you would say was mentioned by one of the young little boys who was right there that boy they're coming I was enjoying

the profit some longer I think he was saying when he woke up this

company levy

so when he would wake up, you know, sorry when he would go to sleep

and when he would wake up

or when he showed up? So that brings us to the end of this chapter. Next week we're gonna start learning about the etiquettes of coming to the masjid

don't know You don't know don't say

so what do we do next week.

Very good.

But before we finish, we have to do something really important. What do we have to do?

The raffle.

Everyone has their tickets

raffle I'm going to mention a really good question

please

ask the question, he said is it from the Sunnah and good etiquettes right through the masjid with your right foot? Yes, it is. Okay, yes. Start to learn that next week. Okay, so everyone

How's your tickets Oh?

To be really quiet

Okay, so my daughter Marwa,

since since our family is exempt from this

we we've intentionally exempted ourselves from the raffle so that we can you know win even though it is completely random just for the sake of keeping these little ones genuine we've exempted ourselves okay so she's the one who's gonna pick inshallah Tada also because she's been putting in a lot of time to get this done

the number is

435435131435131313

Anyone

nobody

316

All right we'll pick another one

yes it is

you're right there so you got it

all right

you are the winner of the very first Friday nights raffle is for you and your family make sure you bring it to your

I'm going to ask is all the parents there's refreshments in the gym all of the boys go to that side right up in the front

like one more

up in the front stuff and all the sisters line up all the girls lined up in the back row over there over there

and now I'm gonna ask

ask what do you guys

must

be

good

see all the boys need to line up all the girls need to line up with given that time let's see how impatient they are

she just has to line up

right that should be enough.

Do you mind handing them out? All right, you guys get out there. I needed a sister. Okay, maybe someone else can help you as well. One

One each.

And Allah is watching you if you take more than one I don't take that

break it off

yeah

you know what, maybe next week? I don't know how more than one person is supposed to do that.

I'm sure you want one of these

The lollipops are for next week

today

Do you have any brothers and sisters

was in a state of right obviously

would

be able to recite

all that stuff in that state

even a presentation

only from memory without moving

without moving

next next weeks

so just an announcement I found a really nice phone or a brother found a really nice phone on the floor

if it belongs to you

yes I've seen this

you need to unlock it in order for me to

policy

good

there's a lot here

today I'm so confused I don't know what he's asking you I'm saying that

I need to give it to them as well.

Not chocolate

I came

out smart