Friday Night Etiquettes Class – December 17, 2021

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And the prayer of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam turned around and he said, What was that noise? Who was making noise? And some of the Sahaba they responded to the Prophet so long as they said, We were rushing to come to the prayer to join the prayer as you sit down, you guys just chill story, everyone's gonna get something afterwards in sha Allah. And so they said, he started in a sala, we were rushing to get to the prayer, the prophets a lot more and he said, that if I do

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that, if I don't do that, don't rush to the prayer. I'm gonna pay attention. Prophets, Allah alayhi wa sallam said, either takes on the smaller family from this Sakeena who knows what subpoena means? Very quietly who knows what Cicchitto means?

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Night

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nice

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you're absolutely right. But that's not the right word.

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Nice.

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You

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come to subpoena not

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only in Yemen, where's our brothers from Yemen right? In Yemen, you bring your

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so

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the sister said subpoena means knife does right. But subpoena also means.

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All of you have, right? Yeah. Like right now all of your

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sukeena Right. Okay.

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So Sakina the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, When you come to the prayer, come very calmly. Don't run to the prayer. In another narration the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says to them, you know don't rush don't to run to the prayer. come walking Come slowly. Why so that when we stand before Allah, Allah Subhana Allah is our Creator.

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Right?

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Am I right?

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wants us to come very commonly to the prayer and when we sit in the masjid, we should sit very calmly, Listening, paying attention, praying, doing the reminder. Why? Because right now, the angels are lowering their wings upon you.

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Did you know that?

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Do you feel it on your shoulders?

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No, why not? Why don't you feel it on your shoulders?

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Because they're doing it so calmly. They're protecting all of us. Because we're learning about the deen of Allah subhana wa.

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And so the prophets Allah says when you come to the masjid come very calmly stand before also can with data without huffing and puffing. Right? You know your principal in school or I don't know you get in trouble you go. You don't want to go there and be like,

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you want to come and be like, Yes, sir. What's the problem? I did nothing of this sort. Everything was perfectly fine. And Christopher was the one who threw that ball across the room and the other students wasn't right.

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And then the principal is like

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your principal goals mashallah you muslim? Have Sakina I want to be like you, right? Am I right?

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Oh man, what are you guys doing in school?

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So here now we need to do an example. Hey, how fast are we allowed to walk to the masjid? So I need you know, take your jacket off though. Just put it on the floor.

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Alright, good. I can ask you to just clear a pass. Right?

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Stand up. CRO. You know, you know the importance coming to the prayer early. Right but

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you good. So show me. Watch that brother and come back.

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When you're going to the masjid

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Do you think he's going too fast?

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Do you think he's going too slow?

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Do you know how the prophets

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Okay, I'll try that again. Go faster

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now move on to fast. Right? Who wants to? Who wants to show us? You

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all right, show us how fast you have to go. That's how you want to listen. Very good humbly. Lie.

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All right.

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Very good. I'm good.

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Here we go. Now when the profits are low, I know some of what he actually used to work pretty quick. The Sahaba they were walking next to him, it was hard for them to keep up to him. So the profit from a long run is something we want fast, but he would look like he was working very calm. So he would move his legs fast, but his upper body would be like pretty calm. And he was able to converse with people as soon as moving. Right? So the profits along it used to be in full control of his body when he would do things going to the masjid. He would walk like he would normally walk at a decent pace, where it was a little bit difficult to keep up with him. And that's because of the lever should walk

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with purpose. We shouldn't just be like

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Oh

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no, it's not good. When we go to the masjid, we should be like, yes. hamdulillah Allah blesses us with the ability to go to the masjid.

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And we leave and we go to the masjid. Okay, the next thing we're going to learn in sha Allah to Allah so now we spoke about walking.

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How we walk? Do we refer to the masjid?

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Here's a question though. I almost forgot. What if you're late for the prayer and it already started and it's almost about to finish

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Yes, you

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should still walk slow. Very good. Why? Do you know why?

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Why?

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I'm sorry, not understand what you're saying.

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Very good. I said that the Prophet said to do that. So we should do that. Very good. Absolutely. Right. But the Prophet sallallahu ala Sanlam also said

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so basically, you're not gonna give me an essay. Are you? Alright?

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Oh, very good. He said, even if you arrive late, you still get the intention of coming to the masjid and making that prayer. Yes. Yeah.

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Sorry, say that again.

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You're gonna disturb the people who bring but no. My question is, what if you're late for the month for the prayer already? And you're about to miss it. Should you rush to get there? Or should you just miss the prayer?

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Just stand up and speak louder because all these people don't have subpoena right now.

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Walk a little fast, but don't run. Okay, but you're missing out on something. What I'm trying to say is here your history.

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What I'm trying to say is you're about to miss the prayer. What you

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very good.

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had something to say to

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not only that, but one who has Sakina that was 16.

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And then make up what you missed. Very good.

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Yes, please. I don't want to throw it. Okay. Very good. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, if you're coming and you're gonna miss the prayer, then

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Joining the prayer come calmly like walk very calmly with subpoena patiently and whatever you missed the prayer for and timbu then continue it as in you finish you missed it up there and there's for for a shot so if you miss two you still have how many more to pray

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and so when that is done all four prayers you need to stand up and complete how many more

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to our God that's what the prophets have said to do. So don't rush to the prayer if your parents are driving really fast when needed

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understanding and cutting through like parking lots and you know running red lights tell them Baba mama please.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to go to the masjid business Akina You're making me nervous.

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No, no, that's a 16 going. Don't come to the masjid with a knife please.

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Alright, the next thing we're going to learn is

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what do we say?

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What do we say when we're going to the masjid? Not when you're entering the Masjid. What do we say when you're going to the masjid?

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Yes

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I need to hear this brother.

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You say Bismillah Yes, but what do you say as a two hour from the Prophet so long as

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you're watching yeah that's what you might say when you leave home but what do you say when

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yes

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he knew

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what he said he knew

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what

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he knew

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what was wrong

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the neuron

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Sorry, I'm just

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very good I'm gonna love Allah Subhana Allah to Allah likes when we say this to Allah we ask Allah all law please put know what is known

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as the name door

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just because your name is Nora

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you're

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alright.

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The door of the prophets, Allah is all along.

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It makes me nervous

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that you're out of the province along Salem is all along. But in my hearts, he wouldn't know on my tongue. But no, in my eyes would know, in my ears. Or ma put me behind me. We're on top of me and underneath and behind me and in front of me. Or Allah grant me know, what is your life's greatest guidance? You know what? It's dark to magically closed all the lights right now? Would you be able to see where you're going? No, you wouldn't. Everyone would just be bumping into each other and then we turn the lights on. You don't happen to me turn the lights on. All the chocolate and candies will be gone.

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Everyone would just take it and we turn the lights on. It's like what happened to the

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right.

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Sitting here like

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so the profits on the one where it was Sanlam when he would walk to the masjid. He would encourage that we say a door asking a lot to put the door in our hearts and our tongue eyes here behind us in front of us on top of us undress and to give us light to general. And then the last things that we'll learn to challenge is what do you say when you're entering the masjid and exiting the Masjid? Who remembers?

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Who remembers I've you know the

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Okay, come come in tell me because you're too far away. I can't hear

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obesity. Very good. I'm gonna love there's another job though. Yes.

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Did you say

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I heard I heard half of that good. Yes.

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Bismillah entering the masjid

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Alright, so the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he would enter the masjid he would enter with his left foot right

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all right

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here's a question for

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over 40 years old

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nobody wants to admit it over 40 years old

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okay

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let's see if this uncle knows the answer

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I forgot what the question was

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why is the province enter the masjid within his right foot

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so you went to the Muslim with the right because you enter the washroom

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you wouldn't know Does he deserve it?

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Okay, why did the province enter the mushroom in his right foot

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there's baraka and doing everything with the right foot

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a but no not exactly why someone was over 40 You know over 4040

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You got your hand up before?

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No

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No adults

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Why would he enter with the right foot? I wonder why

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we do everything with the right foot.

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Very good. Everything with the right foot

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your Dad Your dad knows how to speak

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Why do you want to master your right foot?

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Very good.

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Very good.

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So the brother quoted the eddies of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said that the prophets of Allah I didn't know some of you still love to do things that were good with his right foot similar I know. I know. But

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at first you said everything

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I don't

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know knows a lot.

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I still give you a chocolate.

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But the other reason is, there's another reason

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because now ask you this question. Why did he choose to leave the masjid with his left foot?

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Are you allergic to peanuts?

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The profits are high. So you still need the mustard with his left foot. Because he's going from a place of extreme honor. The household was in a place of worship to a place that is not bad. We can't just say outside is bad. But a place that is less than the owner of the Masjid. So anytime you're going somewhere that has more honor, you step into it with your right foot and anytime you're going somewhere that has less honor like the washroom you go into the washroom with your

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left foot Very good. All right. And then

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The DUA to say as we heard was a while ago.

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All of these open upon me your doors of mercy. And when you exit the masjid we say

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Oh, you have to know this because you're all in the masjid. How are you going to meet them?

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What do you say to

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me

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what's the

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good

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that was really really good. For tickets. Go Go get it, you know, do the raffle

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stuff

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Okay, so

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question good

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my takes over the viewbot

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Alright, that's good, but that's not the other kids.

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But that's when you're getting in a car or you're traveling anytime you're in something moving

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Okay, so

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Okay.

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All right. So we're going to

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so we're getting to the raffle. And I need everyone to sit down though.

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You don't have a ticket, you got to run to the office.

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If they go to the office, and he had a coupon

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from us, we're gonna wait two minutes. Whoever does not have a ticket. Go to the office right now. Get it? Go. And bring it back. Hey, does anyone have any questions? No.

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It's not your door your parents house. I know. I know. One person one ticket per family people wanting to

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see everyone running away.

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Okay, any of you don't have any questions. You're something that we can add on to entering the masjid Guys, can you sit down?

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You're gonna sit down, you're gonna go on the corner. And I'm gonna go in the corner. You're gonna go.

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Okay.

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So here, this is something

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that you should do.

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Something you should do

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when you're entering and exiting the masjid, before seeing the door out? What should you do? Go talking. If you know the answer, you raise your hand. Okay? Before you enter the masjid, or before you exit the masjid.

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And before you say that you're out

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there's something else that you could do from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu.

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What is it?

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Well, who know?

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Bismillah we say Bismillah for everything. Right? But no, not specifically Bismillah who said? You said

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Okay, guys, can you just choose me?

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Because I'm stepping on people. Okay, yes.

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prayed to God, before you went to the masjid. So you stand at the door and you start praying to God and then you come in the bus, you know?

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What do you say? You said?

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Very good. But you don't get anything because you're standing and you're just like, I have to tell you 10 times to sit down. Yeah.

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All right. So you say

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Mohamed Mohamed, right. You could send SWAT and Saddam upon the prophets on the wall or

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did you understand that? Good. What's your exiting the Masjid?

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Oh, are you going to leave the money

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Good. Now you all need to get out of the masjid and then we'll do the raffle after you leave

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I bet your parents wish you listened to them

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so today I'm going to do two raffles

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first draft

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is going to be for this gift.

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Okay.

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perfume

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and the second raffle will be for the $50

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Okay everyone okay

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everyone needs to sit down and look at their numbers

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so the number is

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4351562

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Winner

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winner

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4351562

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Very good

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okay

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the next raffle is four $50 35151

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Brothers what's happening all the sisters

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you just have a fight at the end well this one has a four it

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you got 1595

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Next time okay next time so this one is 4351514 Very good. I'm going to love this did you win Are you

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okay because someone with a similar job one as well

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so listen up we're not done. We're not done

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we're not done there's still something else that needs to be done. Sit down.

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So

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next week I won't be here

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on him so on and so I won't be here Okay.

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I'm leaving for a month on Sunday inshallah. Okay, so for the next two weeks

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you can come to the masjid you can chill I will get the brothers to inshallah arrange like snacks and stuff like that. Right? I can't promise anything I didn't promise anything. The management's probably looking at me going What are you doing? But still come to the masjid make Friday nights your night that you are here as a family inshallah okay, just

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remember me you're out when I'm traveling that almost makes it easy. And I will remember all of you in sha Allah as a community

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all the girls can line up in the back over there

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all the girls over there in the back

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girls over there no all the girls in the garden

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all the girls over there all the boys go to the front of the

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Go to the front

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go to the front

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no no

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more

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capacity in the middle

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there's no announcement yet for places of worship.

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Actually, let me just put some

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There we go. I'm gonna pass

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these one each helper as well. Just one each day.

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tricky just give me a few minutes let me just close up